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Relationship Series: Marriage Feb 18, 2021

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Expectations, commitment, intimacy, friendship, rest, conflict, fun... marriage is full of opportunity to grow, connect and endure. In this final episode in the Why Tho Relationship series, you'll learn how to be kind while you're in a conflict, how to be friends with your spouse, how to understand each other's values, and how to adjust your expectations for the season of life you're in right now. Marriage is not easy, but there's nothing like it, and there is a way to thrive consistently through the long life of a marriage. Did you love the Why Tho Relationship Series? Take a moment to rate and review so that others can find the show! Connect with Ashley and Tiffany over on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm

Relationship Series: Thank You For Rejecting Me With Kait Warman Feb 11, 2021

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"Men and performance... I don't know who I am without those two things." Kait Warman, author of "Thank You For Rejecting Me," joins the Who Tho Podcast today to help us better understand rejection and how we can grow beyond those painful moments in our lives. With practical tools, personal stories and helpful dialogue, this episode invites us to examine our past beliefs and how those might be hindering our present opportunities. If you're dating, you'll love this. If you're healing, this is for you. If you're married and want to support friends who are in this digital, COVID, wild world of dating, this is for you. Rejection is inevitable and this conversation will help you take steps forward in your life. Order Kait's book: https://amzn.to/3cOcdoC Visit her Instagram: (she's a relationship coach and entrepreneur): https://www.instagram.com/kaitness/

Relationship Series: Codependency Feb 04, 2021

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Do you ever feel like your mood, personal growth, opportunities or relationship status depends on what another does, says or thinks? Do you struggle to untangle your life from another's? Are you constantly offering advice to others, "shoulding" all over them? "You should do this/read this/think this?" Is it hard to say no? You might be struggling with codependency. In this episode of the Why Tho Relationship Series, we're talking about signs of codependency, what to do when you recognize it and how you can overcome hiding, care-taking, controlling and manipulative behaviors in relationships. You are a powerful person and we know this episode will continue to help you flourish in relationships. Resources mentioned on the Why Tho Show: Codependency Quiz: http://harmonygrillo.com/codependency-quiz/ Favorite Book to Read: Changes that Heal https://www.amazon.com/Changes-That-Heal-Henry-Cloud/dp/0310606314 Share this series with a friend, and if you love Why Tho, take a minute to subscribe, rate and review the show. This helps others join us in personal growth and other shenanigans. Say hello on the Gram: www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm Pre-order Tiffany Bluhm's book Prey Tell: https://amzn.to/2BN9ivR

Relationship Series: Our Favorite Fiction Relationships Jan 28, 2021

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Relationships are important. From overcoming past hurts to learning how to relate during difficult times, to growing in the messy parts of life and love, we've got a three week series (and a special guest at the end) that will bless your socks off. BUT FIRST, we're sharing our favorite tv marriages, friendships and why we don't like Friends or Seinfeld. Sorry not sorry. Today's a little something to make you think and laugh, so we can prepare to hit the hard stuff. To tell us your favorite tv relationship, message us on Instagram! We’d love to hear from you. www.Instagram.com/TiffanyBluhm www.Instagram.com/ashabercrombie

A Hope and a Prayer for the Church and America Jan 21, 2021

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Hope holds. On the dark days, in the middle of a storm, during a breakdown in the monotony of our ordinary lives. Hope holds. In today’s episode, we explore our hope for the future of the church and for America as a nation (big week for us here). We believe that change is possible, that healing is needed and that we can do both together. We love you Why Tho listeners! Your support means the world to us and it is an honor to be in your life every Thursday. To connect more directly, say hello on Instagram! We’d love to hear from you. Www.Instagram.com/TiffanyBluhm Www.Instagram.com/ashabercrombie Pre-order Tiffany's latest book, "Prey Tell: Why We Silence Women Who Tell the Truth and How Everyone Can Speak Up" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2BN9ivR

From Woke to Work Jan 14, 2021

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Today, we're speaking with the Head of Inclusion at Lionsgate Films, Kamala Avila-Salmon. Formerly, an executive at Facebook Watch and a leader in the music industry, Kamala helped launched shows like Red Table Talk and careers like that of Miss Janelle Monae. She is a powerhouse, an incredible advocate, deeply committed to the work of equity and inclusion. Kamala helps people go from an awakening to action, with wisdom and grace. If you're driving, you'll shout in your car when she drops career nuggets and if you're home, you'll want to take notes. It's our pleasure to bring you the first guest of 2021 - we know you'll love her as much as we do! Check out her podcast, From Woke to Work: https://li.sten.to/G0N5WSg) Follow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/therealKAS1 and read her work on medium: https://medium.com/@kamalasalmon Follow Tiffany and Ashley on the Gram, and please do message us to let us know your thoughts, or suggest guests for 2021! www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie

Georgia On My Mind Jan 07, 2021

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Well, when we recorded this episode, we had no idea a mob was about to storm the Capitol of the United States, so if this a little tone deaf, that's why. But we hold to our passion and love for better understanding the people we judge. Georgia, Georgia, Georgia... is on our mind. Ashley shares her conversation with a dear friend Crystal Marie, who lives in the South. Crystal lamented the way the coastal cities tend to talk about the South, as if the whole place is uneducated, racist, and backwoods. The truth is, it's the bedrock of the civil rights movement, home of the best BBQ in America, and while racism is real, it's a place of community and neighborliness. On the flip side, folks say California will fall into the ocean. Seattle is corrupt because Jeff Bezos lives there. New York is elitist and expensive. We have so many opinions about who people are. We judge people we don't know and places we've never been, and if we are going to heal our great divide, we must stop this. Dr. Barbara Shabazz says that our dividing walls laid flat become bridges. It's time to build some bridges. This episode will help you if you struggle with judging others or if you don't understand other regional areas of America. Though not exhaustive, we do hope this will bless you as you heal and recover from 2020 and this election season. We love y'all. Solidarity, for real.

Hindsight is 2020 Dec 31, 2020

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We made it to the last day of 2020 and WE'RE STILL STANDING! We want to help you take a moment to reflect back on this year. How are you holding grief and gratitude together as you think back on this year? We know everyone has lost so much, but what did you gain? What lessons will you never forget? As we look to 2021 and cross over into a new year together, we want to encourage you to be a person who carries and spreads goodness. No matter what your job is, what difficulties you are still facing, what relationship struggles you have, goodness is possible. Instead of asking "What do you want to do?" in a new year, consider asking, "Who do you want to be?" We cannot predict the future, but we can determine to live with hope, joy and resolve to continue. We love you Why Tho listeners - welcome to our new friends who joined us in 2020, and to our faithful listeners, you're the real MVPs! Take a moment to rate our show and write a one sentence review - we value your opinion. Unless you're that lady with the fake name who gave us a one star rating because she doesn't like us talking about difficult topics as Christians. LOL! Love y'all. Happy New Year!

Rest in the Mystery of Advent Dec 24, 2020

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Merry Christmas Why Tho Fam! You’re our people and we love you! After several weeks of guest cohosts guess who’s back?? Ashley is home again with Tiffany, and today’s show is all about finding rest, peace and hope. In this Advent season of waiting, we celebrate that we have a God who is with us. He is at work in our waiting. He loves us. He holds us. We are not alone. And after the year we’ve had in 2020, we hope this truth will sustain you and fill you with hope. We pray better days are ahead of us, but if not, we pray you’d find joy in the waiting and in the presence of God who is always always with you. Bless you fam! If you love Why Tho, take a moment to leave us a review and rate the show. We’re grateful for your support!

What We Want People to Know with Guest Cohost Susie Gamez Dec 17, 2020

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Guest cohost Susie Gamez and Tiffany Bluhm talk about the pop culture shows of their youth, their interracial marriages, finding their space in white evangelical spaces, and what they want others to know when it comes to engaging minority cultures. Thank you for joining us for another episode of Why Tho. If you enjoyed your time with us, please rate and review this podcast. Connect with us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm www.instagram.com/susiekgamez

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