Was That Good For You?

Latest Episodes:

Integrating Toys Into Your Sex Life Oct 31, 2019

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This week I had the amazing Dana Savage on! Dana is the founder of Tango, a revolutionary sex toy company that caters to all genders, orientations and genitalia. We talk about the current state of sex toys and the many misconceptions that keep people away from them all together. Plus, we discuss why there is a stigma against men using sex toys and how all of that might be changing thanks to the "eating ass" movement.

Word of the Day: Anal Beads

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Does Body Count Matter? Oct 17, 2019

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This week, my favorite couple Travis Canby and Judy Lovingfoss come on to discuss the stigma behind someone's "body count" aka the number of people a person has slept with. Travis talks about the pressure that young men feel to boost up their "number" in front of other men, while Judy and I explore the real damage that "slut shaming" has done to women and why they often lower their number publicly.

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Let's Talk About Masturbation Oct 10, 2019

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Entertainer, actress, and fire-breather Georgie Leahy joins me to talk about everyone's favorite subject: masturbating! We We also discuss why some people find it awkward to masturbate in front of a partner, why having more sex actually drives women to masturbate more, plus the time Georgie lost her virginity to a deaf dancer.

Word of the day: Anilingus

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How Trustworthy Are Our Gut Feelings? Sep 26, 2019

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This week, Kelsey Hellenbrand comes to the studio to discuss what it means when you get a "gut feeling" in your relationship. Is it always right? And how much trust can and should you place in a person versus yourself? We also talk about times our gut was right, and other times where it led us down the wrong path.

Word of the day: Emotional Play

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The Importance of Foreplay with Nikki Limo Sep 12, 2019

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Nikki Limo, host of the Shit They Don't Tell You Podcast, joins me this week to discuss the spectrum of foreplay and how Nikki was a late bloomer when it came to the act. We swap techniques that we learned from old Cosmo magazine clippings and 1998-era Google, and how we both lost their virginities in the back of a car. Afterwards, we rundown a few helpful tips to be better at foreplay.

Words of the day: Taint

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Calling Women "Crazy" Sep 05, 2019

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This week, my friend and musician/actor Malcolm Cumming joins to discuss the age-old story of men calling women "crazy" and why they feel it's so easy to categorize them as such. Malcolm tells the story of his meth-snorting ex-girlfriend that he feels deserves the title. Debate ensues.

Word of the day: Lordosis

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Is Sex With an Ex Ever a Good Idea? Aug 15, 2019

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Andrew Cramb from the "Where Are All My Friends" podcast joins me to talk the tightrope of navigating post-breakup relationships. We discuss seeing an ex later and hating that they look better than you, the complications with having an ex that's in your friends' circle, and of course answer the ultimate question, is it ever a good idea to sleep with an ex?

Word of the day: Intersex.

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Asking For What You Want Aug 08, 2019

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I had my good friend and Playboy bunny Marissa Luck on to discuss the importance of asking for what you want in every aspect of a relationship. Whether it's emotional or what you want in bed, defining what you expect is important in understanding a person and setting boundaries for yourself. We also discuss times that not telling our partner exactly what we wanted led to misunderstandings or worse, fewer orgasms.

Word of the day: Gräfenberg spot

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Friends With Benefits: Are the Benefits Worth It? Aug 01, 2019

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Sam Miller (writer, sexually active 27-year-old male) joins me to discuss the healthiest ways to set up a friends with benefits situation. I lay out rules I've made for keeping FWBs civil, which, frankly, sometimes still lead to feelings for the other person. Sam recounts one particular time that he was scorned by a friend with benefits, as well as his perspective on the longevity of FWB.

Word of the day: Klismaphilia

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The Art of Sexting Jul 25, 2019

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Today my friend and Playmate Shauna Sexton comes to the studio to discuss the art of sexting. We offer the woman's perspective in receiving dick pics as well as the amount of work that goes into making a good sexy video. Do you have the right lighting and angle? Is Netflix blaring too loudly in the background? All important factors to consider. Later we offer a few tips on the proper sexting etiquette and how men can stand to try a little harder before hitting "send."

Word of the day: Soft Limit

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