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    The Secret Life of Death Podcast

    The Secret Life of Death is a podcast which explores the stories of ordinary people, starting with their gravestone and placing them into the context of the history of their life and times. The show primarily is based in New Hampshire, Vermont and Massachusetts, but it stories reach throughout New England and beyond. Local historian and archaeologist Gail Golec researches, writes, hosts and produces this podcast.

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    Latest Episodes:
    Episode 8: Identity, Part 6 Jun 25, 2023
    Show notes

    In the final installment of the “Identity” series, we move the story of the first LGBTQ+ bar in Vermont, Andrews Inn, into the present day. Though the bar closed its doors in 1984, its legacy was broad and deep for the community of Bellows Falls, affecting lives in the village today and in ways many of us may not even be aware of.

    *Post production correction: the late Gary Smith was responsible for opening, developing and running Popolo Restaurant in the Hotel Windham building, not the Windham Development Group.

    Episode 8: Identity, Part 6 Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    View fullsize Hotel Windham Today
    Hotel Windham Today View fullsize Wunderbar
    Wunderbar View fullsize Memorial Park
    Memorial Park

    Acknowledgements:

    Segment Participants:
    Michael Bruno
    Kate Buckman
    Adam Gearhart
    Jon Midura

    Interviewees:
    Remy Walker
    Alain Martinez
    Jeremy Youst
    Thom Herman
    Special Thanks:
    HB Lozito, Out In the Open: for giving us permission to use clips from their *audio
    clips from their 2017
    Andrews Inn Oral History Project and for acting as a sounding board for the
    concept of this show and reading through the scripts for content and tone. For more information
    about OITO, check out their website,
    www.weareoutintheopen.org.

    Mike Smith and Marty Gallagher of Fact 8 TV: for the use of the audio clips from their
    documentary,
    “Call to Duty: Terry Brown and Dana Fuller”.

    Remy Walker and Alain Martinez at Wunderbar, for hosting our interview.

    Music and Sound Effects: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound, LLC
    George’s Sandbox- Magnus Ludvisson
    In the Spirit of Cannes - The Flax
    Some Autumn; His Old Lover - Leimoti
    Something to Someone - Bireli Snow
    Happy Minor Waltz - Franz Gordon
    Bobby Swing - Bladverk Band
    Morning Dew - Heath Cantu

    PREL Dron 16; 57; 80

    Photos:
    Gail Golec

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    Episode 8: Identity, Part 5 Jun 03, 2023
    Show notes

    At the end of 1982, Andrews Inn had been sent reeling from the set-up and raid by authorities and their business struggled in its aftermath. But 1982 was also the year that AIDS broke into the public consciousness, also affecting business. Not much has been said about both topics in the last 40 years, which makes you think about what stories get told and what stories do not - and why that might be.

    Episode 8: Identity, Part 5 Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    Called To Duty: Terry Brown and Dana Fuller - FACT 8 TV Documentary

    View fullsize Island House c. 1855-1865
    Island House c. 1855-1865 View fullsize Fall Mountain Pavilion c. 1860
    Fall Mountain Pavilion c. 1860 View fullsize View from Fall Mnt c. 1900
    View from Fall Mnt c. 1900 View fullsize Fall Mnt. Hike c. 1982
    Fall Mnt. Hike c. 1982 View fullsize Fall Mtn Hike 2021
    Fall Mtn Hike 2021 View fullsize Table Rock
    Table Rock View fullsize Turkey Vulture
    Turkey Vulture View fullsize Snake!
    Snake! View fullsize Old Road
    Old Road View fullsize Jerry Glover Portrait
    Jerry Glover Portrait

    Acknowledgements:

    Segment Participants:
    Kate Butt

    Interviewees:
    Florence Golec
    Jeremy Youst
    Thom Herman
    Fletcher Proctor
    Sheila Glover
    Special Thanks:
    HB Lozito, Out In the Open: for giving us permission to use clips from their *audio
    clips from their 2017
    Andrews Inn Oral History Project and for acting as a sounding board for the
    concept of this show and reading through the scripts for content and tone. For more information
    about OITO, check out their website,
    www.weareoutintheopen.org.

    Music and Sound Effects: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound, LLC
    George’s Sandbox- Magnus Ludvisson
    In the Spirit of Cannes - The Flax
    Some Autumn; His Old Lover - Leimoti
    Something to Someone - Bireli Snow
    Happy Minor Waltz - Franz Gordon
    Bobby Swing - Bladverk Band
    Morning Dew - Heath Cantu

    PREL Dron 16; 57; 80

    Photos:
    Sheila Glover
    UVM Historic Photo Archive
    Library of Congress
    Florence Golec

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    Episode 8: Identity, Part 4 Jun 03, 2023
    Show notes

    After the sale of Andrews Inn to gay couple, Thom Herman and Jeremy Youst (1979) went through and some of the fervor of the anti-gay protest march that took place in its wake had died down, life got on in Bellows Falls. The Inn, its owners, staff and patrons had forged a mostly civil and at times, fruitful and supportive relationship with the town. But in 1982 - things began to change.

    Episode 8: Identity, Part 4 Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    TSLOD Newspaper References

    View fullsize Star Hotel Fire: Dec 1981
    Star Hotel Fire: Dec 1981 View fullsize Charity and Sylvia Gravesite
    Charity and Sylvia Gravesite View fullsize 1982
    1982

    Acknowledgements:

    Interviewees:
    Kate Buckman
    Fletcher Proctor
    Florence Golec
    Jeremy Youst
    Thom Herman
    Kathy MacDonald
    Sheila Glover
    Special Thanks:
    HB Lozito, Out In the Open: for giving us permission to use clips from their *audio
    clips from their 2017
    Andrews Inn Oral History Project and for acting as a sounding board for the
    concept of this show and reading through the scripts for content and tone. For more information
    about OITO, check out their website,
    www.weareoutintheopen.org.

    Music and Sound Effects: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound, LLC
    George’s Sandbox- Magnus Ludvisson
    In the Spirit of Cannes - The Flax
    Some Autumn; His Old Lover - Leimoti
    Something to Someone - Bireli Snow
    Happy Minor Waltz - Franz Gordon
    Bobby Swing - Bladverk Band
    Morning Dew - Heath Cantu

    PREL Dron 16; 57; 80

    Photos:
    Brattleboro Reformer

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    Episode 8: Identity, Part 3 Jun 03, 2023
    Show notes

    By 1979, Andrews Inn, now operating as a “gay nightclub” as well as a sit down restaurant and bar was doing well and though locals didn’t always understand and weren’t always happy about the LGBTQ+ crowd it attracted, they were inclined to leave well enough alone. That year, the Moisis family were looking for buyers and found some: Thom Herman and Jeremy Youst, an openly gay couple. Openly gay business owners was a first for this town and it wasn’t clear how people would respond.

    Radical social change doesn’t happen in places like Bellows Falls, VT, does it?….or does it?

    Episode 8 Identity, Part 3 Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    TSLOD Newspaper References

    View fullsize Blueboy April 1979
    Blueboy April 1979 View fullsize Blueboy April 1979
    Blueboy April 1979 View fullsize Hotel Windham
    Hotel Windham View fullsize Looking Into the Ballroom
    Looking Into the Ballroom View fullsize Ladies/Lesbian Bar
    Ladies/Lesbian Bar View fullsize Bathroom Grafitti
    Bathroom Grafitti View fullsize Dramatic Hallway
    Dramatic Hallway View fullsize Overlooks The Square
    Overlooks The Square View fullsize Overlook the Canal
    Overlook the Canal View fullsize Quaker Meeting Support
    Quaker Meeting Support View fullsize Thom Herman: New Owner
    Thom Herman: New Owner

    Acknowledgements:

    Segment Participants:
    Kate Buckman
    Jon Midura
    Myles Mickle
    Michael Bruno
    Adam Gearhart

    Interviewees:
    Ain Gordon
    Jeremy Youst*
    Thom Herman*
    Special Thanks:
    HB Lozito, Out In the Open: for giving us permission to use clips from their *audio
    clips from their 2017
    Andrews Inn Oral History Project and for acting as a sounding board for the
    concept of this show and reading through the scripts for content and tone. For more information
    about OITO, check out their website,
    www.weareoutintheopen.org.

    Alan and Pat Fowler, owners of the Hotel Windham

    Music and Sound Effects: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound, LLC
    George’s Sandbox- Magnus Ludvisson
    In the Spirit of Cannes - The Flax
    Some Autumn; His Old Lover - Leimoti
    Something to Someone - Bireli Snow
    Happy Minor Waltz - Franz Gordon
    Bobby Swing - Bladverk Band
    Morning Dew - Heath Cantu

    PREL Dron 16; 57; 80

    Photos:
    Kate Buckman
    Blueboy
    Brattleboro Reformer

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    Episode 8: Identity, Part 2 Jun 02, 2023
    Show notes

    In 1973, the Moisis Family of Bellows Falls, VT bought the historic Hotel Windham building in the downtown, cleaned it up, refurbished it and opened a nice, sit down restaurant with the look and feel of the town’s former 19th century glory. But this fine dining experience didn’t seem to fly in this burned out, blue collar old mill town. So the family found a clientele that would be interested in the good food, dancing and socializing they were offering ...

    Episode 8: Identity, Part 2 Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    View fullsize Bellows Falls Stage House c. 1855
    Bellows Falls Stage House c. 1855 View fullsize Hotel Windham 1899 Fire
    Hotel Windham 1899 Fire View fullsize Hotel Windham c.1900-1912
    Hotel Windham c.1900-1912 View fullsize Hotel Windham 1912 Fire
    Hotel Windham 1912 Fire View fullsize Dining Hall in Hotel Windham c. 1913
    Dining Hall in Hotel Windham c. 1913 View fullsize Hotel Windham Fire 1932
    Hotel Windham Fire 1932 View fullsize Mural for Grand Opening: 1974
    Mural for Grand Opening: 1974 View fullsize Inn's Ad in Gay Community News 1977
    Inn's Ad in Gay Community News 1977

    Acknowledgements:

    Segment Participants:
    Kate Buckman
    Jon Midura
    Myles Mickle
    Michael Bruno

    Interviewee:
    John Moisis*
    Special Thanks:
    HB Lozito, Out In the Open: for giving us permission to use clips from their *audio
    clips from their 2017
    Andrews Inn Oral History Project and for acting as a sounding board for the
    concept of this show and reading through the scripts for content and tone. For more information
    about OITO, check out their website,
    www.weareoutintheopen.org.

    Music and Sound Effects: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound, LLC
    George’s Sandbox- Magnus Ludvisson
    In the Spirit of Cannes - The Flax
    Some Autumn; His Old Lover - Leimoti
    Something to Someone - Bireli Snow
    Happy Minor Waltz - Franz Gordon
    Bobby Swing - Bladverk Band

    PREL Dron 16; 80

    Photos:
    Rockingham Free Public Library
    Brattleboro Reformer
    Gay Country News

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    Episode 8: Identity, Part 1 Jun 01, 2023
    Show notes

    After how many years??? Finally!

    Part 1 of 6, the "Identity" series explores the history of Andrews Inn, the first and at the time, the only gay bar in the state of Vermont (1973-1984). We begin with a discussion about why is knowing this little slice of LGBTQ+ history so important.

    Episode 8: Identity, Part 1 Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    View fullsize BF Square: 1900-1912
    BF Square: 1900-1912 View fullsize VT State Historic Marker
    VT State Historic Marker View fullsize Hotel Windham
    Hotel Windham View fullsize Second Floor Hallway
    Second Floor Hallway View fullsize Charity and Sylvia's Grave
    Charity and Sylvia's Grave

    Acknowledgements:

    Segment Participants:
    Alan Fowler
    Kate Buckman
    Jon Midura
    Myles Mickle
    Michael Bruno
    Interviewees:
    Florence Golec
    Kate Butt
    Kelly Michaelson

    Special Thanks:
    Alan and Pat Fowler, owners of the Hotel Windham: for letting us look around the Hotel

    HB Lozito and Eva Westheimer, Out In the Open: for giving us permission to use clips from their audio
    clips from their 2017
    Andrews Inn Oral History Project and for acting as a sounding board for the
    concept of this show and reading through the scripts for content and tone. For more information
    about OITO, check out their website,
    www.weareoutintheopen.org.

    Music and Sound Effects: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound, LLC

    Photos:
    Gail Golec
    Kate Buckman
    Rockingham Free Public Library

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    True Crimes from Olden Times - Episode 1: The Farmhand's Awful Work Jun 14, 2022
    Show notes

    Here at TSLOD, we are excited to announce a new podcast collaboration with Caitlin Abrams (of TikTok cemetery fame with her fantastic gravestone cleaning/story telling videos as Manicpixiemom). I interviewed Caitlin last summer (Episode 9: Taphosphere) and frankly, we hit it off! Caitlin and I both cover cemeteries but in different ways, so we had the idea to join forces (like Superman and Batman in the Justice League) and do a little spin-off show of our own (like Joanie Loves Cha-chi spun off of Happy Days - except our show would be good …woof!)

    Caitlin and I will be discussing some of the stories about historic crime and such that we’ve come across while doing our respective research projects in this new series we’re calling TSLOD Presents: True Crimes from Olden Times.

    In this first episode, we’ll be talking about the 1913 double murder of Walter and Katherine Nichols in West Guilford, VT. We’ll get into the details about the crime, its effect on the local community and of course, we’ll be talking about cemeteries and the gravestones of the Nichols and that of the person who murdered them.

    True Crimes from Olden Times: Ep 1 "The Farmhand's Awful Work" Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    View fullsize Katherine and Walter Nichols
    Katherine and Walter Nichols View fullsize Nichols Gravestone
    Nichols Gravestone View fullsize Walter and Katherine's Markers
    Walter and Katherine's Markers View fullsize Erving L. Wrisley
    Erving L. Wrisley View fullsize Wrisley's Gravesite
    Wrisley's Gravesite View fullsize Erving/Irving Wrisley
    Erving/Irving Wrisley

    Acknowledgements:

    Music and Sound Effects: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound, LLC
    Park Avenue Stroll by The New Fools
    When the Sun Shines by Golden Age Radio

    Photos:
    Gail Golec
    Gail Lynde
    Brattleboro Daily Reformer

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    Caitlin Abrams
    TikTok, Instagram


    Episode 10: Neighborhood Apr 19, 2022
    Show notes

    Taphophiles are a very niche group of enthusiasts. And so, it stands to reason that podcasts that cater to a niche market are even more nichey. That’s okay. The little gang of cemetery podcasters out there feels warm and homey, even if we’re generally dealing with dead people.

    Normally, dealing with dead people all day would be a fine thing but at the end of the past two pandemic-stricken years, even I am looking to have more interactions with the live variety of human. And what better way to bridge these two lands of cemetery podcasting and wanting to talk to a real person than to talk to a cemetery podcaster? So neat and tidy.

    Episode 10: Neighborhood is an interview I did with fellow cemetery podcaster, Liz Clappin from TOMB WITH A VIEW PODCAST. We had a great time talking together - Liz is an urban planner for the city of Altanta, GA and takes her knowledge about culture, history and cemetery issues into the streets, if you will. She has some really interesting ideas about how to incorporate cemeteries into a modern and growing city as well as how to utilize historic burying grounds to revililize existing communities.

    This episode is about making connections in this world - between cemetery podcasters; between communities and their history; and between the modern world and the world yet to come. We don’t have to repeat the mistakes of the past - and Liz has some ideas that could save us all.

    Episode 10: Neighborhood Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    Special Thanks for this Episode:
    Interviewee: Liz Clappin of TOMB WITH A VIEW PODCAST
    Follow Liz’s work on Instagram @tombwithaviewpodcast
    Music: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound, LLC
    Playful Mischief by Josef Falkenskold
    A Touch of You by Oakwood Station
    In the Spirit of Cannes by The Flax
    Bobby Swing by Baldverk

    Sound Effect: PREL Drone 16
    Wind Chimes 16


    Episode 9: Taphosphere Dec 20, 2021
    Show notes

    Taking a break on the finishing touches on Episode 8: Identity to round out the year, with a new show, Episode 9: Taphosphere! This one is F.U.N!

    When I met cemetery internet sensation, Caitlin Abrams, for the first time this fall, I felt like I had known her forever. We “knew” each other, as only two people who share and interest boarding on obsession can - our shared love of historic New England cemeteries unknowingly connected us through the ether - this world of like-minded cemetery weirdos that I call the “TAPHOSPHERE”.

    Caitlin has taken the world by storm with her videos of cleaning historic gravestones throughout VT and eastern NY, while telling the stories of the people in those graves (her work can be found on TikTok @Manicpixiemom and Instagram @stonedinnewengland).

    In September of 2021, she was kind enough to show me some of her cleaning work at the Old Pawlet Cemetery in Pawlet, VT and the two of us gabbed and jabbered away about all things cemetery! And we made some very interesting connections between some gravestones I had seen over in NH to what we saw in the Old Pawlet Cemetery — Caitlin is going to be making some TikTok videos describing what we discovered! [CROSSOVER ALERT!!!] You can find a teaser for Caitlin’s upcoming videos about HERE and more to come after the new year.

    Just some notes about the episode:
    —if you’ve ever wanted to be a fly on the wall while two weirdos nerd-out over something they both really like, this conversation
    between two new/old friends about cemeteries, is for you!
    —Caitlin often refers to “VOCA” doing work in the Old Pawlet cemetery: VOCA stands for the Vermont Old Cemetery Association, a
    volunteer group that encourages the preservation and restoration of Vermont’s cemeteries. For more information about the group,
    please check-out VOCA’s website.
    —the cleaning chemical Caitlin refers to is called “D/2” and it is a “biological solution” this is, as Caitlin says in our conversation the
    “gold standard for safe gravestone cleaning”.

    For those of you who would like to know more about Caitlin Abrams work, she’s done a number of interviews with professional news outlets (I prefer to keep my “amature” status so that I may one day compete in the News Outlet Olympics) that you can listen to here:
    Vermont Public Radio (VPR)
    Insider.com
    WCAX TV
    VICE Channel

    Episode 9: Taphosphere Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    The Old Pawlet Cemetery
    The Old Pawlet Cemetery Zerubabbel Collins
    Zerubabbel Collins Daniel Branch
    Daniel Branch Experimental Soul Effigy
    Experimental Soul Effigy Caitlin Abrams
    Caitlin Abrams Jonathan Willard
    Jonathan Willard Willard Stone, Close-up
    Willard Stone, Close-up Cleaning Kit
    Cleaning Kit

    Special Thanks for this Episode:
    Interviewee: Caitlin Abrams
    Follow Caitlin’s work on TikTok @Manicpixiemom and Instagram @stonedinnewengland
    Photos: Gail Golec
    Music: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound
    “Only the Wise Know” by Headlund
    “Evening Song”
    “In the Spirit of Cannes” by The Flax
    “Bobby Swing” by Bladverk


    Episode 8: Identity, Charity and Sylvia Teaser Sep 06, 2021
    Show notes

    Turns out, in the process of podcastery, a lot of extra audio material gets left of the cutting room floor, so I’ve taken some of that extra stuff and cut together another “teaser”/”pre-show” show.

    So come along and visit the Weybridge Hill Cemetery with me and TSLoD cemetery adventure team (CAT) as we explore the grave sites of Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake. Charity and Sylvia were a same sex couple who lived together in Weybridge, VT between 1809-1851.

    Side note: we’re in the final stages of production for the upcoming, long awaited and long suffering TSLoD Episode 8: Identity series - about Andrews Inn, the first gay hotel/bar in the state of Vermont (1974-1982). This series is slated to come out this fall, so please stay tuned.

    Episode 8: Identity, Charity and Sylvia Teaser Gail Golec Download

    Transcript

    View fullsize Drake Family Plot
    Drake Family Plot View fullsize Gravestone of Charity and Sylvia
    Gravestone of Charity and Sylvia View fullsize Drake Family Monument
    Drake Family Monument View fullsize Drake Monument, Close-up
    Drake Monument, Close-up View fullsize Drake Monument, Bryant/Drake Stone
    Drake Monument, Bryant/Drake Stone View fullsize Stones and Flowers
    Stones and Flowers View fullsize Scenery
    Scenery View fullsize A Perfect Day
    A Perfect Day View fullsize Fields and Mountains
    Fields and Mountains View fullsize River, Microphones and Graves
    River, Microphones and Graves View fullsize Eternal View
    Eternal View

    Special Thanks for this Teaser:
    Cemetery Adventure Team: Kate Butt, Kelly Michaelson, River the Dog
    Photos: Gail Golec and Kelly Michaelson

    Music: provided with permission by Epidemic Sound
    “In the Spirit of Cannes” by The Flax
    “Only the Wise Know” by Headlund
    “Outward Bound”
    “Evening Song”
    “Brother’s Magic”
    “Bobby Swing” by Bladverk
    “A Touch of You” by Oakwood Station


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