This vs. That

Seeing vs. Believing - Ginny Owens Aug 21, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Ginny Owens, a talented singer-songwriter, author, and Director of Worship Arts and Community Engagement in New York City. We explore the intriguing topic of Seeing vs. Believing through the unique perspective of Ginny, who lost her eyesight at the age of three.

We discuss how Ginny's experience of blindness has shaped her faith journey and her understanding of trust and belief. We examine the prevalence of sight and blindness imagery in Scripture and consider its significance in our spiritual lives. Throughout our conversation, we reflect on the challenges of self-reliance, the importance of weakness in our faith, and how suffering can open us up to deeper connections with God.

Join us for this thought-provoking discussion that challenges our perceptions and encourages us to see beyond the physical realm, embracing a faith that doesn't require sight to believe.

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This vs. That is a podcast of ⁠⁠Anchored Hope⁠⁠. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Modern Identity vs. Gospel Identity - Jonathan Holmes Aug 14, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we have a captivating conversation with Jonathan Holmes, the Executive Director of Fieldstone Counseling and a visiting professor at CCEF and Westminster Theological Seminary.

We discuss the topic of modern identity versus gospel identity, a central theme in his upcoming book, Grounded in Grace, which helps kids build their identity in Christ. We explore the distinction between an identity shaped by self-perception versus one defined by God's words. We talk about the significance of this distinction and why the person and work of Christ are central to how we see ourselves.

Join us for this insightful discussion that addresses the challenges of identity in today's culture and offers valuable perspectives for parents, youth workers, and individuals seeking a stable, secure identity in Christ.

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This vs. That is a podcast of ⁠Anchored Hope⁠. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Stewardship vs. Complacency - Jeff Dalrymple Aug 07, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome our good friend Jeff Dalrymple, founder and executive director of the Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention and Lumino Global, as well as chairman of Anchored Hope's board of directors. Jeff joins us to discuss the topic of stewardship versus complacency. We explore what it means to be a faithful steward of God's gifts in every area of life and how to identify and uproot complacency. Jeff shares his insights on stewardship, drawing from his extensive experience in leadership and coaching. We also talk about the challenges of balancing responsibilities, understanding personal capacity, and maintaining faithfulness in all aspects of life. This conversation is both enriching and enlightening for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of stewardship.

Resources Mentioned:

Every Good Endeavor by Tim Keller

The Gospel at Work by Sebastian Traeger and Greg Gilbert

Redeeming Your Time by Jordan Raynor

First Things First by Stephen Covey

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Destructive Habits vs. Everyday Sins - Rush Witt Jul 31, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Rush Witt, the lead pastor of Paramount Church in Bexley, Ohio, and author of "I Want to Escape" and "Die Hard Sins: How to Fight Wisely Against Destructive Daily Habits."

Rush joins us to discuss themes from his book, specifically distinguishing destructive habits from everyday sins and how we can combat these issues in our lives. We explore how to understand the operation of these sins and the importance of ongoing repentance.

Through personal anecdotes and insightful conversation, we aim to provide a deeper understanding of how to address and overcome habitual sins and destructive behaviors.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Church Hurt: When to Stay vs. When to Go - Courtney Reissig Jul 24, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we explore the topic of church hurt and discuss when to stay versus when to go.

We talk with author and Bible teacher Courtney Reissig about the different perspectives of church hurt—from being a witness in the pews, to causing hurt as a leader, to being the one who is hurt. Courtney shares her personal experiences and insights from nearly 20 years in ministry, highlighting the complexities and spectrum of church hurt.

We also discuss the importance of understanding expectations, the role of transparency, and the signs of an unhealthy church. Join us for an honest conversation that aims to shed light on an issue many have faced but few openly discuss.

Resources Mentioned:

Church Called Tove by Scott McKnight
When Narcissism Comes to Church by Chuck DeGroat
Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church by Diane Langberg
Strong and Weak by Andy Crouch
The Bruised Reed by Richard Sibbes
The Letters of John Newton by John Newton
The Book of Proverbswith commentary by Charles Bridges
Bully Pulpit by Michael J. Kruger
Gentle and Lowly by Dane Ortlund

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Disillusionment vs. Reality - Alicia Britt Chole Jul 17, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Alicia Britt Chole, a wife, mother, mentor, and author, known for her unique and refreshing style that connects with people of all ages. We discuss her newest book, "The Night is Normal," and explore the concepts of disillusionment versus reality.

Alicia shares her personal story, including how her father's view of questions as sacred shaped her upbringing, and her journey from atheism to faith. We dive into the painful but necessary process of shedding illusions to gain a deeper understanding of reality and how this impacts our spiritual growth.

Join us for a conversation that promises to offer valuable insights and a fresh perspective on navigating the complexities of faith and disillusionment.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Tribal Leadership vs. Multi-Directional Leadership - Trevin Wax Jul 10, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we have an engaging conversation with Trevin Wax.

Trevin joins us to discuss the nuances between tribal leadership and multi-directional leadership. We explore the differences between leaders who align strictly with a particular group versus those who address challenges from multiple perspectives.

Trevin shares insights on why multi-directional leadership is essential for the health of families, churches, and institutions. We also dive into Trevin’s background, his ministry work, and the inspiration behind his book, "The Multi-Directional Leader."

Join us for a vital conversation about the complexities of leadership in our cultural moment.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Spiritual Disciplines vs. Religious Scrupulosity - Mike Emlet Jul 03, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Dr. Mike Emlet, a faculty member and counselor at CCEF, who brings his extensive experience and expertise to our discussion.

Emlet offers valuable insights into how we can apply the gospel to those grappling with religious scrupulosity, whether in its extreme forms or more common experiences of an oversensitive conscience. We cover the definition of scrupulosity, its various manifestations, and the underlying issues that drive it.

Throughout the conversation, we emphasize the importance of understanding our union with Christ and how this foundational truth helps address the challenges of scrupulosity.

Join us as we unpack these concepts and learn practical ways to support and encourage those who struggle with excessive religious fears and doubts.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Contentment vs. Satisfaction - Joby Martin Jun 26, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Pastor Joby Martin, lead pastor at The Church of Eleven22 in Jacksonville, Florida. Joby shares his journey into ministry, his passion for evangelism, and his drive to reach every tribe, tongue, and nation with the Gospel.

In our conversation, we tackle the complex topic of Contentment vs. Satisfaction, exploring what these terms truly mean in a Biblical context. We also examine the role of ambition in the life of a believer and how to balance our human drive for more with a deep, abiding contentment in Christ. This episode promises to challenge, inspire, and encourage you in your walk with Jesus.

Resources Mentioned:

If the Tomb is Empty by Joby Martin

Anything is Possible by Joby Martin

Desiring God by John Piper

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Exhaustion vs. Perseverance - Abbey Wedgeworth Jun 19, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Abbey Wedgeworth about exhaustion vs. perseverance. Abbey shares her experiences as a mother of three young boys and a devoted member of her local church. We explore the balance of managing various commitments, how parenting pushes us to our limits, and how that can actually bring us closer to God. Abbey shares her insights into how we can find strength and perseverance in Christ, even when we feel overwhelmed. Tune in as we offer encouragement and practical advice for parents in all stages of life.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Bonus Episode: The Foundation of Anchored Hope Jun 05, 2024

In this episode of This vs. That, we welcome back Jeff Dalrymple, the executive director of ⁠ECAP⁠ and Chairman of the Board at Anchored Hope, as our guest host.

We spend time discussing the core principles of Anchored Hope, focusing on what it means to be both biblically grounded and clinically informed.

Available to anyone, anywhere, and anytime, Anchored Hope aims to provide accessible virtual counseling services both in the U.S. and globally.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Bonus Episode: What is Anchored Hope? May 29, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Jeff Dalrymple, the executive director of ECAP and Chairman of the Board at Anchored Hope, as our guest host.

We spend time discussing the mission and vision of Anchored Hope, a biblically grounded, clinically informed virtual counseling center. We share the story of our journey, how we began, and how we've grown, highlighting our dedication to making counseling accessible worldwide.

We also talk about the personal lives and stories of the team members, giving listeners a glimpse of the people behind the mission.

This episode provides a deeper understanding of who we are and what we do at Anchored Hope.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Rebecca McLaughlin and Ed Welch.

Rebecca and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Bonus Episode: Wise Words for Challenging Times May 08, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we discuss the upcoming auxiliary event at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference. This special event is held in partnership with Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling, two organizations that share a common goal of providing quality, gospel-centered counseling.

In this episode we’ll look at the origins of this collaboration, the benefits of joint efforts, and our shared passion for helping people. We firmly believe that these organizations' combined strengths can lead to a significant impact on the local church and the wider community.

00:00 Introduction to the Special Edition and Event Collaboration

01:44 The Genesis of the Collaboration

03:09 The Importance of Collaboration and Community

04:37 Unpacking 'Wise Words for Challenging Times'

06:03 The Power and Impact of Wise Words

09:37 Panelist Insights: Applying Wisdom in Today's World

13:57 The Challenges of Cultivating a Life of Wisdom

18:07 The Vision and Hope for the Event

23:01 The Role of Community and Friendship in Wisdom

26:47 Event Registration Details and Encouragement

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Rebecca McLaughlin and Ed Welch.

Rebecca and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Political Engagement vs. Political Idolatry - Russell Moore Apr 10, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Dr. Russell Moore, the editor in chief of Christianity Today and author of the book Losing Our Religion: an Altercall for Evangelical America.

We discuss a variety of topics, from the current state of politics and its impact on the church, to the personal struggles individuals face within this politically charged environment.

We also explore the concept of political engagement versus political idolatry, delving into the nuances of each and their implications for our spiritual lives.

Join us for a thought-provoking conversation.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Rebecca McLaughlin and Ed Welch.

Rebecca and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Singleness: Burden vs. God-Ordained - Dani Treweek Apr 03, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Dani Treweek.

Joining us from Sydney, Australia, Dani is a renowned Christian theological researcher, author, speaker, and the founding director of Single Minded Ministry. We discuss her work, which focuses on exploring God's purposes for singleness and equipping Christians.

Throughout our discussion, we touch on the intricacies of singleness within the church and the societal pressures that surround it. We also address the gendered experiences of singleness and the challenges that come with it.

Finally, Dani provides insightful perspectives on celibacy and sexual stewardship within the Christian faith. This episode offers much-needed conversation for both single and married listeners.

Resources Mentioned:

Single Minded Ministry - A parachurch ministry focused on exploring God's purposes for singleness and equipping Christians. It features a resource library with extensive materials on singleness and related topics, available at www.singleminded.community.

The Meaning of Singleness: Retrieving an Eschatological Vision for the Contemporary Church - A book by Dani Treweek that provides a dense, robust exploration of the theological and eschatological significance of singleness.

Seven Myths About Singleness - A book by Sam Allberry that challenges common misconceptions about singleness, offering a biblical perspective that affirms the value and importance of singleness in the Christian life.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Grieving with Hope vs. Grieving without Hope - Tim Challies Mar 27, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Tim Challies. Our conversation centers around the challenging and deeply personal topic of grieving with hope versus grieving without hope.

We explore how Tim's faith shaped his response to loss, the role of lament in the grieving process, and how to navigate the difficult balance between accepting God's decree and dealing with personal sorrow.

This episode is an insightful journey into the spiritual and emotional aspects of grieving, providing listeners with a thoughtful perspective on a universally human experience.

Resources Mentioned

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Frustration vs. Anger - Mark Vroegop Mar 20, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with with Mark Vroegop about the concepts of frustration and anger. We explore how these emotions are often intertwined, and how they can be both righteous and unrighteous.

Mark shares his experiences at College Park Church in Indianapolis and also provides a glimpse into his personal life. We examine the complexities of these emotions in the context of our faith and our responses to a world marked by sin and brokenness.

We also discuss the balance of asking questions from a place of suffering versus a place of demand. Finally, we contemplate how dealing with these emotions requires strong theological foundations and faith.

Resources Mentioned

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Listening vs. Talking in Prayer - John Starke Mar 13, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we have an enriching conversation with John Starke about the importance of balancing talking and listening in prayer. John shares valuable insights from his book, The Possibility of Prayer, and highlights the transformative power of stillness.

As we explore the challenges many Christians face with prayer, John explains the significance of allowing our anxieties and guilt to rise to the surface and how these 'intolerable things' can be healed through prayer.

We also discuss how interpreting and applying scripture can guide us in our communication with God. Join us as we navigate these essential aspects of the Christian life.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Humility vs. Self-Loathing - Jonathan Holmes Mar 06, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome back Jonathan Holmes, executive director at Fieldstone Counseling. Together, we explore the complex topic of humility versus self-loathing. We examine how these two concepts can often be confused and how this issue frequently arises in counseling.

Jonathan offers insightful responses to challenging questions about self-esteem, self-care, and humility, allowing us to comprehend the nuanced differences between self-loathing and true humility. We also discuss the influence of self-perception on our experiences and the importance of focusing on God's voice in our lives.

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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.

Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.

For more information or to register, visit:

events.anchoredhope.co

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Normal Conflict vs. Critical Conflict in Marriage - Dave Harvey Feb 28, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we have a fascinating conversation with Dave Harvey, the president of Great Commission Collective and the author of several books on marriage.

We discuss the differences between normal and critical conflicts in marriage and how to navigate them. During our chat, Dave shares his insights on the importance of humility and clarity in resolving conflicts. We also explore how our understanding of conflict within the context of marriage can be transformed by God's redemption and grace.

Join us as we learn from Dave's experiences and wisdom in managing marital conflicts and promoting a healthier and stronger marital relationship.

Resources Mentioned:

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Authoritarian vs. Authoritative Parenting - Julie Lowe Feb 21, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we explore the topic of Authoritarian vs. Authoritative Parenting. Join us in this conversation with Julie Lowe, a counselor and faculty member at CCEF, as she shares her insights on the distinction between these two parenting styles. ⁠

We explore the importance of understanding the root motivations behind our parenting choices and how they impact our children. Discover how embracing a gospel-centered approach can lead to a healthier and more loving relationship with our kids. ⁠

Tune in for practical advice on fostering a grace-filled environment where authority is exercised with gentleness and wisdom. ⁠

Don't miss this enlightening conversation that challenges traditional parenting formulas and encourages parents to prioritize the well-being of their children above achieving societal standards of success.⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

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The statistics are staggering. 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 7 boys are abused before the age of 18. As Christians who care for the vulnerable, what can we do about it?

The Evangelical Council For Abuse Prevention invites you to the Safeguards 4 Kids Tour with counselor and author Julie Lowe. This event is for parents, grandparents, caregivers, ministry leaders, and pastors who want to gain wisdom and discernment so they can have age-appropriate conversations with the kids in their lives about abuse and threats.

In addition to Julie's presentation, there will be brief presentations addressing human trafficking and internet safety for kids. The Safeguards 4 Kids Tour will include live events in six cities including:

Jacksonville, Florida - March 2nd
Orlando, Florida - March 9th
Webinar - April 4th
Kansas City - April 6th
Tampa , Florida - August 17th
Dallas, Texas - September 21st (Livestream Available)
Washington, D.C. - Fall

Admission to Safeguards 4 Kids is free but registration is required. For more information and to get registered visit: safeguards4kids.org

Sponsorship opportunities are still available. Anchored Hope is a proud sponsor of the Safeguards 4 Kids Tour.

Self-Confidence vs. Confidence in Christ - Elyse Fitzpatrick Feb 14, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into a deep discussion with Elyse Fitzpatrick about the topic of Self-Confidence vs. Confidence in Christ.

Join us as we explore the subtle ways the gospel of self-confidence infiltrates our lives and how we can root our confidence in Christ. Elyse shares her personal journey and insights on understanding our strengths, the freedom found in failure, and the importance of continually turning to Jesus. Discover how confidence in Christ frees us from the pressure of perpetual success and allows us to walk faithfully in obedience.

Tune in for an insightful conversation that challenges our perspective on confidence and identity.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a non profit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. Whether it's $5 or $1,000, we need your help.

These proceeds go to men, women, and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠⁠and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Wisdom vs. Knowledge - Mac Brunson Feb 07, 2024

On this episode of This vs. That, we have a fascinating discussion with Dr. Mac Brunson about the topic of wisdom versus knowledge. Dr. Brunson shares his personal journey and experiences in ministry, highlighting the importance of understanding the distinction between wisdom and knowledge. Throughout the conversation, we explore the definitions of wisdom and knowledge, and how they intersect in our lives. Dr. Brunson emphasizes the significance of grounding our wisdom in the Word of God and seeking guidance from fellow believers. We also discuss the dangers of pursuing knowledge without godly wisdom and the dangers of seeking wisdom apart from knowledge. Join us as we gain valuable insights from Dr. Brunson's wisdom-filled perspective on navigating life's challenges and making godly decisions.

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Resources Mentioned:

God is For You: Learning to Trust God's Wisdom Through Life's Crises

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a non profit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. Whether it's 5 or 1, 000, we need your help.

These proceeds go to men, women, and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Cultural Engagement vs. Avoiding Culture - Albert Mohler Dec 06, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Albert Mohler, president of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.

Join us as discuss the topic of cultural engagement versus avoiding culture, exploring how Christians can maintain their integrity while actively engaging with the world around them.

Dr. Mohler shares his insights on the value of respectful conversations, even with those who hold different beliefs, and how these interactions can invite others to consider the goodness and beauty of truth. Discover the importance of proximity, the impact of the digital revolution, and practical ways to navigate cultural engagement in our daily lives.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a non profit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. Whether it's 5 or 1, 000, we need your help.

These proceeds go to men, women, and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Panic vs. Fear - Paul Tautges Nov 29, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we’ll be talking with Paul Tautges. Join us as we dive into a meaningful conversation on panic versus fear. Paul's personal experiences and insights shed light on the importance of addressing these emotions and finding God's peace in the midst of them. We explore the physical and emotional aspects of panic and anxiety, and discuss the distinction between healthy and harmful fear. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of these topics and discover practical ways to navigate through them with faith and trust in the Lord.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Harshness vs. Abuse - Darby Strickland Nov 22, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we sit down with Darby Strickland, a counselor who works with the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation (CCEF).

We explore the important topic of harshness versus abuse in relationships. Together, we discuss the dynamics of abusive relationships and the challenges in recognizing and addressing abuse. Join us as we explore the crucial issue of understanding and supporting victims of abuse.

Resources from Darby Strickland:

What is Abuse?: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims

Something Scary Happened: Comfort for Children in Hard Times

Domestic Abuse: Help for the Sufferer

Domestic Abuse: Recognize, Respond, Rescue

Trauma: Caring for Survivors

When Children Experience Trauma: What to Do When Something Scary Happens

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Have you heard the phrase that leaders are made and not born? Lumino Global is an international leadership, coaching, and consulting firm dedicated to helping you grow and reach your full potential as a leader. Lumino believes that leadership development is critical to every mission and every organization.

Have you plateaued at your personal or professional growth? Or maybe you have a huge project that you're just trying to figure out where to get started. Coaching is a great way to learn and grow in a highly personalized and confidential environment for personal development.

You don't want to miss this opportunity to walk through life with your own coach. You can meet the team of Christian coaches and learn more about careers, ministries, or executive coaching at ⁠⁠www.lumino-global.com⁠⁠.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Self-Kingdom vs. God's Kingdom - Jamie Ivey Nov 15, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we have Jamie Ivey as our special guest. Jamie is the creator and host of the popular podcast The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey, where we gather all kinds of people to talk about life and Jesus. Jamie is not only an accomplished podcaster but also an author of several books and a worship pastor's wife.

In our conversation, we dive deep into the topic of self kingdom versus God's kingdom. We explore the struggles of wanting to be known and building our own self identity, and the tension between seeking personal glory and giving glory to God. Jamie shares her insights on how she navigates success, the importance of community, and the need to steward our gifts and platforms for the glory of God.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a non profit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. Whether it's 5 or 1, 000, we need your help.

These proceeds go to men, women, and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Readers vs. Non-Readers – Walter Shaw Nov 08, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Walter Shaw, a prolific reader and book reviewer who runs the WTS Reads account on Instagram.

In our conversation with Walter, we explore the topic of readers versus non-readers and delve into the value of reading good books in our hyper-stimulated, fast-paced online culture. We discuss how reading shapes our minds and hearts, its role in our growth as Christians, and how to incorporate more reading into our lives.

Walter shares the story of how WTS Reads got started and offers practical advice for those who may not naturally enjoy reading.

We also touch on the impact of digital technology on our attention spans and ways to cultivate a habit of reading in a world filled with distractions.

Join us as we explore the transformative power of reading and its potential to shape us into the image of Christ.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a non profit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. Whether it's 5 or 1, 000, we need your help.

These proceeds go to men, women, and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to anchoredhope.co/give and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

PTSD vs. Just Stress - Curtis Solomon Nov 01, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Dr. Curtis Solomon, the executive director of the Biblical Counseling Coalition and author of I Have PTSD: Reorienting After Trauma. We delve into a thought-provoking discussion about Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) versus everyday stress. We explore the importance of understanding these concepts, especially in today's fast-paced and information-heavy world. Dr. Curtis shares his personal experiences and insights on PTSD, the reasons behind his passion for this topic, and the inspiration behind his book. We also discuss the significant differences between PTSD and general stress, the importance of recognizing and addressing all forms of suffering, and the potential for growth and sanctification after trauma. Join us for this insightful and hopeful conversation on understanding and dealing with trauma and stress.

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Have you plateaued at your personal or professional growth? Or maybe you have a huge project that you're just trying to figure out where to get started. Coaching is a great way to learn and grow in a highly personalized and confidential environment for personal development.

You don't want to miss this opportunity to walk through life with your own coach. You can meet the team of Christian coaches and learn more about careers, ministries, or executive coaching at ⁠www.lumino-global.com⁠.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ancored Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email at: ⁠office@biblicalcounseling.online⁠

This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Sadness vs. Depression - Christine Chappell Oct 25, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by our friend Christine Chappell. We have a heartfelt conversation with Christine about the important topic of sadness versus depression. Together, we explore how to discern the difference between ordinary experiences of sadness and the overwhelming darkness of depression.

Christine shares her personal journey of being treated for bipolar disorder, depression, panic attacks, and suicidal ideations, and how these experiences have fueled her ministry work to provide help and hope to others.

We discuss the significance of understanding the distinction between sadness and depression and the importance of meeting individuals where they are in their struggles. Throughout the conversation, we emphasize the need for genuine empathy, patience, and a willingness to enter into the pain of others.

Christine's upcoming book, Midnight Mercies, offers a powerful resource for those struggling with depression. Join us as we shed light on this challenging topic and bring hope to the midst of overwhelming darkness.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Anchored Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email at: ⁠⁠office@biblicalcounseling.online⁠⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Pastor as Friend vs. Pastor as Authority - Ryan Ross Oct 18, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into a fascinating conversation with Ryan Ross, the pastor at City Church in Melissa, Texas. In this episode, we explore the dynamic between a pastor as a friend versus a pastor as an authority. Ryan shares his insights and experiences in navigating these roles within his congregation. We discuss the importance of friendship in the church, the challenges of balancing authority and friendship, and the significance of maintaining healthy cross-gendered friendships within the body of Christ. Join us as we explore the complexities and joys of pastoral relationships.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Anchored Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email at: ⁠office@biblicalcounseling.online⁠

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Oversharing vs. Authenticity - Jen Wilkin Oct 11, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into a thought-provoking conversation about authenticity versus oversharing with special guest Jen Wilkin.

Join us as we explore the delicate balance between being open and honest and crossing the line into oversharing.

Jen, an author and Bible teacher, shares her insights on why truth matters to believers and how our motives can affect our sharing habits. We also discuss the importance of wisdom and knowing ourselves in navigating when and what to share.

Tune in for this enlightening discussion on finding the right balance between authenticity and oversharing in our lives.

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Have you heard the phrase that leaders are made and not born? Lumino Global is an international leadership, coaching, and consulting firm dedicated to helping you grow and reach your full potential as a leader. Lumino believes that leadership development is critical to every mission and every organization.

Have you plateaued at your personal or professional growth? Or maybe you have a huge project that you're just trying to figure out where to get started. Coaching is a great way to learn and grow in a highly personalized and confidential environment for personal development.

You don't want to miss this opportunity to walk through life with your own coach. You can meet the team of Christian coaches and learn more about careers, ministries, or executive coaching at www.lumino-global.com.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ancored Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email at: office@biblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Confronting vs. Covering in Love - Joe Keller Sep 06, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Joe Keller about confronting versus covering in love. Joe has been in ministry and leadership development for over 20 years and currently serves as the executive pastor at Grace Baptist Church in Santa Clarita, California. We define what it means to confront in love, and how it involves living in a way that promotes and communicates the truth of God's word. We also discuss the importance of motivation and heart when it comes to confronting others. Joe shares the principle of bearing up under small offenses and when it is necessary to confront patterns of sin that are hurting others or the testimony of the gospel. Join us for a thoughtful conversation about how to love and confront well.

Featured Article: To Confront or Not Confront? That is the Question

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Trauma and Abuse. It’s in the headlines. It’s on social media. It’s also in our churches. We live in a fallen world where Christians are not immune from the effects of sin and brokenness. How can we love the hurting and vulnerable in our ministries well?

The Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention and Gospel Care Collective are partnering together to help equip ministry leaders to respond to this problem. At TGC23 in Indianapolis, we will host a panel event aiming to provide a biblical perspective on these issues, with a focus on the role of the church in healing trauma and preventing abuse. Join us as we hear from long-time practitioners in ministry and counseling, including Jennifer Greenberg, Eliza Huie, Jason Kovacs, Mike Kruger, and Dr. Jeremy Pierre, to make the church a safer place for vulnerable people.

You can find out more and register at ⁠⁠⁠traumainformedchurch.co⁠⁠

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Adultery: Knowing Too Much vs. Knowing Just Enough - Ellen Dykas Aug 30, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we have a conversation with Ellen Dykas about the topic of adultery. We discuss the balance between knowing too much versus knowing just enough when it comes to adultery or pornography within a marriage. Ellen navigates this heavy topic with ease and provides insights on how to evaluate user feedback effectively. We also discuss the importance of understanding user needs and compiling user research methods into a document. Join us for this important and necessary conversation.

Jesus and Your Unwanted Journey

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Trauma and Abuse. It’s in the headlines. It’s on social media. It’s also in our churches. We live in a fallen world where Christians are not immune from the effects of sin and brokenness. How can we love the hurting and vulnerable in our ministries well?

The Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention and Gospel Care Collective are partnering together to help equip ministry leaders to respond to this problem. At TGC23 in Indianapolis, we will host a panel event aiming to provide a biblical perspective on these issues, with a focus on the role of the church in healing trauma and preventing abuse. Join us as we hear from long-time practitioners in ministry and counseling, including Jennifer Greenberg, Eliza Huie, Jason Kovacs, Mike Kruger, and Dr. Jeremy Pierre, to make the church a safer place for vulnerable people.

You can find out more and register at ⁠⁠traumainformedchurch.co⁠⁠

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Healthy Emotional Expression vs. Being Controlled by Emotions - Alasdair Groves Aug 23, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into a discussion about Healthy Emotional Expression versus Being Controlled by Our Emotions with special guest Alasdair Groves. As the executive director of CCEF and a faculty member and counselor, Alasdair is well-versed in the topic at hand. We explore the pitfalls that Christians often fall into when discussing emotions, including the extremes of being defined by our emotions and completely shutting them down. We also discuss the importance of emotional intelligence and how it can be applied in a biblical sense. Join us as we gain insights from Alasdair's experience and wisdom on this important topic.

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Trauma and Abuse. It’s in the headlines. It’s on social media. It’s also in our churches. We live in a fallen world where Christians are not immune from the effects of sin and brokenness. How can we love the hurting and vulnerable in our ministries well?

The Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention and Gospel Care Collective are partnering together to help equip ministry leaders to respond to this problem. At TGC23 in Indianapolis, we will host a panel event aiming to provide a biblical perspective on these issues, with a focus on the role of the church in healing trauma and preventing abuse. Join us as we hear from long-time practitioners in ministry and counseling, including Jennifer Greenberg, Eliza Huie, Jason Kovacs, Mike Kruger, and Dr. Jeremy Pierre, to make the church a safer place for vulnerable people.

You can find out more and register at ⁠traumainformedchurch.co⁠

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Punishment vs. Godly Discipline in Parenting - Jared Kennedy Aug 16, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we sit down with Jared Kennedy to discuss Punishing vs Godly Discipline in parenting. We delve into the distinction between law and gospel, the purpose of correction, and the importance of starting with the gospel in our own hearts before disciplining our children. Jared shares practical advice on how to discipline our children in a way that is restorative, corrective, and ultimately points them towards the grace of the gospel. Join us for this insightful and thought-provoking conversation.

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Trauma and Abuse. It’s in the headlines. It’s on social media. It’s also in our churches. We live in a fallen world where Christians are not immune from the effects of sin and brokenness. How can we love the hurting and vulnerable in our ministries well?

The Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention and Gospel Care Collective are partnering together to help equip ministry leaders to respond to this problem. At TGC23 in Indianapolis, we will host a panel event aiming to provide a biblical perspective on these issues, with a focus on the role of the church in healing trauma and preventing abuse. Join us as we hear from long-time practitioners in ministry and counseling, including Jennifer Greenberg, Eliza Huie, Jason Kovacs, Mike Kruger, and Dr. Jeremy Pierre, to make the church a safer place for vulnerable people.

You can find out more and register at traumainformedchurch.co

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Gossip vs. Godly Sharing - Kristen Kellen Aug 09, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Dr. Kristen Kellen, associate professor of biblical counseling and associate Director of the Doctorate of Education Studies at the Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. We discuss the important topic of gossip versus godly sharing and how to discern between the two. We explore the definition of gossip and its underlying motivation, as well as the importance of understanding the person being discussed. We also delve into the complexities of everyday conversations and the art of navigating them in a way that edifies rather than harms. Along the way, we offer helpful tips for addressing gossip and avoiding the temptation to justify it. Join us for this insightful discussion on a topic that affects us all.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Virtual vs. In-Person Counseling - Curtis Solomon Aug 02, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Curtis Solomon, Executive Director of the Biblical Counseling Coalition, to discuss virtual vs. in-person counseling. Curtis shares his insights on the primary concerns of those who may be skeptical of virtual counseling, such as the role of the local church and the motivation behind seeking counseling. We also explore the sensory and three-dimensional components of in-person counseling that may be lost in a virtual setting, and how to make the most of technology to bridge the gap. Join us for this insightful conversation on the pros and cons of virtual versus in-person counseling.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Longing vs. Trusting God in Singleness - Yana Jenay Jul 26, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we sit down with Jana Jenay Connor, a writer, Bible teacher, and host of the Living Single podcast, to discuss the topic of longing versus trusting God in singleness. Whether you are married or single, this conversation is important and relevant. Jana shares her personal experiences and insights on how to enjoy the season of singleness, the challenges of loneliness, and the importance of investing in friendships. We also delve into the current dating scene and how technology has changed the game, making it harder to navigate the plethora of options available. Join us for a thought-provoking and encouraging conversation on this important topic.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Self-Care vs. Wise Sabbath - Rusty Mckie Jul 19, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we explore the topic of self-care versus wise Sabbath with special guest Rusty Mckie. Rusty is a spiritual director, author, and founder of Steadfast Ministries, which exists to help others stay grounded in Christ. He also serves as a counselor with Anchored Hope.

Throughout the episode, we explore the biblical principles behind Sabbath and self-care, and how they relate to our identity and work. Rusty reminds us that we work from rest, not for rest, and that self-care is about right-sizing ourselves and paying attention to our needs and limits.

Join us as we dive deeper into the topic of self-care versus wise Sabbath and learn how to live a more balanced and fulfilling life.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to ⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation.

If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Releasing Friendships vs. Walking Away - Jonathan Holmes Jul 12, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we sit down with Jonathan Holmes, the founder and executive director of Fieldstone Counseling and pastor of counseling for Parkside Church. We delve into the topic of releasing friendships in a godly way versus sinfully walking away from friends. Jonathan shares his insights on the value of friendship in the body of Christ and why there seems to be a crisis of friendship within the church. We discuss discernment, boundaries, and when it may be necessary to walk away or even run from a toxic relationship. Join us for this insightful conversation on navigating the complexities of friendship in a Christ-like way.

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At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us.

If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today.

In order to join us, go to anchoredhope.co/give and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Deconstruction vs. Discernment - Michael Keller Jul 05, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Dr. Michael Keller, founding and senior pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church, Lincoln Square in New York City, about deconstructing versus discernment. We explore the broad lexical range of the word deconstruction and the importance of starting with assumptions based on scripture when questioning our faith. We also discuss healthy ways to question our faith and differentiate between cultural additives and true biblical teachings. Tune in to this episode for a thought-provoking conversation on faith and discernment.

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Marketeering⁠⁠ - Are you spending too much time managing your website, designing graphics, and trying to figure out how grow your digital platform? Maybe you know you should be focusing on these things, but you just don’t have the time.

At Marketeering, we believe that no brand should lack the creative tools needed to grow and thrive. We can help you uncover what makes your brand unique and develop a strategy for helping your brand stand out from the rest.

Right now, we're offering a special rate to get started that is exclusively for This vs. That listeners. Visit ⁠⁠marketeering.co⁠⁠ and schedule a brand assessment with us and receive 50% off! Just mention This vs. That in the contact form.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Season 2 Preview Jun 28, 2023

In this episode of This vs. That we share a preview of what's to come in season 2.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Godly Striving vs. Works-Based Sanctification - Joel Muddamalle Jun 07, 2023

On this final episode of This vs. That season 1, we discuss the tension between godly striving and works-based sanctification with Dr. Joel Muddamalle, Director of Theology and Research for Proverbs 31 Ministries and Lysa TerKeurst. We explore the motivations behind our actions and the importance of a theology of remembrance. We also delve into the concept of new creation theology and how it relates to the direction we are moving in our Christian lives.

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⁠⁠Women & Work⁠⁠⁠ - Are you a woman who wants to honor God with your life but aren’t sure how your work makes an eternal difference in the kingdom of God?

Women & Work is a faith and work organization that is for every woman in every season. They produce a podcast and countless resources to inspire women to confidently step into their God-given calling and leverage their unique potential for God’s glory.

They also have a new book releasing, Women & Work: Bearing God's Image and Joining in His Mission through our Work and you can preorder your copy today!

Go to ⁠⁠⁠womenwork.net⁠⁠⁠ to learn more.

⁠⁠The Disciple-Making Parent⁠⁠- Do you feel equipped to disciple your children? In today’s hostile culture, you need a strategy for parenting. The Disciple-Making Parent ministry seeks to equip parents and churches to pass the gospel to their children - and they want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ who can stand firm in today's culture.

Their book, The Disciple-Making Parent, has been endorsed by Albert Mohler and Tim Challies. You can get a copy of the audiobook absolutely free. Simply visit: ⁠⁠thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook⁠⁠ to get access.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

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Performance vs. Worship - Shane and Shane May 31, 2023

In this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Shane Barnard and Shane Everett, better known as Shane and Shane. They discuss the topic of Performance vs. Worship and how it's relevant to every believer.

The conversation also touches on the concept of corporate worship and how it's a unique opportunity to lift our voices to God and experience the word of Christ dwelling richly in us. Shane and Shane believe that all of life is worship, and the pursuit of musical excellence can lead us to a path of greater satisfaction in God. They also highlight the importance of eliminating distractions in worship to create an undistracted space for us to see, love, and know Jesus. We really enjoyed this conversation and are excited to share it with you

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⁠The Disciple-Making Parent⁠- Do you feel equipped to disciple your children? In today’s hostile culture, you need a strategy for parenting. The Disciple-Making Parent ministry seeks to equip parents and churches to pass the gospel to their children - and they want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ who can stand firm in today's culture.

Their book, The Disciple-Making Parent, has been endorsed by Albert Mohler and Tim Challies. You can get a copy of the audiobook absolutely free. Simply visit: ⁠thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook⁠ to get access.

⁠Marketeering⁠ - Are you spending too much time managing your website, designing graphics, and trying to figure out how grow your digital platform? Maybe you know you should be focusing on these things, but you just don’t have the time.

At Marketeering, we believe that no brand should lack the creative tools needed to grow and thrive. We can help you uncover what makes your brand unique and develop a strategy for helping your brand stand out from the rest.

Right now, we're offering a special rate to get started that is exclusively for This vs. That listeners. Visit ⁠marketeering.co⁠ and schedule a brand assessment with us and receive 50% off! Just mention This vs. That in the contact form.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Control vs. Discipleship in Parenting - Melissa Kruger May 24, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into the topic of parenting with special guest Melissa Kruger. Join us as we discuss the difference between control and discipleship in parenting and how to navigate the transition as our children grow older. We explore the importance of understanding our own hearts as parents and how to shift from reactive control to proactive discipline. Melissa shares personal stories and insights from her own parenting journey and offers practical advice for raising children who love Jesus and choose what is good. Don't miss this encouraging and thought-provoking conversation on parenting.

She serves as Vice President of Discipleship Programming at the Gospel Coalition. She's the author of many books, including Walking With God in the Season of Motherhood. Her husband Mike, is the president of Reformed Theological Seminary, and they have three children. She writes at Wit's End, hosted by the Gospel Coalition.

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The Disciple-Making Parent- Do you feel equipped to disciple your children? In today’s hostile culture, you need a strategy for parenting. The Disciple-Making Parent ministry seeks to equip parents and churches to pass the gospel to their children - and they want to help you raise strong disciples of Jesus Christ who can stand firm in today's culture.

Their book, The Disciple-Making Parent, has been endorsed by Albert Mohler and Tim Challies. You can get a copy of the audiobook absolutely free. Simply visit: thedisciplemakingparent.com/freeaudiobook to get access.

Marketeering - Are you spending too much time managing your website, designing graphics, and trying to figure out how grow your digital platform? Maybe you know you should be focusing on these things, but you just don’t have the time.

At Marketeering, we believe that no brand should lack the creative tools needed to grow and thrive. We can help you uncover what makes your brand unique and develop a strategy for helping your brand stand out from the rest.

Right now, we're offering a special rate to get started that is exclusively for This vs. That listeners. Visit marketeering.co and schedule a brand assessment with us and receive 50% off! Just mention This vs. That in the contact form.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠anchoredhope.co⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Divine Sovereignty vs. Toxic Positivity - Jared Wilson May 17, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into the topic of Divine Sovereignty vs. Toxic Positivity. We discuss the trending phrase of toxic positivity and its impact on our lives, and why it's important to take a step back and consider whether we're truly trusting in God's sovereignty or just trying to be positive. We also explore the importance of understanding the context and contour of our relationships when ministering to those who are suffering. Join us for this insightful and thought-provoking conversation.

Jared Wilson serves as assistant professor of Pastoral Ministry and Author in Residence at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. He's the General Editor of For the Church and also the author of numerous books including Gospel Wakefulness, The Gospel Driven Church, and most recently, Love Me Anyway: How God's Perfect Love Fulfills Our Deepest Longings.

For a complete list of book and resources from Jared Wilson, visit jaredcwilson.com

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The Missions Course⁠ - We believe God has an important role for you – and The Church – to play in The Great Commission. Don’t know what The Great Commission is? That’s alright! The Missions Course is a 6-week, online study that reveals God’s heart for the nations and invites you to play your part in it. We’ve designed this course to tuck nicely in-between classes, while you’re making dinner, or on your daily commute. Missions isn’t just for them, it’s for you too! Use the code ANCHOREDHOPE to take $10 off your registration. Visit ⁠TheMissionsCourse.com⁠ to learn more and register today.

⁠⁠Women & Work⁠⁠ - Are you a woman who wants to honor God with your life but aren’t sure how your work makes an eternal difference in the kingdom of God?

Women & Work is a faith and work organization that is for every woman in every season. They produce a podcast and countless resources to inspire women to confidently step into their God-given calling and leverage their unique potential for God’s glory.

They also have a new book releasing, Women & Work: Bearing God's Image and Joining in His Mission through our Work and you can preorder your copy today!

Go to ⁠⁠womenwork.net⁠⁠ to learn more.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Self-Awareness vs. Navel-Gazing - Ronnie Martin May 10, 2023

On this episode of This vs. That, we chat with Ronnie Martin, about the difference between self-awareness and navel gazing. Ronnie shares his personal experience with introspection and how he combats its tendency to become all-consuming. From intentional curiosity in other people's lives to prayer and discernment, we discuss practical tips for cultivating godly self-awareness. We also discuss the importance of humility, the role of spiritual disciplines, and taking the first step towards self-awareness. Join us for a thoughtful conversation on this important topic.

Ronnie Martin is the lead pastor of Substance Church in Ashland, Ohio. He is also the author of the Advent Devotional the The God Who Is with Us: 25-Day Devotional for Advent and a co-host of The Happy Rant podcast.

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This episode of This vs. That is sponsored by:

⁠⁠Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention⁠⁠- “Psalm 127:3 says, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord…” Yet, today one in every three girls and one in every seven boys are sexually abused before they’re 18. That’s why Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention was formed.

By implementing ECAP’s child safety standards, Christian ministries create safe places for children and youth to hear the gospel and grow in discipleship, unhindered by abuse.

Ministry leaders! Check out ECAP’s free child protection assessments at ⁠⁠www.ecap.net⁠⁠.

Parents! Contact ECAP through their website at ⁠⁠www.ecap.net⁠⁠ to get a free video resource by Julie Lowe, author of Safeguards.”

Marketeering - Are you spending too much time managing your website, designing graphics, and trying to figure out how grow your digital platform? Maybe you know you should be focusing on these things, but you just don’t have the time.

At Marketeering, we believe that no brand should lack the creative tools needed to grow and thrive. We can help you uncover what makes your brand unique and develop a strategy for helping your brand stand out from the rest.

Right now, we're offering a special rate to get started that is exclusively for This vs. That listeners. Visit marketeering.co and schedule a brand assessment with us and receive 50% off! Just mention This vs. That in the contact form.

This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠anchoredhope.co⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Caring For the Body vs. Idolizing the Body - Lainey Greer May 03, 2023

In this episode of This vs. That, Dr. Lainey Greer joins the conversation to discuss the balance between caring for our bodies and idolizing them. We talk about the misunderstanding of the body in Christian circles and the importance of a biblical understanding of the body. We also discuss how caring for our bodies plays a role in our emotional and spiritual health. Dr. Greer shares her personal experience with an eating disorder and how it affected her mind and body. We also touch on the significance of the Trinitarian view of the body and how it impacts our Christian life. Finally, we discuss how to distinguish between caring for our bodies appropriately and idolizing them, and how to discern when our thoughts and actions have shifted to an unhealthy level.

Dr. Lainey Greer is an author, speaker, and personal trainer with over 10 years experience working in the local church. She holds a PhD in Theology from the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and is passionate about teaching how the scripture addresses the human body.

https://laineygreer.com/

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Resources mentioned:

Embodied: Living as Whole People in a Fractured World - Gregg Allison

Be Well: Learning How to Steward Your Health - Lainey Greer

Fitness Blender

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This episode of This vs. That is sponsored by:

⁠⁠Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention⁠⁠ - “Psalm 127:3 says, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord…” Yet, today one in every three girls and one in every seven boys are sexually abused before they’re 18. That’s why Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention was formed.

By implementing ECAP’s child safety standards, Christian ministries create safe places for children and youth to hear the gospel and grow in discipleship, unhindered by abuse.

Ministry leaders! Check out ECAP’s free child protection assessments at ⁠⁠www.ecap.net⁠⁠.

Parents! Contact ECAP through their website at ⁠⁠www.ecap.net⁠⁠ to get a free video resource by Julie Lowe, author of Safeguards.”

⁠Women & Work⁠ - Are you a woman who wants to honor God with your life but aren’t sure how your work makes an eternal difference in the kingdom of God?

Women & Work is a faith and work organization that is for every woman in every season. They produce a podcast and countless resources to inspire women to confidently step into their God-given calling and leverage their unique potential for God’s glory.

They also have a new book releasing, Women & Work: Bearing God's Image and Joining in His Mission through our Work and you can preorder your copy today!

Go to ⁠womenwork.net⁠ to learn more.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠anchoredhope.co⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Counseling vs. Discipleship - Ed Welch Apr 26, 2023

In this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Dr. Ed Welch about the relationship between discipleship and counseling. We explore the similarities and differences between the two, and emphasize the importance of understanding when to seek counseling versus when to seek discipleship. We also discuss the generational differences in mental health language and how to help individuals reform their thinking about counseling.

Welch stresses the importance of having a wise and loving friend, and suggests that pastors continue to meet with individuals and invite them to speak openly about their struggles. Overall, this episode highlights the need for a culture where it is natural to speak about our needs and to reach out for help, and where pastors communicate that neediness is normal and that we always need Jesus.

We hope you enjoy the conversation.

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Books mentioned:

When People Are Big and God Is Small: Overcoming Peer Pressure, Codependency, and the Fear of Man - Ed Welch

Side by Side: Walking with Others in Wisdom and Love - Ed Welch

Caring for One Another: 8 Ways to Cultivate Meaningful Relationships - Ed Welch

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This episode of This vs. That is sponsored by:

⁠⁠P&R Publishing⁠⁠ – Edward Welch’s groundbreaking book ⁠⁠When People Are Big and God Is Small⁠⁠ has sold more than a quarter million copies since it was first released and has helped countless people in their struggles with codependency, peer pressure, and fear of man. This spring, P&R Publishing is pleased to announce the release of a comprehensively revised new edition. Learn how to need people less and love people more in this important update to a classic work of biblical counseling. Available wherever books are sold.

⁠⁠⁠The Missions Course⁠⁠⁠ – We believe God has an important role for you – and The Church – to play in The Great Commission. Don’t know what The Great Commission is? That’s alright! The Missions Course is a 6-week, online study that reveals God’s heart for the nations and invites you to play your part in it. We’ve designed this course to tuck nicely in-between classes, while you’re making dinner, or on your daily commute. Missions isn’t just for them, it’s for you too! Use the code ANCHOREDHOPE to take $10 off your registration. Visit ⁠⁠⁠TheMissionsCourse.com⁠⁠⁠ to learn more and register today.

Manipulation vs. Influence - Brad Hambrick Apr 19, 2023

In this episode of This vs. That, we talk to Brad Hambrick about the important topic of manipulation versus influence. Brad serves as Pastor of Counseling at the Summit Church in Durham, North Carolina. He also serves as assistant professor of Biblical Counseling at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. He's a council member of the Biblical Counseling Coalition and has authored several books, including his most recent book, Angry with God: An Honest Journey Through Suffering and Betrayal.

Brad emphasizes the importance of recognizing our own tendencies towards manipulation and control, even in our closest relationships, and to instead focus on healthy influence that leads to the flourishing of others.

The conversation also touches on the challenge of navigating media and the importance of being an intelligent consumer, as well as the responsibility of ministry leaders to evaluate their own leadership and avoid crossing the line into manipulation and abuse. By recognizing the importance of healthy influence and the dangers of manipulation, we can cultivate relationships and leadership that contribute to the flourishing of ourselves and others.

We think you will really benefit from and enjoy this conversation.

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Books mentioned:

Angry with God: An Honest Journey Through Suffering and Betrayal⁠ - Brad Hambrick

Making Sense of Forgiveness - Brad Hambrick

Is It Abuse? - Darby Strickland

Proverbs - Charles Bridges

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This episode of This vs. That is sponsored by:

⁠⁠The Missions Course⁠⁠ – We believe God has an important role for you – and The Church – to play in The Great Commission. Don’t know what The Great Commission is? That’s alright! The Missions Course is a 6-week, online study that reveals God’s heart for the nations and invites you to play your part in it. We’ve designed this course to tuck nicely in-between classes, while you’re making dinner, or on your daily commute. Missions isn’t just for them, it’s for you too! Use the code ANCHOREDHOPE to take $10 off your registration. Visit ⁠⁠TheMissionsCourse.com⁠⁠ to learn more and register today.

⁠P&R Publishing⁠ – Edward Welch’s groundbreaking book ⁠When People Are Big and God Is Small⁠ has sold more than a quarter million copies since it was first released and has helped countless people in their struggles with codependency, peer pressure, and fear of man. This spring, P&R Publishing is pleased to announce the release of a comprehensively revised new edition. Learn how to need people less and love people more in this important update to a classic work of biblical counseling. Available wherever books are sold.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit anchoredhope.co and schedule an appointment today.

Diligence vs. Workaholism - Courtney Moore Apr 12, 2023

This episode of This vs. That features a discussion with Courtney Moore about the topic of Workaholism vs. Diligence where we examine intersection of work and faith. We touch on topics such as the glorification of ministry over other forms of vocation, the importance of understanding God's view of work, and how to balance work and life. Courtney also emphasizes the idea of viewing work as worship and offers practical tips for recognizing when you may be working too much.

Courtney Moore is the founder and president of the nonprofit organization, Women & Work, as well as co-host of the Women & Work Podcast. She holds a B.A. in Religious Studies from the University of Mobile and an M.A. in Biblical Counseling from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.

Courtney’s book Women & Work: Bearing God’s Image and Joining in His Mission through our Work is available for pre-order now.

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This episode of This vs. That is sponsored by:

Women & Work - Are you a woman who wants to honor God with your life but aren’t sure how your work makes an eternal difference in the kingdom of God?

Women & Work is a faith and work organization that is for every woman in every season. They produce a podcast and countless resources to inspire women to confidently step into their God-given calling and leverage their unique potential for God’s glory.

They also have a new book releasing, Women & Work: Bearing God's Image and Joining in His Mission through our Work and you can preorder your copy today!

Go to womenwork.net to learn more.

Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention - “Psalm 127:3 says, “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord…” Yet, today one in every three girls and one in every seven boys are sexually abused before they’re 18. That’s why Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention was formed.

By implementing ECAP’s child safety standards, Christian ministries create safe places for children and youth to hear the gospel and grow in discipleship, unhindered by abuse.

Ministry leaders! Check out ECAP’s free child protection assessments at www.ecap.net.

Parents! Contact ECAP through their website at www.ecap.net to get a free video resource by Julie Lowe, author of Safeguards.”

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit anchoredhope.co and schedule an appointment today.

Worry vs. Anxiety - Deepak Reju Apr 05, 2023

In this episode of This vs. That we talk with our friend Deepak Reju about the topic of Anxiety vs. Fear. We discuss the spectrum of anxiety, from low-grade anxiety to panic attacks, and the words associated with anxiety, such as worry, stress, and concern. We also try to highlight distinctions between fear from anxiety and explain the biblical fear of the Lord. The conversation also touches on what Jesus experienced in the garden of Gethsemane.

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Deepak Reju is the pastor of Biblical Counseling and Family Ministry at Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Washington, DC. He and his wife Sarah, have five kids and he's the author of several books, including:

On Guard: Preventing and Responding to Child Abuse in the Church

Pornography Fighting for Purity

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This episode of This vs. That is sponsored by:

P&R Publishing - Edward Welch’s groundbreaking book When People Are Big and God Is Small has sold more than a quarter million copies since it was first released and has helped countless people in their struggles with codependency, peer pressure, and fear of man. This spring, P&R Publishing is pleased to announce the release of a comprehensively revised new edition. Learn how to need people less and love people more in this important update to a classic work of biblical counseling. Available wherever books are sold.

The Missions Course - We believe God has an important role for you – and The Church – to play in The Great Commission. Don’t know what The Great Commission is? That’s alright! The Missions Course is a 6-week, online study that reveals God’s heart for the nations and invites you to play your part in it. We’ve designed this course to tuck nicely in-between classes, while you’re making dinner, or on your daily commute. Missions isn’t just for them, it’s for you too! Use the code ANCHOREDHOPE to take $10 off your registration. Visit TheMissionsCourse.com to learn more and register today.

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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life.

To meet with a counselor, visit anchoredhope.co and schedule an appointment today.