The Obedient Rebel

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The Surprising Benefits of Letting Go Jan 17, 2023

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Are you about to surrender? Because I already have… TBH, I’ve been living like that for quite some time.

Sincerely, as we navigate through these uncertain times with so much shifting and suffering in the world, it can be difficult to see a path towards a prosperous life.

But what if we told you that the act of surrender might be the key to unlocking abundance?

I know when we hear the word “surrender,” we probably think of defeat or giving up. But in reality, surrender is about letting go and accepting the present moment. It's about being open to something better coming along instead of clinging to a certain idea or vision of what we want.

It may seem counterintuitive, but surrendering can lead to a state of mind where we can receive and enjoy all the good that life has to offer. And I know what I’m talking about… and what I’ve been practicing for years… and what you can do too.
I know, I know - I didn’t live in your shoes. But believe me, I was wearing very similar ones before I learned how to tap into the power of surrender and let go.

And not only that I’m going to share my secret (well, it’s not really a secret, but it sounds powerful, lol), but I also have a fabulous guest (my soul sister) to help me explore the concept of surrender and abundance, and how it can help us navigate through uncertain times.

She’s Grace Redman, an entrepreneur who has owned and managed one of the most successful staffing firms in the Bay Area for over 20 years. She is also a success and transformation coach and the author of the best-selling book, Can I Live?!: Dare to Go from F*cked Up to Fabulous.

Grace has faced many adversities, but they didn’t stop her from achieving personal and professional success. On the contrary, she gained wisdom and experience.

Now she works with ambitious heart-centered women to help them elevate their confidence, optimize their talents, achieve their goals, and increase their prosperity mindset. As a result, they create the fabulous life they have been dreaming of and inspire other women to do the same!

In this week’s podcast, we'll discuss the power of letting go, being open to better, and trusting the Universe. We'll also provide you with practical tips and exercises that you can use to help you on your way to prosperity.

If you're ready to unlock the secrets of abundance through surrender, tune in for this week’s episode!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- Who is Grace Redman? (01:16)

- How to get abundance from the point of surrender (02:42)

- You can't be in the lack and the gratitude at the same time (06:04)

- Grace’s advice to raise your vibration (07:43)

- What’s in Grace’s book? (11:55)

- Grace’s journey to prosperity (13:23)

- Why is self-forgiveness key to creating a prosperous life? (15:41)

- When we’re hurt, we blame ourselves (18:37)

- How to thrive and see the light through even the darkest times (22:57)

- How to connect with Grace (24:39)

Additional resources:

Go and get Forgiveness Self Hypnosis Audio, a fabulous freebie that Grace has prepared for you

Check out Grace’s podcast Real Talk with Grace.

📖 Grace’s best-selling book: Can I live!? Dare to Go From F*cked up to Fabulous can be purchased on Amazon.

Learn how to recognize misalignment and align yourself with your desires. Save your spot for my 2-day live event.

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity, and let us help you on your prosperity journey.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

The Prosperity Approach is a podcast showing ambitious, God-centered women how to master their inner game so they can lay down the struggle, manifest their dreams, and LOVE life as they go.

Follow the podcast on your favorite app so you never miss an episode!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

Make Your Business & Relationships Flourish Leading With Feminine Energy Jan 10, 2023

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“I think you are perfect for me. But I don't think I'm perfect for you.”

It may seem like a compliment, but that’s something I heard from my husband once… And it hurt me a lot because deep down, part of me agreed with him. But it wasn't his fault. That was the way I was approaching our marriage.

No, I wasn’t telling him that he was not enough or anything like that, but because I played all the roles a man should play without allowing him to support me as a woman. In that period, I was spending all my time in masculine energy, so that we virtually swapped our roles.

And it wasn’t fun or enjoyable at all… Neither of us was satisfied. But then I started learning more about leading with my feminine, and things changed forever in our relationship. And that reflected on my business massively. And on all other parts of my life.

So today, I’m going to talk about the practical benefits of leading with feminine energy and how it can affect your business and relationship in powerful and positive ways. What’s more - I have a perfect guest to unpack the topic with.

She is a keynote speaker and international and USA Today bestselling author Melisa Keenan.

Melisa is the go-to intuitive intimacy expert for the top 1%. She helps high-achieving business owners have more confidence, connection, ease, and trust in their personal relationships through the mastery of intimacy and masculine/feminine energy.

More than just a 4-year coach or a certified master of the Gibson-Banning method, Melisa is a true expert on healing broken and strained relationships, starting with her own.

Having overcome separation from her husband and the hurt of betrayal and ultimately rebuilt and repaired her marriage, Melisa now has supported women, men, and couples to feel seen, heard, cherished, appreciated, and fully self-expressed in their relationships while expanding their business.

Check out this episode, as we’re sharing a lot about leading with feminine energy and how to use it to heal relationships with other people (and your business, if you will).

So let’s dive in immediately!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- Who is Melisa Keenan? (01:27)

- Why marriage is the only institution that will stand the test of time (02:58)

- I didn't know how to be the woman in the relationship with my husband (05:02)

- The biggest risks to wearing too many hats (08:06)

- How to “unplug” from your business (12:43)

- What a woman can do to “feel her feelings” (16:19)

- High levels of success in business vs. successful relationships (19:15)

- Sexual relationship with our business (23:07)

- How can women feel pursued rather than always being the pursuer? (24:16)

- Natural receivers and natural givers (26:28)

- Redefining the role of a provider (30:23)

- How to connect with Melisa (34:49)

Additional resources:

Learn more about leading with feminine energy. Save your spot for my 2-day live event.

Go grab Melisa’s fabulous freebie, The Free Intimacy Guide, Four Steps to Getting More, that will help you connect to the things that matter most to you and remain open and connected in your relationships.

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity, and let us help you on your prosperity journey.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

The Prosperity Approach is a podcast showing ambitious, God-centered women how to master their inner game so they can lay down the struggle, manifest their dreams, and LOVE life as they go.

Follow the podcast on your favorite app so you never miss an episode!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_ .

An Important Decision That Will Make 2023 Your Best Year Yet Jan 03, 2023

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Why New Year resolutions don't work…

How many times have you asked this question? I know I did many times … for years. I mean, it's natural for all of us to want to make positive changes and set goals for ourselves, and New Year is such a perfect moment to make new decisions.

(Don’t get me wrong, every moment is perfect for the right decisions, but we see the beginning of the year as the most convenient time for such a thing.)

However, it's also common for people to struggle to stick to their resolutions, and there are many reasons why this might be the case. I’m sure you’ve read a lot about a bunch of different reasons, but I found one that is above others. (One reason to rule them all, if you will, lol.)

And, of course, I’ve found a way to deal with that and make my New Year resolutions (and all other decisions) work. What’s the best part - this universal decision (to call it that way) applies to all segments of life.

What’s even better part - I’m more than willing to share my secret with you. So, tune in for this week’s episode as I’m revealing the most important decision you can make if you really want life to be different in 2023.

Let’s dive in!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- Why New Year's resolutions don’t work for most people (01:50)

- It took me ten years to get Icicle Lights (03:31)

- The most important decision you can make in the new year (04:36)

- A friendly universe or a hostile Universe? (05:31)

- What new decisions are you going to make ABOUT life this year? (07:52)

- Three new decisions about things for 2023 (09:31)

Additional resources:

Learn how to recognize misalignment and align yourself with your desires. Save your spot for my 2-day live event.

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity, and let us help you on your prosperity journey.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

The Prosperity Approach is a podcast showing ambitious, God-centered women how to master their inner game so they can lay down the struggle, manifest their dreams, and LOVE life as they go.

Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_ .

4 Practical Tips to Realign in Less Than a Minute Dec 27, 2022

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We find ourselves out of alignment regularly. And that's OK. Because we have headwinds, tailwinds, side winds, air pockets, and all other things that cause turbulence along our journey and knock us off course just a little bit.

During this 6-episode alignment series that I’m wrapping up today, we’ve learned that there is a bunch of signs of misalignment - when we’re tense, when we feel “less than,” when we breathe shallowly… and many more.

We’ve also mentioned that it’s essential to realign (or course correct) on a daily basis to avoid hustling, struggling, and grinding on our journey to success. (And that’s something we easily forget to do.)

Since I’m aware that many of you wouldn’t like to spend much time realigning every day (multiple times a day), I’ve prepared four super easy tips to get back into alignment in less than a minute. I’ve done them for years, and they help me realign every single time.

So, are you ready for the hacks that will get you back into agreement with God and alliance/partnership with your goals instead of being like, “They're so much bigger than me”?

Then, tune in for this episode as I’m sharing four practical tips that help me realign ridiculously quickly.

Let’s dive in right now!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- To get out of alignment is OK (01:22)

- Take a deep breath with me (03:10)

- Get into the present moment (06:24)

- What if this works even better than I imagined? (09:34)

- Start looking for God in your life (12:00)

- Learn the new success model for women (16:42)

Additional resources:

Learn how to get back into alignment on a daily basis. Save your spot for my 2-day live event.

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity, and let us help you on your prosperity journey.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

The Prosperity Approach is a podcast showing ambitious, God-centered women how to master their inner game so they can lay down the struggle, manifest their dreams, and LOVE life as they go.

Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_.

The True Reason Why It’s Difficult to Cope With Uncertainty Dec 20, 2022

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Oh, this is soo me!

How many times have you said that when someone shares moments when their reality doesn’t match their expectations? Like when someone ends a crappy day going, “I definitely made that so much harder than it needed to be.”

That “someone” is often me, and I’d usually add: “Alright, next time, when there’s a challenge, I'll remember this, and I'll just realign.” But after some time, it happens again. Yes, I’m not immune to this, despite the things I know (and teach) about the matter.

Why!?

Because it’s so easy to be swept away by circumstances, get hypnotized by uncertainty… and get out of alignment. Yes, but why? (I almost hear this question here.)

Well, you might be surprised! And the reason is the topic of today’s podcast.

So, tune in for this episode as I’m unpacking why it’s easy to get hypnotized by uncertainty, what are the two kinds of uncertainty, and why it's so hard to stay aligned.

I’m also sharing a really simple fix to it, so let’s dive right in!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- Why do we get swept away by drama so easily? (01:41)

- The only constant thing is change… and our resistance to it (02:49)

- Making decisions based on our temptation to stay safe (+ Maslow's triangle) (04:15)

- Staying safe and growing? Is it possible? (06:14)

- What happens when we are misaligned and wrapped up in uncertainty (07:32)

- How can you tell if your brain is running a program (08:53)

- The generous present moment (11:06)

- This is for a high-performing woman who is in charge of her own income (11:52)

Additional resources:

Learn how to recognize misalignment and align yourself with your desires. Save your spot for my 2-day live event.

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity, and let us help you on your prosperity journey.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

The Prosperity Approach is a podcast showing ambitious, God-centered women how to master their inner game so they can lay down the struggle, manifest their dreams, and LOVE life as they go.

Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_ .

How Our Brain Is Keeping Us (Mis)Aligned Dec 13, 2022

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Do you often feel “less than”?

You know that feeling of being not good or capable enough, or when you are in comparison and competition or feeling unfulfilled, or… There are a lot of different symptoms that make us feel “less than” in any way.

But what does it really mean? Well, feeling “less than” is actually the number one indicator that you're not in alignment. It shows up as feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and burned out, like you're in a constant push and massive action.

And who is responsible for this?! The one who organizes absolutely everything in our life - our brain!

Because a part of our brain is designed to keep us safe and comfortable, which can sometimes work against our desires. For example, it may try to protect us from failure or rejection by holding us back from taking action or trying new things.

It may also try to maintain the status quo and resist change, even if the change is necessary for us to achieve our goals. Luckily, there is also an opposite part of our brain that motivates us to succeed!

How to make the latter prevail?

I’m going to tell you in the new episode of the Prosperity Approach as I’m unpacking:

- how to recognize misalignment

- why we feel misaligned

- how to align with our desires again to avoid struggle on our prosperity journey

- what brain parts are holding us back / pushing us to success

Tune in, and let’s dive into the magic role of our brain!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- The #1 sign that you’re out of alignment (01:35)

- What is the brain’s role in keeping us (mis)aligned? (03:27)

- What the amygdala does for us (04:23)

- When the prefrontal cortex fires (06:34)

- Let’s recap (10:52)

- Dive into the new success model for women (11:45)

Additional resources:

Learn how to recognize misalignment and align yourself with your desires. Save your spot for my 2-day live event.

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity, and let us help you on your prosperity journey.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

The Prosperity Approach is a podcast showing ambitious, God-centered women how to master their inner game so they can lay down the struggle, manifest their dreams, and LOVE life as they go.

Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez_ .

The #1 Secret of High-Achieving Female Entrepreneurs Dec 06, 2022

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Let's get on the same page.

I bet all of us have said this sentence like millions of times. And I’m pretty sure we are using it when we want to make some adjustments and get into an agreement or an alliance with another person - a friend, spouse, partner, child, associate, employee… actually anyone.

But what about our dreams and desires? Why do we find it hard to get an agreement or alliance with our dreams? Is it possible to create a kind of partnership with our desires to achieve our goals with ease and joy?

I say, Yes!

And the key is something we’ve been talking about a lot recently. And we’re going to continue that way.
So, the magic word is - alignment! That’s the foundation of the new success model many high-achieving female entrepreneurs (and successful, ambitious women in general) apply to reach their goals without hustle, grind, frustration and burnout.

And this month, I’m going to do a four-episode series about alignment.

Tune in for this episode as I’m unpacking what alignment is, why it is so important to get into it, and what it creates for us as high-achieving women.

Let’s get on the same page with our dreams!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- A great definition of alignment (02:22)

- Getting aligned with another person vs. with our dreams (03:01)

- How to know whether your will and God's will are aligned (03:40)

- Why is it so important to get into alignment? (05:08)

- Why is alignment tricky? (06:23)

- How to continually realign (08:27)

- 2 days of deconstructing the new success model for women (09:54)

Additional resources:

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity and learn how to create alignment in your life on a daily basis.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez.

Get Massive Results Without Taking Massive Action Nov 29, 2022

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Massive action. I don't know about you, but these two words feel like nails on the chalkboard to me. Overarching massive action made me consistently exhausted in the past, so I know what I’m talking about.

I remember I was completely in the masculine energy that period, and it was like:

- Make it happen!

- Figure it out!

- Produce!

- Execute!

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not here to vilify the masculine. It’s the other energy of creation. We got to marry masculine and feminine energies and hit a balance between the two so that they serve each other well on our journey to the life of our dreams.

- So, do we need action? Yes.

- Is it important? Yes.

- Is action first? No.

If you want faster results, you should get out of massive action and get into alignment first. This sounds like a formula… A simple one, I would say. Probably you would say it’s easier said than done…

But I happen to know how to get faster results without taking massive action - and I’m willing to share it with you.

So, tune in for this week’s episode as I’m explaining how to get faster results in any aspect of your life without being frustrated, overwhelmed, burnout, and exhausted.

Let’s dive in!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- Massive action (01:23)

- What is alignment, and how do you align? (03:36)

- Inspired action instead of massive action (05:07)

- Get into agreement with God (08:21)

- Let's have a conversation (09:49)

Additional resources:

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity, and let us help you get massive results without taking massive action.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez.

3 Steps to Creating More Life Alignment on a Daily Basis Nov 22, 2022

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When I was 17, I drove my dad’s gorgeous blue Toyota truck, and I bumped into a curb… Well, he’d probably say “crashed” instead of “bumped,” but the point is that the car got knocked out of alignment, and my dad got the alignment fixed (which cost a little bit).

I remembered this incident, and I started asking myself… When we hit curbs of life and crash into things that knock off our alignment, how can we fix that? How can we become “good mechanics” who are able to put their life back into alignment quickly?

And I don’t mean just big crashes (sensational or traumatic experiences), but also small bumps. As a matter of fact, it's usually the little irritations of the day that knock us out of alignment (lack of sleep, for instance).

So, I’ve prepared 3 steps to create alignment in your life on a daily basis, and I’m sharing them in this week’s episode.

So tune in, and let’s have more life alignment!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- We bump into curbs of life on a daily basis (01:16)

- Raise your level of awareness without judgment (04:08)

- Notice what you're doing and who/how you are being (05:25)

- Marry feminine and masculine to help you create life alignment (06:27)

- We need to align, recalibrate, and course correct all throughout our day (08:12)

- Let's talk! (10:10)

Additional resources:

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity and learn how to create alignment in your life on a daily basis.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez.

Human Design System - A Way to Manifest Easier & Faster Nov 15, 2022

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Astrology, Kabbalah, The I Ching, Hindu-Brahmin chakra system… You have probably heard of at least one or two of these spiritual concepts that are trying to explain different characters of people and the way the Universe works.

They all have some good things that we can accept… But I always felt that something is missing there and that we actually need a system that would combine the best principles of all of the concepts.

And my today’s guest has a solution for this - it is called Human Design. This system brings together principles of The I Ching, astrology, Kabbalah, Hindu-Brahmin chakra system, and quantum physics.

My guest, who is using Human Design to manifest easier and faster, says that it is actually a blueprint for your soul. Each of us is designed and built to exchange energy differently with the Universe. And Human Design shows the way that your soul came in wanting to do things.

So, the person who knows a lot about such a cool thing is Ariana Joy, a human design reader, professional copywriter, and founder of the blog Just Follow Joy.

Ariana helps conscious business owners and soul seekers use their Human Design to drop the “struggle and grind” and create what they want in a way that feels good, whether in their marketing, business, or lives.

Her goal is to show as many people as possible that “follow your joy” isn’t just a nice idea but a roadmap to the success you’ve been looking for.

Today, Ariana is with us, and she explains the different energy types that make up Human Design and why it’s important to know what type of energy you manifest with, so you can more easily and joyfully manifest the life you desire.

You don’t wanna miss this super cool episode.

Let’s dive in!

Key Takeaways:

- Intro (00:00)

- Who is Ariana Joy? (01:32)

- What is Human Design? (02:44)

- How does Human Design help us manifest money and prosperity more easily? (05:22)

- What does it look like to receive more (08:02)

- A splenic Manifestor vs. a Generator (11:40)

- Perspective arrow in Human Design charts (14:31)

- Where to find my Human Design chart? (16:53)

- 5 Human Design types (17:45)

- What energizes you? (24:35)

- How do you know when you're manifesting right? (28:26)

- How to find Ariana (34:55)

Additional resources:

You came here with a built-in success plan for creating what you want in life. Ariana’s Mini Energy Type Guide shows you use it (in less than 15 minutes).

Join our FREE masterclass, 3 Steps to Live In Certainty in this Uncertain Time to learn how to speak things into existence.

Book a free consult call with Team Prosperity, and let us help you on your prosperity journey.

We hang out in the Success Without Struggle Facebook group. Join us and learn all the ways to achieve high levels of prosperity.

Get the free Prosperity Guide and share your story in the Prosperity Experience Facebook group!

I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to subscribe and leave a rating and review.

Don’t hesitate to get in touch: screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram at @allysonchavez.

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