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    Were You Raised By Wolves?

    Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I’m always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.

    When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”

    Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they’ve built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”

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    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema (“Late Show with Stephen Colbert”), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We’d send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)

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    Wedding Bonus: Bringing Your Own Food, Skipping Thank You Notes, Inviting Yourself, and More Jun 22, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this bonus wedding-themed episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about paying for weddings, scheduling mid-week ceremonies, skipping thank you notes, bringing your own food, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • Who pays for a wedding?
    • Is it rude to have your wedding on a holiday or on a day other than Saturday?
    • I'm a bridesmaid and am feeling under-appreciated by the bride...what should do I do?
    • What do I do about people who are inviting themselves to my daughter's wedding?
    • Is it OK to donate to charity in lieu of sending written thank you notes for wedding gifts?
    • Do you have to give a gift for someone's fifth wedding?
    • Is it OK to bring your own food to a wedding reception?
    • If a reception takes place a year after the wedding, when should you send the gift?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Average cost of weddings
    • Style Guide: The name of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints
    • Vegan wedding guest shamed for being 'rude,' bringing her own food
    • AirCal


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    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 41

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    Eating Lobsters, Leaving Group Texts, Bashing Hometowns, and More Jun 15, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle serving guests, eating lobsters, bashing hometowns, cutting birthday cakes without permission, leaving group texts, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: French, Russian, and American service
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: How to eat Lobster
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What do you say to someone who criticizes your home town? Should a birthday person wait until friends are gathered before cutting the cake? What do you do about a group text you no longer want to be on?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Standing in doorways without a mask, repeating voicemail messages
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: An encouraging audience member, hand-delivered lemon bars


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Andy Warhol's lobster illustration
    • Tomalley on Wikipedia
    • Ina Garten lemon bar recipe


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
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    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 40

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    Wedding Bonus: Asking for Cash, Declining Invitations, Giving Gifts, and More Jun 08, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this bonus wedding-themed episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about creating guest lists, declining invitations, asking for cash gifts, forgetting to send thank you notes, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • Who do you have to invite to your wedding?
    • Do you have to go to a wedding if you're invited?
    • What do you do if you can't afford to go to the bachelor or bachelorette party or to the wedding itself?
    • Is it OK to ask for cash instead of gifts at a wedding?
    • Do you have to bring a gift if you're a plus-one to a wedding?
    • Is it OK to not bring a gift to a wedding?
    • I haven't sent thank you notes for my wedding gifts yet...what do I do?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Cost of Bachelor Parties versus Bachelorette Parties (PDF)


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 39

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    Attending Zoom Parties, Wearing Cummerbunds, Giving Babies "Weird" Names, and More Jun 01, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle wearing cummerbunds, attending Zoom parties, giving babies "weird" names, addressing letters to couples, handling complicated coffee orders, commenting on innocuous social media posts, taking out the garbage, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Cummerbunds
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Zoom parties
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Is it rude to name your baby a weird name? When using first names in a letter, does the man or woman's name come first? How to handle complicated coffee orders?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Commenting on innocuous social media posts, taking out the garbage
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Care packages, #bringbackthehowl


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Army Regulations for Cummerbunds
    • French court stops child from being named Nutella
    • Banned baby names in New Zealand


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 38

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    Orienting Toilet Paper Rolls, Sending Insincere Invitations, FOMOing on Venmo, and More May 25, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this bonus episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about installing toilet paper rolls, responding to insincere invitations, changing RSVPs, declining photos at tourist attractions, making inside jokes on Venmo, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What is the correct way to install a toilet paper roll?
    • A friend invited me to an expensive destination birthday knowing I couldn't afford it...was I really invited?
    • If you RSVP "no" and then later discover you can make it after all, should you ask to be re-invited?
    • How do you politely decline to have your photo taken at tourist attractions?
    • Is it rude to have inside jokes on Venmo?


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Toilet Paper Orientation on Wikipedia
    • Toilet-paper roll patent from 1891
    • Trailer for "Over the Top" with Sylvester Stallone
    • The view from the outdoor observation deck at Hudson Yards


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 37

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    Ordering at Drive-Thrus, Offering Tap Water, Passing Ports, and More May 18, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle passing decanters of port, ordering at drive-thru windows, offering guests tap water, taking advantage of tea enthusiasts, talking in elevators, using smart watches at the theatre, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

    Have a question for us? Call or text (267) CALL-RBW or visit ask.wyrbw.com


    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Do you know the Bishop of Norwich?
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Drive-thru Window Etiquette
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Is it OK to offer my guests tap water? What do you do about people who sat themselves in a restaurant? Should you be annoyed that someone took more than one tea bag?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Talking in elevators, smart watches at the theatre
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: A nice review, a thank you for our transcripts


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Bishop of Norwich
    • Man allegedly pulls AK47 on driver who cut in line at McDonald's drive thru


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 36

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    Using Knives on Salads, Holding Doors for Others, Tipping on Discounts, and More May 11, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this bonus episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about holding doors open for others, liking your own social media posts, cutting salads with knives, getting colleagues to respect your desk space, tipping when there's a discount, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • What is the appropriate time or distance to hold a door open for others?
    • Is it rude to like your own posts on social media?
    • Are you allowed to cut salad with a knife?
    • How do you get colleagues to respect your personal space?
    • Do you tip on the pre- or post-discount amount?
    • Vent: People who stop by your table to say hello at a restaurant


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Awkward Door Holding
    • Blue Bayou Restaurant at Disneyland


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
    • Sign up for our newsletter
    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 35

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    Ghosting, Visiting Renaissance Fairs, Using Hot Towels, and More May 04, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle using towels at a Japanese restaurant, ghosting, dressing appropriately for Renaissance fairs, speaking to flight attendants while wearing headphones, correcting people who get your name wrong, asking about a partner's opinion, visiting crowded museums, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Oshibori (おしぼり)
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Ghosting
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Is it OK to wear a superman costume at a Renaissance fair? Is it OK to keep your headphones on when talking to a flight attendant? Am I allowed to correct people who assume I took my husband's last name?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Getting a man's permission, crowded museums
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Small gifts, a nice review


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Oshibori on Wikipedia
    • New York Renaissance Faire


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 34

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    Receiving Tacky Gifts, Cracking Knuckles, Knocking Before Entering, and More Apr 27, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this bonus episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about accommodating dietary restrictions, knocking before entering public restrooms, receiving tacky gifts, cracking knuckles in public, tipping on credit cards, asking inappropriate questions in groups, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

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    QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

    • At a dinner party, do I have to accommodate everyone's dietary restrictions?
    • Should you knock first to check if a public restroom is occupied?
    • What do you do about relatives who always give tacky gifts?
    • What do you do about people who crack their knuckles in public?
    • Shouldn't I be allowed to tip using my credit card at a salon?
    • PSA: Asking inappropriate questions in group settings


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Teff flour is naturally gluten-free
    • Wine purse
    • What really happens when you crack your knuckles?


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
    • Subscribe and rate us 5 stars on Apple Podcasts
    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 33

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    Making Small Talk, Eating Pistachios, Recognizing Celebrities, and More Apr 20, 2020
    Show notes

    Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle eating pistachios, making small talk, telling people they have toilet paper stuck to them, returning dropped calls, correcting incorrect terminology, recognizing celebrities, handling annoying phone calls, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)

    Have a question for us? Call or text (267) CALL-RBW or visit ask.wyrbw.com


    EPISODE CONTENTS

    • AMUSE-BOUCHE: Eating pistachios
    • A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Making small talk
    • QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Should you tell someone they have toilet paper stuck to them? When a call drops, who should call back? Is it OK to correct people who use the terms "bug" and "insect" incorrectly?
    • VENT OR REPENT: Not recognizing a celebrity, dialing while talking
    • CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Excited fans, new Patreon members


    THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW

    • Judith Martin's "Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior"
    • Bugs versus Insects
    • Our new Patreon account


    YOU ARE CORDIALLY INVITED TO...

    • Support our show through Patreon
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    • Call, text, or email us your questions
    • Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter
    • Visit our official website
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    • Buy some fabulous official merchandise


    CREDITS

    Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

    Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton

    Theme Music: Rob Paravonian


    TRANSCRIPT

    Episode 32

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