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**The Todd V Show**

The Todd V Show is a podcast dedicated to helping you decisively win at life’s greatest endeavors. Popular topics include building better social skills, self-improvement through deliberate action, finding and keeping relationships, and the art and science of achievement.

Latest Episodes:

Why Girls Ghost After First Dates Mar 04, 2024

Show notes

In this episode, I discuss a shift in approach for non-sexual dates, emphasizing the importance of creating a dynamic where the woman is chasing the man.
I also address challenges such as avoiding over-validation, managing physical escalation, and navigating logistics to increase the likelihood of securing a second date.
Finally, I emphasize the need for a strategic mindset, particularly when dealing with more conservative or inexperienced women.

Notes

02:30 - Balancing validation with avoiding flakiness.
15:10 - Navigating "non-sex dates"

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The 3 Biggest Online Dating Mistakes (And How to Fix Them) Feb 03, 2024

Show notes

In my 20+ years as a dating coach, I've seen a TON of mistakes made in online dating.
In this episode, I examine the 3 most common mistakes and how to fix them. Apply these chnages so you can get matches with girls you ACTUALLY want to date.

Notes

00:00 - What are the 3 most common online dating mistakes?
00:50 - Do looks matter?
04:15 - Stop doing this in your bio.
06:05 - Showing vs. Telling
08:00 - Messaging
10:45 - Focus on THIS
13:10 - Getting her from app to date
18:10 - The most efficient online dating strategy

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From Game to Jiu-Jitsu: My Three Keys to Learning Any Skill Aug 05, 2023

Show notes

How did I, as an overweight 41-year-old, see more success in learning jiu-jitsu than I did as a super fit 21-year-old?
The answers will surprise you, while also revealing powerful insights about improving your game.

Notes

00:00 - My path back to jiu-jitsu
12:30 - My "why" (you NEED this!)
20:00 - Trials and tribulations...
29:20 - Massive improvement?
35:00 - Your ego is not your amigo!
42:00 - Mind, attitude, and coaching.
48:00 - You might just get hooked...

One of the biggest secrets of game is a simple one:

Learn game from someone massively better than you.
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James Joins the Podcast: His Journey in Game Will Save You YEARS of Practice Apr 23, 2022

Show notes

Highlights

James' journey in game will inspire you
The best way to see results, FAST
Learn what to AVOID DOING in game

Notes

00:00 - Intro
00:48 - How James discovered game and how it changed his life
012:50 - When James REALLY started seeing PROGRESSION
26:30 - How James became advanced
35:00 - Major lessons James has learned in game

One of the biggest secrets of game is a simple one:

Learn game from someone massively better than you.
https://toddvmentoring.com/

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Hot Girl Likes You But Doesn't Speak English Oct 31, 2021

Show notes

VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com.

Highlights

Gaming girls who speak another language
How to master your non-verbals
Closing despite the language barrier

Notes

00:00 - Intro
00:18 - How should you alter your verbal game when the girl doesn’t speak your language fluently?
01:00 - Think strategically
02:00 - “The shoe is on the other foot”
04:25 - Todd in Japan
06:00 - A winning vibe
07:20 - Non-verbal verbal game
09:11 - Animal flirtation
10:50 - Crush it

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How to Demonstrate Value Without Being Try-Hard Oct 30, 2021

Show notes

VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com.

Highlights

Storytelling: A crucial game skill
Displaying value subtly
Believing your own story

Notes

00:00 - Intro
00:25 - DHV without being tryhard?
01:26 - What specific values?
02:15 - Stop bragging.
04:50 - You need to believe
07:30 - Setting, interruption, change
10:33 - Weave these in

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Verbal Game Toolkit: Negs, Push-Pulls, and...Insults? Oct 04, 2021

Show notes

Highlights

Do insults work in game?
How to use push-pulls
How to use negs
How to use disqualifiers

Notes

00:00 - Intro
01:15 - Question: Compare and contrast negs, push-pulls, and insults
03:00 - Push-pull 101
05:15 - How to show interest the RIGHT WAY
06:40 - Disqualifiers: BREAKING rapport?
08:50 - The Art of the Neg
Check out my program on EVERYTHING verbal game. What to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Verbalgameacademy.com
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How to Make Sex a WIN for HER Sep 27, 2021

Show notes

Highlights

Do you REALLY have to HIDE your agenda?
How women view sex
Being direct

Notes

00:00 - Intro
00:14 - Question: Why do guys hide their agenda? Isn't sex a win for her?
01:10 - Women like sex MORE than men, but...
03:55 - You need to be INTERESTED
6:20 - Todd's thoughts on direct approach
8:30 - Direct approach frames

Check out my program on EVERYTHING verbal game. What to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Verbalgameacademy.com
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Winning In A Corrupt System & Owning Your Time Apr 04, 2021

Show notes

Highlights

How to succeed in a CORRUPT SYSTEM
Turn CRISIS to OPPORTUNITY
Managing time in a world of DISTRACTIONS

Notes

00:00 - Intro
01:10 - Question: “How do I improve in a society with a corrupt system, nepotism, and bigotry?”
01:34 - How to make the BEST out of dire situations
04:05 - It could be WORSE
05:18 - Turn CRISIS to OPPORTUNITY
08:35 - Question: How do you manage time? What are your strategies?
11:18 - Manage your ACTIVITIES, not your TIME
14:27 - Eliminating TIME-WASTERS