The Masked Swingers

Sex, Myths & Medicine: Dr. Arriana Sets the Record Straight Feb 28, 2025

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are so excited to be joined by Dr. Arriana, a board-certified OB/GYN. We have been dying to have someone answer our questions, addressing misconceptions, and making sure that we continue to share knowledge that will help keep our community safe. Definitely having her come back in the future, email us your questions for Dr. Arriana!

Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult your own doctor or a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your health or medical conditions.

Timestamped Highlights

[00:00] - Introducing Dr. Arriana & Disclaimer!

[02:48] - All about BV

[13:25] - Mythbusting Misconceptions

[17:44] - Let’s talk about birth control

[26:28] - What’s PMDD?

[35:22] - Reddit Rapid Fire

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Sex Parties to Monogamy....and BACK! Feb 21, 2025

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Beautiful Vanessa joins Brian and Layla! She shares her experience on what it means to be ENM, both partnered and single, and bringing a real perspective of the lifestyle to the mainstream – PLAYBOY!!

Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Introducing Vanessa!

[06:50] - Fetlife Question

[08:04] - Does everyone eventually leave the ENM space

[09:21] - How did you get into lifestyle?

[12:02] - Opening up a relationship just to avoid breaking up

[15:39] - Brian gets…insecure?

[18:12] - Going through phases of partnered and single in the space

[25:43] - Lifestyle being a point of contention in a new relationship

[34:38] - Accidentally stumbling into a throuple

[40:22] - No sleepovers?! And codependence

[43:33] - Let’s talk about PLAYBOY!

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DON'T KINK SHAME ME Feb 14, 2025

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian are back for a 1:1 conversation about kinks, apps, and what features can help us find our future kink partners!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Introduction[01:48] - Exploring Kink without Play[05:18] - How do you define Kink?[11:05] - How do you find someone you’re kink-patible with?[15:30] - Using apps to find your kink partner[24:17] - Rate these featuresCome say hi!Follow us on IG Follow us on TTEmail us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

How STIs spread like WILDFIRE | Jacki, round 2! Feb 08, 2025

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Jacki is BACK by popular request! We talk about STIs, the spread, the stigma, things people don’t know, and why condoms are sooo sexy!

Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Jacki’s back![02:14] - STI outbreaks[04:15] - DRY January[08:25] - Yes, it can spread south to mouth[11:37] - The risk with STI[12:30] - Hypothetically… can you eradicate STIs?[14:42] - Stigmatizing…then people don’t take care of their health[22:47] - Addressing internal stigma[29:10] - DoxyPEP[37:12] - The taste of protection[40:28] - International Condom Day![43:46] - Let’s talk about Rubber

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The ELEPHANT in the room | Politics, Hot Takes, and Metamours Jan 31, 2025

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Let’s talk about the Elephant in the room. The new administration takes office, Brian and Layla clarify on Brian’s hot take on play party attendance, and Layla shares her budding relationship with her Meta! Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Trump takes office [11:48] - Clarifying Brian’s potluck comment [14:40] - Who isn’t playing with Brian? [20:25] - Dry January [22:00] - Bringing my Meta to a party [29:15] - Avoiding co-dependence [32:26] - Updates on Clyde [33:35] - Fluffers! [34:12] - The Gym Couple Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

HARD FOR HOW LONG?! TRIMIX NIGHTMARE Jan 24, 2025

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This is an extra juicy episode. Brian shares his latest TriMix fail, and venturing into a new territory on his ENM journey. Layla and Brian dive into what it means to respect boundaries and agreements, and when is it a good time to revisit agreements. Plus, updates on Layla’s 2025 goal! Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - TriMix Nightmare [11:29] - The Hotel Hookup [16:33] - Respecting Boundaries & Etiquette in ENM [18:57] - Venturing into new territory [21:53] - Breaking Agreements [28:12] - Revisiting Agreements [39:13] - Updates on Clyde [44:08] - The Couple from the Gym Saga [47:21] - Planning the GB! Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

WE GOTTA CATCH UP | Conspiracies, Play Parties, and NRE Jan 17, 2025

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are psyched to be back refreshed and ready for 2025! We hop right into a heated debate. Do you have to play if you go play parties? Then, Brian and Layla share their New Year’s Resolution, fun stories from the break, and so much more. Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Hop into the heated discussion! [07:13] - The Wildfires and conspiracies [14:38] - Layla’s New Year’s Resolutions [18:55] - Introducing… [28:18] - Brian’s New Year’s Resolutions [42:01] - New Hot Couple [48:09] - We are manifesting this year! Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Did it happen?? Wrapping up 2024 and 2025 Bucket lists! Dec 20, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers, and the last episode of 2024! We have had a BLAST this year exploring, making memories, trying new things and new people ;p We are taking a look back on the year, sharing what made it memorable, and predicting what’s to come in 2025! Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Layla’s harrowing garlanding [04:51] - The 2023 Prediction [10:43] - Did it happen in 2024? [21:01] - What’s been the biggest change of your life in 2024? [32:18] - Favorites of 2024! [43:09] - Best Lesson of 2024 [48:07] - What are you looking forward to in 2025? & 2025 Bucket list items! Come say hi!

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Unholy Revelations: Our Faith Fallout Dec 13, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are re-visiting one of our favorite episodes! For this episode, we are joined by Greeneyes & JR to share their journey with growing up with religion, finding religion, living by their faith, losing their religion, and ultimately finding ENM!

Timestamped Highlights

[00:00] - Layla got kicked out of Christian School & Brian’s religious background

[05:15] - Welcome Greeneyez & JR!

[06:38] - Their religious backgrounds

[11:19] - LDS and rules around sexuality

[15:16] - Do people judge those who don’t do a mission?

[18:44] - What is at the core of Mormonism?

[19:46] - Starting to questioning and turning away from the church

[22:49] - The Provo Soak

[24:55] - But how did you get to ENM from questioning your faith??

[31:12] - More ex-mormons in ENM?

[33:27] - We’re married, but we’re dating

[34:58] - Residual guilt and finding liberation

[38:56] - So…Does your family know?

[43:38] - What are your favorite vanilla activities with new lifestyle friends?

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The ULTIMATE Gift Guide for LIFESTYLE Dec 06, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This is the ultimate gift guide for your ENM holiday party. These are the items we love that would make great stocking stuffers, Secret Santa, or White Elephant gifts!

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Timestamped Highlights

[00:00] - The Ultimate Gift Guide for Lifestyle

[02:39] - Crave

[06:46] - Vibrating Rose

[10:21] - Squirt blanket

[13:57] - Isamaya Lipstick

[17:25] - Flintts Mints

[20:55] - Manscaped

[31:11] - The Game of Lifestyle

[36:00] - Mood Lighting

[38:38] - Pop Star

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Brutally HONEST answers for your BURNING questions! Nov 29, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week Brian and Layla tackle all your questions! Does size REALLY matter? Are you a part of the ugly couple? How do I find my community?! We loved hearing from you! If you have any questions you want Brian and Layla to answer, DM or email us!

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Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Answering your burning questions

[01:34] - Does Brian hate Blondes?

[05:18] - Does size REALLY matter?

[11:56] - Are WE the ugly couple?

[19:20] - Where are ALL of the single men?!

[26:15] - Should I stop overnights for one of my partners?

[31:09] - How do I find my ENM community?

[37:23] - Some comments are bananas

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Does "BODY COUNT" matter? Plus, is Brian Poly? Nov 22, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week is a little different! Brian opens up and asks for support on a recent development. Would you ever consider Polyamory? What do you think about the term “body count”? Answer in our poll! PS. Your answers are anonymous! ----------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Happy Podcast Day [00:28] - The Girlfriend Proposition [05:08] - Love Hate relationship with Poly [17:22] - Single Women in the space [20:01] - Back to the potential GF [25:30] - What do you want, Brian? [27:43] - Is it easier to be poly or lifestyle? [32:29] - Body Count, love it or hate it? [43:22] - What do YOU think? ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Catch Vibes, not STIs: a Guide to Safe ENM with AHF Nov 08, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week Brian and Layla are joined by the beautiful and brilliant Jacki! We dive deep into navigating sexual health and relationships in the Lifestyle. Jacki shares insights from the Aids Healthcare Foundation, including free STI testing and the importance of PEP & PrEP for protection. Hear the truth about PrEP's side effects, and find out why everyone—even Lifestyle folks—might want to consider it. Plus, brace yourself for stories on why Coachella got mad at AHF and Layla’s NIGHTMARE DATE. We love this episode and the incredible balance of fun, funny, AND we learned so much!

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Timestamped Highlights

[00:00] - Letting someone hit rock bottom

[05:22] - Welcome Jacki

[07:02] - Aids Healthcare Foundation (AHF)

[09:36] - Free STI testing

[11:11] - PEP & PrEP

[18:07] - Side effects of PrEP

[19:23] - Should Lifestyle people be on PrEP?

[21:10] - Eye Syphilis?!

[27:13] - Coachella got mad at us

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Let's get SPICY: Swingers talk POLITICS! Nov 01, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week Brian and Layla take on some BIG topics. We traverse politics both in and out of the play space, what Halloween means to the ENM community, and patterns they notice in the spaces they are in. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Brian’s spontaneous Vegas Play [03:18] - Let’s talk about politics [12:51] - Politics in the Play space [20:25 - The Biggest Party of the Year [29:21] - Using the Play space to avoid… ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Masterclass in RIZZ Oct 25, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week we are bringing back one of our favorite episodes with the incredible Woz & Tee! They answer burning questions, tell us how to give the best compliments, how NOT to be a creep, and everything you need to know for your first play party!

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Monsters, Play Parties, and Trimix?! This Episode Has It All! Oct 18, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian talk about their perspective of the new Netflix show MONSTERS, the difference between play parties and orgies, and a BIG PSA for single guys in the ENM space. Plus, Brian spills on his experience with their first play party back and his first trimix experience! The following episode contains discussions of graphic and sensitive topics, including murder, violence, and sexual assault. Listener discretion is strongly advised. The content may be triggering or distressing for some listeners, particularly those who have experienced trauma. We share this information to raise awareness and foster open dialogue, but we recognize that not everyone may feel comfortable engaging with these topics. Resources: If you or someone you know is affected by the issues discussed, please seek support from the following organizations: RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org for help regarding sexual violence. National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit www.thehotline.org for confidential support related to domestic violence. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call 988 or visit 988lifeline.org for 24/7 support if you're feeling overwhelmed or in crisis. VictimConnect Resource Center: Call 1-855-4-VICTIM (855-484-2846) or visit www.victimconnect.org for help navigating services for victims of crime. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Monsters [04:18] - Were they justified? [11:42] - SA statistics [18:24] - Orgy vs Play Party [25:00] - Brian’s first Play Party back! [26:26] - The trimix experience [38:03] - Single guys in ENM ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Food Play Gone WILD: What’s next on YOUR kinky bucket list? Oct 10, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Ana joins Layla and Brian and teach them how to PLAY with their food. The world of ENM is so vast, and we LOVE unlocking new kinks! What’s your fantasy? If you like what you see, check out Ana’s other links down below! She donates a percentage of her proceeds to charities each month.

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Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Ana WAS the cake

[2:31] - The food fantasy

[3:56] - What is Sploshing?

[5:49] - What foods are you playing with?

[9:49] - Food Play horror stories

[11:27] - Next on the bucket list

[15:21] - Food Play Demonstration!

[21:10] - Relaxing into new sensations

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The Diddy Episode | Part 2! Oct 04, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are picking up on Part 2 because is just so much more to chat about! This is a raw insight into their thoughts and opinions on what's going on in the media! Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

How to AVOID a Diddy party! Oct 01, 2024

The Masked Swingers BONUS episode! Layla’s first GB! And Brian and Layla tackle a sensitive topic with infamous Diddy parties and what to look out for. They talk all about power dynamics at parties, how money influences that, and how to stay safe when going to a new party. Be on the lookout for part 2 coming on Friday!

Disclaimer: The episode contains discussions about sensitive topics, including sex trafficking, exploitation, and other mature content. Viewer discretion is advised, especially for younger audiences or those who may find these topics distressing. Our aim is to shed light on these important issues and provide awareness, but we understand the content may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is affected by the topics discussed, we encourage you to seek professional support.

Resources:

- National Human Trafficking Hotline: Call 1-888-373-7888 or text "HELP" to 233733 (BEFREE) for confidential help or to report a tip. Available 24/7.

- Polaris Project: Visit www.polarisproject.org for more information on human trafficking and ways to get help.

- RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org for support regarding sexual violence. ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [00:51] - Layla’ first….!!! [12:42] - The missing necklace [15:31] - Clear delineation of roles in a party [17:12] - Not all parties are made equal [24:48] - Money and Power dynamics [35:33] - How to avoid a party like Diddy party [44:22] - ENM consent culture ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

Make Her Squirt Like a Firehose! Sep 27, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian are joined by the incredible Tia Lynn Campbell ALL ABOUT 💦SQUIRTING 💦! We dive deep into what is it, what it’s not 👀, techniques to try out, and how it can unlock deeper levels of orgasm. This is a gushy episode 👅 Tia's first ep: Guide to better head Erotic Blueprint ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - All about squirting [5:42] - Welcome Tia! [7:56] - Is it pee?? [9:21] - Tia’s history with squirting [10:31] - Reaching deeper orgasms [16:25] - How to squirt with a penis [21:41] - The desire to be able to squirt [24:28] - How do I turn myself on? [28:15] - The mental component of letting go [38:58] - Tia’s squirting tips ---------- Wanna learn more about Tia? Tia’s Sexy Goddess course Tia's Instagram SexyBizBabe Podcast ---------- Come say hi! Follow us on IG

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Sex Parties, Whips, and Manhood Sep 20, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Brian get vulnerable. It’s Layla’s birthday! Sophia Domina is launching her book with a BDSM Party. Layla’s Mom was a Playboy model?! So much to catch up on. Our besties go into lessons from their breaks, the realities of STI scares, and having each other’s backs for their first party back. Listen to Sophia’s Domme brilliance in her episode! ----------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Happy Birthday LAYLA! [01:53] - What’s that necklace? [05:24] - The Play break is done [06:49] - Hump Film Festival [11:43] - Prioritizing mental and physical health [20:01] - The BDSM Party [25:57] - STI and ENM [33:00] - Brian gets vulnerable [41:14] - Million Subs reveal ----------- Come Say Hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

She dated a married man (MY HUSBAND)! Sep 13, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian sit down with her husband’s soulmate, Cami from the Double Teamed podcast! They dive deep into the real Poly dynamics of watching you husband fall in love with another person and then support him through the breakup. This beautiful, vulnerable episode is true peace and compersion. Double Teamed Podcast is dedicated to exploring various relationship styles and sexualities, aiming to shed light on these often-taboo topics and foster greater understanding and acceptance among younger generations. Hosts Cami and Niki share candid and heartfelt conversations about their experiences with relationships, dating, and kink.

---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [11:57] - What attracted you to my husband? [17:30] - Watching my husband fall in love with another person [21:14] - Dating Twins [24:41] - Lessons from my first ENM relationship [27:29] - Why did you end it? [32:55] - How to convert your Vanilla friends [37:16] - A Primary Foundation [40:39] - I helped my husband through his heartbreak [42:13] - What would you do differently in hindsight? [46:00] - Rapid questions

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EXPOSING People's Dirtiest Secrets on Reddit! Sep 06, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This episode, we’re exposing some of the juiciest secrets from Reddit, and you won’t want to miss it. Inspired by Layla's unforgettable swinger trip that went sideways, we’re giving you all the updates and sharing our reactions to some wild Reddit stories. With an ethical non-monogamy (ENM) lens, we’ll be asking the big question: Is it cheating? We’d love to hear from you, too—comment below with your take! Do you think these stories cross the line, or are they fair game in an open relationship? ---------- Episodes mentioned: Layla’s hot, swinger weekend turned into a nightmare 24 hours Ally from Passport 2 Pleasure episode ---------- Come Say Hi! Follow us on IG Follow us on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com ---------- Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [02:15] - We keep seeing this girl at raves [04:03] - Layla’s lifestyle break [06:59] - Brian’s lifestyle break [11:05] - Is it Cheating…Facetime [15:23] - Is it Cheating…Anonymous OF [21:06] - Is it Cheating…Bachelorette Party [28:00] - Until Next Time

I told my parents I host SEGGS parties Aug 30, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are joined (again!) by Michael from The Play LA. He shares not only what it’s like to build a safe community in a space where breakups and jealousy happens, but also getting vulnerable with his own experience dealing with a break up AND coming out as Poly to his family. This is a juicy one! Listen to Michael’s previous episode!

As the Founder and Creative Director of The Play, Michael Hollice is a highly respected authority in the Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) space, combining extensive personal experience with a strong background as a leader in the field. Guided by the principles of health, consent, intimacy, and artistry, Michael curates safe and inclusive spaces that foster genuine connections and drive cultural evolution. Michael has curated over 100 events that have become staples in the ENM and polyamorous scenes. His deep understanding of these dynamics, both through his work with The Play and his personal journey, makes him an invaluable resource on all things ENM, polyamory, and beyond. Curious about The Play?

Apply here to be a part of the amazing community. Follow The Play on IG. Follow Michael on IG. Come Say Hi! Follow The Masked Swingers on IG. Follow The Masked Swingers on TT Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introduction [01:11] - A little bit about The Play and community [05:04] - What happens when a couple breaks up?? [06:24] - The distrust in single men [9:36] - Disentangling as a couple [13:01] - Real Poly Shit [21:55] - Is Brian Poly? [23:27] - Jealousy & Reclamation [26:36] - Our worst fear [34:59] - To those who want to embrace their Poly…

COUPLES FIRST THREESOME HITS THE BIG SCREEN | You, Me & Her Directors tell all Aug 16, 2024

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week is a super special episode! We are joined by the magnificent creative team behind You, Me & Her. Selina and Dan dive into the real story behind this film, finding your sexuality as an adult, and exploring new dynamics within your marriage! You, Me & Her has won over 13 awards in the indie film festival scene including Best Feature Film at the Mexican American Film & Television Awards, and Best Romantic Comedy at the Los Angeles Film Festival!

Set against the backdrop of a serene summer night, this cinematic gem delves into the complexities of a decade-long relationship. Mags (played by Ringel) and Ash (Ritesh Rajan of *Russian Doll* and *Jungle Book*) find themselves in a rut during their first vacation post-baby. Enter Angela (Sydney Park of *The Walking Dead* and *First Love*), a spiritual digital nomad who sparks a new dynamic. The trio's exploration into the idea of a threesome brings unexpected twists and opportunities for reconnection.

“What looks to be a raunchy sex comedy eventually turns into something more substantial, as Ringel’s nuanced script finds surprising depth as well as humor in a strained domesticity nearing the breaking point.” - Dennis Harvey, 48 hills

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Timestamped Highlights

[00:00] - Welcome Selina & Dan!

[02:05] - The Vegas Origin Story

[7:44] - The excitement of the fantasy

[8:48] - Being honest with yourself and your partner

[12:45] - Perfect timing

[14:04] - The Message of the Movie

[16:36] - The Pole to Hole ratio

[18:33] - Let’s get vulnerable

[20:20] - Interactive experience of You, Me & Her

[25:43] - Navigating the nuance of ENM & authentic storytelling

[30:44] - How not to intro ENM

[41:28] - The Debrief

The Bisexual, Trans Unicorn: Let's have a Kiki ft. Kitana Kisses Aug 09, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week we are joined by the beautiful, the hilarious, the sexy Kitana Kisses. We talk about her experience as a trans woman in the lifestyle space, how she played with Brian, the torture party with Layla, dating as a trans woman, and everything in between. We had so much fun chatting with her. Buckle up for the ride of a lifetime. Timestamped Highlights [00:00] - Introducing Kitana Kisses [06:01] - Unicorn of unicorns [13:17] - Inappropriate experiences [14:50] - Trans fetishization [21:49] - Kitana’s journey [26:17] - The torture party Love Kitana? Find her socials: Check out her IG Her X Her TikTok

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C*m & Laugh: Comedy in ENM ft. Mo Aug 02, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! This week, we are joined by the hilarious Mo James! He is a stand-up comedian in the LA area, bringing the conversation and the laughs about the funny, awkward side of ENM.

Topics Covered

Brian keeps stabbing people with his…red bull can
Layla feeling the pressure of playing amidst a lot of changes happening
What are acceptable behaviors when it comes to race play?
Making ENM relatable in comedy
Mo does a live performance
Brian & Mo’s BEEF!
Where you can find Mo!

Timestamps

[00:00] - Introduction & Brian tries a new mask[
04:16] - The unexpected backdoor entry
[9:19] - The pressure of playing with ENM friends
[20:08] - Mo joins!
[21:06] - The race question
[24:25] - The rules of Comedy and ENM
[30:05] - Toeing the line of relatability and uniqueness
[32:37] - The live performance
[35:02] - The p*rn star story
[37:57] - The beef
[42:25] - Embracing the communication of ENM
[44:41] - Where you can find Mo

Where you can find Mo

The Kinky Comedy Show! Next show on August 17th
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Whorer Stories: Tales of a Sex Worker Jul 26, 2024

*We apologize for some audio issues in this episode!*

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers! We have the angelic, beautiful Dom joining us today! She shares her journey as an Escort. She shares her horror stories, dive into the details of what escorts are, and we put Brian in the hot seat!

Topics Covered

Breastmilk Kink
Pregnancy Kink
What drives you to pay for an Escort
Listen to your gut
Getting started in the industry
Vetting potential clients
Attraction to clients
Brian’s honeymoon massage horror story
X hack for finding providers
Pricing hypotheticals

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What happened with the GB?? Jul 19, 2024

Welcome back to another episode of The Masked Swingers! As promised, we are recapping Brian’s first GB! It’s harder than it looks.

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Sex Education with a P*rn Star ft. Ken Feels Jul 12, 2024

Welcome back to another episode of The Masked Swingers! This week we have the one and only Ken Feels! You may have seen Ken on your spicy platform of choice, but he shares his journey from creating a sex-positive, educational platform to going full pro in the adult industry, and his ENM journey in the background of all of that.

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Consent Fairy Tales: Ally Iseman's Guide to Sexy, Safe Swinging! Jul 05, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers pod! This week, we are joined by the incredible coach and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, Ally Iseman! You may have also seen her as the consent fairy flitting around LA’s The Play. In this episode we explore what it means to open up a relationship in a healthy, intentional way, and Layla and Brian get vulnerable with their own relationships with the help of Ally. This episode is so juicy!

Passport 2 Pleasure offers coaching to couples who want to start in the Lifestyle, empowering them to navigate this new chapter in their life with tools! Download her free Relationship Ratio workbook to see if your relationship is ready to open up without blowing up!

Topics Covered

Common mistakes of couples coming into the space
Open vs Poly vs Swinger: different relationship dynamics
Vetting for male partners
Effective communication
Self Governance and consequences
Boundaries vs Agreement
Agreement is a living breathing document to be revised
Spending more time on what you want vs what you avoid
Building a safe container for your relationship
Managing the 4 types of Jealousy
Handling mistakes
Taking responsibilities

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Charcuterie Board of Sl*ts Jun 28, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers pod! We love our guests, and we love when we get to give you more of Brian and Layla. This episode we dive into substances at parties, polyamory vs swinging, what compersion feels like, feeling the spark with new relationships, and so much more!

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You Deserve a Domme: A Conversation with a Dominatrix Jun 21, 2024

Welcome back to The Masked Swingers Podcast! Our first video episode! We sit down with Sophia Domina, a professional dominatrix, to explore the intricate and empowering world of BDSM. Sophia shares her unique journey from her beginnings as a Jehovah's Witness to embracing her identity as a dominatrix. We delve into the psychological aspects of the roles Domme and Sub, uncovering the liberation and empowerment they can bring. Sophia provides insight into how someone becomes a sub and regales us with some of her wildest and most memorable stories from her career. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about BDSM, power dynamics, and personal transformation. Sophia Domina, A professional dominatrix who runs a femme-empowered domination workshop and play party. She is the author of the book "Domme & Dommer." Show topics: - What it means to be a dominatrix. - Definitions and roles of Domme and Sub. - Sophia's journey from being a Jehovah's Witness to becoming a dominatrix. - The process of becoming a sub. - Wild and memorable stories from Sophia's career as a dominatrix. Links Mentioned: Sophia Domina's Website Sophia Domina on Instagram Join our Discord Our Instagram Email us with your questions at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com.

A tie up with the Mayor of Titty City Jun 07, 2024

Ever wonder what the lifestyle is like in the South? Today, we are joined by our friends Emma and Juan who share their experience as an ENM couple in Georgia.

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Strippers Gone Rogue... May 25, 2024

Catch up with us! We recap everything, from B's trip to Europe and the cost to spontaneity to L's love for a theme.

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Give me some Sugar Baby! May 11, 2024

We are joined this week with our dear friend Katie who accidentally became a sugar baby! Strap in for a wild ride!

If you are an experienced sugar baby, we would love to hear from you! Email us at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

The GB episode! Apr 26, 2024

We talk all about our Gang Bang fantasies and the effort it takes to organize a GB/Reverse GB. What makes a gang bang? Do you have fluffers? How many people is too many? Protection or tested? Which night? Who do you invite?

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Bonus: It finally happened... Mar 15, 2024

Only the best, the juiciest, the funniest bonus episode for y'all! If you have a juicy story time about a spontaneous play experience, we want to hear from you! Email us at themaskedswingerspod@gmail.com

The magic lotion

What's on our 2024 bucket list? Feb 02, 2024

We wanted to take a little time and share our lessons, our gratitude, and what we're looking forward to in 2024! Hopefully we'll see you out in the wild 😜

Getting to the real burning questions! Jan 19, 2024

This week, we are diving into uncomfortable questions. How do you give second chances? What do you do when you only want to play with one person in a couple?

So you wanna throw your first party... Dec 06, 2023

This week we are joined by Chase and Taylor! They share the most important ways they keep their parties safe for everyone attending, juicy play party stories, and advice for newbies exploring ENM.

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Getting Older in ENM and Testing Nov 10, 2023

This week was an incredible chat with Jax. Literally, we didn't want to stop talking with her. She is an powerhouse sharing about her experiences aging in the ENM space, pushing sexual exploration, and the importance of testing in all of the sites.

She works at the Aids Healthcare Foundation, and they are doing amazing work in their communities. Find out more on their website or IG!

Give Better Head, Build Confidence Oct 27, 2023

We are joined by the beautiful Tia (sexybizbabe) this week! She dives into own your sexual power, confidence. Brian, Layla, and Tia share their best tips and techniques when it comes to pleasuring your partner orally. Get your notebook and pen, it's time to level up your head game!

How to Elevate Your Play Party Oct 13, 2023

How can we make play parties a sensory, artistic experience? Michael is the Founder of The Play LA and shares his journey in his passion of bringing connection, beauty, and safety through his play parties. We get into what makes the Play different from other paid play parties, the attention to detail, and the *literally* juiciest sex horror stories.

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Losing my Religion and the freedom of ENM Oct 06, 2023

Welcome back to Let's be Candid! This week we are joined by the beautiful JR & Greeneyez. They share their journey from their strict religious background, leaving the religion, and the freedom they now have in ENM.

Go Wash Your Hands: Layla & Brian back together! Sep 26, 2023

Welcome back to Let's be Candid! This week Brian and Layla are reunited! They are catching up, swapping stories, getting opinions, and a lot of laughter.

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Have you heard of a Centaur? That's what I am. Sep 08, 2023

Welcome back to Let's be Candid! This week we are exploring the world of MFMs with the illusive centaur, or the male version of a unicorn. MoVibes joins us to share his MFM experience as a centaur, why you should go for it, and the real talk about fulfilling fantasies for your partner.

Everything you need to know before a Play party Aug 04, 2023

Welcome back to Let's be Candid! We loved hearing all of your stories last week! We thought it would be perfect to share how you can say no, yes, advocate for yourself, and have the most fun at play parties! Woz & Tee join us to share their knowledge and experience, and we had a blast chatting with them.

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Your First Sex Party Jul 21, 2023

Welcome back to Let's be Candid! Layla has been holding it down, and Brian is back with a story from his honeymoon! We asked our Discord members to share their first Sex Party experience and hosted our first live podcast so everyone can hear these juicy stories! Thank you so much to everyone who participated, and we will definitely be doing more live story hours in the future.

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Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe: how to find your NM crew Jun 28, 2023

Welcome back to Let's be Candid! This week we are joined by Yossef to talk about how to find your NM crew, but we go so much deeper. We talk about anti-labeling, the differences between tantra and swingers, sacred sexuality, and more. It started with finding your NM crew and turned into a mini-coaching session!

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Bi-Panic! at the Disco...what do I do with my hands? Jun 22, 2023

Welcome back to Let's be Candid! This week is our first GIRL TALK episode with the beautiful Emma and Kaylee for the Candid Discord. We dive into what Bi-Panic is, what it's like to experience it as an adult woman, and how being in relationships with women have helped us love ourselves more. This was so much fun!

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Let's talk consent culture and ENM Jun 14, 2023

Welcome back to Let's be Candid with Brian and Layla! This week we are chatting with the other Candid Co-founder, Max! He shares how different regions in the US have different ENM cultures, but we dive into consent practice in ENM. They chat about partying in Vegas with people from Denver, the difference between consent standards, and Max shells out some great advice to new single men coming into the lifestyle. It's all about consent, baby!

When a Dom surrenders: the importance of subbing and after care May 24, 2023

Welcome back to Let's Be Candid with Brian and Layla (and Annie). This week Brian is in the hot seat as he shares how he is more dominant in the bedroom, and his first experience being subbed and letting go of emotional control. It's all about the after care, baby!

Let your freak flag fly: The overlap of EDM and ENM May 15, 2023

Welcome to Let's Talk Candid with Brian and Layla!

We are passionate about 2 things: Electic Dance Music (EDM) and Ethical Nonmonogamy (ENM) and we noticed that there are a lot of similarities in these spaces. Our guest today is Jane, an ultra-talented event producer, who has been in both spaces for about 2 years so we wanted to hear from someone behind the curtain of these shows to share her insight.

If you're in ENM and want to find your people, check us out at Candid.bio. Catch us at EDC LV 2023 in our purple lights! Wanna meet up with us, join our meet-up events: candid.bio/e/edc-2023

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