First before anything else, any courses, any study, you have to work on your mindset.
When I first started to build a multiple 7-figure business, I was all into strategy - wealth creation, seminars, events, coaching but not seeing the results, That's when I realised that I had to do the inner work.
I focused on me. I worked and upskilled myself. I was all about mindset and energy and then, That's when it all started to shift.
People started watching me, They noticed that things in my life were starting to gel, To work and to change, So they asked:
"What are you doing that has made this change in your life?"
So I told them - I started sharing what I was doing, then people that I had helped, Came back and shared that the things that I had helped them with, Had completely changed their lives
That was the AH HA! moment. That moment when I truly felt my sense of purpose and the POWER and self-affirmation that I felt from that self-knowledge was incredible.
I never set out to be a life coach it happened by default. I think IT found me, Because I was ready, Open and I had done the mindset work.
Now, the biggest issues around all of this in the beginning, The thing that slowed me down, Was that I was so unaware of the internal game. I was so busy looking outwards for the answers.
I was fixated on how to's - how to invest in property, How to build a business strategically, I was looking so far outside of myself.
Then I was told by my mentor, "Regan, you've got this all backwards... 80% of success is the INTERNAL game, 20% is what you do on the outside."
WOW! When I GOT that and started focussing on the 80% and started really working on the inner strategy, On the internal work, That's when it ALL came together.
The results came so quickly, I had accelerated them.
It's about daily routines, Tuning into what you really need each day, And going off your intuition and feelings to really set up your day.
You need a tool kit specifically set to you.
Then there's FEAR, Even when you are really successful, Beyond what you had ever hoped for, The fear is still there, So you have to learn how to dance with it if you ignore the fears or try and numb or push them away… You will receive what you are fearful of.
The game is to look the fear in the eye and understand why the fear is there. Fear shows up in our unconscious mind to keep us safe. You need to acknowledge the fear, Keep moving forward, But don't allow it to paralyse or distract you. Keep control. Deal with it now.
What if you find yourself checking all the boxes, Doing all the stuff, And it's not working?
What then?
Check your mindset. It's organic, it's intuitive. The most successful people follow their intuition. They devise their tool boxes for their personal growth and development, Whilst keeping an ear on what is coming up that is good for them.
Listen to the pulls and nudges….
What is that? I'm curious about this... Use that curiosity to tune in.
In my journey, When I didn't listen to the pulls and nudges, And constantly sought answers outside of myself, That's when things went slow or didn't go well.
Be aware… Listen internally and realise that you have insight.
It's a BIG lesson, Don't look left, Don't look right, Don't be distracted.
In terms of products and services, First check your value, Is there a need?
What feels amazing about the marketing? Are live events your thing? Or on-line? Tune in what works best for you? Check your alignment. It's about listening to what's within. Trust.
Ask yourself, Does this feel out of alignment, Or are you listening to the fear? What's the main thing?
What's the message? Keep the main vision clear and know what you want and know where you want to go how are you being energetically every day?
Be really clear on what you want. The BIG VISION. But be aware that the BIG VISION is fluid and it can change it's not set in concrete and as you grow, It will too.
Grow, morph and change - for your needs.
The main message is that you absolutely can have it all! You can have it on your terms; Whatever you desire can, in total reality, be yours.
Whatever your BIG VISION is… Your products, services or financial growth of an existing business…. It can be yours.
Ask yourself, what do I want? How do I want it to work?
Then do the internal work to align with that… Trusting that anything that you then do on the outside will align with that and take you there.
The only thing stopping it being a reality is YOU.
And remember, You absolutely can have it all!
Regan x
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