The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

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317. Foreplay 101: The Important Role Of Foreplay In Intimacy Nov 26, 2024

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In this episode, we’re talking all about foreplay—both the physical and emotional kinds—and why it’s such a game-changer in your marriage. Whether you’ve been married for a few months or a few decades, this conversation is one you don’t want to miss.

We dive deep into the physical side of foreplay, exploring what husbands and wives really want and need when it comes to getting in the mood. We’ll talk about how understanding each other’s desires and preferences can transform intimacy in the bedroom. This isn’t just about the obvious physical acts; it’s about creating an atmosphere where both spouses feel desired, connected, and ready to engage in meaningful intimacy.

But remember that foreplay doesn’t start in the bedroom! We’re also tackling the often-overlooked concept of emotional foreplay—the little things that build anticipation and connection long before anything physical happens. Emotional foreplay includes showing affection, thoughtful gestures, kind words, and sharing the mental load of daily life. It’s about creating an environment where your spouse feels safe, seen, and cherished, which naturally leads to deeper physical intimacy.

If you’ve ever wondered how to bridge the gap between emotional connection and sexual passion, this episode is for you. We’ll share practical tips for both husbands and wives, real-life examples, and even some fun challenges to try in your marriage this week.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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316. Are You A "Drifter" When It Comes To Your Relationship? Why This Mindset Could Ruin Your Marriage Nov 22, 2024

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In Outwitting the Devil, Napoleon Hill describes "drifters" as those who go through life (or marriage) without purpose, direction, or decisive action, often becoming controlled by external forces. They just go wherever the wind blows them so to speak. We see a lot of people like this not only in life, but in their relationships. They assume that their relationship or marriage will just be a product of whatever life throws at them.
In contrast, "non-drifters" or drivers are intentional, disciplined, and decisive, shaping their lives with purpose. This concept can be powerfully applied to marriage, where being decisive—being a "driver" and knowing what you want in your relationship, and going after it, can significantly improve the relationship and deepen intimacy.
In this podcast episode Nick and Amy talk about how couples need to be decisive, consistent, and confident about where they want their marriage to be now and in the future.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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315. Small Daily Emotional Intimacy Habits That Make A HUGE Impact On Your Marriage Nov 19, 2024

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It seems like we all get so busy with life that we forget to do the little things daily that greatly improve emotional intimacy... which also improves sexual intimacy. These include being physically present when you're together, expressing gratitude for the small things, showing daily acts of love—such as sending a simple text to tell your spouse how much they mean to you—or ending the day with meaningful connection.

In this episode, we discuss ways to incorporate emotional intimacy into your daily life with easy and simple actions that can be game-changing for your marriage. This episode might be one of the simplest yet most profound for your relationship, and we had a blast doing it as you will hear :)

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314. Which Is More Important, A "Need" Or A "Want" In Marriage? And How Do Couples Find Balance When Their "Needs" And "Want's" Are So Completely Different? Nov 15, 2024

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In the past few episodes, we have talked about what men need and what women need in marriage, and we also discussed how men and women are so different when it comes to sex. When you can understand how men and women are so different and what each spouses needs are, then you can implement things to help your relationship.
In this episode we discuss the difference between "needs" and "wants" in marriage, and how couples can find balance when their needs are so different.
This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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313. Things You Should Do As A Couple At Least Once A Year That Will Really Make A Difference Nov 12, 2024

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It is amazing how many of us don't do the things that could drastically improve our relationships, that are pretty easy to do. Whether we get lazy, fall into bad habits or whatever it may be, we stop doing the simple things that would make our marriages so much better.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the things that couples should do at least once a year to have their marriage flourish! Let us know what you think after listening to the episode!
This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

312. Understanding Why Sexual Intimacy To Your Wife Is Not A "Need" ... And For Many Wives, Not Even A "Want" In Your Marriage Nov 08, 2024

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Sexual intimacy for most women is not a need but a want, and let's be honest, for many women, it's not even a want. Their bodies are typically wired completely differently than a man's body. They react to sexual intimacy completely differently than most men do. For most women, they are only going to want sex or be willing to have sex if their emotional needs are being met and when they feel trust and respect in the marriage.

Join us for this great episode where Nick and Amy (mostly Amy) will share valuable insight as to why most women don't need sexual intimacy like their husbands do, but what good husbands can do to get their wives to want sexual intimacy more often.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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311. Understanding Why Sexual Intimacy To Your Husband Is Absolutely A "Need" And Not Just A "Want" In Your Marriage Nov 05, 2024

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It drives us crazy when we hear wive's say "my husband just wants sex!" and they treat it as if it is something strictly physical for him. Nothing could be further from the truth. If sex for a husband (man) was just a physical want, and not a need, he would just "take care of himself" and never bother his wife for sex ever again, and would he be content and happy in the marriage. But no man is happy with that! They want to feel connected, desired, safe and loved in the relationship. Sex is the way they feel and express love.
Of course when we say a sex to a husband is a "need", we know he won't physically die if he isn't making love to his wife, but the marriage and connection will eventually die if sex isn't prioritized.
Sex is not just a "want" in marriage, it is a need for MANY reasons, and your marriage will be much happier once couples realize how important sex is in their relationship, especially for the husband.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about how sex is a "need" for most men, and how if couples want a healthy and happy relationship, they need to understand the importance that sex plays in that.
We also recognize and acknowledge that a marriage needs to be in a good healthy place for couples to desire sexual intimacy and connection, and in this episode, we are talking to the couples that are in a healthy marriage with love and respect.
This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

310. Keeping It Simple - What Men "Need" And What Women "Need" In Marriage! Nov 01, 2024

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As you know, we cover just about EVERYTHING a married couple deals with in marriage in our podcast episodes. There are a lot of things to remember, and sometimes it can get very overwhelming.

In this episode, we decided to keep it simple and share, based on all the feedback we receive from husbands and wives, what men need and what women need in marriage to be happy. We recognize that this isn’t universal and that different marriages need different things. But for most men and most women, these are the things our audience has expressed they need to be happy.

This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy, libido or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

309. Incorporating The 5 Senses Into Your Love Making For AMAZING Foreplay And Intimacy Oct 29, 2024

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Think about how powerful our five senses are. What we see, feel, hear, smell, and taste makes life so gratifying and amazing! Take away any one of those, and life becomes a completely different experience.

So how many of us shut down our senses when it comes to foreplay and lovemaking? Many of us turn the lights off, removing our sense of sight. We try to be quiet instead of verbally expressing how much we’re enjoying each other through words and sounds, limiting our hearing. Some of us don't touch each other enough, kiss enough, or incorporate smell or taste into our lovemaking. Instead of using our senses to enhance and make our sexual intimacy more enjoyable, we often turn them off, leading to less sexual fulfillment.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of incorporating the five senses into your foreplay and lovemaking, and introduce our new SENSES foreplay card deck and intimacy box so you can make your intimate life even more fulfilling!

This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

308. Is It Healthy To Have Disagreements In Your Marriage? What The Experts Say Oct 25, 2024

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We had someone message us stating that we sounded like we were fighting in one of our previous podcast episodes, and they asked if we were okay in our marriage :) Amy and I laughed when we got the message and decided that we needed to do this episode on why it is healthy to have disagreements or to see things differently in marriage, and the difference between fighting and having disagreements. Because... it is totally normal AND healthy to have disagreements.

So, in this episode, we discuss why you will have a much better marriage if you do have disagreements, because many good things happen when you have disagreements and discuss them together. Let us know what you think at amy@ultimateintimacy.com.

This episode is sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com. If you feel like something is off with your energy or health, check out all the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help improve your overall health and well-being.

Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

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