In today’s fast-paced world, many couples face the challenge of balancing career demands and family life, often leading to a shift in traditional gender roles. As a wife who has experienced this firsthand, I’ve come to realize that toxic masculinity and toxic femininity are not just abstract concepts but real issues impacting our marriages.
When I started working full time and juggling the responsibilities of raising kids, I felt a shift in my role and identity. I found myself adopting more traditionally masculine traits—assertiveness, independence, and a focus on achieving career goals. While these traits helped me excel in my professional life, they began to clash with my role at home and, ultimately, with my marriage.
Toxic masculinity often manifests as the belief that men must be dominant, unemotional, or the sole provider, which can put immense pressure on both spouses. On the other hand, toxic femininity can involve the expectation that women should be nurturing, submissive, and solely responsible for home life. When both spouses feel pressured to conform to these outdated roles, it creates tension and dissatisfaction.
For many women working full time, like myself, the struggle is real. We’re balancing careers with home responsibilities, and this shift can make us feel like we need to adopt a more masculine approach at home, which may not always align with our spouse’s expectations. It’s easy to slip into a cycle where work pressures and domestic responsibilities lead to frustration and conflict.
So, how can we find a healthy balance in our marriages amidst these challenges?
Here are some questions we ask Daniele in this episode:
- Why is it so important for marriages to understand masculinity and femininity?
- What is toxic about each of those?
- What causes a wife to turn masculine, and how does that impact the marriage?
- What does a healthy balance in marriage look like?
- How do women emasculate men and how can they do a better job at empowering them instead?
- Is respect earned in marriage?
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