Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Latest Episodes:

Granny Chaser (w/ Tenderoni) Mar 11, 2022

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Drag king Tenderoni (Winner of The Drag Queen of the Year Pageant 2021) chats with Nicole about why they love older women, the challenges of performing as a drag king on your period, the scandalous story behind how they met their 12-year partner, and shares tips on how to be a flirt. Plus, Nicole reads some cringey dating app pick-up lines she's received.

Crazy dating story? Looking for advice? Want to leave Nicole a dirty message? Submit it all to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.

Black Lives Matter. Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

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Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

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Married in a Hospital (w/ Danielle Pinnock) Mar 04, 2022

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Danielle Pinnock (Young Sheldon, Ghosts) and Nicole get mistaken for each other... a lot. The comedian and writer chats with Nicole about the different actors they get confused for, the grueling process of booking an acting job, and the very strange story behind how Danielle's wedding ended up taking place in a hospital ICU.

Crazy dating story? Looking for advice? Want to leave Nicole a dirty message? Submit it all to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.

Black Lives Matter. Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

Follow Nicole Byer:

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Twitter: @nicolebyer

Instagram: @nicolebyer

Merch: podswag.com/dateme

Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

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Sensitive Boys (w/ Jackie Fabulous) Feb 25, 2022

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Comedian and motivational speaker Jackie Fabulous joins Nicole to chat about negotiating prenups, how to gently give direction during sex, finding the funny in your flaws, and how to appear more desirable by looking less horny.

Crazy dating story? Looking for advice? Let Nicole and her guest help you out. Submit your stories, questions, or dirty pick-up lines to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.

Black Lives Matter. Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

Follow Nicole Byer:

Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

Twitter: @nicolebyer

Instagram: @nicolebyer

Merch: podswag.com/dateme

Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love Exhibited (w/ Moses Storm) Feb 18, 2022

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Comedian Moses Storm lived in an art exhibit where he would sleep, shit, and had sex in front of an audience. He navigates trying to find love while exhibiting, and being raided by Operation Fashion Police. Moses and Nicole also talk about shooting sex scenes for TV, preparing bits for dates, and the hookup culture on Birthright.

Check out Moses's new comedy special, Trash White now on HBO Max!

Black Lives Matter. Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

Follow Nicole Byer:

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Merch: podswag.com/dateme

Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

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Dick Tricks (w/ Shalita Grant) Feb 11, 2022

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Actress Shalita Grant (You, NCIS: New Orleans) talks to Nicole about her life dating an MMA fighter, her straight sex phrase, the moment she realized she was a natural at lesbian sex, and how her interest in polygamous relationships lead to her love of pole dancing. Nicole shares her blowjob trick that works every time.

Black Lives Matter. Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

Follow Nicole Byer:

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Merch: podswag.com/dateme

Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

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Lesbianity (w/ Gina Yashere) Feb 04, 2022

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Comedian Gina Yashere (The Daily Show, Bob Hearts Abishola) chats with Nicole about the adorable meet-cute story behind meeting her girlfriend at a women's festival. She also discusses the process behind working with Chuck Lorre to co-create the sitcom Bob Hearts Abishola, her non-confrontation approach to hiring a diverse writers' room, and how Different Strokes inspired her dream to come to America. Plus, Gina explains why her birthmark is a sign that she's a reincarnation of her grandmother.

Black Lives Matter. Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

Follow Nicole Byer:

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Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Cumbucha (w/ Lamorne Morris) Jan 28, 2022

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Actor and comedian Lamorne Morris (New Girl, Woke) is here! Lamorne teaches Nicole about the importance of playing hard to get, and how to act unavailable to attract a man. They read a listener's story about a date who ditched them at the bar to go buy wet wipes and take a shit. Plus, is TikTok now the hottest new app to find a relationship?

Black Lives Matter! Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

Follow Nicole Byer:

Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

Twitter: @nicolebyer

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New Merch Store! podswag.com/dateme

Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How to Make a Man Commit (w/ Abbi Jacobson) Jan 21, 2022

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Comedian and actress Abbi Jacobson (Broad City, The Mitchells vs the Machines) and Nicole go over a list of ways to make a man commit - is the advice solid or is it all just mind games? Plus, Abbi shares how she met her co-star Ilana Glazer, and their combined failure trying to ask out men over Facebook. She also shares her Raya success story, and her empowering message she sends when asking someone out.

Black Lives Matter! Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

Follow Nicole Byer:

Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

Twitter: @nicolebyer

Instagram: @nicolebyer

New Merch Store! podswag.com/dateme

Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Throwing Shade (w/ Bianca Del Rio) Jan 14, 2022

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Drag queen icon Bianca Del Rio (winner of Drag Race S6) joins Nicole to chat about the challenges of finding a partner who fits with your lifestyle, the smart system behind her meet-and-greets, getting reported on Grindr, shares secrets behind her impeccable wig lines, and throws lots of shade in between. It's a real good time - get into it!

For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag

Check out our best episodes of 2021! Listen at teamcoco.com/dateme2021

Black Lives Matter! Click here for a list of over 100 different ways you can support racial justice.

Follow Nicole Byer:

Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

Twitter: @nicolebyer

Instagram: @nicolebyer

New Merch Store! podswag.com/dateme

Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hot Singles In Your Area (w/ Chelsea Peretti) Jan 07, 2022

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Comedian and actress Chelsea Peretti (Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Sing 2) chats with Nicole about the best places you can go to meet singles, strong pick-up lines, and how she met husband Jordan Peele through a DM.

Check out our best episodes of 2021! Listen at teamcoco.com/dateme2021

Follow Nicole Byer:

Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

Twitter: @nicolebyer

Instagram: @nicolebyer

New Merch Store! podswag.com/dateme

Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.