This Is Thirty Podcast

Are We Dating The Same Man? Jul 15, 2024

“They Farrah’d me on the bus, my luggage wasn’t on the bus bro”

“I’m gonna fall in love with a Southern man”

“I don’t care about no London hoes”

“Women always think we are the exception”

****Hypothetically Pod Brunch Ticket Giveaway****

On this episode, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss the recent Donald Trump shooting, the upcoming election, Quatley’s move to Houston, Essence Fest, Hurricane Beryl and much more.

The pod begins as the girls question the validity of the recent Trump shooting (7:00). Who are you voting for in November? (15:00). Quatley takes Houston! (22:00). Essence Fest Fest/New Orleans Recap (29:00). The Greyhound ride from hell (37:00). Are you willing to date a man with a questionable history (cheating, abuse)? (58:00). The pod ends as the girls talk about Tyler Perry’s new film “Divorce in Black” and other general relationship issues.

Friends With Benefits... Apr 15, 2024

“this is why I need to stop being a fat ass”

“I don’t wanna feel like Im stuck with somebody”

“Men are in their sassy era”

“If you fall off, you might lose her”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Kevin. The two discuss black men and happiness, relationships, situationships, expectations and much more.

The pod starts with a conversation around life in your thirties (6:00). Nothing really matters!? (12:00). Friends with Benefits vs Situationships (23:00). Women and unrealistic standards (36:00). Relationship rules and much more (44:00). Whats more important: Love or Money? (51:00).

Run Away Girl, Leave Him Alone... Mar 18, 2024

“What does a 39 year old and 22 year old have in common?”

“God says you are worthy”

“Love does exist, it truly does”

“There’s beauty in safeguarding something for you”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Rebecca. The two discuss love, life, big moves, age gaps and much more.

The pod begins with a convo around the importance of positive energy and its impact on life (5:00) The girls discuss RED FLAGS (10:00) Healthy love after toxic love (18:00). Moving to Texas: The good, bad, & ugly??!! (30:00). Appropriate dating age gaps (41:00). The pod ends with keeping hope alive, the gift of friendship and much more!

A Bouquet of Ass Jan 01, 2024

Here's an ode to leaving toxicity in 2023.

“Dating sucked”

“He want a box of chocolates”

“Yall nxggas gon stop playing in my face”

“Back of the roster”

On this year’s wrap up episode, Gernique is joined by James, Jean, and Pearls. They discuss personal evolution, doing away with toxicity, goals for the new year and much more.

The pod begins with a recap of 2023 (7:00). Saying goodbye to the TOXIC ERA: The conversation continues around creating new boundaries for 2024 (20:00). “I’m not allowing grey area nxggas around me”….The group self-reflects on their own toxic traits and things that need to be changed (37:00). The importance of therapy (50:00). The pod ends with a dating segment featuring Jean and James (74:00).

Well wishes & a prosperous new year! Thank you for listening... still.

#AllStarNeekend | February, 2024

The Idea of Rape Nov 27, 2023

“Today, I don’t want to get out of bed…”

“You don’t gotta go get mugged to prove you’re not racist”

“Paperwork is not proof”

“I’ve dated a lot of men who need therapy”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by her friend, author & entrepreneur Shyla Miles. The two discuss the foundations of friendship, mental health, Cassie/Diddy, celebrity rape culture and much more.

The pod begins with a conversation about the effects of a changed environment (5:00) Shyla and Gernique discuss the evolution of their friendship (18:00) Shyla discusses her works and passions (24:00). The state of the creative market (33:00). The girls discuss mental health and Shyla’s journey with depression & anxiety (43:00). The pod ends with a conversation about Cassie, Diddy and the recent allegations (58:00).

#AllStarNeekend2024

Mr. Don’t Take Care of His Family Aug 07, 2023

“I Don’t Have Female Friends”

“Move With Caution”

"Mr. Don't Got A Job"

“I Thought I Was Going to Pod For Like 2 Hours”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses her recent move to Houston, India Arie’s recent Essence Fest comments, cheating passes and more.

The podcast starts with a recap of the journey to Texas (3:00). Women with weird complexes (16:00). Essence Fest Drama (20:00). Annoying podcast questions (30:00).

Taking My Talents To Houston Jun 05, 2023

“I’m moving”

“Fxck you podcasters”

“Yo Jean what up”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Harry. The two discuss moving, boring podcasts, social media filters, plastic surgery and more.

The pod begins with a conversation about getting out of your comfort zone (6:00). Polo Classic recap (17:00). Texting while podding/Barlos recap (29:00). Ms. JackyOh’s untimely death and plastic surgery (36:00). The pod ends with several conversations around death, family and the term "people of color".

Kids Shouldn’t Die At School Apr 03, 2023

“Killing Someone…”

“Predominantly white schools”

“Mental health struggles”

“Be kind to people”

This episode of This is Thirty is dedicated to the victims who were killed at the Covenant School in Nashville, Tennessee. Learning centers are safe havens for children and dying at school should never be a thing. On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses politics, school shootings, mental health, and much more from an educator’s perspective.

I Hate Love Mar 27, 2023

"Privacy vs Secrecy"

"S/o to black men!"

"You look good you feel good

“20,000 pure listens”

On this episode of This Is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They talk about staying “inside”, feminine vs masculine energy, concert price inflation, and much more.

The pod begins with a conversation about concerts and music taste (9:00). The pod continues with a convo about the benefits of being “inside” (28:00). Female maintenance (34:00). How toxic relationships affect friendships (45:00). The pod ends with a convo about Johnathan Majors recent arrest, physical abuse and women exhibiting masculine energy (57:00).

Put Me In The Game Coach Mar 20, 2023

“Outsourcing d*ck”

“Some n*ggas don’t try”

“You would smash a rock”

“You are a mental manipulator”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo. The two have a discussion on parenthood, fighting for your kids, attraction-based friendship, McDonald’s advertising tactics and much more.

The pod begins with a conversation about parenthood and the lengths parents should go to be in their children’s lives (5:00). How happy are you? (23:00). Can you become sincere friends with someone you were once heavily attracted to? (39:00). The pod ends with a serious conversation about SELF-WORTH and purpose (64:00).

Everything Hurts My Feelings... Feb 27, 2023

“Growing up is not for the weak”

“Dont abuse God’s grace”

“I don’t want that stuff inside of me”

Thank you to everyone who came and/or supported This is Thirty Live! The podcast begins with a conversation about the highs and lows of celebrating birthdays (9:00). Overcoming depressive states (19:00). The power of the energy you radiate! (26:00). Bullying vs Adolescent Sparring: Michael B. Jordan vs. Lore’l ?! (39:00).

Courthouse Me / I’m A City Hall Heaux Jan 09, 2023

"You stood me up”

“I got you on the backend”

“I’m fat and I love myself”

“I look like I’m 7 months pregnant”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo and Quatley. They talk about disappointment in dating, date-day etiquette, Lizzo’s never-ending rants, trauma, and much more.

The convo starts around ‘date day’ etiquette (8:00). Equality amongst genders (20:00). Social media and some of the redundancies that grapple us (30:00) What matters most when it comes to choosing an employer (60:00)? The podcast closes as they discuss Lizzo’s recent comments about body image (79:00).

”Oh, So You Doing The Bending...” Jan 02, 2023

***APOLOGIES FOR SOUND QUALITY, TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES BEYOND MY CONTROL RESULTED IN SOUND BLENDING***

“I wanna be respectful but I wanna be honest”

“Am I weird for being attracted to a little person?”

“Breaking this wall of procrastination”

“What is a BDB?”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls, Jean, and Mr. James Bony. They discuss relationships, disappointments, bisexual double standards, and much more.

Rate your year on a scale of 1 -10 (10:00). What do you plan to be intentional about in 2023 (21:00)? Money, credit & plans for the future (35:00). Why can’t men be bisexual (53:00)? Can relationships that start on shaky grounds truly last in the long run (side chick turned wife, violation of others, situation-ships turned official) (73:00)? Imaginary Relationships (82:00). Episode closes with a conversation surrounding Megan the Stallion and Tory Lanez verdict.

I’m Sorry My DM’s Be Poppin... Dec 12, 2022

“You gotta judge a man by his principles”

“Nxggas gon nxg”

“He is an embarrassment to society”

“I really love my black men, but yall gotta do better”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The conversation starts with a discussion around Diddy announcing his new baby (7:00). REBOUNDING: The good, the bad, the ugly (20:00). Summer Walker’s recent comments about married women being “miserable” (47:00). The rest of the podcast focuses on Christmas shopping and several random topics. Enjoy!

Don’t Rush The Process Nov 28, 2022

**Spoiler Alert** Beware this episode contains spoilers, if you haven’t seen Black Panther 2: Wakanda Forever.. listen at your own discretion.

“Wakanda Forever was trash”

“WTF am I doing with my life?”

“The journey is extremely beautiful, if we allow it to be...”

“Student loan debt don’t count”

The episode starts with a review on the new Black Panther movie (4:00) Navigating loss, family drama and happiness during the holidays (17:00). Painful experience or blessing?! When what you hoped for isn’t quite what you hoped for?! (29:00) Inspiration vs. Influence: The art of not letting the success of your peers rush your process.

F*** Those Horses Oct 31, 2022

“ricardo, ricardo, ricardo”

“to be cheated on hurts so bad”

“and she got me for $6,000”

“some people thrive in chaos”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo aka Mr. International. The two discuss the celebration of Halloween, Kanye West's recent cancellation, gratitude, dating protocol, age gaps, Black Panther 2 and much more.

The podcast begins with a discussion surrounding corporations and their recent disconnections from Kanye West and his brands (15:00). Ricardo and Gernique discuss Black Panther 2 (40:00). Black people, abandonment, generational trauma and much more (50:00). The podcast ends with a conversation about dating (Irv Gotti & Ashanti continued): age gaps, coercion, persistence, dating colleagues, #metoo validity, etc (68:00).

Are You Dumb?! Oct 10, 2022

“Kill yall selves”

“When you don’t know something, just be quiet”

“Some teaching is too close to begging”

“Phone Number vs Socials”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Sherley. The two discuss parental trauma, racism, Kanye West’s antics, and much more.

The pod begins with a convo about “White Live Matters” and BLM (6:00). Hispanics using the N-word: yay or nay (12:00)? Dealing with parental pain and trauma (20:00). Parental traits that you want to correct with your kids (32:00). Social media safety (40:00) Shooting your shot (60:00).

Let Me Upgrade You Sep 12, 2022

#HappyBirthdayZorah

“Why is black twitter so crazy?”

“Nobody asked you anything”

“Some people are weird”

“This person is married....”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss haters (5:00), pharmaceutical agendas (31:00), upgrading your life (42:00), and favorites (55:00). White People Music Appreciation (61:00).

I Need A Break...To Go Cheat Aug 29, 2022

“Don’t Say Feet”

“I Got a Crush”

“Her Grass is Greener”

“I’m Not A Flirtatious Person”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Doodley aka @_Tattedpapii. They discuss fatherhood, prior jail time, Ashanti & Irv Gotti, dating and much more

The pod begins around a convo about fatherhood (4:00). Doodley explains his love and interest for podcasting (17:00). The two deep dive into Irv Gotti's recent comments about Ashanti (22:00). Fast Round: This or That? (29:00) Growing Pains: They discuss coping with the loss of a parent (34:00). The podcast concludes with a conversation about the current state of dating (42:00).

You Don’t Like Black Girls? Aug 08, 2022

“Why are we shooting for dead when we are unsure of the threat, over and over and over again?”

“With my black husbands and my black a** kids”

“Services need to be rendered”

“Would you fly out for the d*ck?”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Ricardo. The two discuss Brittney Griner, race relations, serving your country, cheating, sex tourism / prostitution and much more.

The podcast begins with a conversation about Brittney Griner and Ricardo’s background (10:00). A conversation about preferences turns into a racial debate about treatment, music, and much more (22:00). Dating outside of your race (31:00). Raising mixed children (42:00). The INTENSE RACIAL DEBATE BEGINS (50:00). Fly out expectations ?! (84:00).

Where The D*ck At? (Sex Education Part 2) Jul 18, 2022

"I’m pro choice and pro life”

“Safe sex is the best sex”

“I like spicy talk”

“Love is not gonna get you through all the trials and tribulations”

“This episode is brought to you by September 15, 2022

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss contraceptives, love, sex, boundaries and much more.

The podcast begins with a recap of This is Thirty’s Three Year Anniversary Celebration (5:00). The girls talk about the impact of the overturning of Roe v Wade (11:00). The conversation continues as the they discuss the pros and cons of different forms of contraceptives: condoms, birth control, plan b’s, etc. (30:00). What enhances the vibes in the bedroom (45:00). Toxic Sex vs In Love Sex (53:00). “Freaks get cheated on, too!” (60:00). The Male EGO! (70:00) Maintaining boundaries in relationships and friendships (82:00).

Consistently, Inconsistent... Jun 27, 2022

“Buy the rest of the tickets”

“I’m in ATL heaux”

“I always wanna understand these n*ggas”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique talks about her why Father’s Day was difficult this year (5:00), some new changes in her life (23:00) and the connection between daddy issues and taste in men (28:00).

Got Babies On The Way.... Jun 13, 2022

"dropping plan b's like they're vitamins"

"yall are nasty n*ggas"

"Access diluted a lot of sh*t"

"N*iggas gotta stop doing boyfriend sh*t"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Jean (of "If You Don't Say It, We Will" podcast). The two discuss dating and fatherhood, age gaps, matching energy and much more.

The podcast starts as they discuss Jean's step into fatherhood (6:00). Dating and fatherhood: yay or nay?(13:00) Intentional Dating (21:00) This or That? (32:00). Communication & Dating (43:00).

Love In The Club?! Jun 06, 2022

“Yall drop those guns off in the hood, on purpose”

“White people need to stop making decisions for everybody”

“It’s the freedom for me”

“S/o to all my spice girl fans”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss alcohol consumption, gun violence & mental health, pride month, and unusual places to get it in.

The podcast begins with a convo surrounding bars and their inconsistent pricing and how alcohol consumption/choices have changed after thirty (5:00). The pod continues around gun violence, political unrest, racial representation and government ties (22:00). America needs to stop commercializing our culture (36:00). How do you go about explaining PRIDE to kids (44:00)? SPICE UP YA LIFE: Tired of the bedroom? Alternative spots to get it in (53:00).

Black Men Cry Too... May 23, 2022

“Love is a bill. Can you afford me?”

“If you can’t check your n*gga, that’s not your n*gga”

"It’s very important to not give a f*ck"

"Existing is expensive"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Dwight “Juice” Jones and Quatley. They go in-depth about #GetHomeSafe, mental health, relationships, maintaining adulthood in the face of parentals and much more.

The podcast begins as they discuss Dwight’s background and interest in mental wellness (10:00). The conversation continues as they discuss transitioning to true adulthood while still being respectful to [our] parents (19:00). Dwight opens up about losing an ex to suicide (34:00). The group talks about the realities of dealing with depression [for the depressed and those around] (50:00). Podcast ends with a convo about the dating streets (78:00).

”Get Yo Fat A** Off My Line” May 09, 2022

“God is good”

“I could not get down with Kevin Samuels”

“The new response to things we don’t like should be silence”

“Men lie, women lie… numbers don’t”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses Mother’s Day, Kevin Samuel’s untimely death (13:00), minority on minority discrimination (21:00), boycotting a new restaurant (24:00), and This is Us being an exceptional show (39:00).

Three Year Anniversary: July 1st, 2022 (Secure Your Spot, now!!)

You Can’t Control Who You Love May 02, 2022

“Redundant trauma”

“When is spring gonna start springing?”

“That’s how blind we be for these men”

“Nobody looked at this and said chill out

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses the 3 year anniversary celebration that is scheduled to take place on July 1, 2022. She also discusses Viola Davis’ portrayal as Michelle Obama,, coping with heavy emotions, spring break, and the issues she finds with season 2 of Bridgerton.

Fumbling vs. Fate ?! Apr 25, 2022

“It takes money to date”

“It’s giving vacuum”

“Reciprocation is normal”

“We fumbled each other”

“I don’t want to see you happy for at least 3 years”

On this short and sweet episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Geraldine. The two discuss reciprocity during the dating phase, fumbling the love of your life, career changes and much more.

The pod begins as the two discuss (6:00) "pick me" women. They also discuss reciprocity during the dating phase. They continue by talking about finances and dating (13:00) Have you ever been fumbled by someone you seriously considered a future with? (22:00) Men settle more than women do! (30:00) Is this the end of This is Thirty….?!? (38:00). The podcast ends with a convo about future goals, career moves, and the 3 year anniversary celebration for This is Thirty podcast.

You Gotta Be Careful With Your Hurt Apr 04, 2022

"I’m tired of going through it with the wrong person"

"saving the pain for tomorrow"

"generational trauma is real"

"You broke me, n*gga…"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They discuss growing pains, sadness, crazy men, and more.

The pod begins as they discuss areas in which they have established consistent growth (8:00). Areas that we just can’t seem to get right: men, diets, etc. (12:00) How do you cope with sadness? (20:00) Triggers, triggers and more triggers (30:00). Rebuilding trust once it’s been broken…. (40:00). Burning & Returning Question: Why do men want to maintain access with you after they have let you down or hurt you? (48:00). Promise you…THE LAST FIVE MINUTES ARE FUNNY AF! S/O to Dolph.. it's all love.

Casual Sex Mar 28, 2022

"Stimulate my mind"

"The only thing better than p*ssy is new p*ssy"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Dolph. They discusss Kevin Samuels' narratives, gender roles, the streets and much more.

The podcast begins as they discuss Dolph's role as Kevin Samuel's Jr. (6:00). The pod continues as they discuss the benefits of women equality and black girl magic (24:00). Women need to occupy all spaces (36:00). The pod takes a turn as the two discuss gender roles and their importance (45:00). From a married perspective, Dolph addresses the climate of "the streets" (73:00). The beauty of love and marriage (80:00). The pod concludes as Dolph provides advice to singles who are still looking for love.

The Streets Will Never Be For Me Mar 21, 2022

“She just left him for the tenth time”

“I was kept in the parking lot”

“Ya'll are getting scammed on the daily”

“I had just been introduced to a f-boy”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. They reflect on life, relationships, dealbreakers and much more.

The podcast starts with a first quarter life-check in (6:00). Next, the two discuss some factors that keep the ’30 and over’ crowd living at home (14:00). Do you remember the time? Gernique and Quatz look back at year 27: love, life, friendships, finances, etc.(26:00) “Niggas will park you” (43:00). Dealbreakers in friendships and relationships (53:00).

My Husband Is Not At Empire Mar 07, 2022

“I’m not scouting for n*ggas outside”

“Choose me every single day”

"I ain't tryna see the same people every week”

“Women always have time for love.. [men not so much]”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Keisha. The two discuss Women’s History Month, life as educators, social media transparency and much more.

The podcast begins with a conversation about the importance of Women’s History Month (10:00). At the (15:00) mark, they discuss their roles as educators, what they love and some of the challenges that they have faced over the years. Dating, manifesting new love, and inner-work (41:00). The pod comes to a close as the ladies discuss social media transparency (71:00).

Pushing (P)regnancy Feb 28, 2022

“Prayers for Ukraine”

“Exuding black excellence on a daily basis”

“Men like to have a plethora of good women on reserve”

“To keep bothering me when you know you don’t want me is wild”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses men who fumble good women, books, staying inside & its benefits and much more.

The podcast starts with a birthday recap (7:00). “One person is celebrating, one person is mourning” (14:00). Being inside is good for my bank account (17:00). Why do you men keep fumbling good women? And, why do they like to keep good women in the tuck? (22:00). Gernique talks in detail about writing for Funk Flex and why gossip journalism wasn’t for her.(37:00) Lastly, Gernique discusses the beauty of the new cast of “Belair” and the difference between including black people naturally vs using black people as caricatures for viral moments (44:00).

These N***as Are For Everybody Feb 14, 2022

“I had my fun”

“White people are weird with hair”

“Are you trying to make me your concubine?”

“The bloom of a field”

After a month, This is Thirty returns. Gernique is joined by Quatley and the two discuss Valentine's Day, black history, black hair and much more.

The podcast begins as Gernique discusses the technical difficulties she's experienced with not recording. Then, the girls talk about the importance of Black History (10:00). The convo continues on whether or not a month is enough for Black History (17:00). Do you like your hair ? The girls talk about learning to embrace their natural hair, protective styles and treatment based on hairstyles (35:00). At the (65:00) mark the girls talk about Valentine's Day and why self-love extremist SUCK!

The conversation closes with a question... How do gender roles work in homosexual relationships? (continued... next week)...

Huggin on Hoes Jan 10, 2022

“I don’t want to be blinded by my own blindspots”

“You n*iggas lie…”

“I have helped plenty a n*gga”

“This is quality content, people”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Nicaela. The two discuss single life, toxicity, cheating, break babies and much more.

The podcast begins as the ladies discuss the single life.. ups and downs.. (9:00). The beauty of being single (23:00) Why are the dating streets so scary (28:00). What toxic trait do you need to let go of before your next relationship? (38:00). The issue with men like Tristan Thompson (54:00). What’s your issue with cheating (63:00). Cheating vs. Embarrassment (69:00) The ladies revisit opposite sex friendliness amongst those who are in relationships (86:00). Changes in your attraction in men as you age (96:00).

”Married Men In My DMs...” Jan 02, 2022

"I let love down"

“He got the coin”

“What is your purpose in love?”

“Thoughts and reality are two different things”

On this episode wrap up of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Jean, Pearls and Mich. The group talk about 2021, relationships, cheating, pop culture and much more.

The podcast begins as the group discuss the biggest L they took this year (8:00). The biggest W taken in 2021 (23:00). Favorites in 2021 (28:00) Insecure Recap: Why does this show mean so much to us? (39:00). SPICY HOUR: You cannot make any new friends of the opposite sex while you with me !!! (61:00) Top 3 red flags and green flags (78:00).

Catch (Part Two) on the If You Don’t Say it We Will podcast.

Close Your Mouth Dec 27, 2021

“Changing the name of the pod to “This is Mommy.. This is Wife”

“Do broke men get to have an opinion?”

“I really don’t trust America”

“Christmas as a single”

On this episode of This is Thirty… Gernique talks about racism, disrespecting your partner in public, Jay-Z verzuz and much more.

The podcast begins with a recap of Christmas (5:00). Dirty Laundry: Gernique talks about her white neighbor’s threat to call the cops on her (13:00). Being nosy in public (26:00). Is it okay to disrespect your man if he’s broke and not contributing to anything? (34:00). Staying friends with your ex: yay or nay? (40:00). The pod ends with a HOV RANT! Actually, the pod ends with a WIFE and MOMMY rant.

I Don‘t Wanna Cry.... Dec 06, 2021

"I know yall probably noticed the change in the show”

“It’s like God’s promise to me”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique celebrates making it to 100 episodes.

She talks about changes in the pod. S/O to James Bony!

She also cries, lol.

Thanks for your support and for listening, #100episodes

Sex Education Nov 15, 2021

“I do buss it wide open”

“I have little girl syndrome”

“If you’re not pleasing me, I’m cheating”

“Lets talk about sex, baby”

On this episode of This Is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two have an interesting conversation about sex, preferences, bedroom boundaries, turn offs and much more. Introduction to sex (13:00). Could you be celibate before marriage ? (22:00). Favorite positions (34:00). Has maturing had an effect on your sex drive? (49:00). This or that! (54:00) The rest of the pod is filled with convos about foreplay, frequency, ovulation and much more.

Enjoy, this once in a lifetime audio experience.

Surviving Covid Nov 01, 2021

“A nonchalant guy is dangerous”

“I had covid”

“My self worth is attached to my productivity”

“I’m not a fan of things getting stuck in me”

On this episode of This is Thirty Gernique is joined by Quatz. They discuss Gernique’s recent covid experience, dating taste, toxicity and much more.

“I tested positive” (5:00). Vaccine Talk (19:00) Taste in men and friendships changing as you mature (31:00) Do looks really matter? (45:00)

I Love Black Men... Oct 11, 2021

A special episode solely dedicated to the black man. On this episode, Gernique talks about ALL the reasons why black men are worthy and worthy to be celebrated…everyday.

Dear Black Men:

This system was designed to destroy you. This world does not love you as much as it should. You are expected to LOVE the loudest while receiving the least emotional support. You are complex and multi-faceted. One size does not fit all. You are not told enough how much you matter. You are not allowed to be different. Instead of waiting for another unfortunate hashtag… I’m sending love your way today… Continue to be great!

With So Much Love & Admiration, Gernique.

Heard You Sis... Oct 04, 2021

"I don't want to be on these streets when I’m 42"

“You know within 6months to a year”

“Rent is expensive”

“Ima black girl”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They discuss dating, productivity, self-care, soulmates and much more.

(8:00) Being Productive vs. Being Busy (15:00) Perfection Syndrome (24:00) Can being clear on your intentions scare someone away? (32:00) “If a woman says, “she doesn’t want to waste her time” it doesn’t mean she wants to marry you tomorrow bro”…. (40:00) Is finding a soulmate after 30 still necessary? (49:00) Things white people never have to worry about…..

Cuffing Season... Sep 27, 2021

“I hope they clearing my student loans”

“Passion is not fact”

“Cuff me to the bed”

“You don't have to spend a dime, if a girl really likes you”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Geraldine. The two discuss Haiti & immigration practices, tricking, cuffing season, dating and much more.

The podcast begins with a convo about (8:00) Haiti and the recent mistreatment witnessed at the Del Rio border. (14:00) Is Joe Biden upholding his presidential promises thus far? (23:00) What exactly is cuffing season? Geraldine & Gernique provide two very different definitions of cuffing season. (31:00) Tricking vs. Effort (40:00) Chasing vs. Pursuing (50:00) How to get the girl!?

Baby Fever Sep 13, 2021

“Impregnate me”

“I will not spend money on food this week”

‘When I don’t have money, I am not happy”

“Pierreline don’t shoot me”

On this episode Gernique talks about baby fever, the importance of marrying a black man, making sure your passions don't take more than they give and much more.

The podcast starts with a convo about (5:00) dreams vs 9-5. Baby fever is extremely real (12:00) The beauty of the 90s (18:00). Why is it so hard to save? (25:00). “The beauty of a black man” & dark skin complex (35:00). 100th episode celebration ideas?! (40:00).

Banking On Potential Aug 30, 2021

“Authenticity is attractive”

“I am not attracted to entrepreneurs”

“Stay @ home daddies”

“You can set trends by being yourself”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss lifestyle changes, career & retirement funds, dating a good man with potential, being yourself and much more.

The podcast begins as the two discuss experiencing career changes in your thirties (10:00). Unequally yoked financially!? Successful women dating men who have not yet "arrived"(18:00). Why does a double standard exist with successful men and women who have not "arrived" (30:00). The importance of living in your truth and not allowing social media expectations to alter your behavior & choices (38:00). Gernique gives Spliff Star his flowers and talks about the importance of playing your position (54:00).

"Social media has inadvertently taught us that if you are not the STAR, you are not important… and THAT IS A LIE”

Book Drive #tellafriend

Survivor's Guilt Aug 23, 2021

“I do not like light liquor”

“You gon make a hoe out of me”

“Sometimes, there’s beauty in the unknown”

“The streets have me scurred”

On this episode, Gernique recaps her recent Mexico trip (2:00). Don’t take life for granted (9:00) When did concerts get so expensive? (13:00). Every black man needs to read “Concrete Rose” (19:00). Breaking a woman’s heart is not funny (26:00) Relationship Status & Social Media Frontin’ (30:00).

Speaking Of Babies... Aug 09, 2021

"no cappin"

"jump his bones"

"shame on me for changing, shame on you for staying the same"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss cancel culture, vaccination incentives, internet influencers, sexual maturity and much more.

The podcast starts with a balanced conversation about the covid vaccination (11:00). The girls have a convo about "selective cancel culture" because all celebrities are definitely not created equal (24:00). Dangers of social media influence (47:00). Gernique responds to comments that were made on the most recent episode of the "If you don't say it, we will" podcast (53:00). Lastly, the pod takes a turn as Pearls and Gernique discuss childhood insecurities and their effects on sexual decisions.

Outside Fatigue Jul 19, 2021

Anybody else need a break from outside?!

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses why racial harassment and discrimination should be a crime (6:00). In 2021, is sex the only way female musicians can sell music? Cardi B & Normani’s new song + video (15:00). Health over Pleasure: Eating Right, Listening To Your Body, & Adult Acne (24:00) Why are rich men not ashamed of being dead beat fathers [DaniLeigh & DaBaby] (31:00).

"Wrap It Up”

“Don’t lose sight of your destination”

“It’s 2021, why are you still a deadbeat dad?”

"Why are they still pandering to white women?"

You've Never Had A One Night Stand? Jul 12, 2021

“Das my homegirl”

“The box may be too deep”

“You and your dusty friends”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Mich aka LifeisGreat of the #ifyoudontsayitwewill podcast. The two discuss solo trips, the Iive podcast, practicing abstinence before marriage, social media rules and more. They also address several questions that weren’t able to be answered at the live show.

(6:00) The podcast begins as Gernique discusses the importance of solo trips. (12:00) Should we be grinding or living our best lives in our thirties? (14:00) Why do men play games? (20:00) When is the right time to move in with your partner? (22:00) Why do men continue to sleep with women they have no intentions of being with? (30:00) Does size matter? (40:00) Healing before relationships. (60:00) Bills and splits the never-ending convo?!

Where Yo Man At ?! Jun 28, 2021

“Nah Dawg”

“I am not one for the situationship”

“Its something about an up north n*gga that I like”

“What has your single season taught you?”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Nicaela. The two talk about taking back gifts after a breakup, approaching 30 (8:00), unhealthy social constructs (15:00) tension in the workplace (22:00) leaving New Jersey (30:00), single season, situationships, dating and much more (40:00).

2 Year Anniversary Live Podcast | July 1, 2021 | Dava Lounge: Union, NJ

Shop Urban Aesthetics @urbanaestheticsacessories on IG

Like Single, Single...?! Jun 21, 2021

“Do father’s get the respect they deserve?”

“Running the streets ain’t as fun as it seems”

“Girls are like buses, miss one next 15 one coming”

“New Life, Who This”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Vee. They talk about about fatherhood (8:00). They also discuss Vee’s role as an educator (12:00). Let’s talk about the streets and much more! (20:00).

#HappyBirthdayPearls

2 Year Anniversary: Live Podcast July 1, 2021 @ Dava Lounge, Union, NJ

Why Do We Ignore The Red Flags? Jun 13, 2021

“Water me and watch me grow baby”

“Yall keep giving us henny”

“Butterflies & lies”

“Rock my world, flip me over”

On this episode of This is Thirty podcast, Gernique is joined by Sherley. The two talk about entrepreneurship, financial literacy, dating and much more.

The show starts as the girls recap Sherley’s recent Fashion Show (6:00). Why were the 80s and early 90s babies late to the financial literacy train? (15:00). Guilt trippin over the beginning stages of entrepreneurship: getting paid for your passion!! 25:00). A special s/o to my brother on getting married (30:00) Relationship Talk: Do we really [only] deserve our equals? (36:00). Issues with Dating (43:00)

I Know It Hurts... Jun 07, 2021

"Vacationships sound like escorts for travel"

"My mind is telling me no, but my body is telling me yes.."

"I don't want to have to pull out my two masters card, but I will if I have to"

"What's for you will always be for you..."

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by friend of the show Quatley. Quatley finally shares her POV on her Miami edible experience (6:00). Tipsy Chronicles (16:00). HATERATION AT WORK: Why are [some] older women so petty when it comes to collaborating with younger qualified women in the work place? (20:00) Wise words from a retired hater (36:00). Vacationships: Yay or Nay?

He Put It Down May 31, 2021

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique talks about the art of interviewing and some of her inspirations (5:00). She talks about the latest episode of the Shop featuring Jay-Z (11:00). Are you feeling DMX’ new album Exodus? Gernique shares why she thinks rushed posthumous albums should not happen! (17:00) A serious conversation about Charlamagne's audio account of drugging a woman & having sex with her, date rape, toxic male behavior, apology-driven attitudes and much more. (22:00)

Tell A Friend!

2 Year Anniversary Live Podcast: July 1st @ Dava Lounge Union, NJ

I Need Me A Scammer Bae May 24, 2021

"They make it when you got the coin"

"What's big sweetie?"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They discuss their recent trip to Miami (6:00). An edible experience worth remembering (17:00). They also discuss scammer lifestyles (26:00) and much more!

2 Year Anniversary: Live Podcast - July 1, 2021

Happy Vibes...Happy Wives...Happy Lives May 10, 2021

On this is episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and Quatz talk ALL about friendship! Sometimes friendship can get complicated. This week the girls discuss dating amongst friends, off limit situations and much more.

The podcast begins as the two recap the SWV / Xscape Verzuz (5:00). Hot Girl Summer Update (13:00). Yay or Nay: Should friends of the opposite sex go on fancy date nights (20:00)? “I like him, but he likes you…. What to do?? (28:00). Friendship Do’s & Dont’s…Bragging vs Reminding: What is the difference? (44:00).

"Groceries Is Expensive" Apr 26, 2021

"Hit the play button"

"Where is Rory and Mal?"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses social media cap, normalizing not normalizing, Coldest Winter Ever sequel preview, and Kevin Samuels.

(6:00) The podcast begins around the discussion Smoking Mirrors: believe half of what you see. (12:00) Sister Souljah's latest book - Yay or Nay?! (20:00) Kevin Samuels x JBP review.

You Still Cheating On Me, Bro? Apr 19, 2021

"Rated M for Mature"

"Rich N*gga, 8 Figure, That’s My Type"

"Some of yall are not picky enough"

"I need the cheese and the chedda"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by her friend Geraldine. They address Black Rob’s passing, never ending racism in America, men, their lack of preferences, and much more.

(5:00) The podcast begins surrounding the recent killing of Daunte Wright, the mishandling of Lt. Caron Nazario and more current events regarding race. (15:00) Gernique and Geraldine address their non physical attractions. They also address the Game’s recent comments about men and financial responsibilities. (25:00) Men that are for EVERYBODY and why we hate them! (41:00) Vacation Season + Hot Girl Summer = It’s Lit

Gettin My Bark On... Apr 12, 2021

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. They have an in depth conversation about DMX and his influence, hot girl summer, living in your truth, religious folk and much more.

(2:00) The podcast begins as Gernique and Quatz look back at DMX's impact and unfortunate death. (8:00) Gernique and Quatz share some personal struggles they have experienced in their spiritual walk. (22:00) The dangers of obsessive guilt trippin'. (33:00) The value of waiting for your breakthrough before trying to make an impact (38:00) STORY-TIME!

The P Word Apr 05, 2021

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Jean and Frances. They discuss DMX, drugs, fluidity amongst men and women, Quavo & Saweetie, Derrick Jackson and much more.

The podcast begins as the three discuss (10:00) drug culture and media’s influence. (18:00) Next, they discuss whether or not one encounter with the same sex categorizes a person as homosexual. (21:00) Double standards amongst genders and experimentation. (33:00) They address Saweetie and Quavo’s elevator scuffle. (44:00) Do popularity/status and cheating go hand in hand?

#JessicaSurvivedIt Mar 09, 2021

..."them damn Pisces"

..."the streets are not for me"

..."It's a humbling experience"

...."follow your dreams, show up & show out"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Jessica Louis. The two discuss tragedy, new normals, men and commitment, business ventures and much more.

(6:00) The show begins as the horrific events of March 9, 2019 are recapped. (13:00) Jessica addresses some challenges that she currently faces due to her new normal as an amputee. (20:00) An update on the After Glow Foundation. (30:00) Jessica discusses JessSOBlessed Kitchen and her love for cooking. (45:00) Everyone's favorite game: Word Association! (53:00) The Streets: Men, Commitment and Loving Too Hard?!?

Thanks for listening to this special episode of This is Thirty podcast. New episodes will resume weekly on April 5, 2021.

#JessicaSurvivedIt

Water, With A Side of Fried Chicken Feb 15, 2021

now playing | "Everything Good"- Malkalm @iammalkalm

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Frances aka #skinbae and Moe aka #MALKALM. They talk about marketing, African upbringing, setting goals, flaws within their generation, scamming and much more.

(3:00) The podcast begins as Moe and Frances provide Gernique with some helpful insight on effective marketing. (10:00) How do the last millennials and generation Z feel about approaching 30? (25:00) Scamming: a thriving lifestyle.... (30:00) Adulting: I hate it HERE! (49:00) CoronaVirus' effect on important milestones.

They Don't Love You Feb 08, 2021

On this short and sweet episode of This is Thirty, Gernique talks about her upcoming birthday, Valentine’s Day plans?, everything black and much more.

(5:00) Malcom & Maria review. (9:00) Constructive Criticism vs. Critical Critiques (15:00) Supporting Black Business vs Doing What’s Best For Your Pockets (20:00) Black Love: Its beauty and its ugliness.

...A Nice Stroke Feb 01, 2021

"The love below"

"If you're used to eating fried chicken everyday, just say that"

"You didn't have to post it"

"I've swallowed a many things"

"You're a disgrace"

"The champ is here"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss some current events, male trauma, threesomes, the fufu challenge and much more.

(5:00) The episode begins as the ladies discuss the sexual allegations against T.I and Tiny. (13:00) Do you see yourself ever partaking in a threesome? (26:00) The convo takes a turn as the ladies discuss Raz B and his continuous allegations against Chris Stokes. (34:00) Men and the lasting effects of sexual trauma. (42:00) Gernique goes on a rant about the disrespect she's been witnessing with the popular "fufu challenge".

That's Trash... Jan 25, 2021

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Anthony. The two discuss standards vs. preferences, money saving tips, home ownership, wedding plans and much more.

The podcast truly starts as Anthony and Gernique discuss some money saving tips (11:00). Anthony discusses the pros and cons of having to reschedule a wedding due to COVID-19 (17:00). How has home ownership changed you? (28:00). Black credentials and white acceptance (39:00). Friendship: recognizing healthy shifts and knowing when to let go (47:00).

Hell No! Jan 18, 2021

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James discuss men & communication, Martin Luther King, relationships & instagram, and much more.

(6:00) Understanding men and their communication styles. (15:00) Reflecting on Martin Luther King and his contributions to America. (24:00) MEME TALK (28:00) Lori Harvey & Michael B. Jordan (33:00) “You don’t know me!” (44:00) More of this and less of that in 2021.

Because They Were White... Jan 11, 2021

"I was inebriated"

"I am very particular"

"These are the end of days"

"You need friends to check you"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatz. The ladies have a fun discussion about professionalism, the state of America and desires for 2021.

(5:00) Confessions Of An OverThinker: The podcast starts as Gernique reflects on last week's episode. (16:00) "I have a crush on Saweetie. (20:00). An embarrassing week for America. (34:00) "The world needs to get it right for the future generations." (44:00) Reiteration of of goals and desires for 2021.

You Deserve A Complete Love Dec 21, 2020

“Debt free is the way to be”

“Women are flexible, in all kinds of ways”

“I have already planned my life with him”

“Sounds like a loser…”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss toxicity, moving on, future love, and relocating.

The podcast begins as the two discuss the (8:00) pros and cons of New Jersey living. (15:00) Why is toxicity so funny? (18:00) Red Flags: Inconsistency in the beginning stages of dating? (27:00) James calls in! (42:00) What keeps us in toxic situations?

...&Then He Blocked Me Dec 14, 2020

"Do we get conjugal visits?"

“Morning wood”

“It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas”

“You are filthy”

“Why are you here, what’s your purpose?”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James are joined by Quatley. They talk more about marriage, jail love, the death penalty and much more.

The podcast begin as the three discuss (6:00) the advantages and disadvantages of a cheating pass. Is monogamy natural? (14:00) Lockdown Love: Are you willing to ride with your partner through a bid? (21:00) Dating your best friend’s EX: Cool or nah? (30:00) How comfortable are you going to your ex’s wedding? (45:00) Brandon Bernard: Social media cannot change laws. (50:00) The episode ends with everybody’s favorite game! (59:00)

The Toxic Kings Dec 07, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique & James are joined by Dolph. The three discuss standards, toxicity, maturity and much more.

The conversation begins (9:00) as the three discuss the perfect age to get married. (18:00) Larsa Pippen's recent activity leads to a conversation about acting your age and appropriate vs. inappropriate social media activity. (26:00) Dating Expert Kevin Samuels: You either like him or you don't. The three take a deep dive on this week's viral video that had everybody's timelines in a mess. (40:00) Women vs. Men= The Gold Digging Double Standard. (55:00) Do you change for love or the person you love? (68:00) Toxic Men & Mental Health. (85:00) James Bony After Dark. (93:00) The podcast ends with a fun session of word association!

#ThisisThirty

Does OnlyFans Count?! Nov 30, 2020

"What's a BBL?"

"Im not looking but I'm waiting"

"That's what I meant"

"The butt comes with a lil bit of gut"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James talk dating apps, plastic surgery, Covid-19 and much more.

The episode begins (4:00) as the two discuss whether or not they will be taking the covid vaccination upon availability. (8:00) Who gets presents this year? (12:00) Dating apps: the good, the bad, the curious. (24:00) Word Association!! (28:00) Why are women so heavily targeted for plastic surgery? Picking the right time to go under the knife.

The Crackheads Know Where To Stop... Nov 16, 2020

"Is that long enough?" #pause

"These people were not in love"

"I'm scared I'll never be a mother"

"Is that how they talk in Texas?"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James talk about the upcoming verzuz with TI & Young Jeezy, death & social media, black people enforcing order in their neighborhoods, waiting for the right love and much more.

The podcast begins as the two discuss (4:00) T.I's comments regarding King Von's death. (11:00) Why do rappers keep getting shot? (14:00) Death and social media: What to post & what not to post... (24:00) We have a new president! (35:00) WHY ARE YOU SINGLE? (45:00) Why does it seem like women always have to wait for men to get it right?

The Worst Year Of My Life Nov 09, 2020

"I need this money"

"My support system helped me through"

"I was broke"

"With no job, no income, I decided to get a new car"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique gets vulnerable and goes back into time. The year is 2016 and she experiences her own version of The Great Depression. Credit card debt, eviction, side hustles and more.

(3:00) Homecoming by Yaa Gyasi; a must read. (5:00) Learning about black history is truly a traumatizing experience. (8:00) STORY TIME: The year I lost everything and then got it back tenfold.

Listen & Enjoy!

You Belong In The Trash... Nov 02, 2020

“I am more than qualified to get my toes sucked”

“New number, who this”

“She’s was an ouch girl”

“What’s the gooch”

“2 kids later...”

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique & James are joined by Pierreline and Quatley. They discuss love, fetishes, election day, and much more.

(8:00) Halloween party recap + the history of Halloween (20:00) Are you ready for 2021? (23:00) The most romantic thing you’ve ever done for a man... (35:00) Taking chances on love: Are you with it? (49:00) A hilarious convo about weird fetishes.

PLEASE VOTE, USE YOUR VOICE!

Black African Lives Don't Matter Oct 26, 2020

"you n*iggas is too loud, quiet down"

"yall only show Africa, when you want us to feed the kids"

"I feel like I purged"

"why you gotta treat me like an android"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by host of the Unemployabull podcast Tampagne aka David. The two talk about music, #endsars, America's coverage of African issues, Beyonce backlash, social media protesting and much more.

(2:00) The two briefly address T.I and Young Jeezy's upcoming VERZUZ battle. (8:00) David talks about his podcast and other creative efforts. (18:00) What is happening in Africa? (25:00) Gernique goes on a rant about media manipulation. (30:00) Social Media Protesting: Does it really work? (43:00) Celebrities disingenuously using global crises to increase their like-ability and/or gain PR ratings.

Skeet Skeet Oct 19, 2020

"I'm actually going crazy"

"You deserve better ****..."

"White people started it"

"Save the drama for mama Denise"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James break down getting your mind right before dating. They also revisit Election 2020, Tory Lanez behavior, goals for 2021 and much more..

(8:00) 4th Quarter of 2020: What to expect? (16:00) Side hustle pride; let it go.... (22:00) Word association is back: Halloween Style. (27:00) Why is Tory Lanez out here living his best life + James provides his take on what actually went down the night of the shooting. (41:00) Six things women wished men knew before dating. (50:00) talking, dating, hooking up, friends with benefits.... what's with all the terminology?!

#VOTE2020

#BREONNAFOREVER

#GEORGEFLOYD

#BLACKLIVESMATTER

Don't Disturb Her Peace... Oct 12, 2020

"what are you doing, my guy?"

"take your L and go"

"love us, respect us"

"Election 2020 aka the Hunger Games"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by friend of the show Pearls. The two discuss acting, the upcoming election, disrespect towards black women and much more.

The episode begins (6:00) as Pearls responds to some of Reggie's statements from last week's show. (8:00) The girls discuss the ghetto olympics aka the upcoming election. They also discuss social media's inadvertent influence on the presidential debates and this election overall. (17:00) Gernique and Pearls discuss the mistreatment of black women by black men. (41:00) Money and Love: The reoccurring conversation that never ends. (54:00) The episode closes as the girls compare their crew to the cast of Girlfriends.

Girlfriend #2 Oct 05, 2020

"Cheaterationships"

"I need you to make me a wife"...

"that sneaky nut"...

"I'm bomb, but I'm boring"

"number block **** is the best ****"

On this crazy episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James are joined by Reggie of the Reggie Roundz Show! The three discuss relationships, coming of age, cheating, breakups and much more.

The podcast begins as Reggie discusses his start and love for public speaking and podcasting. (14:00) Reggie opens about his recent breakup. (24:00) What actually leads people to cheat? (32:00) Men dealing with heartbreak. (54:00) The conversation centers around rejection. (61:00) What's your love language?

#BLACKLIVESMATTER

#BREONNATAYLORSTILLNEEDSJUSTICE

#VOTE2020

"Cheating Is Not That Bad" Sep 21, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James talk love, weddings, marriage, divorce and much more.

The episode begins (6:00) as the two try to determine the real definition of "settling for love". (16:00) Keeping the Love Alive: "I want to be in love with my husband forever!" At the (20:00) mark, James and Gernique discuss how important friendships are to the foundation of romantic relationships. (23:00) Is technology really helping to increase the divorce rate? (29:00) Gernique explains how short-term marriages effect families and friends. (32:00) Why cheating is okay...(40:00) Blended families and living arrangements.

#TellAFriend

#BlackLivesMatter

Rated R Sep 14, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty Gernique and James are joined by Quatley. The three discuss some crazy things, including: P-Valley, rear activity, black men & Hollywood, childish mistakes, and much more.

The REAL conversation starts (13:00) as the three discuss some non-negotiables as it relates to family, jobs, social and relationship arenas. (26:00) Birthday Dinner Etiquette: To split or not to split? (32:00) The most embarrassing moments of our youth. (46:00) Gernique and the crew address Hollywood's emasculation of black men, especially during elevation season. (70:00) The three discuss blocks that turn into blessings.

RIP BREONNA TAYLOR

RIP GEORGE FLOYD

RIP TAMIR RICE

RIP TRAVYON MARTIN

RIP SANDRA BLAND

BLACK LIVES MATTER!

BLACK LIVES FOREVER!

Freaky Monday Sep 07, 2020

The switcharoo!

On this episode of This is Thirty, James takes over. He and Gernique discuss spending habits, couples, marriage, and more.

The podcast begins with a conversation surrounding the many (6:00) ways in which men spend money trying to impress women. At the (13:00) mark, they talk about couple-related pet peeves. (19:00) How Do You Want It: Love, Marriage, Baby Carriage? (31:00) Love Talk: The two discuss responding to your partner's pain.

Pain Gives Birth To Beautiful Things Aug 30, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James talk about Chadwick Boseman, the Jacob Blake shooting, James' birthday plans and much more.

The podcast begins (2:00) as James and Gernique discuss Chadwick Boseman's unexpected death. (14:00) 2020: A blessing or a curse. (17:00) Racism in America: Jacob Blake. (21:00) Gernique recaps her time in DC for the #MarchonWashington2020. (23:00) Is freedom of speech becoming an illusion? Does the black vote always have to be democratic? (33:00) As James birthday approaches, the two discuss coming of age, future goals, changed mindsets, and lucrative side hustles.

BLACK LIVES MATTER

Blessings and prayers for Jacob Blake!

RIP to the countless black lives that have been lost to senseless police.

I Would Kill You Aug 24, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by her cousin and friend of the show Quatley. The two discus 90s & 00s television from a #thisisthirty lens. They also discuss relationships with wealthy men, cheating, break babies, and much more.

The podcast begins as the two discuss (11:00) Moesha, the show's impact on the culture, and whether or not the show would be able to survive in the sensitive climate we currently live in. (20:00) Derwin & Melanie's toxic love rollercoaster: a 2020 analysis of The Game. (23:00) The conversation takes a turn as the ladies discuss what they are willing to give up for love? (41:00) Break Babies: A moment of lapsed judgement, cheating or proof of sexual irresponsibility? Which one is it?

BLACK LIVES MATTER

RIP Breonna Taylor

RIP Trayford Pellerin

RIP George Floyd

RIP Elijah McClain

"What Are We?" Aug 17, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James are joined by friend of the show Jean. The group discuss hoods & suburbs, dating do's & dont's in 2020 and much more.

(7:00) The conversation begins as the three discuss why people of color predominantly label white neighborhoods as a marker for success. (14:00) What are some important factors to pay attention to when choosing a city to live and raise a family in? (19:00) What makes the hood, the hood? (23:00) Tips for successful dating in 2020. (44:00) Dating Tips: Don’t DO THIS! (57:00) A crazy case of story time with James Bony.

I Don't Want To Go To Jail Aug 10, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James discuss sexual harassment, domestic violence, chivalry, double standards in transgender culture and much more.

The podcast begins around (7:00) the never-ending trend of sexual harassment allegations that constantly surface. (15:00) Abuse of Power vs Rape: Are they the same or different? (21:00) What precautions can men take to ensure that they are never accused of sexual harassment? (34:00) Physical Abuse: Both sides of the spectrum. (41:00) Identity Issues: Is it ok for a man who identifies as a woman to fight a woman and vice versa? (45:00) Gernique briefly opens up about her past experience with physical abuse. (52:00) Are men still romantic?

#BLACKLIVESMATTER

#BREONNATAYLOR forever!

Do Men Keep Diaries? Aug 03, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique talks about Black is King, advertising, social media pet peeves, men & their emotions and much more.

Gernique talks about her paid promotion experience with Instagram (5:00). Gernique goes into detail about why she wants to go back to work (13:00). (23:00) Why we should normalize men keeping diaries and expressing themselves in written form. At the (30:00) mark, Gernique discusses her current social media pet peeve.

#BLACKLIVESMATTER

Did You Say Threesome?! Jul 27, 2020

5K GIVEAWAY: Remember, there are chances to win all throughout this episode. Listen for the questions, see if you're interested in the prize and DM your answers to @ghurneek! Good Luck.

Episode 50 is here! On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique & James are joined by Pierreline. The three discuss baby fever, parental accountability, adoption, pregnancy announcements, and much more.

The conversations begins (9:00) around the realities of baby fever and how it affects both men and women. (18:00) What if I never get to be a mom?! Gernique discusses some of her fears. (23:00) What are the right steps one should take before having kids? (32:00) Why are men of a certain age who do not have kids judged so harshly? (43:00) Adoption Talk: Could you ever see yourself adopting? (52:00) The convo takes a turn as the three discuss how personal parental decisions affect children.

I Don't Know If I've Ever Been A SidePiece Jul 20, 2020

We're back! After a two-week hiatus, This is Thirty is back. On this episode, Gernique and James discuss Megan the Stallion and Tory Lanez drama, entanglements, the 2020 presidential election, Kanye West, spending habits, black women constantly supporting black men while getting nothing in return, gambling and much more.

The podcast begins (5:00) with a convo surrounding open marriages. (13:00) Gernique goes on a rant about Kanye West and his narcissistic tendencies. (20:00) The two discuss the continuing threat of the coronavirus and theories on how it truly came to be. (23:00) James recounts the time an officer pulled out a gun on him (Megan + Tory Lanez). (35:00) James and Gernique talk about their troubled past as former gambling addicts.

BLACK LIVES STILL MATTER!

R.I.P Cornelius Fredericks

R.I.P Breonna Taylor

R.I.P George Floyd

R.I.P Elijah McClain

New York Roaches Don't Die Jun 29, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James are joined by friend of the show Quatley. They discuss vacationing, baecationing, internet criticism, black lives matter and more.

(9:00) The episode begins as James recounts the incident that sparked his abstinence from alcohol. (20:00) Baecations & Datecations! How comfortable do you have to be with someone to go on a datecation? (34:00) Are roaches a turn off? (40:00) Constructive criticism always seems to go wrong on the internet. (50:00) Now & Forever: #BlackLivesMatter Rest In Peace Elijah McClain, Breonna Taylor, George Floyd, Sean Bell, Trayvon Marton, Tamir Rice, Eric Garner, Philando Castile, Sandra Bland, and many more.

We will continue the fight... for you.

That's How I Lost My Front Tooth Jun 22, 2020

On this episode Gernique and James discuss James' isolated attraction to a certain type of woman, controlling black dollars and information, 2020 gems, and much more.

The episode begins as James recounts meeting the little person of his dreams. (6:00) James and Gernique discuss Juneteenth and refusal to celebrate July 4th moving forward. (10:00) Purposeful Positivity: Name 3 good things about 2020 thus far. At the (14:00) mark, Gernique goes into detail about how she lost her front tooth 10 years ago. (30:00) How did we miss so much information related to our history and how do we change curriculum across schools? (36:00) Some African-Americans are only in love with the aesthetics of their history. (50:00) Pockets vs. Hearts: Gernique talks about her inability to trust white people in power.

Just Because I Post It... Jun 15, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, James and Gernique discuss continued racial tension, interracial relationships, cancel culture, male mental health, healthy conversations and more.

The podcast begins as (4:00) Gernique and James discuss B.Simone and cancel culture. (10:00) Gernique does a male mental health checkin with James. (17:00) James talks about why he isn't interested in protesting. (22:00) Dating Advice: How to pull off a first date in a racially sensitive climate during a pandemic. (43:00) How do we share information and educate beyond our comfort zones? (55:00) R.I.P to Rayshard Brooks, Breonna Taylor, George Floyd, Ahmaud Arberry, Tamir Rice, Oscar Grant, and countless others who have lost their lives to senseless violence and police brutality.

#BLACKLIVESMATTER

Don't Use Me To Meet Your Quota Jun 08, 2020

On this episode of This Is Thirty, Gernique furthers the talk about racism, education, community and more.

(3:00) Awesome News: This is Thirty podcast is now available via the IHeartRadio App! (8:00) Gernique talks about her personal experience with protests and racism. (19:00) The importance of educating oneself on politics and policy. (22:00) Black Power: Word Association. (26:00) Ratings Over Everything: Gernique expresses her disgust with the media's exploitation tactics. She also discusses distinguishing between your ego vs intent when using social media for activism.

I'm Only Laughing To Prevent Myself From Crying Jun 01, 2020

R.I.P George Floyd

R.I.P Breonna Taylor

R.I.P to the countless black people who have lost their lives to senseless police brutality.

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique & James are joined by Francis, Kevin, and Solomon (The Misanthropik One). They discuss the current state of the nation, being a black male in America, fear, media, politics and much more.

(3:00) The conversation beings as the guests express their feelings and concerns towards police and the recent murder of George Floyd. (11:00) The guests recount their interactions with police. (23:00) Why are black people such a threat? (31:00) Solomon emphasizes the importance of internal organization within the black race (like that of Jews and Asians). (40:00) Protesting: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly. (50:00) Is black on black crime comparable to blue on black crime? (58:00) The group discusses the media's role in race matters.

I Will Not Buy NutraBurst... May 25, 2020

Happy Memorial Day!

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James are joined by friend of the show, Quatley. The three have a long discussion on friendship and business, false advertising, plastic surgery and more.

The podcast begins (9:00) as the group recaps Beanie Man and Bounty Killer's VERZUZ battle. They also discuss 112 & Jagged Edge's upcoming competition. (17:00) The conversation transitions into friendship and business support. (26:00) How do you support your friend's business if you don't like it? (39:00) They also discuss false advertising in the black community. (50:00) Is it okay to promote products that you don't use or care about for a check?

Men Don't Find Comfort In Being Honest May 18, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James discuss their recent live session, foreign culture, the never-ending tension between men and women, Tekashi 69 and much more.

The podcast begins as (3:00) James talks about what Haitian Flag Day means to him. (10:00) They both discuss how they continuously stay productive during quarantine. (28:00) Gernique addresses men, their egos, and their inability to sometimes keep it really real. (37:00) James & Gernique discuss sexual maturity and the shift in sexual responsibility that should take place after 30. (41:00) They also talk about Tekashi 69's recent public antics and the media's irresponsibility as it relates to making people infamous.

Everybody Hates Us May 11, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by East Orange police officer Xavier Vassel. The two discuss the current tensions that exist between law enforcement and urban communities, race relations, excessive force and much more.

The podcast begins as Xavier discusses his quarantine life, goals, and approaching thirty-hood. (11:00) Xavier discusses what inspired his interest in law enforcement. (16:00) The two discuss Ahmaud Arberry's unfortunate & untimely murder. (25:00) Xavier speaks on cops who stereotype and how the media has played a huge role in misinforming the public on enforcement protocol. (35:00) When is it acceptable to use excessive force? (46:00) Xavier clears up some general misconceptions about law enforcement. (52:00) The two walk through a routine traffic stop and discuss what is acceptable and not acceptable. (62:00) Xavier explains the importance of showing respect, being genuine and truly working to diffuse a situation.

Thanks for Listening!

Hey Siri, What's An Enema? May 04, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James are joined by Dolph. The three discuss gender roles, double standards, natural hair and self love, Insecure drama and much more.

The episode begins and Dolph talks about his journey into thirty-hood (5:00). He also discusses the importance of good friends and accountability partners (9:00). At the (15:00) mark, a conversation surrounding healthy double standards and not so healthy double standards begins. (28:00) A conversation about gender roles as it relates to many topics. (37:00) The trio expand on instant turnoffs and somehow end up having a interesting debate surrounding natural hair and self love. (40:00) A continued deep dive into natural women and natural hair. (57:00) Gernique, James and Dolph discuss the double standards that occur within the show Insecure.

The episode continues with a game of word association and talks surrounding marriage and fatherhood.

We're back!

You, Me, Him and Her Apr 13, 2020

How do you date in a community when it seems like everybody has messed with everybody?!?

On this short and sweet episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses podcasting, her Easter-week fast (5:00), and mental health (11:00). She also has a quick INSECURE-inspired discussion on dating complications in tight-knit communities.

Stay Home.

Stay Safe.

I Wanted You To Go Deeper Mar 30, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by James and Quatley. They talk about some attraction preferences, marriage perks, and "instagram models" messing up the game!

(2:00) The podcast starts as Quatley and Gernique shame James for the way he eats crab legs. (7:00) The trio talk about some semi-superficial requirements they expect out of the opposite sex. (18:00) They discuss the top 3 superficial things they are looking forward to not doing when they get married. (25:00) The conversation transitions as the crew answer this question, "Why do men support cultures that they are not really into?" (30:00) Are "instagram models" shaping the culture for the better or worse? (36:00) James offers a counter argument for men committed to women who may potentially bore them. (51:00) Gernique and James recap the live podcast again and talk about topics that will be featured on the next live show.

Stay safe. Stay Distant.

The University Of Instagram Mar 23, 2020

...because everybody's got a degree.

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James talk about the continuing worries that Coronavirus is causing, oversharing misleading information, what they’re doing to pass the time, and some future expectations they have for life at 40 and beyond.

(3:00) Gernique talks about the dangers of everyone trying to be an informer on social media. (8:00) James and Gernique discuss the argument surrounding Trump’s "Chinese Virus" nickname. (13:00) S/O to all the influencers that are still able to get to the bag during the quarantine. (19:00) Podcast competition? (23:00) Do we only think 30 is old, when we are not accomplished? (30:00) Preparing for parenthood. (40:00) Gernique and James express their sympathy for everyone missing out on their first and last time events (ie. graduation, prom, etc.).

I Have Never Been So Ashy In My Life Mar 16, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique and James are joined by VaVa and Amanda. The quartet discuss COVID-19, relationships, dating men with potential and much more.

(4:00) VaVa and Amanda discuss their journey into Thirtyhood. (8:00) VaVa and Amanda share their experience at the live podcast. (14:00) The $12/hr conversation is revisited. (21:00) Quarantine & Chill? (23:00) The group talks about whether or not the media is exaggerating the true impact of the coronaVirus. (40:00) Gernique quickly discusses her disappointment with Jay Electronica’s “A Written Testimony”. (43:00) The conversation turns to female rap and the redundant messaging in Meg the Stallion’s music. (49:00) The girls talk about Nicki Minaj and her husband. (53:00) Role Reversal: Is a female breadwinner allowed to take care of a man (as men commonly do with women)?

He Likes His Lettuce Tossed Mar 09, 2020

(7:00) James and Gernique discuss DaBaby’s inappropriate tactics. (12:00) They attempt to discuss new music from Jhene Aiko and Megan thee Stallion. (13:00) They discuss the coronavirus and why they’re not going to eat Chinese Food anymore. (16:00) The conversation takes a turn as they discuss men who like having their salad tossed.

Live Podcast: March 11th

Is Toxic The New Normal? Mar 02, 2020

Live Podcast, March 11th!!

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique recaps her birthday weekend, talks about toxic relationships and details the upcoming Live Podcast Event.

(2:00) Women Wednesdays: come support every Wednesday in March at First Republic. (5:00) What to expect at the live podcast! (8:00) Gernique recaps her birthday weekend. (12:00) Gernique talks about Lent and March sacrifices. (18:00) Is Toxic the New Normal: Under the guise of Lori Harvey and Future's relationship that is still well and alive, Gernique talks about why women might be attracted to toxic men and toxic situations.

She Got Out The Uber Like... Feb 24, 2020

On this episode, Gernique and James are joined by Dr. Daphney Chery. Daphney discusses her journey as a young millenial as it relates to education, future goals, dating and much more!

(5:00) Daphney discusses her PHd and the details behind her transition into her field of choice. (8:00) Daphney talks about what her transition into thirtyhood was like. (11:00) An informative conversation surrounding the field of biomedical engineering. (20:00) Dating With a PHd: Daphney discusses whether or not men are intimidated by her status. (23:00) The conversation takes a turn as James discusses female qualities that intimidate him. (30:00) Dating a man with limited financial potential? (38:00) Dating standards. (43:00) Daphney blesses the podcast with some of her hilarious dating experiences. (52:00) Someway, somehow... the conversation turns to 'poop etiquette' as it relates to dealing with your partner.

All this, plus more. Thanks for tuning in!

Live Podcast, March 11th, 2020!!

We're Gonna Get Canceled! Feb 17, 2020

(2:00) Gernique and James talk about the purpose of an engagement. How long does a healthy engagement last? (4:00) Are titles really important? (18:00) The conversation turns to D. Wade's son. At what age should kids be able to choose their sexuality. (38:00) Gernique explains why gays rights and black rights are two completely different things. (44:00) Gernique and James discuss their Valentines Day. They also discuss how love languages take part in Valentine's Day.

Thank you for listening!

Your Grandfather Was A Massa Feb 10, 2020

On this episode, Gernique is joined by Geraldine. The two talk about #BlackHistoryMonth, the n-word, their love for seafood, and much more.

(2:00) What does Black History Month mean to you? At the (5:00) mark, they discuss the plight of black people and its relation to slavery. (9:00) Why are black people always the face of unhealthy advertising? (15:00) Geraldine briefly addresses her admiration of the pescatarian lifestyle. (23:00) Should we stop using the n-word? (38:00) The ladies discuss their Valentines day plans.

Stay Tuned!!
Content mentioned in this episode: (Roots, 2016) (Palm Trees In The Show, 2015) (Logorama, 2009)

Social Media: The Gift & The Curse Feb 03, 2020

Episode 30!!! of This is Thirty. All about SOCIAL MEDIA! Gernique & James discuss dealing with grief while active on social media (4:00). (22:00) They also talk about whether or not couples and/or people who date should follow each other on social media. (32:00) What would you do if social media was abolished? (39:00) The two discuss DM etiquette. (50:00) Gernique & James discuss their potential Valentine's Day plans.

Thank you for LISTENING! #30for30

Please Don't Start Crying... Jan 27, 2020

First off R.I.P to Kobe Bryant.

(3:00) The podcast begins as James, Quatz, and Jacques discuss Kobe’s surprise passing and his lasting legacy on the game. (8:00) James discusses the importance of telling those close to you how much you care. (12:00) James and Jacques spend most of the episode quizzing Gernique & Quatz on popular sports facts.

The Outcome: Life After the Accident Jan 20, 2020

On March 9th, 2019 Jessica Louis was involved in horrific accident that left her amputated. On this episode of “This is Thirty” Jessica details the events that led to the accident, the aftermath, how she maintains her strength and her plans for the future.

(6:00) Jessica details the night of the accident. (17:00) "I woke up and my leg was gone". (24:00) Jessica talks about life after the accident and the life changing results she has had to adjust to. (31:00) Jessica talks about physical and mental therapy. (41:00) A special s/o for the friends and family that have supported her through this journey. (61:00) The podcast comes to a close as Jessica talks about her new non-profit, her upcoming gala, what keeps her going and her plans for the future.

A Little Bit of Sex Jan 13, 2020

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by James and Quatley. The three discuss an array of topics including dating, celibacy, age differences and more.

(4:00) The conversation begins as the trio discuss Lori Harvey and Future's rekindled relationship, dating men who have multiple baby mothers, and eskimo brothers hanging out. (8:00) The crew discusses whether or not men and women can really have platonic relationships. (22:00) The crew talks age limits and the youngest ages in partners they would entertain. (25:00) James stumbles as the conversation turns to the topic of celibacy. (35:00) The crew attempts to define masculinity, while Gernique questions the validity of societal norms. (58:00) The podcasts ends with a conversation surrounding cultural appropriation.

Me, Myself & My Money: A 2020 Love Story Jan 06, 2020

On the first episode of This Is Thirty of the new year, Gernique discusses her resolutions (good and bad), alcoholism, black cinema, and intimacy.

(3:00) Gernique discusses her real resolutions and her drive for the new year. (7:00) She has a candid conversation about reoccurring self-doubt. (10:00) She touches on alcoholism and generational curses. (15:00) 3 tips for 2020, courtesy of Pastor David Ireland. (19:00) Gernique lists all the classic black films she's never seen. (22:00) To close, Gernique briefly responds to Jean's prior comments on sex and her overall fears about talking about sex on the podcast/on air.

You Gotta Have Teeth Dec 30, 2019

On the final episode of This is Thirty, for 2019, Gernique is joined by James, Jean, and Pearls. They go through a detailed list of top 5's, talk about lessons of 2019, goals for 2020 and much more.

The conversation starts (3:00) as the crew discusses whether or not Christmas gifts are essential for brand new relationships. And if so, what kinds? (12:00) Top 5 Rappers of All Time. (25:00) Top 5 Movies of 2019. (30:00) Top 5 Album Releases of 2019. (37:00) Biggest Entertainment Disappointments of 2019. (41:00) The conversation takes a quick turn as the crew discusses Kanye West's exploitation of gospel culture. (46:00) Top 5 Show Series of 2019. The conversation gets personal (52:00) as the gang discusses the most popular ways men slide into the DMs. Also, a lucky member of the crew gets their DMs read on air. (73:00) The LIES YOU TELL: What are the most frequent lies told by men and women. (81:00) Jean provides a list of reasons that led him to cheat in the past. (100:00) What did 2019 teach you? The crew continues with a discussion of their plans for 2020, a game of this or that, and like usual Jean provides the listeners with some homework.

2 HOURS OF EPICNESS! #TuneIn

You Remind Me Of A Girl Dec 16, 2019

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by William, Biggie, and Mich. The foursome discuss Lizzo, fat shaming, anxiety, depression, and much more.

(6:00) They discuss Lizzo’s infamous basketball game attire. (26:00) The conversation shifts as the group discuss Lil Fizz and Apryl’s awkward new relationship. (36:00) The crew discusses depression and anxiety, in particular, Summer Walker’s experience as a new talent navigating through Hollywood. (70:00) Everyone gets candid about drug use and Juice WRLD’s passing and much more.

Pillow Talk Stays On The Sheets... Dec 09, 2019

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Gene and Jaleesa. Gene who has been married for 14 years talks about marriage longevity, motherhood, how social media has changed dating, new normals and much more.

(3:00) Gene talks about being a wife and mother of 2 at the age of 30. (7:00) Gene compares the world when she was 30 to the world now. (13:00) The girls have a brief discussion on who should love who more in a relationship and different types of love languages (actions vs communication). (27:00) Gene deep dives on the lack of women who are willing to compromise and the overall difference between compromising & settling. (32:00) Gene talks about the personal sacrifices that she has endured as a wife & mother. (35:00) The girls close out the podcast with a quick round of Song Association & Jaleesa blesses the game with her beautiful voice!

Do You Eat For Free? Dec 02, 2019

On this episode of #ThisisThirty, Gernique is joined by NJ-based DJ Vit and James. The three discuss DJing, club culture, groupies and much more.

(3:00) The podcast begins as DJ Vit explains his beginnings into the field of DJing. He talks about his love for music, life as a promoter and supportive friends that helped along the way. At the (12:00) mark, DJ Vit talks about the pros and cons of DJ life. (20:00) He goes on to discuss club culture, planning events and picking venues. Everyone in the room gives their opinion on complacency as it relates to venues. (32:00) Gernique pauses the questions for the most epic session of Song Association! (39:00) DJ Vit gets candid about groupies. Does he have them? How does one become a groupie? At the (44:00) mark, he discusses accessibility to women as it relates to the DJ lifestyle. Also, do all DJ's get around? (54:00) The crew embarks on an "intellectual circle of nothingness' as they try to draw the line as it relates to men and women relations. (62:00) DJ Vit talks about camaraderie and jealousy amongst DJs who work close together.

The conversation continues as DJ Vit shows support of his DJ friends, offers support to the This is Thirty brand and much more....

Enjoy!

9 Months Later... Nov 25, 2019

"We was practicing, til one day ya ass bust through the packaging...you know what though? You my favorite accident"

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique sits down with her good friends Pierreline and Joanna to discuss motherhood, baby daddies, dating with kids and much more.

The conversation starts (6:00) as the girls discuss their journey to motherhood, their regrets, struggles, and expectations. (12:00) The two ladies discuss their children's fathers and the reasons their relationships failed. At the (25:00) mark, the girls get candid about dating with kids and dating men with kids. Also, Gernique provides her reasoning as to why she prefers to date men without kids. (33:00) The ladies discuss unspoken rules that they abide by while dating. (39:00) Lastly, the ladies discuss how motherhood has affected their taste in men.

Tune in!

Daddy Issues & Superwoman Syndrome Nov 18, 2019

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by her childhood friend Ariel. The two women discuss mental health, growing up in urban environments, private school and much more.

(3:00) The conversation begins as the two discuss the differences between private and charter school, the declining academic performance rates in the United States and environments playing a large role in students and their education. The conversation continues (12:00) as Ariel discusses her role as an open heart ICU nurse, the growing rate of overdoses amongst millenials, and her passion for mental health. At the (22:00) mark, Gernique and Ariel share their opinions on whether or not spanking is acceptable in 2019. At the (30:00) mark, they discuss their ideas on successful black women and their dating habits. The conversation continues with discussions surrounding mental health, self-esteem, social media, and much more.

Home Is Where The Thots Are Nov 11, 2019

On this episode of #ThisisThirty, Gernique is joined by Jean, James, and Quatley. At the (3:00) mark, the crew addresses a list of scientific facts [related to happiness, sex, money, and more] that potentially affect those who are 30 and older. Later on (17:00) they discuss T.I's recent claims about verifying his daughter's virginity. At the (21:00) mark, they tackle Instagram's new upcoming policy of hidden likes. Once the group gets to the (27:00) mark they discuss their interest and disinterest in potentially moving to another state. At the (37:00) mark, they address bitterness after breakups. At the (48:00) mark, the group discusses whether or not they are willing to date outside of their race. The conversation continues with funny stories and of course Jean's homework for the audience.

#TUNEIN

He Was A Great Lover... Nov 04, 2019

On this episode of #ThisisThirty Gernique is joined by James, Pierreline and Quatley. The foursome discuss voting, long distance relationships, gender roles during courtship, family drama, and much more.

The conversation starts (8:00) with a brief conversation on Election Day 2019 and the importance of voting in general. At the (15:00) mark, the crew takes a deep dive on the importance of addressing family drama so that the popular cycle of family trauma can be broken. (28:00) The conversation then turns to long distance relationships. Is this a better option for those who are 30 and up? (41:00) Why do men bear such a heavy responsibility during courtship? What are women's roles during this time? (59:00) The podcast closes with a conversation about remaining goals for the current year and upcoming goals for 2020.

ENJOY!!

Dude, Where's My Car? Oct 28, 2019

On this short and sweet episode of #ThisisThirty, Gernique discusses the difficulty of car shopping (8:00). Next, she talks about the degrees of loyalty with references to Lil Fizz, Omarion, April, Charlamagne and Angela Yee (19:00). Lastly, she also addresses the importance of forgiveness. Other topics include free time, Rhythm & Flow, Transformation Church and much more..

James Bony: After Dark Oct 21, 2019

On this episode Gernique is joined by her favorite cohost James. The two discuss lowering debt, couples & joint accounts, online dating, monogamy, and much more.

(7:00) The duo discuss the difficulty of lowering debt while trying to live your best life. (12:00) They continue by discussing whether or not married couples should have joint bank accounts. At the (24:00) mark, Gernique asks how single people should go about meeting prospective dating prospects. Next, the two have a brief discussion about online dating and dating apps. (32:00) Hesitantly, James and Gernique have a serious conversation about men who abuse their power and the women who blindly let them do it. At the (42:00) mark: Is sex a spiritual or physical thing?

The Episode About Nothing Oct 14, 2019

No, this episode is not an ode to Wale or Seinfeld. It simply is what is it is. After what she describes as the crappiest week ever, Gernique links up with James and the rest of her friends to discuss absolutely nothing.

In all honesty, this episode produced a necessary a conversation about love and all things associated with it.

The questions in this episode range from... What is Love? (25:00), Who says "I love you" first?, Is loving someone too much a bad thing? (15:00), Are millenials bored or just plain lazy?, Should men bring condoms on first dates? (46:00) and much more about nothing.

Are you not entertained?!? Listen for the laughs, the rants, the debates, the singing and everything else in between. #ThisIsThirty

If Instagram Shuts Down... Oct 07, 2019

On this episode of #ThisIsThirty, Gernique is joined by former guests William aka Anthony and Pierreline aka Pearlz. The trio discuss social media trends, meditation & prayer, engagements, and much more.

(5:00) The convo begins as the group sounds off with advice they would give to their 25 year-old selves. (11:00) The conversation transitions into precautions people should take before entering into a roommate situation. (15:00) The trio has a quick conversation about celebrities and gang culture. (22:00) The group goes in on the dangers of believing EVERYTHING you read on social media and the importance of fact-checking. (40:00) Anthony provides some insight on why men prolong engagements. (49:00) Feminine Freedom vs Hyper-Sexuality: Where does one draw the line? (66:00) The crew revisits the first date conversation...again! Anthony also has some smoke for James! (78:00) Out of nowhere, Gernique and Pierreline engage in an interesting debate on prayer and meditation.

Rubbing Hoe On It Sep 30, 2019

On this episode, Gernique is joined by James & Jean. Through snaps and laughter, the friendly rivals come face to face to help Gernique discuss living arrangements amongst couples, heartbreak, club culture, and much more.

(6:00) The conversation begins with the group trying to define the term "hoe". (15:00) Should couples live together before marriage? (27:00) The trio attempts to discuss how long it takes men to deal with heartbreak. (32:00) The conversation takes a pause for Gernique's favorite game Song Association. At the (37:00) mark, the group talks about the economic instability related to 30 year olds in these current times vs the past. (43:00) When should a man stop frequently visiting the club? (51:00) Honesty Hour: Jean opens up about depression and mentally draining circumstances.

A Man Worth Submitting To... Sep 23, 2019

On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two sing their way through several discussions: growing up African, the art of submission, karma related to cheating, and much more.

(6:00) The girls talk about their different experiences growing up African. At the (16:00) mark, the girls get specific and talk about growing up in Cameroonian households. (21:00) The duo breaks down the difference between anglophone and francophone Cameroonians. (26:00) The Art of Submission: How and when should women be submitting to their men? (42:00) Do men who cheat and end up in intense scandals deserve sympathy or is that called KARMA? (47:00) Gernique goes on a rant about sexual irresponsibility!!! (63:00) The two close the podcast with a list of their classy turn-ons.

Transgenders Born In January Sep 16, 2019

On this episode of #ThisisThirty, Gernique, James, and Pierreline discuss zodiac signs, retirement & savings, acceptable places for a first date, and much more.

(5:00) The conversation begins around zodiac signs and the validity of astrology. (7:00) Pierreline talks about her personal experience with meditation and astrology. (14:00) The group tries to categorize certain zodiac signs. At the (23:00) mark, the conversation takes a turn to the topic of 401ks, retirement funds, life insurance and general savings as the group tries to gain some clarity on these specific entities and their overall importance. (29:00) Question of the Day: At 30(+), are you exercising your best savings practices? If not, what is holding you back? (40:00) The group discusses TI's new podcast 'Expeditiously' and debates on if his star power convolutes general podcast analytics. At the (50:00) mark the group transitions into acceptable locations for a first date. (56:00) Towards the end of the show, Joanna joins the crew to finish the first date conversation. Finale: What would be the perfect first date?

To Curve or Be Curved.. That is the Question Sep 09, 2019

On this episode of #ThisisThirty, everybody's favorite cohost James is back. He and Gernique discuss the ins and outs of being curved and much more as it relates to men and women relations.

(6:00) James begins the discussion by trying to remember instances in which he's been curved. (10:00) What are the degrees of curvation?? (11:00) Gernique talks about her frustration with men who don't understand when they are being respectively curved. (15:00) Gernique emphasizes the chaos women create when they use men for selective benefits even though they are not attracted to them. (22:00) Life Hack - How to shoot your shot while executing curve prevention. (29:00) Ghosting vs. Curving... (39:00) Quatley describes a situation in which she was curved. (48:00) Let's play a game: Movie Association. (52:00) Does curving take place within relationships?

Struggle...Another Sign That God Love You Sep 02, 2019

On this episode, Gernique has an honest conversation about self-doubt in many areas of life.

(3:00) Gernique addresses the mass shootings that just keep on happening. (5:00) Do gun control laws really have the power to end mass shootings? (7:00) Gernique discusses the difficulties associated with teaching in urban environments that lack funding. (13:00) She continues with a conversation about her almost 2 year long struggle of being an inconsistent church attendee. She also discusses the qualities that she looks for in a good church. At the (22:00) mark, she gets real and discusses the reality of self-doubt as it pertains to her slow & steady, yet, up and coming podcast, career, and spiritual life. (28:00) Gernique ends the podcast by briefly revisiting the topic of Jay-Z and the NFL!

Living My Best Life Aug 30, 2019

Friends…

Happy Labor Day Weekend!!! On this episode of #thisisthirty, Gernique is joined by her closest friends Sherley, Geraldine and Pierreline.

(7:00) The girls talk about the origin of GPS. (21:00) The group talks about the most annoying social media trends. (27:00) The girls briefly discuss Cassie’s glow up after splitting from Diddy. (29:00) The group talks about their biggest fears! (34:00) The girls talk about their toxic traits…(40:00) The girls talk about how their preferences in men have changed now that they are older. (44:00) Who is the nicest person in GPS? (46:00) The group talks about their favorite documentaries, books, and movies!

"alexa play Minority Report by Jay-Z" Aug 19, 2019

On this short and sweet episode, Gernique discusses her feelings towards Jay-Z’s new venture with the NFL. She also briefly discusses the danger of women pacifying their feelings/insecurities with emotional memes.

(6:00) Gernique talks about the unfairness of comparing Jay-Z to Kanye West. (12:00) She continues with comments about conversations that should potentially not occur in the workplace. (20:00) The importance of not letting social media dictate a narrative. (25:00) Gernique ends the podcast with a passionate rant on the dangers of women using emotional memes for personal validation.

Relationship Curfews & Whatnot... Aug 12, 2019

Be prepared for lots of laughs! On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by a full house. Mich, Jean, Lou, Geraldine, and Quatley all get real! (Brief appearance by Anthony). The group shares tons of laughs as they tackle the revolving conversations about love, work, everyday struggles and more!

(3:00) The conversation begins with a brief convo on double standards as it relates to suspects, race, and police treatment. (6:00) The gang compares entrepreneurship to a nine to five lifestyle. (23:00) The men in the room discuss their issues or lack thereof with women. (32:00) Mich confuses everyone with his explanation of “wap kon jorge” and an unending session of laughter begins. (35:00) Question of the Episode: What is life after love, children, career & passion stability and financial security? (37:00) Accountability Talk: The men talk about why they may not potentially be relationship material and what went wrong in their past relationships? (50:00) Gernique gives the guys their flowers for being accountable. (62:00) Lou exits the podcast with a bang! (64:00) Lou returns. (78:00) Why are women (and sometimes men) so infatuated with validating their relationships on social media? (86:00) Jean closes the show with some inspiring words!

Now I Do What I Want... Aug 06, 2019

On this fun filled episode, Gernique is joined by James and Pearlz. The trio discuss age related double standards, situationships vs. relationships, cheating and much more.

(3:00) The group discuss Lori Harvey and Diddy's "new relationship". Is there a such thing as being too old or too young in the dating world? (10:00) James responds to the naysayers! (14:00) The group offers opinions on women who stay with habitual cheaters. (21:00) The group goes on to discuss why preference is such a touchy topic. (28:00). The crew dive into some traditions/thinking concepts related to culture and gender that they believe need to be unlearned. Gernique Facts: Have majority of men been conditioned to think that cheating is okay and apart of manhood? (41:00) Situationships vs. Relationships? (53:00) Is there a time limit on dating? (67:00) The group ends the convo with a brief discussion on social media usage.

Young Simba vs. Grown Simba Jul 29, 2019

On this episode, Gernique converses with de yout dem. A few #twentysomethings (Biggie, Mankz, and Francis) discuss LIFE. The trio who range from ages 22 - 26 discuss their current status in life, relationship goals, rejection, complacency, what they are expecting for themselves at 30 and much more!

(5:00) The kids talk abut their current standing in life. (8:00) Francis breaks down the highs and lows of pursuing a career in the arts. (15:00) The gang discusses social media and mental health. (18:00) "Instagram is for narcissists!" (24:00) A look into the future: the three discuss where they see themselves at 30. (38:00) The crew talks about the difficulties of dating in your 20s. (54:00) The crew gets candid about dealing with rejection! (99:00) Francis has a special message for former guest James. Finally, special guest Quatley closes out the podcast with a special prayer!

Double or Nothing Jul 15, 2019

On this episode, James returns...to help Gernique answer specific questions related to last week's episode. (6:00) The two discuss whether or not they would date themselves. (15:00) James addresses why 30 year old+ men are not ready to settle down. (23:00) The two discuss why body count significance differs for men and women. (33:00) What is an appropriate body count for a man/woman in their 30s? (36:00) What do you regret about your 20s? (40:00) The conversation goes left when James claims that 30+ men only cheat when their partner is lacking something.

The pair also discuss gender roles in 2019, checking your friends when they're wrong, holding a man down, and much more!

Body Count... Jul 08, 2019

The male perspective. On this episode, Gernique sits down with the guys. James, Alex, Nerlens, Glenn, William and Karwana all offer many unique perspectives as it relates to finances, education, careers, and love. (5:00) The men discuss financial pressures that are exclusive to their age range. (15:00) The men give their opinion on men living at home in their 30s. (20:00) Discussion regarding the role of jealousy amongst men. (30:00) James attempts to take over the show with a great question! (38:00) Majority of the men discuss education and why college is not really important. (54:00) The men go on to discuss commitment issues, non-negotiables, cheating, the complications of dating in 2019, women being savages, finding the right woman and much more!

30's the new 20? Jul 01, 2019

On this introductory episode, Gernique discusses her road to podcasting, the importance of pursuing one's passions, and all that is to come on the This Is Thirty series.

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