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Sex & Relationship Q&A Pt. 2 Apr 23, 2020

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Gabriella Sibaja is back to help me answer even more of your most burning sex and relationship questions. In this part two of last weeks episode, we answer questions ranging from "How sustainable are polyamorous relationships?" to "Should I even be dating during lockdown?"

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Your Sex & Relationship Q's Answered! Apr 09, 2020

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This week, I had Meghan Rose back on the show to help answer listener-submitted questions. Topics range from how to broach the subject of kinks to your partner, if pegging makes you gay (it doesn't), navigating forbidden crushes and so much more!

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The Art of Multiple Orgasms ft. Lacey Broussard Mar 12, 2020

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Women's sex coach Lacey Broussard joins me to discuss her work with women and changing the narrative that women are often plagued with surrounding their sexuality and having orgasms. Lacey discusses using a jade egg to enhance sexual pleasure, using modern and ancient techniques to have multiple orgasms, and how men are missing out on great pleasure by not putting stuff in their butts.

Visit Lacey's website The Multiorgasmic Mama for more!

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Attachment Styles 101 Feb 27, 2020

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Good friend and licensed marriage counselor Bri Ferron joins me to discuss the various attachment styles, how it was probably established in your childhood, and how to deal with a partner that has a different attachment style than you.

Find out your attachment style here!

For more information on attachment styles, check out "Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love."

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Bisexuality, Sex Parties & Performance Anxiety Feb 20, 2020

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Today, my friend Emily and I cover a variety of topics including the trouble with defining your sexuality, finding sex parties on Eventbrite, what DMs they're getting on a regular basis, and their performance anxiety in bed.

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How Trauma Affects Our Relationships Feb 06, 2020

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This week, I had the incredible Jimanekia Eborn AKA The Trauma Queen on the show. They have worked in the mental health field for 12 years, specializing in sexual education and sexual trauma support. We discuss the many ways to define trauma and how it can affect every type of relationship. Jimanekia also explains how to navigate your sexuality and future relationships after a traumatic event.

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Spirituality in Sex and Relationships with Meghan Rose Dec 05, 2019

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Spirituality advisor and tarotscopes writer for Glamour Magazine Meghan Rose joins me this week to explore where spirituality fits into sex and dating. Meghan explains how being able to balance energies is crucial in any physical and romantic connection and how working on yourself is the most important action you can take before trying to enter into any romantic relationship.

Word of the Day: Tantric

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Open Relationships & Modern Love Nov 28, 2019

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Non-monogamy, threesomes and more on modern love are explored in this week's episode. I'm joined by my friend Julia Fae, who identifies as polyamorous, to discuss the best and worst about dating in the modern world. We chat about how the internet has made it much easier to find people that share your kink and how antiquated "rules” for relationships are slowly fading away.

Word of the Day: Polyamory

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The Lies We Tell Ourselves In Relationships Nov 20, 2019

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Music producer Matt Beckley joins me to dispel some myths and lies surrounding the world of sex and relationships: Does playing hard-to-get really work? Is rebound sex the perfect way to get over someone? We break down these questions and use our own past experiences to finally put some relationship urban legends to rest.

Word of the Day: Figging

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Is Cheating Ever Forgivable? Nov 07, 2019

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Today I'm joined by my friend Summer Thomas to discuss why people cheat and how it can lead to trust issues. Summer recounts the times she was cheated on and how she's still recovering from the damage. After that, we discuss what the line is between innocent flirting and full-on cheating.

Word of the Day: Axilism

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