Show notes
In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by an incredible lineup of guests: clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula, communication strategist Jefferson Fisher, powerhouse entrepreneur and femininity coach April Mason, and legendary executive and author Bozoma Saint John. Together, they dive deep into the complexities of confidence, self-worth, emotional resilience, and navigating difficult relationships—especially with narcissists and toxic personalities.
Dr. Ramani opens up about the difference between charisma and authentic connection, offering tactical strategies for protecting your peace and self-esteem around difficult people. Jefferson Fisher provides actionable insights on reclaiming your power and confidence through the art of the pause—and explains exactly why silence, composure, and thoughtfully measured responses are your secret weapons in heated conversations.
April Mason shares a masterclass in self-awareness and boundaries, decoding the subtle “dripping effect” of manipulation in relationships, the importance of tuning into your femininity and wisdom, and how your standards protect you from heartbreak and narcissists alike.
Rounding out the episode, Bozoma Saint John takes us on a deeply personal journey—from the loss of her college boyfriend to suicide, to finding resilience in even the darkest moments of her life. She shares life-changing truths about letting go of blame, moving past pain, and honoring your own strength through adversity.
If you’re ready for real talk about confidence, boundaries, healing, and the courage to stand in your power, this mashup is for you.
SHOWNOTES
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Spotting the difference between real confidence and performative charisma
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How to “soul distance” and protect your energy from narcissists
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Tactical tools for handling toxic conversations, including the power of the pause
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Mastering boundaries, self-respect, and subtle cues in relationships
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Healing from emotional trauma and the journey from victimhood to survivor
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Finding your voice and reclaiming your story after heartbreak and loss
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Why self-blame stands in the way of growth—and how to move past it
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