WHAT WAS HER NAME

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Daddy guise - Courtney Gilmartin Apr 25, 2024

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This episode with Courtney we talk all things, post settlement, intuition, finding therapists, daddy Guise guided as caring father, concept of "you don’t have to leave", Erosion and effects of abusive dynamics on children

Savior Complex - Roxanne S.6 EP.1 Apr 18, 2024

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I am joined by my guest Roxanne who invites us into her story of full circle redemption. We talk all things savior complexes within abusive dynamics, sex addiction, comparison/lust, spiritual abuse, narcissism and more. This episode is powerful for many reasons, but I love that we're starting here. Because it's set the pace for a total redemption story. A full 180. As we unpack spiritual abuse within a church, and the difficulty separating covenant and grace from accountability and safety. Along with hidden addictions carried into marriage, abuse of authority, and toxic submission. This is SUCH A GOOD STORY. I am honored to hold Roxannes story here. Big win here.

Inheritance - on inner healing and God healing trauma Feb 22, 2024

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Okay. Hi my friends. This is the final episode to season 5. It is a solo episode, because God had others plans. My guest I’d prepared felt a halt on her heart, and did a little rerouting. This episode is really raw. I recorded this episode from my childhood bedroom, and it’s about as real as it gets over here. I’ve treaded lightly within What was her name when it comes to God. Mainly because I know that there are many wounded by the church here, including me. However I want you to know that I’m sort of “reshaping” my vision here. I did something called an “inner healing” recently and it changed my life. So much so that I texted the woman who did it after and was like, “when can we do another one?!” and since did more. These series of inner healings gave God permission to touch and heal what therapy couldn’t. I’ve tried everything, for years. And while I’m a big advocate for therapy, it can not be your only source of healing. God is the one true healer and he healed memories and lifted a pain supernaturally. And I believe in what happened in these inner healings so much that I have a team actually willing to offer an inner healing for you. I will never not talk about how God healed something in me that could literally only be healed by the healer himself. And I want this for you too. But more importantly he wants this for you. You do not have to live as some trauma bird for the rest of your life. He has freedom for you from that pain. And he wants to replace what has been taken from you. - Joel 2 25-27: will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, the hopper, the destroyer, and the cutter, my great army, which I sent among you. “You shall eat in plenty and be satisfied, and praise the name of the LORD your God, who has dealt wondrously with you.”

There’s so much gold in this episode. I’m standing with you all. I am so grateful for this community. Here is to the end of eason 5! Big love.

If you are interested in doing an inner healing, please dm me.

Mamma Mondays - All the things Feb 12, 2024

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Hi dear friends. This week Mamma Caroline and I are talking all the things, literally. You all submitted a series of questions from how to file an restraining order, dating post abuse, how long to transition from talking to dating, parenting challenges in shared custody + more. It's a genuine joy to gather with my mamma mentor and talk all things that will help you feel better equipped in cultivating a beautiful healthy life post abuse.

This kitchen is for dancing with Callie Porteus Feb 08, 2024

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I am joined with guest Callie Porteus as we talk things love bombing, the wheel of abuse, vulnerability in its relation to being susceptible to abuse, mental health, substance abuse, violence and more.

Ohana means family Melanie Liparulo Pt. 1 Feb 01, 2024

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I am joined with guest, Melanie Liparulo as we discuss all things narcissistic abuse, entrapment within marriage, dating post abuse and more.

Mamma Mondays - brownies Jan 29, 2024

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Caroline and I took a question submitted by you all on stalking. Caroline shares all things stalkers, resources, tools, and hacks.

Don't forget about us with Christina Pierce Jan 25, 2024

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Christina Pierce's story of the fight for the unjust removal of her children. We talk all things abuse, financial abuse, sociopathy, splitting, unhinged episodes and more. So we don't forget your story, we hold it in this space.

Mamma Mondays- Romance Broasting Jan 22, 2024

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Caroline and I go unscripted as I rack her brain in an attempt to put a name to condescending male humor. I officially will now label the "It's just a joke" jokes under Romance Broasting from this point on. We talk romance, jokes some men make at the expense of women, intergenerational perspectives, honoring our bodies, and how to identify if you may have been or are currently being romantically broasted.

Mamma Mondays-Feminine energy or not Jan 15, 2024

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An episode to make your Monday coffee taste even better. Caroline and I talk all things court, female judges (side eye) , documenting in court, learning which battles to pick and ignore in court, preparing your nervous system, court hacks to not loose your shit, and more! This episode we both sat a tad bit tired from the recent hearing this week and much happening here in our community- it took a different turn as we processed the outcomes and Caroline shares insight that for some may not be new but others an essential in the aftermath of abuse. If you know a woman navigating the judicial system send over this episode and help others to not learn through this and error if they don’t have to.

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