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Q&A Part: IV Oct 13, 2026

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We answer listener questions about choosing a career, feeling exhausted by family, and responding when a church celebrates what Scripture calls sin. We talk about seeking God’s will with a Kingdom mindset, paying attention to your gifts, working hard, and learning to recognize both open and closed doors. We also explore healthy rhythms in family relationships, the difference between normal exhaustion and deeper dysfunction, and why believers are called to love people deeply without compromising biblical truth.

QUESTIONS

How can you tell the difference between a good opportunity and a God-led opportunity?
What might be at the root of your exhaustion with the people closest to you, and what healthy rhythm or heart change could help?
How can you respond with both conviction and compassion when something grieves you because it conflicts with God’s Word?

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· Seeking first the Kingdom of God in Matthew 6:33

· Presenting yourself to God and discerning His will in Romans 12:1–2

· Seeking wisdom and counsel in Proverbs 11:14 and James 1:5

· Jesus withdrawing to pray and be with the Father in Luke 5:16

· Putting away bitterness, anger, harsh words, and slander in Ephesians 4:30–32

· Speaking the truth in love in Ephesians 4:15

Hope After Infidelity Oct 06, 2026

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We answer a painful question about rebuilding a marriage after years of betrayal and unfaithfulness. We talk about confronting sin honestly, removing influences that keep sexual sin and fantasy alive, surrounding your marriage with godly community, and getting biblical help when the hurt runs deep. Healing does not come from “falling back in love” but from choosing love, forgiveness, repentance, and obedience to God’s design. Even when a marriage feels dead, God can breathe life into what looks beyond repair.

QUESTIONS

What needs to be confessed, removed, or changed in order for healing to begin in your marriage?
How does defining love as a choice rather than a feeling change the way you respond to hurt, disappointment, or betrayal?
What would it look like to surround your marriage with the church, wise counsel, and other supports instead of trying to heal alone?

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The enemy seeking to steal, kill, and destroy in John 10:10
Confessing sin and receiving God’s forgiveness and cleansing in 1 John 1:9
Love as patient, kind, selfless, forgiving, hopeful, and enduring in 1 Corinthians 13:4–7
Guarding against adultery and sexual sin in Proverbs 5–7
Forgiving others as God has forgiven us in Ephesians 4:31–32 and Colossians 3:13
The importance of gathering with and being strengthened by the Church in Hebrews 10:24–25

The Reality of Darkness Sep 29, 2026

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We talk about the reality of spiritual darkness and why Christians cannot afford to ignore the spiritual battle happening around us. Mental illness, trauma, and human brokenness are real, but Scripture also teaches that evil, demonic oppression, temptation, and spiritual strongholds are real. We explore how unrepentant sin can give the enemy a foothold, why believers must avoid both obsessing over darkness and pretending it does not exist, and how God equips us to fight through His Word, prayer, repentance, and the power of the Holy Spirit. Darkness is real, but Jesus is stronger.

QUESTIONS:
- Where might you be dismissing a spiritual battle as purely physical, emotional, or circumstantial?
- Is there any unconfessed sin, bitterness, anger, or other area of your life that could be giving the enemy a foothold?
- What would it look like for you to “armor up” and actively fight darkness with the tools God has given you?

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- The strong man and the One who is stronger in Luke 11:21–22
- The devil prowling like a roaring lion in 1 Peter 5:8–9
- Putting on the full armor of God in Ephesians 6:10–18
- Not giving the devil a foothold in Ephesians 4:26–27
- Taking every thought captive and tearing down strongholds in 2 Corinthians 10:3–5
- Jesus confronting demonic oppression and healing in Luke 13:10–16

Q&A Part III Sep 22, 2026

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We answer listener questions about friendship transitions, parenting strong-willed boys, healing from patterns you do not want to release, and building prayer into family life. From examining your own heart in changing relationships to disciplining children with purpose, renewing your mind through Scripture, and making prayer a natural rhythm at home, we look at how God’s Word brings clarity to the questions we carry. Peace is not the absence of questions, it is learning to walk through them with God.

QUESTIONS

How can you navigate a changing friendship with gratitude, wisdom, and a willingness to examine your own heart?
What habit, desire, or pattern do you know needs to change even though part of you does not want to let it go?
What could you do to make prayer and biblical truth more natural rhythms in your family life?

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Examining the log in your own eye before the speck in someone else’s in Matthew 7:3–5
Iron sharpening iron in Proverbs 27:17
Disciplining and instructing your children in Ephesians 6:4 and Hebrews 12:5–11
Presenting your body as a living sacrifice and renewing your mind in Romans 12:1–2
Hiding God’s Word in your heart in Psalm 119:11
Teaching God’s truth throughout everyday family life in Deuteronomy 6:4–9

A Week To Remember Sep 15, 2026

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We reflect on a week marked by two heavy anniversaries: 25 years since the September 11 terrorist attacks and one year since the assassination of Charlie Kirk. We talk about remembering evil honestly, viewing current events through a biblical lens, and recognizing the spiritual battle beneath what we see around us. From Charlie Kirk’s public faith and the response to his death to the lasting impact of 9/11, we challenge believers to stand firm in truth, reject fear and accusation, and remain faithful even when following Christ comes with a cost.

QUESTIONS

When tragedy or evil dominates the news, what shapes your response first: culture, emotion, or Scripture?
Where might God be asking you to stand firm in truth even when it comes with a cost?
How can you recognize evil clearly without partnering with hatred, fear, or accusation?
What does it look like for you to “never forget” and keep moving forward on mission with God?

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Our struggle not being against flesh and blood in Ephesians 6:10–12
Recognizing people by their fruit in Matthew 7:15–20
The accuser of the brethren in Revelation 12:10–11
Not giving the devil a foothold in Ephesians 4:26–27
Forgiving others because God forgave us in Ephesians 4:32 and Colossians 3:13
Shepherds guarding and leading the flock in Acts 20:28–31 and 1 Peter 5:1–4
The Word of God as living and sharper than a two-edged sword in Hebrews 4:12
Counting the cost of following Christ in 2 Timothy 3:12 and John 15:18–20

The Art of Not Burning Bridges Sep 08, 2026

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We talk about relational patterns that turn disagreements into permanent divisions, including unrealistic expectations, avoidance, passive-aggressive communication, gossip, pride, and unresolved offense. Through the conflicts of the apostle Paul with Peter, Barnabas, and Mark, we see that it is possible to confront wrongdoing, disagree strongly, and even go separate ways without destroying the relationship. Humility, honest communication, personal responsibility, and a commitment to peace can preserve trust and leave the door open for future reconciliation.

QUESTIONS

How do you typically respond when conflict or disappointment enters a relationship?
Where do you need to own your part in a conflict, even if the other person never does?
How can you speak with honor about someone even when the relationship has changed?

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Working for peace in Matthew 5:9
Confronting conflict with truth and humility in Galatians 2:11–14
Receiving honest correction from a faithful friend in Proverbs 27:6
Handling sharp disagreement without dishonor in Acts 15:36–40
Speaking well of people after conflict in 1 Corinthians 9:6 and 2 Timothy 4:11
Living at peace as much as it depends on you in Romans 12:18

Letting Go: Processing In Real Time Sep 01, 2026

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As we prepare to become empty nesters, we process our thoughts and feelings about grief, changing roles, and the different ways we walk through transition. We share how to make room for the sadness without allowing it to determine your direction, fill the silence with God’s presence, and intentionally invest in your marriage and purpose. No matter what you are being asked to release, the way you let go will shape what comes next.

QUESTIONS

How are you responding to the natural changes taking place in this season of your life?
How can you make room for grief without allowing it to determine your direction?
What are the new quiet spaces revealing about your relationship with God, your spouse, or others?

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Letting go of one season to follow God into the next in Matthew 16:24–26
Grieving with others and honoring their emotions in Romans 12:15
Husbands living with understanding toward their wives in 1 Peter 3:7
Filling quiet seasons with God’s presence and wisdom in Psalm 46:10 and James 1:5
Keeping your marriage intentionally strong in Genesis 2:18 and Ecclesiastes 4:9–12
Releasing what you cannot keep to receive what God has next in John 12:24–26

Why Does God Care About My Money? Aug 25, 2026

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Is tithing still biblical for Christians today, or was it only an Old Testament practice?

We look at the pattern of giving throughout Scripture, from the Garden of Eden and Abraham to Malachi, the teachings of Jesus, and the early church. We discuss why tithing is ultimately not just a money issue but a matter of trust, worship, and the position of our hearts. We also share what it means to give God our first and best, support the local church, and experience the freedom and blessing that come from following His design for our finances.

QUESTIONS

1. What does your approach to money reveal about where you place your trust?

2. Are you giving God your first and best or only what feels comfortable or manageable?

3. Where is God asking you to trust Him more fully with your finances?

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· Abraham giving a tenth to Melchizedek in Genesis 14:18–20

· Jacob’s commitment to give God a tenth in Genesis 28:20–22

· Bringing the full tithe into God’s storehouse in Malachi 3:8–12

· Choosing between serving God and money in Matthew 6:19–24

· Jesus affirming tithing while emphasizing the heart in Matthew 23:23

· Giving regularly through the local church in 1 Corinthians 16:1–2 and 2 Corinthians 9:6–8

Backyard Idols Aug 18, 2026

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We expand on Sunday’s message and ask a challenging question: What are we bowing down to without even realizing it? Small compromises can grow into powerful idols that shape our hearts, our homes, and even future generations. From relationships and success to sports, politics, and cultural influences, we examine the modern idols competing for our worship—and what it looks like to tear them down and put God back on the throne of our hearts.

QUESTIONS

1. What is quietly competing with God for first place in your heart?

2. Where have you allowed a small compromise to grow into something more powerful?

3. What practical step can you take this week to tear down an idol and put God back at the center?

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· Gideon tearing down his family’s idols in Judges 6:25–32

· Putting no other gods before the Lord in Exodus 20:1–6

· The danger of idolatry and spiritual compromise in 1 Corinthians 10:14–22

· Guarding your heart from misplaced worship in Proverbs 4:23

· The trap of fearing and elevating people in Proverbs 29:25

· Finding true satisfaction in God alone in Psalm 37:4; James 1:17

Life Is Better with Honor Aug 11, 2026

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We discuss the power of honor in a culture trained for dishonor. From marriage and parenting to every other relationship, honor changes the way we see and treat people made in the image of God. We must learn to reject sarcasm, accusation, gossip, and contempt and begin building relationships marked by truth, grace, humility, and respect. Dishonor blocks the work of God in our lives, but honor creates an environment where He can move.

QUESTIONS

Where are you most tempted to treat someone lightly instead of seeing them with the weight and dignity God gives them?
How can you speak truth in love without slipping into accusation, gossip, flattery, or blind loyalty?
What would it look like to build a culture of honor in your home, church, workplace, or friendships?

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Jesus being dishonored in His hometown in Mark 6:1–6
Outdoing one another in showing honor in Romans 12:9–10
Speaking the truth in love in Ephesians 4:15
Honoring God with your body as the temple of the Holy Spirit in 1 Corinthians 6:19–20
Honoring parents and spiritual leaders in Exodus 20:12 and Hebrews 13:17
Covering others with love and grace in 1 Peter 4:8

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