Wild Sobriety

Latest Episodes:

You Are Further Along Than You Think & Life Update Apr 20, 2026

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What if you’re not behind at all, but just overcomplicating what already works? This episode reframes change, sobriety, and wellness by cutting through noise and returning to a simpler truth: you already have access to what you need.

You’ll hear how devotion, not more information or effort, becomes the foundation for sustainable change—and why inaction, listening, and internal connection often move you forward faster than constant doing. The episode also clarifies how real transformation happens across stages, not through sudden breakthroughs, and why you may be further along than you think.

Walk away with a clearer understanding of how to reduce overwhelm, trust your internal guidance, and approach behavior change in a way that is sustainable, grounded, and aligned with long-term well-being.

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Is God Calling You To Sobriety? Feb 04, 2026

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Sobriety is your birthright. God didn't create you to alter yourself. The only alteration required is remembering who you are, both holy human and divine.

It's the right of passage most Women never received, and in fact, alcohol has limited the privilege in our lives of being able to know God deeply.

The reasons Women drink are the same reasons we stay separate from God: fear of receiving and the need to always prove our worth.

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The Missing Piece Of Self Compassion That Will Change Your Sober Journey Jan 28, 2026

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In today’s episode of Wild Sobriety, I’m talking about what I believe is the most overlooked—and most crucial—piece of sustainable sobriety and feminine healing: radical self-compassion.

After years in the self-development and coaching world, I’ve noticed something that quietly keeps women stuck: the belief that healing means trying harder, being better, or fixing yourself alone. In this episode, I share why that approach actually deepens shame, fuels over-functioning, and keeps alcohol—or other coping patterns—alive beneath the surface.

We explore why sobriety isn’t about more discipline or self-control, but about learning how to meet your suffering without turning on yourself. This conversation goes deep into feminine nervous system healing, cyclical wisdom, and the moment everything changes when you stop trying to override your humanity.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

Why self-improvement can secretly become self-punishment
The missing link between sobriety, feminine energy, and inner peace
How shame keeps repeating patterns—even when you “know better”
What actually allowed me to see myself beyond the identity of drinking
Why compassion (not willpower) builds real emotional resilience

If you’ve ever thought “I should be past this by now” or wondered why sobriety feels harder the more you try to control it—this episode will shift something important.

🎧 A short companion meditation is available as a separate episode to support this work in the body.

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What's Missing From Your Dry January Jan 14, 2026

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On today’s episode, I’m talking about the one thing that’s usually missing from Dry January—and why that’s exactly why so many alcohol breaks don’t last.
If you’re participating in Dry January (or are already sober), congratulations. But if you’ve ever noticed that you just replace alcohol with mocktails, workouts, scrolling, or another “healthy” distraction—and still feel restless, disconnected, or off—this episode is for you.
What most people call “willpower” is actually a longing to go inward.
In this conversation, I share why a fast without devotion is just another project to manage, and how true change happens when you stop checking out and start tuning in. I talk about prayer—not as religion—but as presence. As listening. As learning to ask: What is the most loving choice right now?
I also share what I’ve seen again and again with my private clients: when women add spiritual connection, self-honesty, and present-moment awareness to sobriety, alcohol naturally loses its grip. Sobriety stops feeling forced—and starts feeling like home.
If you’re tired of starting over every January…
If you don’t want to be in the same place this time next year…
If you know there’s more depth, peace, and truth available to you…
This episode will change how you think about Dry January—and what comes next.
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Imagine having weekly breakthroughs — and celebrating them without alcohol.

The 90-Day Life Renewal Challenge is an invitation into your year of clarity, self-trust, and embodied change. This is about knowing you can handle life without numbing, avoiding, or hiding. You can be sacred and do it anyway.

👉 Schedule your Clarity Call for your first breakthrough — and trust that it’s only the beginning.

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A Private Holistic Coaching Program to gracefully help you move through the resistance of change, stay accountable and honor the version of you that is done waiting. What if this year, you didn’t just set a goal…but created a living plan that actually fits your energy, your values, and your season of life? Apply & schedule your clarity call with Mary here.

Download The Permission Protocol — my free 5-part mini-course — and start practicing the skills that make alcohol irrelevant on your terms.

DISCLAIMER: This podcast and its contents are not a substitute for rehabilitation, medical treatment or advice. It is for educational and inspirational purposes. I am not a therapist or doctor. The views here are expressed a personal opinion and based on first hand experience. Please consult a doctor if your mental or physical health is at risk.

From Hot Mess To Radical Forgiveness With Essence Turner Jan 07, 2026

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In this episode I sit down with Essence Turner, Self Love Coach, to talk about self-worth, healing, and finding your true purpose.

We dive into her personal journey from the underground of exotic dancing, drinking and instability to radical forgiveness, healing and serving others. Essences shares a relatable story of finding her way into her feminine expression, practical tips for self-love, and how to break through limiting beliefs.

If you’re ready to feel empowered and inspired, you won’t want to miss this conversation!

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Imagine having weekly breakthroughs — and celebrating them without alcohol.

👉 Schedule your Clarity Call for your first breakthrough — and trust that it’s only the beginning.

Get the free mini-course: The Permission Protocol
A foundational experience designed to help your alcohol-free time become more than just time off. You’ll learn how to end the mental tug-of-war and return to peace, presence, and pleasure. Sobriety stops feeling like discipline and starts feeling like trust — trust in yourself, your body, and your inner knowing.

Join The 90 Day Life Renewal!

Download The Permission Protocol — my free 5-part mini-course — and start practicing the skills that make alcohol irrelevant on your terms.

The Work Is Always Working : Live Coaching! Celebrating your wins, evolutionary sobriety Dec 31, 2025

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What if nothing is actually going wrong?

In this episode, I’m unpacking a truth that has completely changed how I move through sobriety, business, money stress, emotions, and even embarrassment: the work is always working — either for you or on you.

We talk about getting out of your head, breaking the mental loops, and learning how to trust the process even when it doesn’t feel good yet. I share how sobriety taught me clear seeing — not just the absence of alcohol, but the ability to be with emotions instead of escaping them. Anxiety, embarrassment, boredom, fear, money stress… all of it.

We also dive into:

Why alcohol (and other substances) create synthetic joy — and how feminine sobriety gives you the real thing
Letting go of control, approval-seeking, and codependent patterns
The power of saying “so what?” to emotions instead of making them a problem
How embarrassment, discomfort, and emotional waves are actually building confidence and self-trust
Moving from hustling and hunting to gathering, receiving, and trusting opportunity
Why sobriety makes entrepreneurship, relationships, and self-expression easier — not harder

If you’re navigating sobriety, questioning your relationship with alcohol (or weed), craving more self-trust, or learning how to stay present with your emotions instead of numbing them — this episode is for you.

Nothing has gone wrong. You’re not behind.
The work is working.

Imagine having weekly breakthroughs — and celebrating them without alcohol.

👉 Schedule your Clarity Call for your first breakthrough — and trust that it’s only the beginning.

Join The 90 Day Life Renewal!

Download The Permission Protocol — my free 5-part mini-course — and start practicing the skills that make alcohol irrelevant on your terms.

Client Spotlight: 1,000 Days Alcohol Free With Nicole Dec 24, 2025

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Hey friends, today’s episode is extra special—I’m sitting down with Nicole, a former client and now a true inspiration, as she celebrates an incredible milestone: 1,000 days alcohol-free!

We get real about the ups and downs of her sobriety journey, the grit it took to keep going, and how life has changed in ways she never expected. Nicole opens up about the challenges, the small (and big) wins, and what it really means to make alcohol irrelevant in your life. I

f you’ve ever struggled with drinking, felt overwhelmed by life’s demands, or wondered if lasting change is possible, this conversation is for you. I’m so grateful Nicole was willing to share her story so honestly—I know you’ll walk away feeling encouraged and less alone. Let’s dive in!

Imagine having weekly breakthroughs — and celebrating them without alcohol.

👉 Schedule your Clarity Call for your first breakthrough — and trust that it’s only the beginning.

Join The 90 Day Life Renewal!

Download The Permission Protocol — my free 5-part mini-course — and start practicing the skills that make alcohol irrelevant on your terms.

From Darkness to Light: How the Solstice Inspires Feminine Healing and True Sober Living Dec 17, 2025

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Sobriety and feminine living meet the magic of the winter solstice in this episode. I’m diving into what the solstice really means for those of us longing to live through the lens of love, and how this dark, quiet time of year in the northern hemisphere is actually the perfect invitation to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with ourselves.

I’ll share how I use the solstice as a portal for deep inner exploration—tapping into the cycles of nature, the phases of the moon, and the wisdom of my own body. We’ll talk about why I stopped using alcohol as a shortcut to relaxation and creativity, and how embracing my feminine rhythms has brought more freedom and clarity than any drink ever could.

If you’re curious about living in sync with the seasons, finding your own rituals for rest and renewal, or just want to feel a little less alone as the days get shorter, this episode is for you. Let’s honor the solstice together and see what’s waiting to be birthed in the dark.

Imagine having weekly breakthroughs — and celebrating them without alcohol.

👉 Schedule your Clarity Call for your first breakthrough — and trust that it’s only the beginning.

Join The 90 Day Life Renewal!

Download The Permission Protocol — my free 5-part mini-course — and start practicing the skills that make alcohol irrelevant on your terms.

Blindspot #5: Quitting Drinking Means Something's Wrong (5-Part Series)🌹 Dec 10, 2025

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We unpack the fifth blind spot that keeps women stuck with alcohol: the belief that seeking support means something is wrong, rather than a powerful up level. We show how to replace isolation and shame with evaluation, evidence, and celebration so alcohol becomes irrelevant.
• reframing sobriety
• moving from isolation
• replacing alcohol-as-reward
• strategy's that work to track your progress
• sharing from neutrality to dissolve stigma and build connection
• future-focused identity work to reclaim lost parts
• practical rituals for emotional regulation and calm
• community, support, and sustainable next steps

Learn how to say no to alcohol, deprivation free from your wild feminine.
As a thank you for being such an important part of this podcast, I want to gift you my brand new free mini course, The Permission Protocol
Everything you need is right here in the description

Imagine having weekly breakthroughs — and celebrating them without alcohol.

👉 Schedule your Clarity Call for your first breakthrough — and trust that it’s only the beginning.

Join The 90 Day Life Renewal!

Download The Permission Protocol — my free 5-part mini-course — and start practicing the skills that make alcohol irrelevant on your terms.

Blindspot #4: Why You Should Stop Reading Quit Lit (5-Part Series)🌹 Dec 03, 2025

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I used to think if I just read one more book or listened to one more podcast, I’d finally “get it.” But all that information kept me busy instead of free. In this episode, I talk about the hidden blind spot of overconsumption—why filling your brain with recovery content isn’t the same as changing your relationship with alcohol.

I share how twenty years of drinking alongside a wellness practice taught me that awareness isn’t enough. Insight doesn’t rewire your brain—action does. I walk you through how beliefs create emotions, how rituals keep habits alive, and how to witness cravings in real time so the old story starts to lose its shine.

When we stop outsourcing our healing to the next expert or episode and start practicing curiosity in our own bodies, real freedom begins.

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