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+1: #1195 Tree-Climbing Fish Jul 13, 2020

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Today we're going to go back to Jim Kwik and his great book Limitless one more time. One of the key themes of the book is that we all have a unique blend of background and passions and skills. He echoes the wisdom we talked about in a +1 back in the day featuring wisdom from Ken Robinson in which Ken tells us that the right question isn't "Are you intelligent?" but… "HOW are you intelligent?" Jim tells us that we're all unique and that our challenge is to discover our special combination of awesome that makes us shine. Then he quotes Albert Einstein who once said: "Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it's stupid." And that's Today's +1. Let's quit asking ourselves whether or not we're intelligent. OF COURSE YOU ARE. (And so are your kids and colleagues and, well, everyone else you'll interact with Today.) The question is: HOW are you intelligent? Seriously. How are you intelligent?! Think about ONE thing you do REALLY well. Perhaps SO WELL that you take it for granted. Let's take that gift AS granted and go double down on it. T O D A Y.

+1: #1190 The INFINITE Power of CONSISTENCY Jul 08, 2020

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In our last +1, we talked about the fact that, if we could figure out how to take 30 EXPONENTIAL steps, we'd be able to hop in a rocket and go around the Earth two DOZEN times. Rather than get 90 feet down the street, we'd get a few BILLION steps further in our joyful jaunt around the Earth. That's crazy. And, well, that's the power of aggregating and compounding seemingly small changes that can have huge impacts on our lives as we watch the magic exponentially grow. I LOVE all the metaphors we can use to think about the power of just showing up again and again and again. We've talked about the doubling penny, collecting coins, melting ice cubes, hitting the rock, figuring out combination locks, and rocking marginal gains. Obviously, the metaphors are just metaphors but they all make the same primary point: It's all about CONSISTENCY. We need to show up again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and … BOOM! Magic. Which is why I was so fired up to make a little distinction while I was preparing for our Mastery Series session on Work in our Module on Carpe Diem. The basic theme of the class is how to create "Genius Work vs. Mediocre Work." (I'll save the details on that distinction for another +1.) As I was preparing for the class, I knew I was going to focus on the equation we've been talking about lately: Astonishing Work = Time x (Energy x Focus x What's Important Now) or: T x (E x F x W.I.N.) Then I had a wonderful epiphany. I added a little "C" right at the end of that equation. Like so: T x (E x F x W.I.N.)c A choir of angels began to sing as I thought through the implications of the new, Optimized equation: Genius Work = Time x (Energy x Focus x What's Important Now)Consistency I quickly made some notes. If your Energy is a 100 and your Focus is a 100 and you're working on a 100-Level Important thing you'd get 1 million points of awesome. That's 1,000 (!) times more awesome than if your Energy, Focus and WIN was at a 10. But… Get this. If we believe CONSISTENCY is an exponential force multiplier, then we'd be better off plodding along at the lower numbers but at least doing so consistently. Get this. Although (100 x 100 x 100) is 1,000,000 points of awesome, we've gotta know that if we get a ZERO in the consistency score then (100 x 100 x 100)0 = ZERO. Whereas, although (10 x 10 x 10) is only 1,000 points of awesome, we've gotta know that if we get a ONE HUNDRED in the consistency score then (10 x 10 x 10)100 = a HUGE number. It almost breaks the calculator coming in at 1e+300. ← That's a 1 followed by THREE HUNDRED Zeros. 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000. Now, here's the kicker. What do you think would happen if we were able to get ALL of our variables up to a 100? Our Energy is a 100. Our Focus is a 100. Our W.I.N. is a 100. AND… Our Consistency is a 100. What's 1,000,000 to the power of 100? Can you guess? … Answer: It's INFINITY. And, that's Today's +1. Want to have fun seeing just how Limitless you can go? Get your Energy Optimized. Get your Focus Optimized. Get your ability to focus on What's Important Now Optimized. And then go do it CONSISTENTLY. Starting Today. +100 +100 +100 to the 100th power.

+1: #1185 Clark Kent's Changing Room Jul 03, 2020

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Continuing our brief foray through Jim Qwik's brain and book, let's talk about the power of getting into Flow. Jim tells us that being able to flip the switch and drop into a powerful Flow state is one of the keys to tapping into our (Limitless!!) superpowers. He quotes Steven Kotler in The Rise of Superman to make his point. Here's how Steven puts it: "To put it another way: flow is the telephone booth where Clark Kent changes clothes, the place from where Superman emerges." I LOVE that image of Clark Kent stepping into the phone booth of Flow and coming out as Superman. Reminds me of this +1 on Clark Kent flipping the switch and striking a power pose to get his Superman on. And… As I read this passage (and chapter from Limitless), I was reminded of our recent +1 on our new Astonishing Work Equation. Recall, if we want to REALLY crush it, we'd be wise to focus on three variables: Astonishing Quality Work = Time x (Energy x Focus x W.I.N.) I made the point that, math wise, if your Energy is at a 10 and your Focus is at a 10 and you're working on the 10 What's Important Now task, you can work ONE hour and still get a 1,000 on the Astonishing Quality Work scale. But… If your Energy is at a 1 and your Focus is at a 1 and you're working on a 1-level What's Important Now task, you'd have to work 1,000 (!) hours to match your Astonishing Quality Work score. BUT… You know what? That's actually not even accurate. The reality is, when we're REALLY plugged in, we can create at levels that are simply IMPOSSIBLE to create at in any non-awesome state. As such, I think we should swap out our 1 to 10 scale for a 1 to 100 to make the point even more powerfully. So… On a 1 to 100 scale, if your Energy is at a 100 and your Focus is at a 100 and you're working on the 100 What's Important Now task, you can work an hour and get 1 MILLION Astonishing Work points. Drop your Energy to a 10 and your Focus to a 10 and your W.I.N. to a 10 and your 1,000 is 1/1000th of what you could have done. Yep. That's about right. Today's +1. How's your SuperFlow Math looking these days? What's working Energy + Focus + W.I.N.-wise? What needs some work? And what can will you do to Optimize?! Here's to stepping into the telephone booth of Flow and tapping into our Superpowers. TODAY!!!!

+1: #1180 Astonishing Productivity Jun 28, 2020

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In our last +1, we had some fun playing with Cal Newport's Deep Work equation. We modified it from:

High Quality Work Produced = Time Spent x Intensity of Focus

to:

High Quality Work Produced = Time Spent x Quality of Energy x Intensity of Focus

The basic idea: You can get a TON of high quality work produced when you Focus your best Energy. Today I want to add one more variable to our equation and then do some quick math to bring the point home. Let's go back to that last sentence and drop in another variable. The basic idea: You can get a TON of high quality work produced when you Focus your best Energy on WHAT'S MOST IMPORTANT NOW. Think about it. If we have GREAT Energy and we focus that like a laser beam on what's truly most important right now? And then we write some algorithms to make THAT our default so we're accreting more and more value day in and day out? We can create at an astonishing level. Enter the latest edition of our equation:

Astonishing Productivity = Time Spent x (Quality of Energy x Intensity of Focus x W.I.N.!)

Now, let's do some math to bring the point home. For the sake of very round numbers while recognizing it's much more nuanced than this, let's say your Energy is at a 10. Your Focus is at a 10 and you're working on a 10-level most important thing. That part of the equation would be 10 x 10 x 10 = 1,000. Note: You could spend ONE hour working like that and achieve a 1,000 score on the Astonishing Productivity scale. (Go you!) (Reminds me of our +1 on The 1-Hour Workday. ) Now, to play with the other side of the spectrum, let's say your Energy is at a 1, your Focus is at a 1 and you're working on a 1-level of importance. That part of the equation would be 1 x 1 x 1 = 1. Note: You'd have to work 1,000 hours that day to achieve the same level of Astonishing Productivity. (Hah.) Again, it's a bit more nuanced than that and we can tweak the equation to weigh different variables differently, etc. BUT… The point remains. Get your ENERGY to as high a number as you can. FOCUS that (sun-like) Energy like a laser beam (through a magnifying glass) on THE MOST IMPORTANT THING and… VOILA. Astonishing Productivity. Do that again and again and again? And, well, you'll not just produce at an astonishing level, you'll enjoy the eudaimonic Flow that comes when you consistently high five your daimon. Let's do that. TODAY.

+1: #1175 Sugar & Depression Jun 23, 2020

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Continuing our brief tour through Kate Hefferon's textbook on Positive Psychology and the Body, let's flip open to the chapter on "Positive Nutrition." Hmmmm… I wonder what science has to say about the impact of our diets on our wellbeing… Guess where Kate starts her discussion? With sugar. She tells us: "Sugar has been a component within western diets since the sixteenth century. While 500 years ago, the average human would be lucky to come across sugar, it is estimated that today the average Westerner consumes 3 lb of sugar a week. Overall, our sugar consumption per year has risen from 5 lb per person, per year in 1700, to 152 lb per person in 2000. Recent research has found evidence that sugar, while not only bad for our waistlines, can have deleterious effects on our brain. Sugar has been found to shrink areas responsible for important functions such as memory and mood regulation, wearing on the hippocampus." We've talked about this before but let's pause and contemplate that math one more time. 500 years ago? Basically NO SUGAR. (Pause, reflect on that. Pretty please. With sugar not on top?) Then, 300 years ago, we were consuming about 5 lbs of sugar. Today? Today the average Westerner consumes 150 lbs of sugar every year. So… Millions of years of evolution. Close to zero consumption of sugar. Now 150 POUNDS of sugar on average EVERY YEAR. Hmmm… I wonder if that might have any negative consequences? Back to Kate who tells us that researchers "conducted a cross-national study (Korea, USA, France, Germany, Canada, New Zealand) on the relationship between sugar consumption and incidence of major depression. They found that 'there was a highly significant correlation between sugar consumption (cal/cap/day) and the annual rate of depression.' While this study has some major limitations, it highlights the importance of re-assessing the manufacturing of processed food and the role of sugar within our diets." Today's +1. SUGAR!!! One more time: It does a mind and body bad. Not only does it mess with our insulin/metabolism and lead to a lot of the crippling, chronic BODY diseases we're dealing with as a society, it also wreaks havoc on our MINDS and leads to a lot of the crippling psychological challenges we're dealing with as a society. I can't think of a more powerful lever to Optimize our nutrition than getting really smart on how much sugar we're consuming and having fun seeing just how much we can eliminate. So… How much sugar are YOU consuming these days? Note: It's ubiquitous and probably a LOT more than you think… Here's to the -1 -1 -1 for the +1 +1 +1 wins. TODAY.

+1: #1170 The Snow Globe Jun 18, 2020

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In the last couple +1s, we talked about The Shattered Vase (and the power of taking those pieces and making a beautiful new mosaic) then we practiced The Art of Precious Scars (as we chatted about "golden repairs"). Let's imagine that art sitting on a desk in our dojo-studio. We've got the mosaic and that golden-seamed vase. And… Right next to those pieces of art, let's put a snow globe. A snow globe? Yep. Stephen Joseph actually introduced this metaphor in his book on posttraumatic growth. He used it in the context of being shaken up after a traumatic event and the fact that it takes time for the metaphorical snow to settle in our lives. But… When I imagined that snow globe, the first thing I thought of was our minds and what we often do to them right before we go to bed. Maybe it was because I was prepping for the PM Bookend session of our Carpe Diem module in our Mastery Series. We've talked (many times!) about the fact that your day begins the night before. Want to create a Masterpiece Day that starts with waking up nice and early (without an alarm!) feeling all refreshed and ready to rock? Well… TURN OFF YOUR ELECTRONICS and GO TO BED EARLY!! (Hah.) Seriously. Science is unequivocal. All that digital stimulation—both the blue light AND the raw inputs—right before you go to bed isn't helping the Deep (And REM) Sleep cause!! You know what it's like? It's like shaking a SNOW GLOBE right before you go to bed. Your brain's all hyped up right when you want it to be relaxed. That's Today's +1. Let's leave the snow globe alone—quit shaking it by turning off all your electronic stimulation AT LEAST (!) an hour before you go to bed. Remember: Sleep. It does a body (VERY!) good. Let's Optimize ours. TONIGHT.

+1: #1165 Eudaimonic Treadmills Jun 13, 2020

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Have you ever heard of "hedonic treadmills"? We talked about them briefly a few years ago in the context of this +1 on the science of hedonic adaptation. Basic idea: We adapt to all the "things" we get in our lives. That shiny new car isn't so shiny a few months after we get it. Same thing with the new phone or TV or whatever. Sonja Lyubomirksy is one of the world's leading researchers on the subject of hedonic adaptation. In The Myths of Happiness she tells us: "Indeed, it turns out that we are prone to take for granted pretty much everything positive that happens to us. When we move into a beautiful new loft with a grand view, when we partake of plastic surgery, when we purchase a fancy new automobile or nth-generation smartphone, when we earn the corner office and a raise at work, when we become immersed in a new hobby, and even when we wed, we obtain an immediate boost of happiness from the improved situation; but the thrill only lasts for a short time. Over the coming days, weeks, and months, we find our expectations ramping upward and we begin taking our new improved circumstances for granted. We are left with 'felicific stagnation.'" So... We adapt to the hedonic pleasures in our lives. It's like we're on a treadmill. Moving faster and faster but not getting any further in our pursuit of true happiness. But... Here's some exciting news: THERE ARE NO EUDAIMONIC TREADMILLS. You know what happens when we joyfully commit to using everything as fuel for our growth while living with more Wisdom + Self-Mastery + Courage + Love + Hope + Gratitude + Curiosity + Zest? We actually get happier. That's Today's +1. Let's step off the hedonic treadmill and make some real progress in our lives as we focus on practicing our philosophy, high fiving our inner souls and FLOURISHING. TODAY.

+1: #1150 Cover It All in Leather May 29, 2020

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In our last +1, we tapped into some wisdom from Brené Brown's Braving the Wilderness as we wrote ourselves a permission slip and then hopped on the bus. Today we're going to spend some more time with Brené. And, we'll invite Pema Chodrön to the party. Brené tells us: "I love Pema Chodrön's 'Lousy World' teaching on this topic. In it, Chodrön uses the lessons of the Indian Buddhist monk Shantideva to make a very powerful analogy about moving through the world constantly pissed off and disappointed. ... [She says]: ''We're laughing, but that's what we all do. That is how we approach things. We think, if we could just get rid of everything and cover it with leather, our pain would go away. Well, sure, because then it wouldn't be cutting our feet anymore. It's just logical, isn't it? But it doesn't make any sense, really. Shantideva said, 'But if you simply wrap leather around your feet.' In other words, if you put on shoes then you could walk across the boiling sand and the cut glass and the horns, and it wouldn't bother you. So the analogy is, if you work with your mind, instead of trying to change everything on the outside, that's how your temper will cool down.'" As you may know, Pema Chodrön is a Buddhist monk and teacher. (We have Notes on two of her great books: When Things Fall Apart and The Places That Scare You.) You can watch that wonderful 2.5-minute YouTube video of her "Lousy World" teaching here. Short story: We complain about everything and everyone. All the time. It's too hot. It's too cold. He smells bad. She's wearing too much perfume. All day every day. We think the answer is to change the world—to lay leather over all the thorns and rocks in our way. The answer, of course, is to simply wrap a little leather over our feet and voila! Problem solved. btw: Here's how Shantideva puts it The Way of the Bodhisattva: "To cover all the earth with sheets of leather— Where could such amounts of skin be found? But with the leather soles of just my shoes It is as though I cover all the earth!" That's Today's +1. Let's wrap some leather (vegan alternatives available) around our feet (and brains) and joyfully walk through the wilderness of life. TODAY!!!

+1: #1145 Hero Breathing May 24, 2020

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In our last +1, we blew up some belly balloons with our kids. We breathed in through our noses, down into our bellies (can you make that balloon pop?!) then we breathed back out through our noses (slightly longer than the inhale). Ah… Repeat. ESPECIALLY when things start to get a little out of control!!! Which leads us to another little practice we've been playing around with at the Johnson House. (Note to self: This is a REALLY effective practice. Do it more!) So… You know those times when your kids start to get a little, shall we say, frazzled, which leads to you (and/or your spouse) (in my case: ME!), getting equally, shall we say, frazzled? Ahem. I know that reasonably well. Hah. So… Rather than let it all devolve into a circus, when I'm being Mr. Wise and Mindful Philosopher Guy, I remember to do wise and mindful things to smooth out the rough seas. This practice has proven to be particularly powerful. Step 1. Emerson and I leave the scene of the chaos by going to a different room in the house. Step 2. We sit knee to knee in what's wonderfully known as "hero's pose." (To strike this pose: Kneel on the floor and drop your butt on your ankles. Use bolsters if necessary. Check out Yoga Journal for tips.) Step 3. We sit up nice and tall and look each other in the eye as we pull the thread through our head, breathing in deeply (through our noses) into our bellies, then exhaling (through our noses) slightly longer than our inhale. Repeat. In just a few breaths, our nervous systems are calmed down and we're connected. Circus has left town. It's actually SHOCKING how powerful this is. The hard part (as always!) is remembering to do it in the moment we need to do it. Note to self: Do it more often. That's Today's +1. Circus come to town? Try some hero breathing!!! T O D A Y !!!

+1: #1140 How to Say "I Love You" May 19, 2020

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A little over seven and half years ago, Emerson was born at home. We had an amazing midwife (named Mary Jackson) for both Emerson and Eleanor's births. I'll never forget the very first moments of Emerson's life. I had the blessed honor of being the first to officially welcome him into the world. RIGHT after he was born (literally a couple seconds after), he looked at me and our eyes met. Then he wrapped his tiny (!) little hand right around my pinky finger. (MISTY!!!) We've recounted this special moment countless times. I like to say that we both said, "I LOVE YOU!!!" right when our eyes first connected and he wrapped that tiny hand of his around my pinky. So… One of the ways we like to recreate that moment is by holding hands while we're walking. That, in itself, will always be one of my favorite things in life. But… We like to take it one step further and say "I LOVE YOU!" to each other in our own Top Secret way. In fact, we developed our own special language. It's called Squeezy-eze. It's super easy to learn. There's actually only one phrase: "I LOVE YOU." All you have to do is grab someone's hand and… SQUEEZE IT a few times. Squeeze. Squeeze. Squeeze. I. LOVE. YOU. It's like a Morse Code of awesome. And, well, that's Today's +1. If you feel so inspired, how about a little squeezy-eze of Love? Squeeze. Squeeze. Squeeze. I. Love. YOU!!!

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