Show notes
Picking up where they left off, Lisa and Kendra G dive even deeper into the lies women are told—and tell themselves—about love, relationships, and self-worth. Part 2 gets into the nitty-gritty of how to stop comparison, heal from toxic relationships, and become the kind of woman everyone wants to be around: truly confident, truly unshakeable.
Kendra and Lisa tackle the hardest truths about being “too picky,” the myth that women aren’t “complete” until chosen, and how unrealistic expectations derail happiness. They also get vulnerable, discussing the aftermath of heartbreak, the slow erosion of self-esteem in bad relationships, and the moment-to-moment battles to refuse to lower your standards. Expect actionable wisdom on self-assessment, rebuilding after a breakup, and making sure your confidence is built on YOUR foundation—not someone else’s validation. Plus, a little fun as they talk about Kendra’s dating app and spicy new card game!
SHOWNOTES
24:24 “Not complete until chosen”—the grand remix, choosing yourself
25:43 The myth of “never give up on someone” & what real love requires
26:41 Are you too picky? When preferences become obstacles to happiness
29:40 Men’s and women’s double standards in dating—and why they both count
34:51 Expectation vs. standards: Community voting on loyalty, trust, money, and more
36:54 How to assess your real dating pool and sexual market value
39:08 Giving men grace for vulnerability—hormones, self-esteem, and support in partnerships
41:42 Why your preference isn’t your worth (and neither is anyone else’s opinion)
46:24 The honesty trap: Why we say we want it, but can’t always handle the truth
49:01 The signature questions from Kendra’s show & the “three flaws” challenge
54:23 Stop giving wifely benefits to boyfriends: Knowing when you’re negotiating your worth
56:48 Navigating comparison, heartbreak, and rising after toxic relationships
59:32 How to remind yourself you’re worthy—no matter your relationship status or setbacks
1:07:32 Using disrespect as fuel for growth, and trusting YOUR own red flags
1:13:06 Redefining single: The battle for your life after breakup
1:14:19 Chanel bags don’t go on sale—why you shouldn’t discount yourself, either
1:15:35 Game time: Kendra’s card game and spicy honesty
1:17:00 Money, marriage, and what REALLY matters in partnership
1:18:44 Would you ever get married again? And laying down the shame around being single
1:19:58 Where to follow Kendra G and join the movement
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