The Modern Lady Podcast

On Letting the Field Lie Fallow Jun 18, 2024

Well, friends, we’ve made it to the end of another amazing year here on The Modern Lady Podcast and it’s time to wrap things up. But as we’ve been winding down this season, we’ve been sensing that perhaps we’re being called to take another longer break from producing the podcast. It’s a natural pull that we seem to collectively sense as summer comes upon us: this desire to pull back, draw ourselves away from the hustle and bustle of the ordinary year, and… breathe! As we wrap up the sixth season of The Modern Lady Podcast, this familiar pull is also accompanied by something else: an invitation to consider the idea of a sabbatical, and letting the fields lie fallow.

The Battle Against Burnout May 21, 2024

'Burnout' is a popular term in our culture today… but do we truly understand it? The truth is that many of us have experienced or are experiencing stress at high levels, all while trying to still keep life firmly on the rails. And when left unchecked, this can quickly lead to burnout. But what is burnout, really? And are there some ways that we can curb it in our own lives? This week, we'll dig into the history of burnout, how to recognize the stages of it and discuss various tips and advice on how to keep it at bay .

[Rebroadcast} Seeking True Self Care Apr 30, 2024

As we settle into the spring season, one theme has been popping up for us here at The Modern Lady, and that is the subject of self-care and what it REALLY means to take good care of ourselves. We're hoping to revisit this topic again on the podcast soon, so we thought it would be a good time to rebroadcast our episode on self-care from back in 2019 first - it's another gem from our very first season of the podcast! While in some ways this episode may sound a bit dated (given how radically our world has changed in the last few years!), we were pleasantly surprised to find that our views on self-care, though perhaps deepened, haven't really changed all that much! So journey back with us today to visit "2019 Michelle and Lindsay" and chat with us about what it truly means to seek sustainable self care! (Originally aired: February 5, 2019)

Spring Trends 2024! Apr 09, 2024

The temperatures are slowly rising, the birds are gradually returning and the Easter season is upon us! It must be spring! And you know what that means, dear listeners: it’s time for our annual Spring Trends episode! What’s in and what’s out in 2024? Well, stay tuned, friends, as we dig into the food, fashion and travel “its and icks” this year!

On the Changing Landscape of Friendship Mar 19, 2024

Cultivating friendships is deep work. Heart-work! But making friends and maintaining relationships can sometimes be easier said than done, especially in today’s society. The desire and search for meaningful friendships remains foremost in many of our lives. And while we look for those who will leave those lasting footprints in our hearts, it’s also important to consider how we too, by our friendship, impact the hearts of others as well! This week, we're chatting about the changing landscape of friendship, including on how we've changed since recording our first episode on the subject in 2020, how technology and AI may have a bigger impact than we think, what Dunbar's Number adds to the equation and how, in spite of all these things, that perhaps the core of what friendship is may not have changed so much after all.

{Re-broadcast} Navigating True Friendship Mar 12, 2024

Join us as we revisit another one of our past episodes! This one is from our very first season of the podcast in 2019. We have been wanting to record another episode on friendship for quite a while now, and are ready to finally dig back in - stay tuned for a brand new episode on friendship next week! In the meantime, though, we invite you to tune in to this episode from Season 1 first. Enjoy!

{Rebroadcast} The Modern Lady Cleaning Compendium Mar 05, 2024

This week, where we live, temperatures are balmy and warm, prompting us to begin thinking about spring cleaning! So we dug through the archives and found one of our favourite episodes, The Cleaning Compendium, from January 2020 to help inspire us:

“This week, Michelle and Lindsay tackle the MANY questions they received from The Modern Lady community and dish the dirt on all things housekeeping! From “The Friday Clean” to “The Five-Minute Tidy”, cleaning with kids to cleaning green, from laundry flow to listener tips and tricks – this truly is the “catch all” of cleaning resources from the ladies!”

Resisting Temptation Feb 27, 2024

Lent is the perfect time to tackle this topic! The reality of temptation in our lives is guaranteed and hard to ignore. Whether it’s avoiding sin, or sticking to a new routine or good habit, the temptation to take the easy road sometimes seems to be omnipresent. But by seeking to understand why we are tempted and how we can overcome it, we believe that we can, indeed, face it with hope!

3 Radical Ways to Transform Your Year Feb 20, 2024

In every generation, there is a desire to be somewhat of a “radical”, to buck the current culture and trends, and to leave our own unique mark on the world. But what if there were radical things we could do, starting today, that had the potential to change our own hearts, strengthen our homes and relationships and that would leave a legacy in light of the eternal? This week, we're discussing three simple things we can do that may be counter-cultural according to the world's standards, but that have the potential to truly transform your new year!

The Holiday Hostess Dec 19, 2023

’Tis (almost) the season! After decking the halls, many of us are welcoming guests into our homes for the holidays! And whether you’re hosting a large family party or an intimate soiree with close friends, the thought and planning that goes into preparing to host can be overwhelming! But what if we reframed hosting this holiday season? From common stressors, to hosting tips, this week, we're chatting about why it's ultimately important that we, as a society, remain open to opening our homes to others and how, then, inviting others in has the potential to be one of the most special and intentional gifts we can give!

{Re-Broadcast} The Modern Lady's Advent Spectacular! Dec 12, 2023

[Originally aired: November 26, 2019] Michelle and Lindsay dive into ALL things Advent and anticipation for Christmas! From when to put up the Christmas tree to comparing Advent with Lent, to eyeballs on a platter to profound devotional reading for the season, the ladies attempt to cover all the bases with their usual humour and research! Join in for a little bit of fun and preparation as we journey through the season of Advent!

Embracing a Softened Life Dec 05, 2023

It's one of the social media trends du jour: #softlife - encouraging us to strive for a life of ease and comfort. For decades, “hustle culture” has been been top of the podium in terms of lifestyle goals. But in striving to get there, we are often left exhausted, depleted and run down - and a hardness begins to settle in our hearts. And the antidote to this may be found squarely within the “soft life” movement and the deep work it invites us to undergo for our own sakes and for those around us. This week, we are chatting about how and why soft living has gripped the imaginations of people all over the world, what it is (and what it is not!), and discuss what makes Advent the perfect time to soften ourselves.

On Dopamine and the Art of Being Fully Alive Nov 28, 2023

Everywhere you look in today’s culture, there is an invitation to escape the uncomfortable and unpleasant things in life, and to indulge instead in things that make us feel good. But when the balance tips too far in favour of complete exclusion of anything other than pleasure, one may have to stop to consider… is this truly the way to long-lasting happiness, or is there an even deeper truth that we may be missing? This week, we are chatting about dopamine detoxes: what we've been hearing and seeing online, and why now might just be the best time to consider doing one!

Contentment, Lagom and Living Life in the Balance Nov 21, 2023

We live in a world of great excess. Advertisements and the media beckon from every corner of our culture to indulge and to seek a life of unbridled luxury. But does this truly make us happy? This week, we are chatting about the art of a balanced life, our quest for contentment and a wonderful Swedish concept called Lagom.

The Modern Lady Throwback: Shouldering Emotional Labour at Home Nov 14, 2023

This week, we are excited to re-release one of our episodes from Season 1 of The Modern Lady Podcast! From the vault: "Life is often made up of all those little moments that come together in big ways. Women throughout history know exactly what those little things are and tend to carry the brunt of the responsibility for taking care of them for their households. In this week’s episode, we respond to an online post discussing emotional labour in marriage and discuss what it is, exactly, and how to put it all into proper perspective." (Originally aired: July 2, 2019)

Loving the House You're In Nov 07, 2023

Home is where the heart is - it’s a message near, dear and familiar to us here in the Modern Lady community! But sometimes, caring for our homes is not always easy - sometimes homemaking is challenging and sometimes, it can feel like our houses, rather than working for us, almost seem like they’re may be doing the opposite. In those moments, it’s time for a pivot: of heart, of hearth and of home! This week, we're chatting about loving the home we're in, our goals and ambitions in preparing and keeping a home full of warmth, love and joy, and what to do during the times when the challenge of it all requires hard work and perseverance!

The History of Hallowe'en Oct 31, 2023

The later days of October introduce a new chill to the air - both in the natural world as temperatures drop and in society as we anticipate Hallowe’en. But there is also stirring within and of the heart for many people around the world because this time of year brings to the forefront of our minds the reality of death and spurs the remembrance of those gone before us. Though at times it can be a contentious discussion, we were fascinated by the real history of Hallowe'en and how what is presented in our culture today may be missing quite a lot of the mark.

Losing Yourself In Motherhood Oct 24, 2023

There’s no doubt that motherhood changes a woman - this has been the experience of mothers all over the world since the beginning of time! But lately, we’ve been hearing more and more talk on the subject of LOSING yourself in motherhood and we’ve been wondering… perhaps there’s more than one way to take that. This week, we're chatting about the voices in a mother's head, matrescence, and how the idea of losing yourself in motherhood could actually help you find yourself in some ways. Also this week, we're so excited to invite a few of our listeners on the podcast for the first time to share THEIR advice to new moms!

Navigating Newstalk Oct 17, 2023

The landscape of the mainstream news and media has drastically changed over the the last two or three decades - from the sheer amount of outlets from which one could get their news, to the pervasiveness of opinion blurring the lines between editorial and journalistic reports, to say that consuming the news is confusing would be an understatement! So where do we even start to navigate our way through the media? This week, we're chatting about news literacy and the necessity of context, and we're sharing our favourite go-to journalistic sources.

Bad Mood Busters Oct 10, 2023

It’s an irksome reality, but true nonetheless: bad moods come for us all. We often talk here on the podcast about the benefits of cheerfulness and the necessity of joy, but… what to do on those inevitable days when we’re just stuck in a funk? We’ve all been there - but sometimes, as we know here on the podcast, knowing more about why we feel or think the way we do, and having some ready tools in our arsenal, can make all the difference!

Keep Going: You're Doing Better Than You Think! Oct 03, 2023

Welcome to Season 6 of The Modern Lady Podcast! We are so excited to be back and chatting wtih you all! This week, we're discussing what it means to be a good person - and why it matters that we persevere in our pursuit to be one. Sometimes, we can be our own worst critics and it’s no secret that we are often hardest on ourselves. But our mindset matters and what lies within us may better than you think!

The Season Five Wrap Up May 23, 2023

Well, friends, it's that time of year again! As we head into June and summer holidays, we're wrapping up season five of The Modern Lady with a much needed update on the podcast, our conference in Wisconsin and a peek into our hopeful summer plans! What are you planning for the upcoming break? Join us to laugh and chat about what we are envisioning for our homes and our hearts, our family culture and our own self-improvement over the next few months, and be sure to share with us your plans for the summer too!

Spring Trends 2023 Apr 25, 2023

It may be hard to believe, but this is our 5th annual Spring Trends episode here on The Modern Lady Podcast!!! The world has changed quite a lot since we first began our yearly commentary on all things new and novel, but one thing has remained the same: the culture informs the trends. It is always fascinating what we learn about our society once we start digging deeper into what is big in the food, fashion and travel industries. So join us this week as we investigate everything 2023: from the Canadian tuxedo to caviar, "set-jetting" vacations to Itameshi cuisine, we are big fans of what is trending right now and we suspect you will be pleasantly surprised too!

A Rousing Easter Special: Handel's Messiah Apr 11, 2023

Happy Easter, dear listeners!

As Christians, we here at The Modern Lady Podcast hold this week, the octave of Easter, in the highest regard - it is a time of great celebration over our salvation and the triumph of Christ over death in His Resurrection! We have decided to honour this holy time by pausing production on our newest episode and instead, revisit a pretty relevant and appropriate Friday Finishing School episode that we released almost a year and a half ago... at Christmas! Handel's Messiah, and his famous Alleluia chorus in particular, was actually originally meant to be performed at THIS time of year, in a sweeping and obvious hymn of praise for the the Risen Christ. But behind the music and the lyrics is a deeply moving story about charity and concern for the most vulnerable in our society - and also, an interesting fact about how one could use the Alleluia chorus to express, not just religious devotion, but political affiliation! We wish you all a very blessed Easter season, and we will be back with a new episode soon!

A Sunday Well Spent Mar 28, 2023

“A Sunday well spent brings a week of content”. So the popular saying goes. And American poet, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow once noted that “Sunday is the golden clasp that binds together the volume of the week.” Even in an increasingly busy and secular society, “Sunday” still has a quality about it that makes it stand out and stand alone. This week, we're digging in to what it means to “Sunday well”, how it is deeply ingrained in our humanity, and why it is imperative to the wellness of our souls!

The Modern Lady Throwback: Playful Parenting Mar 14, 2023

Welcome back to our second "Modern Lady Throwback" episode!

This week, we're pleased to re-release one of our favourite (and fan-favourite!) episodes from Season 2 entitled, "Playful Parenting"!

This week:

"When it comes to playing with our children, it seems we can sometimes be conflicted. We may not always WANT to play house or to play with Legos... and so what do we do when those feelings of duty threaten to drown out the pleasure of spending time with our kids? This week, the ladies discuss play as parents and share some of the childhood memories that inspire them to seek out ways to playfully parent their own crews today. *Stay tuned to the end of the episode for more memories & outtakes!*"

(First aired: May 5, 2020)

The Strength of the Gentle Feb 28, 2023

Life in today’s world and society could easily be described in harsh terms: it can be rough, abrasive and coarse on a soul. And so, if there to be any characteristic worth reviving, it’s clear that the quality of gentleness should be a top contender. And yet, it seems to be one of those things that’s hard to define concretely. This week, we're discussing what it means to be gentle in a world that seems to have lost it's taste for it, why it benefits us and those around us when we practice it, and how exactly we can begin today to cultivate a spirit of gentleness in our souls.

Combatting Stress: Part II Feb 14, 2023

Last week, we dove into the biology behind stress, sensory regulation and what overstimulation can mean for those of us living in our modern day. And while a solid understanding of the underlying issues is critical to redeeming the situation, it’s also true that helpful tips, reframing and advice is invaluable - and between us and all of YOUR input, there is no shortage of fantastic, stress-busting hacks! This week, we are continuing our conversation on stress, and ways we can combat it while seeking peace in our homes, vocations and faith.

Combatting Stress: Part I Jan 31, 2023

From the small, mundane stressors of the everyday to the bigger, more overwhelming worries that can come throughout our lives, it’s simply a fact that many of us encounter stress often. And while we may not be able to always mitigate or erase the pressures completely, we do have more control over how they impact our life overall than perhaps we are aware! This week, we are starting a discussion on stress and how it affects our senses and physiology, some of the ways we can prevent it and share some strategies on how to balance the reality of stress in our lives with the bigger picture.

Be Better...er...er: New Years Resolutions, Part III Jan 17, 2023

Aaaaand we're back!! Happy New Year, one and all!

Once the hustle and bustle of December has settled down, January, in contrast, can seem itself, a bit of a paradox: both a quiet calm after the holiday storm and a whirlwind of newness and resolve! It's an exciting time of year and it's a great chance to reflect on the what we want to do during the upcoming year to promote growth and progress in all areas of our lives. This week, join us for a chat as we discuss our New Years Resolutions for 2023 and our goals for health, family culture, faith and their vocations.

Onwards, In Faith: The Discernment Process - Part II May 24, 2022

In this last episode of Season 4, it all comes down to making decisions with eternity in mind. The 11 Steps of the Ignatian Method of Discernment helps to guide us closer to the heart of God... especially when the decision at hand is a difficult one! This week, Michelle and Lindsay dig deep into these 11 steps, speak about where this process has taken them recently, and what it means for this podcast. As they wind down this season and begin an extended break, they chat about implementing these 11 Steps themselves as they ponder the future of The Modern Lady and where the Holy Spirit might be leading this project next.

Make Good Choices!: The Discernment Process - Part I May 17, 2022

Over the course of our lives, we will have to make a MULTITUDE of decisions ranging from the small and inconsequential, to the big and life-altering. And when it comes to those major life decisions, the process seems that much more daunting. But, good news! There’s a virtue for that! This week, Michelle and Lindsay start the discussion on the process of discernment and how we can develop a character that helps us make good decisions rooted in wisdom!

On "Philoxenia": Hospitality and Welcoming the Stranger May 10, 2022

After the isolation of the last two years, it seems like a good time to brush up on the subject of "hospitality"! But welcoming people in goes beyond the fun of planning and an eye for detail. This week, Michelle and Lindsay explore the virtue of true hospitality through the lense of "philoxenia", a Greek concept that encourages care of and service to neighbour and stranger alike... and how it's deep roots can find their way into our own homes and families.

The Wonderful World of Comfort Creators May 03, 2022

It’s a big world out there. But it’s also a big world in here… in our phones, in our computers and laptops, and we access and connect to so much through social media and the internet! Online presence and usage is a hot topic today for many reasons, not all of them positive or pleasant. This week, Michelle and Lindsay wax poetic about a corner of the internet that IS wonderful and it is on the rise: the world of comfort creators!

On Doing It All and Asking For Help Apr 26, 2022

We wear many hats these days and juggling our lives can sometimes seem like an impossible task. The illusion of a person who can "do it all" appears to be just that - an illusion. No man is an island, after all, and this week, Michelle and Lindsay explore the history, psychology and challenges behind what many experience when they reach out for help... and why we should do it anyway.

The Imaginative Life: Part II Apr 19, 2022

Last week's episode explored the theologican impacts and benefits of developing the gift of the imagination. This week, Michelle and Lindsay dig into how our imaginations have hugely impacted our everyday lives, from science and philosophy to homemaking... and how we can continue to develop it as a way to elevate our day-to-day!

The Imaginative Life: Part I Apr 12, 2022

What an imagination! Such a phrase is often attributed to a fanciful child, lost in the fantasy of deep play. But what if our imaginations are meant to continue on with us beyond childhood? This week, Michelle and Lindsay start part one of two in their discussion around our imaginations and the role it can play in our everyday lives. Part One focuses on where imagination begins: our interior faith lives, and the imaginative genius of God, who models the way.

The Friday Finishing School: The Miserere Mei by Gregorio AllegriAllegri Apr 05, 2022

It is a piece of music that has captured the faith and wonder of all who hear it for centuries - the Miserere Mei, composed by Gregorio Allegri. Originally played exclusively in the Sistine Chapel, the history of this song is, in itself, legendary: as the setting for Psalm 51, it tells the story of King David and his heart-wrenching plea to God for mercy... it has found its place as a cornerstone of Holy Week and Tenebrae services, which have been celebrated by Christians all over the world for centuries... and it found its extraordinary way out of the Vatican by way of another important and well-loved figure of musical history! You'll never guess who! As we continue our journey through Lent this year and come closer to Good Friday and Easter Sunday, we wanted to share this episode from our Friday Finishing School collection and encourage you to use this classic setting as a prayer and meditation as we enter Holy Week next week! We hope you enjoy!

Spring Trends 2022 Mar 29, 2022

It's happening, ladies and gentlemen! The fourth annual Spring Trends episode has arrived! Every year, despite their decidedly "not-an-influencer" statuses, Michelle and Lindsay take a peek into the latest fashion, food and travel fads. From ghost kitchens to Y2K to G.O.A.T vacations, spring and summer 2022 are on trend to be perhaps the biggest and boldest seasons analyzed on The Modern Lady thus far!

Combating Urgency Culture Mar 15, 2022

Modern technology has certainly made many things in our lives easier, but it can come with a unexpected price tag: our constant availability and the pressure to respond in rapid time! This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about the phenomenon of urgency culture, what it is, and how we can curb it in our own lives through discerning silence and embracing the virtue of prudence.

Perseverance, Unity and The Three Pillars Mar 08, 2022

We are one week into Lent 2022 and as we embark on this year's liturgical season, one reminder stands out in particular: we journey together. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about the virtue of perseverance while they explore the three pillars of Lent - prayer, fasting and almsgiving - and how all three unite us to one another and help us mature in our interior spiritual lives.

The Benefit of Reframing Mar 01, 2022

In everyday life at home, there can be highs and lows. We know this to be true, but we often forget that *how* we look at things can sometimes make a world of difference in how we experience them. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about learning the art of reframing: what it is, how it can be an essential tool in our day to day lives, and why it's definitely one that you want in your back pocket!

Remembering The Mission Feb 22, 2022

When in a state of disarray, it can be easy to lose focus and lose heart. And so when times such as ours become confused and chaotic, it serves us well to be reminded of what exactly we are supposed to be doing... and why. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about "the mission" - it's unchanging nature, it's simple (albeit difficult) charge and why it is crucially essential we remember it in our lives and world today.

Beyond Hygge: How to Enjoy Winter Feb 15, 2022

After an extended holiday break, The Modern Lady is back! And we find ourselves now in the thick of mid-winter. This season can be bleak and a challenge to endure, let alone thrive in, but what if there were little things we could do to shift our perspective? This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about what to do when winter seems to outpace your hygge efforts... and how a shift in mindset in a few key areas could help us embrace winter in a whole new way.

The Friday Finishing School: Handel's Messiah Dec 28, 2021

Surprise! And Merry Christmas!

We are still on a short break here at The Modern Lady, but we thought we'd drop our latest Friday Finishing School episode as a special treat into your "digital stocking" and podcast feed! Renown throughout the world, what is Christmas without Handel's stunning and iconic masterpiece, "Messiah"? As one of the most played and storied pieces of music in history, we chat about the three things we think we should know about Handel's Messiah, particularly that spectacular Hallelujah chorus!

The 12 Days of Christmas: Part Two Dec 21, 2021

If you thought that after last week's festivities that Christmas was starting to wind down, think again! Continuing their deep dive into the 12 Days of Christmas, Michelle and Lindsay chat about the history, traditions and symbolism associated with the final days of Christmas to the Feast of the Epiphany on January 6th. From wealthy dairy farmers to the Pied Piper of Hamelin, scandalous Elizabethan era dances to mumming with your Twelfth Night cake, you're sure to end Christmastide with a bang!

The 12 Days of Christmas: Part One Dec 14, 2021

Merrymaking and Feast Days and... BIRDS! Oh my.

The 12 Days of Christmas are truly the epitome of celebration! Beginning on December 25th and lasting until the Feast of the Epiphany on January 6th, each of these twelve days is jam packed with traditions and customs to mark the festive season. In this first part of two episodes dedicated to the 12 Days, Michelle and Lindsay discuss the significance, treats and history behind days 1-6, and how to celebrate this classic carol in style!

"As Darkness Falls": An Advent Reflection Dec 07, 2021

The season of Advent, while certainly a time of much tangible, material and culinary preparation, also requires thoughtful intention in preparing our hearts. This week, we are sharing a short Advent reflection that Lindsay had written five years ago in 2016 entitled, "As Darkness Falls". We hope this short production inspires and encourages you, as it has us, to grow in our awareness of what we are called to prepare for in these weeks before Christmas, in order to anticipate the great Light coming to us in just a few short weeks.

The Engaging Conversationalist Nov 30, 2021

With the holiday season approaching, socials and get togethers are par for the course. Being able to engage well in conversation is truly an art - and it's one that behooves us to brush up on, no matter the time of year! This week, Michelle and Lindsay explore the history and technique of great conversation, from those deep tête-à-têtes to light-hearted small talk!

The Modern Lady's (Second) Advent Spectacular! Nov 23, 2021

Two years ago, The Modern Lady deep dived many beloved traditions of the Advent season, both familiar and perhaps, a little bit unfamiliar. This week, Michelle and Lindsay bring back the Advent Spectacular with a sequel all about "Preparing to Prepare"! What exactly goes into preparing your home, your hostessing and your pursuit of holiness in these weeks leading up to Christmas? From decluttering to gift-giving to serving up the perfect boar's head for your holiday dinner, the ladies have got you covered!

The Freedom of Detachment Nov 16, 2021

Our culture has many ways of describing detachment: "breaking the chains", "setting yourself free", being a "free spirit". But this intrinsic desire to be free from attachments is anything but new! This week, Michelle and Lindsay take a look at how detachment has been sought after throughout the centuries and across disciplines, how to identify the attachments we may be holding onto and what it means to experience freedom in life through healthy and ordered detachment.

The Peace-Filled Home Nov 09, 2021

As we begin to think about the approaching holiday season, the theme of "peace" is often prevalent. And peace, like so many other things, really does begin it's cultivation at home and at heart! This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss the difference between a peaceful home and a peace-filled one, share tips from their own practices and those of their listeners, and try to provide a bit of inspiration on how to set a mood of peace in your house!

{Re-Release} The Necessity of Memento Mori Nov 02, 2021

It's our first ever "Modern Lady Throwback" episode!

"Memento Mori" is a Latin saying which translates to, "Remember Your Death". To our secular and modern minds, this is a jarring and uncomfortable clarion call to be sure, but it is one that we neglect at our own peril. This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss how people have historically practiced "Memento Mori", and why it's necessary for us to remind ourselves often of the inevitability of our deaths.

To Vent or Not To Vent Oct 26, 2021

... That IS the question, isn't it? When it comes to venting, it can be difficult to determine whether we are simply "getting something off our chest" or if it's subtly devolving into something a little less savoury. This week, Michelle and Lindsay explore the boundaries of venting, how it can be done with intention and share some great tips from our listeners on how we can vent properly.

The Art of Coming Home Oct 19, 2021

That moment when you walk back into your home after a day of errands, work or school - is there anything else like it? We all have the opportunity to craft an experience of home that provides comfort, peace and security all at once to those coming back to it! This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about one of their favourite aspects of homemaking: the Homecoming! They also discuss how thresholds, snacks and space contribute to "home as a haven", and take a look at how it's done elsewhere around the world!

Signs of Hope Oct 12, 2021

The virtue and practice of Hope can sometimes be watered down in our culture to an ambiguous platitude - but in truth, being people of true hope has never been more important! This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about what it means to center our lives around hope, why we need to rediscover it's philosophical and theological significance and what kinds of things they see as being hopeful signs of the times ahead.

The Art of Leading Well: Spheres of Influence - Part II Oct 05, 2021

This week, Michelle and Lindsay return to the Sphere of Influence 360's diagram of leadership and communication styles, to wrap up their deep dive into what goes into being a good leader! After relationship is established, clear direction is needed in order to finish out a goal or project well. In this second half of the circle, the ladies focus now on content-based communication and how our forthcomingness in the task at hand can be a gift to those in our homes and beyond.

The Art of Leading Worthily: Spheres of Influence - Part I Sep 28, 2021

It may be an understatement to say that life can seem a little overwhelming as of late! When things seem to be spinning out of control, it may be a good time to remind ourselves of our spheres of influence, and where we can still make a difference. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about influence versus control and how to lead worthily in OUR particular circles: whether at work, in the world, or within your own four walls at home.

Taking The First Step Sep 21, 2021

We all know those days where every task seems monumental and you don't know where to begin. But sometimes, we can't wait until we "feel" like accomplishing a task or working towards a goal... we just need to "get 'er done"! Michelle and Lindsay kick off Season 4 with a conversation on those critical first steps - the ones that will build momentum - and how to implement them in our day to day lives!

Seeking Intentional Rest Jun 15, 2021

In their last episode of Season 3, the ladies wind down with a note on true rest and why it's important to prioritize it in our lives. From tell-tale signs of stress we can look out for, to identifying the particular type of rest you're craving, Michelle and Lindsay sign off for the summer with an encouragement to intentionally carve out that time and space for yourself and your family to refresh, recharge and reconnect! Have a wonderful summer!

The Friday Finishing School: Vermeer's "Girl With A Pearl Earring" Jun 08, 2021

As we begin to wrap up Season 3 of The Modern Lady Podcast, we wanted to share one more peek at the Friday Finishing School before our final episode airs next week and we break for the summer! Several weeks ago, we launched this Friday Finishing School episode on the classic painting, "Girl With A Pearl Earring" by Johannes Vermeer and it has easily become one of our favourite features! Who is she? And who is she looking at? From the Dutch Golden Age to how modern technology is STILL playing a role in the painting today, we dig into the 3 Things We Think You Should Know about Vermeer's masterpiece in this week's edition!

Resting In The Valley (Humility Series, Part Three) May 25, 2021

Wrapping up this three-part series on the virtue of humility, Michelle and Lindsay stay with St. Bernard of Clairvaux as he outlines the degrees and steps needed to descend from the peak of pride into the restful valley of humility of heart! It's been an intense journey and as we've seen, not an easy task by any means... but this kind of deep work is truly a life's work, and is absolutely worth pursuing relentlessly!

Pitfalls of the Proud (Humility Series, Part Two) May 18, 2021

After defining and comparing both secular and religious perspectives of what true humility is, it's time to study it's vice. Knowing the enemy is a critical part of any battle plan and so if we are committed to growing humble, a keen understanding of what pride looks like is essential strategy. Using the 12 Degrees of Pride outlined by St. Bernard of Clairvaux, Michelle and Lindsay take a look at some of the ways we could fall prey to pride today... and where to most be on our guard!

The Mother of All Virtues: Why Humility Is Essential (Humility Series, Part One) May 11, 2021

The virtue of "humility" is often hugely misunderstood in the today's cultural context. Even Forbes.com has acknowledged that "humility is frequently associated with being too passive, submissive or insecure, but (that) this couldn’t be any further from the truth." This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss what that Truth actually is, what practicing humility looks like and why it's so critical that we rediscover the cultivation of it.

On the Dignity of Work May 04, 2021

When we think about "work" today, words like "drudgery", "toil" and "dull" tend to sum up the collective mood. But believe it or not, as human beings, we were MADE for labour and it is meant to sanctify us and elevate our dignity, whether it's at home or abroad. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about the history of work, how labour was always a part of the "plan" and how to view it through a lens that will ultimately leave us satisfied, fulfilled and dignified.

Harnessing the Happiness Hormones Apr 27, 2021

Languishing: a word currently used to best describe what many are feeling after a year of pandemic and lockdown. But perhaps a helpful tool in our conquering of feelings of languish lies closer than we think: in our own bodies! Enter: the Happiness Hormones! This week, Michelle and Lindsay take a closer look at how dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin and endorphins affect our well-being and how we can start to intentionally cultivating them in our day to day lives.

Living Your Legacy Apr 06, 2021

In their 100th episode, Michelle and Lindsay focus on the idea of creating a legacy and filling our lives with a life's work that can be remembered and transmitted through history, both personal and communal. From the hard work to the heart work, from changing generational stories to viewing your life as an essential piece of a bigger picture, the ladies dig into the idea of why we desire to be remembered and how to start building our own legacies starting today.

Keeping It Simple In Family Culture Mar 30, 2021

When it comes to building and cultivating a strong family culture, it can be so easy to become overwhelmed with all the options out there and guilty if you can't make happen what you feel you ought to. This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss how simplicity truly does delight the young (and young at heart!), and share some ideas on how to make it happen in our own homes!

Spring Trends 2021 Mar 23, 2021

Michelle and Lindsay are back with their third annual Spring Trends episode! But don't be fooled! There's more to this episode than you might think! During a year fraught with challenge, trends have not only managed to survive but have adapted to our circumstances in interesting and intriguing ways. As a result, this week the ladies take a fun, rollicking look at the styles and eats "du jour", and chat about the subsequent hard-to-miss commentary on our past year!

The Friday Finishing School: Pachelbel's Canon in D Mar 16, 2021

We are so excited to release a special edition episode of The Friday Finishing School! This week, we're deep diving into Pachelbel's Canon in D (you'll probably recognize it as soon as you hear it!) The Friday Finishing School is an ongoing look into the classical arts and is available every other week, exclusively to our Patreon supporters. In each episode, the ladies present one piece of classical music, art or poetry, and then discuss three things about the piece that will help you in your own appreciation of and ability to talk about the classics. Please consider becoming one of our patrons! You find more information about The Friday Finishing School at www.patreon.com/themodernladypodcast !

Lent + Motherhood Mar 09, 2021

This week, Michelle and Lindsay hope to speak right to the heart of the Mamas! In this mid-Lenten check-in, they seek to offer comfort, support and encouragement to Moms as they discuss the beauty of our vocations as the key to deepening our relationship with Jesus, and how leaning into our motherhood draws us closer to Him BECAUSE of our vocation and duties - not in spite of them!

The "Can't Even" Clean Up Mar 02, 2021

One of our listeners said it best when she described the general mood of the past month as the "February Funk-Hole"! It seems to strike every winter, this mid-winter slump... but, as Michelle and Lindsay discuss this week, there are ways to both lean in to what we're feeling while still maintaining a reasonable tidiness at home! This week, the ladies discuss why figuring out a manageable balance for your homemaking will ultimately lift your spirits and share some tips on how to get started!

Make 'Em Laugh! Feb 23, 2021

Having a light-hearted disposition and a sense of humour can significantly impact your day to day life... for the better! This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss the benefits of an intentional life lived lightly and how to cultivate such a perspective right away!

The Necessity of Momento Mori Feb 16, 2021

"Momento Mori" is a Latin saying which translates to, "Remember Your Death". To our secular and modern minds, this is a jarring and uncomfortable clarion call to be sure, but it is one that we neglect at our own peril. This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss how people have historically practiced "Momento Mori", how it ties into Lent and Ash Wednesday, and why it's necessary for us to remind ourselves often of the inevitability of our deaths.

Loving the Skin You're In Feb 09, 2021

The French have a saying: "Être Bien Dans Sa Peau!", which means "to feel comfortable in one's own skin". This is a topic that has taken on so many different forms in today's culture and has sparked a variety of conversations about how we truly see ourselves. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about some of these aspects: from monitoring your inner critic to embracing the aging process, to how millennial girls may be onto something and how ultimately your dignity and worth go far beyond the trends "du jour".

Musings on Little Everyday Luxuries Feb 02, 2021

"Every day is a special occasion!" After all, you woke up this morning, didn't you? This week, Michelle and Lindsay muse about and counter common protests against a practice that may seem difficult as mid-winter looms before us: that is, finding joy and anticipation in our own homes through the little luxuries we find all around us!

Nixing The Blame Game Jan 26, 2021

Pointing fingers and casting blame seems to be commonplace in our culture today - especially online. But playing the blame game does more than just make us downcast and inefficient. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about where blame is appropriate, why eventually we need to decide to do something about the challenges we face and where personal responsibility fits in to all of this!

A Special Announcement from the Ladies! Jan 22, 2021

We here at The Modern Lady Podcast consider it such an incredible honour to be able to bring you this show every week and to be friends in your ear as you commute to work, fold laundry or enjoy a cup of coffee!

After three years and almost 100,000 downloads, we've decided to take the next step and launch a Patreon page to help us offset some of our production costs as we eye up new endeavours and projects we hope to bring to life for The Modern Lady in the near future!

True Self-Awareness Is Key Jan 19, 2021

Before undertaking any new task or project, it's helpful to take a step back and assess where you are in life and what you're starting with! This week, Michelle and Lindsay are back, chatting about developing true self-awareness and how goes beyond our favourite BuzzFeed quizzes! It requires an honest and often difficult look at not only where we thrive, but more importantly, where we need need to grow.

Frantic and Frenzied and Frazzled... Oh my! Dec 15, 2020

It's the most wonderful time of the year (almost)! And while most of us are still busy preparing to celebrate Christmas, it's prudent to pause every now and again to take stock of how YOU are doing. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about feeling the three "F"s of Christmas: frantic, frenzied and frazzled! They discuss how to recognize when they're about to strike, offer tips on how to cope and even how to harness some of this energy into positively helping you in your seasonal endeavours!

HER-Story: Chapter III - Becoming Nigellissima Dec 08, 2020

For us here at The Modern Lady Podcast, it is not *fully* the Christmas season until we have indulged in all of Nigella Lawson's holiday cooking specials! But what you may not know is how Nigella became NIGELLA... and how the life and career of this accomplished, world renown gastronome was inspired by the love of her husband and the strength of their marriage. We are pleased to present this next chapter of HER-Story, a Modern Lady Podcast occasional feature. Please join us for today's tale, and enjoy!

Managing Holiday Expectations Dec 01, 2020

The Christmas season can be stressful during a normal year... This year? Holiday plans have been thrown for loop by current circumstances, but it does not have to rob us of our peace or joy! This week, Michelle and Lindsay are chatting about managing our expectations, while still seeking to make the season truly "merry and bright"!

A Curated Christmas: The Modern Lady's 2020 Gift Guide Nov 24, 2020

'Tis (almost) the season... but many of are already making our lists, trying to get a head start at our holiday shopping! This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about the gifts and items they are eyeing up this year, and discuss how we can "curate our Christmas" to intentionally preserve and elevate our homes and family culture! Whether you're buying for a book lover or a movie buff, a vintage loving soul or a tech aficionado, the young or the young at heart, you'll find something for everyone on our list!

How To Change the World: Part II Nov 17, 2020

This week, Michelle and Lindsay continue their discussion on how our practice of the Corporal Acts of Mercy can transform our culture and the world! When society is in turmoil and it feels like chaos is pressing in around us, we are not helpless! We have our marching orders, so let's get to work!

How To Change The World: Part I Nov 10, 2020

It is difficult to look around us today, at the culture and at the general state of things, and not feel tempted towards feeling helpless. But it is precisely in the midst of confusion and chaos that we are called to uphold the order and dignity of society and of every human life! This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about taking heart and taking action in our own pockets around the world, and how a simple consideration of the whole person can truly have a transformative, widespread effect.

Praying the Family Rosary Nov 03, 2020

In this special presentation of The Modern Lady Podcast, Lindsay and her husband, Jason, share their testimonies of how the Rosary has transformed their lives, their faith and their family. The Rosary is a Catholic devotional prayer that calls us to meditate on the life of Jesus through intercession of His Mother, Mary. Theirs is a testimony of the graces that flow from devotion to our Blessed Mother and the realities of trying to pray in the context of a busy family, with four young children underfoot!

The Proper Care of You: Opening & Closing Routines Part II Oct 27, 2020

In this follow up episode from last week, Michelle and Lindsay go beyond making the bed and drawing the curtains! This time, it's "personal"! By examining what people have done throughout eras gone by to start and end their day, the ladies chat about how our grooming and hygiene can set the tone for both a productive day and a restful evening - and how attention to detail in these areas contributes to an overall sense of well-being and dignity.

Opening & Closing Routines for Home & Hygge Oct 20, 2020

The rapid approach of hygge season is upon us! A key component of establishing that cozy atmosphere at home is to intentionally put routines in place that ensure a tidy and ordered foundation for all those candles you will be lighting! This week, Lindsay shares how she has adapted some of her experience working in retail, opening and closing up shop, for life in the home!

In Which Gratitude is the G.O.A.T Oct 13, 2020

As we conclude Thanksgiving weekend here in Canada, Michelle and Lindsay spend this week's episode musing on the subject of gratitude! In a culture of instant gratification and a focus on self-satisfaction, it can be easy to slip into a disposition of moping, complaining and ungratefulness. The ladies chat about what it will take to turn it all around in favour of building a culture that is grounded in humility, joy and contentedness that transforms our interior lives and the world around us!

HER-Story: Chapter II - The Dream of a Daring Woman Oct 06, 2020

We are pleased to present another episode of HER-Story, The Modern Lady Podcast's special occasional feature! This next chapter spotlights the journey of a young woman on a Divinely-inspired mission from France to the New World, during the reign of King Louis XIV.

HER-Story is a short story-telling presentation that seeks to highlight remarkable women and their remarkable stories, through history to today. Join us for today's tale and enjoy!

In Pursuit of Order Through A Daily Routine Sep 29, 2020

We need not fall prey to the chaos of the world! The "back-to-school" sentiment of autumn comes with a permeating sense of getting "back-into-routine"! With such a tumultuous year starting to wind down, many of us are feeling a renewed pull towards establishing order in our homes and in our lives. This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss some of the benefits in diligently setting up daily routines and share tips on how to begin the process and how to persevere!

New Years 2.0: Revisiting "Be Better" Sep 22, 2020

Continuing their reminiscing from last week, Michelle and Lindsay take this opportunity to acknowledge September as a "mini-New Years" and revisit their resolution from January 2020: to simply "be better". Clearly, no one could have prepared them for what this year actually had in store, but this week, they discuss some of the ideas they had mused about nine months ago, and how these principles can still motivate us today, even after everything we've experienced in the meantime!

The Finer Things Club Sep 15, 2020

When the culture hits low, we hit high! In February this year, we began the discussion on how our choices in entertainment can make a lasting impact on our families and on society as a whole. Not only are those sentiments still true today, but they may actually be even more relevant now, more than 6 months later! This week, we give an update on how we're still navigating the discernment of entertainment in our homes and give some tips on how to fill the void with the good, the true and the beautiful.

Level Up!: House Cleaning and the Interior Life Sep 08, 2020

Have you felt it lately? The "levelling up" in the world's chaos and unsettledness? Perhaps you've felt, as we have, an interior motivation to respond to the outside disorder with a "levelling up" in our own homes, particularly in our cleaning and organizing. This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss common elements they see between growing through the "Stages of the Interior Life" of Catholic theology and growing through the "Stages of Cleaning Life" through anecdotes and their own personal experiences.

Cultivating a Family Culture Aug 25, 2020

"As goes the family, so goes the nation and the whole world in which we live." (Pope St. John Paul II) We can see throughout history how critical strong family identity and culture is in the wider society, but where does one even begin? And why should it be a prominent discussion in our homes? This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss all the benefits to developing a family culture and share some of their experiences to motivate all of us to persevere in this worthy endeavour!

On Considering Homeschooling Aug 18, 2020

For many families, deciding what to do this school year may have been fraught with worry and unease. In this interim episode, Michelle and Lindsay discuss some of the considerations and philosophies that the Murray family have experienced over their homeschooling journey so far that they hope will help assuage some of the nerves and concerns over heading into a homeschool year like no other!

A Life of Leisure Aug 11, 2020

When you think of the word "leisure", what comes to mind? This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss how understanding true, authentic leisure is more complex than they originally realized and why it is more important than we often give it credit for!

The Homemakers Creed Aug 04, 2020

Home is what you make it! And here to help keep us motivated and focused is the Homemakers Creed! This week, Michelle and Lindsay take the statements of this domestic manifesto point by point and discuss all the heart, art and nobility that lies therein!

Pursuing An Ordered Life Jul 28, 2020

Chaos and disorder seem to run rampant these days. This week, Michelle and Lindsay start the discussion on what it means to live according to right order, why eschewing chaos is so important (especially today!) and how seeking an orderly life and society begins by working on ourselves first.

Craving the Sound of Silence Jun 16, 2020

Our culture and lives today seem filled with noise, deafening and blaring... and non-stop! But were we made to live with this constant tumult? This week, Michelle and Lindsay end the second season of The Modern Lady Podcast for their annual summer break with an ode to the power of silence - why it's necessary, why retreat is not always weakness and why "longing for the long-form" may be just what the doctor ordered right now!

For Times Such As These: The Gifts of the Holy Spirit Jun 09, 2020

Right now, our families and the world need for us to stand firm for truth and be a light in the face of such devastating darkness. As Christians, this is our calling, but we are not sent out unarmed and ill-equipped! This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss the power of the Gifts of the Holy Spirit, why they are so necessary and how each of them plays a pivotal role in uniting us ever further to the mission of Christ.

Have Courage Jun 02, 2020

Being truly courageous, especially today, is a far more nuanced endeavour than we realize. It is an ongoing process of growth that requires heart work and real life relationship, humility and a willingness to sometimes take the calculated, unpopular risk. This week, we discuss the power of personal testimony, the ineffectiveness of false bravado and the confident courage that can be found in not limiting God.

**This episode was recorded in March 2020**

Money Talks: Part II - The Heart of Things May 26, 2020

Last week, Michelle and Lindsay shared a little bit about their financial journeys and discussed the personal "whys" that motivate them to avoid debt and plan for the future. In today's episode, the discussion continues with a look into some further considerations when it comes to money and wealth: from usury to the prosperity gospel to true Christian charity, the ladies cut to the heart of things when it comes to money matters!

Money Talks - Part I: Our Stories May 19, 2020

Kicking off a two-part episode on finances, Michelle and Lindsay are beginning a discussion on family finances, debt and future planning by sharing their personal journeys so far! In response to a recent listener question, the ladies chat about how their views on money have changed over the years, living as one-income families in today's world and why, especially when it comes to the family budget, teamwork is critical.

Trust Your Gut May 12, 2020

This week, it's all about women's intuition: from the biological to the psychological to the theological... and why we can and should "trust our guts"! We've all had moments where we've just had a sense about what we should do in a particular situation. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about all the ways that women, in particular, seem to be purposefully designed to be attuned to our instincts... and to act upon them.

Playful Parenting May 05, 2020

When it comes to playing with our children, it seems we can sometimes be conflicted. We may not always WANT to play house or with Legos... and so what do we do when those feelings of duty threaten to drown out the pleasure of spending time with our kids? This week, the Ladies discuss play as parents and share some of the childhood memories that inspire them to seek out ways to playfully parent their own crews today. *Stay tuned to the end of the episode for more memories & outtakes!*

Looking Back, Moving Forward Apr 28, 2020

Humanity has changed and adopted many things throughout history "in the name of progress". From our perspective in history, however, we can look back and see how some of this progress may have actually set us back, in terms of our relationships and priorities. This time of living through a pandemic has been a big opportunity for many people to be able to sit back and reflect on what their lives are going to look like moving forward. Michelle and Lindsay discuss a little bit of the history and shifts they have noticed in their lives and the lives of those around them.

The Extraordinary Beauty of Ordinary Life Apr 21, 2020

The ability to see beauty all around you, wherever you are, is a skill worthy of cultivation... especially these days! Beauty truly does permeate our world but often it takes a keen eye and willing participation to bring it to the forefront. This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss some of the ways they seek out extraordinary beauty in their "ordinary" and offer some tips on how we can all find the good within the walls of our homes!

How Does Your Mindset Grow? Apr 14, 2020

Developing a "growth mindset" is a practice that had already been encouraged by psychologists, even before pandemic struck. In these strange times, familiarizing ourselves with this concept can be more helpful than ever! This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss a viral graphic making its rounds on social media and chat about how moving through zones of fear, learning, and then growth is essential for us to be cognizant of as we continue to try to navigate through the days ahead.

Spring Trends 2020 Apr 07, 2020

It's our annual Spring Trends guide, here at The Modern Lady Podcast! From Tiki bars to oat milk, crochet dresses to sour beers, here is your definitive rundown on what to keep an eye on for the up and coming spring and summer seasons! Join us for a chat and a laugh as we hash out the good, the bad... and yes, even the ugly!

Anticipatory Grief and How We're *REALLY* Feeling Mar 31, 2020

Last week, the Harvard Business Review posted an article called, "That Discomfort You're Feeling is Grief" and it struck a chord with many people in these strange days of COVID-19. In this episode, Michelle and Lindsay take a closer look at some of the standout points of this article and discuss how it can help us pinpoint how we're *really* feeling right now.

Unmasking Imposter Syndrome Mar 10, 2020

Albert Einstein once remarked, "The exaggerated esteem in which my lifework is held makes me very ill at ease. I feel compelled to think of myself as an involuntary swindler." Imposter Syndrome, the inability to believe one's success is deserved or legitimately achieved, has much more common than most of us think. This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss what Imposter Syndrome is, and how we can mitigate its effects on our daily lives.

The Light in the Darkness: Lindsay's Testimony Mar 03, 2020

"The Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it." (John 1:5) Can people truly change? What about people who seem completely unreachable and lost in the darkness? Always, there is hope and there is God. That is the message woven throughout this week's episode, in which Lindsay shares her incredible story of how the steadfastness and faithfulness of God called her out of the deep darkness of her life and how He has, since then, continuously made her new.

The Lowdown on LENT Feb 25, 2020

Pop Quiz!! What do pretzels, Tim Hortons, the Filet'o'Fish and German beer have in common? Believe it or not, they have all originated from or been influenced by traditional Catholic practices during the liturgical season of Lent! Historically, these devotions are steeped in genuine, deeply contrite intentions. Could it be time to revive and reclaim these valuable parts of our Catholic heritage? Michelle and Lindsay discuss this and more on this week's show!

Are You An Angry Mom, or... Feb 18, 2020

... do you just have some unmet needs that have gone unaddressed for a while? Self-care is still a huge part of the wider cultural conversation. It's empowering to consider how much control each of us have over the small, daily choices we can make that can help us fill our proverbial buckets! This week, Michelle and Lindsay muse on the different ways we can acknowledge potentially unmet needs in our lives and reframe our days!

The Four Loves Feb 11, 2020

In our culture, it's easy to use the word "love" to encapsulate many levels of affection for many different relationships. We may "love" cheeseburgers and also deeply "love" our spouse, for example! But the ancient Greeks had a much more clearly defined understanding of the different kinds of love! Based on C.S. Lewis' The Four Loves, Michelle and Lindsay dig deeper into each of these types and muse on their impact on our relationships within our marriages, with our friends and with our God.

Are We Not Entertained? Feb 04, 2020

In our culture, and in our pursuit of health, we are so mindful of what exactly we are putting into our bodies, from the foods we eat to the cleaning products we stock up on. But what about our minds and imaginations? What are we willingly allowing into our souls, especially in regards to the entertainment we consume? In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay start the conversation on why choosing our leisure wisely can have a more profound impact on our overall wellness than we may think!

The Four Temperaments: 101 Jan 28, 2020

Personality typing quizzes and systems are popular past times and can often offer an interesting perspective into our interior selves. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about one such system: The 4 Temperaments! What does your temperament say about your strengths and struggles? How can understanding your temperament help you grow and #bebetter? Why is understanding, not only yours, but others' temperaments such a boon in relationships? The ladies discuss!

The Modern Lady Cleaning Compendium Jan 21, 2020

This week, Michelle and Lindsay tackle the MANY questions they received from The Modern Lady community and dish the dirt on all things housekeeping! From "The Friday Clean" to "The Five-Minute Tidy", cleaning with kids to cleaning green, from laundry flow to listener tips and tricks - this truly is the "catch all" of cleaning resources from the ladies!

A Resolution to Be Better Jan 14, 2020

There are some years that we may feel motivated to take on great challenges to overhaul various aspects of our lives - making a New Years Resolution is often the perfect time to make those changes! But there are other years when a complete 180 may not be what you're looking for. In this instance, Michelle and Lindsay propose and chat about their resolution for 2020 which is, simply, to take what they have been working on up to this point and just BE BETTER!

Thriving While Surviving Dec 17, 2019

In the rush of the holidays, it's easy to become quickly overwhelmed and exhausted! Many of us know all too well that feeling of being in "survival mode", especially this time of year! This week, Michelle and Lindsay offer a new perspective on survival mode - is it doomed to be forever seen as "waving the white flag"? Or could it be a positive, pro-active, actionable strategy that we are able to utilize whenever we need it?

Home (Guard) for the Holidays Dec 10, 2019

Not today, Satan! It's "Spiritual Warfare 101"! This week, Michelle and Lindsay shine a light on the very real reality of spiritual attack and warfare, particularly as it seems to ramp up during Advent. The ladies discuss the importance of awareness and a call to action, the psychological vs. the spiritual and talk about the connection between fighting battles today and the courageous duty of the Home Guard in the days of World War II.

Insta-Thoughts on the 'Gram Dec 03, 2019

It's been almost 10 years since popular social media app, Instagram, launched - and what a whirlwind it has been! In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay chat about some of the trends they see fading away and some new trends coming up on the horizon in 2020. We chat about the good and the bad (but mostly the good!) and talk about how our own perspectives on Instagram has changed over the last year. Tune in today and enjoy the show!

The Modern Lady's Advent Spectacular! Nov 26, 2019

This week, Michelle and Lindsay dive into ALL things Advent and anticipation for Christmas! From when to put up the Christmas tree to comparing Advent with Lent, to eyeballs on a platter to profound devotional reading for the season, the ladies attempt to cover all the bases with their usual humour and research! Join in for a little bit of fun and preparation before the season of Advent begins!

The 4H Factor Nov 19, 2019

Booker T. Washington is credited for promoting the "4 Hs": head, heart, hands and home. These, he says, are principles that all people can adopt to enrich their lives and the lives of those around them, regardless of age, wealth, race or otherwise. In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay break down each of these 4H tenants and disseminate them into home life: what could our society look like if every homemaker and member of a household adopted these principles?

HER-Story: The Almost Abduction of Princess Anne Nov 12, 2019

We are pleased to present a special feature we've been dreaming of producing since launching the Modern Lady Podcast over a year ago!

HER-story is a short story-telling presentation that seeks to highlight remarkable women and their remarkable stories, through history to today!

This chapter of HER-story brings to life the story of Princess Anne's close brush with danger, as she bravely faces a would-be abductor and stands her ground with poise and daring.

Tune in to hear more of HER story and enjoy!

Adapt and Overcome: Homemaking Like a Navy SEAL Nov 05, 2019

Retired Navy SEAL, Jocko Willink, knows a thing or two about discipline and grit! This week, Michelle and Lindsay take some of the interesting points Jocko speaks on and they adapt them to our role as homemakers! The ladies discuss the importance of setting up routines, how discipline is different than motivation and how we can bring in the best principles of the Navy SEALS into our kitchens and laundry rooms!

When It's Okay to Not Feel Okay Oct 29, 2019

As women, our hormones play such a huge part in how we are feeling on any given day. It's so common and so natural, that sometimes we forget to see the beauty in how our hormones contribute to our femininity! In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay discuss why they think hormonal impact is not taken into consideration more and why they think it would be beneficial for us all to start embracing this aspect of our authentic womanhood!

Humility, the Kardashians and Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes Oct 22, 2019

...Or, alternately titled: "That Time When the Kardashians Taught Me Humility". Last week saw the Kardashian family making headlines once again. This time, though, the focus was on Kim and Kanye West and some of the changes they are currently undergoing individually and as a family. In today's episode, Michelle and Lindsay discuss how changes of heart are currently seen in our culture today and chat about what is the crux of these changes, both in ourselves and in the people around us.

No Grudges In Heaven: On Forgiving and Forgetting Oct 15, 2019

It seems a simple thing to tell someone to just "forgive and forget" a transgression. But looking around our world today, it is clear that this is clearly an act that is easier said than done! This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss a recent viral video that showed such a powerful moment of forgiveness (amidst a culture obsessed with holding grudges, no less) and why a proper understanding of forgiving and forgetting a debt is just as critical now as it ever was!

The Modern Austen Oct 08, 2019

Ladies (and gentlemen), it is time. After over a year of recording weekly episodes here at The Modern Lady Podcast, we are finally due for an entire episode of deep diving the formidable and incomparable works of the one and only: Jane Austen! Though she lived hundreds of years ago, in an era much different from ours, we believe there are many aspects of a Regency-period lifestyle that should still have a place in our society today! Join Michelle and Lindsay for this week's episode in which they discuss what it means to be a "modern Austenite".

Getting "Schooled" Oct 01, 2019

The world of education is exploding with a variety of different pathways, from homeschooling to charter schools, road-schooling to your traditional brick and mortar. In many ways, it is such exciting time to be a student... and the parents of a student! But the decision-making process can sometimes be overwhelming. This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss some of the considerations they have made in the education of their children and they offer some of the insights they have learned in seeking out the MERITS of having a diverse educational scope!

Hold Your Gossip Sep 24, 2019

Gossip is a sneaky temptation that cannot be taken lightly. Idle chitchat about other people can have consequences far beyond what we could ever imagine! In an age where communication is so easy and instant, it's never been more important for us to hold our tongues! This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss the various kinds of gossip that are common in our world today and practical ways we can reign in gossip for good!

This Home Has Good Bones Sep 17, 2019

When we speak about a home having "good bones", it is usually referring to all the planning and architecture that lies beneath the trendy paint colours and fancy candles. To make your house into a home with good bones, you need to have creativity, good sense and a predisposition towards being content with what you have. This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about what they have learned over the summer about MAKING homes and the sometimes forgotten elements that can truly transform a house into a haven!

Living a "Hell Yes" Kind of Life with Kathryn Whitaker Sep 10, 2019

In this special episode of The Modern Lady Podcast, join Michelle as she chats with the one and only Kathryn Whitaker about living with intention and the importance of authenticity! In Kathryn's recently released book, Live Big, Love Bigger, she uses examples from her own life to propose ways in which the reader can intentionally embrace a "hell yes!" kind of life in a busy culture. We were so pleased to have Kathryn on the show and can't wait for you to hear our conversation!

Rooted in the Present Jul 09, 2019

Anxious thoughts about either the past or the future rob us of the gift of "right now". This week, Michelle and Lindsay dig into how anxiety affects us physically and mentally, and they discuss how they have personally managed the different forms of anxiety in their lives, in order to remain rooted and focused in the here and now!

Shouldering Emotional Labour at Home Jul 02, 2019

Life is often made up of all those little moments that come together in big ways. Women throughout history know exactly what those little things are and tend to carry the brunt of the responsibility for taking care of them for their households. In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay respond to an online post discussing emotional labour in marriage and discuss what it is, exactly, and how to put it all into proper perspective.

When in Rome: On Travelling with Mountain Butorac Jun 25, 2019

On this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay are thrilled to welcome The Catholic Traveler, Mountain Butorac, to the show! In this interview, he gives his top tips on how to travel smart, whether you're flying solo or bringing the whole family, and shares his Top 5 places to visit when in Rome! In his usual way, Mountain brings travelling to these places to life through personal anecdotes and storytelling, all while dishing out valuable considerations for anyone looking to book their next trip abroad!

Never Stop Learning Jun 18, 2019

It's a wonderful, fascinating, vast world out there... more than enough to satisfy the curiosity of any person throughout their life! In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay take a look at what developing a lifelong love of learning means and share some of their favourite tips on how you can seek to do so every day!

Defining the Modern Lady Jun 11, 2019

The advice "be ladylike" can sometimes seem vague, especially in our culture today. In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay discuss important qualities to be desired in a lady and how it might look if women en masse were encouraged to embody this kind of "modern ladyship"! From do's-and-don't's of etiquette to sharing some examples of the better known women they admire, the ladies dig into the idea of what being a lady looks like today!

The Art of Disagreement: Civil Discourse and The Modern Lady Jun 04, 2019

We're often encouraged to "stand by what you believe in" and to "live by your convictions", but are often quickly shut down when we move to express them. In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay discuss why it is important for everyone, especially women, to work to develop their convictions, live courageously by them and learn to speak in defence of them while in conversation with others!

The Summertime Homemaker May 28, 2019

The summer months are made for putting your feet up, digging into your latest read and soaking up some sunshine, right? But alas, amidst all the warm weather revelry, somehow the laundry still needs washing and the meals still need prepping! So in this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay give practical tips on how every homemaker can plan to keep on top of things AND enjoy HER summer too!

Why Me?: Living Intentionally in Times of Blessing and Need May 21, 2019

For better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health... in all of these, we can sometimes find ourselves looking at our lives and asking, "Why Me?" In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay discuss how to live an intentional life, no matter our current circumstances and give a few tips to remember for when you are facing seasons of struggle AND plenty!

You Never Know Who's Watching May 14, 2019

In an age of overt visibility, both online and off, "You never know who is watching" couldn't ring more true! Though admittedly disconcerting, there is massive potential for using this reality for good! In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay chat about the positive impact we can have when we aim to set good examples through our lives and how to embrace having "all eyes on us" as a means to inspire and learn from others!

Ask Us Anything! May 07, 2019

This week, Michelle and Lindsay are answering listener questions in their first "Ask Us Anything" episode! From backstories on how they met, to creating signature menus for easy hospitality, to raising little Modern Ladies and more... there is a lot of ground to cover! Join the ladies as they celebrate hitting 10,000 downloads!

At Home with Hustle: Work/Life Balance with Brittany Hall Apr 30, 2019

In their second interview episode, Michelle and Lindsay are pleased to welcome Brittany Hall to the show this week! Brittany is a homemaker and mother of three (soon to be four!), as well the founder and owner of a thriving makeup artistry business that she operates while raising a family with her hubby, Kennedy. The ladies discuss easy makeup routines for busy days and finding work/life balance, while peeking behind the scenes of what it means to grow a company from scratch!

Eat, Drink and Be Merry! Apr 23, 2019

In their Spring Trends episode, Michelle and Lindsay discussed what was "in" in the worlds of beauty and fashion. This week, they expand the guide to include what you should DO once we've settled into warmer weather! From the cocktails you need to try to the latest trends in health and travel, the ladies complete their guide to the season with everything you need to know to live "la dolce vita"!

Acedia, Procrastination and Defeating "The Noonday Devil" Apr 16, 2019

Acedia, or "The Noonday Devil", can be described as avoiding a task that needs to be done... by doing everything else BUT that task. It is linked to procrastination (and who among us doesn't struggle with procrastination?). But as Michelle and Lindsay discuss this week, acedia presents a more involved problem that affects more of our lives than we realize. In this episode, the ladies discuss how to recognize it in our lives and what can be done to defeat it and get on with the duty of the moment!

The Modern Lady's Quick Takes on Spring Trends Apr 09, 2019

Who knew that the trendiest tips of Spring 2019 could give Michelle and Lindsay so much conversational fodder? In this week's episode, the ladies look into what is trending in beauty and fashion this season... and proceed to find the more beautiful realities that lie within! From the importance of a nighttime ritual, to how the shoe style du jour has the potential to change the world, you won't hear a take on today's fashions quite like this one anywhere else!

Navigating True Friendship Apr 02, 2019

Though we all want to establish deep and lasting friendships, it's sometimes one of the hardest things we do as adults. This week, Michelle and Lindsay are chatting about what it means to seek out true friends: how to make them, keep them and why companionship is so important to us!

Persevering in Hard Things Mar 26, 2019

They say that "when the going gets tough, the tough get going"! It sounds easy, but living through some of those hard times is no picnic. From the ordinary, daily grind to setting challenging goals for yourself to enduring some of life's more tenuous struggles, Michelle and Lindsay discuss why it's important for us to practice perseverance and look at some strategies that can help see us through!

Spring Clean Like A Boss! Mar 19, 2019

We see you, Mr. Golden Sun!

Time to throw those shutters open and get to work spring cleaning the winter blues away! This week, Michelle and Lindsay share their tips for a successful spring cleaning and chat about how a deep clean of the house can help usher in sunnier times mentally and emotionally too!

Fasting For Good Mar 05, 2019

Fasting has been a recent trendy buzzword, but the practice of it goes way back and the benefits of fasting go well beyond health and wellness. In this episode, Michelle and Lindsay do a quick summary of all the benefits fasting can offer: health-wise, mentally and spiritually! With Lent around the corner, now is the perfect time to consider how you could incorporate the discipline of fasting in your life!

Let's Fika!: A Midwinter Hygge Pep Talk Feb 26, 2019

Frosty, blowy, freezing and gray. It must be mid-winter: that no man's land of weather between the whimsy of Christmas and the awakening of spring. Enter: FIKA! This week, Michelle and Lindsay look into the history of this Scandinavian social ritual and discuss how coffee (of all things!) has the potential to revolutionize our perspectives on prioritizing rest and community!

Real Talk on True Love Feb 19, 2019

Even after the fun of Valentine's Day, love remains and is woven through the fabric of our every day lives. In this episode, Michelle and Lindsay take an honest look at love: how pop culture presents it and what they have learned to be true about it from their own lives. They chat about some of the unusual ways (according to the world) that love seems to flourish under and how the beauty and wonder of such truths can made present in our lives every day!

A Modern Lady's Guide to Valentine's Day Feb 12, 2019

Love is in the air here at The Modern Lady Podcast! This week, Michelle and Lindsay break down some great ideas for celebrating ALL the people we love in our lives! From "Galentine's Day" to getting the kids involved, to finding romance with the love of your life (even if you can't find a babysitter this year!), the ladies have got you covered!

Seeking True Self-Care Feb 05, 2019

With the excitement of Christmas passed, and the novelty of New Years settling down, the rest of winter can seem long and tedious. Many of us turn to the idea of "self-care" to get us through to sunnier days, but what exactly is TRUE self-care? This week, Michelle and Lindsay take a look at the history and the roots of practicing self-care (spoiler: it goes back WAY farther than you think!) and they discuss some unconventional forms of true self-care and why they may be more lasting and soul-filling in the long run!

Minimalism and Decluttering: Part II Jan 29, 2019

Michelle and Lindsay are back this week to continue the conversation on decluttering our things and simplifying our homes! In this episode, the ladies take a look at several other decluttering guides on the market today and chat about how these books cut straight the heart of our struggles in organizing our homes! From conquering our fear in letting things go to being good stewards with what we have been given, today's show unpacks what lies beneath our desire for "less"!

Minimalism, Decluttering and "Sparking Joy" - Part I Jan 22, 2019

One of the most common resolutions made at New Years is the intention of simplifying and paring down one's belongings! This week, Michelle and Lindsay catch the decluttering bug and begin their deep dive on how to take back control of the STUFF in our lives! They chat about how our culture often sets us up to fail in our efforts and they take a look at some interesting takeaways from the new Netflix show "Tidying Up With Marie Kondo"!

Resolving to be Resolute Jan 15, 2019

"New Year, New You!" How many of us have heard this mantra chanted to us as we stare down our personal resolutions for the new year? Are you in the habit of making New Years Resolutions? This week, Michelle and Lindsay discuss why they think that they, and people in general, are so inclined to want to better themselves. They also share some interesting perspectives on resolutions that may help you stick to them! Kick off 2019 with the ladies and enjoy the show!

A Modern Lady's Holiday Gift Guide Dec 18, 2018

In their last episode before a short Christmas break, Michelle and Lindsay present their top self-care-inspired gift ideas for all the modern ladies in your life, in the style of the classic "something you want, something you need, something to wear and something to read"! It's the episode that keeps on giving! They chat about how some of the most practical gifts can sometimes be the most thoughtful and beautiful, and they discuss their "Holiday Self-Care Manifesto", in which they lay out some timely reminders as Christmas approaches.

The Modern Lady Podcast will be back Tuesday January 15th, 2019!

Here's wishing you and yours a very Merry Christmas! May God bless you in the New Year and always!

The Heartfelt Hostess - with Guest Anita Healy Dec 11, 2018

The holidays have many of our schedules booked up with events and parties! Are you hosting this Christmas season? Whether you are a seasoned entertaining veteran, or are looking to host your first get together, you will love hearing from our first guest on the show, Anita Healy - supermom of seven and THE "hostess with the mostess"! She shares her favourite tips for keeping entertaining relaxed and fun, and discusses why opening your home can be the best gift you can give this Christmas!

Embracing a Polished Charm Dec 04, 2018

Did you know that hygiene and good grooming used to be formally taught at school? In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay chat about how "keeping up appearance" can transform how you feel about yourself and how you present yourself to the world around you! We discuss how our exteriors can shape interior intentions and we share some things to consider the next time we are discouraged by the unrealistic perfection we see in the media every day!

Cultivating Beauty at Home: Homemaking Series Part III Nov 27, 2018

A beautiful house is cozy, a pleasure to visit and a great comfort to those who are honoured to call it "home". In the final episode in our Homemaking Series, Michelle and Lindsay chat about how we make our spaces beautiful - from recovering the lost sense of being "house proud" to discussing practical design tips, they discuss how a delightfully and sincerely decorated home brings great joy to those within it!

Keepers of the Home: Homemaking Series - Part II Nov 20, 2018

Last week, Michelle and Lindsay made the case for homemaking and why it's still relevant and important in today's culture. This week, they get into the nitty gritty of homemaking by answering common listener questions about how to keep house! From daily routines, scrubbing, meal planning and involving kids - this episode covers a lot of ground!

The Case For The Homemaker Nov 13, 2018

Often in today's culture, homemaking is considered a bore and chore. But what if we could reclaim it for what it is: turning the home into a HAVEN? In this episode, Michelle and Lindsay chat about how homemaking can be for everyone and, using the example of three historical women, they discuss how a homemaker is truly the epitome of an empowered woman!

The Heart and Art of Hygge Nov 06, 2018

Hallowe'en has wrapped up, so it's time to bring out the candles and throw blankets! Hygge season has finally arrived! Michelle and Lindsay have an in depth chat about why they think the whole idea of hygge has struck such a chord in our culture today and share some of the ways they're cozying down this year!

Rising Above Guilt Oct 30, 2018

With personal, professional and familial expectations at an all-time high, it's easier than ever to feel guilty over not measuring up! This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about what guilt does to us and how perhaps a little change in perspective can make all the difference in moving forward!

Finding Joy Oct 23, 2018

Finding joy in our day to day lives can be elusive and challenging! This week, Michelle and Lindsay chat about how they see joy fitting in to their every day lives and share practical tips on how to try to see things through a rose-coloured lens more often!

The Glorification of Busyness Oct 02, 2018

Our world moves at a whirlwind pace... and often sweeps us along with it! In this week's episode, Michelle and Lindsay discuss why we, as a culture, seem to view busyness as a virtue and some of the ways we are attempting to slow life down!

BONUS EPISODE - Our Fall Favourites Sep 28, 2018

There's just something about the Fall, isn't there? In this bonus "get-to-know-you" mini-episode, Michelle and Lindsay chat about their favourite autumnal books, movies, food and more!

Social Media Minimalism Sep 25, 2018

"Minimalism" is getting a lot of buzz these days, and for good reason! Few things feel better than decluttering the excess to make room for what really matters. But how does minimalism fit in with our lives on social media? Can these two co-exist? Michelle and Lindsay discuss in this week's chat!

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