The Tai Lopez Show

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Why You Should Know the “26 Love Stories” to Find the Right Person for a Healthy Relationship Feb 09, 2017

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The Tai Lopez Show is now available on Soundcloud. Check it out here: Soundcloud.com/TaiLopezShow “People subconsciously act out stories in their mind about how they think the world works, and it controls their behavior” (click to tweet) Today’s episode is about the book “Love is a Story” by Robert J. Sternberg, which explores the way that the stories we mentally tell about ourselves and how love works controls the way we behave. This means that one of the most important things to look for in a potential partner is either the same, or a similar love story, so that your attitude and mindset will line up with each other. So if it seems like no matter how hard you try, you cannot find the right person, it could be your stories aren’t lining up, or are simply too different. It’s a fascinating way to look at relationships and finding the perfect fit in a partner. “Never date somebody who has a dramatically different subconscious story compared with yours” (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind The love triangle: Intimacy, passion, and commitment People subconsciously act out stories in their mind about how they think the world works, and it controls their behavior Never date somebody who has a dramatically different subconscious story compared with yours While it is possible to change your story over time, it is often a better idea to just look for someone who has the same or similar story to begin with Find out what your love-story is: https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200007/whats-your-love-story “Love is a Story” by Robert J. SternbergLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Why Hard Work is Not Enough to Make You Successful Feb 06, 2017

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The Tai Lopez Show is now available on Soundcloud. Check it out here: Soundcloud.com/TaiLopezShow “Work smarter than you work hard” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) A lot of the discussion in entrepreneurial circles these days is about “the hustle.” The word “hustle” is a popular buzzword right now, but the truth is that it’s really only half, or probably much less than half, of what will make you successful! Look around you: You can find people hustling, working extremely hard, but not getting ahead, everywhere. Hustle is clearly not the answer, and so much emphasis is put on it that people get led astray, thinking it’s all that they need. But if you’re hustling, doing the wrong thing, it doesn’t matter how hard you’re hustling, it’s still the wrong thing! This episode is about how to work smarter, not harder. While hustle and hard-work is a necessity, it’s not the end goal. In fact, your hard work should be with the goal of putting systems in place that allow you to work less hard to accomplish the same thing. Work smarter, use mentors, books, and online education to make your hard work as smart as it can be, and you will get ahead over time. “What gets you ahead is intelligence, leading to leverage” -Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind The world is full of people who work extremely hard, but are not succeeding, so it takes more than hard work. Today, people need education more than hustle Work smarter than you work hard What gets you ahead is intelligence, leading to leverage Work to figure out how you can not work as hard The grind is a necessity, but not the goal Look around you: Does hard work equal success? Figure out your competitive advantage, and what’s going to get you ahead Learn from other people. Their mistakes can keep you from making the same mistakes “The grind is a necessity, but not the goal” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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3-Steps to Build a World-Class Team of Employees for Your Business Feb 03, 2017

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The Tai Lopez Show is now available on Soundcloud. Check it out here: Soundcloud.com/TaiLopezShow “Most people are mentally lazy without realizing it” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) When you’re building a business, or as an entrepreneur just starting out in business, it’s easy to think that the employees you hire will have the same sort of passion, ingenuity, and drive for success that you do, but this is a mistake. Instead, start with the simple understanding and assumption that most people will be lazy, more mentally than physically. This means that you should start assuming that they will do the job wrong. This is not negativity, it’s realism. Secondly, build a training system that ensures that, from day one, they have all of the education that they need at their fingertips. Then, systematically and regularly quiz them, to make sure that they fully, 100% know what they are doing. This is one of the most important aspects of building a company, and I wish someone had told me to do it a long time ago. Entrepreneurs and business-owners, listen to this episode carefully and take notes! If you take it seriously and implement it, it will save you time and a lot of pain on your journey to success in business. “Build a training system that really gets your employees ready for success” -Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind Parkinson's Law states that work will expand to fill the space that it is given An increase in productivity in each individual in America or any country would single-handedly fix its economy Most people are mentally lazy without realizing it Mental laziness is the most common kind: People just choose not to think very hard Assume that people will be mentally lazy, and that employees will leach off you Always assume that people will do the job wrong. This is not negativity, it’s realism Build a training system that really gets your employees ready for success Quiz employees continually Always trust, but verify People lie, but numbers never do, so trust but verify Put tremendous effort into making your employees best in class at what they do When you start to hold people accountable, you will immediately see the difference in their work “Put tremendous effort into making your employees best in class at what they do” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How You Can Achieve More Through What You Eat Feb 01, 2017

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The Tai Lopez Show is now available on Soundcloud. Check it out here: Soundcloud.com/TaiLopezShow “Good eating lifestyle is not a diet, because it’s not limiting. It’s a lifestyle” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) The Gracie Diet is an eating lifestyle, developed by the Gracie family of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu fame, and designed to combine the correct foods with each other, to give you energy and health to accomplish what you want in life. But even more fundamentally, in this episode I talk about why it is important to be willing to experiment. Those who have done incredible things have always been willing to experiment, to try things out and see if they work, and whether that’s diet, lifestyle, habits, or anything else, everyone is different, and so experimentation is often the only way you can know if something is right for you specifically. “When starting a new lifestyle, take it slowly and in stages” -Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind The fuel you put in your body is going to affect your performance in a powerful way Most people don’t pay nearly enough attention to how certain foods make them feel Many people are guided almost entirely by the pleasure of eating Good eating lifestyle is not a diet, because it’s not limiting. It’s a lifestyle Most people lack potassium in their diet Eat fruit for dessert A 24 fast once per month is a great cleanse If you write down everything that you eat, you will realize that you’re not eating the way you want When starting a new lifestyle, take it slowly and in stages Make sure you hang out with people who eat similarly to the way you want to eat, because it will affect you greatly Be constantly willing to try out different things, to find out what works for you Willingness to experiment is extremely important to success Take naps “Willingness to experiment is extremely important to success” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Why You Should Use Mentors as Shortcuts to the Good Life Jan 31, 2017

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The Tai Lopez Show is now available on Soundcloud. Check it out here: Soundcloud.com/TaiLopezShow “Take shortcuts anytime you can, and shortcuts often mean learning from others” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) A lot of people have negative connotations around money. We hear that money is the root of all evil. And yet, money is absolutely required in order to do good in the world, to not be a burden to others, and to live a fulfilled and happy life in the modern age. Get rid of any preconceived notions you may have about any inherent evil in money. If you want to do good in the world, get rich. In addition, today I talk about how you can use mentors as shortcuts in life, why family advice is often bad, what it means to be penny-wise and dollar-foolish, and how fear can be a powerful motivator to drive you to success. “Use fear as a motivator to succeed” -Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind Quality over quantity, in everything you do Family will often have perverse incentives for their advice, built around their regrets, what they wish they had done, etc Take shortcuts anytime you can, and shortcuts often mean learning from others Many people are penny-wise and dollar-foolish, which means they’ll pay for small things that don’t help, but not things that will move the needle in their life Seek out mentors, which are one of the most powerful shortcuts in life Mentors can take the form of people, books, podcasts, or online courses Use fear as a motivator to succeed Use money to create experiences, because experiences will improve your quality of life Money is 100% necessary to having a good life. It might not be everything, but it is necessary Money is also necessary to do great good in the world “Use money to create experiences, because experiences will improve your quality of life” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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My Top Mentor Tips for Improving Your Health, Relationships, and Finances Jan 27, 2017

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“When it comes to marketing, always be critical of yourself and ask if you would actually click/buy it” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Today I’m going through my top mentor tips for how to get more out of life through business, health, and relationships. Everyone wants a different mix of all three, and I’m giving you the strategies and ways of behaving that will get you ahead in any one of these. If you’re an entrepreneur, don’t discount the value of your social life. Make sure you’re hanging out with people, getting to know them, and developing deeper and better relationships all the time. But also take good care of your personal financial situation. Those who don’t make finances a priority become a burden to other people, so it’s actually selfish not to look out for your own financial well-being. Learn how to get an edge in finance, health, and relationships on this episode of The Tai Lopez Show. “Life is all about reacting to stress, and if you can be cool under pressure, you will do well” -Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind Social life is extremely important to your happiness. It’s more essential to most people’s happiness than wealth It takes about 10 years to build a true, deep friendship Go back to your school or old friends, and make friends with them again, so that you don’t have to start over When it comes to marketing, always be critical of yourself and ask if you would actually click/buy it Most people talk too much when they’re around mentors With mentors, talk ⅓ as much as you listen Most people are bad investors because they listen to the media, but if the media knows, it’s probably already too late Life is all about reacting to stress, and if you can be cool under pressure, you will do well The first person you should hire is a personal assistant, because it magnifies you, which is the most important part of your business The second person should be either a bookkeeper/accountant, or a sales person Time your sleep in 90 minute cycles. You need about 35 90-minute sleep cycles per week Never sleep with your phone next to your bed Look at people’s actions more than their words Get life insurance as early as you can while you’re healthy. Get 10X your annual income “Look at people’s actions more than their words” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Why You Should Stand Up to Bullies, and When to be Confrontational Jan 26, 2017

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“Be nice to people, but don’t be a pushover” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Sometimes, you just need to stand up for yourself. But we’re all raised in such a way that we tend to think that it’s always wrong to stand up for ourselves, to push back, or to be confrontational in any way. The truth is that, throughout history and today, being non-confrontational has been the cause of a lot of extra suffering. So stand up for yourself to avoid additional frustration and suffering in your own life! A good rule to keep in mind is, in every interaction with anyone, start out nice, and then reciprocate whatever they give you. So if they continue to be friendly and nice, that should be your response. But if they get aggressive, you just might have to as well. Learn more about how to confront someone, how to stand up to bullies, and why you shouldn’t be a pushover, on this episode of the Tai Lopez Show. “Always start nice with people, and then reciprocate whatever they give you” -Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind Sometimes, when you help people out and they start to do well, they’re going to start to pretend they did it all by themselves Always start nice with people, and then reciprocate whatever they give you If you ignore being taken advantage of, people will continue to take advantage of you. It’s better to be straightforward and give them what they gave you Appeal to people’s sense of justice to be more persuasive Going high when other people go low does not always work Be nice, but don’t be a pushover Don’t get in other people’s business to break up fights, unless it’s an egregious case of bullying People are always quick to forgive themselves, but will nitpick everything about you Over and over throughout history, people had to stand up for themselves, and sometimes you have to today as well “Appeal to people’s sense of justice to be more persuasive” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Level-Up Your Life Through Continuous Self-Education Jan 24, 2017

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“Often when it comes to education, you get what you pay for.” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Work until what once seemed expensive now seems cheap. This is the name of the game, and the process of continuously leveling up your life through self-improvement. That process never ends, and no matter how much you learn, there will always be more to discover, to learn, and to improve. At the end of the day, with most things in life, you simply get what you pay for. So be careful about cutting corners and trying to do things the cheap way. Often when you get something for free, free is the value you put on it, and so you don’t put in the effort that you would have if you had paid for it, and therefore you get minimal results. Learn how to continually level up your life through investing in yourself through education and training, so that eventually what seemed expensive or difficult becomes cheap and easy. “Formal education will make you a living, self education will make you a fortune” -Jim Rohn (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind Work until what used to seem expensive now seems cheap Sometimes, when it comes to education, you get what you pay for Know when to save and go inexpensive, and when you should pay more for better value Someday, the things that seem hard now will seem easy, if you stick with it Formal education will make you a living, self education will make you a fortune Traditional education is the biggest scam, because you come out of it with very few practical skills Google is free, and sometimes the value you get from google is worth what you pay for it “Work until what used to seem expensive now seems cheap” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Why You Might Need to Publically ROAST Your Haters Jan 23, 2017

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“If your life is full of people taking advantage of you, at some point it becomes your own fault.” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) In our society, being humble and quiet is something we’re often told be should do. We’re brought up this way as children, and it carries into our lives as adults. Today’s episode is all about when that advice is wrong, and how it might be holding you back. Just remember, pacifism doesn’t always work, and has historically been the wrong approach at times. Often, the correct response is to stand up for yourself and fight back. You don’t want to start fights, but sometimes you need to finish them, and that’s what this episode is all about. “Happiness is primarily an outgrowth of having the right social circle.” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind People tend to think you need to be humble and quiet, but sometimes that will lead to you being taken advantage of Pacifism does not always work, and history shows it Happiness is primarily an outgrowth of having the right social circle You don’t want to start fights, but you might have to finish them Find mentors and role models to give you a map for what you should be doing “You don’t want to start fights, but you might have to finish them.” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Stay Cutting Edge, How to Respond to Haters, and Trump’s Inauguration Jan 19, 2017

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“When you’re creative, there’s always a way to thrive.” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Today’s episode is a mashup of several topics that all work together. I’m talking about Trump’s upcoming inauguration, the process of creating more jobs in an economy, why small businesses are responsible for the majority of both job creation as well as job destruction, how to respond to haters, as well as how Trump has responded to Alec Baldwin and SNL’s skits about him. The circus company, Ringling Bros., just went out of business, and looking at their strategy it’s not difficult to see why: They simply didn’t innovate or stay cutting edge. Have you ever seen a viral video or social media post from them? They have the ability to create incredible content, yet they didn’t stay cutting edge enough to use it effectively. So listen to this episode to get my roundup of thoughts on Trump’s inauguration, where jobs come from, Ringling Bros., how to respond to haters, and Alec Baldwin’s Trump impersonation on SNL. “Entrepreneurs and businesses must stay on the cutting edge to stay in business.” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet) Points to Keep In Mind Entrepreneurs are responsible for over 60% of jobs created. An environment that favors small business is an environment that creates jobs But, on the other hand, entrepreneurs also destroy jobs, by going out of business Entrepreneurs and businesses must stay on the cutting edge to stay in business You can never rest on your laurels, or get cocky, or you will lose The answer to more jobs is thriving companies When you’re creative, there’s always a way to thrive Change-up the various ways you respond to haters Start out nice with every stranger you meet, and then reciprocate what they give you There is power in some unpredictability You shouldn’t have any opinion unless you can argue the other side as well or better than your own side “The answer to more jobs is thriving companies.” - Tai Lopez (click to tweet)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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