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Daddy? Sep 24, 2024

This episode was recorded before our last episode. We published them out of order because Mia wanted to wait to secure the rights to their canceled book, Unsolicited Advice, now available on Substack.

We talk with Mischa Byruck about men and all the worst things you've ever done.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!!

Upcoming classes.

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

We got too high and had sex anyway Sep 11, 2024

We talk about getting high and having sex anyway, regret, blame, and punishment.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!!

Upcoming classes.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

My needs don't change because of your needs May 23, 2024

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats!!!

Upcoming classes.

Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also an advocate for Sex Workers’ rights.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

Brad Stops By Apr 19, 2024

Our friend Brad stops by. He runs @nature.is.not.metal on IG.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

The One About Incest Mar 29, 2024

CW: Incest, CSA.

We talk about incest, taboo, the moralization of science, and so much more.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

Literal Violence Feb 16, 2024

We talk about when your body does stuff that confuses your mind, how being allowed to change your mind also comes with having to stand by the choices you make, and literal violence.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

People Pleasing, Regret, and Fingers in Butts Feb 01, 2024

We talk about people pleasing, regret, dry fingers in butts, retroactively being upset, consent not taking place vs being violated, and members of oppressed groups thinking they can oppress others.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

When Consent Is Not the Priority Nov 02, 2023

We talk about mosquito slaps, cults, facilitating makeouts, boarding school, and when consent is not the top priority.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

The Falleability of Memory Oct 26, 2023

We talk about the fallibility of memory, believing women, and whether or not mia can make risdon orgasm on command.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

Mia Gets Canceled By Israel Oct 19, 2023

We talk about Gigi Hadid and the Israeli government’s IG account resharing Mia’s post, surveillance, surrogate partner therapy, and cognitive dissonance.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

Be/Do, Bisexuals, and RENT Oct 13, 2023

We talk about the queer be/do phenomenon, biphobia, RENT the musical, being shy, and making out.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

Capacity Oct 05, 2023

Two people who are doing capacity wrong talk about capacity, dishonesty, and the veil between you and yourself.

We can’t figure out wtf is wrong with our mics. We are working on it.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia made our silly music.

Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:

You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve.

I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.

Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.

Plot driven feature lengths.

Soft stuff.

Repentance Sep 28, 2023

Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry) and Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy) talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no.

We talk about Yom Kippur, cycles of harm and repair, mercy, and our own list of murderable offenses.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia made our silly music.

You're Doing It Wrong! Sep 21, 2023

Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry) and Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy) talk about consent, sex, sex work, cancelation, divesting from binaries, and leftist pillow talk.

We introduce ourselves, talk about how we got into this work, our approaches, and what consent means to us.

Video version on YouTube with subtitles.

Mia made our silly music. Check out their ceramics and music!