The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

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139. Is Your Relationship Strong, Healthy And Stable? Here Are The Signs Mar 14, 2023

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We as couples are always comparing ourselves to other relationships, and it is normal to wonder where our relationship may stand in comparison to others. What things are we doing or what could we be doing to have a better marriage?
There are several things that couples in stable and healthy relationships always do. In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the things couples that have stable and healthy relationships ALWAYS do. These 12 things when implemented will take your marriage to another level.
This episode will help you know what things you might be missing (if any) and what you can implement into your marriage to have a more stable, happy and healthy relationship.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

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138. Sexpectations In Marriage.. And Why You Need To Talk About Them Together! Mar 10, 2023

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Sexpectations are the expectations you both have about sex in your marriage. This includes frequency of sexual intimacy, who initiates, foreplay, toys, what is ok and not ok, scheduled or spontaneous.. you get the point.
Discussing sexpectations together in your marriage is vital! How can you have better sexual intimacy (or anything else) if you don't talk about it? Sex plays such an important role in marriage and you both need to be on the same page when it comes to sex. The more you discuss and talk about things in the bedroom, the more comfortable you are going to become, and the better the sexual intimacy will become in your marriage.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss what are good sexpectations, and the sexpectations they have in their marriage that work, especially since they both have different desire styles and drives. They also share specific ways to talk about your sexpectations and what you can do to have better sexual intimacy in your relationship.
This will be an episode you will both want to listen to.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

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137. The Best Sex Techniques To Increase HER Pleasure With Health And Sex Expert Cindy Scharkey Mar 07, 2023

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In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with health and sex expert Cindy Scharkey about the best techniques and positions to increase her pleasure! Most women cannot have an orgasm from intercourse alone, but how many of us know that or even talk about that?
No wonder it is so difficult for many women to have an orgasm, or to enjoy sexual intimacy. After listening to the episode, you will better understand how to increase her please and take your sexual intimacy to a new level.
Also check out podcast episode 30 "It's All About The Clitoris, The Key To Unlocking Female Pleasure" with Cindy Scharkey to learn more about the purpose of the clitoris and how it is literally the key to unlocking female pleasure.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

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136. Talking MENOPAUSE And Low Libido With Health And Sex Expert Cindy Scharkey Mar 03, 2023

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You've spoken and we've listened. So many husbands and wives have expressed need during this stage of life... menopause. How it affects libido, and what you can do about it! In this episode Nick and Amy talk all about menopause with health care expert Cindy Scharkey. Cindy has over 35 years experience in the industry and answers many of the common questions.
What is menopause?
How does it impact sexual intimacy and libido?
How long can menopause last?
What can a husband do to support his spouse during this time?
How do you keep sexual intimacy alive during these years?
Even if menopause hasn't impacted your relationship yet due to your stage in life, this is an episode you will want to listen to.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

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135. What To Do When Your Love Languages Are Different.. And Knowing Each Others Love Language Isn't Working? Feb 28, 2023

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We have talked about the love languages before, but it is such a big issue for couples that we felt like we needed to do another episode diving into the topic at a much deeper level, and providing step by step things that you can do. Many couples tell us that although they know each others love languages, there are still issues in their marriage over different love languages in the relationship. It is not enough to know each others love languages, but there are other things you need to do to and implement to fulfill each others needs and find that balance.
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the things you can do to have a great relationship even with opposite love languages, and the secrets to not only understanding each others love languages, but to fulfill them in the "right" way.
If you know your spouses love language, but still cannot find the balance you are both looking for, then this episode is for you!
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

134. They Are Trying To Destroy Your Marriage... Don't Fall For The Lies Feb 24, 2023

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We live in a world where good is now considered evil and anyone with sanity is now considered crazy. The traditional values, responsibilities and roles of men and women that have been around for thousands of years are suddenly now being treated as abnormal, offensive and even appalling and people are being destroyed for talking about it, or standing up for it.
Men are being degraded and portrayed as stupid, weak and useless in the movies, tv shows and social media. Men are the center of jokes about how they are just another child that their wife has to take care of. They are being told how to dress, talk, and act and being totally disrespected. Men are treated as if their only purpose is to bring home the paycheck.
Men are being told they should not talk about or express their desires, wants and needs, and many men are fearful of doing so.
Toxic and evil people on social media and in society are convincing women that they don't need a man, or husband because all men are horrible people. Women are told they should stay single and be independent, free and selfish and follow their own desires, and not be tied down to a husband or kids.
Society is turning completely against marriage, family and God, and is doing everything it can to destroy what has been the norm for thousands of years.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share their crazy experience they have had with social media and the groups and people out there trying to literally destroy men, women and marriages. They also discuss the things that you can do to not let the lies sneak into your marriage and try to destroy it.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

133. All About Foreplay... Why It's So Important And The Best Tips To Implement Feb 21, 2023

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Society is convincing women that if they are "not in the mood" for sex, and if they don't feel like making love that night, then they shouldn't have to even think about it! Both people should be in the mood in order to consider making love right?

WRONG! What happened to foreplay?
Society is convincing men that sex is now completely "off limits" unless his wife is already "in the mood" which seldom happens. Many husbands have expressed to us how fearful they are of even trying to initiate sex anymore, as they "only are after one thing." Yes they are... To connect with their wife! That is a big reason we get married, to have a passionate lover next to our side to express love to in many ways, including sex.
The majority of women have a responsive desire style which means they will never be in the mood for sex, unless they "get in the mood" first. That is where foreplay comes in. It is such a false narrative to think you have to be in the mood to be sexually intimate. THAT IS THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF FOREPLAY... TO GET A RESPONSIVE DESIRE SPOUSE IN THE MOOD TO BE SEXUALLY INTIMATE!

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss why foreplay is so important for both spouses to talk about and implement. Instead of "waiting" to be in the mood, allow your spouse to get in the mood through foreplay. Foreplay often times can be the most enjoyable part of sexual intimacy.
Don't dismiss the importance of foreplay in your marriage, and don't believe that you always have to be in the mood to enjoy sexual intimacy. That is the whole purpose of foreplay is to get a lower desire, or responsive desire spouse in the mood.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

132. Our Key Takeaways And Thoughts From Episode 131 With Alex Boye Feb 17, 2023

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There are few podcasts or movie episodes that the more you listen to, the better they get. However, that was the case for us with the Alex Boye podcast. We have both listened to it several times since it recorded and aired, and each time we do we gain more knowledge and wisdom of the things he shared in the podcast. These are valuable tools and lessons that he shared that can easily be implemented in your life and marriage and make you so much happier.
In this episode Nick and Amy share what they learned from the interview with Alex Boye and the things that really hit home for them in their marriage. You will want to listen to episode 131 before listening to this podcast episode.
If you want to donate to Alex's great cause and organization, you can click HERE
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

131. Alex Boye (World Renowned Singer) Shares His Amazing Experience And How This One Thing Can Change Your Life Feb 14, 2023

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In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Alex Boye who is a world renowned singer and song writer. Alex shares so many amazing things in this podcast from his incredible experiences in life and humble beginnings, battling depression, overcoming adversities, and his secrets to finding happiness in life! You can hear the passion and the happiness he has through every minute of this podcast.
Alex turned to music as a teenager because some of the life experiences he was going through and depression he was experiencing. He talks about how the words we use and the tone we use in our life, can literally change us and the people around us.
He also talks about how the things we choose to put into our lives (like social media) and into our minds literally can change our perspectives about how we feel towards others, life and ourselves.
This episode is so powerful and will inspire you to want to make changes in your life and look at things from a different perspective! This podcast episode might be one of the most influential listens you have for your own self love, and for your marriage.
Also, stay tuned for his new book launching in May that is going to be a life changer for everyone who picks it up!
If you want to donate to his great cause, you can click HERE
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

130. Husbands.. Are There Times When You Feel Like You Are Only Wanted For A Paycheck? Feb 10, 2023

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We get so many messages from husbands that make comments like:
"I feel like my wife just want's me for the paycheck"
There are husbands that feel like their only purpose is to provide financial support.
As we have talked many times before, a husband feels loved, needed and appreciated through physical affection and intimacy from his wife. Many husbands feel like they are in relationships where all their spouse wants is to be taken care of financially. They express that they feel lonely and unappreciated.
**This goes both ways. We also recognize that many women feel this way as a stay at home mom or even working a job as well and we will discuss how women feel in a future episode.
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss this topic and share some thoughts on what a couple can do to get out of this mind frame and find Ultimate Intimacy in their relationship. So if you are a husband that feels this way, or a wife that intentionally, or unintentionally treats your husband this way, then this episode is for you.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

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