Show notes
What happens when you've done everything you were told to do, built a career, supported your family, checked all the boxes, and still feel like something is missing?
In this episode of Unmute with Priya, I talk with Mike Van Pelt, founder of True Man Life Coaching and American Family Renaissance, to talk about the identity crisis many men experience but rarely discuss. Together, they explore the pressure men face to always be strong, the loneliness that comes from carrying everything alone, and why asking for help is one of the greatest acts of courage.
Mike shares his own journey through self-doubt, losing his sense of identity, and ultimately discovering that purpose isn't found in a job title or success, but in knowing who you are at your core. While this conversation is centered on men, the insights on identity, relationships, vulnerability, and authentic living are relevant to anyone who has ever questioned who they are beyond the roles they play.
In this episode, we discuss:
Why so many men struggle with identity in midlife
The pressure to be the provider and "have it all together"
How isolation quietly impacts mental and emotional health
Why asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness
The connection between purpose, faith, and fulfillment
The importance of relationships in an increasingly disconnected world
Leading your family with presence, not perfection
Finding your worth beyond your career or accomplishments
Connect with Mike Van Pelt
🌐 True Man Life Coaching
🇺🇸 American Family Renaissance
🎙️ True Man Podcast
📖 True Man True Ways: A Roadmap of Discovery to the Masculine Heart