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    Were You Raised By Wolves?

    Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I’m always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.

    When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”

    Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they’ve built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”

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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema (“Late Show with Stephen Colbert”), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We’d send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)

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    Snuggling Aggressively, Giving Damaged Gifts, Tipping Only 1%, and More Feb 03, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this bonus episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about dealing with damaged gifts, giving Starbucks a fake name, splitting an AirBNB fairly, handling PDAs on a school trip, leaving low tips, tipping on expensive spa procedures, explaining to a friend why they're not invited to your home, powering your phone all the way off, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What is the etiquette for unknowingly giving someone a damaged gift?
    • Is it rude to give Starbucks a fake name when you order?
    • Should the AirBNB bill be split by the number of families or the number of bedrooms?
    • What do you do about too many PDAs on a school trip?
    • Should people not attending a birthday party be invited to participate in a group gift?
    • On a $100 dinner, is leaving a $1 tip better than nothing?
    • Should you tip 15% on an expensive spa procedure?
    • What do you say to a friend who wonders why they haven't been invited over in a while?
    • PSA: Power your phone completely down at the theatre.


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Fake Starbucks names
    • Supper Club on Wikipedia
    • Public displays of affection on Wikipedia
    • Vampire Facial (Allure Magazine)
    • Snow Squall in New York


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    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 21

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    Sabotaging Recipes, Tossing Napkins, Blocking Stairs, and More Jan 27, 2020
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle using napkins, behaving at a live performance, redeeming gift cards, sharing cake recipes, departing earlier than expected, being distracted on stairs, leaning into other diners, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Napkin etiquette
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: How to behave at a live performance
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What to do when someone gives you a used gift card? Do you have to share your famous cake recipe? Is it OK to "check out" early when you're an unhappy houseguest?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Walking slowly up stairs, leaning into other diners
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Something nice from a listener, something nice about Nick


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Gum in a cloth napkin
    • "Showgirls" Trailer (NSFW)
    • Neck-mounted iPhone holder
    • "Idiocracy" Trailer


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    • Call, text, or email us your questions
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 20

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    Returning Wedding Gifts, Paying for Birthday Parties, Locking Out Relatives, and More Jan 20, 2020
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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this bonus episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about paying for your own birthday party, picking the right urinal, bumping into passengers on an airplane, distracting relatives, trying to exit a crowded bus, choosing between the banquette and the chair, sending wedding gifts back after a wedding is called off, refusing to eat at a dinner party, bringing opened food to a dinner party, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • Is it rude to not pay for your birthday party?
    • What should you keep in mind when using a urinal?
    • Is it rude to bump into people when boarding a plane?
    • What do you do if an older relative is distracting you at work?
    • How do you get off a crowded bus if you're far away from the doors?
    • Who should get the banquette and who should get the chair?
    • The wedding was called off and I already sent a gift...should they send it back?
    • What do you do if you simply cannot eat something at a dinner party?
    • Is it OK to bring something that's opened to a dinner party?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • The Nobel Prize and the Urinal Fly
    • "Rest Stop" by Stephen King
    • Stroopwafels
    • Best Noise Cancelling Headphones
    • "90 Day Fiancé"


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    • Support our show through Patreon
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    • Call, text, or email us your questions
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 19

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    Reclining on an Airplane, Using Finger Bowls, Hitting Reply All, and More Jan 13, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle using finger bowls, emailing the right way, reclining on an airplane, remembering birthdays, using business' bathrooms when you're not a customer, speaking Spanish around non-Spanish speakers, declining free samples, clearing plates at restaurants, losing keys, singing our theme song, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Finger bowls
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Thoughts on emails
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Is it OK to recline your seat on an airplane? Should you remind someone it's your birthday? Is it OK to use a bathroom at a business if you're not a customer? Is it rude to speak Spanish around non-Spanish speakers??
    • VENT OR REPENT: Declining free samples at the grocery store, clearing plates before everyone's done
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Lost keys, singing our theme song


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Finger Bowls on Wikipedia


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
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    • Visit our official website
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 18

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    Unloading Emotional Baggage, Planting Cherry Trees, Humming Aggressively, and More Jan 06, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this bonus episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about unloading emotional baggage on your friends, removing offensive taxidermy, texting at the theatre, commenting on people's body size, getting out of conversations at Whole Foods, eating loudly at the office, taking up too much space at a café, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • Is it OK to unload emotional baggage onto your friends?
    • What do I do about a friend who is offended by my taxidermy?
    • How should I handle someone who is texting at the theatre?
    • What can I do when people comment on my body size?
    • How do I get out of a conversation at Whole Foods?
    • What can be done about a colleague who eats loudly at the office?
    • Is it OK to take a booth at a busy cafe if you're only one person?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • "I am at my emotional capacity" meme
    • Hanami (Flower Viewing)


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 17

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    Clinking Glasses, Making Eye Contact on the Subway, Tipping Tow Truck Drivers, and More Dec 30, 2019
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle giving and receiving toasts, behaving properly in New York City, offering guests tours of your home, tipping tow truck drivers, giving aspirational presents to friends trying to lose weight, arriving at exercise classes late, being surprised by unlisted ingredients at a restaurant, buying new luggage, being delighted by a surprise treat, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Toasting Etiquette
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: New York City etiquette, including walking, umbrellas, subways, delis, and taxis
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Should you give guests tours of your home? Should you tip your tow truck driver? I have a friend trying to lose weight and I gave him a shirt that's in the size of his goal...was this OK?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Arriving at an exercise class late, a restaurant doesn't disclose ingredients
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Buying new luggage, an unexpected meal


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Shakespeare's "Merry Wives of Windsor"
    • Bell method of clinking glasses
    • It's Showtime on the NYC Subway
    • International Towing and Recovery Museum
    • James Beard House


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram
    • Visit our official website
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 16

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    Regifting Fruitcakes, Partying at the Office, Taking Down Your Tree, and More Dec 23, 2019
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this holiday-theme bonus episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about behaving at your office holiday party, sending Amazon Wish Lists to your Secret Santa, dealing with a Secret Santa who's no longer with the company, responding to work emails the day before and after Christmas, regifting, giving people fruitcakes, making handmade gifts for friends, tipping parking garage attendants, hiding from family and friends when going home for the holidays, taking down your Christmas tree, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • Office holiday party dos and don'ts
    • Is it OK to send my Amazon Wish List to my Secret Santa?
    • What do we do if someone in our office Secret Santa group quit the company?
    • Do you have to respond to work emails on December 24th or 26th?
    • Is it rude to regift?
    • Is it rude to give someone a fruitcake?
    • If you're feeling stressed about money, is it rude to give handmade gifts to your friends?
    • I keep my car in a garage and tip every time I take my car out...do I have to tip again at Christmas?
    • Is it rude to not see all my friends and extended family when I go home for the holidays?
    • When should you take down your Christmas tree?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • NY Post: "Iconic NYC costume and beauty store Ricky’s is on its last legs"
    • Fruitcake on Wikipedia
    • Queen Victoria's Fruitcake
    • Nick's fruitcake recipe (email us for it!)
    • When is Twelfth Night?


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    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 15

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    Using Chopsticks in a Thai Restaurant, Being Prompt, Giving People Personal Space, and More Dec 16, 2019
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle using chopsticks in a Thai restaurant, being prompt, asking people to "watch your stuff" at a café or airport, queuing properly at a supermarket, asking for more bread at a restaurant, honking at cars as soon as the light turns green, giving people personal space when dining, asking people to remember your name, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Using chopsticks in a Thai restaurant
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: The importance of being on time
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What do you say when people ask you to watch their stuff at a café or airport? What is the etiquette when a new queue opens up at supermarket? Is it OK to ask for more bread at a restaurant? When a light turns green and the person in front of you doesn't go, how long should you wait before you honk?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Personal space when dining out, asking people if they remember your name
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Nice fan mail, civilized behavior on an airplane


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • King Rama V
    • Airport Announcements: The Most Captivating Voice in the World
    • Supermarket Sweep
    • New York Times: Our Nightly Bread
    • Traffic Lights
    • Leah Bonnema on "The Late Show with Steven Colbert"


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
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    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 14

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    Greeting with a Kiss, Going Rogue at a Dinner Party, Getting Catfished, and More Dec 09, 2019
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this extended bonus segment, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about greeting people with kisses, dealing with rogue dinner party guests, deciding who should go first in a buffet line, removing fish bones from your mouth, giving gifts that need to be displayed, leaving your phone number in a voicemail, stripping sheets when you're a houseguest, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What do you do if you accidentally went in for a kiss when they went in for a handshake?
    • How do you deal with dinner party guests who won't follow the invitation instructions?
    • What is the appropriate response when a friend tells you they're getting a divorce?
    • Who should go first when there's a buffet line?
    • How do you remove a fish bone from your mouth?
    • Don't give gifts that have to be displayed.
    • Say your number slowly when leaving a voicemail.
    • When you're a houseguest, should you strip the bed on your last day?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • George Michael's "Freedom"
    • How to fold a fitted sheet


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
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    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 13

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    Eating Soup, Giving Compliments, Entering Without Knocking, and More Dec 02, 2019
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle eating soup, giving and receiving compliments, doing business with rude people, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: How to eat soup
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Giving and receiving compliments
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: How to do business with people who have bad manners? Is it OK to enter without knocking at your boyfriend's house?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Using your phone in a spin class, squeezing limes
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: At the gym, at the coffee shop


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Soup etiquette videos on YouTube
    • GQ: "How to Compliment a Woman without Making it Weird" (March 2018)
    • Num Pang at Chelsea Market


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 12

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