437. What Does It Mean (And Look Like) To Be A Better Wife - With Austin Ellis LMFT Jan 23, 2026

In this episode, we have Austin Ellis back with us to dive into what it really means and what it looks like to be a better wife in marriage. You are going to absolutely love this conversation. We have already talked about what it means to be a good, loving husband, but as we all know, marriage takes two. A healthy, thriving, and passionate marriage requires both spouses intentionally pouring into the relationship.

In this episode, we explore what that looks like specifically for wives and how small, intentional choices can make a big impact on connection. Expert Austin Ellis, LMFT, shares practical insights, tools, and strategies couples can use to reconnect and strengthen their marriage. He dives into how spouses can move beyond simply getting their needs met and instead build a relationship where both spouses genuinely want to engage, feel emotionally connected, and rediscover passion together.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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436. Finding More Time For Your Marriage Amidst All Of Life's Demands... And Time Wasters Jan 20, 2026

A while back, we shared a video on social media about the importance of making time for intimacy, dating, and connection in marriage. One man responded strongly, explaining that he, and many other husbands, simply did not have the “time” and felt we did not understand the realities of busy life.

What followed was a conversation that went back and forth for nearly three hours, centered on his belief that there was truly no time available to connect with his wife. At one point, Amy gently pointed out that while he felt he had no time for his marriage, he had found several hours to engage in the discussion and remain active on social media. The conversation ended shortly after, but the point remained clear.

We hear this often. Couples talk about being too busy for date nights, postponing vacations, putting off intimacy, or avoiding deeper emotional connection. Yet we live in a world where convenience surrounds us. Food arrives in minutes, answers are instant, and entertainment is available at the push of a button.

Still, many couples feel they do not have time for the most important relationship in their lives, their marriage.

The truth is not that time is unavailable, but that it is often unintentionally allocated elsewhere. Screens, distractions, and endless obligations slowly take priority while marriage gets pushed to the margins. When couples begin to look honestly at how time is spent, even small shifts can create space for meaningful connection. Prioritizing marriage is rarely about finding more time, it is about choosing where our time goes.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we talk about why “too busy” is the ultimate relationship killer and the simple things you can do to reclaim your time, your connection, and your love, even in the middle of life’s chaos. If you’ve been putting your relationship on the back burner, this episode is your wake-up call.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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435. Repair Your Relationship, Reignite Your Intimacy - With Expert Austin Ellis Jan 16, 2026

Ever wonder if your marriage can be fixed and repaired… or if it's too late? You’re not alone. The great news is... it's never too late, and repairing your marriage is much easier than you think by implementing the right tools and strategies.

Tons of couples, and even just the spouses reach out to us asking how to repair and improve their relationships. That’s why we brought in Austin Ellis, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, to provide "the gold" on how to mend a relationship, even if you’re the only one trying.

Nick is flying solo again in this episode (don’t worry, Amy hasn’t gone off the grid, she’ll be back soon). Tune in for insights, and some real talk about how to build stronger, healthier, and yes… slightly less chaotic relationships.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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434. Staying Curious In And Out Of The Bedroom: The Secret To Lasting Intimacy In Marriage Jan 13, 2026

Is curiosity the ultimate love language? On this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive deep into the power of staying curious in marriage, and why it might just be the key to emotional and sexual connection that lasts a lifetime.

When you remain curious about your spouse, you notice the qualities that first drew you together, and you keep discovering new ones even if you've been married for a long time like we have. Curiosity and genuine interest prevents emotional stagnation and keeps intimacy alive.

Nick and Amy share practical ways to nurture curiosity in your marriage:

Ask open-ended questions that spark meaningful dialogue
Explore new hobbies, adventures, and shared experiences together
Celebrate evolving dreams and passions
Keep playfulness and laughter alive in everyday life

They also explore curiosity in the bedroom, showing how it can reignite sexual desire, deepen trust, and transform routines into playful, exciting exploration. Learn how to:

Talk openly about fantasies and desires
Try new bedroom games and intimacy aids
Communicate actively about intimacy

Curiosity doesn’t just enhance pleasure, it builds emotional and sexual safety, strengthens conflict resolution, and keeps couples feeling seen, heard, and cherished.

Whether you’re newlyweds or have been married for decades, this episode will inspire you to approach your spouse with fresh eyes, ask bold questions, and create a marriage that’s always growing, always exciting, and always intimate.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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433. The Secret To Becoming A Better Man, Husband And Father - With Austin Ellis LMFT Jan 09, 2026

Nick is flying solo in this episode and dives deep with Austin Ellis, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, into what it truly means, and more importantly how to become a better man, husband, and father. This conversation is packed with insights every man and can apply. This is also a great episode for the wife to listen to as well.

Austin shares actionable advice and thought-provoking perspectives that will challenge and inspire you.

This is a roadmap to building stronger bonds, deeper intimacy, and a more fulfilled life.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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432. Don't Have The Intimate Life You Want? Do These Emotional Intimacy Things First Jan 06, 2026

We talk about this all the time on the Ultimate Intimacy podcast — emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy go hand in hand. You can’t expect a strong sex life if you’re not emotionally connected first.

For most people, especially many women desire doesn’t start in the bedroom. It starts with feeling heard, valued, and emotionally safe. If that connection is missing, sexual intimacy often disappears right along with it.

That’s why when couples say, “Our intimacy isn’t where we want it to be,” we usually ask them how the emotional connection is, and most the time it isn't connected either.

When you focus on listening, showing appreciation, spending intentional time together, and connecting without pressure, walls come down and desire naturally begins to return.

And here’s the exciting part... when emotional intimacy improves, sexual intimacy often comes back stronger than ever. Couples become more open, playful, and connected, and intimacy turns into something you both look forward to again.

So if you want a better intimate life, don’t skip the foundation.
Build emotional closeness first, and watch every part of your marriage thrive.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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431. Love Doesn’t Assume... Love Asks, Love Listens And Love Responds Jan 02, 2026

One of the fastest ways intimacy erodes in marriage is through assumption.

We assume our spouse knows what we need.
We assume they understand how we feel.
We assume love means they should just “get it.”

But marriage doesn’t work on mind-reading as we have talked about before, it works on communication.

When we assume things, we stop asking questions. And when we stop asking questions, we stop truly knowing our spouse. Over time, those assumptions turn into unmet expectations, and unmet expectations almost always lead to frustration, resentment, or emotional distance.

Dr. John Gottman, one of the leading marriage researchers, talks about “bids for connection” the small moments where one spouse reaches out for attention, affection, or understanding. When those bids are ignored, often because of assumptions, couples slowly drift apart.

Assumptions also damage sexual intimacy. When one spouse assumes rejection, disinterest, or “now’s not a good time,” desire goes unspoken. Silence replaces vulnerability. And eventually, intimacy feels awkward or distant, not because love is gone, but because communication is.

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about how making assumptions or assuming things in marriage can crate a lot of disconnect and conflict.

Healthy marriages don’t assume. They ask.
They clarify.
They check in.
They choose conversation over silence.

Because love isn’t proven by how well you guess, it’s proven by how well you listen.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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430. Setting Goals That Actually Stick To Help Your Marriage In 2026 Dec 30, 2025

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy break down how couples can stop “trying harder” and start creating real, lasting change in their marriage and good marriage goals couples should set for 2026 to help them find Ultimate Intimacy in their relationship.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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429. Why The Lower Desire Spouse Needs To Initiate Once In A While Dec 26, 2025

In many marriages, the higher-desire spouse ends up being the one who always initiates sex. Over time, that dynamic can leave the lower desire spouse feeling pressured, and the higher-desire spouse feeling unwanted or unseen.

But here’s the truth: when the lower-desire spouse initiates, it can be incredibly powerful. It communicates love, desire, safety, and “you matter to me” in a way words alone never could.

In this episode, Amy and Nick dive into 12 fun, flirty, and confidence-boosting ways the lower-desire spouse can initiate sex with a higher-desire spouse. They also share why sexual intimacy matters so deeply in marriage, and why initiative from the lower-desire spouse can be a total game-changer for connection, trust, and emotional closeness.

If you want more passion, more playfulness, and a stronger bond in your marriage, then this episode is for you. 🔥

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428. Is The Sexual Intimacy In Your Marriage Controlled By One Spouse? Dec 23, 2025

In most marriages (whether done intentionally or unintentionally), the lower desire spouse typically has complete control and say so when it comes to sex. They determine "if" a couple is going to have sex, "when" they are going to have sex, and everything related to sex in the relationship.
Many husbands have expressed to us that they are the higher desire spouse and are scared to initiate sex with their wife for fear of rejection, having it cause an argument or conflict, and many other reasons. Because of this, and the fact that most women have a responsive desire style, many couples are not connecting sexually in their relationship (and often living in sexless marriages, or close to) because sex in the marriage is typically up to the wife.
In this podcast episode Nick and Amy discuss the reasons why this is, and how couples can work together to find a balance in their sexual intimacy and relationship where both spouses needs and desires are being met, and sex is something that both spouses have mutual respect and control over in the relationship.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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427. Interview With World Renowned Author Dr. Gary Chapman Of The 5 Love Languages Dec 19, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) sit down with world-renowned author and counselor Dr. Gary Chapman, best known for The 5 Love Languages. With over 20 million copies sold and translations in more than 50 languages, Dr. Chapman has helped millions of couples transform their relationships.

We talk with Gary about why it’s so vital to know and speak each other’s love languages, how to keep your spouse's “love tank” full, and why listening to understand, not just to respond, can transform your marriage. He also shares insights on staying curious, asking meaningful questions, and creating deeper emotional connection.

This is a must-listen episode for any couple who wants to grow closer, communicate better, and truly transform their marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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426. The Most Common Mistakes That We As Couples Make In Marriage Dec 16, 2025

Even the strongest couples can fall into trap of making "common" mistakes that can slowly erode connection and intimacy. These mistakes often happen when we get complacent and think things are going well.

In this episode, Nick and Amy share the top mistakes couples make, and the practical steps they used to rebuild trust and strengthen their own marriage. Whether you’re newly married or have been together for decades, this episode is packed with insights, stories, and actionable advice to help you grow closer and keep your relationship thriving.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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425. Stop "Trying" & Start "Doing" - 4 Steps To Breaking Your Bad Habits In Marriage & Life With Nate Whitson Dec 12, 2025

How often do you tell yourself, or hear from your spouse the phrase "I will try harder" and things never seem to get better? Things don't get better just by trying... you have to have a game plan and start doing.

In this very impactful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we interview Nate Whitson where he reveals how to finally stop "trying" and actually start "doing" when it comes to breaking bad habits in your marriage, or in your personal life. He share the 4 things you can start doing that actually work!

1. Make Bad Habits Invisible

Nate breaks down how reshaping your environment weakens temptation instantly. When a habit is out of sight, it loses its power.

2. Make Them Unattractive

Learn how to rewire the way you see your habits so they lose their appeal. A simple mindset shift can turn old patterns from comforting to unwanted.

3. Make Them Difficult

Friction works! Discover how adding small obstacles to harmful behaviors slows them down and gives you space to choose something better.

4. Make Them Unsatisfying

Bad habits stick because they reward you. We show you how to flip the reward system and create accountability and positive payoffs that strengthen your relationship.

If there are some bad habits in your marriage, or in life, this episode can be a game changer for you!

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424. Monotony & Marriage: How To Turn The Daily Grind And Boredom Into Something Good Dec 09, 2025

Is your daily life starting to feel like a copy-paste loop? Wake up, work, errands, dishes, Netflix, sleep and repeat? Feeling like the movie ground hog day? Do you feel bored in your life and marriage. You’re not alone, MANY couples feel this exact same way.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into a wonderfully practical and hope-filled conversation based on a fantastic blog article written by our good friend Nate Klemp, co-author of The 80/80 Marriage.

Whether you’re juggling kids, jobs, carpools, and clutter… or you’re just noticing each day blending into the next. Instead of escaping domestic life or chasing constant thrill, he offers two simple but transformative ideas: little novelty and happy boredom.

This episode is honest, relatable, and full of small shifts that can make a big difference in your connection as a couple.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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423. The Clear Signs That You're Putting Your Kids Before Your Marriage. Are You Doing These Things? Dec 05, 2025

Are you unknowingly putting your marriage on hold while you pour everything into parenting? In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy break down the 7 signs that your kids may be taking priority over your relationship.

Are your decisions centered around your kids’ schedules and activities?
Do date nights rarely happen because you’re “too busy”?
Do you feel guilty spending time alone together even though it hardly ever happens?
Is there no time or energy left for your spouse at the end of the day?

You’re not alone. So many couples fall into this cycle with the best intentions.

Join us as we share personal insights, real-life examples, and practical ways to reconnect as a couple, while still being incredible parents. Because a strong marriage is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children, and prioritizing your relationship isn’t selfish… it’s essential.

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422. Our Addiction To Technology Is Literally Destroying Our Marriages Dec 02, 2025

We have discussed in previous episodes the impact social media and our addictions to our screens is having on our marriages and relationships. In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Nate Klemp who is in the process of writing a new book titled "OPEN: Finding Freedom in a Screen Addicted and Divided World" which was released in 2024. We discuss many of the damaging effects our screens are causing to our marriages and to society. If you want to get a copy of this book, you can find it on the app under products.
Some of the things we discuss:

What was the most shocking statistic he came across while researching and writing this book.
How people are "loosing their freedom" through their screen addiction.
The ways our society is changing because of our screen addiction.
What are the ways we can manage our screen addictions.
How screen addiction is impacting marriages.

As technology and social media is truly taking away our freedom and causing destruction throughout the world, how can we use it for good and not allow it to negatively impact our marriages? Want to find out, then listen to this amazing episode. THIS IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT EPISODES YOU WILL EVER LISTEN TO.

This episode originally aired in 2022, but we felt it is so important and applicable even more so now days, that we wanted to share it again as it is a "must listen" for everyone.

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421. DESIRE DECEMBER Is Here... And Your Marriage Is Going To Love It! Nov 28, 2025

DESIRE DECEMBER is here and this is exactly what your marriage needs. I don't know what kind of write up to do to explain what this episode is.. so you will just have to listen to the podcast episode to find out :)

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420. Jealousy Impacting Your Marriage? Pets, Phones, Kids, Social Media... Nov 25, 2025

Do you find yourself getting jealous because your spouse gives more attention to the kids, their phone, or even the dogs? Does everything else seem to take priority over your marriage? Or are you feeling jealousy due to some of the things that your spouse does?

Jealousy in marriage is more common than we admit, and it can quietly erode even the strongest relationships. Jealousy causes resentment and frustration which can continue to grow.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore the complex emotions that arise when your spouse seems to give more attention to the kids, the pets, or even their phone. We discuss why these feelings happen, how they affect intimacy, and practical strategies to address them with honesty and compassion. Join us for a thoughtful conversation about navigating jealousy, strengthening trust, and fostering deeper connection in your marriage.

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419. Is Your Nightly Bedroom Routine Impacting Your Intimate And Emotional Connection? Poll Answers Nov 21, 2025

Ever wonder why you and your spouse feel distant by the end of the day? It might have nothing to do with big issues and everything to do with your evening and bedtime routine.

In this episode, we share some very simple things that our audience shared from our Instagram survey, like spending 30 minutes talking, putting phones away at 8, cuddling, or praying together, small habits that can be marriage changing.

These intentional moments help you connect emotionally, spark intimacy, and end the day feeling close rather than distant. It doesn’t take hours, just consistent, meaningful actions that make your spouse feel seen, loved, and desired.

In this episode Nick and Amy share poll answers, simple tips and stories to help conquer your bedtime routine so you can find more passion and unity in your relationship!

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418. When Husbands Feel Like Home Is Heavier Than Work: Viral Video Discussion & How Wives Can Bring More Peace Nov 18, 2025

A video of ours recently went viral showing husbands sitting in their cars after work, and it sparked a huge conversation, why do some men need these few minutes before coming inside? Sometimes home can feel heavier than work, and that moment in the car gives a pause to transition from stress to family life.

In this episode, we dive into how wives, and husbands, can create a peaceful, positive home environment that encourages connection, calm, and intimacy. We also discuss how the opposite, tension, chaos, or negativity, can make that pause even longer or more stressful.

The best part? These strategies aren’t complicated! With small, intentional actions, your home can feel more peaceful, unified, and welcoming, making it easier for both spouses to connect, decompress, and enjoy each other’s company.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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417. Help! Why Am I Not Attracted To My Spouse Anymore? Answers with LMFT Kevin Johnson Nov 14, 2025

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving into a topic we honestly never expected to cover, but It’s one of the most vulnerable, painful, and confusing issues couples face, yet it’s far more common than most people realize.

Over the past year, we’ve received countless messages from both husbands and wives who feel distressed, ashamed, or completely lost because their attraction toward their spouse has changed, or they say they aren't attracted to them anymore and don't know what to do.

Because so many of you have reached out and asked for guidance, we knew we needed to approach it carefully, compassionately, and with an expert. So we invited back one of our favorite guests and experts, LMFT Kevin Johnson, who specializes in relationships, emotional connection, and marital dynamics.

If you or your spouse have ever felt this way, or if you simply want to understand why this happens in marriage, then this podcast episode is for you.

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416. What Is Our Relationship With Anxiety? How To Manage It On A Personal Level And In Marriage With Kevin Johnson Nov 11, 2025

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with Kevin Johnson for an open and relatable conversation about anxiety,a topic that touches nearly everyone in one form or another. Anxiety is a normal function of life, and it shows up differently for each of us. It might surface when we’re speaking in front of a crowd, navigating unfamiliar places, facing personal pressures, or simply trying to keep up with life. For some people, it’s a manageable background hum; for others, it can feel overwhelming, even paralyzing.

Kevin helps break down what anxiety really is, and how anxiety doesn’t just impact individuals, it also deeply affects marriages and relationships. When one spouse struggles with anxiety, it can influence communication, intimacy, emotional connection, and even day-to-day decision-making. Left unaddressed, it can create misunderstandings, distance, or tension between spouses.

Join us for this very important episode.

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415. Over 1 Billion Women Are Currently Going Through This Life Altering Thing That Impacts Marriage - Must Listen Interview Nov 07, 2025

In this eye-opening episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy have an amazing interview with an expert discussing perimenopause and menopause—a stage that will affect over 1 billion women worldwide in the coming years. Did you know that around 47 million women enter menopause every year, yet many feel unprepared for the changes in their bodies, hormones, and intimate relationships?

Nick and Amy and their guest Jesse dive into the physical, emotional, and relational shifts that come with this life stage, sharing expert insights, experiences, and practical tips for maintaining connection, desire, and confidence. Whether you’re experiencing the transition yourself or supporting a spouse going through this period in life, this episode will be vital to help you both navigate this stage in life and offer guidance to help you embrace this next chapter with empowerment and intimacy. This episode will benefit anyone as this is something almost all relationship will go through.

Tune in for a candid, compassionate, and enlightening conversation about love, desire, and thriving through midlife changes.

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414. Ladies Turn... The Things That She Wants In The Bedroom Nov 04, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Amy and Nick turn the tables to talk about what wives really want in the bedroom, and it’s probably not just what you think. Drawing from listener feedback, polls, and real conversations, we uncover the deeper desires that make intimacy meaningful for women.

Join us for an open, encouraging, and funny discussion that might just change the way you think about connection in your marriage.

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413. The "Other" Things That Husbands Want In The Bedroom That Might Surprise You Oct 31, 2025

In this candid episode, Amy and Nick share 5 things about each other that you probably didn't know about them, before diving into the “other” things that husbands secretly crave in the bedroom .. and no, it’s not what you might think! Based on polls, real listener feedback, and honest conversations, we’re unpacking the other desires that often go unspoken.

From deeper connection and affirmation to playfulness, curiosity, and feeling pursued, this episode goes beyond the physical to explore what truly makes intimacy fulfilling for men.

Tune in as we share insights, laughs, and a few surprises along the way. We think most husbands will be nodding along.. and we’d love to hear if you agree!

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412. What Healthy Marriage Looks Like - The Pillars That Should Just Be "Normal" In A Marriage Oct 28, 2025

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the things that should just be "normal" in a healthy marriage. That doesn't mean we are all doing them, but we should be! Whether your relationship is thriving or you feel like roommates just trying to survive, this conversation will help you understand what strong couples do differently, and how to apply it in your own marriage starting today.

Nick & Amy break down the pillars that every healthy marriage needs in their opinion:

Open, Judgment-Free Communication — how to talk about anything without fear, shutdowns, or defensiveness
Teamwork Over Competition — shifting from “me vs. you” to “us vs. the problem”
Respect in Public and in Private — because tone and words can build love or burn it down
Emotional & Physical Affection — the fuel that keeps intimacy alive (far beyond routine)
Shared Responsibilities — creating fairness, partnership, and connection at home
Personal Space & Identity — why your marriage thrives when you remain whole as individuals
Clear, Healthy Boundaries — protecting trust and creating emotional safety
Appreciation & Gratitude — the tiny daily habits that keep love from growing cold.

If you’re ready to build a marriage that feels safe, passionate, playful, respectful, and deeply connected, this episode is for you.

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411. Doing This One Thing Will Bring So Much More Happiness Into Your Marriage Oct 24, 2025

In life, none of us are perfect, we stumble, fall short, and make mistakes. As Christians (Nick and Amy), we believe in the incredible gift of grace through Jesus Christ, who forgives us despite our flaws. But when it comes to our marriages, are we offering that same grace to our spouse? Or are we holding onto disappointments, expecting perfection, and being too hard on offering grace to not only ourselves, but also the one we love most?

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the power of grace in marriage and why it matters, how it strengthens connection, and how forgiveness can transform our relationships. Discover how showing grace to each other creates deeper emotional safety, trust, and unity with your spouse.

DISCLAIMER: We recognize that not all of our audience that listen to the podcast are Christian, but this can be so beneficial to your marriage regardless of your beliefs.

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410. The “Superpowers” Husbands And Wives Bring To Marriage — Poll Results! Oct 21, 2025

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy uncover the hidden “superpowers” we all wish our spouses had! Not talking about flying or X-ray vision... although we would also love that.

Amy recently ran a poll asking husbands and wives what superpowers they secretly wish their spouse could wield in marriage, and the results spot on!

Curious what your spouse secretly wishes for in your marriage? Tune in and find out, you might discover a few superpowers you didn’t even know you had, or should obtain!

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409. Never Have A Toxic Fight Again - The Advice We Wish We Had Sooner In Marriage! Oct 17, 2025

Are you tired of arguments that spiral out of control, or do you find yourself having the same arguments over and over again? Do you wish there was a better way to navigate conflict in your marriage without resentment, frustration, or toxicity? In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy share the transformative advice they wish they had known earlier in their own marriage with insights that can change the way you have conflict/disagreements, communicate, and reconnect with your spouse.

This episode will give you ideas and tools to fight fair, deepen your intimacy, and strengthen your bond for the long haul.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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408. Bad Marriage Advice Part 2 - What NOT To Do In Your Marriage Oct 14, 2025

In our last episode, we sat down with Monica Tanner to explore the bad marriage advice many of us have been given, advice that can quietly undermine even the strongest relationships. This week, Nick and Amy dive deeper into the topic in The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, sharing more examples of the misguided guidance that couples often hear and the real impact it can have on a marriage.

Tune in as Nick and Amy break down the myths, the mistakes, and the bad advice we’ve all encountered, so you can build a stronger, more authentic connection with your spouse.

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407. Bad Marriage Advice That Many Of Us Have Been Told - With Monica Tanner Oct 10, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive deep into the often overlooked and sometimes misguided world of marriage advice with Monica Tanner, the brilliant mind behind the eye-opening new book, Bad Marriage Advice. Monica pulls back the curtain on the most common pieces of advice we’ve all heard, and sometimes blindly followed, and she explains why these “tips” could actually be hurting your marriage.

We explore the advice we think is helpful but is secretly harmful, the myths that keep couples stuck in cycles of frustration, and the surprising truths that can transform how you connect with your spouse. Monica’s insights are honest, practical, and even funny, making this episode as enlightening as it is entertaining.

Whether you’re newly married, decades in, or just curious about what really makes relationships thrive, this episode is packed with revelations that could change the way you think, communicate, and love. Tune in and discover whether some of the things you’ve been doing to “improve” your marriage might actually be making it worse—and what to do instead.

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406. When Your Love Languages Are OPPOSITE! Is This An Opportunity In Marriage? Oct 07, 2025

Have you ever felt like you and your spouse speak completely different love languages? Maybe you crave words of affirmation while they’re all about acts of service. Or perhaps your need for physical touch feels invisible while they’re busy showing love in ways that don’t resonate with you.

In this episode, we dive deep into the reality of opposite love languages in marriage, why they happen, why they can feel frustrating, and most importantly, how they can become a powerful opportunity for emotional and sexual intimacy.

We share real-life examples from our own marriage, including moments when one of us was giving love in our language while the other’s needs felt unmet. You’ll hear how small, intentional actions, like noticing chores that need doing, initiating touch, or offering a genuine compliment, can completely transform connection.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

How to identify your spouse’s true love language when it’s opposite yours
Practical strategies to speak your spouses's love language even when it feels unnatural
Why emotional connection comes before sexual intimacy, and how this principle strengthens your marriage
How to avoid resentment when love language differences feel frustrating
Real-life examples of couples turning opposite love languages into deeper love, trust, and intimacy

Whether your love languages are totally opposite or just slightly different, this episode will give you the tools and perspective to stop feeling disconnected and start feeling deeply understood, desired, and emotionally close.

Tune in and discover how opposites really can attract... and thrive in marriage.

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405. Princess/Prince Treatment Or Bare Minimum In Marriage? Have You Had This Discussion? Oct 03, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into a fun and eye-opening discussion: what counts as bare minimum in marriage, and what truly deserves princess or prince treatment?

We go through real-life examples, giving flowers, planning surprise date nights, foot rubs, sending appreciation texts, initiating intimacy, cooking meals just because, and more, and ask each other whether each action is bare minimum or truly going above and beyond. You might be shocked by our answers!

This episode isn’t just about fun hypotheticals. It’s a wake-up call for couples to reflect on how they show love, appreciation, and care for their spouse every day. Would your partner agree with your answers? Are you spoiling each other or just coasting along?

We also explore the key to transforming your marriage: communication. Openly discussing desires, expectations, and ways to delight one another ensures both partners feel seen, cherished, and loved. Plus, we share practical questions you can ask your spouse to start this conversation, helping you become better teammates, lovers, and spouses.

Whether you are newlyweds or married for decades, this episode will give you tools and insight to deepen connection, increase intimacy, and bring fun and romance back into your marriage.

🎧 Listen, reflect, and start treating each other like royalty today!

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404. Breaking Free From The “Score Keeping” Syndrome In Your Marriage Sep 30, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the most common struggles couples face: keeping score in marriage.

So many couples reach out to us feeling overwhelmed and frustrated because things don’t feel “50/50. in their marriage. One spouse feels like they’re doing more, and resentment begins to creep in. The harder they try to keep score, and keep things equal, the more discouraged and disconnected they become.

When you keep score, you are competing agains each other and no one wins.

We’ll talk about why keeping score is so damaging to intimacy, how it slowly erodes trust and love, and why the more you strive for perfect equality the more disconnected and resentful you will become. We'll share healthier ways to approach balance, teamwork, and appreciation in marriage.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving more than your spouse or wondered how to stop the cycle of frustration, this episode is for you. Join us as we uncover how to move away from scorekeeping and toward a marriage filled with gratitude, unity, and joy.

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403. Are Your Eyes Wandering? Lusting In Marriage Sep 26, 2025

Mathew 6:28 "But I say unto you, That Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in is heart."

We have got a ton of people contacting us about this subject so we decided we needed to share our thoughts on this with you.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the tough but important topic of lusting after someone other than your spouse. We open up about why wandering eyes can quietly erode trust, intimacy, and connection with your spouse, and the dangerous paths it often leads to if left unchecked.

Most importantly, we share practical ways to protect your relationship, and refocus your desires where they belong, which is back on your marriage and your spouse.

We should only have our eyes on one person, and that is our spouse.

If you’ve ever wondered how to deal with this temptation of lust for someone other than your spouse, and outside of your marriage, this episode is for you.

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402. What Does Emotional Safety Look Like In Marriage.. And What Are The Things That Destroy It? Sep 23, 2025

Emotional safety is the foundation of lasting intimacy and trust in marriage. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into what it really means to feel safe with your spouse, and being able to share thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities without fear of judgment or rejection.

We’ll explore the signs of emotional safety, the common behaviors that destroy it, and practical ways to create a safe space where both spouses feel understood, respected, and supported. From breaking patterns like criticism, stonewalling, or dishonesty, to building habits of empathy, validation, and open communication, this conversation will help you strengthen the bond in your marriage and deepen your connection.

If you want more trust, better conflict resolution, and deeper intimacy with your spouse, this episode is for you.

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401. "Do You Love Me As Much As The Kids?" A Common question many husbands are wanting to ask Sep 19, 2025

Do You Love Me as Much as the Kids? A Conversation Every Couple Needs

One of our friends recently asked his wife, “Do you love me as much as the kids?” and it sparked a powerful conversation about love, priorities, and intimacy in marriage. Many husbands have shared with us, through messages or emails, that sometimes they feel like they come after everything else, especially the kids. And yes, this can go both ways, of course.

Instead of quickly answering, “Of course not! Duh!”, take a moment to reflect on your own marriage.

Does your spouse feel the need to ask this? Why? It’s not a bad question, it’s deeply important. When discussed in a loving, thoughtful way, it can strengthen connection, clarify needs, and prevent resentment.

In this episode, we dive into:

Why husbands ask this question and what’s really underneath it
How wives may unintentionally spark this concern
How to balance parenting and marriage without guilt or competition
Conversation questions that can transform your connection

Plus 5+ Questions Couples Can Ask Each Other on this episode:

When do you feel most loved and prioritized by me?
Do you ever feel like the kids come before you, and if so, what does that look like?
How can I reassure you that you’re my spouse first, even in busy seasons?
What would “balance” between marriage and kids look like in this season?
What’s one intentional or fun thing we could do this week to remind each other that our marriage comes first?

Tune in for honest, heartfelt advice that will inspire you to keep your marriage at the center of your life.

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400. Answering Your Questions About Intimacy Aids And Why We Believe They Can Be "Game Changing" For Your Marriage Sep 16, 2025

In this episode, we dive into a topic that’s often whispered about but rarely discussed openly—sexual intimacy aids and the powerful role they can play in relationships. Far from being just “toys,” these tools can help couples communicate better, deepen emotional connection, and reignite passion that may have faded into routine.

We explore ten key ways intimacy aids can strengthen partnerships—from boosting confidence and balancing different desire levels, to helping couples explore new sensations together and maintain intimacy as needs change over time. Along the way, we also answer some of the most common (and sometimes awkward) questions couples ask: Are intimacy aids only for couples with problems? How do we bring them up without embarrassment? Do they replace closeness, or can they actually bring us closer?

A couple of things that shifted our mindset on intimacy aids were setting two simple boundaries: “Does it bring us closer together?” and “Is it only used together?” Framing it this way helped us see these tools not as replacements for intimacy, but as bridges that deepen connection, playfulness, and trust.

Whether you’re in a brand-new relationship or decades into one, this conversation is all about breaking taboos, normalizing pleasure, and reminding couples that intimacy should be fun, evolving, and deeply connecting.

Check out our great vibrating ring and lubricant we discussed on this episode HERE.

Check out this great article "Can Using Sex Toys (intimacy aids) Really Make Your Marriage Happier?"

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399. The Libido Lowdown: 11 Facts That Might Surprise You Sep 09, 2025

When most people think about sexual libido, the first thought often goes straight to the physical aspect of things such as “Why doesn’t my spouse have any sex drive?” or “Something must be wrong with them physically.” But what if a spouses desire to be sexual (libido) really isn't physical, but is tied to how they feel emotionally connected?

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the surprising reality that libido is not just about the physical desire, it’s more about being mentally and emotionally connected. They explore what really influences sexual desire in marriage, the misconceptions couples often have, and why understanding these underlying factors can completely shift the way you approach intimacy with your spouse.

You’ll learn:

Why libido is is actually tied to how they feel emotionally, or the emotional connection.
The mental and emotional factors that play a huge role in desire
How stress, connection, and relationship dynamics can impact intimacy
Ways to better understand your spouse’s needs and strengthen closeness

If you’ve ever wondered why your sex drive, or your spouse’s sexual desire doesn’t look the way you expect, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and practical insights to build a stronger, more connected marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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398. When Intimate Time Feels Like a Moving Target In Your Marriage Sep 05, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into a common concern we hear from many husbands: “Intimate Time Feels Like a Moving Target!"

For some couples, intimacy seems to come with a long checklist such as chores finished, the house spotless, kids taken care of, emotional connection felt, and the right mood set... before intimate time is even an option. While those things can all be important, they can also leave one spouse feeling rejected, frustrated, or like intimacy is always out of reach.

We unpack why these expectations often develop, how they impact both spouses differently, and what couples can do to find a healthier balance. You’ll hear honest conversations about:

Why the “checklist mentality” can create distance instead of connection
Practical ways to lower unrealistic expectations while still honoring emotional and relational needs
How to create an environment where both spouses feel valued and desired

Whether you’ve felt like intimacy is always “just out of reach” or you’re the one needing certain things in place before feeling ready, this episode will give you insight, encouragement, and tools to bring more connection and fulfillment into your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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397. "What We Feed Grows, And What We Starve Dies" - How Does This Apply To Your Marriage? Sep 02, 2025

"What We Feed Grows, And What We Starve Dies" - This is one of our favorite quotes from our good friends Greg and Julie Gorman with Married For A Purpose. We love this quote because it is so powerful and true! In marriage, our thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes act like seeds, what we feed our thoughts grows stronger (good or bad), what we starve our thoughts dies.

Your thoughts truly shape what your marriage will be, what you focus on grows, and what you ignore fades. In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the powerful idea that your attitude can make or break your relationship.

If you constantly tell yourself you don’t like sex or or the things your spouse does, and only focus on the negatives in your marriage, those feelings only grow stronger. But when you starve negative thoughts and intentionally nurture positive ones, your connection, intimacy, and joy can flourish.

Tune in to learn how small shifts in your attitude can create big changes in your marriage.. helping you reconnect, laugh more, and build the kind of intimacy that lasts a lifetime.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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396. - Raw Talk About Mismatched Libidos & Sex Drive in Marriage - With Austin Ellis LMFT Aug 29, 2025

This episode is intended for couples in a healthy relationship who are looking to create better sexual balance in their marriage.

Sexual intimacy is a very important aspect of a healthy and thriving marriage. However, many if not most couples find themselves in a dynamic where one spouse has a higher sex drive than the other. This is completely normal, as no two people have the exact same libido.

The problem arises when (in a healthy marriage) the lower-desire spouse, often unintentionally, takes control over the couple’s sex life by determining "if" and "when" intimacy happens.

This imbalance can lead to frustration, resentment, and emotional disconnection. The key to overcoming this challenge is understanding the dynamics at play and working together to find a balance that satisfies both spouses.

If this is what it feels like in your marriage, you are not alone!

A study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy found that 80% of couples report having mismatched sex drives at some point in their relationship.
According to the Kinsey Institute, 60–80% of married individuals say they wish their spouse wanted sex more often.
A survey from the Marriage Foundation discovered that couples who have sex at least once a week are three times more likely to report being “very happy” in their marriage compared to those who have sex less frequently.
A report in Archives of Sexual Behavior noted that lack of sexual intimacy is one of the top reasons for marital dissatisfaction and divorce.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we are joined by Austin Ellis, a licensed sex therapist, who addresses one of the most common issues in marriage: finding sexual balance when you and your spouse have completely different sex drives, and how to create a balance that works for both of you.

We asked Austin a few questions in this episode:

What if a spouse wants it daily and the other spouse wants it monthly?

What do you do if you cannot find a balance?

Is sex really a need in marriage?

What does healthy rejection look like?

Join us for this incredible episode, where you’ll not only understand why this happens but, more importantly, learn how to find a balance that you can both be happy with, so you can enjoy a thriving marriage. This might be the most important episode that completely changes your marriage!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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395. How To Flirt, Laugh, And Connect To Have A More Playful And Intimate Marriage” – With Elaine (LMFT) And Abe Romero Aug 26, 2025

One of the most common things we hear from couples is that their marriage isn't fun, flirty or passionate anymore, and that they just feel like roommates.

Marriage doesn’t have to be all serious, it CAN be fun, flirty, and full of laughter! In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore how playfulness and connection can deepen your intimacy and strengthen your marriage.

We’re joined by Elaine (LMFT) and Abe Romero, experts in relationships and marriages, who share practical tips on how to flirt, laugh, and truly connect with your spouse, even in the midst of life’s chaos. From playful communication to reigniting chemistry, this conversation is packed with actionable advice to bring joy, fun, and closeness back into your relationship.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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394. You Can Be BOTH Spiritual And Sexual - With Greg & Julie Gorman Aug 22, 2025

Many of us grew up learning about sex through a worldly lens, leaving us with feelings of guilt, shame, or discomfort around sexual intimacy. But the truth is: sex is a beautiful, natural expression of connection. It’s a way for couples to be truly vulnerable with one another, like no other relationship allows.

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the powerful truth that you can be both spiritual and sexual, and that the two are deeply intertwined. Couples who embrace their sexual connection often experience a profound spiritual bond, creating intimacy that transcends the physical.

We’re joined by world-renowned marriage coaches and instructors, Greg and Julie Gorman of Married For A Purpose. Many of you may know them as the incredible facilitators from our Intimacy and Adventure Retreats. Together, we explore how to nurture your sexual and spiritual connection, overcome shame, and create the most fulfilling intimacy of your life.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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393. The 6 Mistakes Couples Make After Being Intimate Together Aug 19, 2025

Your first thought may be "what mistakes could happen after making love?"

What happens after sexual intimacy can be just as important as the intimate moment itself. Yet many couples unknowingly make mistakes that can lead to disconnection, hurt feelings, or missed opportunities for deeper connection.

In this episode, Nick and Amy share the six most common mistakes couples make after being intimate and the reasons why. You’ll learn how to turn those tender post intimacy moments into a time of connection, reassurance, and closeness.

If you want to strengthen your relationship and make every intimate moment count, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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392. The 21 AMAZING Facts You Probably Didn't Know About Kissing That Will Make You Want To Kiss More! Aug 15, 2025

Why dedicate an entire episode to kissing? Because this simple, sweet act is packed with incredible benefits for your relationship and your health!

Did you know that kissing can burn calories, strengthen your immune system, and even boost your mood by reducing depression? Plus, research shows couples who kiss often tend to enjoy stronger, more connected marriages.

In this fun episode, Nick and Amy share fascinating facts you’ve probably never heard before, along with tips for making kissing a more intentional and meaningful part of your relationship.

Tune in, because you’ll never look at a kiss the same way again!

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391. Marriage And Parenting Unfiltered... Funny Experiences! Tell Us We Aren't Alone :) Aug 12, 2025

We were sitting on the couch the other night laughing about how much of our daily life as a married couple could sometimes be straight out of a sitcom.
No one writes this stuff... it just happens in our house.🤣

In this podcast episode we share the funny things that happen in our marriage and with our kids that make us wonder "are we the only ones that do these things?" For example:

Do your kids text you from the room next to you?

Do you take 60 minutes to pick out a movie to watch together?

Does this sound familiar? “Where do you want to go for dinner?”
“I don’t care, you pick.”
“Okay… do you want to go to [Restaurant #1]?”
“Anywhere but there.”
“Alright… how about [Restaurant #2]?”
“No, not that one either.”

These are just a few of the funny things we share. We hope you enjoy this funny episode and also share your experiences for a future episode! Share them at amy@ultimateintimacy.com

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390. How An Intimate-less Marriage Negatively Impacts A Wife Aug 08, 2025

We often hear about how a lack of intimacy affects men, but what about the women? What happens when he’s the one with little to no sexual desire? Or if a wife is withholding or doesn't want sexual intimacy? Either scenario, the negative impacts are the same.

A man’s healthy sex drive often fuels romance, emotional connection, and the drive to pursue and cherish his wife. But when that is missing, it can leave a woman feeling undesired, disconnected, and confused.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive deep into the emotional toll and relationship challenges women face when intimacy fades on his side of the marriage bed. You won’t want to miss this raw and powerful conversation that’s rarely talked about, but desperately needs to be.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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389. The Major Turn-Offs That You Don't Even Realize You Are Doing In Your Marriage Aug 05, 2025

Let’s be real, marriage comes with a whole lot of love... and a few cringe-worthy things we didn’t sign up for. From open-mouth chewing to chronic nagging to that "Thanks-for-nothing" attitude, sometimes the smallest things can flip the switch from turned on to totally turned off.

In this episode, we share "your" poll answers on the things that really turn you off. These are the silent killers of connection, the subtle sabotage moves you probably don't even realize you're making... but totally are.

The good news? Awareness is everything. Once you recognize these turn-offs, you can flip the script and build deeper intimacy, appreciation, and that irresistible attraction you’ve been craving.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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388. Women Need To "Feel" Loved To Make Love, And Men Need To Make Love To Feel Loved! Aug 01, 2025

You've heard us talk about how different men and women are when it comes to sexual desires, and what puts a husband or wife in the mood. Men can be ready to go at any moments notice, and sex for most men is the way they feel loved, and gives them the validation that they are loved. For women, they need to feel loved before they are going to have the desire for sexual intimacy.

For a woman to feel loved, they need to feel valued, listened to, respected, safe and emotionally connected. For men to feel loved, they need to be sexually connected.

It is vital for couples to understand what each other needs to feel loved, and the importance of sexual intimacy in the relationship. In this episode we talk about why women need to feel loved to make love, and how to do that, and why men need to make love to feel loved.

🔁 Healthy Cycle:

Emotional intimacy → physical intimacy → deeper emotional bond → stronger desire → repeat.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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387. The Best Conflict Resolution Advice For Married Couples We Have Ever Heard! Jul 29, 2025

This might just be one of our most powerful and influential episodes we have ever done packed with insight, wisdom, and practical tools that apply to every marriage, no matter where you are in your relationship journey.

In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Tamara Fackrell, a divorce attorney, author, and PhD in Marriage & Family Relationships. Yes, you read that right! A divorce attorney who’s passionately working to help couples stay together and thrive.

Tamara shares transformative strategies for resolving conflict in marriage. These steps are clear, easy to apply, and designed to bring lasting peace and deeper connection to your relationship. Whether you’re facing frequent tension or just looking to strengthen an already solid foundation, this episode is full of tools that can change the trajectory of your marriage fast.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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386. How To Make Your Date Night A "Great" Night! Jul 25, 2025

Is Your Date Night Falling Flat? Or… are you skipping it altogether?

In this fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into how to turn your average date night into a great night! They’ll share real answers from couples in their latest poll, fresh ideas for planning unforgettable nights, and the dos and don’ts that can make or break your time together.

If your date nights have become routine (or nonexistent), this episode is your game plan for bringing back the fun, passion, and connection.

Don’t miss it, because your next date night might just be your best yet!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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385. How To Shift From "Parent Mode" To "Lover Mode" And Why You Need To! Jul 22, 2025

Balancing marriage and parenting can feel overwhelming at times. Between work, childcare, and household responsibilities, it’s easy for intimacy to take a backseat. However, transitioning from “parent mode” to “lover mode” is crucial for maintaining a strong emotional and physical connection with your spouse. But it is extremely hard for some women (and men) to do. In fact, in our recent poll we took, 60% of women stated it was hard for them to switch from mom (parent) mode to lover mode.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share answers from our audience about how they shift from parent mode to lover mode, and of course we will share our insight as well.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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384. Spicy Game Night Ideas (normal games turned 🔥) Jul 18, 2025

In this really fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re turning up the heat on your typical date night with some spicy game ideas for couples, and the best part? You probably already own everything you need!

This is one of our favorite things to do, because after all, the Ultimate Intimacy App bedroom game was developed because of one of the games we were playing to spice things up!

Think you need to buy fancy products or plan a big night out to connect intimately with your spouse? Think again. We’re sharing our favorite creative and playful ways to turn common household and classic games into something that sparks laughter, connection, and major chemistry.

From intimate twists on card games, dice games, and even things like truth or dare, and Jenga, we’ll show you how to reimagine game night as something that brings both fun and fire into your relationship. 🔥

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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383. Old-School Romance: How Chivalry Strengthens Marriage Jul 15, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re bringing back the charm, romance, and respect that make marriages thrive, starting with a deep dive into chivalry and what it actually looks like in modern-day marriage.

Chivalry not as outdated gestures or grand displays, but as small daily, intentional acts of love and respect, like opening the door, protecting your spouse’s heart, putting their needs first, and showing up with kindness and thoughtfulness, even when life gets crazy.

This episode will leave you inspired to bring more old-school romance into your everyday life, which your wife will love.

Spoiler alert: chivalry isn’t just for husbands. Wives can be chivalrous too! And when both spouses step up, the result is a marriage full of warmth, safety, admiration… and yes, intimacy.

If you're ready to bring the “wow” back into your relationship and lead with love in the little things, this episode is for you.

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382. All The MANY Benefits Of Marriage... Survey answers! Jul 11, 2025

In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the amazing benefits of being married, and we’re not just talking about tax breaks and shared chores! In fact we don’t even mention either of those! We discuss emotional security and companionship to better health and deeper intimacy, marriage brings a unique kind of fulfillment that singles just don’t experience the same way.

But this episode isn’t just our opinion, we asked you, our incredible audience, to tell us what YOU think the biggest perks of marriage are, and today we’re sharing your honest, heartfelt, and even hilarious answers!

Whether you've been married for two years or twenty, this episode will remind you why you said "I do"—and might even inspire you to appreciate your spouse a little more today.

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381. Top 10 Foreplay Tips From Our Wives Poll Jul 08, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into one of the most requested topics from our community: Foreplay!

We asked thousands of wives to share their favorite foreplay things they want to see from their husbands, and what puts them in the mood, and wow… they delivered! From emotional connection to those can’t-miss physical touches, this top 10 list is packed with real, tried-and-true tips that will take your intimacy game to the next level.

Whether you're looking to rekindle the spark or just want to be a more thoughtful and confident spouse, this episode is for you. Husbands, take notes. Wive's, send this to your man.

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380. The 7 Stages Of Marriage... And How To Find Passion During Each Of Them Jul 04, 2025

When Amy and I got married, we were head-over-heels in love with each other… but also totally clueless and unprepared for what marriage would actually throw at us. No one gave us a roadmap, and we we made a ton of mistakes early on!

Over the years, we’ve grown, stretched, stumbled… and learned that marriage isn’t just one long phase, it’s a journey with different stages in life that shift, surprise, and sometimes shake you. But understanding those stages can help you better navigate and stay connected.

Honestly, we didn’t even know marriage had stages until we hit year 18 and thought, “Wait… is this normal?”

If you’ve ever asked yourself that same question, especially if you’ve been married 10, 15, 20 years or more, then this episode is for you.

We’re breaking down the stages of marriage, what to expect in each one, and how to keep your intimacy and connection alive through all of them.

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379. Ask Yourself These VITAL Questions Before Going To A Marriage Therapist Jul 01, 2025

Are you thinking about going to a marriage therapist? Or maybe you're just listening to podcasts (like ours), reading books, or getting advice from influencers in hopes of improving your relationship? We wanted to share some vital questions you should ask yourself to make sure you're getting the kind of support that will actually help your marriage—not hurt it.

In today’s conversation, Nick and Amy share some of the most important lessons they’ve learned in their own journey, including why not all advice is good advice—even when it’s coming from a “professional.”

They discuss:

Why lived experience matters just as much (if not more) than credentials
How to discern if someone truly has your marriage’s best interests at heart
What red flags to watch for in therapists, counselors, and even social media “marriage experts”
How some therapists have unknowingly (or even knowingly) kept couples stuck or sick for years
The power of shared values and how that influences the direction of the advice you receive

This episode isn’t about bashing therapists—it’s about helping couples make informed, wise decisions when it comes to who they trust with "their" most important thing in their life, which is their relationship!

Tune in for a conversation that will challenge you to think deeper and choose more intentionally when it comes to who you allow to speak into your marriage.

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378. How To Avoid The "Death By Comparison" Trap In Marriage Jun 27, 2025

We live in a world that constantly invites us to compare. From curated highlight reels on social media to romanticized portrayals in movies, it’s easy to look at someone else’s relationship and start questioning your own. We often think "why don't I have a house like that" or "why is my spouse not like that". But comparison, especially in marriage, can be one of the most destructive habits we unknowingly fall into.

We polled our audience and asked the question "Do you find yourself comparing your marriage to others?" 65% said YES while only 35% said NO.

This is an area we have made changes in our own life and seen the benefits and happiness from not trying to compare to others. Join us for this great episode where we share our own experiences, discuss why the comparison trap is so deadly for your marriage, and the things you can do to eliminate if from your life.

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377. Is Your Marriage Intimate Enough?? Take This Quiz To Find Out Jun 24, 2025

Is Your Marriage Truly Intimate? It’s Not About Frequency—It’s About Fulfillment.

Intimacy isn’t a scoreboard. It’s not about how often you’re having sex compared to other couples, it’s about whether it’s meeting the emotional, physical, and relational needs of both spouses.

Sex in marriage goes far beyond the physical. It’s neurological. It’s hormonal. It’s deeply emotional. Science shows that regular sexual intimacy literally rewires your brain to feel more love, more trust, and more connection with your spouse.

In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into eye-opening stats, surprising research, and real talk about what makes a marriage truly intimate. and how to know if yours is. We even have a quiz to help you find out.

Don’t miss this one, it might just change everything.

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376. If You Were To Ask Your Kids What "They" Think About Your Marriage... What Would They Say? Jun 20, 2025

If you sat your kids down and asked them what they think about your marriage, what would they say? Would they describe a relationship filled with love, kindness, respect, and affection—or would they notice tension, distance, or disconnection?

In this thought-provoking episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore the powerful impact your marriage has on your children. Whether you realize it or not, your kids are watching, learning, and forming beliefs about love, commitment, and connection based on what they see between you and your spouse.

We dive into the intentional choices couples can make to model a healthy, loving relationship—one that teaches your children what a strong marriage truly looks like. From the way you communicate and resolve conflict to how you prioritize time together, this episode is a must-listen for couples who want to leave a lasting legacy of love.

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375. Why A Good Spouse Doesn't Deserve To Be In A "Non Intimate" Marriage Jun 17, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share our thoughts on why a good spouse doesn't deserve to be in a "non intimate" marriage. We are not just talking about sexual intimacy, but also emotional intimacy, because intimacy is not just a bonus in marriage, it is a CORE part of marriage.

It’s not at all selfish to want sex or affection. It’s human. A good spouse who pours into the marriage emotionally and physically shouldn’t be told to “just deal with it” if their needs go unmet.

A good spouse deserves mutual care—not emotional starvation or punishment through neglect. We also talk about the negative impacts to the relationship when intimacy is not prioritized in the relationship.

Join us for this great episode!

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374. 5 Steps To Rebuilding Trust In Your Marriage - We Share Our Personal Story Jun 13, 2025

Trust is the foundation of every strong marriage—but when it’s broken, it can feel impossible to get back. In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into five essential steps couples must take to truly rebuild trust and connection after betrayal or hurt.

We talk about what it really means to take full responsibility, why complete honesty and transparency are non-negotiable, and how emotional vulnerability can heal even the deepest wounds. We also explore the importance of patience, consistency, and daily reassurance—and why couples must go beyond “fixing” things and instead create a brand new foundation for their relationship.

We share our personal experience and the things we had to do to build back the trust after almost ending our marriage.

Whether you're trying to rebuild after a breach of trust or simply want to strengthen your marriage, this episode offers hope, guidance, and real tools to reconnect.

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373. Survey Answers: What Is The Best Marriage Advice You Have Ever Been Given That Actually Works In Your Marriage? Jun 10, 2025

We asked our audience: "What is the BEST marriage advice you've ever been given that actually works in your marriage?"
And you delivered—big time!

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the top responses from our community and share the real, raw, and practical advice that’s made a difference in real marriages. From mindset shifts to daily habits to those simple-but-powerful tips, this episode is packed with wisdom you’ll want to remember (and maybe even write down).

If you’re looking for tried-and-true tips that couples swear by, this episode is full of gold. You might just walk away with one piece of advice that changes everything in your own marriage.

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372. My Husband Says "Why Do I Need To Keep Dating You? We're Married" Jun 06, 2025

We had a listener reach out after one of our episodes and share something her husband said that really stuck with us:
“Why do I need to keep dating you? We’re already married.”

And of course, we had to do a full episode on it.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we talk about why dating your spouse is not just important—it’s essential. Marriage doesn’t mean the pursuit ends. In fact, that's when the real pursuit should begin.

We share:

The reasons why dating your spouse is so important.
Our most memorable dates :)
How dating each other again literally turned our marriage around

Whether you're in a dry spell or just need a little inspiration to bring fun and connection back, this episode is for you.

Because the truth is: dating isn’t something you stop doing when you’re married—it’s what keeps the marriage alive and thriving.

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371. Why Men Get Married vs. Why Women Get Married - Do You Agree? Jun 03, 2025

We (Amy and I) were having a discussion the other day about why we felt men get married and why women get married. I gave my reasons and of course she gave hers, but we wanted to see what you thought and if our reasons were in line with what other men and women thoughts, so of course we decided we had to poll our audience about this.

We asked both men and women, what are the top 5 reasons you got married? We share the answers we got from the poll and they were in line with what we thought, but more importantly, what do you think? Join us for this fun episode!

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370. How Can I Make My Husband Feel Like He's My #1 May 30, 2025

We had a wife reach out to us and ask how she could make her husband feel like he is #1 in their marriage. We thought it was great that she was asking that question, and that she truly desired to make him feel that way!

Life can get so busy and for many of us, we tend to assume that our spouse knows that we love them, so we can focus on other things. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share the ways "most" husbands feel like they are #1 to their wife and the things a wife can do to make her husband truly feel #1.

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369. What Are The Things A Wife Expects Of A "Good Husband" - And Is It Good To Have Expectations In Marriage? - Poll Answers May 27, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into a hot topic: What should be expected from a good husband?

We didn’t just guess — we went straight to our audience and asked real wives (and husbands!) what they think makes a man a great spouse. Their candid answers and heartfelt comments range from sweet and sincere to brutally honest — and you might just see your own marriage reflected in them.

But that’s not all… we took it one step further and asked wives: "Are your expectations of your husband too high?" And let’s just say… the results were higher than we expected.

Whether you're a husband wanting to step up, or a wife wondering if you're asking for too much (or not enough), this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of insights that every couple can learn from.

Don’t miss this powerful episode — because sometimes the key to a stronger marriage is understanding what your spouse really hopes for... and why it matters.

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368. How Finances Can Impact The Intimacy In Your Marriage May 23, 2025

In this can't-miss episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into one of the biggest sources of stress—and connection—in marriage: finances. Whether you're newlyweds or 20 years in, money matters can make or break intimacy and trust.

We’re joined by Dan and Kay Ockey, financial experts who specialize in helping couples thrive in their financial journey together. They break down the real talk around money—how to get on the same page, why most couples avoid the topic, and simple yet powerful steps you can take to build a strong financial foundation without the stress.

From practical budgeting advice to tools for healthy communication, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughs, and eye-opening moments.

Ready to replace tension with teamwork when it comes to money?
Tune in now and start turning your finances into one of your marriage’s greatest strengths.

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367. The Secrets To Unlocking Female Orgasm - With Cindy Scharkey May 20, 2025

Have you ever wondered what it really takes to unlock female pleasure and orgasm? Let’s be honest—most men don’t fully understand the female body, and what works one night might not work the next. The female sexual response can be complex and often feels confusing to navigate. That’s why we brought in Cindy Sharkey, a nurse and expert on the female body, to help decode it all. In this episode, we dive into the secrets of female pleasure and orgasm—what truly matters, and how couples can create deeper, more satisfying intimate experiences together. This is one episode you definitely won’t want to miss.

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366. Is Perimenopause Or Menopause Wrecking Your Intimate Life In Your Marriage? It Doesn't Need To - With Cindy Scharkey May 16, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re joined by one of our favorite guests, Cindy Sharkey—a nurse and expert on the female body. Cindy dives into the topic of perimenopause, sharing essential information every couple (both husbands and wives) should know, along with practical tips to navigate this season of life while keeping intimacy strong. Statistics show that sex can actually become even better for couples over the age of 50, so don’t let this stage hold you back. There’s so much hope—and potential—for an amazing intimate life during and after perimenopause!

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365. How To Not Just Initiate, But "Successfully" Initiate Sex With Your Spouse May 13, 2025

Have you ever initiated with your spouse only to be denied time and time again? In this fun lighthearted episode, we share the ways to "successfully" initiate with your spouse, and the fun ways to do so!

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364. What Attributes Make A Good Husband? - With Nate Whitson May 09, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re joined by Nate Whitson, the founder of Get in the Fight—an impactful organization dedicated to helping men become better husbands, fathers, and leaders in their homes and communities. Nate shares the four key attributes that define a great husband and explains how mastering these traits can transform your marriage and elevate your intimate connection.

Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship, grow as a man, or create a deeper emotional and physical bond with your spouse, this episode is packed with powerful insight and encouragement. Don't miss this inspiring and practical conversation!

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363. Why A Successful Marriage Often Produces Financial Success In Life May 06, 2025

Can a strong marriage actually lead to greater financial success? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore how a thriving relationship can often produce greater financial success in life, and the reasons why it often does.

Couples who are emotionally, physically, and spiritually connected often find they’re more aligned in their goals, values, and daily decisions. This unity leads to smarter financial choices, better communication about money, and a shared vision for the future. Instead of working against each other, you’re building something together—and that creates momentum not just in your relationship, but in your finances too.

This episode will help you see how a good marriage impacts every area of your life, including your ability to succeed financially.

Tune in to discover why investing in your marriage may be one of the smartest financial decisions you’ll ever make!

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362. What Are The Impacts Of Pornography - With Nate Whitson May 02, 2025

In this episode with Nate Whitson, we dive into the harmful effects of pornography and why it can be so damaging to marriages—often leading to deeper and even more disturbing issues. Whether you're struggling with porn or simply want to better understand its impact, this episode is eye-opening and explains why pornography should be avoided like the plague. If you are struggling with porn, we also want you to know there is hope!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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361. How To Increase Your Sexual Desire And Libido To Enjoy Being Intimate More Apr 29, 2025

Do you wish you wanted sex more often—or actually looked forward to it? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re talking all about how to increase your sexual desire and libido so you can enjoy being intimate with your spouse more.

The truth is there are several things you can do to help increase your sexual desire and libido. We're not saying after listening to the episode you are going to be throwing your husband (or wife) against the wall with passion when they walk through the door... but there are several things that you can do help that desire increase and continue to grow so you can enjoy that special connection more, because it is so vital for your marriage!

Whether your libido has taken a dip lately or you just want to feel more connected and passionate in your marriage, this episode is full of inspiration and tools to help you enjoy intimacy more often and more fully. Join us for this great episode!

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360. The Ground Rules For Better Sexual Intimacy In Your Marriage Apr 25, 2025

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving into the essential ground rules that every married couple should follow to experience deeper, more connected, and more satisfying sexual intimacy. Sexual connection doesn’t just happen—it thrives in marriages where trust, communication, and mutual respect are non-negotiable.

Whether your sex life needs a reset or you’re looking to level up an already strong connection, these rules will bring clarity and spark back into the bedroom.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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359. Barriers To Intimacy According To The Marriage Experts Apr 22, 2025

We talk quite a bit about all the barriers that keep couples from having the intimacy and connection they desire. These include, kids, technology, busyness, work, hobbies and so many other distractions. In this episode, we share more wisdom that Greg and Julie Gorman shared recently at the 2025 Intimacy and Adventure Retreat about barriers that keep couples from connecting, and of course what we can do about it.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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358. Game-Changing Marriage Advice From Greg & Julie Apr 18, 2025

We recently wrapped up our Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat, and it was truly an incredible experience! A couple of weeks later, we’re still reflecting on the powerful moments and deep connections that were made.

Greg and Julie are world-renowned coaches—easily some of the most inspiring and insightful people we’ve ever had the privilege of learning from. Every time they speak, they share an incredible depth of wisdom and knowledge that resonates deeply with couples striving for a stronger, more fulfilling marriage.

This year, we made sure to write down some of their most impactful insights, and in this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re excited to share them with you. Get ready for some wisdom that could transform your marriage!

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357. Is There A Lack Of Love And Affection In Your Marriage? Apr 15, 2025

We took a poll with our audience, and the results were shocking—so many spouses feel like they aren't receiving the love and affection they desire in their marriage! Love and affection often look different for men and women, and when we experience and express love in different ways, it can create challenges in truly connecting with our spouse.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the eye-opening poll results, share insightful comments from our audience, and discuss simple yet powerful ways couples can show love and affection to each other in ways that truly resonate. Don’t miss this important conversation—it could transform the way you connect with your spouse!

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356. Why Your Marriage Won't Likely Be Successful If Your Priorities Aren’t Aligned Apr 11, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about one of the biggest challenges couples face — misaligned priorities.

For many marriages, what starts as small shifts in focus can quickly create distance and tension. Maybe a wife unintentionally places the kids above her husband, or a husband becomes so focused on his career that his wife starts feeling neglected. When your priorities no longer align, it can leave your relationship feeling disconnected — and even put your marriage at risk.

We'll discuss why keeping your priorities in check is crucial and how those priorities can change depending on your season of life. For most Christian couples, the ideal order is God, marriage, kids, career, and so on — but what happens when that balance gets thrown off?

Tune in as we share practical ways to realign your priorities, communicate openly with your spouse, and create a relationship that feels secure, fulfilling, and deeply connected. Don’t miss this important conversation!

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355. How To Manage Stress And Stay Connected As A Couple Apr 08, 2025

Stress is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to drive a wedge between you and your spouse. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into how stress impacts both emotional and physical intimacy, sharing real responses from our audience about what happens in their marriages during stressful times.

We’ll discuss practical ways couples can stay connected even when life feels overwhelming, emphasizing the importance of intentionality, teamwork, and emotional awareness. Tune in for actionable strategies to strengthen your bond and keep intimacy alive, no matter what challenges come your way!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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354. Connected Conversations vs Disconnected Conversations And Why It Matters For Your Marriage Apr 04, 2025

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving into the difference between connected and disconnected conversations in marriage—and why it matters for EVERY aspect of your marriage whether it be emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, or even spiritual intimacy.

Have you ever had a conversation with your spouse that left you feeling deeply understood and emotionally closer? That’s a connected conversation. Now, compare that to the surface-level, distracted, or even frustrating exchanges that leave you feeling unheard or distant. These disconnected conversations create gaps in all aspects of your relationship.

So if you want to feel closer to your spouse in every way, and have more connected conversations, then this episode is for you!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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353. What Is The Difference Between Sex And Sexual Intimacy? Apr 01, 2025

When people hear the word "intimacy," they often think of sex — but there's a big difference between the two. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we break down what sets sexual intimacy apart from just sex and why it matters so much in your marriage.

Sex can be purely physical — a moment of pleasure without deeper emotional connection. Sexual intimacy, on the other hand, is about closeness, vulnerability, and feeling truly connected to your spouse — both emotionally and physically.

We’ll discuss how building sexual intimacy can lead to better communication, deeper trust, and a stronger bond. It’s about creating moments that leave you feeling loved, desired, and emotionally fulfilled — not just checking a box.

If you’ve ever felt like something’s missing in your intimate life or want to create deeper passion and connection with your spouse, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how shifting your focus from “just sex” to true sexual intimacy can transform your relationship!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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352. All The Amazing Health And Marriage Benefits From Having Frequent Satisfying Sexual Intimacy Mar 28, 2025

Did you know that regular sexual intimacy isn’t just good for your relationship — it’s great for your health too? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into the surprising science-backed benefits of sex.

From reducing stress and boosting your immune system to improving heart health and enhancing sleep, sex plays a powerful role in your overall well-being. Plus, we’ll share how a healthy sex life strengthens emotional connection, reduces pain, and even increases marital happiness... all back by statistics and studies!

Whether you're looking to improve your health, deepen your connection, or just enjoy more meaningful intimacy, this episode is packed with insights you won’t want to miss!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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351. The 5 S's A Wife Needs: Can You Guess What They Are? Mar 25, 2025

Last episode we talked about the 5 C's your husband needs from you. In this weeks episode we slip the script and talk about the S's your wife needs from you!

If you are a husband that feels like your marriage is a bit disconnected, and isn't where you want it to be, then this episode might be a great help for you.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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350. The Five C’s Your Husband Craves in Marriage - What He Want's You To Know Mar 21, 2025

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into the five essential things every husband needs from his wife.

Men and women may express love differently, but understanding these five C’s—Contentment, Connection, Companionship, Commitment, and Care—can transform your relationship. Are you showing appreciation for what you have together? Are you prioritizing emotional and physical connection? Do you still have fun as best friends? These simple but powerful shifts can strengthen your bond and bring more joy into your marriage.

Join us as we share the five C's to help you love your husband in ways that truly matter to him. Don’t miss this episode—it might be the key to unlocking deeper intimacy in your marriage!

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349. Let's Talk About The Mental Load That Happens In Almost EVERY Marriage Mar 18, 2025

Ever feel like you're carrying the weight of everything in your marriage — from managing the kids' schedules to remembering what’s running low in the pantry? The mental load can leave one spouse feeling overwhelmed and disconnected.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re talking about how to balance that mental load as a team. We'll dive into practical ways couples can divide household tasks, parenting duties, and daily responsibilities to reduce stress and create more connection.

From simple communication strategies to setting clear expectations, this episode will help you and your spouse find a rhythm that feels fair — and keeps intimacy thriving. Don’t miss it!

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348. Why Your Husband "Wants" And "Needs" To See You Naked.. The Many Benefits For The Both Of You! Mar 14, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're talking about something that can feel uncomfortable for many wives — letting your husband see you naked. But did you know that this simple act can have a powerful impact on your marriage?

We'll share how embracing vulnerability strengthens your emotional connection, builds trust, and keeps the spark alive. Plus, we’ll explain why men are so visual and how seeing you — fully, confidently — boosts his desire and his confidence as a husband.

If you’ve ever wondered why your husband wants to see you naked in your relationship, and the mutual benefits of it, then this episode is for you. Tune in for practical tips and real talk about how embracing your body can deepen intimacy and bring you closer together.

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347. Turning Your Trials Into Opportunities In Marriage Mar 11, 2025

Every marriage faces challenges, but those hard moments can become powerful opportunities to grow closer if you choose to approach them with the right mindset. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re sharing the ways you and your spouse can turn trials into opportunities to strengthen your relationship:

See Challenges as a Team Effort
Use Hard Times to Strengthen Communication
Turn Conflict into a Learning Moment
Lean on Your Faith & Shared Values
Prioritize Emotional & Physical Intimacy
Choose Growth Over Resentment

Tune in to this episode for practical tips, and encouragement to face your trials hand in hand—and turn them into meaningful opportunities to strengthen your marriage.

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346. The Red Flags That Could Be Happening In The "Conflict Situations" In Your Marriage Mar 07, 2025

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the red flags that can show up during conflict in marriage and how to prevent them before they escalate.

We talk about how to keep conflict healthy, choosing the right time and place to argue, focusing on solutions, to keep your relationship strong.

Remember, it’s about being a team, not about winning the argument. Tune in to learn more on how to handle conflicts in a way that strengthens your marriage, and what red flags to look out for when you are having conflict.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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345. Men Need To Control Their Sexual Energy While Women Need To Awaken It - How To Find A Good Balance Mar 04, 2025

In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving deep into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely talk about openly—the difference between awakening and harnessing sexual desire.

For most men, sexual desire is always "on." They’re ready to go at any moment and often can’t understand why their wives don’t feel the same way. On the flip side, many women often need to awaken their sexual desire, which can feel like a chore when life is already so overwhelming. It’s not about a lack of love or attraction—it’s simply a different sexual wiring.

We’ll talk about why these differences exist, how they affect intimacy, and why understanding this can be a game-changer in your marriage. Plus, we’ll discuss the common dynamic where wives often hold the power over “if” and “when” sex happens—and how couples can navigate this dynamic in a healthy and loving way.

Whether you’re the one who’s always ready or the one who needs a little warming up, this episode will help you connect, communicate, and create more balance in your intimate life.

DISCLAIMER: We recognize this is not the case for everyone and there are exceptions.

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344. How Social Media Is Intentionally Trying To Target And Destroy Your Marriage... So What Are You Going To Do About It? Feb 28, 2025

Did you know that social media algorithms might be intentionally targeting and sabotaging your marriage? It’s true—while men are being bombarded with sexualized content, women are getting hit with videos about appearance, weight loss, and anything to make them feel “not enough.”

It’s not an accident. These platforms know exactly what they’re doing—and it’s devastating on marriages everywhere. From creating trust issues to fueling insecurities, the damage can be deep and often goes unnoticed until it’s too late.

In this eye-opening episode, we’re diving into real stories (including our own!) and breaking down how to spot these sneaky tactics. Plus, we’ll share practical tips to guard your relationship and reclaim control over what influences your marriage.

This is an episode every couple needs to hear—because your marriage is worth protecting!

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343. Knowing The Different Sex Languages: Because Saying "Are You in the Mood?" Doesn't Work Feb 25, 2025

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the fascinating topic of sex languages and explore how understanding them can transform your relationship. Just as love languages help couples connect emotionally, sex languages reveal how each person experiences and enjoys sexual intimacy.

We break down the different sex languages, offering insights into what they mean and how it would look. Whether your sex language is about connection, adventure, fun, or safety, knowing this can bridge gaps in intimacy and reduce misunderstandings in the bedroom.

Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that might just be the key to unlocking deeper intimacy and connection in your marriage!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
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342. Why We Often See Or Hear ONLY What We "Want" To See Or Hear— How Confirmation Bias Affects Marriage Feb 21, 2025

In our videos, podcasts, and other things that we do, we sometimes get feedback from people that make comments that leave us wondering "how in the world did they come to that impression?" or "what podcast are they listening to?" Or they interpret something from the podcast, newsletter or video that in reality had nothing to do with what we were even stating. People see and hear what they want to based upon their experiences, emotions and many times what they are going through.
The human brain is wired to interpret information based on past experiences, emotions, and current circumstances. This phenomenon is called confirmation bias — the tendency to search for, interpret, and remember information that aligns with our existing beliefs and feelings.
We often do this in our marriages as well which can cause great harm or damage, especially if there is not open communication, or our pride and ego is too high. Also, one of the reasons why this is so serious is Miscommunication is one of the top three causes of divorce, according to a study by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers?
In this episode, we discuss this important topic and solutions as well as statistics to help you combat this in you marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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341. The Emotional Costs Of Being In A Sexless Marriage Feb 18, 2025

If you’ve been a longtime listener of our podcast, you know that we always emphasize the deep connection between emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy. The two are inseparable—when one is lacking, the other suffers. And when sexual intimacy begins to fade in a marriage, the emotional toll can be devastating.

In this episode, we tackle a difficult but necessary conversation: the emotional impacts of a sexless (or nearly sexless) marriage and why, if left unaddressed, it often leads to divorce.

We’ll discuss:

Why sex is more than just physical—It’s a bonding experience that builds trust, connection, and closeness.
How emotional and physical intimacy fuel each other—When physical affection disappears, so does emotional security, leading to loneliness, resentment, and disconnection.
What happens to a marriage when one spouse feels rejected—Lack of intimacy can make one or both spouses feel unwanted, unseen, or unloved, creating a wedge in the relationship.
Why resentment builds over time—When needs aren’t met, frustration and bitterness take over, making it even harder to reconnect.

And much more!

But we’re not just here to talk about the problems—we’re here to offer real solutions. If you’re struggling in this area, or you don't want to ever struggle in this area, this podcast episode is for you!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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340. BRAND NEW app released, more features, stronger emotional and sexual intimacy! Feb 14, 2025

We have been working on this project for nearly a year, pouring our hearts and souls into creating something truly special for married couples—and it’s finally here! 🎉

Our brand-new app, UandI, is officially available for download on both Android and iPhone! This isn’t just another couples app; we’ve designed it with some features we haven’t seen anywhere else—features that we believe will be absolute game-changers for your relationship!

Here’s a sneak peek at what you’ll find inside the UandI App:

Home Harmony – Say goodbye to the constant back-and-forth about who’s doing what! This feature helps couples sync household responsibilities, create to-do lists, and bring more balance into everyday life. Because when teamwork is strong at home, intimacy naturally thrives!

How Well Do You Know Your Spouse? – Think you know your spouse inside and out? This fun and interactive game will put your knowledge to the test! Answer questions about yourself, have your spouse guess your answers, and then compare results to see just how well you really know each other!

Intimate Conversations – Deep and meaningful conversations are the foundation of a strong, connected marriage. This section includes thought-provoking, intimate questions designed to spark deeper emotional and physical connection between you and your spouse.

Spicy (But Classy) Bedroom Fun – We’ve included non-graphic position matching game, scratch-off positions, and other exciting bedroom games to help you keep the passion alive in a fun and tasteful way!

Quizzes - Take our different quizzes to know how your spouse deals with conflict, love language and others.

And that’s just the beginning! There is SO much more inside UandI, and we can’t wait for you to experience it.

Join us on this episode as we dive into the incredible features that can help enhance your connection, and why we truly believe UandI is the ultimate tool for strengthening your marriage!

Download it today and start bringing more fun, intimacy, and connection into your relationship!

Download the UandI App.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why almost 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
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339. The Marriage Audit: What Would Your Spouse Say If They Were 100% Honest? Feb 11, 2025

Regardless of whether your marriage is thriving, or just surviving, a Marriage Audit can greatly improve your relationship. It isn’t just a casual check-in—it’s a deep dive into the strengths, struggles, and blind spots in your relationship.

What would your spouse really say if they were 100% honest?

In this episode, you'll find out how to ask the tough but necessary questions to ask your spouse, how to create a safe space for raw honesty, and why facing the truth (even when it’s uncomfortable) is the key to deeper connection.

Are you ready to uncover what’s really working—and what needs attention? Tune in as we break down the why, the how, and the life-changing benefits of a Marriage Audit. Because the strongest marriages aren’t the ones that avoid hard conversations—they’re the ones that embrace them.

For the Marriage Audit Free Printable click HERE.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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338. Let's Talk About Sex Part 2 - 20 Things Husbands Wish Their Wive's Knew Feb 07, 2025

In this episode, we continue our conversation about intimacy in marriage—this time from the husband’s perspective. In the previous episode, Amy shared the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew, and now it’s Nate’s turn to reveal the things men wish they could tell their wives—but often don’t know how to say.

If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on in your husband’s mind when it comes to intimacy, this episode is a must-listen. Nate dives into helping wives understand what their husbands wish their spouse new.

Here’s just a glimpse of what we’re covering:

Don’t Use Sex as a Weapon – How intimacy should never be used as punishment, leverage, or control.
He Wants to See You – Why visual connection is important for him and how body confidence plays a role.
Tell Him Clearly – Husbands aren’t mind readers—here’s why clear communication makes all the difference.
Flirt with Him – How small moments of playfulness, teasing, and attraction fuel long-term intimacy.
He Wants You to Want It – Why feeling desired (not just obligated) is a game-changer for your marriage.
It’s Not You, It’s Him – Understanding how stress, performance anxiety, and external pressures can impact a husband’s intimacy.

Many wives assume that men just “want sex” without deeper emotional needs, but the truth is, intimacy is about so much more for husbands. They long to feel wanted, respected, and deeply connected—and when that happens, everything in marriage gets better.

This is an episode you don’t want to miss! Whether you’re a wife who wants to better understand your husband or a husband who’s struggling to express what you truly need, this conversation will bring clarity, connection, and maybe even some breakthroughs in your marriage.
Get the book Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian Husbands And Wives Wish Their Spouse Knew (Or Would Do), But Don’t Know How To Tell You.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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337. Let's Talk About Sex! 20 Things Wive's Wish Their Husbands Knew Feb 04, 2025

In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Nate Whitson as he and Amy announce the release of their brand-new book:
👉 Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian Husbands And Wives Wish Their Spouse Knew (Or Would Do), But Don’t Know How To Tell You.

Amy and Nate open up about why they felt compelled to write this book together, what they learned in the process, and how it can truly transform your relationship. But here’s where it gets really good—Amy dives deep into the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew about sex, intimacy, and connection.

This book will transform your marriage both in and out of the bedroom. If you’ve ever struggled to talk about intimacy with your spouse or wished they just knew what you needed without you having to say it, you won’t want to miss this!

If you’ve ever thought:
“I wish my spouse just understood me better when it comes to intimacy.”
“We struggle with different sex drives—can we ever get on the same page?”
“How can we keep our connection strong, even outside the bedroom?”

Then this episode (and the next one!) is for YOU.

Here are just a few of the 20 eye-opening topics Amy unpacks in this conversation for the chapters she wrote for husbands:
🔥 Her Mind Is the Biggest Sex Organ – Why emotional connection is everything for a wife’s desire.
🔥 Break Down the Barriers – How past experiences, stress, and insecurities impact intimacy.
🔥 Put Her First, Win Big! – Why prioritizing her pleasure changes everything.
🔥 Different Drives? No Biggie – How to navigate mismatched libidos without frustration.
🔥 The Magic Button – What every husband needs to understand about his wife's body.
🔥 Talk It Out, Spice It Up – The power of communication in building a passionate marriage.
These episodes aren’t just about sex—they’re about building the kind of trust, intimacy, and connection that makes your entire marriage stronger.

Don’t miss this conversation! Tune in now and get ready to change the way you think about intimacy in marriage.

Buy the book HERE!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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336. Do Husbands Need Romance Too? 3 Freebies You Need! Jan 31, 2025

In this episode, we dive into a question that isn’t talked about enough—do husbands need romance in their marriage too? We ran a poll asking men if romance is important to them, and the responses might surprise you! Spoiler alert: romance isn’t just for wives.

We break down what romance actually looks like for both husbands and wives because let’s be honest—men and women often experience romance in completely different ways. While many women crave thoughtful gestures, words of affirmation, and deep emotional connection, men often appreciate romance in ways that might not be as obvious. Whether it’s physical touch, playful flirtation, or simply feeling appreciated, every spouse wants to feel desired and pursued.

And since Valentine’s Day isn’t just a day—it should be a mindset—we’ve created three free printables to help you make the entire month (and beyond) more romantic, meaningful, and exciting for your marriage. These are simple, fun, and designed to bring you closer together, whether you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom, deepen your emotional connection, or simply add more joy to your everyday moments.

Tune in to this episode, grab your free printables, and get ready to make this Valentine’s Day (month, year, and marriage) the best one yet! ❤️

FREE printables

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If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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335. What Does Respect In Marriage Look Like? And The Ways To Show It! Jan 28, 2025

We hear from so many spouses who tell us they don’t feel like their spouse respects them. Of course, what respect looks like can look very different for every couple, depending on their unique dynamics, values, and needs. However, one thing remains true: when a spouse doesn’t feel respected in the relationship for ANY reason, it can lead to severe consequences—both emotionally and sexually. Respect is foundational to intimacy, trust, and connection, and its absence can create barriers that are difficult to overcome.

To gain deeper insight, we decided to poll our audience and ask them (you!) what respect—or the lack of it—looks like in their marriages. The responses we received were eye-opening and revealed just how differently respect is perceived and experienced in relationships.

In this episode, we share the surprising results of our poll and dive into the various ways couples can show respect to one another in meaningful, practical ways. From small daily gestures to deeper acts of consideration, we’ll explore how respect can transform a marriage and create a stronger, more connected bond between spouses.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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334. We Become What We Consume - 10 Hidden Poisons That May Be Hurting Your Marriage Without You Even Knowing! Jan 24, 2025

There are so many hidden poisons out there that have profound negative impacts on our relationships, and for many of us, we don't even recognize that we are being poisoned. For example, how are the movies or TV shows we watch influencing us? Do the things we consume on social media poison our relationships? We think they do! What we consume absolutely shapes our views about our relationships, and we generally become what we consume.

In this episode, we share 10 common and hidden poisons that may be hurting your marriage without you even knowing it!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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333. Happy Couples Do These Things... Unhappy Couples Don't - It's Just That Simple Jan 21, 2025

Have you ever wondered what makes some couples seem effortlessly happy while others struggle with constant dissatisfaction? The truth is, it often comes down to a few key habits and attitudes that happy couples practice consistently.
These behaviors foster deeper emotional connections, better communication, and more fulfilling intimacy. On the flip side, unhappy couples tend to fall into negative patterns that erode their relationship over time.

In this episode we explore what happy couples do differently, share real-life examples, and offer practical remedies to help you cultivate a thriving marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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332. The 11 Things You DON'T NEED Before Being Intimate. Is The Bar Being Set Too High? Jan 17, 2025

We hear from spouses all the time that the bar is set too high and that their spouse requires too much from them before being willing to be intimate.

If you want to be happy in your marriage, you should naturally be doing things like providing emotional intimacy and connecting as a couple. There shouldn’t be certain achievements that must be met in order to experience the intimacy you should already be sharing.

In healthy marriages, why do we often set prerequisites for sexual intimacy too high? In this episode, we talk about the things that shouldn’t have to always be done prior to connecting intimately.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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331. Your Attitude Shapes Your Reality - Fix Your Attitude For A Better Sex Life And Marriage Jan 14, 2025

If you find yourself constantly unhappy in your marriage or dissatisfied with your sex life, it might be time to take a hard look at your attitude. While external factors like busy schedules, stress, and unmet expectations can contribute to intimacy issues, your mindset and approach toward your relationship play a far bigger role than most people realize.

Here’s the truth: Your attitude shapes your reality. If you’re harboring resentment, negativity, or unrealistic expectations, it’s likely that your sex life and marriage are suffering because of it. How could you enjoy being intimate if you keep telling yourself you dont like to be intimate?
In this episode, we share the signs that your attitude might be the issue as to why you are unhappy about your marriage and sex life. We also share our poll results and statistics that may surprise you. If you want to have a better relationship then this episode is for you.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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330. The Emotional Intimacy vs. Physical Intimacy Standoff... Is It Happening In Your Marriage? Jan 10, 2025

We did a podcast like this a few years ago, but we felt is was such an important topic that we needed to do it again.
In a video on social media for the men titled “the reasons your wife doesn’t want to make love to you” we heard from a lot of the women that it is because their emotional needs are not being met. In one of the comments from the video, a husband stated:

“A man’s emotional needs are linked to his wife making love to him, which she won’t do unless her emotional needs are met first, Thus the man becomes responsible for his and his wife’s emotional needs.” This was a powerful statement which caused us to do this podcast, and reflect on this in our marriage as well.

Most women want an emotional connection before having a physical connection with their husband. And for most men, they need to have the physical connection before they will feel safe enough for the emotional vulnerability and connection with their wife.

So for MANY marriages it looks like this:

The wife will withhold sexual intimacy (and sometimes use it as a weapon) as a punishment to try to get the emotional intimacy she wants from her husband.

The husband is usually upset and doesn’t meet his wife’s emotional needs because his wife won’t meet the physical needs in the relationship (because a husband needs the physical connection first).

Sound familiar? This toxic game (or standoff) is played in many relationships.. and in this game, no one ever wins and the marriage suffers from it, many times ending in divorce, especially if they are not willing to talk about it and resolve it.
In this episode, we discuss the things couples can do to get both of their needs met so they can have a fulfilling marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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329. Are You Intentionally (Or Unintentionally) Allowing Your Kids To Wreck Your Sex Life And Marriage? Jan 07, 2025

We often do things in our marriages that have profound impacts without even recognizing we are doing them. Sometimes we do them unintentionally, and other times intentionally. When it comes to our kids, it is not uncommon for spouses to prioritize their kids over their relationship with their spouse. This can, of course, have a big impact on the relationship.

Join us for this episode where we talk about the ways couples can put their marriage first to have a much better relationship!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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328. The Goals You Should Absolutely Set Together For More Passion, Fun And Connection Jan 03, 2025

As the 2024 year wraps up, we decided that we were going to set some new goals to help our marriage thrive in 2025 and we think these goals can really help your marriage as well. However, these goals don't have to just be new years goals, you could set them anytime of the year!
Some of these goals include:
Daily physical touch such as holding hands, hugging etc
Do an adventure together monthly
Try to laugh together daily
Surprise each other with something at least once a month
If you want to hear the rest you will have to listen to the episode :)
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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327. The Valuable Lessons I Learned From My Divorced Parents - What Not To Do! Dec 31, 2024

My parents got divorced when I was about 15 years old. As that happened over 30 years ago, I have been able to reflect and look back on the things I noticed that had caused the marriage to fail. I also learned valuable lessons of what "not" to do in my relationship.
In this episode Nick shares the things he learned from his parents divorce and the vital things couples should do to keep their marriage from ending up in divorce as well.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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326. The Top Things You NEED To Do To Be Amazing In The Bedroom - For BOTH Of You! Dec 27, 2024

If you want to have amazing sexual intimacy and connection in the bedroom, there are certain things you need to do not only in the bedroom, but outside of the bedroom. Good emotional intimacy typically equals good sexual intimacy.
In this podcast episode we dive into the 10 things you need to do as a couple to have amazing intimacy in the bedroom. So.. If you are couple that wants to have a better relationship in and out of the bedroom, then this podcast episode should be on your list!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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325. Do You Want To Know The Reason(s) Why There Is No Romance In Your Marriage? And The Simple Things To Turn It Around! Dec 24, 2024

Many of us get stressed out and busy with life, and our intimacy takes a back seat to everything else going on in our lives. Soon, we realize there is no romance or passion in the relationship and wonder, "How did we get here?"

For many of us, we become complacent. We stop going on date nights, sharing interests or hobbies, and doing things together. We start leading separate lives, and it feels like we become more like roommates. We put forth little to no effort because, after all, we’ve already won our spouse over. :) Life gets predictable as we fall into our daily routines.

We have totally been there too! And every day, we try to ensure it doesn’t slide back into that again! In this episode, we share the reasons why couples lose the romance in their relationships and what they can do to get it back!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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324. The Ways To Make Your Husband Feel Like A Stud! Dec 20, 2024

Ok, let's be honest, it really isn't that difficult to make your man feel like a stud :) But.. we still wanted to share our poll answers from the husbands and let you hear directly from them as to what they need from their wive's to feel loved and appreciated.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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323. The Simple And Profound Ways To Make Your Wife Feel Beautiful, Sexy and Loved Dec 17, 2024

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into what it truly means to make your wife feel beautiful—not just in how she looks, but in how she feels valued, cherished, and seen. The things you do and say play a huge role in helping her see the beauty you see in her every day.

We share the poll answers we received from wives about what they want from their husbands to feel more beautiful!

We also discuss why it’s important to celebrate her confidence, encourage her self-care, and show her how much she means to you through both small gestures and big actions.

Whether you’ve been married for years or are still newlyweds, this episode is packed with tips to strengthen your connection and make your wife feel more loved, appreciated, and beautiful every single day.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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322. How To Rebuild Your Marriage For The Intimacy And Relationship You've Dreamed Of (our story) Dec 13, 2024

Rebuilding your marriage... what does that mean? About half way through our marriage, our marriage was broken and at rock bottom. We decided that our marriage wasn't working and we weren't going to last that way as we weren't happy, nor was our marriage what we wanted it to be, and so we rebuilt our marriage to the marriage we wanted to have instead of staying with the current marriage we had.
In this episode, we share the things that we did in our relationship that helped us rebuild our marriage to something wonderful! It took a lot of work, time and effort, but it was absolutely worth it! If you are feeling like your marriage, or certain aspects of your marriage could be "rebuilt" to be better, then this episode is for you. We share the tools and things we did and hope they can help you as well.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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321. Words Matter! The Things You Say To Your Spouse Can Have Significant Consequences (Either Good Or Bad) Dec 10, 2024

Words hold incredible power, especially in marriage. The things you say to your spouse can either build them up or tear them down. Every conversation has the potential to strengthen your relationship or create distance. Your words matter a great deal in your marriage. Here are some of the reasons why:
Words shape emotional intimacy
Words can heal or hurt
Words often reflect your heart
Words either build trust or break trust
Words have a long-lasting impact
In this episode we share the things you should never say to your spouse no matter how upset or hurt you are. We have experienced some of these things in our marriage, so we are speaking from experience.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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320. Thoughtful Gifts Your Spouse Will Love! Incorporating The 5 Love Languages Dec 06, 2024

The Christmas season is an amazing time to focus on Christ, your family, and your spouse, to be grateful for all you have, and to give meaningful gifts that show your spouse how much you love them. But for many of us, this can be a very stressful process. If you’re like me, it’s so hard to find that perfect gift for your spouse!

If you want to give your spouse the perfect gift, you first need to know their love language. In this episode, we share thoughtful gift ideas for your spouse, tailored to each of the love languages.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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319. What Prioritizing Intimacy Looks Like: Husbands vs. Wives Dec 03, 2024

The holidays are just around the corner—a time filled with family, festivities, and endless to-do lists. But while the season brings joy and excitement, it can also bring stress, exhaustion, and a surprising amount of disconnect for couples. With so much going on, intimacy often takes a back seat, leaving both spouses feeling distant during a time meant for togetherness.

In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to prioritize intimacy during one of the busiest seasons of the year. We’ll explore the unique challenges that husbands and wives face when life gets hectic and share practical tips for keeping your connection strong, both emotionally and physically.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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318. The Most Common Things That Might Be Killing Your Spouses Sex Drive Nov 29, 2024

We all know that sexual intimacy plays a vital role in a happy, healthy marriage. It’s a way to connect on a deeper level, to build trust, and to keep the spark alive in your relationship. But let’s be real—life can get in the way. Stress, misunderstandings, and even distractions can creep in and slowly chip away at the desire for intimacy.

In this episode, we’re tackling a topic that every couple faces at some point: What’s really killing your spouse’s sex drive? While some causes are obvious, like exhaustion or a lack of connection, others might surprise you. We’ll shine a light on the hidden intimacy killers that could be holding your marriage back.
So if you feel like there are things that are killing you or your spouses sex drive, then this episode is for you!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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317. Foreplay 101: The Important Role Of Foreplay In Intimacy Nov 26, 2024

In this episode, we’re talking all about foreplay—both the physical and emotional kinds—and why it’s such a game-changer in your marriage. Whether you’ve been married for a few months or a few decades, this conversation is one you don’t want to miss.

We dive deep into the physical side of foreplay, exploring what husbands and wives really want and need when it comes to getting in the mood. We’ll talk about how understanding each other’s desires and preferences can transform intimacy in the bedroom. This isn’t just about the obvious physical acts; it’s about creating an atmosphere where both spouses feel desired, connected, and ready to engage in meaningful intimacy.

But remember that foreplay doesn’t start in the bedroom! We’re also tackling the often-overlooked concept of emotional foreplay—the little things that build anticipation and connection long before anything physical happens. Emotional foreplay includes showing affection, thoughtful gestures, kind words, and sharing the mental load of daily life. It’s about creating an environment where your spouse feels safe, seen, and cherished, which naturally leads to deeper physical intimacy.

If you’ve ever wondered how to bridge the gap between emotional connection and sexual passion, this episode is for you. We’ll share practical tips for both husbands and wives, real-life examples, and even some fun challenges to try in your marriage this week.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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316. Are You A "Drifter" When It Comes To Your Relationship? Why This Mindset Could Ruin Your Marriage Nov 22, 2024

In Outwitting the Devil, Napoleon Hill describes "drifters" as those who go through life (or marriage) without purpose, direction, or decisive action, often becoming controlled by external forces. They just go wherever the wind blows them so to speak. We see a lot of people like this not only in life, but in their relationships. They assume that their relationship or marriage will just be a product of whatever life throws at them.
In contrast, "non-drifters" or drivers are intentional, disciplined, and decisive, shaping their lives with purpose. This concept can be powerfully applied to marriage, where being decisive—being a "driver" and knowing what you want in your relationship, and going after it, can significantly improve the relationship and deepen intimacy.
In this podcast episode Nick and Amy talk about how couples need to be decisive, consistent, and confident about where they want their marriage to be now and in the future.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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315. Small Daily Emotional Intimacy Habits That Make A HUGE Impact On Your Marriage Nov 19, 2024

It seems like we all get so busy with life that we forget to do the little things daily that greatly improve emotional intimacy... which also improves sexual intimacy. These include being physically present when you're together, expressing gratitude for the small things, showing daily acts of love—such as sending a simple text to tell your spouse how much they mean to you—or ending the day with meaningful connection.

In this episode, we discuss ways to incorporate emotional intimacy into your daily life with easy and simple actions that can be game-changing for your marriage. This episode might be one of the simplest yet most profound for your relationship, and we had a blast doing it as you will hear :)

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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314. Which Is More Important, A "Need" Or A "Want" In Marriage? And How Do Couples Find Balance When Their "Needs" And "Want's" Are So Completely Different? Nov 15, 2024

In the past few episodes, we have talked about what men need and what women need in marriage, and we also discussed how men and women are so different when it comes to sex. When you can understand how men and women are so different and what each spouses needs are, then you can implement things to help your relationship.
In this episode we discuss the difference between "needs" and "wants" in marriage, and how couples can find balance when their needs are so different.
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If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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313. Things You Should Do As A Couple At Least Once A Year That Will Really Make A Difference Nov 12, 2024

It is amazing how many of us don't do the things that could drastically improve our relationships, that are pretty easy to do. Whether we get lazy, fall into bad habits or whatever it may be, we stop doing the simple things that would make our marriages so much better.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the things that couples should do at least once a year to have their marriage flourish! Let us know what you think after listening to the episode!
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If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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312. Understanding Why Sexual Intimacy To Your Wife Is Not A "Need" ... And For Many Wives, Not Even A "Want" In Your Marriage Nov 08, 2024

Sexual intimacy for most women is not a need but a want, and let's be honest, for many women, it's not even a want. Their bodies are typically wired completely differently than a man's body. They react to sexual intimacy completely differently than most men do. For most women, they are only going to want sex or be willing to have sex if their emotional needs are being met and when they feel trust and respect in the marriage.

Join us for this great episode where Nick and Amy (mostly Amy) will share valuable insight as to why most women don't need sexual intimacy like their husbands do, but what good husbands can do to get their wives to want sexual intimacy more often.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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311. Understanding Why Sexual Intimacy To Your Husband Is Absolutely A "Need" And Not Just A "Want" In Your Marriage Nov 05, 2024

It drives us crazy when we hear wive's say "my husband just wants sex!" and they treat it as if it is something strictly physical for him. Nothing could be further from the truth. If sex for a husband (man) was just a physical want, and not a need, he would just "take care of himself" and never bother his wife for sex ever again, and would he be content and happy in the marriage. But no man is happy with that! They want to feel connected, desired, safe and loved in the relationship. Sex is the way they feel and express love.
Of course when we say a sex to a husband is a "need", we know he won't physically die if he isn't making love to his wife, but the marriage and connection will eventually die if sex isn't prioritized.
Sex is not just a "want" in marriage, it is a need for MANY reasons, and your marriage will be much happier once couples realize how important sex is in their relationship, especially for the husband.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about how sex is a "need" for most men, and how if couples want a healthy and happy relationship, they need to understand the importance that sex plays in that.
We also recognize and acknowledge that a marriage needs to be in a good healthy place for couples to desire sexual intimacy and connection, and in this episode, we are talking to the couples that are in a healthy marriage with love and respect.
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310. Keeping It Simple - What Men "Need" And What Women "Need" In Marriage! Nov 01, 2024

As you know, we cover just about EVERYTHING a married couple deals with in marriage in our podcast episodes. There are a lot of things to remember, and sometimes it can get very overwhelming.

In this episode, we decided to keep it simple and share, based on all the feedback we receive from husbands and wives, what men need and what women need in marriage to be happy. We recognize that this isn’t universal and that different marriages need different things. But for most men and most women, these are the things our audience has expressed they need to be happy.

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309. Incorporating The 5 Senses Into Your Love Making For AMAZING Foreplay And Intimacy Oct 29, 2024

Think about how powerful our five senses are. What we see, feel, hear, smell, and taste makes life so gratifying and amazing! Take away any one of those, and life becomes a completely different experience.

So how many of us shut down our senses when it comes to foreplay and lovemaking? Many of us turn the lights off, removing our sense of sight. We try to be quiet instead of verbally expressing how much we’re enjoying each other through words and sounds, limiting our hearing. Some of us don't touch each other enough, kiss enough, or incorporate smell or taste into our lovemaking. Instead of using our senses to enhance and make our sexual intimacy more enjoyable, we often turn them off, leading to less sexual fulfillment.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of incorporating the five senses into your foreplay and lovemaking, and introduce our new SENSES foreplay card deck and intimacy box so you can make your intimate life even more fulfilling!

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308. Is It Healthy To Have Disagreements In Your Marriage? What The Experts Say Oct 25, 2024

We had someone message us stating that we sounded like we were fighting in one of our previous podcast episodes, and they asked if we were okay in our marriage :) Amy and I laughed when we got the message and decided that we needed to do this episode on why it is healthy to have disagreements or to see things differently in marriage, and the difference between fighting and having disagreements. Because... it is totally normal AND healthy to have disagreements.

So, in this episode, we discuss why you will have a much better marriage if you do have disagreements, because many good things happen when you have disagreements and discuss them together. Let us know what you think at amy@ultimateintimacy.com.

This episode is sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com. If you feel like something is off with your energy or health, check out all the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help improve your overall health and well-being.

This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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307. Really Fun Ways To Initiate Sexual Intimacy With Your Spouse According To A Husband... What Does My Wife Think? Oct 22, 2024

In this episode, we dive into playful and creative ways to initiate sexual intimacy with your spouse! Whether you're looking for fun ways to break the routine, build anticipation, or make the moment fun or special, we've got you covered. From lighthearted flirting to exciting surprises, we share practical ideas that will help you reconnect emotionally and sexually.

Join us in this episode as Nick shares the fun things he has done (or attempted to do) as well as other ideas and gets Amy's reaction to them :) These fun ways to initiate are for both spouses to try!

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306. Why Good Emotional Intimacy Keeps You From Having Bad Sexual Intimacy Oct 18, 2024

We spend a lot of time talking about how, when a couple has a good emotional connection, they are much more likely to have a good sexual connection! Emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy really do go hand in hand.

Unfortunately, what often happens is that when a couple's emotional connection starts going downhill, the sexual connection almost always follows, and vice versa.

We hear from so many people in our audience sharing that their sex life is a wreck or that their spouse never wants to connect sexually. In this episode, we discuss why, for most spouses, when you have great emotional intimacy, it typically prevents bad sexual intimacy.

If you are in a marriage where your emotional and sexual intimacy are suffering, this podcast episode is for you.

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305. You're Panicking About Everything In Life You Can't Control, When You Should Be Panicking About The Things You Can Control... Like Your Marriage Oct 15, 2024

There are so many crazy things going on in the world. We are facing wars, an invasion of our country, inflation, potential port strikes, division like we have never seen before, natural disasters, and so much more! These are things that we spend so much time worrying about, but have very little control over.
What we should be doing is focusing on improving the things that we can control such as our relationships, and marriages. That doesn't mean the other things aren't important because they certainly are, but if we get the important things in order, we will be so much more equipped to mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically deal with all of the crazy things happening around us.
In this podcast episode, we talk about how we should be focusing on our relationships with our spouse and the things we can control instead of letting the things we can't control impact our relationships, family and life. The most important things we can do our in the walls of our own home.
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304. The Signs You Are In A "One Sided" Marriage... And What You Can Do About It Oct 11, 2024

Ever felt like you're doing all the heavy lifting in your marriage? You're not alone. This episode discusses the signs you are in a "one sided" marriage, and what you can do about it.
Sometimes a spouse may stop putting forth any effort because they have resentment, have been hurt or something has happened and they do this intentionally, but other times it is done unintentionally. They could be so stressed due to their job, health issues or many other things life throws our way.
The good news is this can be corrected and you can get your marriage back to where you desire it to be!
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303. PART 2 - The Ways Men And Women Are Wired So Differently When It Comes To Sex, And Why It Is Important For Both Spouses To Know The Differences! Oct 08, 2024

This is part 2 of the ways men and women are wired so differently when it comes to sex. In this episode we continue our discussion and offer insight as to why men and women are so different and why instead of looking at it in a negative way, you should look at the differences in a way that can bring you closer together.
If you haven't listened to episode 302 (part one) first, we recommend you do so.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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302. The Ways Men And Women Are Wired So Differently When It Comes To Sex, And Why It Is Important For Both Spouses To Know The Differences! Oct 04, 2024

When you look at how men and women are wired so differently when it comes to sex, it is easy to understand why it is a source of contention in so many marriages. Couples don't understand, nor do they talk about the ways they are wired differently. If couples better understood how each spouse is wired when it comes to sex, and talked about it together, marriages would be so much different... and better for so many couples.

Instead of a spouse just saying, "they just want sex," they would understand why their husband has the strong sexual desire that he does, or why their wife needs the things she does prior to wanting to be intimate.

In this podcast episode, we discuss how men and women are wired so differently when it comes to sex. This episode comes from the article that marriage and sex expert Laura Brotherson put together.

If you want to better understand how men and women are typically wired differently when it comes to sex, and you are wanting to improve your sex life, then this episode is one you will want to listen to.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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301. 20 Things To Talk To Your Spouse About On Date Nights! Oct 01, 2024

When we go on date night, it is astonishing to look around and see how many people are on their phones instead of talking to their spouse. Is it because they don't want to talk to their spouse? Or is it because they don't know what to talk about with their spouse? We don't know the answer, but we hope it is the latter.

In this episode, we give you 20 things you should be talking to your spouse about on date nights. These topics will not only make for great conversations that are fun but also help your marriage in many ways, including emotional and sexual intimacy.

When you are better connected emotionally, you will most likely be more connected sexually. So join us for this great podcast episode. You just might find out how great it is to have deep, meaningful conversations that bring you closer together as a couple.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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300. Drawing the Line: How To Establish Healthy Boundaries With Extended Family And Friends Sep 27, 2024

Establishing boundaries with extended families and friends is vital to a happy marriage. Most couples state that extended family and friends cause issues in their marriage.
In this episode, we'll dive into practical strategies for setting boundaries that honor your relationship while still nurturing connections with extended family and friends. Whether you're dealing with overbearing in-laws or navigating friendships that blur the lines, or even toxic business relationships, this discussion will equip you with the tools to protect your marriage while fostering healthy, respectful relationships outside of it.
We also discuss why it is so vital to have boundaries with the toxic people in your life, or even why you might just need to push them out of your life.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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299. Why The Word "Help" Is So Triggering For So Many Couples Sep 24, 2024

It is amazing how certain words can be so triggering for some spouses and the word "help" is one of these words that can have good intentions, but can also be very triggering. For example, when one spouse says, "How can I help?" it may unintentionally create a hierarchy where one spouse is the "manager" and the other the "assistant."
When a spouse offers to "help" with something like dishes, laundry, or managing the kids, it seems like a thoughtful, kind gesture on the surface. However, for many spouses—especially wives—the word "help" can imply that these tasks are primarily their responsibility and that the other spouse is just stepping in to lend a hand.
In this episode we talk about how you can start reframing the language of "help", and instead of "helping" start "doing" so you can work together as a team in your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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298. Why You Need To "Pursue" Your Spouse Both Sexually And Emotionally. And What Does That Look Like? Sep 20, 2024

What does it mean to "pursue" your spouse emotionally and sexually? There are so many things in life that we pursue. We pursue better jobs, pursue our hobbies and interests, pursue better things in life. What happens if we stopped just stopped pursuing those things? How would our lives change? If we stopped pursing things we would probably loose excitement, ambition or even purpose in our lives.
So why would things be any different if we stop pursuing our spouse? When we stop pursing our spouse, we show them they are not a priority, or that we don't really care.
In this episode we talk about the importance of pursuing your spouse emotionally and sexually, and what that looks like.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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297. When One Spouse Wants To Try New Things In The Bedroom, But The Other Spouse Doesn't Sep 17, 2024

It is amazing how many people reach out to us, saying things like, "I want to do _________ in the bedroom, but my spouse isn't open to it or doesn't want to try new things. What can I do?"

It is important to recognize that we all come from different backgrounds and have different experiences growing up (or even as adults) that shape our thoughts, beliefs, and comfort levels when it comes to sexual intimacy. This means it's fairly common for couples to have different comfort levels regarding things in the bedroom, where one spouse might want to do or try things the other spouse does not feel comfortable with.

In this episode, we talk about the things couples can do to approach this very sensitive topic and find a balance that works for both spouses. We also discuss why being open to new experiences in the bedroom can be a good thing. There is however a right and wrong away to approach this with your spouse.

If this is something you've experienced in your relationship, then this episode is for you.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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296. How Toxic Masculinity And Feminism Could Be Dividing Your Marriage Sep 13, 2024

In today’s fast-paced world, many couples face the challenge of balancing career demands and family life, often leading to a shift in traditional gender roles. As a wife who has experienced this firsthand, I’ve come to realize that toxic masculinity and toxic femininity are not just abstract concepts but real issues impacting our marriages.

When I started working full time and juggling the responsibilities of raising kids, I felt a shift in my role and identity. I found myself adopting more traditionally masculine traits—assertiveness, independence, and a focus on achieving career goals. While these traits helped me excel in my professional life, they began to clash with my role at home and, ultimately, with my marriage.

Toxic masculinity often manifests as the belief that men must be dominant, unemotional, or the sole provider, which can put immense pressure on both spouses. On the other hand, toxic femininity can involve the expectation that women should be nurturing, submissive, and solely responsible for home life. When both spouses feel pressured to conform to these outdated roles, it creates tension and dissatisfaction.

For many women working full time, like myself, the struggle is real. We’re balancing careers with home responsibilities, and this shift can make us feel like we need to adopt a more masculine approach at home, which may not always align with our spouse’s expectations. It’s easy to slip into a cycle where work pressures and domestic responsibilities lead to frustration and conflict.

So, how can we find a healthy balance in our marriages amidst these challenges?
Here are some questions we ask Daniele in this episode:

Why is it so important for marriages to understand masculinity and femininity?
What is toxic about each of those?
What causes a wife to turn masculine, and how does that impact the marriage?
What does a healthy balance in marriage look like?
How do women emasculate men and how can they do a better job at empowering them instead?
Is respect earned in marriage?

This is an episode you won't want to miss!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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295. "Get In The Fight" To Become A Better Husband With Nate Whitson Sep 10, 2024

In this podcast episode, we talk with Nate Whitson, the founder and owner of Get In The Fight, an organization that helps men become better husbands and fathers, and also overcome addictions and struggles.

Nate shares his journey and experience, and what inspired him to build this company focused on helping men realize their true purpose and become better in every way.

Whether you are a husband or wife, this is an episode you don't want to miss.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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294. Can Treating Sex Like A Hobby Vastly Improve Your Sex Life? Nick Thinks So.. But Does Amy? Sep 06, 2024

You hear us talk about sex ALL the time on the podcast and the things couples can do to have an amazing sex life. So many couples look at sex completely differently and have a hard time understanding the things they can do to have a better sex life.

Nick recently heard a lady give a 6-minute talk on YouTube about how treating sex like a hobby can completely change your sex life with your spouse. So naturally, he sent it to Amy to get her thoughts, and her reaction wasn't what he expected... So we decided we needed to do a podcast on this and see what you think!

We thought this video presented it in a very clear and precise way with examples and reasons why it works so well, and so we wanted to share what she said with you through this podcast episode. We will also put a link to the video below.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-3CANRKuAM&t=331s
Let us know what you think by emailing us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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293. The 4 H's To A Passionate Intimate Life Sep 03, 2024

We do podcasts on all sorts of subjects and issues that most couples face... and there are a ton of them.

For many of us, it may seem overwhelming thinking of all the things we as couples need to do to have a great marriage! We hear a lot of couples say they feel like it is just too much and they don't think they can do everything, or ever get to having the marriage they want.

While all good marriages do take work, there are a few foundational and fundamental things that are proven to help couples have a great marriage!

So in this episode, we outline the 4 H's couples need to do to achieve a great marriage both in and out of the bedroom. Simply do these things, and you are most likely going to have an amazing relationship! Yes, you are going to have ups and downs as life is full of those, but your relationship will be able to handle those times.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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292. Answering More Of Your Very Tough Questions on Intimacy Aug 30, 2024

We got some emails back from our audience on our newsletter and podcast episode 282 where we answered many of your tough questions. Some of you didn't like the way we answered some of the questions, and we also got a bunch more questions that you wanted us to answer... so in this episode, we respond to your emails, and answer more questions.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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291. Are Different Political Views Causing Conflict In Your Relationship? Aug 27, 2024

Ever wondered how political differences can coexist within a loving relationship without causing constant conflict? Our latest episode promises to equip you with the tools and insights needed to navigate these challenging waters. Join us as we uncover the secret to maintaining respect and open communication when political views clash.
You'll learn how focusing on common values, such as mutual respect and effective communication, can help couples stay harmonious despite their differing opinions.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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290. Why When A Husband Has The Low Sex Drive, It Negatively Impacts MANY More Things Then Just The Sex For A Wife Aug 23, 2024

We talk quite often about the negative consequences of a wife having no sexual desire, but what about the negative impacts on a wife when the husband has no sexual desire?

We hear from many women that their husband doesn't have any sexual desire, and therefore they aren't romantic, don't fulfill emotional needs, don't pay compliments, etc.

For many men, their sexual desire drives them to be more romantic, fulfill their spouse's emotional needs, have better communication, etc. A husband's desire for sex causes him to strive to be a better husband in every way! Sex drives men to be better husbands.

When you take that desire away, what then drives him to do the things his wife needs? In this episode, we not only discuss the consequences of a husband having a low sex drive but also the reasons why, and the solutions for how to resolve it.

This is an episode you won't want to miss.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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289. How To Balance BOTH Your Work And Your Relationship When You Are Both Career Driven Aug 20, 2024

We got this idea and topic from someone who emailed us about something they are struggling with. This is absolutely a topic we can discuss because we are both very career-driven, love to work hard, and we work together EVERYDAY. It is often very tough to balance things when life gets extremely busy and when you are both career driven.

For a while in our relationship, we didn't have things balanced, as we put our dreams and ambitions above our marriage, and it really hurt us as a couple.

But there are always lessons to be learned from every mistake, and we are much better now at not only managing our "career-driven" mentality but, more importantly, focusing on being "marriage-driven" because no amount of success will matter if you don't have someone you love to share it with.

In this episode, we share the things we have learned and done in our relationship to balance work and our relationship as career-driven people.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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288. If Your Wife Isn't Interested In Sex, Maybe You Should Look "Inward" Instead Of Blaming Her Aug 16, 2024

Okay, before we jump into this episode, we do recognize that there are women out there who just don't want to have sex and do have AMAZING husbands. We totally get that, and our hearts break for the husbands because sexual intimacy is so vital and important in marriage.

But... what if there are things that some husbands are doing (that they don't realize) that are causing their wives not to want to be sexually intimate?

We had a wife reach out to us and express that her husband has a temper, gets angry at her, talks down to her in public, and doesn't treat her very well.

She expressed that she feels broken by her spouse's behavior, and because of this, she has a hard time opening up and wanting to be intimate with her husband/the person causing her pain (who is supposed to love her and make her feel safe).

Some women also want sex to be emotionally and spiritually connecting as well, and when they feel it is only physical for their husbands, that also erodes the desire.

The bottom line is, when a wife is not feeling safe, secure, or respected by her husband, she is not going to want to be intimate with him. It is just that simple!

In this episode, we talk about the things husbands might do (without even knowing it) that cause their wives to withdraw and not want to be sexually intimate with them. Can we look inwardly and be open and honest with ourselves about the things we might be contributing to that? Join us for this very important episode where we discuss the things some husbands do that cause their spouses not to want to be intimate. We pray it can help your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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287. The Tools And Strategies That Work To Overcome Porn With LMFT Austin Ellis Aug 13, 2024

Have you ever wondered how unresolved emotional pain can manifest into destructive habits like pornography addiction?
Today, we welcome back Austin Ellis, a dedicated therapist specializing in sexual addiction recovery, who shares his intimate journey from personal struggle to professional savior. Austin’s deeply personal anecdotes and professional wisdom provide a roadmap for couples grappling with the devastating impact of pornography on their marriages.
Austin tackles the root causes of addiction, beyond the superficial fixes often suggested, and explores deeper issues, such as chronic stress and feelings of inadequacy, and shares how they fuel addictive behaviors.
We promise you'll walk away with hope, practical strategies, and a renewed belief that recovery and happiness are within reach.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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286. Answering The Most Common Questions We Get From Couples With LMFT Austin Ellis Aug 09, 2024

We get so many of you reaching out to us with questions and concerns or stating things that you are facing in your relationships. The 4-5 questions or statements we get are almost always the same things that couples are navigating or seeking answers and solutions to.

To help us answer these important topics, we wanted to bring on a marriage expert who deals with thousands of couples that also struggle with many of the same things. In this episode, we talk with Austin Ellis (LMFT). Austin offers great advice and solutions to resolve these common issues that so many couples are dealing with.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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285. Morning And Evening Routines For Better Intimacy And Connection Aug 06, 2024

In this episode, we explore how establishing thoughtful morning and evening routines can significantly enhance intimacy and connection in your relationship. The way you start and end your day together sets the tone for your relationship and can create a deeper bond between the two of you.
This episode can be one of these transformative podcasts that can bring significant change to your relationship by doing some of these things in your relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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284. 15 Ways To Become Irresistible To Your Spouse Aug 02, 2024

In this episode we talk about the 15 ways to be more attractive to your spouse. Do we get ready for them and look good on date nights, or put forth and effort, or do we go out looking like we just got done waking up from a 3 day nap? Do we take care of our hygiene, are we exercising and trying to stay in shape? Do we have positive attitudes and treat our spouse good?
It is all about putting forth effort in our relationships. When we put forth effort, it shows we care. Join us for this episode on the 15 ways to be more attractive.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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283. Do We Make Marriage Harder Than It Needs To Be? Jul 30, 2024

Do we make marriage harder than it needs to be? For most of us, the answer is a resounding yes. It's easy to fall into patterns and habits that complicate our relationships, often without even realizing it. Drawing from personal experiences and observations, we delve into the common ways couples inadvertently make marriage more challenging.

In this episode, we explore the specific behaviors and mindsets that add unnecessary stress and strain to marriages. From communication breakdowns to unrealistic expectations, we cover a range of topics that often turn small issues into significant obstacles.

Join us as we share insights, stories, and tips to help you recognize the ways you might be complicating your marriage and provide you with tools to create a more joyful and fulfilling partnership. Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for decades, this episode is packed with valuable advice to help you navigate the complexities of married life with greater ease and satisfaction.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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282. Ask Us Anything Part 2. We Answer More Of Your Tough Questions Jul 26, 2024

Part 2 of ask us anything. We continue our conversation and answering questions that you as an audience submitted to us. Some of the questions we received and answer in this episode are:

What if my wife never wants to have a high sex drive?
What are your thoughts on backdoor (anal) sex?
My husband is cheating; should I divorce?
Is TV in the bedroom healthy or not?
Why do men keep trying so hard for their family when they know their marriage is over?
Can you be friends with the opposite sex?
What's the difference between love and lust in intimacy?
There are moments when we're feeling connected, and there are moments when we're feeling disconnected. How do you resolve it?
How do you guys relax? As a couple, we struggle to fully relax from home, work, and all our responsibilities.
At one time, you (Amy) mentioned you were going to try testosterone. Did you? And if so, how is it?

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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281. Ask Us Anything - Your Tough Questions Answered.. Or At Least Try To Answer Jul 23, 2024

In this episode, we dive deep into the questions you submitted on social media, and no topic was off-limits. We encouraged you to ask anything, and you delivered with a wide range of insightful, thought-provoking, and sometimes challenging questions.

From dealing with conflict resolution and communication barriers to managing finances and balancing personal and relationship goals, we tackle the real issues that many couples face. Each question opens up a discussion that not only provides answers but also sheds light on common struggles and triumphs in relationships.

Join us for this raw episode!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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280. The 6 Types Of Wive's Who Don't Enjoy Being Sexually Intimate With Their Husband Jul 19, 2024

Yes, we know this can go both ways and it's not always the wife, but in this episode, we tackle the 6 types of wives who don't enjoy being intimate with their husbands. We discuss the reasons why women make excuses to not be intimate with their husbands, and many of them are valid excuses.

As we always talk about, we are trying to help marriages become more connected and find "Ultimate Intimacy." For that to happen, sometimes we need to recognize the mistakes or things we are doing that keep that from happening. Join us for this informative episode.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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279. The Habits A Husband Should Stop Doing For A More Peaceful And Intimate Marriage Jul 16, 2024

In Episode 277, we explored the habits wives should stop doing to foster a more peaceful and intimate marriage. Now, it's time to turn the spotlight on husbands.

There's no question that as men, we can develop some bad habits or make mistakes that create conflict in our relationships. Nick can personally attest to this. Often, we don't even recognize these habits or the impact they have on our marriages.

In this episode, we will identify the common habits that husbands tend to fall into that prevent marriages from reaching their full potential. From neglecting communication and emotional expression to avoiding responsibilities and taking our spouse for granted, we will discuss the behaviors that can create distance and tension.

Join us as we delve into the ways men can improve their marital relationships by recognizing and addressing their own behaviors. This episode is an opportunity for husbands to reflect, learn, and grow, paving the way for a stronger and more fulfilling marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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278. 8 Questions You Should Ask Each Other When Your Marriage Is Struggling Jul 12, 2024

Ever wondered how a simple query like "What do you need from me right now?" can revolutionize your marriage? In a heartfelt exchange, we unravel the complexities of marital intimacy and uncover the keys to a deeper connection. We discuss how open communication and teamwork are essential in understanding and fulfilling each other's needs.
If you feel like your marriage isn't where you want it to be (which is many of us), then this episode is for you. In this episode we share the 8 questions you should ask each other to make a huge positive change in your relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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277. The Habits A Wife Should Stop Doing For A More Peaceful And Intimate Marriage Jul 09, 2024

There are many habits that a wife can get into if they are not careful, that can cause disconnect and conflict in the marriage. Habits are things are being done or said constantly and could include, nagging, complaining and other things. Sometimes these habits are completely understandable and justified... but often times can turn into "habits" that occur regularly and become normal in the relationship.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the habits that wife's should stop doing to have a better and intimate marriage. Don't worry ladies, we are going to do an episode on the men as well :)
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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276. Every High Libido Husband Needs To Know These Things About His Low Libido Wife Jul 05, 2024

This is an episode that both the high desire and low desire spouse (every couple) is going to want to listen to.
As many of you know, Nick is a high desire spouse, and Amy is a low desire spouse, yet they have a great sex life. In this episode Nick puts Amy on the spot and she answers all the important questions about how she (as a lower desire spouse) makes sexual intimacy a priority, and she also shares the things high desire husbands need to know about their low desire wife.
If you are looking to better understand how you can still enjoy sexual intimacy with different Libidos, and the things you need to know about your low libido wife, then this episode is a must listen to.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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275. Being A Good Provider Doesn't Make You A Good Husband... There's So Much More Jul 02, 2024

The big myth that a hefty paycheck equals husband of the year.

We get a ton of men telling us on our social media, "My wife should be intimate with me because I provide for the family," not realizing that there is so much more to being a good husband than just providing for the family, although that is very important.

Although bringing home the bacon is a great thing, there is much more, which we unpack in this great episode. So if you are a husband who is a good man and wants to connect more with his wife, then this episode will provide some great insights into what you can do to be a better husband and what your wife really thinks makes a great husband.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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274. The 10 Mistakes You Might Be Making During Foreplay Jun 28, 2024

Can you really mess up foreplay? Oh yes, you can!
Are you focusing too much time on the wrong area? Are you communicating with your spouse about what they like or dislike?
Are you experimenting enough? What about focusing on your spouse's needs more than your own?

In this episode, we discuss the 10 mistakes you might be making during foreplay and how to have much better foreplay in your marriage, because better foreplay leads to better intimacy!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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273. The Benefits Of Making Love In The Morning And Why It Could Be Very Beneficial For Your Marriage Jun 25, 2024

We must admit that we are not morning people and typically don't make love very often in the morning, but after this podcast episode and understanding all the benefits, we are going to re think our lovemaking, and when we do it.
There are some serious benefits to making love in the morning. For many couples, sexual intimacy is the last thing on their "to do" list, so when the night time rolls around, couples are too tired mentally and physically to enjoy sex to the fullest, or they make excuses as to why they shouldn't make love.
However, in the morning you are refreshed, full of energy, and can better focus, and of course morning sex is just going to make your day much better. So join us for this great episode and find out how having sex in the morning can have significant benefits to your relationship!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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272. The Ways To Be More Attractive To Your Husband... And We Are Not Talking About Physically Jun 21, 2024

Your first thought is that this is a podcast on how to be more physically attractive to your spouse... right? Wrong! This podcast episode focuses on the various other ways to be attractive to your husband, such as self-confidence, and other ways like:

Initiating romance and intimacy
Communication in and out of the bedroom
Taking care of yourself
Surprising him, being spontaneous - doing fun things together
Having a positive mindset about intimacy - prioritizing it!
Sense of humor

Your husband is already physically attracted to you, and that is one of the reasons he fell in love with you. In this podcast episode, we discuss the "other" ways to be more attractive to your husband.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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271. The Things You Don't Need To Apologize For When Your "Gettin It On" Jun 18, 2024

In this fun and candid episode, we dive into the things no one wants to talk about or admit—the funny, awkward, and sometimes uncomfortable moments that happen in the bedroom during intimate time.

Let's face it: our bodies make noises, we might need to take a break due to discomfort, things can get messy, and sometimes we just have an "off" night where things don't go as planned. These experiences are all part of the reality of intimacy, but they can often leave us feeling embarrassed or self-conscious.

In this episode, we talk openly about all the unexpected and awkward things that can happen when you're "getting it on." We laugh at the mishaps, and emphasize that these moments are completely normal. Most importantly, we discuss why there's no need to apologize or feel embarrassed about them.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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270. Don't Wait Until It's Too Late. Setting Boundaries With The Opposite Sex To Protect Your Marriage Jun 14, 2024

People lock their cars to protect them from getting stolen. They lock their house to protect everything inside. We protect the things that are most important to us. So why don't many of us set boundaries to protect the most important thing in our life.. our marriage and family?
Settings boundaries is like putting a fence around your marriage to keep things from coming in and hurting your marriage. Setting boundaries with the opposite sex together as a couple can be a great protection to your marriage and build trust and intimacy.
In this episode we discuss the reasons why you should set boundaries in your marriage when it comes to the opposite sex and how it can protect you as as individual, and as a couple!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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269. This One Thing Is The "Make Or Break" Factor In Most Marriages And Will Determine What Kind Of Marriage And Intimacy You Have Jun 11, 2024

If you really think about it, just about any argument, conflict, or issue in marriage can probably come back to this one thing... humility (or the lack of).
When couples are humble, and get the pride out of their relationship, there is going to be much less conflict, and more harmony and intimacy in the relationship. When there are arguments, resentment and conflict, it is most likely due to pride, or the lack of humility due to one, or even both spouses.
In this episode, we discuss how humility (or the lack of) can truly "make or break" your relationship. Join us for this great episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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268. The Different "Attachment" Styles. Why They Are Important To Know, And How They Can Impact Your Relationship Jun 07, 2024

Have you ever pondered how your childhood shapes the way you love and trust your spouse, forms your relationships, and how it impacts your own marriage?
The truth is we are shaped and influenced greatly by our childhood epxeriences, and how our parents (or caregivers) raised us. These experiences can form our "attachment style" which impacts how we handle and react to things in own relationships.
We have talked about this in our own marriage as we were both raised quite differently, but understanding each other's attachment styles helps us better understand (and navigate) things in our own relationship.
Join us as we unpack how attachment styles formed from our earliest experiences influence not just how we react to our spouse, but how we forge the deep connections that are crucial to a thriving marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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267. How To Make Your Sexual Intimacy More "Intimate" Jun 04, 2024

Have you ever considered that true intimacy is about so much more than just the physical act? We've all had times when we get done having sex and we feel empty, and not much of a connection. However we have probably all experienced other times when the sexual connection was amazing and connecting like never before, and we crave sexual intimacy to be like that every time.
If you remember the most amazing sexual intimacy experiences with your spouse, chances are they were extremely intimate and connecting, and it was so much more than just having good sex. You were probably connected on a much deeper level with each other both emotionally and physically. But what caused you to connect so much deeper?
In this episode we share they ways you can make sexual intimacy so much more intimate, deeper connecting and enjoyable. Join us for this great podcast episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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266. 14 Signs Your Marriage Has Become Boring, And How It Can Be Impacting Your Intimacy May 31, 2024

We've all had times in marriage where we get into a rut and feel like our marriage and life has become boring. We do the same things day after day, run the kids to the same places. Even our sexual intimacy can get routine and boring. When this happens what do you do?
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the 14 signs that your marriage has become boring (and routine), and how it can be having a negative impact on your intimacy and connection. We know all about this because we have been there in our own marriage. The good news is you can get out of this feeling really quickly and we offer the ways you can do so!
If you feel like your marriage (or certain aspects of your marriage) has become boring and routine, then this episode is one you will want to listen to!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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265. How To "Seduce" Or Romance Your Husband.. Your Going To Love This One! May 28, 2024

What does it mean to "seduce" your spouse (or romance your spouse)? Why should you seduce your spouse? In this fun episode we talk about the various fun ways to seduce your spouse, and the benefits of bringing the fun, passion and excitement back into your marriage.
We also share the poll answers and experiences that we have had in our own marriage and how they still have an impact on our marriage many years later :)
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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264. Red Flags To Look For When It Comes To Technology, And Boundaries To Set Together May 24, 2024

Have you ever felt like your phone controls your life, or your spouses life, and takes priority over everything else? Your device is with you when you wake up, when go to bed, and go on date nights. We go into full blown panic mode if we forget it somewhere.
These devices are the most addicting thing in our lives, and they are having profound negative impacts on our marriages and relationships.
If you have listened to our other podcast episodes such as 234. with Nate Kemp, or 197. Why you need to disconnect if you want to connect as a couple, you know how addictive technology is.. or can be if we are not careful.
In this episode, we discuss the red flags to look for when it comes to technology, and the boundaries you should set as a couple to keep from falling into this abyss that will take your marriage down. Join us for this important episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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263. Have You Ever Just Wanted To Start Over In Marriage And Hit The "Reset" Button? You Can! How To "Reset" Your Marriage For A Fresh Beginning May 21, 2024

Have you ever felt like your marriage has gotten to a place where you never imagined it would be? Maybe you've made some bad financial decisions that have hurt your marriage, or your intimacy isn't want you want it to be, or you've done something that has caused you or your spouse to loose trust in the relationship.
Do you wish you could just hit a "reset button" or “start over” button in marriage? You are not alone. The truth is, there was a time we felt this exact way before, and it is common in the journey of marriage, because there are moments when the road gets rocky, and the connection with our spouse feels strained.

The good news is that a marriage reset is not only possible, but can also be incredibly transformative, paving the way for deeper connection and renewed intimacy. That was the case for us in our marriage as well, so join us for this podcast episode where we discuss HOW to reset your marriage for a fresh beginning.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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262. The Importance And Benefits Of Passionate Kissing in Marriage.. Or Even Just Kissing For Many Of Us :) May 17, 2024

Ok, we never thought about doing a podcast on the importance and benefits of kissing, but we must admit, this was one of the funnest episodes we have done... and more importantly, we learned how important it is to do daily in your marriage!
If you are like us, the longer we are married the less we kiss passionately... unless we are in the bedroom. But it shouldn't be that way as there are many advantages and reasons to kiss your spouse passionately every day... even it if doesn't lead to sex.
If you want to have a happy and passionate marriage, then you need to listen to this episode and find out why it is so important to kiss, and there are quite a bit of benefits from kissing.
Join us for this fun and important episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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261. 13 Rules For Fighting Fair In Marriage That Really Work. Part 2 To Episode 111 May 14, 2024

Quite a while ago we did a game changing podcast on conflict resolution with a divorce attorney named Tamara Fackrell, who is trying to save marriages in episode 111. The Podcast Episode That Will Transform Your Marriage!
If you haven't heard that podcast episode, it is a "must" listen and we have put the link in above for you.
As we have a ton of new listeners, we wanted to do a "part two" on conflict resolution titled "13 rules for fighting fair in marriage."
In this episode we share the ways that couples can resolve conflict, and things to implement so you don't have as many arguments or fights. Trust, us, we have implemented many of the things in this (and the previous episode with Tamara that have been game changers for us, that we want to share with you!
This is an episode you wont want to miss that will be a game changer in your marriage!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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260. 20 Ways To Build Better Emotional Intimacy.. For Better Sexual Intimacy In Your Marriage May 10, 2024

Have you ever felt like your marriage is missing the sexual intimacy you desire? Could it be because the emotional intimacy is lacking in your marriage? Good sexual intimacy wont happen unless you have built a good foundation of emotional intimacy in your relationship.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the 20 ways to build emotional intimacy for better sexual intimacy in your marriage.
If you want better connection both emotionally and sexually, then this episode is for you.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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259. Want Deeper Passion? 30 Very Intimate Questions To Ask Your Spouse And WHY You Should Ask Them! May 07, 2024

As we often discuss, many couples find it challenging to openly communicate their feelings, desires, fears, and life goals to each other. In this episode, we aim to make this process easier by exploring 30 intimate questions designed to cover both emotional and physical intimacy in your marriage.

Bringing up difficult questions with your spouse can be uncomfortable, as you may fear rejection or confusion about the source of your thoughts. However, by listening to this podcast together and discussing these intimate questions, we believe it can be transformative for your relationship.

Join us for this insightful podcast as we explore these intimate questions and strengthen the bond in your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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258. Why It Is The Lower Desire Spouses Responsibility To Fix The "I Don't Want/Like To Have Sex" Problem... Or Is It? May 03, 2024

Disclaimer: This topic and episode are for couples in loving, respectful, and healthy relationships, but where the lower desire spouse isn't interested in sexual intimacy.

We receive many messages from lower desire spouses who express sentiments like, "Our relationship is great, but my wife just doesn't like (or want) to have sex. She tells me no, or just to 'deal with it.'" We hear statements like this all the time.

This is saddening because it isn't the high desire spouse's fault, yet they are told to just "deal with it" as if it is their fault or something is wrong with them for desiring sexual intimacy with their spouse. They are the ones who have to endure because their spouse is just "not in the mood."

Now, of course, we are talking about couples in loving and respectful marriages. If there are deep issues in the marriage causing a spouse not to want to be intimate, then we totally agree that things need to be resolved. However, the majority of messages we receive are from high desire spouses who state that their lower desire spouse just doesn't enjoy (or want) sex, and therefore has cut it off from the higher desire spouse.

In this podcast episode, we discuss the factors that may cause a spouse not to have sexual desire and why it is the low desire spouse's responsibility to address the "I don't want to have sex" issue. This is sure to be a controversial topic and episode, but it needs to be addressed. Before passing judgment, listen to the podcast and hear the reasons why we feel this way, and let us know what you think.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Discover why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and given it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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257. What Does It Really Mean To "Submit" To Your Husband (Or Wife) In Marriage Apr 30, 2024

What does it truly mean to submit in marriage?
We often address the significance of sexual intimacy in marriage through our videos, and we frequently encounter comments asserting that wives should be submissive and provide sex to their husbands, citing biblical references. However, is this interpretation accurate, or is it a misrepresentation of the biblical message?

In this episode, we share our insights on the genuine meaning of submission in marriage and how it manifests in a healthy relationship. Join us as we dive into this topic and explore its nuances.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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256. Rejection Really Hurts! A High Desire Wife Speaks Out About How Rejection Negatively Impacts Marriage Apr 26, 2024

Have you ever felt the cold sting of sexual rejection from the one person who's supposed to desire you the most? It's a pain that many married individuals know all too well, yet it's a topic that often remains in silence. Couples don't and won't talk about it. And in many cases, if a spouse is getting rejected often, they will stop even trying because rejection is much more painful than not even trying.
In this episode, we dive into this delicate subject, providing a safe space for exploration and healing. We share not only personal experiences, but the feelings of our listeners. The conversation confronts the impact of sexual rejection on self-esteem and so many other things in a marriage.
If you are dealing with sexual rejection in your marriage, this is an episode you won't want to miss.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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255. This Might Be One Of Our Most Simple, Yet Important Episodes Ever... Say These 3 Very Simple Things Apr 23, 2024

Words and phrases are VERY powerful and can often have life changing effects both good and bad depending on how we are using them. But can saying these 3 things to your spouse daily really transform your relationship?
That answer is yes.. they can, and they will, and we talk about how and why!
In this episode, Nick and Amy share 3 things that you should say to your spouse daily that will change everything. If there is an episode that can have the most impact on your relationship, this might be the one!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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254. Building A Comprehensive Plan And Blueprint For A Successful Marriage Apr 19, 2024

For many couples, they can envision what a "successful" marriage looks like for them, but they often don't know how to get there, or what tools or plans they need to follow to achieve it.
imagine you were building a house. You have a picture of exactly what it looks like when completed, but imagine trying to build that house without any blueprint or plans! It would probably end up looking quite different than the picture, and lack a lot of things vital to the structure, integrity and foundation. Would it be able to weather the storms? Chances are without any plans or blueprints, you would be in trouble. It would not only most likely cost you a lot more money to build, but wouldn't end up how you envisioned.
Marriage is no different! In marriage, it is important to have a blueprint (or plans) for where you want to get to as a couple, and your marriage, and a detailed plan as to "how" to get there, or "how" to build a stronger marriage.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about how to build a blueprint for a successful marriage. It doesnt mean you wont have obstacles or problems along the way, but if you stick to your plan, you will achieve what you are building.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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253. These 8 Things Will Revolutionize Your Sexual Intimacy Apr 16, 2024

99% of couples (both men and women) from our social media poll stated that sex is a need (and important) in marriage. If 99% believe sex is a "need" and important, why are so many couples failing horribly when it comes to connecting intimately?
In this podcast episode, we share the 8 things (podcast episodes) that will revolutionize your sexual intimacy.. "if" you both put forth the effort. We discuss common issues couples face when it comes to sexual intimacy including making the time, talking about sex, Initiating, and other topics.
Join us for this great episode that will offer solutions to help you connect more often intimately.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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252. What Happens When You Try To Change Your Spouse? And How Does That Impact Intimacy? Apr 12, 2024

Ok so your first reaction from our title is probably something like "what is wrong with trying to help your spouse make some positive changes?" Well.. nothing if it is something they want to change, but often times spouses try to shape or form their husband or wife into what "they" want, or what "they" think the perfect spouse should be like.
The truth is we are all unique individuals with different strengths, weaknesses and perspectives about life.
There is nothing wrong with trying to help each other improve and become better people, but when it is done through threats, guilt, nagging or other methods, it can cause significant damage to the relationship.
Rather than trying to change your spouse to fit the perfect mold of what you think they should be, how can you find happiness through their differences?
In this episode, Nick and Amy share their thoughts on what happens when you try to change your spouse, or how you try to change your spouse.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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251. 8 Signs You Are In A "Transactional" Marriage Apr 09, 2024

Now if you have heard our previous podcasts, you know we have talked about how sometimes it is ok to have transactions in marriage. After all, everything you do in life is a transaction. You trade your time for money at a job. You pay for groceries so you can feed your family.
But what about when your marriage becomes so transactional, it has devastating affects, such as scorekeeping, lack of teamwork, rewards and punishments, or conditional love?
Does any of that sound familiar? In this episode we share the 8 signs you are in a transactional marriage, and of course, the ways you can get out of of it. Trust us, we have experienced this in our own marriage previously. It is not a good place to be, so join us for this great episode!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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250. The Negatives And Positives About Adding Sex Toys To Your Intimate Life Apr 05, 2024

All throughout life and up to a few years ago, we thought sex toys were for couples or individuals who were into crazy things in the bedroom. We had a very negative view of them.. that is until we tried them. And wow, were we wrong! Now we are HUGE proponents of intimacy aids (or sex toys/aids) if used the right way together!

Sex aids/toys can be a great way to explore and learn about each other's bodies, connect on a deeper level, and make sexual intimacy amazing for both spouses. Yes, women, you can enjoy sexual intimacy as much or more than your husband with a little bit of help!

But having said that, there can also be some negatives about introducing sex toys into your relationship if you are not careful.

In this episode, we discuss the negatives and positives of adding sex toys to the bedroom, boundaries that you really need to discuss FIRST and set together, which can help you determine if they are right for you!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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249. Intimacy And Adventure Retreat Recap - Tips We Heard To Elevate Your Love And Connection Apr 02, 2024

Ever wondered how to elevate the love and connection in your marriage to amazing new heights? That's precisely what we unpacked after returning from an immersive marriage retreat we put on, that left us, and all others that attended, transformed.
Join us as we share insights from the retreat we hosted with marriage experts Greg and Julie Gorman, who imparted wisdom on transforming the master bedroom into an intimate sanctuary free from the world's clamor, and many other marriage tips.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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248. Is Your Marriage Different Than What You Thought You Were Signing Up For? Mar 29, 2024

When we walk down the aisle and say “I do,” we often have a picture perfect image of what we expect marriage to be like, thinking ours will be just like we imagined. We envision endless romance, passionate sex, having fun, and staying connected.

Both men and women expect certain things based upon what was being "sold" to them while dating.
When dating, of course we only show our perfect selves and sell our spouse on what we will be like or vice versa.

For example, many men state that when they were dating, their spouse (wife) was all over them, but the second a ring was put on her finger, it went away.

Many women state that their husbands were romantic and would bring them flowers, gifts and other things, but the second they got married it all stopped.

We were meant to believe something was going to be a certain way and that is why we got married only to find out it doesn't last.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share the poll results, and the 4 simple things you can do to get your marriage back to where it was at the beginning.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the USA!
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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247. Let's Talk About Choreplay.. And Is It Ok To Do Something Because You Want Something In Return? Mar 26, 2024

What the heck is chore play? Is it ok to do things because you want something in return? Does chore play really work? Also, hear great insight and responses from our answers on social medial.
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about chore play in marriage. It sounds like a boring subject, but I think this is an episode you will enjoy and get a lot of valuable information from.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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246. The Difference Between "Making Love" And Just "Having Sex".. And Why It Matters Mar 22, 2024

Sexual intimacy is an essential part of any healthy relationship. But, there is a big difference between just having sex and making love. While sex is a physical act that fulfills a physical need, making love involves a deeper emotional connection between two people. It is an intimate experience that connects both the mind and the body, and even the soul.

Making love requires vulnerability, communication, and a focus on creating a deep connection together. It is not just about physical pleasure; it involves sharing your deepest feelings, thoughts, and emotions during the act of lovemaking. In contrast, just having sex is more about stimulation, fulfilling one’s own selfish physical needs, and focusing solely on the end goal of orgasm.
If you want sexual intimacy to be even more amazing and connecting, then this episode is for you. In the episode Nick and Amy talk about the differences between making love, and just having sex. They also share tips on how to make love.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the USA!
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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245. 11 Clear Signs That You Are Madly In Love With Your Spouse Mar 19, 2024

Have you ever wanted to know if you are truly madly in love with your spouse? What characteristics do couples that are madly in love have and how are they different than other spouses?
in this episode, we share the 11 (we added extra) clear signs that you are madly in love with your spouse! See what you think about the list we present in the episode and if you agree that you are "madly in love" with your spouse!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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244. How Running Or Hiding From Your Marital Issues Only Compounds Them And Makes Things Worse Mar 15, 2024

Have you been guilty of running from, or hiding your issues in your marriage because they are just too hard to talk about and you don't want it to cause an argument, or you don't want your spouse to know?
It's natural to wan't to run from our problems or issues especially if they are (or could be) a source of contention in the relationship. We often think if we just leave it alone, or sweep it under the rug, it will get better. But the truth is, it will most likely only get much worse until it turns into a much bigger issue or does much more damage than if we address them early on.
Some of the issues we discuss are:
Financial issues
Sexual/intimacy issues
Addictions
Emotional intimacy
Unresolved Conflicts
Join us for this unique and interesting episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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243. The Negative Impact Purity Culture Can Have On Marital Intimacy - And Our Surprising Poll Responses Mar 12, 2024

"Purity Culture" wields an immense influence over numerous marriages, affecting not only women but also their husbands. From a young age, many of us were taught that sex is bad, taboo, and should be avoided at all costs, and it was a topic that was off limits for many people to talk about. Yet, upon marriage, suddenly it's deemed not only acceptable, but something you should do and enjoy often.. which we believe is true!

It's hardly surprising that such ingrained beliefs can create obstacles for spouses, hindering their ability to embrace sexual intimacy without guilt or shame, because of the way they were taught about sex growing up.
In this episode, we delve into the profound repercussions of "Purity Culture" on individuals and marriages alike. We'll share insights gathered from our poll on this topic and explore strategies to navigate this challenge within marriage. Our aim is to empower couples to discover joy and fulfillment in their sexual intimacy, free from the burdens of guilt and shame.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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242. What Putting Your Marriage First Before Your Kids Really Looks Like.. To Keep The Intimacy Strong! Mar 08, 2024

We often do videos and talk about how important it is to put your marriage before your kids.. and we get destroyed! People think we mean you have to spend more time with your spouse than your kids, or that we are implying neglect on the kids.
Putting your marriage first has nothing to do with spending less time with your kids, or neglecting them! It means you take time every day to prioritize your relationship with your spouse even if it's only for 15 or 30 minutes a day!
You make sex a priority.
You make communication a priority.
You make date night I priority.
It means that instead of filling your whole day with your kids and having nothing left over for your spouse, it means you schedule a small amount of time each day or night with your spouse and then you can fill in the rest of your time for your kids!
This is a podcast episode we hope you will love!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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241. What To Do When Your Intimate Life Is A Wreck And Your Spouse Won't Talk About it? Mar 05, 2024

There are so many couples living in marriages where there is little to no sexual intimacy happening. Rejection is constant, and many times they are so hurt by the rejection, they stop even trying. They are frustrated, hurt and broken. They have tried talking to their spouse about how they feel, but their spouse doesn't want to talk about it which causes even more hurt and conflict in the relationship.
We have people reaching out to us ALL THE TIME asking us what they can do. We are heartbroken over this. So what can a spouse living in a sexless marriage (or close to) do when their spouse won't talk about it?
in this episode, we share our insight as to what spouses living in this reality can do, and why they should do it. However, this doesn't just work for spouses that are struggling with this, even if you have a great marriage, this is a great way to make it even better by implementing this awesome strategy!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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240. The Top 10 Complaints From Both Husbands And Wives: Poll Answers Mar 01, 2024

We wanted to find out what the top 10 most common complaints from spouses are when it comes to marriage, so of course, we polled our audience. The results were very close to what we thought they would be, with the husbands most common one's being wanting more physical intimacy, to be desired, and have their wife initiate, while the wife's wanted more emotional intimacy and connection.
So what we learn is it comes back to the emotional intimacy and physical intimacy balance. In this episode we share the poll results and answers from our questions, from you, the audience, and talk about how couples can do a better job at at identifying, and fulfilling each others needs.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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239. How To Master The Art Of Having Intimate Conversations. This Episode Could Be A Game Changer For You Feb 27, 2024

For most couple's, talking about sex is a very difficult thing to do. It often times turns into an argument and can cause even more of a disconnect in the relationship. If you are one of these couples, you are not alone and will see from our poll that most couples have a hard time talking about sexual intimacy in their relationship.
But consider this, if something causes an argument in your marriage, that means it is a problem. And if you have a problem, wouldn't that make it even more important to talk about so it doesn't become a bigger problem, or you can eliminate the problem in your relationship?
Most couples just don't know where to begin or how to approach it the right way. Trust us, we were one of these couples for the first 15 years of our marriage.
In this episode, we share the secrets on how to master the art of having intimate conversations, and transform your relationship. After listening to this episode, you are going to want to have these type of intimate conversations together all the time :)
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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238. Low Libido? Or Is That Just An Excuse? Feb 23, 2024

In this episode and discussion, we (Nick and Amy talk) about if there is really such thing as low libido, or if that is just an excuse. We also share the poll answers from the audience about this topic and the answers will really surprise you as to how many people use this as an excuse.
There are things low desire spouses can do to increase their sexual desire so listen to the episode to find out what they are.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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237. The "Right Way" To Reject Your Spouse Sexually... And What Healthy Rejection Looks Like Feb 20, 2024

There is nothing more deflating for a high desire spouse than being rejected sexually by the one they love. It really sucks! Feeling like you are so un desirable that they can't take 15 minutes to connect together and make love? Or that your spouse would rather sit on their phone and waste time scrolling through meaningless things versus connecting intimately?
Rejection often sounds like this:
"I am not in the mood"
"I am too tired"
"I have a headache"
"We just had sex ___ days ago!"
And there are also the non verbal rejections. Sometimes it isn't the things we say, but rather our actions and the things we do to avoid it.
But is it just the rejection that really hurts, or is it "how" the rejection happens that is the gut punch?
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about what healthy rejection looks like (because there is a healthy way to reject your spouse), and the damage that can be cause by rejecting your spouse in an unhealthy way. We offer great insights and solutions to this very common problem.
As this is a very common problem in marriages, this is an episode you will both want to listen to!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
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236. The Truth About Sex, And Why You Need To Ignore These Common Myths Feb 16, 2024

Many couples wonder why their sex life isn’t like what they expected, or what they see on tv, or in the movies, and they compare their marriage to things that are not realistic. Couples have myths about sex that keep them from having the “Ultimate Intimacy” in their marriage that they deserve to have.
In this podcast episode Nick and Amy talk about the "truths" about sex and why you need to ignore the myths that keep you from having the sexual intimacy you desire.
Some of these myths include:
- You always have to be in the mood to have sex. What ever happened to foreplay?
- Your spouse should always know what you want
- Women take longer to get aroused
- Sex is a "want" and not a "need"
- Talking about sex will ruin the mood
- Sex has to be spontaneous
And so much more!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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235. Should There Be Emotional Intimacy Prerequisites To Sexual Intimacy? Survey Answers Feb 13, 2024

We always talk about emotional intimacy needing to be strong before sexual intimacy, but we also say that sometimes sexual intimacy needs to be prioritized too! Which one comes first? What does emotional intimacy coming first even mean? What does this balance even look like, and how do we find it in our marriages?

So many couples struggle with this because a lot of husbands say that the emotional intimacy requirements from their wives are too high and they can never fulfill them, so sexual intimacy gets put on the back burner. But does emotional intimacy need to be super strong in order for a couple to make love?

We asked our audience two questions: Husbands, are there too many prerequisites to sexual intimacy? Husbands and wives, what does emotional intimacy actually mean to you?

In this episode, Nick and Amy dive into what strong emotional intimacy actually looks like when it comes to being a prerequisite, and the answers might shock you! If you are struggling with this balance in your marriage, this might be a great episode for you to listen to!

We love your comments, so if you agree or disagree with us, send us a quick email and let us know!
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234. MUST LISTEN TO EPISODE - Living With An Expansive Mind In A Distracted World With Author Nate Klemp PhD Feb 09, 2024

Have you ever considered how destructive our devices can be to our marriages and relationships? You've heard many of the social media polls we have done that offer shocking insight as to how many couples are negatively impacted by our screen time/devices. And how addictive our devices can be.
In this fantastic podcast episode, Nick and Amy interview Nate Klemp who is the author of the 80/80 Marriage and his new book called "OPEN - Living With An Expansive Mind In A Distracted World."
In this interview, Nate shares what experience he had that inspired him to write this amazing book, he shares some shocking statistics, and most importantly, what couples can do to limit the distractions in their life.
We would rate this as a "must" listen to if you truly want to grow closer together as a couple! And a "must" read book!
You can find Nates new book HERE.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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233. Do You Want To Be Right.. Or Do You Want To Be Happy? Plus Our Crazy Poll Results Feb 06, 2024

It’s human nature to want to be right. We all crave validation. However in relationships, striving to be right at all costs can lead to conflicts and strain in your marriage.
We have all either been in, or have seen couples argue about the most small and ridiculous things. And instead of letting it go and moving on, the argument escalates and turns into something HUGE because one of the spouses has to be right.
In this episode, we share experiences of our own, and discuss why it is more important to choose to be happy, than to be right. If you find yourself in this type of behavior, then this episode is for you!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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232. The 7 Stages Of Marriage And How To Keep Intimacy Strong Through Each Of Them Feb 02, 2024

Have you ever wondered what the different stages of marriages are, and why some seasons seem to be so much more difficult than others? Why does intimacy change and why is it so hard to keep intimacy strong during the different seasons in life?
In this episode, we discuss the different stages in marriage and why each stage is unique, and how it can negatively impact intimacy. We also share the ways to keep the romance, passion and intimacy strong during each one of these stages of life.
Regardless of what stage you are in your marriage, this is an episode you won't want to miss.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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231. Men Can Only Get Their Sexual Needs Met In Their Marriage... But Women Can Get Their Emotional Needs Met Outside Of The Marriage. What Are The Consequences Of This? Jan 30, 2024

We always talk about the importance of both emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy in a marriage. Both go hand in hand and are VITAL to a happy and successful marriage, and good sexual intimacy.
However, they are both extremely different! One's needs can often be met and satisfied outside of the marriage, while other needs cannot. So how does this impact a relationship?
For most women, they need the emotional connection with their husband before they are going to be interested in the sexual connection. And for most men, they need the sexual connection with their wife before they are going to want to emotionally connect and be vulnerable with her.
*We recognize this is not ALWAYS the case as each relationship is unique. But for the majority of men and women, it is.
Let's assume a wife is going to lunch, working out, or doing a bunch of activities throughout the day where they are talking with and connecting emotionally with others to the point that when they get home, their emotional bucket is all filled up.
The desire or need to have more emotional intimacy from their husbands might not be there as their needs have been fulfilled and met throughout the day.
A husband can only get his sexual needs met by his wife in the relationship.
Could this be a reason why so many women aren't interested in connecting emotionally or sexually with their husbands? And why husbands have a hard time connecting emotionally with their wife?
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss this very interesting topic and point of view and share their thoughts on it. They also share the poll results from the poll questions they asked on social media to see what you thought.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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230. How To Manage Libido Discrepancy And Differences In Sexual Desire Jan 26, 2024

In about 90% of marriages, there is a high-desire spouse and a low-desire spouse, meaning there are typically differences in libido or sexual desire in the relationship. This discrepancy can cause a lot of issues between a couple. Don't believe us? Just listen to the poll results and comments we received about this topic in this episode.

Most couples just assume that "this is the way it is" and that nothing can be done about it, but that is not true! There are several things couples can do to find a great balance and have an amazing sex life regardless of the differences they have in their sexual desire.

In this episode, Nick and Amy (as a couple that has different libidos) share the things they have done and implemented in their marriage to find a great sexual balance in their relationship. If you are a couple dealing with this issue in your relationship, then this is an episode you must listen to!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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229. What Is The Temperature Of Your Marriage Right Now? The Relationship Checkup Jan 23, 2024

Are you wondering what the temperature of your marriage is, or how your spouse feels about certain things? Does your spouse feel the same way about your marriage (or different aspects of your marriage) that you do?
In this episode, Nick and Amy share questions to rate your marriage and then discuss with your spouse to gauge the temperature of your marriage, and prompt great conversations. They also share the poll results from the questions they asked on social media about this topic.
This episode will truly help you marriage and prompt great conversations to talk about as a couple.
You can find the quiz in the Ultimate Intimacy App under "Resources and Articles" and "Coupons and Printable's."
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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228. Enough With The "Duty" Sex. How To Start Wanting To Make Love Again Jan 19, 2024

For most couples, during the early years of marriage things are passionate and sex seems to happen often. But as time passes on, sex in the relationship dwindles and couples stop having frequent sexual intimacy and the passion wears off. This is a very common theme for MANY couples.

According to experts, couples that find themselves in this type of relationship have around an 80% of ending in divorce.

So you have the relationships where couples just aren’t having sex due to one of (or both) the spouses loosing interest.

The second scenario is where the lower desire spouse is not wanting to have sex, but does so occasionally out of feeling “duty” to do so. This is called “duty sex.”

No one likes duty sex. Not the spouse giving in, or the spouse receiving. And the problem with duty sex is the spouse doing it is going to feel resentment towards the high desire spouse, and the high desire spouse is going to feel rejected and withdrawn by the lower desire spouse.

Most relationships fall under these categories where there is little to no sex happening, or where there is “duty sex” happening in the relationship.

So how can marriages (or the low desire spouse) want to start making love again?
In this episode, Nick and Amy share the ways couples can get out of the "duty sex" mind frame and start wanting to make love again!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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227. Valentine's Love Language Gift Ideas That Are Sure To Make Your Spouse Happy! Jan 16, 2024

Valentines Day is approaching, and if you are like many couples, it is difficult to find that perfect gift for your spouse. Many couples often struggle with what to get their spouse for V - Day, but finding that perfect gift might not be a hard as it seems.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share how to find your spouse the perfect gift that will sure to please your spouse using their love language.
So if you are a spouse that struggles to find the perfect gift, then this episode is for you and will help you make your spouse very happy this Valentine's Day!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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226. Is Infatuation And Love The Same Thing? Understanding The Infatuation Stage Of Marriage And How To Get It Back Jan 12, 2024

For many couples, they think that once the excitement of the relationship (or the infatuation stage) wears off, they are falling out of love, or the relationship is not good.
This is why so many people have affairs, or you see single people jump from relationship to relationship. They think that infatuation means love. It does not, there is a big difference.

In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the difference between infatuation and love, and also help you understand limerence.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
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225. Depression And Anxiety: How It Destroys Intimacy, And What You Can Do About It - With Dr Wyatt Fisher Jan 09, 2024

It is staggering how prevalent anxiety and depression are, affecting individuals at varying levels and profoundly impacting marriage, including emotional and sexual intimacy among couples.

In this podcast episode, Nick and Amy dive deep into this crucial topic with Dr. Wyatt Fisher. They explore the far-reaching effects of anxiety and depression on relationships, but more importantly, unveil effective strategies for couples to conquer these challenges together.

This episode reveals eye-opening insights from our audience poll, shedding light on the staggering percentage of men and women grappling with these issues in their marriages. Dr. Wyatt Fisher expertly addresses your pressing questions, making this an episode you simply can't afford to miss.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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224. Are Unrealistic Expectations You Have In Marriage Hurting Your Relationship? Jan 05, 2024

We all have expectations when we go into marriage. Some expectations are realistic and others are very unrealistic. When we have unrealistic expectations, we often get disappointed and have resentment when those unrealistic expectations are not met. This can cause great disconnect and unhappiness in the relationship.
In this episode we share the realistic and unrealistic expectations couples have in marriage and how to get on the same page with your expectations.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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223. The Simple Game Changing Goals You Should Implement In Your Marriage For 2024! Jan 02, 2024

Most of us totally suck at keeping goals that we set for ourselves and for our marriages, but in this podcast episode, we share the 5 simple game changing goals you should implement (and ones you can actually keep) to transform your relationship into the kind you dream of having.
Join us for an important episode that can truly change your relationship. We also share our FREE goal setting files that will help you in achieving your goals together as a couple.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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222. Games To Play Naked.. The Benefits Of Implementing "Naked Game Night" Into Your Relationship Dec 29, 2023

You've all heard of our NMN (Naked movie night), but what about naked game night? What are the various legit benefits to naked game night? How can naked game night improve my marriage?
We answer all of these questions in this podcast episode talking about the benefits of implementing naked game night into your relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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221. How You Or Your Spouses Struggles Negatively Impact Both Of You Dec 26, 2023

How often do we feel our own issues are "are own" issues and we don't stop to think how our issues or struggles impact our spouse.
For example, If you are a spouse that suffers from depression, do you recognize the impact it can have on not only yourself, but your spouse? Or for a spouse that has past trauma they are working through. This not only impacts you, but also your spouse.
In this episode we talk about how issues that one spouse is dealing with almost always has a negative impact on the other spouse. We share what couples can do and how to address things so that they can have a much better relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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220. Our "Flirt To Convert" Ideas And Ratings Your Going To Love Dec 22, 2023

Ready to reignite the passion in your marriage? Let us help you rediscover the lost art of flirting and its magical influence on relationships. We'll guide you through the concept of "flirt to convert", and share a list of 20 flirting ideas that can bring back the spark in your relationship. These ideas, rated on a ‘flirt to convert’ scale, range from writing love notes to sending playful texts, showcasing the impact of these small yet significant gestures.
Tune in and prepare to inject some fun and flirtation into your marriage!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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219. How To Be Resilient Through The Storms In Marriage And Life Dec 19, 2023

Life’s storms are inevitable, and they often hit our relationships the hardest. However, resilience is a virtue that can shield us from the harshest impacts. It's not a matter of "if" the storms are going to hit, but "when". Sometimes the storms are light and pass over quickly and other times it seems as if the storms will never pass and cause havoc in our lives.
In this episode, we talk about how to be resilient through the stormy times in marriage and share experiences from our own marriage. If you prepare yourself and have the tools you need to weather the storm, you will be much happier during and after the storms of life.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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218. Emotional Rejection In Marriage.. Let's Talk About It Dec 15, 2023

In our previous episode we talked about the impact of sexual rejection. In this podcast we dive into emotional rejection in marriage. Of course we know emotional and sexual intimacy go hand in hand and it is very difficult to have a great relationship without both!
However, there are many more aspects and ways to be emotionally rejected vs sexually rejected. Emotional rejection could include, communication, love languages, quality time, trust, and so much more!
In this episode we talk about emotional rejection and the many ways this can occur, and we share the simple things you can do to overcome emotional rejection in your relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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217. Sexual Rejection In Marriage: Let's Talk About It Dec 12, 2023

You often hear us talk about how there is typically (in most marriages) a low desire spouse, and a high desire spouse when it comes to sexual intimacy. This imbalance can potentially cause a lot of disconnect and for many couples, even leads to divorce.
In most of these relationships the lower desire spouse controls "if" and "when" sex happens which can be very frustrating for both spouses. The low desire spouse is constantly rejecting, and the higher desire spouse is being rejected.
In this podcast episode we talk about what sexual rejection does to the lower desire spouse and the long term consequences in marriage, and why it is so important for couples to find a balance in their relationship.
Just because one of you may be a higher desire spouse and the other may be a lower desire spouse, that doesn't mean you can't thrive in your sexual relationship, because you can! We will share with you how.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US). The Ultimate Intimacy Store has the perfect gift for your spouse this holiday season.
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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216. Why Your Marriage Can't Survive Without BOTH The "Emotional" And "Physical" Intimacy Dec 08, 2023

We are going to probably get a lot of blowback from this episode from people declaring that you don't need physical intimacy (or sex) to be happy. And although there might be a very select few instances where both spouses have no sexual desire, for most couples that is not the case.
Here is the reason why. In the majority of marriages, there is a high desire spouse (sexually) and a low desire spouse. The low desire spouse does not need sexual intimacy to be happy, but the high desire spouse does.
So as we have talked about before in previous episodes, the low desires spouse typically controls everything related to sex. If the high desire spouse is not getting their physical needs met, they are typically going to stop providing the emotional needs. This is the toxic game played in many marriages. Check out episode 116. Is This Toxic Emotional And Sexual Intimacy Game Being Played In Your Marriage?
In this episode, we talk about why BOTH the emotional and physical intimacy is needed in marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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215. The Childish Things We Do In Marriage That kills Intimacy And Connection Dec 05, 2023

Are there small yet infuriatingly childish behaviors in your marriage? Are these behaviors negatively impacting your intimacy and connection? Well.. you're not alone.
In this episode we expose how the silent treatment, scorekeeping, and other toxic behaviors can wreak havoc on a relationship. Drawing from our personal experiences and a revealing poll with our listeners, we talk about these behaviors and how to foster a healthier, happier relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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214. How Declining Testosterone Is Becoming A Silent Epidemic Among Men (And Women) With World Renowned Urologist Dr. Tracy Gapin Dec 01, 2023

In this episode we talk with world renowned urologist Dr. Tracy Gapin about how declining testosterone is becoming a silent epidemic among men and women.
Dr. Gapin talks about the causes of why testosterone is dropping and why this decline is such a big concern. He also addressed the symptoms and things to look out for, but more importantly, the things you can do to combat this epidemic.
If you are a husband (or wife) that has noticed a decrease in your sexual desire, energy levels, focus, weight management and overall well being, you need to listen to this episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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213. From Boredom To Bliss In The Bedroom Nov 28, 2023

Are you stuck in a rut with your relationship, seeing more yawns than sparks in the bedroom? You are not alone. It is so easy for our marriages to get mundane and boring doing the same thing over and over again. We are managing work, kids, activities and everything else that comes with life.
When life gets mundane and boring outside of the bedroom, it also works its way into the bedroom. But it doesn't need to be that way and it is easy to turn around.
So what can couples do to take their relationship from boredom to bliss? Listen to this podcast episode to find out :)
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US). The Ultimate Intimacy Store has the perfect gift for your spouse this holiday season.
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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212. Must Do’s To Thrive As A Couple During The Holiday Season Nov 24, 2023

The holiday season can be a very stressful time for many couples. The financial stress of buying gifts. The stresses of family events, parties, inlaws and so many other things. It is not uncommon for couples to argue or have conflict during this time of year with all the demands and stresses they face.
But it doesn't have to be this way. There are literally simple things couples can do to take away the stresses and make the holiday season something to enjoy and draw closer together as a couple.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share the things you can do to draw closer together as a couple and reduct the stresses during this holiday season.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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211. There Is Hope In Recovering From Porn Part 2. Jason's Wife's Perspective Nov 21, 2023

We often hear what the men are going through and the struggles they face with a porn addiction, but we seldom hear how their addiction impacts their wive's, and the struggles and anguish women go through as well because of their husbands addiction.
In our last episode 210, we interviewed Jason, a husband who has a porn addiction, lost his job and tried taking his own life. In this episode (211), we interview Jason's wife where she shares her perspective and experience in dealing with this addiction in their marriage. She also shares the things they have done as a couple to work on overcoming the addiction and regain trust in the relationship.
This was a truly remarkable podcast and we hope and pray it provides hope to all those couples out there dealing with a porn, or any type of addiction in their marriage, or can offer insight as to why you should try to keep porn out of your marriage at all costs.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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210. There Is Hope In Recovering From Porn Part 1. The Amazing Story Of Jason Nov 17, 2023

In episode 203 - Why Keeping Porn Out Of Your Marriage Matters, we talked about the impact porn has on marriages, shared some important statistics and ways to keep it out of your life. We also discussed why you should keep porn out of your marriage at all costs.
In this episode, Nick has the pleasure of interviewing Jason, a good Christian husband and family man who started looking at porn at an early age, and eventually became so addicted to it, he lost his job, and even tried taking his own life. But God had different plans for him as you will hear in this incredible story he shares.
Jason opens up and shares his AMAZING journey, experience and the things he has done in his life to try to overcome this addiction. This episode will provide HOPE to those who may be struggling with porn in their life.
This is one of the most inspiring episodes we have ever done and one you should absolutely listen to regardless of your experience with porn. Coming up in the episode following this one, we interview Jason's wife and get her experience and thoughts so check that one out as well.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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209. The Comparison Epidemic: Don't Let This Disease Kill Your Marriage Nov 14, 2023

In today's digital age, it's hard to escape the allure of social media. We're constantly bombarded with carefully curated snapshots of others' lives, and it's easy to fall into the trap of comparison. But have you ever considered how this seemingly harmless habit can have a profound impact on your marriage?

Join us on this episode as we explore the perilous consequences of constantly comparing your life on social media to others. We delve into why this habit can erode the foundations of your relationship, causing couples to lose sight of the important things that truly matter.

Discover why this can lead to a lack of appreciation for your spouse and the life you've built together. Unearth the way it fosters ingratitude and impatience, making it challenging to focus on the present moment and the love that surrounds you.

We'll share insights, personal stories, and expert advice on how to break free from the comparison trap and cultivate a more mindful, fulfilling marriage. And of course, answer the question "how to keep the comparison epidemic from destroying your marriage"
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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208. Parenting Boundary "Must Have's" To Keep Your Sexual Intimacy And Marriage Strong Nov 10, 2023

How do your parenting boundaries impact your sexual intimacy? In this episode we dive in and expose the reasons why you need to have boundaries with your kids to keep your sexual intimacy strong in your marriage. Some of the boundaries we discuss are:

Why you shouldn't allow your young kids to sleep in your bed (and you shouldn't let your older kids as well).
Why you need to prioritize your marriage.
Why it is essential to have curfews for your bedroom and alone time.
Why you need to be on the same team. That doesn't mean you have to always agree.
Why you need to have date night and time just for the two of you.

It is essential for you to prioritize your marriage and establish boundaries with your kids. If you set boundaries with each other to protect your marriage, why would you not establish boundaries with your kids as well? Check out this great episode if you want to connect on a deeper level as a couple.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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207. The Things That Shut Down A Spouse Emotionally And Sexually... Our Poll Answers Nov 07, 2023

What if the key to a fulfilling marriage was right at your fingertips? We're talking about emotional intimacy, the foundation of a vibrant and satisfying relationship. In our recent poll, an overwhelming 94% of you agreed that a strong emotional bond should be the cornerstone of a thriving marriage and that you emotionally have to be connected before the desire for the sexual connection.
In this episode, we'll unpack this concept, exploring the things that shut down both emotional and sexual intimacy. We'll also delve into the role of emotional connection as a precursor to sexual intimacy, underscoring why it's vital to address and resolve issues that may be causing emotional shutdowns.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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206. Amazing Emotional And Sexual Intimacy Is Built On Being Vulnerable Nov 03, 2023

Being extremely vulnerable in marriage involves sharing your deepest thoughts, feelings, fears, and desires with your spouse in a way that creates a deep and intimate connection.
The more you are vulnerable with each other, the more trust and connection you will have as a couple. In this podcast episode Nick and Amy share the ways you can be more vulnerable and open up together as a couple. If you want your emotional and physical intimacy to grow deeper and stronger, then this episode is for you.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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205. Answering The Common Questions We Get Asked About Sexual Intimacy Oct 31, 2023

We get asked a lot of common questions on our social media and through email about sexual intimacy, so for this podcast we thought it would be great to answer the common questions people have.
Some of these questions include:

How can I get my spouse to want more sexual intimacy?
What are the best ways to talk about sex as a couple without having it cause an argument?
Sex is not a priority and we can never find the time for it. What can we do?
How to deal with differences in sexual desire (high desire/low desire spouse)
What to do when your spouse isn't comfortable with certain sexual things.

And much more. We share and answer many of the questions from our polls we took.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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204. Why Saying "I Love You" Isn't Enough. Love Is A Verb Oct 27, 2023

We love the saying "actions speak louder than words" because it is so true! We can say "I love you" to our spouse all the time but that really means nothing unless it's backed up by actions. Love is a verb which requires action on our part.
Yes, it is important too to express love verbally as well, but words without actions mean nothing. In this episode we talk about how you need to show and express love in ways your spouse will know you love them, and it is not good enough to just say "I love you."
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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203. Why Keeping Porn Out Of Your Marriage Matters Oct 24, 2023

In this episode we discuss why you should keep porn out of your marriage, and life. We share some shocking statistics, share experiences and talk about how to know if you have a porn addiction.
Pornography is like a plague that can (and will) destroy marriages and families and we believe this is one of the things that will destroy our society. Pornography is everywhere! It shows up on social media, tv, movies, and romance novels. So what can you do to keep porn out of your life? Find out in this episode.
Even if you don't have an issue with pornography, this is an episode that you will still want to listen to.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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202. Is A Wife's "Needs List" Really Longer Than A Husband's "Needs List?" Oct 20, 2023

We did a fun video on our social media sharing a wife's needs list compared to a husbands needs list and of course it went viral and we got a ton of great comments and feedback on the video.
Most the people who saw the video did agree with what we stated, but shared the reason why they believe it was like that. In this episode we share many of the comments from the video and discuss why a woman's needs list is typically longer... but this is not the case in Nick and Amy's marriage :)
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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201. When Your Priorities, Values, And Goals Are Not Aligned As A Couple Oct 17, 2023

When a couples priorities, values and goals are not aligned in marriage, it can throw everything off and cause a lot of disconnect. And let's get real.. there are a lot of couples that deal with this in their relationship.
These things could include:

Different financial goals. Maybe one spouse is a saver while the other is a spender.
Different religious beliefs and expectations.
Health and lifestyle.
Careers and ambitions.
Political beliefs.
Friends and family (relationships).

And of course the list goes on and on.

In this podcast episode we will give you the tools to work through these things together and find a better balance in your relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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200. The Keys To A Happy And Long Lasting Marriage Oct 13, 2023

In most marriages, there are a few key and essential things couples need to do to have a happy and long lasting marriage, and the couples that do these things (or most of them) find enjoyment and fulfillment in their relationships.
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the keys to a long lasting and happy marriage. Yes, we understand we have only been married over 21 years and still have a long way to go, but these key things are essential in most relationships.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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199. All About The Clitoris.. The Key To Unlocking Female Pleasure - Part 2 Oct 10, 2023

Over 2 years ago, we did a podcast episode with sex and health expert Cindy Scharkey titled: It's all about the clitoris, the key to unlocking female pleasure which you can listen to HERE.
That has been one of the most downloaded episodes to date and has helped a lot of women learn to enjoy sexual intimacy. The statistics are crazy about how hard it is for many women to have an orgasm, largely due to not understanding what the clitoris is.. or how it works.
The sole purpose of the clitoris is for female pleasure. Sex is meant to be pleasurable for both spouses, yet the reality is that many women are not experiencing the level of pleasure they deserve. This can be attributed to a lack of knowledge about their own bodies.
Statistics and studies reveal fascinating insights into the complexities of female orgasm:

Orgasm from Penetration: Approximately 82% of women cannot achieve orgasm solely through penetration.
Never Experienced an Orgasm: A surprising 10% of women have never experienced an orgasm.

In this episode we share more insight as to why the clitoris is so important for female pleasure. We share things we have learned and tools that have been a game changer for our marriage and intimacy.
This is a great episode for both spouses to listen to that can truly help their lovemaking. Education about the clitoris is a powerful step towards unlocking its potential for pleasure.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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198. How Often Should Married Couples Be Sexually Intimate? What Do The Statistics Tell Us Is Ideal For Achieving The Greatest Happiness? Oct 06, 2023

This is one of the most commonly asked questions: How often should married couples be having sex and what is ideal to achieve the greatest happiness?
In this episode Nick and Amy share the poll results from their audience asking this question, and also share what MANY experts and studies have shown to back it up. We think this episode can be a great help to finding a balance in your relationship that works for you both.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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197. Why You Need To "Disconnect" If You Want To "Connect" As A Couple Oct 03, 2023

There are so many things that keeps couples from "connecting" in their marriages. To find that connection, we often need to "disconnect" from the things in our marriage that are causing the disconnections.
In this podcast, we delve into the intricate web of factors that can hinder couples from truly connecting within their marriages. To uncover that elusive connection, we often find ourselves needing to disengage from the various elements in our relationships that contribute to disconnections.

Here's are some of the prominent things that cause couples to disconnect:

Work
Family
Friends
Social Media
Technology
Financial Stress
Hobbies
Bad Habits

Join us as we explore the causes of disconnection in couples and offer valuable insights into the methods couples can employ to rediscover the art of reconnection in their marriages.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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196. Are There Times When You Feel Like Your Husband Only Want's You For Sex? Hear The Shocking Poll Results And The Reasons Why So Many Women Feel This Way Sep 29, 2023

A while back, we did a poll and podcast on how a lot of husbands have at sometime in their marriage felt like their wife just wanted them for a paycheck. As we talk to couples all the time, we often hear how some women feel like their husband just wants them for sexual intimacy. So of course we had to do a poll and podcast on this subject because if many women feel that way, we need to talk about it.
We also felt like this was a great time to do the episode as we just did the previous podcast episode on:

The Reasons Why Your Husbands Sexual Desire For You Is So Strong.. And Why You Should Be Grateful For It!

In this episode we share the results from the poll we took asking women if they have felt like their husband just wants them for sexual intimacy. The results may surprise you. We also share the responses as to why many women feel this way and discuss what couples can do to address these type of feelings.
This episode is a must listen to for both husband's and wive's.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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195. The Reasons Why Your Husbands Sexual Desire For You Is So Strong.. And Why You Should Be Grateful For It! Sep 26, 2023

Too often, we view sex as a mere physical act, overlooking the emotional intensity and connection it offers for both spouses. If you follow our polls we do, MANY men state that sex is so much more than just sex! It is the way they feel loved.. and show love, and many more reasons which we share.
Many women (or lower desire spouses) complain about the high sex drive. In this podcast episode we dive into the reasons why husbands (or the high desire spouse) desire to be sexually intimate is so strong, and why you should be grateful they desire you! We think this podcast episode might change your perception about things and help you look at things in a different way.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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194. All About “Pursuers” and “Withdrawers” In A Relationship. Why It Can Cause Disconnect, And The Simple Steps To Fix It Sep 22, 2023

Have you ever felt like you're the only one seeking emotional connection in your relationship? You're not alone. We, Nick and Amy, get real about the dynamics of pursuers—the ones actively seeking intimacy—and withdrawers—those who prefer a bit more distance in relationships.
Drawing from our own experiences, we're looking at how personality types and situational factors can switch these roles. More importantly, we're breaking down ways to strike balance in relationships that carry the weight of these differing personalities, without losing the essence of who you truly are.
Influenced largely by individual backgrounds and upbringings, these communication styles and personality types play a significant role in shaping a relationship.
Join us for an exciting and informative episode that will answer a lot of questions you might have about "pursuers" and "withdrawers" and how this can impact your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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193. Have You Caught Yourself Doing These Damaging Things In Your Marriage? Sep 19, 2023

In this episode we will guide you through avoiding and addressing toxic behaviors that can seep into even the happiest of relationships. From our personal experiences to our insightful discussion on important issues like gaslighting and financial control, we lay the groundwork for fostering healthier relationships.
We also tackle issues like jealousy, silent treatment and constant criticism. Our conversation highlights the vital role that boundaries, trust, and open communication play in confronting these challenges effectively. We also delve into the darker side of relationship dynamics, discussing the harm caused by constant blaming, threats, financial control and incessant sarcasm and how to counteract them.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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192. Our Favorite Naked Date Night Ideas That Won't (Or Shouldn't) Get You Arrested Sep 15, 2023

DISCLAIMER - We are not responsible for your actions, or any arrests due to your actions, so use wise discretion when applying these naked date ideas to your date nights :) Please do them in a private place because no one wants to see that.
Ready to ignite sparks of intimacy in your relationship? We guarantee you will find that flame in this episode as we venture together through the favorite naked date night ideas that won't (or shouldn't) get you arrested.
This is a fun episode that should not only provide you great ideas to keep things fun and exciting, but should make you laugh in the process.
If you are in a marriage where things have lost the excitement and date night is just routine, you will love this episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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191. The Priceless Things We Learned About Marriage From Watching Married At First Sight. Do You Agree Or Disagree With Us? Sep 12, 2023

We have been watching a show called “Married At First Sight” where 3 relationship and marriage experts/therapists match up couples who then get married without ever seeing each other prior to getting married.
One of the reasons we wanted to watch the show is a couple of the couples from previous seasons in the show, who actually stayed married, have been proponents of our app and have promoted it.
It also intrigues us to see couples who haven’t been married before, that are usually in their late 20’s to late 30’s, get married and see if they can fall in love and actually make it work together.
We decided to do this podcast episode based upon what we have learned from watching a couple seasons of Married at First Sight, because every time get done watching some episodes, Amy and I look at each other and express how grateful we are for each other and to be married to each other.
Often times many of us think the grass is greener on the other side because of what we see on social media or the movies. We have an illusion that things should be perfect. Every time we watch the show, we even more come to the realization that what we have is amazing as many couples just can't find love, get a long, and most the couples end up in divorce.
After listening to the episode we hope you realize how lucky you are to have each other and that you can be grateful for what you have instead of focusing on what you don’t have, because most people would give everything they have to have what you have in marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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190. The Different Types Of Sexual Intimacy And The Roles They Play In Marriage Sep 08, 2023

There are many types of sexual intimacy within a marriage and a time and place for each of them. Many couples only experience sex when the time is right, they are both in the mood (or the lower desire spouse approves of it) and the experience is typically the same each time.
But sexual intimacy in a relationship doesn't have to be that way! There are MANY ways to experience sex in a relationship and in ways that can make it much more enjoyable, and foster a deeper connection between a couple.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the various types of sex within a marriage, and why it is so important to experience each one of them periodically in your marriage!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
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189. Your Husband Is Not A "Mind Reader".. And The Reasons Why You Need To Stop Expecting Him To Be One Sep 05, 2023

Are you a wife that gets frustrated because your husband can't read your mind, doesn't know your thoughts, how you are feeling, or even what you expect of him?
Are you a husband that lacks mind reading abilities and doesn't always know what your spouse is thinking, feeling or wanting?
It's normal to hear comments from women like "my husband should know how I feel.. I shouldn't have to tell him" or "he should be able to see that I am frustrated!"
Image the pressure this puts on a husband to have to try to figure out what his wife wants, needs and expects of him without her communicating it to him.
When this happens, the frustration builds up for both spouses which can cause a lot of contention in the relationship when it could have been avoided by simply communicating with each other.
Most husbands truly want to give their wife everything they want and desire. And all a wife has to do is tell him what she needs. Yes.. it is just that easy for most relationships.
In this episode, we talk about the reasons why mind reading doesn't work, and why you need to avoid it in your marriage. We also share the reasons why wive's need to communicate clearly with their husbands. There are many negative consequences that can result from this mind reading assumption.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
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188. Parenting & Intimacy: When Your Older Kids/Teens Aren't Making Good Decisions... And Why You Shouldn't Blame Yourself Sep 01, 2023

In this insightful podcast episode, Nick and Amy dive into the intricate relationship between parenting older kids and teens, and intimacy within a marriage. We hear from many couples who are struggling with kids and express how their marriage is negatively affected in so many ways because of it.

As parents, we invest tremendous effort in guiding our kids toward success and happiness. However, the evolving dynamics can sometimes lead our children down unexpected roads, causing strains on a marriage. We unravel the ways in which these changes can create barriers to intimacy and communication between spouses.

Tune into this episode to discover practical strategies for maintaining connection and fostering intimacy amidst the challenges of parenting older kids and teens. Join us as we talk about bridging the gap between parenting and maintaining a thriving, intimate relationship!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE
The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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Let's Recharge Your Relationship: Introducing The Sexy 30 Day Challenge Aug 31, 2023

It's time for Sexy September YAY!
Are you ready to join us and dive headfirst into a month of intense romance, fiery love-making, and unbreakable connection?
We have all tried a new diet or set a new goal, and have laid out a plan and agenda for this goal right? It helps to have structure and plans... and this is exactly what we have created for your marriage! It is an entire month plan and it's not just a recharge; it's a Relationship Revolution that's guaranteed to ignite fireworks no matter where your intimacy stands!
Wave goodbye to ordinary marriage challenge calendars you cross off each day, and say hello to an ultimate bundle of pure relationship recharged activities! You get to choose your own adventure by picking and choosing challenges that resonate with you and your spouse. But that's not all – we've prepared a stunning assortment of printable love notes, a position poster, initiation cards, plus an array of date night concepts and a shared bucket list that will help you plan together and take your date nights from routine to exciting!
Remember, a joyful marriage thrives on intention.
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187. What To Do When The Physical Attraction Is Lacking.. And How To Maintain It In Your Marriage Aug 29, 2023

We have had many couples we know personally, as well as others from our app and content messaging us, stating that they are losing physical attraction to their spouse or that they no longer feel physically attracted to their spouse for various reasons. The common questions are, "What can I do to regain physical attraction to my spouse again?" or "What can I do to make my spouse feel physically attracted to me again?" "What if I don't feel attractive anymore, and it is affecting my desire to be intimate with my spouse?"

In this podcast episode, we discuss this important topic and the things couples can do to rekindle that physical attraction and become more appealing to their spouse.

This might have less to do with the way you look and more to do with the emotional connection, self-confidence, positivity, and happiness in your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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186. 10 Things We Need To Start Normalizing In Our Marriages Aug 25, 2023

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the 10 things couples need to start normalizing in their marriages. We tend to think that certain things are not normal such as setting boundaries, having conflict in the relationship and many other things so we try to stay away from doing them. This can be very unhealthy for our relationships.
Normalizing these 10 things in your marriage will greatly enhance your intimacy and relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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185. Want To Have An AMAZING Emotional And Sexual Connection? Then Do This One Thing Often Aug 22, 2023

There have been many times in our marriage where we have been doing something just because we do it, that we later recognize it has had a profound positive impact on our relationship. We weren't doing it because we were trying to fix or improve anything, but just doing it because we enjoyed it, and then realize the benefits have been amazing!
For example, we take a lot of showers together at night. It is a time where we can relax at the end of the day and not be disturbed, get cleaned up before bed, spend good quality time together, and have some of our most meaningful and breakthrough conversations have happened during this time together. It is also a great way to get in the mood and better your chances at being physically intimate.
Many couples complain they don't have time to spend together, and according to an article by Focusonthefamily.com, the average couple spends less than 4 minutes per day in meaningful conversation! YES.. you heard that correctly.
No wonder couples are having so many issues and not connecting emotionally or physically.
In this episode, we talk about how doing this one thing together often can make a huge positive impact in your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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184. The 2-2-2 Rule Is The Key To A Happy Marriage Aug 18, 2023

For most couples, it is the little things that they stop doing that cause the big things to snowball in their marriage.. and often times even lead to divorce.
We ran across a great news article that talked about the 2-2-2 rule that couples say is the key to a happy marriage. After reading the article.. we agree. If couples can do these 3 simple things in their relationship, they will most likely see their marriage thrive. We are one of those couples that have seen our marriage transform because we implemented these things into our marriage on a regular basis.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the article and the 2-2-2 rule and the simple things you can do to implement the 2-2-2 rule into your marriage. It really is the small and simple things that can cause great changes in your relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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183. Could This Be A Big Reason Why Your Wife Doesn't Crave Being Sexually Intimate As Often As You Do? Aug 15, 2023

We men drive ourselves crazy wondering why our wives don't crave sexual intimacy as much as we do! After all, most of us are good-looking, romantic, great fathers, and awesome husbands! It's baffling how they can keep their hands off of us!

In one of our recent conversations, Amy dropped a truth bomb about one of the reasons she doesn't crave intimacy as much as I (Nick) do. Her explanation made total sense to me, and we found a great solution. We agreed that we needed to do a podcast and share it with you!

So, if you're a husband who can't figure out why your wife doesn't crave intimacy like you do, or if you're a wife who feels the same way Amy did, you need to listen to this episode. We discuss the reasons why your wife might not crave sexual intimacy as often as you do, AND we talk about things you can do to increase your chances of enjoying more intimate moments.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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182. All Over The Place At 12:00 AM Aug 11, 2023

In this episode, Nick and Amy cover a lot of subjects from many of the polls they have done over the past few years and discuss the various subjects and thoughts they have on the polls. This podcast was recorded at 12am so they might be all over the place... Sometimes they have to work the night shift.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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181. The Wives Have Confessed: All about physical touch - Poll Answers Aug 08, 2023

Husbands, if you want to know where and how your wife wants to be touched to get turned on, then you have found the right episode. In this episode, we share the poll questions and answers we asked the wives... and we also touch on other fun questions as well relating to women and sexual arousal.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" for your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and given it such high ratings and reviews!

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180. The Husbands Have Confessed - Poll Answers Aug 04, 2023

Most men are afraid to tell their wife where and how they want to be touched, but we got all the low down from the husbands in our social media poll. So ladies, if you want to know where and how your husband wants to be touched intimately, and what drives him crazy... and have some good laughs as well, then you should listen to this episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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179. 11 Very Important Things We Learned From Divorced Couples Aug 01, 2023

After engaging in conversations with a lot divorced couples, many whom are relatives and friends, a common theme emerges: Many of them now have a deeper understanding of what went wrong in their relationship and what they could have done differently. They gained clarity on the factors that contributed to their divorce.

Interestingly, some of these individuals acknowledge that by making certain changes or adopting different approaches, their marriage could have not only survived but possibly could have flourished.

It's important to recognize that in cases involving abuse, toxic behaviors, or addictions, divorce might be the necessary and only option. However, for many other couples that do not deal with these things, it was the accumulation of seemingly minor issues that eventually snowballed into bigger problems, ultimately leading to divorce.

In this episode, Nick and Amy share experiences and examples from divorced couples, providing valuable insights that can help you steer clear of these mistakes in your own marriage. By learning from their stories, you can create a happier and more fulfilling relationship.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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178. Are You Or Your Spouse A Perfectionist? How Chasing Perfectionism Will Negatively Impact Your Intimacy Jul 28, 2023

The longing for perfection, both in ourselves and in our spouses, is a common theme that arises in couples and marriages. It's natural to desire perfection, thinking that if we achieve it, it will lead to bliss in the relationship. The truth is, longing for perfection will destroy intimacy in your relationship.

Experience has shown that the more people chase perfection in life and marriage, the more they fall short and feel dissatisfied in the relationship. The thing about trying to achieve perfection is that you will always be disappointed because perfection is unattainable.

Having a perfectionistic spouse (or if you are a perfectionist) can present unique challenges in a marriage. The constant pursuit of flawlessness and high standards can create tension, dissatisfaction, and even feelings of inadequacy.

However, with understanding, patience, and effective communication, it is possible to navigate this aspect of your spouse's personality and find a healthy balance that fosters a harmonious relationship.

In this episode, Nick and Amy share some surprising poll questions and results, the negative impacts of perfectionism, and great tips on how to deal with it in your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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177. These Products Can Transform Your Marriage.. Here's Why Jul 25, 2023

In this podcast episode, Nick and Amy share how these certain products can literally change your marriage. They also share the reason behind each product they have designed or sell in their online store, and why they believe it can help your marriage.
Whether your a couple that struggles with communication, emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, or have barriers that keep you from having the marriage you desire, this episode can help you find the tools or products that can enhance your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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176. Is Your Husband Lacking When It Comes To Romance And Affection? Jul 21, 2023

Do you wish your husband was more romantic and affectionate in your marriage? Find out what other women just like you said in the poll we did and in the questions we asked our audience!
Nick and Amy discuss what women wish their husbands would do to be more romantic. They also talk about how couples can navigate these differences instead of letting them cause conflict in the marriage. Husbands, this is an episode you will want to listen to!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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175. The Female Body.. Things Your Husbands Wanted To Know - Poll Answers Jul 18, 2023

Oh, the complexity of the female body. It is enough to drive a sane man crazy! For many husbands, trying to understand the female body is like trying to understand quantum physics, or someone speaking a different language.
What works for her one night, doesn't work another night. What feels good one time doesn't feel good the next.
In this episode, we put a poll on instagram and asked the husbands what they wanted to know about the female body and women. So if you are one of the many billions of men that don't understand the female body, don't worry, you are not alone.
This is a fun episode you will enjoy while we try to tackle some of the questions.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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174. Why It's So Important To Know And Understand Your Spouse's Personality Type Jul 14, 2023

Are you (or your spouse) an introvert or extrovert? Are one of you a thinker vs feeler? Do you plan things out or are you spontaneous? Do you have an assertive or accommodating personality?
Imagine the frustration if one spouse is an introvert and wants to stay at home all the time and the other spouse wants to get out of the house and be around friends and family, or one spouse is spontaneous while the other likes to have things planned out.
These differences happen all the time and can cause issues in the relationship if they are not talked about openly together, and if couples do not understand each others personality type.
We often don't consider how important knowing and understanding each others personality types in in marriage. In this podcast episode, Nick and Amy discuss why it is so important to know and understand each others personality type in your marriage and how to find balance when you have different personality types instead of letting the differences divide you and cause conflict in the marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!
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173. Husbands… Here Are The Things Your Wife Wants You To Know When It Comes To Sex Jul 11, 2023

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into "The things your wife wants you to know when it comes to sex.
Husbands often tell us they have no idea what their wife wants (and sometime the wife doesn't even know what she wants). For the men feeling this way, this podcast episode will help you understand what your wives want when it comes to sex as we share many answers from our poll we took from many of the wives that do want to have better sexual intimacy.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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172. Wives... Here Are The Things Your Husband Wants You To Know When It Comes To Sex Jul 07, 2023

Sex is an area where many couples struggle to find balance, often with one spouse having a higher desire for sex and the other having a lower desire. This struggle can contribute to problems and even divorce among married couples. It's important to recognize that men often feel loved through sexual intimacy, while women often feel loved through emotional intimacy. Finding the balance between these forms of intimacy is key.

Many women may mistakenly believe that men simply want sex, but for men, sexual intimacy encompasses much more. It can be challenging for husbands to effectively communicate their desires and explain that sexual intimacy holds deeper significance for them beyond just the physical act.

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss what husbands want their wives to know about sex, emphasizing that it's about more than just the act itself. They delve into the complexities of sexual intimacy and how it contributes to a deeper connection in marriage.

If you haven't already, we encourage you to check out the Ultimate Intimacy App, available for free download in app stores or at ultimateintimacy.com. It offers a range of resources to enhance intimacy in your marriage.

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171. Exposing The Most Common Reasons Couples Stop Having Sexual Intimacy Jul 04, 2023

There are SO many reasons couples stop having sex. The problem is when sexual intimacy stops happening for whatever reason (or is less frequent), then couples start disconnecting both sexually and emotionally, and growing apart, because sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy go hand in hand.

If you listen to our podcast regularly, you know the importance of sexual intimacy in marriage that we continually talk about. In this episode, we talk about the most common reasons couples stop having sex and identify the things you can do to make sexual intimacy a priority in your relationship!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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170. Do Women Have Complete Control And "Say So" When It Comes To Sexual intimacy? Jun 30, 2023

In most relationships and marriages (whether done intentionally or unintentionally), women have complete control and say so when it comes to sex. They typically determine "if" a couple is going to have sex, "when" they are going to have sex, and everything related to sex in the relationship.
Many husbands are scared to initiate sex with their spouse for fear of rejection, having it cause an argument or conflict, and many other reasons. Because of this, and the fact that most women have a responsive desire style, many couples are not connecting sexually in their relationship (and often living in sexless marriages, or close to) because sex in the marriage is up to the wife.
In this podcast episode Nick and Amy discuss the reasons why this is, and how couples can work together to find a balance in their sexual intimacy and relationship where both spouses needs and desires are being met, and sex is something that both spouses have mutual respect and control over in the relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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169. Tips To Have Amazing Communication With Your Spouse Jun 27, 2023

We talk about communication often, but there is a reason why. When couples contact us about issues they are dealing with in their relationship, or how they want to improve something, the first question we ask is "have to talked to your spouse?"
Almost every response the answer is "well no, I haven't." It is amazing how many couples can't and don't communicate how they are feeling for fear of rejection or having it cause an argument.
We believe almost every issue can be resolved with good communication. In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about "how" to communicate, and the things couples can do do make their communication a lot better, and have a lot less conflict. There are some sarcastic and joking conversations in this episode, and we have some fun with them.
Even if you feel you have good communication in your relationship, there are tips in this episode that will be greatly beneficial. This episode is a must listen for all couples looking to improve their marriage and communication.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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168. How Fear Can Hold You Back In Your Marriage... And In Life Jun 23, 2023

Fear in marriage, and in life can have severe consequences. Fear can also keep us from progressing as it paralyzes us from taking risks that can better our marriage, future and life.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss how fear can impact your marriage, the different aspects that people fear, and the things couples can do to overcome their fear.
Here are just a couple of the things couples (or spouses) fear in marriage that hold them back from having the life and marriage they dream of, that we discuss in this podcast episode.
Fear of rejection
Fear of success
Fear of change
Fear of failure
This is a must listen to episode to help you identify and overcome any fears you have in your relationship, or in life.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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167. Understanding The Reasons Behind Infidelity: Unveiling The Hidden Struggles In A Marriage Jun 20, 2023

Ok, we know we are Ultimate Intimacy and our niche is helping couples that have a good marriage that want to make it even better... so why are we talking about infidelity? How is this going to benefit a couple that has a good marriage and why would you want to listen to a podcast about why couples have affairs?
Well the truth is even couples that have strong marriages can end up destroying their lives and everything good if they are not extremely careful, or if they don't put the precautions and barriers in place to keep something like this from happening.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the reasons why someone may have an affair, what causes someone to go down that path, and why it is so important for couples to take everything in their marriage seriously and strive to continuously work on their relationship and do everything they can to "affair proof" their marriage. We will share the things you need to do to "affair proof" your marriage.
We have seen couples have affairs that we never imagined would allow that to happen and it was because of the little things they did (or didn't do).
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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166. Why These Are On Our Top 10 And How They Can Help Your Intimate Life Jun 16, 2023

We feel all of our podcast episodes are very important, but we wanted to list the top 10 episodes that we think can be the most influential for many couples. These are also the topics that we get the most feedback and/or downloads on, and also see that most couples struggle with or want areas of improvement.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share the podcasts that they think can be the most influential for most couples and share the reasons why.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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165. The Reasons Couples Fall "Out" Of Love... And How Not To Let It Happen To You Jun 13, 2023

Why do so many couples fall "out" of love in marriage? We know the divorce rate is near 50% so chances are many couples that are listening to this podcast and feel they have a happy marriage could unfortunately end up in divorce. But that doesn't need to happen if you understand the reasons this happens and what you can do in your relationship to not let it happen to you.
In this episode Nick and Amy talk with Grant and Stephanie with Forever With Purpose about the main reasons couples fall "out" of love, and what you can do to not let it happen in your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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164. 6 Ways To Make Your Conversations Fun And Exciting! Jun 09, 2023

Do you ever feel like your conversations are always taking about the same things and they are never fun and exciting like when you were dating, or first got married? Do you want to have those fun and exciting conversations again like you had early on in your relationship?
This is the episode that will change the way you have your conversations and bring back the excitement and fun into them! Nick and Amy share the secrets they use to have great conversations together both in and out of the bedroom.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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163. 10 Ways To Make Your Husband Feel Loved And Special Jun 06, 2023

Welcome to the "Ultimate Intimacy Podcast" where we help couples find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationship.

Join Nick and Amy, as they discuss the various ways you can express your love and gratitude for your husband, and make him feel special. Drawing from a combination of personal experiences, expert insights, and real-life stories, each tip presented in this episode is designed to foster a stronger emotional connection with your spouse.

Whether you're a newlywed seeking to establish a strong connection or a long-term couple looking to reignite the spark, the "Ultimate Intimacy Podcast" offers practical guidance and inspiration for cultivating a loving and fulfilling marriage.
In this episode, they share ten powerful ways to make your husband feel loved and appreciated, and witness the profound impact they can have on your relationship.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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162. Tips To Avoid Conflict During Intimate Topics - With Dr. Wyatt Fisher Jun 02, 2023

We get SO many messages from couples saying “when I try to talk to my spouse about sex, or other intimate things it always causes and argument” What can I do?
In this episode Nick and Amy talk to Dr. Wyatt Fischer about how couples can learn to communicate about intimacy and other tough topics as well as tips on what couples can do to avoid conflict when having these conversations.
Every couple on earth has conflict, but it is the couples that know how to resolve the conflict quickly and move on in the relationship that have healthy and happy marriages.
This podcast will give you the tools that you need to have those good conversations and avoid the conflict or let if from escalating into something bigger.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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161. 10 Ways To Make Your Wife Feel Loved And Special May 30, 2023

Husbands, do you want to know the 10 ways to make your wife feel loved and appreciated? In this funny and light hearted episode Nick and Amy discuss the 10 ways to make your wife feel loved and Amy lets Nick know if he is even close or we have to re do this episode and list 10 other things.
Find out what Amy thinks and if these 10 things can help make your wife feel loved and special.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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160. Our Tips On How To Avoid Committing Emotional Infidelity In Your Marriage May 26, 2023

What is emotional infidelity? Emotional infidelity refers to a situation where one spouse becomes emotionally involved with someone or something outside of the relationship in a way that undermines the intimacy, trust, and commitment of the marriage. This can involve sharing intimate details, thoughts, and feelings with someone other than one's spouse, seeking emotional support or validation from someone outside the relationship, or engaging in flirtatious or romantic behavior that undermines the exclusivity of the relationship.
Emotional infidelity (even at the smallest level) can obviously lead to much more serious things so it is important to discuss boundaries in the relationship, and do the things that will keep your marriage from allowing emotional infidelity to enter it.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss what couples can do to keep emotional infidelity out of their marriage and the boundaries that couples should discuss and implement in their marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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159. Amazing Vacation Destinations You Should Put On Your Bucket List May 23, 2023

We don't get to travel as much as we would like to, but the past couples of years we have had the opportunity to travel to a couple pretty amazing places that exceeded our expectations, and were very affordable compared to other options.
Amazing food, accommodations and fun things to do you will never experience anywhere else!
In this episode, Nick and Amy share a couple amazing places you can visit together as a couple for pretty inexpensive. They also share some things you can do to find even better deals for your travel.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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158. How To Get A Long With Your In Laws And Not Let It Negatively Impact Your Marriage May 19, 2023

Getting along with your in-laws is an essential part of building a healthy and happy marriage. When things aren't going well with the in-laws, it works it's way into you marriage and can cause serious issues between a couple.
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss things you can do to get along better with your in laws, which will in turn help you have a better relationship with your spouse and in your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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157. Why You Should Do This One Thing As A Couple May 16, 2023

We have been watching a really fun show called "Bahama's Life." The show is about couples looking for their dream property or retirement home in the Bahamas, and they look at several different properties and then decide which one is for them. The fun thing to see is how so many couples talk about how they are accomplishing their dream that they have worked together for so long for.
A lot of them say that they put a picture of the house they wanted, or the property or lifestyle somewhere they could see everyday, and they worked toward that goal for many years. That picture of that house, or the beach motivated both of them to work toward the common goal(s) until they were in a position to make their dream/goal come true.
This got us thinking about how important it is to have a vision/goal board in marriage to help you work toward common goals and dreams together, and all the other great benefits this has for your relationship. It truly is a powerful way to accomplish dreams and goals you have and it works for MANY couples.
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss what a vision/goal board is, the reasons you should make a dream/vision board together, and how to make one that works.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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156. The Emotional Intimacy Workbook.. And All The Ways It Can Transform Your Marriage May 12, 2023

We have been working on the Emotional Intimacy Workbook for about 6 months and finally got it completed! This workbook covers so many topics that can help couples connect on a much deeper level, and also break down barriers that are keeping them from discovering Ultimate Intimacy in their relationship.
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the different topics in the workbook and how the workbook can help your marriage!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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155. Is Marriage Really Hard? Or Do Our Own Issues And Other Outside Things That We Bring Into It Make It Hard? May 09, 2023

We all know marriage can be hard at times, but have you ever considered what makes it hard through those times? Sure, we can have financial difficulties, health issues, and many other things that can cause significant impacts on our marriage, but at the end of the day, we get to determine how we react.
Just because life can really kick our butts sometimes doesn't mean that marriage is hard. It is life that is hard that often causes significant issues the bleed into our marriages.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share past experiences they have gone through and outline the things couples can to do NOT make their marriage hard :)
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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154. What Is "Ultimate Intimacy" And How Can You Obtain It In Your Marriage? May 05, 2023

You hear us talk about "Ultimate Intimacy" all the time! We even branded our company that. But what exactly is ultimate intimacy, and how can you obtain it in your relationship?
In this episode Nick and Amy dive into what Ultimate Intimacy means and how couples can find it in their relationship. And yes, it is possible for couples to obtain it!
If you are in a marriage where there is a high desire and low desire spouse and it's hard to find the balance, then this episode is for you.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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153. Is Social Media A Major Addiction For Your Wife? May 02, 2023

Social Media is destroying peoples marriages, and on average, it can be more addictive to women than to men. Although porn and social media are quite different, they both are very addictive and can cause a lot of the same consequences. Many people believe social media is the porn for women.
In this episode, Nick and Amy pose the question "is social media the porn for women" and discuss statistics as to how it impacts women, they share poll answers from the audience to find out what all of you feel, and they discuss the things that can be done to break the addiction (for both men and women.)
Social media and phone addictions are one of the leading issues in marriages, and improving in this one area can make all the difference in having a happy and fulfilling relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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152. Why It's So Important For The Lower Desire Spouse To Initiate Sex (Once In A While)... And 12 Fun Ways To Do So! Apr 28, 2023

So often in marriage it is the higher desire spouse that is ALWAYS initiating sex with the lower desire spouse. However, it is so important for the lower desire spouse to also initiate sex in the marriage to show their spouse how much they love and care about them.
In this episode, Amy (and Nick) share 12 fun ways the lower desire spouse can initiate sex with the higher desires spouse. Nick shares the reasons sexual intimacy (and the lower desires spouse initiating) is so important.
Nick and Amy also share the "connection challenge" instant download to help couples connect on a deeper level. This challenge can be found in the resource section of the Ultimate Intimacy App under "Coupons and Printable's." You can download the app for free HERE
If you are in a marriage where there is a high desire and low desire spouse and it's hard to find the balance, then this episode is for you.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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151. Don't Know What Your Wife Needs From You To Connect Emotionally? Don't Worry, Neither Does She... Apr 25, 2023

We were sitting in the marriage retreat talking about sexual and emotional needs in marriage and a husband asked, "How do I emotionally connect with my wife? What does that even mean?"
We all looked at the wife to hear her answer and she says "I don't know!" Which is actually a typical answer. A lot of husbands want help in this area, and many women don't even know what they need! What is emotional intimacy and how do we do better at connecting in this way if it is so important to a marriage?
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the best ways a husband can connect emotionally with his wife. Personal examples from their marriage, and tips to bring back the connection that every marriage needs to have!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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150. Are Men And Women Really That Different When It Comes To Emotional And Sexual Intimacy? Apr 21, 2023

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the typical stereotypes of men and women when it comes to sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy differences. We know that not all couples fall into the typical stereotypes, but we feel that yes, we are created completely different, but at the same time we are so much more alike than we sometimes think we are.
Both husbands and wives want to feel emotionally connected, spiritually connected, and sexually connected to each other, we are just different in the ways we feel and show that desire.
Filling that gap can be tricky in marriage. Nick and Amy share their tips on how finding that balance between sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy in marriage can be a little bit easier!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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149. The Intimacy And Adventure Retreat Recap Apr 18, 2023

We just finished the Intimacy And Adventure Retreat we hosted with Married For A Purpose and had an incredible experience that was life changing for the couples (including us) that attended the retreat.
In this podcast episode, Nick and Amy share their thoughts and takeaways from the retreat and the ways it helped so many marriages.. including ours.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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148. Does Respect Have To Be Earned In A Marriage? The Ways To Loose It And Gain It Apr 14, 2023

There have been many polls done on this subject and it is interesting that for most men, they value being respected more than they value being loved.
This shows how important respect is in marriage and that marriages can't survive (or flourish) without it. However, there are often times in marriage where the respect fluctuates and can be lost, based upon certain things that happen.
In this podcast episode, we discuss how important respect is in marriage (for both spouses), and the ways, and things couples do to loose respect. We also discuss the things couples can do to gain respect back. Nick and Amy share their personal experience with this subject as Nick did some things that caused Amy to loose respect for him for a time. They also discuss the things Nick had to do (and is still doing) to earn that respect back.
This is a big issue for a lot of couples.
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147. Husbands, Why You Need To Be Patient With Your Wife During Sexual Intimacy Apr 11, 2023

The other day we were laying in bed (after making love) and talking and laughing at all the ways women can loose focus when making love. Amy was joking that she was close! Then lost it. Then close again... then lost it and stating all the reasons why. Her leg fell asleep, she heard a dog barking outside. She had congestion from allergies.
It's funny how a nuclear war could be going on outside and it wouldn't affect the husband, but how every little thing can often impact a woman. We thought this would be a great podcast subject to talk about how husbands need to be patient with their spouse while making love, and the things a couple can do to help with the distractions.
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146. Lacking Intimate Time? Why Managing And Balancing Your Time In Marriage Is So Important Apr 07, 2023

Couples that have happy and successful marriages do a very good job at managing their time and priorities in their relationship. They prioritize the important things and put the less important things last on the list.
This is the opposite of what most couples do! Most couples fill their time with everything else and put their relationship last. Maybe they don't do this intentionally, but it happens. They fill their day with all the other things and then are too tired to connect physically or emotionally.
It is amazing how many couples use the excuse that they are just too busy to spend time together, or too busy to fit sexual intimacy in their relationship. However, if you looked at the time they spent on their devices or doing other "time wasters" there would be plenty of time for the more important things.
For most couples, balancing their relationship and managing their time is a problem. In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the basic things couples can do to manage their time more efficiently and connect more as we couple.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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145. Why Keeping Score And Trying To Keep Things Equal In Marriage Doesn't Work Apr 04, 2023

So many couples keep score in their marriage trying to keep things fair, or following the 50/50 marriage model, and wonder why it only makes things worse. When you keep score, you then become competitors where there is ALWAYS a winner and a looser, instead of working together as a team.
You try to keep things equal, but it is impossible to do so. This causes resentment, imbalance and will kill your intimacy as a couple.
In this podcast episode Nick and Amy share their experiences of earlier in their marriage and how they went away from this model and why they did, and why you should as well.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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144. Is There Anything Wrong With Transactional Sex And Chore Play? Mar 31, 2023

A transaction is an exchange of goods or services, and something that is typically a win win for both parties involved. For example, we buy groceries and our family gets the food we need to survive, and the store gets our money. A home buyer buys a house and the seller makes money (or gets rid of the house). In our jobs, we trade our time and skills in exchange for money! Just about everything we do in life is a transaction in some way or another, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. So why would transactions in marriage or sexual intimacy be any different?
Amy loves back rubs (and I know that), and I enjoy being intimate with her (and she knows that) so often times we climb into bed and I give her an amazing back rub and we make love. It is a win - win for us both! We are both satisfied and happy and we do this because we love each other, we our marriage is strengthened.
So many couples look at transactional things as a horrible thing. We get comments like "my husband is just doing this for me because he wants to have sex" or "I am just giving him sex so that he will do ________"
In this episode we discuss transactional sex and chore play, and let you decide if it is something that can work for your marriage.
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143. Rediscovering Sexual Intimacy After Having Kids, And How To Prioritize And Make Time For It Mar 28, 2023

Being a parent is amazing and so rewarding, and no parents would trade it for anything. But unfortunately for many couples, their marriages and intimacy often take a back seat to the kids, and because of that, the marriage suffers. Couples justify this and say "we will focus on our marriage once the kids are gone."
Your relationship isn't something you can just turn on and off like a light switch. Marriage takes a ton of effort and it is something you have to work on constantly, and it is never stationary. You are either growing closer together, or further apart. If you want a happy and successful marriage, you have to put your marriage first and make time for your relationship and the sexual intimacy!
Even with kids, you can still prioritize your marriage and rediscover sexual intimacy. It might take more effort than it did before, but it will be well worth it.
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the ways to rediscover your intimacy and the things you can do to make it a priority your your marriage.
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142. Are The Tiny Pebbles In Your Life Causing A Big Ripple Effect? Mar 24, 2023

Are there one or two very little things impacting so many other areas of your marriage in a negative way? What if you were just a couple little things away from having a wonderful relationship?
In this podcast episode Nick and Amy talk about how for many marriages, there are probably just one or two little things that could be causing a ripple effect to take place causing other issues in your marriage that wouldn't normally be there.
For example, if you are having disagreements over finances, that then causes arguments, which then causes issues with your emotional intimacy, which then causes issues with your physical intimacy, which then causes issues with your date nights, which then impacts.... well you get the point.
Join us for this great podcast episode sharing how to get rid of the "pebbles" that are causing a ripple effect into other areas of your marriage.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
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141. Want To Find Your Desire For Sexual Intimacy Again? A New Groundbreaking Product That Can Transform Your Sexual Well Being.. With Dr Shawn Talbott Mar 21, 2023

As there are so MANY distractions in life, stresses and other things that cause low libido or "lack of drive" with sexual intimacy, there are ALOT of couples that struggle with their sexual wellness/sexual desire. This lack of sexual desire often has very negative impacts on marriages, especially when you have a high desire spouse and a low desire spouse, and we hear this from both men and women.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Dr. Shawn Talbot who is the inventor of a new sexual wellness product called “Ignite” that can help people with their sexual wellness and desire. They have product for both Men and Women. Shawn talks about the product, why he invented it and how it can help you in your relationship.
Order the amazing IGNITE product (for men and women) to help your sexual well being HERE
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140. The Way You Speak To Your Spouse (And Yourself) Can Have Severe Consequences Mar 17, 2023

In a previous episode with Alex Boye, he talked about the power of our words and the impact it can have on not only to ourselves, but to our spouse (and others). There are villages in Africa that take this so seriously, they will kick you out of the village if you are too negative as they believe the words can poison the whole village.
In this episode Nick and Amy tackle the hard topic of verbal abuse. When most people hear the word "abuse" they think of horrible things being said. But let's be honest, anything we say to ourselves or others that has a negative impact can be some sort of abuse. Many times we verbally abuse ourselves or our spouse without even realizing it. What we say to ourselves and others can have catastrophic consequences to both the abuser, and the abusee.
Even if you feel like you don't deal with verbal abuse in anyway, this is an episode you will still want to listen to.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
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Talking About The Intimacy and Adventure Retreat With Greg And Julie Gorman Mar 16, 2023

In this bonus episode Nick talks with Julie and Greg Gorman with Married For A Purpose about the Intimacy and Adventure Retreat coming up in St George, Utah April 14th - 16th. They discuss what couples can expect and learn when attending the event.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
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139. Is Your Relationship Strong, Healthy And Stable? Here Are The Signs Mar 14, 2023

We as couples are always comparing ourselves to other relationships, and it is normal to wonder where our relationship may stand in comparison to others. What things are we doing or what could we be doing to have a better marriage?
There are several things that couples in stable and healthy relationships always do. In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the things couples that have stable and healthy relationships ALWAYS do. These 12 things when implemented will take your marriage to another level.
This episode will help you know what things you might be missing (if any) and what you can implement into your marriage to have a more stable, happy and healthy relationship.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
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138. Sexpectations In Marriage.. And Why You Need To Talk About Them Together! Mar 10, 2023

Sexpectations are the expectations you both have about sex in your marriage. This includes frequency of sexual intimacy, who initiates, foreplay, toys, what is ok and not ok, scheduled or spontaneous.. you get the point.
Discussing sexpectations together in your marriage is vital! How can you have better sexual intimacy (or anything else) if you don't talk about it? Sex plays such an important role in marriage and you both need to be on the same page when it comes to sex. The more you discuss and talk about things in the bedroom, the more comfortable you are going to become, and the better the sexual intimacy will become in your marriage.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss what are good sexpectations, and the sexpectations they have in their marriage that work, especially since they both have different desire styles and drives. They also share specific ways to talk about your sexpectations and what you can do to have better sexual intimacy in your relationship.
This will be an episode you will both want to listen to.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
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137. The Best Sex Techniques To Increase HER Pleasure With Health And Sex Expert Cindy Scharkey Mar 07, 2023

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with health and sex expert Cindy Scharkey about the best techniques and positions to increase her pleasure! Most women cannot have an orgasm from intercourse alone, but how many of us know that or even talk about that?
No wonder it is so difficult for many women to have an orgasm, or to enjoy sexual intimacy. After listening to the episode, you will better understand how to increase her please and take your sexual intimacy to a new level.
Also check out podcast episode 30 "It's All About The Clitoris, The Key To Unlocking Female Pleasure" with Cindy Scharkey to learn more about the purpose of the clitoris and how it is literally the key to unlocking female pleasure.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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136. Talking MENOPAUSE And Low Libido With Health And Sex Expert Cindy Scharkey Mar 03, 2023

You've spoken and we've listened. So many husbands and wives have expressed need during this stage of life... menopause. How it affects libido, and what you can do about it! In this episode Nick and Amy talk all about menopause with health care expert Cindy Scharkey. Cindy has over 35 years experience in the industry and answers many of the common questions.
What is menopause?
How does it impact sexual intimacy and libido?
How long can menopause last?
What can a husband do to support his spouse during this time?
How do you keep sexual intimacy alive during these years?
Even if menopause hasn't impacted your relationship yet due to your stage in life, this is an episode you will want to listen to.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
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135. What To Do When Your Love Languages Are Different.. And Knowing Each Others Love Language Isn't Working? Feb 28, 2023

We have talked about the love languages before, but it is such a big issue for couples that we felt like we needed to do another episode diving into the topic at a much deeper level, and providing step by step things that you can do. Many couples tell us that although they know each others love languages, there are still issues in their marriage over different love languages in the relationship. It is not enough to know each others love languages, but there are other things you need to do to and implement to fulfill each others needs and find that balance.
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about the things you can do to have a great relationship even with opposite love languages, and the secrets to not only understanding each others love languages, but to fulfill them in the "right" way.
If you know your spouses love language, but still cannot find the balance you are both looking for, then this episode is for you!
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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134. They Are Trying To Destroy Your Marriage... Don't Fall For The Lies Feb 24, 2023

We live in a world where good is now considered evil and anyone with sanity is now considered crazy. The traditional values, responsibilities and roles of men and women that have been around for thousands of years are suddenly now being treated as abnormal, offensive and even appalling and people are being destroyed for talking about it, or standing up for it.
Men are being degraded and portrayed as stupid, weak and useless in the movies, tv shows and social media. Men are the center of jokes about how they are just another child that their wife has to take care of. They are being told how to dress, talk, and act and being totally disrespected. Men are treated as if their only purpose is to bring home the paycheck.
Men are being told they should not talk about or express their desires, wants and needs, and many men are fearful of doing so.
Toxic and evil people on social media and in society are convincing women that they don't need a man, or husband because all men are horrible people. Women are told they should stay single and be independent, free and selfish and follow their own desires, and not be tied down to a husband or kids.
Society is turning completely against marriage, family and God, and is doing everything it can to destroy what has been the norm for thousands of years.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share their crazy experience they have had with social media and the groups and people out there trying to literally destroy men, women and marriages. They also discuss the things that you can do to not let the lies sneak into your marriage and try to destroy it.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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133. All About Foreplay... Why It's So Important And The Best Tips To Implement Feb 21, 2023

Society is convincing women that if they are "not in the mood" for sex, and if they don't feel like making love that night, then they shouldn't have to even think about it! Both people should be in the mood in order to consider making love right?

WRONG! What happened to foreplay?
Society is convincing men that sex is now completely "off limits" unless his wife is already "in the mood" which seldom happens. Many husbands have expressed to us how fearful they are of even trying to initiate sex anymore, as they "only are after one thing." Yes they are... To connect with their wife! That is a big reason we get married, to have a passionate lover next to our side to express love to in many ways, including sex.
The majority of women have a responsive desire style which means they will never be in the mood for sex, unless they "get in the mood" first. That is where foreplay comes in. It is such a false narrative to think you have to be in the mood to be sexually intimate. THAT IS THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF FOREPLAY... TO GET A RESPONSIVE DESIRE SPOUSE IN THE MOOD TO BE SEXUALLY INTIMATE!

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss why foreplay is so important for both spouses to talk about and implement. Instead of "waiting" to be in the mood, allow your spouse to get in the mood through foreplay. Foreplay often times can be the most enjoyable part of sexual intimacy.
Don't dismiss the importance of foreplay in your marriage, and don't believe that you always have to be in the mood to enjoy sexual intimacy. That is the whole purpose of foreplay is to get a lower desire, or responsive desire spouse in the mood.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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132. Our Key Takeaways And Thoughts From Episode 131 With Alex Boye Feb 17, 2023

There are few podcasts or movie episodes that the more you listen to, the better they get. However, that was the case for us with the Alex Boye podcast. We have both listened to it several times since it recorded and aired, and each time we do we gain more knowledge and wisdom of the things he shared in the podcast. These are valuable tools and lessons that he shared that can easily be implemented in your life and marriage and make you so much happier.
In this episode Nick and Amy share what they learned from the interview with Alex Boye and the things that really hit home for them in their marriage. You will want to listen to episode 131 before listening to this podcast episode.
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Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
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131. Alex Boye (World Renowned Singer) Shares His Amazing Experience And How This One Thing Can Change Your Life Feb 14, 2023

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Alex Boye who is a world renowned singer and song writer. Alex shares so many amazing things in this podcast from his incredible experiences in life and humble beginnings, battling depression, overcoming adversities, and his secrets to finding happiness in life! You can hear the passion and the happiness he has through every minute of this podcast.
Alex turned to music as a teenager because some of the life experiences he was going through and depression he was experiencing. He talks about how the words we use and the tone we use in our life, can literally change us and the people around us.
He also talks about how the things we choose to put into our lives (like social media) and into our minds literally can change our perspectives about how we feel towards others, life and ourselves.
This episode is so powerful and will inspire you to want to make changes in your life and look at things from a different perspective! This podcast episode might be one of the most influential listens you have for your own self love, and for your marriage.
Also, stay tuned for his new book launching in May that is going to be a life changer for everyone who picks it up!
If you want to donate to his great cause, you can click HERE
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
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130. Husbands.. Are There Times When You Feel Like You Are Only Wanted For A Paycheck? Feb 10, 2023

We get so many messages from husbands that make comments like:
"I feel like my wife just want's me for the paycheck"
There are husbands that feel like their only purpose is to provide financial support.
As we have talked many times before, a husband feels loved, needed and appreciated through physical affection and intimacy from his wife. Many husbands feel like they are in relationships where all their spouse wants is to be taken care of financially. They express that they feel lonely and unappreciated.
**This goes both ways. We also recognize that many women feel this way as a stay at home mom or even working a job as well and we will discuss how women feel in a future episode.
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss this topic and share some thoughts on what a couple can do to get out of this mind frame and find Ultimate Intimacy in their relationship. So if you are a husband that feels this way, or a wife that intentionally, or unintentionally treats your husband this way, then this episode is for you.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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129. Pet Peeves To Positivity: Why Are Pet Peeves So Triggering And How To NOT Let Them Ruin Your Marriage! Feb 07, 2023

A pet peeve is a relatively minor annoyance that provokes a strong negative reaction in your spouse (or other person).
We all have little things that we do that drive our spouses insane (and vice versa). Many of these things are so small and non existent to even the people around us, but to us, they drive us or our spouse crazy!
Pet peeves are things like:

A spouse checking their phone while you are trying to talk to them
Leaving lights on around the house
Chewing loudly
Clothes on the floor

And...the list goes on.

In this episode, Nick and Amy have a blast sharing pet peeves they have, and experiences in their relationship, but more importantly, how they got over them and resolved them (or deal with them). They also share the social media poll from our audience to hear what you had to say!
If you have pet peeves that are driving you crazy, but want to know how to resolve them and find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship, then this episode is for you!
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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128. What Do You Do When Your Spouse Won't Talk About Sex...Or Other Tough Topics? Feb 03, 2023

You hear us constantly talk about how almost everything can be resolved with communication, which is absolutely true. But what happens when you have a spouse that doesn’t want to communicate (or won't communicate) because they are afraid it will turn into a fight, or they don’t want to talk because it is uncomfortable?

We hear from MANY couples that they try to communicate with their spouse, but their spouse doesn’t want to. They tell us that “my spouse just won’t listen to me" or my spouse says they don't want to talk about it when I bring it up”

Here are the reasons why a spouse may not want to communicate:

They don’t want it to end up in an argument.
They get uncomfortable talking about difficult things, so they shy away from talking about them.
They have a different communication style.

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss what a spouse can do when the other one doesn't (and won't) talk to them. They share an experience from a listener that was giving up, and then did something that completely transformed their marriage almost overnight!
Nick and Amy will share what you can do to hopefully have a similar experience and change things in your marriage if you are experiencing this.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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127. Are Expectations In Marriage Good Or Bad? And Our Valentines Poll Answers Jan 31, 2023

We all go into marriage with expectations of what we think it should be like, and are often disappointed when things don't go as we expect. So, are expectations in marriage good or bad? Is it healthy to have expectations?
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about expectations in marriage and share experiences in their relationship.
Communication is key when it comes to holidays. Having some expectations can be healthy but it is important to always talk and express them to your spouse! We give some tips for communicating and working with expectations in marriage!
We also share all of our poll answers from our Valentines survey we took on instagram stories! We wanted to know how many couples celebrate Valentines, what husbands and wives want most, and what they would love to be surprised with most. We also asked if Valentines Day causes contention in some marriages. The answers will shock you, and give you ideas of what your spouse might love to be surprised with!
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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126. Do You Feel Like Your Relationship Is Slipping Away? Here are 11 Things You Can Do To Get It Back Jan 27, 2023

Marriage is meant to be full of passion, excitement, connection and intimacy! But it is really quite scary how easy it is for relationships to slowly slip away if we are not doing everything we can to work on our relationships on a daily basis. Many couples find themselves growing apart and don't realize what is causing the disconnect, and end up just being two people living together.
Marriage doesn't need to be this way, and it shouldn't! In this episode Nick and Amy share some of their experiences and the things they did to help their marriage come back to an amazing place after slipping away. They share 11 things couples can do to find the Ultimate Intimacy they desire in their relationship.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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125. Is This Silent Relationship Killer Hurting Your Marriage? Jan 24, 2023

Is pride hurting your marriage? Chances are, it is at some level. It has been said that pride is the silent killer of relationships!
Pride is something we all deal with at some level and it can fluctuate in our lives depending on where we are at and what we are going through. There may be some times in our live when our pride is high, and other times when we are humble. However... when left unchecked pride can destroy good relationships.
In this episode Nick and Amy identify how to know if pride is negatively impacting your relationship, AND things you can do to reduce it in your life.
Check out the 2023 Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat April 14th- 16th to transform the sexual intimacy in your marriage HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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124. Is There Such A Thing As Too Much Sexual Intimacy? Jan 20, 2023

We always talk about how important it is to have frequent sexual intimacy in marriage, and let's face it, most couples are probably not having as much sexual intimacy as they should. But have you ever thought about if there is such a thing as too much sex?
As you know, every year or so we do a 7 day sex challenge where we challenge couples to have sexual intimacy for 7 days in a row, and then share their experiences. We call it a "challenge" because it is a challenge to have sexual intimacy for 7 days even when both of you are committed to doing it.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the results of the 7 day sex challenge, if they were able to complete it, and the impact it had on their relationship. They also answer the question "Is there such a thing as too much sex".
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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123. For The Wives Who Just Aren't Interested In Sexual Intimacy Jan 17, 2023

Of course there are many good reasons why a wife may not enjoy or want to have sexual intimacy. Some of the reasons could include past trauma, relationship issues, conflict, depression or stress, or various other reasons. We understand these are real and need to be addressed.
However, in this episode, we are talking about the wives who have good marriages... but just aren't interested in sex.
We have heard many women make the statement that they would be totally fine with never having sex again! Or that they only do it for their husband. This is so sad to hear as sexual intimacy is something that should be (and can be) greatly satisfying for both spouses!
For those of you who have listened to the podcasts, you know how important sexual intimacy is in a relationship, and not just for the husband. So if you are a women that just isn't interested in sex, or doesn't find it enjoyable for whatever reason.. or you are a husband married to a wife that doesn't enjoy sexual intimacy, then this episode is for you.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share the simple steps, and ways women can learn to find great enjoyment, satisfaction and fulfillment with sexual intimacy again (or for the first time)!
Check out the 2023 Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat April 14th- 16th to transform the sexual intimacy in your marriage HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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122. Common Relationship Issues In Marriage And How To Address Them Jan 13, 2023

There are so many things that can cause issues in a relationship and if not addressed, or handled properly, they can have devastating consequences on the relationship.
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the common relationship issues that couples deal with and how to address them before they become a huge issue in the relationship.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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121. For The Women Who Have A Hard Time Having An Orgasm.. Try These 6 Things Jan 10, 2023

About 10% of all women have never had an orgasm. And more than 80% of women cannot have an orgasm from intercourse alone. Bottom line, it is hard for many women to orgasm.
For women who have never experienced an orgasm, or have a hard time having one, sex can feel like a chore. It can be un-enjoyable and even something they distance themselves from. They may feel guilt, shame or as if something is wrong or broken with them which in turn makes things even more difficult and just creates more pressure and anxiety, and less interest in sexual intimacy.

The good new is, nothing is wrong or broken and it doesn’t have to be that way. Virtually ALL women can learn to orgasm and enjoy sexual intimacy. Once they learn more about their bodies, how they work, and can remove the barriers that are keeping them from having that amazing experience.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the 6 steps to orgasm if you have never had one, or find it very difficult to have one.
Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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120. Is Sex A Thermometer That Can Gauge The Temperature Of Your Marriage? Jan 06, 2023

Is sex really a good indicator of how good (or bad) your marriage is? In this episode Nick and Amy talk about this and also share the poll answers we received from our audience to find out how others view this as well.
We believe sexual intimacy and overall satisfaction in marriage do go hand in hand. Couples that have good sexual intimacy where both spouses are satisfied, usually have good marriages. Couples that have infrequent sexual intimacy are much more likely to feel disconnected, and possibly end up in divorce.
There is a reason that the at the top cause of divorce is due to sexual intimacy issues (or lack of it) in the relationship.
Want to get back the sexual intimacy and connection in your marriage? Want to learn how to communicate about sex? Then check out the Intimacy and Adventure Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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119. Does It Bring You Closer Together As A Couple? Jan 03, 2023

In a previous podcast episode (81) we talked about how to know if something is ok or not ok in the bedroom. The question we presented for everyone to ask themselves was "Does it bring you closer together as a couple?"
We have thought about this a lot and how it can apply to pretty much every aspect of your marriage whether is emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, hobbies, family, finances and every other aspect.
If couples could ask themselves this question before many of the decisions they make, it could help their marriage and relationship tremendously. In this episode, we discuss how asking yourself the question "Does it bring you closer together as a couple" can help you make important decisions to bring you closer together as a couple.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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118. Is Your Marriage Ready For 2023? Dec 29, 2022

Want to know what is just as important as goal setting as a couple? Getting rewarded for accomplishing your goals as a couple!
At the beginning of each year, people all over the world set new goals they want to accomplish individually. Many people don't realize how important it is to set goals as a married couple, and set them together. Setting goals can be fun and a great way to bring more passion and intimacy into your marriage.
We came up with a great outline to help you set goals together for 2023 in the areas of emotional, sexual, spiritual intimacy as well as financial goals, adventure and fun, and connecting more in your marriage goals.
In this episode we discuss goals you should set as a couple and rewards you can give to yourselves as a couple. We even provide a goal sheet to help you keep them!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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117. Funny Intimate Experiences From Our Listeners That Will Make You Laugh Dec 27, 2022

In our relationship, we have had funny intimate experiences that we continuously laugh about and we were certain many of our audience have had the same. In this episode, we took a poll on social media and asked our audience:
Are you adventurous in your love making?
What is the craziest place you have made love?
Have you ever been caught during the act?
What was your reaction after being caught?
The answers are hilarious.
The purpose of this podcast is to inspire our audience to find fun in their marriage and to make lovemaking fun and exciting and do things to bring back the passion and excitement into the bedroom (or out of the bedroom :)
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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116. Is This Toxic Emotional And Sexual Intimacy Game Being Played In Your Marriage? Dec 22, 2022

We recently did a video on social media for the men titled "the reasons your wife doesn't want to make love to you." We have heard a lot of the women state it is because their emotional needs are not being met. In one of the comments from the video, a husband stated:
“A man’s emotional needs are linked to his wife making love to him, which she won’t do unless her emotional needs are met first, Thus the man becomes responsible for his and his wife’s emotional needs."
This was a powerful statement which caused us to do this podcast, and reflect on this in our marriage as well.
Most women want an emotional connection before having a physical connection with their husband. And for most men, they need to have the physical connection before they will feel safe enough for the emotional vulnerability and connection with their wife.
So for MANY marriages it looks like this:
The wife will withhold sexual intimacy (and sometimes use it as a weapon) as a punishment to try to get the emotional intimacy she wants from her husband.
The husband is usually upset and doesn't meet his wife's emotional needs because his wife won't meet the physical needs in the relationship (because a husband needs the physical connection first).
Sound familiar? This toxic game is played in many relationships.. and in this game, no one ever wins and the marriage suffers from it, many times ending in divorce.
In this episode, we discuss the games that are played and the things couples can do to get both of their needs met so they can have a fulfilling marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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115. For The High Desire Wife.. And The Low Desire Husband (The Reasons) Dec 20, 2022

We have all heard the stories from women complaining their husbands want sex ALL THE TIME! But what seems to be a lot less common is complaints of their husband not interested in or wanting to have sex.
We have never done a podcast on this topic until now because we never thought it was an issue, but after having several women reach out to us about this, we realized it was more prevalent than we thoughts. Although this episode is geared towards women who have husbands who don't want to have sex, this topic can apply for both spouses.
In this episode, we discuss the reasons why a husband would not want to have sexual intimacy with his wife and provide solutions on how to discuss and resolve this issue together as a couple.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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114. The Best Advice For Married Couples.. From Various Marriage Experts Dec 16, 2022

Nick and Amy do alot of research and studying for their blog posts, podcasts and information for the app and come across a lot of very good information. They have put together some great marriage advice from various marriage therapists and experts on their top advice they have for married couples.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the top things that marriage experts have shared for couples to help their marriages, and share experiences they have had in their marriage as well. These things have helped them and they know they can help your marriage as well!
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113. Our Raw Conversation On Why We Think This Stage Of Life And Marriage Is The Hardest Dec 13, 2022

The other night we were having a deep conversation that was sooo good. We were assessing our marriage and talking about how this time period in life can get boring and stagnate and feel like we do the same thing every day over and over again (like Groundhog Day).
We were also discussing why we think this time frame in life is the hardest on marriages. After discussing these things, we wanted to see if our assessment was right and so we looked at stats on the internet and did a social media poll and realized our assessment was right!
In this episode, we (Nick and Amy) share the answers from our poll we did and discuss why this time of life can often feel so boring and repetitive, and of course things that couples can do to make their marriage more exciting during this time period in life.
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112. Our Thoughts About Episode 111 Dec 09, 2022

After doing the AMAZING episode 111 with Tamara Fackrell, we felt like that was one of the best episodes we have had and the information in it could help just about EVERY couple. As we could have spent hours on the podcast with her, we just didn't have the time.
So we wanted to dive into the things that she talked about a little bit deeper and share our thoughts, insight and experiences in our marriage.
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111. The Podcast Episode That Will Transform Your Marriage! Dec 06, 2022

This has to be one of the best podcast episodes we have done, with information applicable to every relationship. In this episode Nick and Amy interview Tamara Fackrell (she is a divorce attorney, author and has a PHD in marriage and family relationships). Yes, you heard that correctly, a divorce attorney that is fighting to help couples not only survive, but thrive in marriage!
In this episode Tamara shares 10 things that can help with conflict resolution. The steps she provides are so simple and easy to understand, and are things that couples can do to transform their marriage quickly and keep them thriving in their relationship.
Trust us, this will be an episode that could be a game changer in your marriage... even if you already have a good marriage :)
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110. We Need To Recognize The Evil Around Us Trying To Destroy Our Marriages Nov 29, 2022

For a couple of months now, we have been posting a lot of videos on social media sharing our thoughts on various topics, and things that we have implemented in our marriage that we feel have helped us tremendously. These include videos and thoughts on sexual intimacy, emotional intimacy, date nights, setting boundaries in marriage and many other topics.
It is AMAZING to see how miserable many people are and their vicious comments towards marriage, and doing good things in marriage. Some of the comments state how horrible marriage is, how couples should just cheat on each other.. or never get married in the first place, and MANY other negative things.
Honestly... we were very surprised as we just assumed most married couples want to have happy and successful marriages. Otherwise, why be married if you're not happy… or at least making an effort to be happy.

In this episode we share YOUR answers and feedback on questions and a poll we did. We also share the things we have learned from doing our social media videos and why we feel it is so vital to do the things to protect your marriage.
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109. What Are The Differences Between Rules And Boundaries... And Why You Should Consider Boundaries To Protect Your Marriage Nov 22, 2022

Throughout our lives, we have many boundaries. These boundaries are in place to establish what is acceptable and not acceptable. In our jobs we have boundaries. We establish boundaries with our kids, our inlaws and other family members. We know what we can and can't do. And there are consequences for crossing those boundaries. The boundaries are there to protect everyone.
So why would we not have boundaries in place in our marriage? Our marriages are the most important thing (or they should be) to protect at all costs.
We posted a couple videos on social media about boundaries and it is amazing to see some of the comments. People state we are in prison and our marriage doesn't stand a chance. Other people comment on how they allow their spouse to go out with ex boyfriends and be with whomever they want because they trust them. They state that boundaries are just rules to force on someone but it is important to note that boundaries and rules are completely different.
So why should we set boundaries together in marriage?
What are the differences between rules and boundaries in your marriage?
In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the difference between rules, and boundaries and why it is important to set up boundaries TOGETHER as a couple. If boundaries are never established, how would someone know if they are ever crossing the line?
This episode will give you some great insight as to why boundaries are so important and we share some of the boundaries we have established in our marriage and how it is provided more freedom in our relationship.
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108. Stuck On What To Get Your Spouse For Christmas? Nov 18, 2022

We love polling our audience and hearing what you have to say so we did an instagram poll and asked the following questions:

Have you asked your spouse what they want for Christmas?
What was the best gift you have ever given your spouse for Christmas?
Would your spouse rather have a gift or quality time?
What is one thing you would love to get surprised with from your spouse?

The answers were surprising but helped us share the best gifts you can give your spouse this holiday season and how to use your spouses love language in helping get the best gift?
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107. Maintenance Sex...What Is It And Why You Should Be Open To It Nov 15, 2022

Maintenance Sex.. What is it and why is it important. Well look at it this way. We have to do maintenance on our cars. We check the tire pressure, fluids and get regular oil changes, filters and many other things to keep the car running properly. These are not fun things to do, and they are even expensive some times, but they are necessary to keep it functioning and running correctly. The same is with maintenance sex in marriage. Sometimes the time is not the most convenient for sex, or maybe we are not in the mood for sex, but we should consider how important it is to maintaining a happy and healthy marriage.
As there is typically a high desire spouse, and a low desire spouse in the relationship, maintenance sex means that both spouses (men and women) are maintaining healthy sexual intimacy to a level that keeps both spouses satisfied. For every couple, this could look different. For one couple it may be once a week, or a couple times a month. For another couple it might look different.
Both spouses need to have realistic expectations and discuss what this looks like in "their" relationship.
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106. Is The Adversary Trying To Keep Sex Out Of Your Marriage? Nov 11, 2022

We heard a great quote that we thought was very profound and caused us to think about why this is. QUOTE: "The adversary tries to get you in the marriage bed before you're married, and tries to keep you out of it after you are married."
This hit us hard... and it is sooo true. He tempts us to have it before we are married, and then tries to keep us from having sexual intimacy after we are married!

What things does he do in your marriage to keep you out of the marriage bed?
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105. Dealing With Different Sex Drives And Why You Need To Find A Balance In Your Marriage Nov 08, 2022

Just about every relationship and marriage has a high drive spouse and a low drive spouse. If you are one of those couples you are completely normal, and neither spouse is right or wrong, it is just different. As sexual intimacy is such an important aspect of marriage and long term happiness, it is important for both couples to communicate with each other and find a balance that works for both of them. If couples don't find a balance, it can lead to a lot of problems in the relationship. In this episode Nick and Amy interview Tammy Hill, who is a certified sex therapist, to discuss how couples can manage the different sex drives and still find great satisfaction and balance in their marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun.
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104. Why We Have Completely Changed Our Mindset About Scheduling Sex Nov 01, 2022

For many people the concept of scheduling sex goes completely against what we are led to believe from watching the movies. In the movies, both people are ready to go at a moments notice and ALWAYS seem to be in the mood whether morning, afternoon or evening. It's as if they have nothing better to do. Well... the movies are a fantasy and that is not what reality is for all of us people off the big screen. In real life, couples seldom are both in the mood at the same time and sex often doesn't happen spontaneously as life is so busy with work, kids and many other things.
Scheduling sex can be an amazing thing for several reasons and after listening to this podcast, you may just find yourself scheduling sex in your relationship for better and more frequent sexual intimacy.
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103. Ways To Handle The Stressful Holidays Part 2... The Poll Answers From Our Listeners Are Here! Oct 28, 2022

In part 2 of the podcast "Ways To Handle The Stressful Holiday" we share our social media poll results from YOU about all the stresses you experience during the holidays, and ways to handle them.
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102. Ways To Handle The Stressful Holidays Around Extended Family Part 1 Oct 25, 2022

If you are like most people, the holidays are a time that causes a lot of stress and division in their marriage. Even those couples that don't drink wish they could so they could get through the craziness. You have the financial stress of presents, your time, and of course being around the extended family which is probably the most feared or problematic for most couples!
There is a reason that National Lampoons Christmas Vacation is so funny... because most people can relate to it. Crazy uncle Eddy (have one), the in-laws together, the chaos and contention it causes between you as a couple.
So how can you get through this chaotic and dreaded time of the year and stay close as a couple? Just listen to Nick and Amy and Healthy and Whole Marriage in this podcast episode to find out. Make this holiday season "a walk in the park" for your marriage after listening to this episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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101. 5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Raising An Issue With Your Spouse Oct 21, 2022

It is so easy to react swiftly to conflict and we often say things in the heat of the moment we regret or wish we could take back after. Often this quick reaction can magnify the situation even more.
How many arguments have you had that have blown up to where you haven't spoken to each other in days... and you can't even remember what the argument was about?Sometimes it is just best to take a pause and think before engaging with your spouse.
In this episode Nick and Amy talk with Nadine and Duane with A Purpose Driven Marriage about the "5 questions to ask yourself before raising an issue with your spouse"
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100. If You Want To Make Love To Me In The Bedroom, You Have To First Make Love To Me In The Kitchen Oct 18, 2022

Our 100th episode! It has been an amazing ride and we are so excited to share this episode with you. We recently listened to a comedian talking about sex and titled this episode after his comedy routine as it rang so true "If you want to make love to me in the bedroom, you have to first make love to me in the kitchen". What does that mean to men and women? For men, they would love to make love in the kitchen. For women, making love starts much earlier than getting to the bedroom (or making love in the kitchen). What things do men want and what things to women want when it comes to love making?
Listen to this podcast episode to find out what it means to make love to her first in the kitchen. Nick and Amy also share the social media polls and questions about what YOU think.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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99. Are The Roles In Your Marriage Causing Conflict? Traditional vs Modern Roles In Marriages Today Oct 14, 2022

It is common to think there are certain roles in marriage for males and females. For many years, traditional roles were common where the woman was responsible for raising the kids and keeping the house in order. The men would typically provide financially for the family. While this may still be the case for a lot of families, roles have shifted into modern marriage roles and couples are often both working now and providing income, taking care of the chores more equally, and raising kids together.
Which roles do you have in your marriage?
Was the way you were raised cause conflicts with marriage roles?
Have you and your spouse found a balance with household responsibilities?
Listen to this episode as Nick and Amy share their thoughts on the different roles in marriage, how to communicate about marriage roles and not let chores and household responsibilities cause a divide in your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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98. How Envy And Jealousy Can Negatively Impact You And Your Marriage Oct 11, 2022

We are bombarded from every conceivable angle portraying that if we don't have a certain lifestyle, car, money, marriage, house, or body, then we cannot be happy.
The constant lies can build a lot of envy and jealousy if we allow it to do so. We see on social media that our friends are going on vacation, or they just bought a new house or car. Maybe their husband got promoted to a great job. Whatever is presented to us, we can begin to think "why don't I have that house, or why don't we travel to those places, or why is that not happening to me..." and because there is everything out there, something will hook us in.
What we don't see is behind the curtain. We don't see the debt people are in for that new car, or house. We see a mirage of things, but these mirages cause us to have envy and jealousy.
When we start down that path of getting jealous of someone, or envying what others have, it can slowly destroy you, and your relationship like a cancer.
People with envy and jealousy often become resentful, ungrateful, and bitter and think they can't find happiness unless they achieve what others have, and even then they won't be fulfilled.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss how jealousy and envy for others can destroy you and your marriage if you allow it to do so. We also share experiences we have had and things you can do to keep from allowing this to creep into your life.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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97. What Are Your Communication Styles?.. And How Knowing Your Style Can Change Your Marriage Oct 07, 2022

We talk often about how communication is probably the most important aspect in marriage and how couples can resolve almost any issue with open and honest communication.
But so many couples have a hard time communicating. Not necessarily because they don't want to communicate, but because each spouse might have a different "communication style" which is "how" they communicate (or don't communicate).
It is vital to know each others communication style so you can better learn how to effectively communicate with each other.
In this episode Nick and Amy interview Denise and Oliver Marcelle about an article they wrote called "Communication Styles - What's yours?" and dive into the different styles and how to address them in a relationship.
As communication is VITAL to a healthy and happy marriage, this is an episode will won't want to miss. Find out your communication style as well as your spouses to learn how to communicate better and more effectively.
You can learn more about Oliver and Denise HERE
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96. How To Divorce Proof Your Marriage And Thrive In Your Relationship Oct 04, 2022

Marriages are being attacked from every angle in this day and age and people give up so easily when things aren't going right. We see this with the divorce rate around 50%, which tells us statistically only about half of all marriages will make it. This is very sad!
But there is some good news... the divorce rate among couples who were recently polled in a Gallup poll THAT DID THIS ONE THING TOGETHER EVERY DAY had a divorce rate of 1%. That means a 99% success rate!
What is this one thing couples do to divorce proof their marriage? You will have to listen to the episode to find out. In this episode Nick and Amy interview Julie and Greg Gorman with Married For A Purpose about how to divorce proof your marriage and share the 3 secrets that you can easily implement in your marriage.
Check out more about Married For A Purpose HERE

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95. Why Many Christians Struggle With Sex And Embracing Their Sexuality.. And What To Do About It Sep 30, 2022

As a culture, many Christians are often very uncomfortable talking about sex in their marriages (and families). In many households, sex is not talked about, and if it is, it is often in a negative light. For many Christians, this causes problems when they grow up and get married.
Spouses might feel shame, fear or other negative feelings about sexual intimacy, or don't communicate about sex together because of their upbringing. For many couples, they are taught sex is bad, and to refrain from it. Then the moment they get married, it is now ok. This is hard for a lot of Christian couples.
So how can Christian couples learn to communicate about sex more openly? How can couples realize sex is from God and to be enjoyed to the fullest extent together as a couple?
In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Alana and Kyle with Kingdom Sexuality Ministry about what Christian couples can do to better their sexual intimacy and get past the barriers that keep them from having a fulfilling sex life together.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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94. 8 Ways To Make Your Marriage More FUN... And Why It Is So Important Sep 27, 2022

We often think that to transform our marriage into something great requires a lot of effort, or big changes to be implemented, but the truth is, it is the small and simple things that have such a great impact and make a difference in marriages. In this episode, Nick and Amy have O.L. and Sway Buckley with Marriedpreneurlife.com on the podcast to discuss they ways you can find more fun in your marriage. Finding the "fun" again in your marriage is a key to a long and happy relationship... and more fun in your marriage equals more sexual intimacy :)

Having fun is a choice, and is something you need to decide to do
You need to make the time to have fun in your relationship
Find fun games and things you can to together
Set a budget aside for the fun things in life
Try and experience new things together
Be spontaneous and surprise each other
Get physical together and have fun in the bedroom
Laugh and be silly together

You can learn more about Marriedpreneurlife.com HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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93. Getting The Toxic People Out Of Your Life... And Why You Need To Do It Sep 23, 2022

Most of us probably have people in our lives that are toxic to us and bring us down. Not only do they have a negative impact on us individually, but often that travels home with us and can impact our marriage in a bad way. Toxic people could be in-laws, brothers, sisters, relatives, friends, co workers and other people we associate with. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss how to identify someone who is toxic, the difference between a healthy person and a toxic person, and why it is some important to recognize how the toxic behavior is impacting you and your relationship, and how to distance yourself from them for not only your happiness, but also your marriage and its long term happiness. They also share personal experiences they have had in their lives.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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92. Why Laughing And Humor Is So Important To Your Marriage And Long Term Well Being Sep 20, 2022

You've heard the saying "laughter is the best medicine" and for many reasons, that is true. There are a lot of physical, emotional and mental benefits of laughing together as a couple. Laughing in marriage also helps keep those exciting feelings of being in love alive and it helps you feel happier (of course). Couples who laugh have a better perception of life and also have better romantic and sexual marriages. This isn't just our opinion, the stats show it!
In this episode, we discuss all the ways laughter can help your marriage and share some funny experiences of our own :). We also share some of your experiences you shared on our social media poll with our audience.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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91. ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT EPISODES YOU NEED TO LISTEN TO: Is Your Screen Addiction Costing You Your Freedom... And Your Relationship? Sep 16, 2022

We have discussed in previous episodes the impact social media and our addictions to our screens is having on our marriages and relationships. In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Nate Klemp who is in the process of writing a new book titled "OPEN: Finding Freedom in a Screen Addicted and Divided World" which is scheduled to be released in January 2024. We discuss many of the damaging effects our screens are causing to our marriages and to society.
Some of the things we discuss:

What was the most shocking statistic he came across while researching and writing this book.
How people are "loosing their freedom" through their screen addiction.
The ways our society is changing because of our screen addiction.
What are the ways we can manage our screen addictions.
How screen addiction is impacting marriages.

As technology and social media is truly taking away our freedom and causing destruction throughout the world, how can we use it for good and not allow it to negatively impact our marriages? Want to find out, then listen to this amazing episode. THIS IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT EPISODES YOU CAN LISTEN TO.
Find out more about Nate Klemp and The 80/80 Marriage HERE
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90. Is Your Marriage Going Through Tough Times?... This Amazing And Inspiring True Story Will Give You Hope Sep 13, 2022

In each of our marriages, we ALL experience hard times. We fall short and make mistakes. And sometimes those mistakes seem too big to overcome, or too climb back from. But nothing is too big to conquer as you will hear in this inspiring true story (and interview) with Brad and Lisa Valencia as they share their compelling experience of betrayal and despair in their relationship, and the path to finding faith, hope and forgiveness by turning to God. They also open up about what caused the mistakes and justification that lead down this road.
If you are experiencing any kind of trails or struggles (which we all have) this episode will inspire you and give you hope to know that through God, any trials or obstacles can be overcome. This is an episode you won't want to miss.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
We just released the Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Workbook which is an amazing course that will help the sexual intimacy in your marriage. Find more information and purchase HERE
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89. You Won't Believe The Sexual Intimacy Excuses From Our Survey...It's Time To Stop Justifying The Reasons Not To Be Intimate Sep 09, 2022

It is amazing the excuses people give for not having sex in their marriage! We did a instagram poll and asked the question "Do You Find It Hard To Find Time For Sexual Intimacy In Your Marriage" and "What Causes Sexual Intimacy To Be Less Of A Priority In Your Marriage?"
We weren't planning on doing this podcast episode but after hearing all the responses of "I am too tired" or "we don't have the time to have sex" we couldn't hold back. In this episode we are giving it to you and giving it to you straight and although some people listening may not like what we say, we have to say it. If you can't find 15 minutes one or two times a week to connect physically in your marriage, then your marriage is not a priority and we can't help, but for those of you who truly want to find more time or energy to make sexual intimacy a priority again, then you will want to listen to this episode.
Also we created the Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course for this purpose! We understand there are barriers and things that get in the way, but our marriage course will help you navigate through the things that are keeping you from having sex as a couple.
This course focuses specifically on sexual intimacy and covers so many aspects and topics about sex. The course was put together with the help of marriage experts, and also from our own personal experiences in each of these areas. So many couples have such a hard time talking about sexual intimacy in their relationship, and it is a topic that MUST be discussed in marriage. Let's get real, sexual issues (or lack of sex) is often the leading cause of divorce and problems can most often be resolved when couples communicate about it. Some of the topics in the Marriage Course include:
Communicating about sex
Barriers to sexual intimacy
Dealing with different sex drives
Understanding your desire style
Getting in the mood for sex
The benefits of frequent sex
And SO much more!!
You can find the Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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88. Financial Infidelity: Our (Nick and Amy) Personal And Painful Experience That Almost Ended Our Marriage. Sep 06, 2022

What is financial infidelity? Financial infidelity is engaging in financial decisions such as spending, saving or acquiring debt and doing it without your spouses knowledge. Just like infidelity, it can destroy your marriage and the trust in your relationship. In this episode, Nick and Amy open up and get real about their experience with financial infidelity, and the things Nick did that almost destroyed their marriage. If you and your spouse have experienced some form or level of financial mistrust or infidelity in your marriage, this is an episode that is a MUST to listen to.
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87. The Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course That Is A Must Have For Couples That Are Wanting Better Sexual intimacy In Their Relationship Sep 02, 2022

In this episode Nick and Amy announce their new Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course (that will change your life). This course focuses specifically on sexual intimacy and covers so many aspects and topics about sex. The course was put together with the help of marriage experts, and also from our own personal experiences in each of these areas. So many couples have such a hard time talking about sexual intimacy in their relationship, and it is a topic that MUST be discussed in marriage. Let's get real, sex is often the leading cause of divorce and problems can most often be resolved when couples communicate about it. Some of the topics in the Marriage Course include:
Communicating about sex
Barriers to sexual intimacy
Dealing with different sex drives
Understanding your desire style
Getting in the mood for sex
The benefits of frequent sex
And SO much more!!
If you are looking to improve your love making (sexual intimacy) in your marriage, then this episode is a must listen to find out more about the Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course that will change your life.
You can find the Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
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86. Are You Falling Out Of Love? It's Not Too Late To Get The Passion And Intimacy Back Aug 30, 2022

Research shows around 50% of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce. That is a staggering statistic! Why is this happening and what is causing this trend? While there are probably many answers to this question, but couples are obviously falling out of love.
When couples are first dating, they do the things in the relationship that builds love and that continues to grow. They get married and think their whole life will be like it was when they were dating and the feelings will just grow, only to find out as time goes by, they slowing start to fall out of love. They stop working on the relationship, going on dates, doing fun things together and the things that caused them to fall in love. Love is something you have to constantly work on and for it to continue to grow, and if you stop doing the things that strengthen the love for each other, then the love is going to eventually wither away and die.
When love is absent in a marriage, you just end up with 2 people living with each other.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the signs you could be falling out of love, and more importantly what you can do to change the direction and find "Ultimate Intimacy" again.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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85. What Key Element(s) Are You Missing In Your Relationship? Aug 26, 2022

Many of us often wonder "what are the key things couples that have good marriages do differently?" In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the key elements of a healthy marriage. If you have these things in your marriage, you most likely have a wonderful marriage.
In this podcast will will learn what these key elements are and how to implement them into your marriage to help you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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84. The Biggest Parenting Mistake You Can Make That Could Negatively Impact Your Marriage Aug 23, 2022

Every parent want's their children to be happy in life, to do well and be successful. So what parent wouldn't do everything they can to make their kid's life better and easier? The problem is many parents take this to another level to the point they do everything for their child and destroy their marriage at the same time. This behavior is often referred to as "smothering parenting" (or helicopter parenting). Not only can this behavior cause significant issues for your kids longterm, but can also be detrimental your marriage at the same time. Sometimes good intentions can cause bad outcomes.
In this episode Nick and Amy tackle this important subject and discuss what a "smothering parent" looks like, and how it can impact your marriage. Are you a smothering parent or worried about becoming one?? This is an episode that you won't want to miss.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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83. How To Have A Positive Marriage In A Negative World (And Enjoy The Journey Together) Aug 19, 2022

We all go into marriage with expectations, and then we quickly find out it is much more difficult and different than expected with many disappointments along the way... and that's ok! Marriage isn't just about the final destination - it's about the journey together to get there. Of course there are going to be bumps, roadblocks, detours and many other unexpected obstacles... That is just part of life. We all have to make the journey, so no one is exempt. It's how you handle the journey the matters, but the great news is there are many different roads, that in the end, arrive at the same destination. Decide what road you want to take to get there.
In this episode, we discuss how you can have a positive marriage in a negative world, and enjoy "your" journey together through life, and how to get through all these obstacles you will face along the way.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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82. How Your Husband Really Feels When You Reject Him Sexually Aug 16, 2022

According to MANY Divorce Attorneys, lack of intimacy is rated the #2 reason for divorce. #1 is most often infidelity.. which can often be the result of #2 (lack of intimacy).
Bottom line, lack of intimacy/sex is one of THE main causes of divorce. There are so many couples that have deep love for each other and get along great, have fun times together and have everything a good and healthy relationship has…but because of the lack of sex (or importance of sex) in their marriage, it eventually ends in divorce. This may sound harsh or even shallow, but it happens all the time and illustrates how important sex is in marriage regardless of how good all other aspects are.
Nick and Amy discuss the amazing answers from the instagram poll taken asking the following questions:

Does making love help you feel less stressed and more confident?
What are the reasons you crave sexual intimacy with your wife?
How do you feel when you are rejected constantly?
Does sex play an important role in your happiness in your marriage?

Nick and Amy discuss How your husband really feels when you reject him sexually.
A lot of women just think a man wants sex to take care of his needs. Nothing could be further from the truth. Sex is not just about sex to a man, but so much more. Sex is not just a "want" but a "need" for him. In this episode we discuss what rejection does to a man and a relationship over time and how to work through it.

DISCLAIMER: We recognize there are many marriages where it is reversed, and the husband is the one rejecting their wife sexually which can cause the same emotions, feelings and problems in the marriage. We will address that in a future episode.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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81. What Is Ok, And Not Ok In The Marriage Bed: This One Question Will Give You The Answer Aug 12, 2022

Sex is an AMAZING thing that can bring couples closer together, strengthen their marriage and be incredible for both of spouses if they are implementing good things into their relationship that brings them closer together. On the flip side, we all know there are also things (that if implemented in your sexual intimacy) can quickly tear couples apart and DESTROY their marriage. This may be one of the reasons we get a TON of people messaging us asking our thoughts and opinions regarding what is ok and not ok to do, seeking answers for their relationship.
While some of the questions are of course very hard to answer as they are not as simple as just a "YES" or "No" response, there are things that WILL hurt your marriage that are a simple ok or not ok response. As everyone comes from different backgrounds, experiences and beliefs, what is ok and good for some couples may not be right for other couples.
As there are a lot of people looking for answers to these difficult subjects, we thought it would be great to share what we do in "our" marriage to determine if something is going to strengthen our relationship, or hurt our relationship (ok or not ok). For those that are also wondering what is ok and not ok for their marriage we will provide you simple ways that you can determine that for "your" relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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80. Turn Your Spouse On! Our Bedroom Tips To Help Get Your Spouse In The Mood Aug 09, 2022

Want to know how to turn your spouse on (for both husband and wife) and drive them crazy in the bedroom? Nick and Amy share tips for how a husband can drive his wife crazy, and how a wife can drive her husband crazy in the bedroom. They share the things that have transformed their marriage and sexual intimacy. After 20 years of marriage, their sexual intimacy is better than it has ever been and their goal is to help couples find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationships.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
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79. Want To Know The Secret To A Happy Marriage? Find Out The Things That Good Husbands Do Differently Aug 05, 2022

You look at some couples and see that the wife is madly in love with her husband, and you wonder.. "what is the secret"? Over the past several years we've talked to a lot of couples about things their husbands do to make them feel loved. There is also a great article from To Love Honor And Vacuum titled "10 Things husbands who are great lovers do" which we reference in this podcast as well. If you want to know the secrets that will make your wife madly in love with you, then this episode is for you!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
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78. Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Spouse When You Are Fighting Aug 02, 2022

We constantly talk about things couples can do to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationship. However, we understand that things are not always perfect in a relationship and fighting is something that is normal and healthy to do, but it is important to fight "the right way" so that your arguments and disagreements move your relationship forward and don't cause any harm or damage long term. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss "The Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Spouse When You Are Fighting". Just like a social media post or something you say on the internet that can never be erased, so is fighting with your spouse. Things that you say to your spouse in the heat of the moment can NEVER be taken back and can change the relationship forever, so it is extremely important what you say (and don't say) when you are fighting.
Check out this episode to learn the things you should never say when arguing or fighting.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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77. 7 Myths That Keep Couples From Having More Frequent And Fulfilling Sexual Intimacy Jul 29, 2022

Many couples wonder why their sex life isn't like what they see on tv, or in the movies and compare their marriage to things that are not realistic. Couples have myths about sex that keep them from having the "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriage that they deserve to have. Nick and Amy discuss some of these myths and offer solutions to help you find more sexual enjoyment (and frequency) in your marriage.
- Do you have to be turned on (in the mood) to have sex?
- Does sex have to be amazing and mind blowing all the time?
- Do you compare your sex life to what you see on tv and movies and wonder why yours instantly like that?
This episode will answer a ton of myths and help you experience more sexual enjoyment in your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have!
Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)
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76. The Hidden Intimacy Killers In Your Marriage That You May Not Even Be Aware Of Jul 27, 2022

In many of their previous podcasts, Nick and Amy have discussed things you can do in your marriage to create more emotional and physical intimacy, and also the things that can hurt intimacy in your marriage. Most of them are pretty common things that many couples deal with and recognize they impact their marriages...but there are also several hidden things that can "kill" the intimacy in your marriage and could be happening without you even knowing it. We took a poll and asked couples what kills intimacy in their marriages and very few people listed the things we have in this episode, so we know it can greatly help your marriage. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the "hidden" intimacy killers in your marriage that you may not even be aware of, and how to fix them so you can find Ultimate Intimacy in your marriage.
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75. How Setting Boundaries In Your Marriage Can Stop The Battle's In Your Relationship Jul 20, 2022

Many couple's don't discuss or feel the need to have boundaries in their marriage. They feel that boundaries take away freedom, or that they would only be needed due to a lack of trust in the relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. Couple's that haven't discussed or agreed to certain boundaries in their marriage are much more likely to do something (even unintentionally) that could cause distrust or issues at some point in their marriage. Couples that have boundaries are much more likely to have MORE freedom and trust in their marriages and less problems as they have communicated and set boundaries in their relationship. If couples haven't discussed their boundaries with the opposite sex, or sexual boundaries in their own relationship, there is no line that is ever crossed if there is never a line (boundary established).
Boundaries in marriage are a shield and a protection for your marriage....from all the onslaughts of the world trying to destroy marriages.
In this episode, we discuss the boundaries in our marriage that we have established and how it has had protected our marriage.
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74. 8 Bedtime Routines To Help Couples Connect Before Going To Bed Jul 13, 2022

It's amazing all the distractions or little things that can get in the way, and keep a couple from connecting, which of course will negatively impact their marriage. So many of these distractions take place at the most critical time of the day (and place) where couples should be connecting the most... in the bedroom. Most couples dont realize the impact and consequences this has on their marriage, but with a few simple routines, the marriage can be transformed. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss 8 bedtime routines couples can do to help them connect before going to bed. These are simple things and will make all the difference in your marriage. Listen to this episode to find out what they are and to make a huge difference in your relationship.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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73. 20 Important Things We Have Learned In Our 20 Years Of Marriage Jul 06, 2022

We just had our 20th anniversary and we were discussing all the things we have learned over the past 20 years of our marriage (which are many). There were a lot of expectations of what we thought marriage would be like, and perceptions of things in life with our relationship and how we viewed other relationships as well. Of course we were wrong about many of our expectations and perceptions of what we thought. The things we have learned have helped our marriage tremendously, and although everyone's marriages are different and unique based upon their background and life experiences, we think most of these things on our list will resonate with you and help you in your marriage!
We also share many of the poll answers from our survey on social media "What have you learned from your marriage and what tips would you give a married couple? We got hundreds of answers so thank you to everyone that shared their experiences and input in our social media poll!
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72. Our Sexual Intimacy Poll Answers From Husbands And Wives Jun 29, 2022

In this episode, we share the results from the social media poll we did with our Ultimate Intimacy audience about husbands and wives favorite and least favorite sexual positions, the ideal times a week to be sexually intimate, tips for their spouse, and so much more!
We also discuss the many benefits of sex and share the top voted sex positions. You might be as shocked as we were with the poll answers!
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71. The 6 Things Your Wife Needs From You Jun 21, 2022

Last week we talked with Expedition Marriage about the 6 Things Your Husband Needs From You, so this week we want to talk to the husbands about the 6 Things Your Wife Needs From You. Often times in marriage we think for our marriage to change for the better, we have to do some major life changing things, but it is most often the small and simple things that make the difference in having a mediocre marriage to finding "Ultimate Intimacy"! and when you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage, it is amazing! Trust us, we have been there.... some of the things you as husbands can do for your wife's that they NEED from you are:

Give her your attention. She wants to be listened to
Your love and affection (not just when you want sex)
Be vulnerable and create a deeper connection

If you want to hear the rest, you will have to listen to the episode :). When you are fulfilling each others needs, your marriage will be transformed.
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70. The 6 Things Your Husband Needs From You Jun 14, 2022

In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Chris and Jamie Bailey with Expedition Marriage about an article they wrote on their blog about what husbands need to hear from their wive's. If you are a wife, these simple things can transform your marriage and are very easy to do.
Your husband needs:

To hear that you believe in him and support him
Sexual intimacy and to connect with you
To know you love, appreciate and respect him
To know you dont hold the past against him

and others topics.

Ladies, if you implement these things in your marriage, you will see a major change in your husband in a good way :). Listen to this episode to find out all the things your husband need and ways you can find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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69. Guys, Here Are The Secrets On How To Get Your Wife To Want More Sexual Intimacy! Jun 07, 2022

How to get your wife to want more sex?.... This is the million dollar question that most men would sell all they own to know the answer to ;) We polled over 1000 wives on social media to get REAL answers for you.
Here are the questions we asked in the poll:

What non-sexual things does your husband do that turns you on and gets you in the mood for sex?
What things does your husband do to get you mentally in the mood for sex?
What things does your husband do to make you instantly lose your desire for sex?
Do you feel like the sexual intimacy in your marriage is positive?

We know that every couple is different and some things work for some couples where they do not work for others, but there are some specific things that you as a husband can do to get your wife in the mood more often.
We also have an article on our blog called "5 ways to get your wife to want more sex" which outlines the things a husband can do to get his wife in the mood for sex more often which you can find HERE.
If you are a husband that would love to have more sexual intimacy with your wife, then this episode is for you!

DISCLOSURE: We understand that it is not always the husband that wants sex more often than his wife does. In fact, we hear from many women that they are the higher sex drive spouse.

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68. The Modern Day Libido Killer That Is Getting In The Way Of Sexual Intimacy May 31, 2022

The majority of people now days have an addiction to technology which has a significant impact on their sex life and relationship. The stats are incredible. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss an article from Emily Jamea called "The Modern Day Libido Killer" found HERE, and also share insights from an article from The 80/80 marriage, about how technology is killing our sex lives and relationships. If you and your spouse are not having sexual intimacy on a regular basis, technology is most likely one of the major reasons for this. In this day and age our minds are so consumed and distracted, it's hard to pay attention to sexual cues, feel in sync with our spouse, and get in the right frame of mind for sex.
We took a poll on instagram to see what you think and get your thoughts and the results are quite incredible. We asked:

Does technology keep you from connecting with your spouse?
Do you have less sexual intimacy because of technology?
Who is more addicted to their phone in marriage (husband or wife)?

We also share some astonishing facts:

How many times do you think the average person touches their phone per day?
How many hours per day does the average adult spend on technology?
50% of people admit to experiencing full-on behavior addiction to their phones.

We also share a quiz from 80/80 Marriage on how to know if you have an addiction to the internet/technology. Want to know if you are addicted? Click HERE
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67. Marriage 911- A Lifeline For Your Marriage May 24, 2022

Nick and Amy interview Dr. Kim Kimberling with Awesome Marriage about his online course "Marriage 911" to help couples re connect and find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriages. Some of the topics they discuss in the podcast are:

What is the wrong and right way to fight?
What is healthy communication?
Expectations in marriage
Boundaries in and out of the marriage
Turning to God
Dealing with distractions
Sex issues
Finances and how they impact marriage
Forgiveness
Having Fun!

Check out the Marriage 911 Course HERE

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66. Choose Her Everyday with Bryan Reeves May 17, 2022

Nick and Amy interview Bryan Reeves who is the author of a new book called "Choose Her Everyday (or leave her)" about the importance of choosing your spouse everyday in your relationship.
Bryan compares a relationship to a precious fragrant flower that is brought into the home, but then fails to be watered. Relationships start out beautiful and amazing but if we dont continue to nourish and feed those relationships, they will eventually die. We also discuss why you need to choose her (your wife) everyday, the 3 stages of love and the one you need, why great sex is never enough and you need to have 3 things to have a healthy relationship, how without a shared purpose your relationship will fail, and how relationships between couples are messy, but part of life.
These are just a preview of the great things in Bryan's book and the perspective he provides. This is a great read for all the men (and women) out there and this book will help you look at your relationship with your spouse in a whole new way.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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65. Why Does This One Sex Word Scare Christians? May 10, 2022

About a year and a half ago, we had a lady write to us and say she would never be using the Ultimate Intimacy App again based upon an article we had on the app. We were shocked and wondered what we had on the app that would cause this as we personally review and post everything that goes on the app. It was an article that was written by a Sex expert and Marriage Counselor.
We read through the article several times again and thought that everything stated in it was beautiful and offered ways for couples to draw closer together and connect deeper. We found nothing wrong or offensive at all and were very confused so of course we did our research and wanted to share our thoughts.
In this episode, we discuss the taboo word that a lot of Christians don't like and possibly just don't understand. We believe that any time you slow sex down, concentrate on your spouse and use your 5 senses, that even deeper Ultimate Intimacy can be found in your marriage.
Let us know what you think!
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64. How To Have A Strong Marriage After The Kids Move Out May 03, 2022

Since 1990 the divorce rate among couples between the ages of 55-64 has more than doubled! Why is this happening? Aren't the years after the kids move out, and couples head into retirement suppose to be the best?
Many couples focus so much time and energy on raising their kids, they often neglect their own relationship only to find out that it is VERY difficult to reconnect once they have grown apart. Also spouses may react differently in regards to becoming "empty nesters" while one spouse may experience sadness and grief while the other is excited about future possibilities together. There are many things that can cause couples to struggle once the kids are out of the house, but in this episode, we want to tackle the 8 things couples can do to have a strong marriage after the kids move out.
Nick and Amy have the pleasure of visiting with Javier & Shannan Labrador of 247 marriage Learn more about them and their mission HERE. They are now empty nesters and share great insight and experiences as to how couples can have strong and happy marriages during this stage of life, and how to prepare for it if you are in the earlier years of your marriage.
Even if you are young and still have kids at home, this episode can help you develop the proper tools to be prepared for that time in life (when it comes).
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63. The 10 differences between happy and unhappy couples that you can implement in your marriage Apr 26, 2022

We have all seen couples that look like they have an amazing relationship and have everything together and we wonder what their secrets are and yearn for that kind of relationship. On the flip side, we have all seen the couples that we have no idea how they are staying together as it looks like they are so unhappy together. So what is the difference and what are the secrets of happy couples? While every couple deals with different trials, struggles and life experiences, there are absolute things that happy couples do that unhappy couples do not do and we are going to talk about the 10 differences between happy and unhappy couples.

How do happy couples interact with each other vs how un happy couples interact?
What are the different ways couples communicate with each other?
How do gratitude and appreciation impacts happiness?
How do happy couples address sex differently?

In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Garrett and Chelsea Zimmerman with Transformed Couples. They have both previously been in bad relationships and now have an amazing relationship together. They share their thoughts on the differences between a happy couples and un happy couples and the experiences they have had.
* While we understand there are ALWAYS exceptions and everyone does not fall under these exact things, these are true for the majority of couples.
So if you are looking for ways to find more happiness in your marriage, or to aware of what things can bring you unhappiness if you're not careful, then this episode is for you!
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62. How Men Can Build Sexual Confidence Apr 21, 2022

A man's sexual confidence can be negatively impacted for many reasons, and when a man looses his sexual confidence, it can effect many aspects of his life including mental health, physical health, personality, work productivity and other things in his life.
On the flip side, a sexually confident man can feel like he can conquer the world and sexually confident men are often happier, more efficient at work, physically and mentally healthier, better husbands and fathers, and have a better overall well being.
In this episode, we cover the most common things that impact a man's sexual confidence

Rejection/Fear of rejection
Body issues
Sexual dysfunctions
Worried about not pleasing their spouse sexually

We also discuss ways a man can become more sexually confident in these area's.

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61. Why It Is Vital For Couples To Be On The Same Page With Raising Kids Apr 19, 2022

In marriage, more often than not couples come from different backgrounds and have different experiences growing up which shapes "their" parenting styles and beliefs. For example, one might have had very strict parents with many rules and structure while the other spouse may have had very lenient parents with little structure. While neither one is right or wrong, our reality of how we were raised can shape our perception on how we should parent our kids. It is vital for couples to talk about "how" they are going to parent their kids and make sure they are on the same page with how they do it. If couples are not on the same page with how they raise their kids, it can cause some serious issues in the marriage. In fact, many divorces happen because of this.
In this Episode, Nick and Amy interview Dustin and Alana with Marriage In Action and talk about the 15 things parents need to be on the same page about. Some of these include:

How you are going to discipline your kids
Who your kids friends are and who they spend time with
Your expectations and consequences
The entertainment your child is engaged in such as video games, movies, reading and music
Standards and beliefs you are going to teach your kids (religious, political etc)

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60. How Women Can Build Sexual Confidence Apr 12, 2022

"Your level of sexual confidence determines your capacity to experience intimacy both in and out of the bedroom. Sexual confidence is actually crucial to a woman's well-being both in and out of the bedroom." Ketsia Gustave.
In this episode, Nick and Amy have the pleasure of having Ketsia Gustave from evolvingwife.com on the podcast to discuss an article she wrote on how women can build sexual confidence. There are many reasons why some women have low sexual confidence. These include:

Growing up being taught sex is bad
Not knowing or understanding how their body works
Believing that they are not attractive to their husbands

God created us and our bodies to enjoy sex and it is something that can bring a couple much closer together and strengthen their relationship and bond. Ketsia takes us through ways women can build sexual confidence in their marriage and shares her personal experiences that helped her through the journey as well. If you are a woman struggling with confidence in the bedroom then this episode is for you!
If you haven't already downloaded the Ultimate Intimacy app, what are you waiting for? Go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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59. Understanding The Sex Languages For Better Sexual Intimacy! Apr 05, 2022

In this episode, Nick and Amy have the pleasure of having Dr. Emily Jamea on the podcast. Emily is a certified sex therapist and LMFT with Revive Therapy and discusses the concept of the different Sex Languages with us. Most couples have heard of the 5 Love Languages and understand how important they are to a relationship, but have you heard of the Sex Languages? We hadn't either! Here are a few of the things we discuss in this awesome episode:
What are the sex languages?
What is the language of the body?
What is the language of the mind?
Why is vulnerability so important in sexual intimacy?
Why is understanding these sex languages so important?
If you want to learn the sex languages and have a more meaningful and enjoyable sexual relationship with your spouse, then this episode is a MUST listen!
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58. 10 Mistakes Women Make In Marriage That Impact Intimacy Mar 29, 2022

Last week we tackled the 10 mistakes men make in marriage, now it's time for the women! A ton of research and preparation was put in for this episode (just like all other podcasts we do) and almost all other articles had these 10 mistakes women make in marriage, so this is not according to Nick and Amy, but what most relationship experts agree across the board. Most marriages want to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationships and this episode will help you achieve that! Some of the mistakes women make are:
- Putting the kids first
- Not wanting physical intimacy (look for excuses not to have sex)
- Not being direct with your feelings
Listen to the episode to find out all of them :)
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57. 10 Mistakes Men Make In Marriage That Impact Intimacy Mar 22, 2022

Let's be real, sometimes we as guys say dumb things or make stupid mistakes in our marriage. We often don't do things intentionally, but sometimes the things we do or say can cause issues with our spouse. In this episode, Nick and Amy share a fantastic article by Knot Easily Broken and discuss the 10 mistakes men make in marriage. Some of these include:
- Only thinking about yourself in the bedroom
- Reckless spending
- Dont confide in your wife
Listen to the episode to hear all the mistakes we as men often make :)
Now we understand that not all men make all these mistakes, but you will probably find one or more of these mistakes that you have made or deal with in your marriage. So, if you are a man and want to have a better marriage and relationship then this episode is for you! Check out the 10 Mistakes Women Make In Marriage in our next episode.
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56. Is It Healthy For Couples To Have Arguements? Mar 17, 2022

Many married couples think if they are fighting or arguing, then they have an unhealthy marriage, but this is not the case. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss 12 reasons why it is actually healthy to argue in marriage, AND why it is not healthy to hold things in or sweep things "under the rug". Some of the benefits from arguing include:
- Arguing shows you really care about your spouse
- Helps you become a better listener
- Helps you to communicate better
- Helps you see other perspectives and solutions to issues
They also discuss tips to help couples argue fairly, and respectfully. This is an episode you won't want to miss!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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55. 10 Steps To Rekindle Sexual Chemistry And Bring Back The Excitement, Passion And Connection Mar 14, 2022

Do you feel like your sexual chemistry between you and your spouse has dwindled or is no longer existent? In this episode Nick and Amy discuss and share 10 tips to help couples rekindle their sexual chemistry so they can find the excitement, passion and connection in their relationship just like when they were first married.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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54. Want A Better Marriage? Your Kids Can't Come First Feb 23, 2022

In this episode Nick and Amy discuss a great article by focusonthefamily.com about why your marriage and relationship with your spouse has to be priority above the kids! "When a parental team breaks down, children become the biggest losers."
Research shows that marriage takes a hit when you have kids. According to an analysis involving 31,000 married people, the drop in marital satisfaction after the first baby is born is a staggering 42% larger among the current generation of parents than their predecessors.
Many couples just think "after the kids are gone, we"ll get to be a couple again". The problem is by the time the kids leave, so much distance has become in between each other, many couples dont even know each other and divorce often happens.
Parents get so busy now days with the kids and everything else going on, they make no time for each other and their marriages suffer.
Here are some of the things that are covered in this episode:

Make your spouse the top priority and your kids will be better for it
How to make time for each other
Dont over schedule your kids
No more excuses
Dont let your kids run your house

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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53. Why Comparing Your Marriage And Life To Others Can Destroy Yours! Feb 16, 2022

Do you find yourself comparing your marriage and life to others? Do you envy other marriages, families, vacations, and lifestyle and wonder why yours isn't like everyone else's?Well your not alone... We took a poll and the results found many other people and couples feel this same way.
The problem is what we see is a mirage, and we only see the what others WANT us to see, or what the companies want us to see to convince ourselves we need something to be happy. It's "our" perceptions but often times our perceptions isn't real. We never see what is behind the curtain or what is really going on.
In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss how comparing your marriage (and life) to others can destroy your marriage and life. They share the results of the poll on social media, and discuss 5 simple things you can do in your life to become happier as they have experienced this in their life and marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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52. The DNA differences between a man and woman... and why it works! Feb 09, 2022

As men and women, we are biologically different...and that is how God made us and wants it to be. The world wants us to think we have to be the same and there is no difference between a man and woman biologically. This is not how God made us and it is good that we are wired differently and have different strengths, weaknesses and emotional and physical desires as men and women. When we understand how we are biologically different and how men and women function, it is easier to create "Ultimate Intimacy" in the relationship.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Dauren Francis of Knot Easily Broken about the 10 differences he states in a post he did. Some of these include:

Men are thinkers while women are emotional feelers. Men analyze things while women feel things.
Men go to the store and buy what they need and leave. Women go shopping and they have an experience. It can be therapeutic.
Men just need a place to have sex. Women need a reason to have sex. Sex is wired to her brain.
Husbands typically just want to solve your problems, and women want their husbands to listen about the problems and talk about them.
Womens sexuality is tied to how she is treated. Love, honor, affection, time spent, vulnerability, intimacy, date night etc. A mans sexuality is based on what he sees. He is very visual.

*We recognize and understand that not everyone falls under these categories or is wired this way, but we are using this as the differences of "most" men and women.

This episode will offer so much insight and help! This is an episode you won't want to miss and we feel will help your marriage tremendously!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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51. Men's Survey Answers About Sexual Intimacy... Feb 02, 2022

In this weeks episode, Nick and Amy discuss the poll answers from social media. "Husbands answers to their Sexual Intimacy wants and needs."
The questions husbands answered were:
Do you have a hard time talking about sex with your wife? Why or why not?

Can you tell your wife what you want sexually? How do you bring up the conversation?

Who wants to make love more often, you or your wife? How do you find balance in your desire differences?

Do you enjoy foreplay? What foreplay technique that your wife does for you do you enjoy the most?

Do you feel like you make it a priority to help your wife orgasm each time you make love?

Do you want the emotional intimacy in marriage as much as your wife does?

How often would you want to make love to your wife?
Many men are scared to talk to their wife about sex, what they want in the bedroom, sexual frequently, and so many sex topics for fear of rejection, what their spouse will think, or afraid of causing an argument. Listen to this episode to find out the results... and ways to overcome these difficult conversations and things that can get in the way of having "ultimate intimacy" in your marriage.
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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50. Our Women's Survey About Sexual Intimacy...The Answers Might Surprise You Jan 26, 2022

We did a survey and asked questions to women about sexual intimacy and got over 600 responses. Here are the questions we asked:

Do you have a hard time talking about sex with your husband?
Do you understand your body and what feels good sexually?
Do you communicate to your husband what you want to need sexually?
Do you feel resentment from not having an orgasm when being intimate?

There are many women that have a hard time talking to their husband about sex and communicating what they need sexually. There are also a lot of women that don't understand their body and what feels good to them sexually. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss these things and how women can get to know their bodies and find more enjoyment and sexual fulfillment.

This episode also discusses

How women can come to enjoy sex more fully by getting to know their body, and what feels good sexually.
Talking to your husband about sex and what you need and desire.
Getting to know your body through foreplay.
Trying different positions, motions, techniques and tools to help find out what feels best sexually.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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49. How Outside Influences Can Negatively Impact Your Marriage, And What To Do About It Jan 19, 2022

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about a fantastic article written by 80/80 Marriage called "These Outsiders Can Make Marriage Impossible". In marriage, its you and your spouse, the two of you. Then there are your "Thirds".... The "Thirds" are any out side force that influences your marriage. It could be a friend, co-worker, business partner, family member, or even a project or business that takes a lot of your time or has an influence on your marriage.
Most couples probably have a "third" impacting their marriage in some way... or have at least have experienced it in their marriage, and it is something that can have a severe impact on your marriage just as it did for Nick and Amy. Nick and Amy share parts of the article by 80/80 Marriage and things that you can do in your marriage to identify the "thirds" and steps you can take to remove them from your marriage and built a stronger barrier.
Check out the book from 80/80 Marriage HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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48. How To Get On The Same Page Financially Jan 12, 2022

Nick and Amy interview Amy Scott whom is a Certified Financial Coach who teaches couples how to get on the same page financially. We discuss:
- Why finances are such a huge cause of stress in a marriage
- Why it is so important to talk about finances as a couple
- What are things couples can do to get on the same page financially.
If couples get on the same page financially, all aspects of their marriage both emotionally and physically will improve. Amy gives simple steps to get the tough conversations started and how to talk about it.
If you haven't done so already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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47. Understanding Differences In Sexual Wiring Jan 05, 2022

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss an amazing article by Laura Brotherson (Certified Sex Therapist) about understanding differences in sexual wiring between men and women. Men and Women are so different when it comes to sexual desires and how we are wired, but this podcast will help couples better understand each other. We discuss 18 sexual differences between men and women. We hope this episode and article can help you connect better physically and emotionally. "Sex is not just for men, or not just for women, but for both to enjoy equally for mutual oneness and pleasure." - Laura Brotherson
You can also find more resources and information about Laura at strengtheningmarriage.com
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
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46. 6 Simple New Years Resolutions To Strengthen Your Sexual And Emotional Intimacy Dec 29, 2021

In this episode Nick and Amy share 6 simple, yet super important New Years Resolutions to make your marriage the best it's ever been in 2022! Most people set multiple goals for the New Year and after several weeks most people usually give up... we have been there and done that so we wanted to come up with some amazing goals you can actually keep and will bring passion into your marriage.
We give you 6 goals and things you can do that can help your marriage, and you can pick one to focus including: more touch, spending more time in foreplay, creating more spiritual unity, ways to create more emotional connection, how to become better friends with your spouse, and like always the key to a great marriage... better communication!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
And check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together all found HERE
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45. I Want This To Work With Elizabeth Earnshaw And The Most Difficult Relationship Issues We Face In The Modern Age Dec 21, 2021

Nick and Amy interview Elizabeth Earnshaw who is the author of a fantastic new book called "I Want This To Work", navigating the most difficult relationship issues we face in the modern age. So many books cover a lot of great topics and help you understand and identify things going on in your marriage, but they often neglect to cover the ways and the "how" to fix things. This book is a great read that helps you know what to do and how to address things to help your relationship. Join us for this great podcast episode where we discuss aspects of her book and how it can help your marriage.
You can find her new book HERE
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
And check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together all found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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44. Our Favorite Marriage Quotes of 2021 To Help Your Marriage Dec 14, 2021

Nick and Amy talk with Akida and Tisha from Couples Connect who have some amazing quotes that can help your marriage. Why is it important to invest in your marriage just like you do financial investments? Can surrounding yourself with couples who have great marriages help yours? Do you look at your spouse and focus on their qualities or their flaws?
So much of marriage is perception and how you view and see things through your own eyes. This is a great podcast with simple sayings and reminders as to what you can do to make your marriage more successful and happy!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
And check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together all found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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43. ALL ABOUT SEX: Sexpectations, What Is Healthy Sex In Marriage, Rejection, And The Importance Of Sex Dec 07, 2021

Lets talk about sex... Nick and Amy discuss Sexpectations in marriage, what healthy sex in marriage looks like, how to address sexual rejection, and the importance of sex in marriage.
Almost all couples deal with some sort of sexual imbalance in their marriage as men and women were created with physiological differences... and this is completely normal! So how to do couples get on the same page (or close to) when it comes to sex? Are you afraid to talk to your spouse about your sexual needs? Are you comparing your sex life to others and feel like something is wrong with yours? Are you wanting to learn how to deal with different sexual desires and sex drives and improve your physical intimacy as a couple? This is the episode for you!
If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
And check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together all found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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42. 10 Ways To Strengthen Sexual Intimacy During The Holidays Nov 30, 2021

It's the holidays and that busy, stressful time of year again! But that doesn't mean your sex life has to suffer! Your intimacy can be at the highest peak this Holiday Season. In this episode we talk about 10 different ways to keep the Magic in your relationship this Christmas such as: how to connect more intimately daily, how to bring more Christmas romance into your sex life, and how important it is to know your spouses love language and the perfect gifts to fit their language!
Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
And check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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41. How To Bring Back The Honeymoon Stage (sex and intimacy) In Your Marriage Nov 23, 2021

For most couples, when they first get married there are no kids, fewer responsibilities, and a lot less stresses in life. You spend tons of time together and focus all on each other. But that all changes when the kids start coming, careers start getting established and life gets busy.
In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Randall and Serena Johnson (The Union Johnsons) about the 7 things couples can do to bring back the passion, excitement, emotional and sexual intimacy in their marriage just like the honeymoon stage... and yes, it is possible!
If you are a couple that is looking for ways to re-kindle the fire in your marriage, then this episode is for you!
Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
And check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together found HERE
Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.
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40. How Anxiety Impacts Marriage And Intimacy Nov 17, 2021

In this episode Amy and Nick have the pleasure of visiting with Author Rikki Cloos about how anxiety can impact your relationship and intimacy. So many people (about 50%) deal with some sort of anxiety, and with all the issues going on in our lives that number is increasing as there are so many things to be anxious over. Anxiety is an intimacy blocker and it can make it difficult to connect and hear and understand each other. We discuss what anxiety looks like and how to know if you or your partner is suffering from it. We dive into how anxiety can ruin a relationship and what you can do to prevent it from happening.
Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
Check them out HERE
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39. Porn = Poison In Your Marriage That Will Destroy All Areas Of Intimacy Nov 10, 2021

Nick and Amy interview Tammy Hill who is a licensed marriage and family therapist. We discuss how pornography damages and impacts marriages and the effects it has on both the viewer and the spouse. Tammy states that porn is usually a scapegoat for what is really damaging the relationship and it is an equal opportunity toxic poison. Porn is something that can impact all relationships and needs to be constantly fought against. Some of the key points in this podcast are tips on how to avoid allowing porn into a marriage, how to set boundaries, how porn impacts BOTH spouses, what the most common myths are about porn, and what couples who are dealing with porn in their marriage can do to begin healing from it.
Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
Check them out HERE
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38. How To Stay Present During Sex Nov 03, 2021

Do you ever feel like it is hard to focus during sex?
Are you often thinking about other thing, making sex much less enjoyable?
Why is it so important not to be distracted during sex and what issues can this cause in your relationship?
In episode 38, Nick and Amy have the pleasure of interviewing Dr Kristie Overstreet who is a clinical sexologist, sex therapist, and psychotherapist and podcaster with the "Fix Yourself First" podcast. There are so many things that keep us distracted, and it is often hard to stay present during sex, making it less enjoyable in marriage. In this episode, we cover these important questions and discuss why it is so important to stay focused and present, and how couples can focus and get rid of the distractions during each moment of sexual intimacy.
Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
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37. Understanding Your Desire Styles... For More Frequent And Better Sex! Oct 27, 2021

In this episode Nick and Amy talk about an article written by Cindy Scharkey titled "Understanding your desire style for better sex.” One of the most common arguments in marriage is over how often a couple is having sex. It comes down to one spouse wanting it more than the other which can lead to trouble in the bedroom... and overall relationship issues.
It is so important to understand each others "desire styles" and just because couples have mis-matched desire styles doesn't mean something is wrong with you or your spouse, it just means you have a different. When you better understand each other’s differences and discuss openly, things can change in a very positive way. Most men have a spontaneous desire, women are more responsive, and then there is combination desire. In this episode, you will learn about the different desire styles, and how to find balance and Ultimate Intimacy together.
Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
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- Bedroom Game
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36. Sexual Intimacy is VITAL for Survival in Marriage Oct 22, 2021

"In marriage, sex is like food. It is a basic need vital for survival and it should be healthy, enjoyable and frequent. If it's not enjoyable it will feel like a chore, if it's not frequent you will feel starved, and if it's not healthy it can cause harm.” - Oliver and Denise Marcelle.
That is a pretty bold statement, but very true. Just as our bodies need food to survive, so is sex in marriage. It is vital to surviving and having a happy and healthy marriage. In this episode, Amy and Nick have the pleasure of talking with Oliver and Denise Marcelle - Authors, speakers, marriage coaches and podcasters, about why sex is vital for survival in marriage, why is it important for sex to be enjoyable, and why frequency is so important.
Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
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35. How Your Words Can Build or Destroy Intimacy Oct 13, 2021

We often don't consider how what we say to our spouse can impact our emotional and physical intimacy as a couple, but what we say, and how we say it can have lasting effects for the positive or the negative. Are we expressing gratitude for the things our spouses do and the what we have, or are we looking at the negative things and allowing those to bring us down? Do we look at the glass as "half full" or "half empty" and how are we looking at our relationship with our spouse? Do we show respect by what we say to our spouse, or how we are communicating? Nick and Amy share some experiences and their thoughts on how our words can impact our intimacy.
Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:
- Conversation Starters
- 150+ Date Night Ideas
- Truth or Dare Game
- Romantic and Sexy Coupons
- Bedroom Game
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34. From Boring to Soaring Sex... and Intimacy! Oct 06, 2021

In this episode, Amy and Nick have the privilege of having Monica Tanner on, who is the host of the "On The Brighter Side of Marriage" Podcast to discuss how to take your relationship and sex from "Boring" to "Soaring!" Just as we do, Monica has a passion to help others thrive in their marriages and wants to help you do the same! If you feel like your marriage and sex life is boring, and want to take it to "soaring", then this episode is for you!
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33. Overcoming Loneliness In Marriage and finding Ultimate Intimacy again Sep 29, 2021

Nick and Amy discuss what loneliness in marriage is, and how to overcome it and bring back the intimacy. Loneliness can be caused from a spouse that works out of town, a new born child or kids taking priority, lack of communication, mental illness or many other reasons. In our online poll, 94% responded that they have felt loneliness in their marriage and shared the reasons why they got to that point, and how they resolved it in their own marriages.
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32. How Debt and Finances Impact Physical and Emotional Intimacy Sep 22, 2021

Nick and Amy interview Andy Hill from the Marriage, Kids and Money Podcast and discuss how debt, financial issues, decisions and perception of money can impact your emotional and physical intimacy in your marriage. Even people that are very successful financially experience "financial issues" in their marriages. There are many things that could cause financial issues in a marriage. It could be debt, it could happen because one spouse is a spender and the other a saver, or one spouse like to have things paid off and the other like to finance things, or maybe you have different short and long term financial goals as a couple.
In our social media poll, 65% of couples that responded said that financial issues impact their intimacy as a couple. This is an episode you wont want to miss.
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31. From a "Roommate" Marriage to a "Romance" Marriage Sep 15, 2021

Do you ever feel like you and your spouse are just roommates living together? Are you wondering where the romance and excitement went like you had in the newlywed stage? How to do you get back the passion, romance and excitement in your marriage? In this episode Nick and Amy discuss these things and offer advice on how to re-connect and share the stats from our instagram poll.
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30. It's All About The Clitoris! The Key To Unlocking Female Pleasure with Cindy Scharkey Sep 08, 2021

Nick and Amy interview Cindy Scharkey with the "Permission For Pleasure" Podcast. Cindy is passionate about opening the doors for women to have conversations about expressing, experiencing and enjoying their sexuality.
In this episode, they talk about how the clitoris is literally the "key" to unlocking female pleasure. For women who would like to find intimacy more enjoyable and better understand their bodies, and husbands who want to better understand where and how to please your wife, this episode is for you!
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Bonus Q&A Plus Our New Products and Update Sep 02, 2021

Nick and Amy have been receiving a bunch of questions from people on instragram and using the Ultimate Intimacy App. Nick and Amy answer many of the questions and also announce some exciting new things for the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand.
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29. Finding Ultimate Intimacy through the 80/80 Marriage. This Book Will Change Your Relationship Sep 01, 2021

Nick and Amy interview Nate and Kaley Klemp, the authors of the amazing new book "The 80/80 Marriage." The 80/80 Marriage is a book every couple needs to read as it discusses the flawed models and concepts of an 80/20 marriage, or a 50/50 marriage. With the new 80/80 model, couples can truly find an easier way to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriage. Learning how to balance roles in marriage as well as physical and sexual intimacy can be tricky, but with the 80/80 marriage mindset, you can find that your marriage becomes full of Ultimate Intimacy in all areas.
You can purchase The 80/80 Marriage Book HERE.
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28. Shifting Your Attitude To Have A Better Sex Life with Keelie and Austin Reason Aug 23, 2021

Nick and Amy discuss "The Attitude Shift I Made To Have A Better Sex Life" with Keelie and Austin Reason from Love Hope Adventure. A good sex life is so important to a healthy and happy marriage, and many times the only thing holding couples back from having amazing emotional and physical intimacy is the attitude and mindset towards sex. In this episode Keelie and Austin share their experience about how they shifted and changed their mindset about sex, and the positive impact it had on their marriage, and things you can do to change your mindset about sex to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.
We had a couple technical issues when recording this episode in the middle of the podcast, so we apologize for some of the parts where we had low quality audio.
Check out their amazing blog, Love Hope Adventure HERE for great articles and resources to help your marriage.
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27. 7 Day Sex Challenge Results... Plus The Many Benefits of Having Sex More Often Aug 19, 2021

In episode 27, Nick and Amy share the results from the 7-day "sexual intimacy challenge" they issued the previous week. They also share the great feedback from people that participated from the polls they asked on instagram. Nick and Amy also discuss the many physical, emotional and health related benefits that come from having sexual intimacy more frequently... because there are SO MANY! Some of the benefits include being more healthy, having less stress, overall wellbeing and happier lives, but most importantly, the positive benefits it has to your relationship, marriage and bond with your spouse. This is an episode you wont want to miss.
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26. How to make more time for sexual intimacy in your marriage Aug 12, 2021

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss things you can do to find/make more time for sexual intimacy in your marriage. For many couples, sexual intimacy becomes one of the last priorities on a couples "to do" list, and as such, sex becomes very infrequent and couples grow further apart from each other as they are not getting that important connection.
Sexual intimacy is so much more than just sex, and should be equally beneficial for both spouses. Having frequent sexual intimacy has so many benefits physically, emotionally and mentally.
In this episode, Nick and Amy share things you can do to make time for physical intimacy in your busy lives, and more importantly, make sex a priority. Nick and Amy issue a "7-day Sex Challenge" and ask you to share your experience. They will be discussing what the results were in their next episode!
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25: How do the myths you believed about sex and intimacy affect your "Ultimate Intimacy"? Aug 05, 2021

Many couples go into marriage having "expectations" or "myths" about how things "should" be in marriage, and most often they are much different than either spouse expects. In this episode, Nick and Amy share the myths, and things they thought were true about marriage that turned out to be totally false (myths) such as marriage would always be full of passion and romance, both spouses would enjoy sex and have matching libidos, both spouses would know what each other wants in the bedroom and figure it out quick, and both spouses could last a long time and sex would be "a marathon". Nick and Amy also took a poll on instagram and had hundreds of great responses of what myths they had before getting married such as: The husband would have a higher sex drive than his wife, or that they would have sex much more than they do. Instead of feeling let down or feeling like something is wrong in your relationship because what you expected is not the way it is, know that almost every relationship experiences this, but don't let your expectations (or the myths) keep you from finding and having "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship.
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24. Finding Sexual Balance When Dealing With Different Sex Drives Jul 26, 2021

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Elaine and Abe Ramero with the "Love is in the air" podcast about how couples can find balance when dealing with different sex drives. Most couples deal with this, so this is something that is completely normal, but there are ways to help both couples be satisfied when dealing with sexual desire imbalance as both the low desire and the high desire partner are equally responsible for changing the level of sexual intimacy in the relationship. If you are one of those couples, this episode will walk through the steps and ways to help create that balance so you can find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship,
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23. A "Physical Intimacy Check Up" To Improve Your Sexual Intimacy as a Couple Jul 19, 2021

Nick and Amy discuss the importance of having a "Physical Intimacy Checkup" together as a couple to make sure you are on the same page in your sex life. As most causes of divorces are sex and finances, it is so important to have good open discussions with your spouse about "the bedroom". In this episode we discuss "why" it is so important to discuss this as a couple, "how" you should discuss it, "what" to discuss, and ways to make it easier to have the discussion.
As you have open communication about sexual intimacy in your relationship, you will see your sex life as a couple transform into something even more amazing and beautiful (Ultimate Intimacy).
For more details, check out our blog article on this subject by clicking HERE
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22. Nick and Amy Get Personal About How to Keep Things Passionate in Marriage Jul 14, 2021

In this episode, Nick and Amy open up and get vulnerable and share funny and embarrassing experiences they have had, and fun things they have done and do in their marriage to keep things fun and exciting. This episode will make you laugh and give you ideas to help spice up your marriage.
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21. Top Reasons Why A Spouse Doesn’t Want To Have Sex Jul 05, 2021

In Episode 21 Nick and Amy discuss many of the reasons why some spouses do not want to have sex, and some solutions to those reasons. When a spouse does not want to have sex, there is a reason behind it causing them to not want or desire it, but many couples avoid talking about it or addressing the issue and it becomes worse over time. If the reason can be identified, and discussed, it can most often be resolved. Some of the reasons include: Fear of intimacy, sexual dysfunctions, self confidence issues, stress, distractions, and more. Some are short term and others can be long term and permanent if not addressed. With open communication, and sometimes help from the right expert, most issues can be resolved and couples can find "Ultimate Intimacy" again in their marriage.
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20. The Top Things Husbands Wish Their Wive's Knew About Sex Jun 28, 2021

In this episode, we discuss what husbands wish their wive's knew about sex. We took a poll on our social media and asked this question to the husbands, and had a ton of great responses and almost every response was exactly what we had prepared to discuss and cover in this podcast!
So many problems in marriage happen because of lack of communication, or not understanding how the other spouse "really" feels. We discuss and answer a lot of questions in the episode such as "How does rejection impact a husband?" and "What do most husbands want more than anything" as well as other vital things that husbands want their wive's to know.
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19. The Top Things Wive's Wish Their Husbands Knew About Sex Jun 21, 2021

This is a must listen for all the husbands out there to find out what their wive's are really thinking and wanting :). Nick and Amy talk with Certified Marriage and Life Coach Delonda Owens Tucker about what wive's wish their husbands knew about sex. Do a lot of wive's want to try new things in the bedroom? What can a husband do help get his wife get in the mood, and many other things you wont want to miss.
For more information about DeLonda click HERE or visit the app and find her books under the products section under books.
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18. Becoming One In Marriage Jun 14, 2021

Nick and Amy talk with Mike and Carlie Kercheval, with Marriage Legacy Builders, and Christian Marriage Adventure about ways to become "one" in marriage. These include how to invest in your spouse, letting go of the past, not forgetting to take care of your own needs, setting goals together and of course how to become "one" emotionally and physically.
For more information about Mike and Carlie click HERE And of course you can find many of their great articles, podcasts and other information on the Ultimate Intimacy App.
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17. 5 Ways To Build Financial Intimacy Jun 07, 2021

In episode 17 Nick and Amy talk with Joseph and Marissa Msefya, certified marriage coaches and Forever Marriages about the 5 ways to build financial intimacy. As many divorces happen due to money issues, Jospeph and Marissa share tips and easy ways to build financially intimacy in your marriage. This is truly an episode you will not want to miss.
To learn more or to contact Joseph and Marissa click HERE
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16. How Vulnerability And The Power Of Forgiveness Creates Better Intimacy Jun 01, 2021

In this episode Nick and Amy talk with "Wife Coach" Brenda Moore about vulnerability, and the power of forgiveness that can truly change your marriage.
You can learn more about Brenda and her services by clicking HERE
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15. How Knowing Your Spouses Love Language Can Improve Your Relationship May 20, 2021

Communication is the key to a happy and successful marriage, and knowing how to better communicate properly through the right love language with your spouse will change your marriage. Nick and Amy talk with Adam and Karissa with Dear Young Married Couple about the different love languages, the importance of understanding each others love language and the benefits it will have to your relationship.
You can listen to the Dear Young Married Couple Podcast on the Ultimate Intimacy App (under resources and podcasts) or find them at https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/
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14. How To Improve Your Marriage Through All Types Of Intimacy May 19, 2021

When most people think of intimacy they think of sex, but there are so many more aspects and ways for a couple to connnect and find intimacy. In this episode, Nick and Amy visit with Leona Carter who is a marriage and relationship expert about the the importance of understanding the different types of intimacy in a relationship, and how to improve intimacy in each of those areas. When different aspects of intimacy are met, it makes way for intimacy in the bedroom to flourish.

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13. Keeping Passion and Intimacy Strong in a Blended Family May 17, 2021

In this episode Nick and Amy talk with Garrett and Chelsea Zimmerman of Transformed Couples about how couples, especially in blended families, can keep their passion, and emotional and physical intimacy strong in their marriage.
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12. The Negative Impact Social Media Can Have On Your Marriage May 09, 2021

Nick and Amy discuss some of the crazy stats about social media and the negative effects and destruction it is having on marriages. They also share experiences they have had in their own life and with people around them, and share ideas that may be helpful to help keep it from impacting your marriage!
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11. How Self Love Can Impact Emotional And Physical Intimacy May 03, 2021

In this episode Amy and Nick talk with expert relationship and intimacy coach, Amanda Louder about how loving yourself impacts your emotional and physical intimacy. So many marriages are adversely impacted by lack of self love, and this is common among both men and women. Amanda offers great advice on steps to take to have more confidence and self love, which will improve emotional and physical intimacy.
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10. The Importance of God in Your Marriage Apr 28, 2021

Nick and Amy talk with Laura from "Love Harder Marriage" about the importance of God in your marriage. As the divorce rate is over 50% and many marriages are failing, how can making God a priority in your marriage help you have a better relationship and intimacy, and navigate the various obstacles in life. They also discuss the things you can do to know "how" to make God a priority in your marriage.
You can find Laura at https://www.lauragethers.com/
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9. Prioritizing marriage throughout the different stages of life Apr 27, 2021

Nick and Amy talk with Amberly from "A Prioritized Marriage" and discuss how to prioritize your marriage throughout the various stages of life.
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8. How to Create Better Foreplay and Physical Intimacy Apr 22, 2021

Nick and Amy talk with Sarah from Coconu and discuss why the right lubrication is so important in foreplay and intimacy and how it can make it so much more enjoyable for both spouses.
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7. How To Communicate Better And Fight Smarter With Meet The Freeman's Apr 12, 2021

In this episode Amy and Nick talk the with Freeman's about their brand new book "The Argument Hangover." They discuss what an argument hangover is, why conflict and arguing can be a sign of a healthy relationship, why it is important to have ground rules in arguing, and how to connect after an argument. This will be an episode you will not want to miss and a book that will truly change your relationship.
Aaron and Jocelyn are also marriage coaches that help couples find deeper connection and intimacy in their marriage. You can find more information about the Freeman's and their new book by clicking the link below.
https://www.meetthefreemans.com/
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6. Our Advice for Couples and Newlyweds From Our 19 Years Of Experience In Marriage Apr 05, 2021

In this episode, Nick and Amy share their thoughts on what they have learned over almost 19 years of being married, and what the most important things are that can help married couples and newlyweds create and find more "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriages.
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5. Having a positive attitude in your marriage can affect the dynamics of your relationship Apr 04, 2021

In this episode, Amy and Nick discuss the effects of having positivity in marriage with Connie and Andy Benjamin. The Benjamin's are life and business coaches who have had their share of trials and struggles. In this episode they share why it is so important to have a positive attitude and how being positive can truly impact your happiness in marriage even during trials and struggles just as they have experienced.
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4. How to keep the passion alive in a "Commuter Marriage" Mar 19, 2021

Millions of people in the country are in a "commuter marriage" meaning they spend a lot of time away from each other. These include military, fire fighters, pilots and many other professionals. Abe and Elaine Romero are one of those couples and also host the "Love is in the air podcast". Nick and Amy dive in with them about how to keep the passion alive in their relationship being away from each other so long. They give fantastic advice for those living in "commuter marriages" as well as things that can help all marriages benefit greatly from! You can listen to the "Love is in the air" podcast here by clicking on the link below
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-is-in-the-air/id1541184606
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3. Part 2: Continuing the discussion on things that can get in the way of great intimacy Mar 19, 2021

In Episode 3, Nick and Amy continue their discussion with Gayle Stephens on things that can get in the way of having great intimacy.
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2. Part 1: The little things that can get in the way of having great intimacy in your marriage Mar 19, 2021

There are so many things that can get it the way of having good intimacy and often we don't even recognize they are happening. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the little things that can get in the way of having great intimacy in marriage with guest Gayle Stephens. Gayle is a retired marriage and family therapist.
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1. Why we created the Ultimate Intimacy App and all the ways it can benefit your marriage Feb 22, 2021

In this first episode, Nick and Amy (the owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App) discuss why they created the Ultimate Intimacy App and how it can help couples draw closer together, and create better communication and intimacy in and out of the bedroom.
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