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D'Andra Simmons from the Real Housewives of Dallas comes to FCP! | EP 32 Mar 18, 2021

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NEXT LEVEL ALERT!!

This week is NEXT LEVEL with D'Andra Simmons joining us from the Real Housewives of Dallas. The fashion gods are smiling down upon us this week! She is a pioneering businesswoman, skincare expert, philanthropist, and reality TV star. First, we dive into D'Andra's background and speak about the journey that led her to create such a thriving empire. Plus, she spills the tea about her fashion while filming The Real Housewives of Dallas. Did you know that the executives have to choose their outfits for confessionals and reunions? She explains how they decide which fashion pieces she gets to wear and, sadly, which ones get the boot. Tune in as we give our Fashion Week predictions, and D'Andra provides us with the history and current scoop on her skincare line Hard Night Good Morning.

In This Episode:

[03:10] D'Andra starts from the beginning and reveals her backstory.
[14:20] The secret to sales! D'Andra loves to sell – we talk about her extensive background in retail.
[20:50] D'Andra left the retail industry in pursuit of being an actress.
[26:30] We get the scoop on D'Andra's fashion for The Real Housewives of Dallas.
[34:05] Fashion Week is coming up! We give our predictions.
[41:15] As a small business, you have to think about every single dollar. D'Andra speaks about the marketing needs of her brand.

Key Takeaways:

Fashion Week is going to come back bigger and better than ever!
Women dress for women – not men! It's time to pick out your Fashion Week outfit because everyone will be excited to see what you're wearing.
When owning a small business, be careful about what you're giving out for free.
As a brand, step up your social media presence – it can be the best form of ROI.

Bio:

D'Andra Simmons is a pioneering businesswoman and skincare expert who's spent more than 20 years in the nutritional and beauty industry. She's the founder/CEO of the skincare line Hard Night Good Morning and CEO/owner of Ultimate Living InternationalInc. She's also the star of the hit Bravo series, The Real Housewives of Dallas, and the Co-Host of the "I Don't Give a Rip" podcast on YEA Networks.

Links Mentioned:

Hard Night Good Morning

www.hardnightgoodmorning.com

I Don't Give a Rip

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-dont-give-a-rip/id1458890246

Ultimate Living

https://ultimateliving.com

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/dandrasimmons/

Instagram

@dandrasimmons

Who Wears Who with Stylist Holly Chayes | EP 31 Mar 12, 2021

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Are you ready to master the basics of personal style? We are over to the moon to have Holly Chayes join the show – she is a personal stylist and a new part of our posse. First, we dive into the inspiration behind Holly's fashion career. Her favorite part of fashion is when everyone knows who you are just by looking at your personal style. Then, we jump into what it's like having a fashion business during the pandemic and how Holly has pivoted during these challenging times. Plus, she explains what you need to know when revamping your wardrobe. When cleaning out a closet, it ultimately comes down to whether or not her client wants to ditch their stress. Tune in as we chat about Holly's fashion courses, and she tells us what's next on her fashion journey!

In This Episode:

[02:30] All about Holly Chayes and her work as a personal stylist.
[05:00] How clothing is a lens that you can look through the rest of your life with.
[08:20] Fashion during Covid: how Holly has changed her business plan during these challenging times.
[09:50] Holly reveals her most shocking fashion crime stories.
[17:55] Why a client who is open to being their truest and most authentic self is the best to work with.
[20:55] We are so lucky because Holly Chayes has style courses – she gives us the scoop.
[25:30] Look into Holly's crystal ball: she reveals what's coming up for her next on her fashion coach journey.

Key Takeaways:

When you fix your style problems, you start fixing your life problems.
Are you thinking about working with a style coach? The first step to fixing your wardrobe is awareness.
To flatter your figure, dress in a way that feels good to your body.
Are you worried about the environment? The most sustainable choice you can make when it comes to fashion is wearing something that's already in your closet.

Bio:

Holly Chayes is a style coach & consultant helping you build and keep the wardrobe you want. She helps you keep what's working, fix what's broken, and align what's out of wack. From the hundreds of conversations, she's had about clothes and clothing she knows there's no single perfect solution, but rather the perfect style solution for YOU.

Links Mentioned:

Get your free copy of Personal Style Fundamentals: 27 keys to building and keeping the wardrobe you want to unlock your personal style next steps

https://www.whowearswho.com/ebook/

Listen to Talking About Clothes with Holly Chayes here

https://www.whowearswho.com/podcast/

And when you're ready to find YOUR perfect style solution, don't hesitate to get in touch

https://www.whowearswho.com/working-together/

Holly Chayes Website: https://www.hollychayes.com/

Grammies 2022 Fashion Report | EP 30 Mar 05, 2021

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Nobody loves red carpet fashion more than we do! So, what's going to happen with the red carpet during the 2021 Grammys?! Well, we think it's going to be a sad year for fashion history. First, we explain what the "red carpet" actually means when it comes to the Grammys and other award shows like the SAG and the Oscars. Nolan reveals his favorite Grammy look of ALL time (hint: it's pretty legendary). Tune in as we dive into our favorite and our least favorite Grammy fashion choices, including stars like Billy Ray Cyrus, Lana Del Ray, Lady Gaga, and much more - enjoy!

Skinny Jeans Forever & Nolan Hits Texas | EP 29 Feb 26, 2021

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We jump right into the hottest debate that is all over the internet right now: ARE SKINNY JEANS OVER? We both give our hot takes on which jeans we LOVE and which jeans we can live without. Don't miss the latest news - Ella Emhoff and Amanda Gorman signed with IMG Models. You will recognize them from the US inauguration. Plus, we talk about how Alber Elbaz has created a whole new system of dressing. However, we deliberate whether or not Alber is really reinventing the way that the world is dressing. Lastly, Nolan has numerous updates – he's so busy that he feels like Queen B herself, Beyoncé.

In This Episode:

[03:00] We get fashion updates from Vanessa Friedman - the Chief Fashion Critic of the New York Times. Vanessa says that skinny jeans are over!!
[08:45] Ella Emhoff and Amanda Gorman sign with IMG Models – YAS!
[12:15] Alber Elbaz has created a whole new system of dressing… we'll be the judge of that.
[19:10] Nolan explains how he is cashing checks and snapping necks.
[22:30] What Nolan is wearing this week.

Key Takeaways:

Skinny jeans are not out, and they never will go out.
Frame are the best jeans of all time; they're expensive, but you can find them on Poshmark.
Alber Elbaz has a new brand; follow it blindly and trust Alber no matter what!
Modeling is much more diverse now than it has been in the past – we are lucky to have Ella Emhoff and Amanda Gorman sign with IMG Models.

Links Mentioned:

Alber Elbaz for the AZ Factory

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/26/style/alber-elbaz-azfactory.html?campaign_id=40&emc=edit_tz_20210129&instance_id=26563&nl=open-thread&regi_id=80305386&segment_id=50648&te=1&user_id=f213c109dccf1a006f6c26470573862f

Skinny Jeans forever or no?

https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/#inbox/FMfcgxwLsJvLfHdCNNqkjgRjvFKVnVbd

Lagence

https://lagence.com/

Frame-Store

https://frame-store.com/

I Don't Give a Rip Podcast

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-dont-give-a-rip/id1458890246

Quotes:

"Are skinny jeans over? No! It's kind of like saying, are bell bottoms over? They're over, they're back, they're in, they're out." -Holly
"Skinny jeans are my best friend; It's almost like when you are born with big boobs versus buying them. When you're born with it, you don't need to show it off. When you buy them, it's okay that people see them." -Nolan

Our First Arrest: Jessica Kupferman Podcasting Queen | EP 28 Feb 18, 2021

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We are grateful to be joined by a podcasting legend, Jessica Kupferman. She is the co-host and co-founder of the She Podcasts brand. First, we dive right into Jessica's beef with online shopping. Her most significant fears when shopping are looking older, larger, and like wallpaper. However, we have some words for her! Just because someone is a specific size doesn't mean they can't be stylish. Plus, we dive into why it's critical to have work clothes that you feel great wearing. When you feel confident in your clothes, then you'll be more agreeable to everyone around you – it's a win-win! Tune in as Jessica gives loads of fashion crime confessions (dun dun dun).

In This Episode:

[03:10] All about Jessica Kupferman.
[07:00] Jessica reveals her beef with online shopping.
[09:45] When you feel better about your clothes, you're going to be nicer to everybody. It's like your whole mood changes.
[15:50] The plot thickens: Jessica has another fashion crime confession!
[20:15] Jessica thinks there is no good Spanx. However, we reveal a trick that she needs to attempt.
[26:40] Jessica is on the verge of dressing too old. We give outfit tips for plus-sized older women.
[36:30] It's okay to buy costume jewelry. However, you have to learn how to mix costume and real.
[40:05] OMG – Jessica doesn't even have a bag?! We explain why it's critical to have a bag that you absolutely LOVE.
[50:40] Jessica says that we all need to stop worrying about her boobs. Plus, she's excited about having her own style in the future!

Key Takeaways:

There is fabulous fashion in any size. As long as you have a vision of what you want, then you can make it happen!
Buy two expensive pieces a year; it's worth it. If you buy a $600 blazer, you can pair it with a shirt that was $6 and still looks fabulous.
You deserve the right bra, the right underwear, and the right Spanx.
When shopping, think about these things: what will look good on me, what's going to be comfortable, and what looks appropriate.

Bio:

Jessica Kupferman is the co-host and co-founder of the She Podcasts brand, which currently supports over 14,000 female podcasters and has a digital marketing reach of over 55,000 content creators. Her sweet spot is helping podcasters set up systems for growth and training them on how to obtain sponsorship. She also is an internet "Bat Girl" with an odd amount of experience in way too many software services.

When she's not planning the next She Podcasts LIVE, you can find her offering education to independent podcasters on marketing, growth, and sponsorship.

Links Mentioned:

She Podcasts Website

http://www.shepodcasts.com/

She Podcasts on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/shepodcasts/

Jess on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/jesskupferman/

Jess on Twitter

https://twitter.com/JessKupferman

Torrid Website https://www.torrid.com

Eloquii

https://www.eloquii.com/

Asos

https://www.asos.com/us/

Greivy Lou

https://www.instagram.com/greivyglam/

Ashley Longshore

https://www.ashleylongshore.com/

Quotes:

"Style and weight have nothing to do with each other." - Holly
"I'm just excited at the possibility of having my own style, which is stylish and not a mish-mash of nonsense." - Jessica
There's fabulous fashion at any size. It doesn't matter as long as you have a vision of what you want. - Nolan

Couture Week Wrap-Up | EP 27 Feb 12, 2021

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Nolan dives right into his most recent sales trip, where he found some adorable stuff, including the fashion item that he is most addicted to lately. Also, did anyone else make a New Year's Resolution to be more financially responsible? We divulge how that's going for Nolan. Later, we chat about the phenomenal outfits of Couture Week. Tune in as Nolan reveals how Valentino brought him to tears (it's only the second time he's cried at a fashion show), and we breakdown our favorite looks from Couture Week. Lastly, we explain why Chanel was simply BORING this year and how they committed the ULTIMATE fashion crime.

In This Episode:

[03:00] All about our most recent sales trip.
[06:50] There are all sorts of addictions out there, Nolan has a coat addiction.
[12:30] The moment that really changed how Nolan looks at shopping.
[21:00] All of Valentino is stunning – we breakdown our favorite looks.
[25:00] Nolan explains that couture is not about the clothes; it's all about the relationships.
[28:30] We have a few more couture things to talk about – Chanel was simply terrible, and they committed the ULTIMATE fashion crime.
[35:35] Another fashion crime – why are people literally wearing sleeping bags and calling it fashion?!

Key Takeaways:

Shopping is a vulnerable experience; it's a very intimate thing. If you don't feel a hundred percent confident when you try something on, it takes a lot of vulnerability to show someone what you look like.
If you ever get tired on a shopping trip, you need a glass of champagne at lunch – it will lift you up for the rest of your day shopping.
Shopping is a marathon, not a sprint. Take your time, and don't be afraid to take a break.
Couture is about relationships; it's not necessarily about the clothes.

Links Mentioned:

Colorful snowsuits and sleeping-bag coats: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/19/style/wearable-sleeping-bags-snowsuits.html?campaign_id=40&emc=edit_tz_20210122&instance_id=26310&nl=open-thread&regi_id=80305386&segment_id=50038&te=1&user_id=f213c109dccf1a006f6c26470573862f

Valentino: https://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-2021-couture/valentino

Chanel: https://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-2021-couture/chanel

Fendi: https://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-2021-couture/fendi

Quotes:

"I'm going to be in the poor house. Let's be honest; I don't care because I'm going to be well-dressed." -N.M
"You should be able to reach for the stars fashionably." - H.K.

Boston's Best Boutique Paridaez | EP 26 Feb 05, 2021

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We are STOKED to be joined by Allison Daroie of Paridaez in Boston. At Paridaez, every piece of clothing changes into multiple different styles so women can seamlessly transition from any potential setting. For someone who didn't know anything about fashion and garment construction, Allison was able to do enough research and learn from mentors to start her thriving company. Tune in as she gives loads of FREE advice about starting a fashion company. It was an incredibly inspiring conversation; we hope you enjoy it!

In This Episode:

[03:30] All about Allison Daroie and Paridaez.
[07:20] How Allison was able to execute her vision for Paridaez.
[12:40] Allison dives into how she figured out which fabrics to use for her clothing line.
[20:00] How Covid-19 has affected Paridaez.
[29:10] All about the Paridaez masks.
[35:30] The future for Allison Daroie and Paridaez.

Key Takeaways:

When starting a business, do the research and find mentors who you can continuously learn from.
If you don't have the vocabulary, it's very challenging to communicate what you even want; when entering the fashion industry, do your research and learn the vocabulary first.
When starting a business, first sit down and write down your values. Then, make sure you don't deviate from those values.
Starting a brand is a lot harder than you think it is – things won't just come together. Instead, you have to make a lot of mistakes.

Bio:

Allison Daroie is the CEO/Founder and designer of Paridaez. As a former lawyer and yoga instructor, she was inspired to create Paridaez after trying to get ready one day. She had a conservative meeting to attend, but planned to go to a yoga class afterward and then meet friends for drinks. She couldn't show up to the meeting looking like a bag lady and didn't have time to run home and change.

Allison realized if she had clothes that transitioned into looks appropriate for any environment, she wouldn't miss out on doing the things she really wanted to do. She taught herself to design, learned the production process, and then bootstrapped the company to get up and running. Shortly after opening the Paridaez shop, Allison was voted Best Clothing Designer by Boston Magazine and the Paridaez shop won Best New Addition from Improper Bostonian.

Links Mentioned:

Website: https://paridaez.com/ (use code "HOLLYK")

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paridaez/

Inauguration Fashion Report | EP 25 Jan 29, 2021

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We are hitting the fashion game hard today because the idiot potato from the white house is gone, and guess what that means? Inauguration week!

It's the dawn of a new day, and who doesn't love inauguration fashion? We dive deep into what everyone was wearing for inauguration week. Spoiler: there were a lot of winners and not a lot of losers this year. Plus, we take a walk down memory lane and talk about Melania Trump's fashion (crimes). Tune in as we breakdown which designers are a must-have for closets after getting loads of inspiration from the inauguration.

We also discuss the GAME CHANGER designers that the lovely first lady was debuting (who she has now sky rocketed their careers), GAGA in Schiaparelli, Katy Perry in Thom Browne and Madame Vice President Kamala Harris in Christopher John Rogers.

In This Episode:

[02:15] The winning and losing looks of Melania Trump.
[04:50] Why choosing American emerging designers for inauguration looks matters.
[07:40] Inauguration fashion breakdown: starting with the beginning of the week.
[12:55] We freaking love Michelle Obama; we review her fabulous outfit.
[16:10] Fashion is not frivolous. We discuss Dr. Jill Biden's cream flower embroidered custom Gabriela Hearst coat. TO DIE FOR.
[21:30] How the inauguration can completely change the trajectory of a designer's career.
[29:00] Overall, no one was terribly dressed (except Melania Trump – her dress was just SO TRAGIC).

Key Takeaways:

Everybody wants to be a little edgy; however, you have to go very classic at the inauguration itself.
No reasonable person would believe anything Tucker Carlson says.
Purple represents unity because it shows how red and blue can come together.
Sergio Hudson will make his way into your closet at some point soon – watch out!

Links Mentioned:

First Lady Style Photos

Jill Biden's Hidden Message

Lady Gaga Style Photos

Katy Perry Style Photos

Jennifer Lopez Style Photos

Vice President Kamala Harris's Stepchildren Call Her "Momala"

Quotes:

"The only thing I like about Melania Trump, seriously, I can't find one damn thing to like about that awful woman, except for the blue Ralph Lauren suit that she wore to the last inauguration."
"Sergio Hudson will find its way into your wardrobe at some point, because who doesn't want a Michelle Obama jacket?"

Hip-Hop Celebrity Stylist Kris Shelby | EP 24 Jan 22, 2021

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Description:

Today, we are delighted to be joined by hip-hop celebrity stylist Kris Shelby. Kris dives deep into his story and explains how a chance meeting with Tyler Perry changed his entire life trajectory. Plus, Kris reveals the number one song that boosted his career and set the tone for his fashion journey. Later, we talk all about how well streetwear mixes with luxury designers. We are all ready for these new up and coming designers who can seamlessly integrate these two worlds! Tune in as we talk about the importance of staying with your niche, branding, and Kris's future in the fashion industry and styling world.

In This Episode:

[02:40] All about Kris Shelby.
[08:10] How Kris started his fashion career.
[12:30] When Kris met Tyler Perry, his life has never been the same.
[18:25] The famous artists that made Kris big. He reveals the number one song that jumpstarted his career.
[27:15] Kris gives his thoughts on streetwear mixed with luxury designers.
[35:30] Which fashion crimes that Kris cannot unsee.
[40:45] The future for Kris Shelby.

Key Takeaways:

Good people are rare. When you find a good friend, don't let them go!
In the hip-hop world, it's all about gaining trust. Once you have earned these artists' trust, they tell everybody about you.
Once you find your niche for your career, stay in that niche; don't try and do too much or too many things at once.
People are open to new designers more than ever; we need new upcoming designers ready to take over the game.

Bio:

Kris continues to develop and express his artistic inspiration and true eye for fashion. His relocation from New Orleans in 2005 post hurricane Katrina emphasized his desire for a change of pace and catapulted his fashion career in the "dirty south".

Within a year after permanently relocating to Atlanta, he met Tyler Perry and was asked to begin wardrobing at Tyler Perry Studios, where he began to consistently meet individuals like TI, Cam'ron and Jeezy with whom he began styling shortly after. With a unique personal style and aesthetic, Kris has built his client base by working with celebrities such as the Migos, styling the 'Bad and Bougie' music video and is currently working with the artist behind Think It's a Game Record Label, YFN Lucci, Young Jeezy, SB Skooly, Adkunle Gold in addition to many others.

The Art of Fragrance | EP 23 Jan 15, 2021

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If you haven't figured it out already, this episode is all about perfume and cologne. Nolan has a freaky superpower where he can walk by someone and know exactly which one they are wearing. Some are so strong and memorable that you just never forget them. We talk about which ones we love, we hate and which ones to avoid. We discuss how much is too much and if it's unprofessional to wear fragrance at work. Plus, Nolan reveals the biggest mistake(s) you can make when it comes to fragrance. You're welcome.

In This Episode:

[01:45] We give our hot takes on fragrance
[04:40] Is it unprofessional to wear fragrance at work?
[06:00] How much is too much fragrance?
[09:40] The biggest mistake you can make when it comes to your fragrance
[13:40] Did you know that fragrance goes bad?!
[16:50] How long your fragrance should last
[26:00] The best brands for fragrance

Key Takeaways:

Some people consider fragrance unprofessional at work. Be careful how much you are putting on so you don't kill people when you walk in.
Don't spray the fragrance and walk through it; that's a waste and sticks to your clothes, not your skin.
Eau de Toilette is a light fragrance; if you like something stronger, then try Eau de Parfum.
Extrait de Parfum is the strongest concentration of fragrance that you can purchase.

Links Mentioned:

Chanel NO5: https://www.chanel.com/us/fragrance/n5-marion-cotillard/

Tom Ford OUD Wood: https://www.tomford.com/oud-wood/T1-OUD-WOOD.html

Le Labo: https://www.lelabofragrances.com

Santal 33: https://www.lelabofragrances.com/santal-33.html

Baccarat Rouge 540: https://www.franciskurkdjian.com

Dior Perfume: https://www.dior.com/en_us/fragrance

Juliette has a gun: https://us.juliettehasagun.com

Tom Ford Soleil Blanc: https://www.sephora.com/product/soleil-blanc-P406526

Jo Malone: https://www.jomalone.com