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**The Todd V Show**

The Todd V Show is a podcast dedicated to helping you decisively win at life’s greatest endeavors. Popular topics include building better social skills, self-improvement through deliberate action, finding and keeping relationships, and the art and science of achievement.

Latest Episodes:

Pickup Lines Aug 27, 2024

Show notes

Todays episode is about "pickup lines" -- exactly what to say to women. In particular, this is your chance to be a "fly on the wall" during a segment of one of my exclusive mentorship program calls. We do these kind of in-depth calls twice weekly, and if you were in the mentorship program during the call, you could ask your own follow up questions at any point.
Timestamps

0:00 – Introduction
1:45 – Pickup Lines explained
4:05 – The best way to tease
6:15 – Subtlety…
9:00 – The right frame in getting her to qualify
9:50 – “You and I would not get along.”
13:00 – Disqualifying sex?

And we currently have a discount on the mentorship program for a very limited time. You can see that at https://toddvmentoring.com

Attitude and Lowering Your Own Value: Interview With Coach James Aug 24, 2024

Show notes

In this episode, Todd interviews his most experienced coach, James, who gives some unique insights on opening, getting solid numbers, and how to communicate as a high-value man.
Timestamps:

0:00 – Introduction
3:20 – A MASSIVE unlock for daygame…
10:15 – Why you shouldn’t worry about bystanders in daygame
13:45 – Qualifying Explained
29:00 – Daygame Masterclass

To take get coaching with James go to: https://toddvdating.com/coaching
And to take advantage of the sale on the Mentorship Program go to: https://toddvmentoring.com
In this podcast, we mentioned a video featuring James on my main YouTube channel, Todd V Dating. Check it out here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bf6miBNwCvo

Why You're Not Getting Laid Aug 16, 2024

Show notes

In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.

Notes

0:00 – Introduction
0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question
1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown
1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue
2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges
3:26 – Game Skills and Online Dating
4:23 – The Role of Value in Dating
5:20 – Pre-Date Preparation and Its Importance
5:53 – Handling the Date Itself
6:41 – Improving Dating Interactions
7:09 – Creating Tension in Interaction
8:42 – Handling Physical Escalation
10:16 – Key Concept: Tension and Value
13:04 – Final Notes on Chemistry and Rejection
14:04 – Additional Context for Sam’s Situation
17:01 – Understanding Rejections and Rationalizations
18:28 – Common Issues and Final Advice
20:25 – Closing Thoughts
21:18 – Outro and Call for Questions

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How to Make Game Fun Jul 10, 2024

Show notes

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd shares insights from a recent coaching experience in Europe, discussing the importance of making the game fun, reducing outcome dependence, and techniques to handle frustration and approach anxiety. He also provides updates on his upcoming boot camps and practical strategies for improving game dynamics.

Notes

00:00 - Intro
00:30 - Motivation for Today's Episode
01:00 - Private Coaching Experience in Europe
02:00 - Client's Frustration and Pressure
03:00 - Importance of Making Game Fun
04:00 - Boot Camp Schedule Update
05:30 - What is a Boot Camp?
07:00 - Upcoming Cities for Boot Camps
08:00 - How to Make Game Fun
09:00 - The Irony of Making Game Fun
10:00 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety
11:00 - Handling Rejection and Blowouts
12:30 - Ego and Self-Esteem in Game
14:00 - The Upward and Downward Spiral
15:00 - Taking Breaks and Resetting
16:30 - Changing Your Focus to Reduce Frustration
18:00 - Silly Openers to Reduce Outcome Dependence
19:30 - Examples of Silly Openers
21:00 - Using Cocky Openers
22:30 - Examples of Cocky Openers
24:00 - Advanced Techniques: Leaving Your Phone at Home
25:30 - Changing Your Focus: Small Wins
27:00 - Approach Anxiety and Small Wins
28:30 - Using a Timer for Approaches
30:00 - Gamifying the Approach Process
31:30 - Pumping State to Improve Mood
33:00 - Examples of Pumping State Techniques
34:30 - Combining Pumping State and Reducing Outcome Dependence
36:00 - Approach All: Talking to Everyone
37:30 - Conclusion: Embrace the Game
39:00 - Final Thoughts and Boot Camp Information

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How to Get Serious Results With Online Dating In Under a Month May 14, 2024

Show notes

In this episode, I chat with three Online Dating Fast Track students as well as their two coaches, Kaitlin and Atlas.

Notes

00:00 - Intro
01:50 - Coaches Background
05:00 - Online archetype and narrative
16:30 - Being high-value online
21:00 - Achieving abundance
25:30 - Improving your messaging game
27:00 - Paradigm shift
31:30 - Todd's game insights
40:00 - Physical escalation on dates
46:50 - How to respond to every text
50:20 - Answering deep questions over text
51:30 - Maximize the lifespan of a casual relationship
58:00 - "It just happened."
1:01:00 - Nexting
1:04:00 - Wrap up

Experience the Online Dating Fast Track for yourself:
https://toddvdating.com/odft/

Check out my comprehensive online dating course:

https://toddoda.com/

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How to Score (In Sports and With Women) Apr 25, 2024

Show notes

In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example.

Notes

00:00 - Intro
01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women
04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good
11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.
16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.

Check out my comprehensive online dating course:

https://toddoda.com/

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Interview With a Bootcamp Student Apr 15, 2024

Show notes

00:00 - What is Bootcamp?
01:40 - Student's experience prior to studying game
03:55 - His massive game improvement
09:05 - Most challenging bootcamp moment
11:50 - His post-bootcamp experience
15:30 - How he met his girlfriend
19:00 - His advice to others on their journey in game
21:20 - Being INTENTIONAL about game

If you'd like to join me in person, my coaching schedule is at:
https://toddvdating.com/coaching/

Connect with Todd:
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The Laws of State and Sexual Transference Apr 04, 2024

Show notes

00:00 - State transference
04:45 - How to kiss her (at the right time)
06:30 - Bootcamp story
16:30 - How to transfer sexuality to the girl
20:00 - AMOG situations

Check out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy, and highly effective:

https://verbalgameacademy.com/

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How to Game Hot Girls Mar 23, 2024

Show notes

Notes

00:00 - How are hot girls different from others?
02:50 - The biggest mistake guys make around hot girls
04:20 - Irreverent.
08:45 - Don't do this...
13:30 - How hot girls live their lives
16:40 - Show social proof
20:40 - What type of dates should you bring hot girls on?
26:30 - Don't put yourself in this frame...

Check out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy and highly effective:

https://verbalgameacademy.com/

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Dating Advice for Asian Men Mar 16, 2024

Show notes

In this episode, Todd discusses the challenges faced by Asian men in the Western dating scene. He touches on how to leverage stereotypes and overcome cultural biases to get the results you want in game.

Notes

02:15 - Do Asian men have a harder time in the dating world?
08:00 - What about results in game?
13:50 - What about guys of other backgrounds?
16:00 - Assimilation.

We have a PACKED bootcamp schedule coming up in cities around the world. Click the link below to grow your game exponentially with me out in the field:

https://toddvdating.com/coaching/

Connect with Todd:
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Email questions to questions@toddvdating.com

Ask questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channels

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