The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz

Giving Chances in Relationships Oct 30, 2024

As a high-achieving woman, you have choices. You can choose to give a chance to a guy who is not your type, or stick with your type. You can choose to make his behavior a dealbreaker, or learn to accept him in full. In this episode, my friend Carol Allen and I consider your choices and draw the same conclusion: all married couples compromise your way into happiness, and what they tolerate from their partners is minor compared to what they gain. We also discuss what it’s like to be a childless woman in a world of parents, and celebrate another Love U engagement. You don’t want to miss this!

How to Break Up With Him Oct 23, 2024

Have you ever been stuck in a situation where you’re giving more than you’re getting? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, we dive into the tough but necessary conversation about breaking up with someone who isn’t ready to commit. I’ll guide you on how to recognize when a relationship isn’t progressing and why it’s important to set boundaries to avoid wasting time with someone who isn’t ready for a future with you. If you want the confidence to let go of a relationship that’s not escalating and find the strength to move on to something better – this one’s for you!

My Thoughts on Nobody Wants This Oct 19, 2024

It’s not just a hit Netflix series; it’s a direct calling for me to respond as a Jewish man married to a Catholic woman in a healthy interfaith relationship. In this episode, I talk about what’s bad, what’s good, and what Love U principles Kristen Bell’s character violates in her attempts to rid herself of a kind, consistent boyfriend. If you’ve watched the show, it’s worth the listen.

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Can A Relationship Survive Political Differences? Oct 16, 2024

We started off discussing the topic of envy – how rich people often envy happy couples and happy couples envy those with greater wealth. We moved to why I envied Matthew Hussey and he also envied me. (Seriously!) Finally, we went to a dangerous place – why political differences are so divisive and why they don’t have to necessarily end your relationship. Carol and I don’t agree politically but we do agree that people are more than their beliefs and opinions. Anyway, this Love U Podcast is juicy and I predict you’ll have something to say about it.

3 Ways You’re Afraid of Commitment, Too! Oct 09, 2024

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I discuss three common ways women can be afraid of commitment. While it’s often assumed that men are the ones afraid to commit, Evan reveals how many women, even those seeking a serious relationship, can experience fears around commitment, avoiding key conversations, and feeling uncertain about what they truly want. Learn how to identify these behaviors, establish healthy boundaries, and get clear about your relationship goals so you can find the love you deserve.

How to Keep a Man Interested in You Oct 02, 2024

I brought back my friend, Carol, to talk about one of the most popular dating videos on YouTube: How to Keep a Man Interested in You. Yes, we have a list of 10 reasons, but that’s not where we spend most of our time. Because the big question is not about how to keep a man from a place of insecurity, but rather, how to be the kind of partner that makes men feel accepted and appreciated. In addition, we talk about a recent New York Times article about the value of friendship even when you are in a committed partnership. If you ever feel insecure around men or lonely in relationships, this is the episode for you.

5 Small Dating Habits That Will Change Your Life Sep 25, 2024

Tired of superficial dating advice that doesn’t really work? In this episode, I’ll show you how to transform your love life by making five small changes to your dating habits. These tips will help you date smarter, broaden your options, and create more meaningful connections—without changing who you are or what you want. When you shift your online dating approach – just a litttle – you can finally see the results you deserve!

Menopause and Your Relationships Sep 18, 2024

I know, as a guy, there’s a limited amount I can weigh in on a topic that affects every woman: menopause. But since my listeners are generally in midlife, it felt like a smart idea to bring in one of my best friends, Carol Allen, for a conversation about how menopause affects your body and your relationships. I share stuff from my own marriage, as does Carol, and since she’s been married ten years longer, it’s worth your while to listen up. In addition, we talk about the rulebook in your head and how we can rationalize all of our own behaviors. I enjoyed having a co-host. Hope you enjoy it, too!

Why Overthinking is KILLING Your Relationships Sep 11, 2024

When you’ve had nothing but rejection, failure and disappointment in your relationships, it’s easy to second-guess yourself. The problem is that, when a good man comes along and is doing 95% of what you want, you obsess about the 5%. While your questions may be reasonable, if you find that your anxiety is driving your actions, it helps to learn to trust – both men and yourself. I hope this episode helps get you to a place where you’re not overthinking and you can actually enjoy falling in love.

Are You Trying to Date Up? Sep 04, 2024

In this Love U Podcast episode, I dive into the concept of “dating up”—the idea that women should aim to date or marry someone with more wealth, power, or status. This episode was inspired by a thought-provoking conversation with a client who challenged me, claiming that women need to hear the cold, hard truth about their unrealistic dating expectations. If you’re a woman who’s tired of not finding men on your level, this episode is a must-listen.

5 Stages Men Go Through Before They’ll Commit Aug 28, 2024

In this Love U Podcast, I share a tale of friend who had a hard time committing because of a lack of passion (despite the good sex) – because I felt some of those same feelings once upon a time. This leads into the five stages that men go through before they’ll commit. If you’re a woman who wants to know what men are really thinking when they’re dating you, this is an eye-opener.

A Man Who Loves You Will Never Do This Aug 21, 2024

Every relationship that ever broke up started with some level of excitement. Those first few weeks and months of breathlessly getting to know each other, explore each other, and make giddy plans for the future. But, as you already know, the first months (and even years) bear little resemblance to marriage and have little predictive power. In other words, every eager guy is going to put on his best face when he’s interviewing for the job. What happens when he’s got the job and starts to take it for granted. In this episode, you’ll learn that your future partner will never stop doing this ONE thing: making an effort to please you.

5 Dating Boundaries You Need To Have With Men Aug 14, 2024

Many smart, strong, successful women have trouble setting healthy boundaries with men. These powerful women give up their power to get along, to please, and find themselves emotionally dissatisfied within their relationships. In this Love U Podcast, I share a few anecdotes that correlate with 5 important boundaries you MUST set with men. None of them are revolutionary ideas; all of them are importance if you want to have a partner who hears and respects your wishes.

The No Contact Rule and Getting Your Ex Back Aug 10, 2024

Is it a good idea to go “no contact” after a painful breakup where you still have feelings for him? Absolutely. Is it a good idea to use “no contact” as a means to make your ex miss you so he’ll take you back? Hell, no!

In this emergency Love U Podcast, I discover that there are some coaches who will tell you what you want to hear – regardless of whether the advice gets you results.

When Do You Talk About Your Needs? Aug 07, 2024

There’s a temptation when you first start dating to tell a guy what you expect from him. After all, previous men have disappointed you, you’ve learned your lessons, and you want to set healthy boundaries and expectations. The issue is twofold: a) you can’t tell a man who is not your boyfriend how to act and b) you don’t always deliver the message in an effective way to get what you want.

In this episode, I break down the logic about when you should talk about your needs and how to know your requests are reasonable and well-received.

7 Green Flags in a Guy You’re Dating Jul 31, 2024

There’s a lot of talk about red flags: separated guys, recently divorced guys, guys who never want to get married, guys who aren’t sure if they want kids, long distance guys, etc. These men are easy to spot and avoid. But how good are you at paying attention to GREEN flags – the traits and behavior you want to see in men? In this Love U Podcast, I run down 7 things to look for in a new partner if you want a chance at long-term compatibility.

Managing Your Attachment Style – an Interview with Thais Gibson of the Personal Development School Jul 24, 2024

I haven’t interviewed anyone on my podcast since 2017 but when I got the opportunity to speak with Thais Gibson, creator of the Personal Development School, I leapt at the chance. She’s fiercely intelligent and listening to her go deeper on attachment styles and limerence was a treat.

Thais Gibson is a counselor, best selling author and co-founder of The Personal Development School. She has a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in modalities ranging from CBT, NLP, somatic experiencing, internal family systems, to shadow work and hypnosis. Thais had nearly a decade of experience running a successful private practice and founded The Personal Development School, an online learning platform, to provide a more accessible, authentic way for clients to transform their lives. Thais is on a mission to empower individuals to overcome their insecure attachment styles and reprogram any limiting thoughts and behaviors, creating long-lasting and enlightening changes. She is the bestselling author of Learning Love, and she and her husband split their time between Austin, TX and Toronto, Canada.

Together, we discuss:

1. How anxious people can tell if it’s his behavior or their anxiety that’s triggering them.

2. The value of dating a secure person and how that feels different than anxious/avoidant pairings

3. Why attachment styles are malleable and change depending upon your circumstance and your partner.

4. The definition of limerence. Why does it take place? What are the symptoms?

5. Coping strategies to manage limerent feelings.

6. Whether you should walk away from a 10 chemistry or go towards it.

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Who’s Taking Care of You? Jul 17, 2024

As an independent, successful, single woman, you’ve built a life about which you can be extremely proud.

There’s only one problem. You have to take care of everything yourself. The mortgage. The health insurance. The plans. The repairs. The vacations. You take care of your parents, you take care of your kids, you take care of your clients.

I just have one question for you: who’s taking care of YOU?

This special Love U Podcast episode explores the story of one woman who is finally ready to let a man take care of her.

Are You Subconsciously Avoiding Dating? Jul 10, 2024

I once took a poll and discovered that 40% of my mailing list was not dating at all. These are women who had enough interest in the subject matter to reach out to me for dating advice, but, for their own reasons, chose not to use it. I feel for them. When all your past relationships have disappointed, it’s natural to feel afraid and paralyzed when it comes to dating. The problem is that you’ll never find love if you don’t date. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to nudge you to stop letting fear win.

Should You Date Trump or Biden? Jul 03, 2024

The first presidential debate of 2024 was revealing. We saw, quiet clearly, that the two candidates running for office were, in fact, incapable of being the leader of the free world.

How does this apply to dating and relationships, you might ask?

Well, the world is filled with Donald Trumps and Joe Bidens. One is selfish and untrustworthy. The other is a nice guy who is not capable of the job.

So, what should you do, as the CEO of your love life, when you run across men like these? Check out this Love U Podcast to hear my take.

6 Feminine Traits That Men Love Jun 26, 2024

I agree: the masculine/feminine thing is a little overdone. And yet I still think there’s value in emphasizing that women tend to have certain traits that men lack and therefore, crave. In this Love U Podcast, I’ll run down six of the most important ones and share examples of how I get to experience them in my marriage. If you listen and think, “Hey, I do that!” then I predict you’ve got a bright relationship future ahead of you.

The One Question You Should Ask When Dating Jun 19, 2024

My client Diana taught me a valuable lesson last week. After dating man with excellent long-term relationship potential, she wasn’t quite feeling it. Since she didn’t want to let a good catch go, she started to talk herself into why she should keep seeing him. Then she asked this ONE question that clarified EVERYTHING for her. In this quick Love U Podcast, I’ll share that one question so you can ask it yourself.

Have You Given Up On Online Dating? Jun 14, 2024

Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Match… at a certain point, you’ve tried all the apps and you’re getting burned out. It’s so bad, you become convinced that the best way to find a partner is to stop dating online, lead your best life, and hope that you run into a quality, relationship-oriented single man. It may feel good to take a break from online dating; the problem is that “real-life” doesn’t provide many opportunities for dating.

In this episode, I acknowledge the flaws of online dating and remind you that you can still have a rich, full, flirty single life AND have a much better chance of finding love if you learn how to date online effectively.

The Relationship That Won’t Die Jun 07, 2024

We all engage in wishful thinking, to some degree. Even when the evidence points to the answer being no, we find some sliver of hope that it can become a yes. Nowhere is this more evident than in dating. In this Love U Podcast, I share a story about my tortured “When Harry Met Sally” relationship that took up nearly two decades, and give you the courage to cut loose men who, despite your feelings, don’t make for healthy long-term partners.

5 Signs He’s Not That Serious About You May 31, 2024

Online dating apps have done two things:

1. Given men and women infinite options at their fingertips.

2. Tortured those same men and women since so few of those options pan out.

In this Love U Podcast episode, I break down the five most prominent ways you can tell that your relationship isn’t going anywhere. Starting from the first date and going chronologically through the relationship, I outline the red flags that should cause you to cut bait and find a more enthusiastic man.

Don’t Believe Anything That Happens on a Date May 24, 2024

You know the feeling. You go on a great date or two. You catch feelings. You start to think about a future. You sleep with him. And then, a few weeks later, you discover that he is NOT the man you thought he was. It may be maddening but since it’s common, we need to talk about it. In this episode, I’ll share how dating is a show and why you don’t want to commit to a man until you’ve spent some time backstage.

Why I’m Changing the Way I Do Everything May 24, 2024

I’m returning to my roots from 20 years ago, when it was all about people and relationships and tangible breakthroughs that lead to lasting love. In this short video, I’ll share what that means for me and why it’s great for you.

If you’re in pain and want coaching over the summer, I will be taking clients on a very limited basis. You can apply through my website: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/now

The Importance of Attraction May 17, 2024

Although dating coaches tend to emphasize compatibility over attraction, make no mistake: attraction is important. Good sex is important. And figuring out the blend between passion and comfort is the most important. In this episode, I walk you through the formula from Love U that has helped thousands of women find satisfying relationships – both physically and emotionally. No settling involved.

How to Apologize (Even When You’re Not Wrong) May 10, 2024

Even good relationships involve conflict and compromise. You know what it’s like to be with a guy who isn’t a fair fighter. He raises his voice. He shuts down. He hurls insults. He brings up other arguments. He doubles down and escalates the conflict even when he’s mistaken. You don’t want to be that guy. In this Love U Podcast, I share a communication technique that I learned twenty years ago that I still use today. This one is a relationship-saver.

Do You Assume the Worst in Men? May 03, 2024

When you’ve been hurt and disappointed, it’s easy to assume that the next guy is going to do the same. The problem is that not all men are bad. And if you’re dating a nice, commitment-oriented guy and treat him like a composite of all the jerks you’ve dated in the past, you’re never going to get a nice guy. In this podcast, I tell a powerful story about a client who came from an abusive background and is actively overcoming her trust issues in Love U.

What to Do When He Asks Why You’re Single Apr 26, 2024

You may find it annoying or triggering but it’s common for men to ask you why you’re still single. Instead of shutting down or overexplaining, it’s important to be able to answer this question with poise and confidence. If your reflexive answer to why you’re still single is “I just haven’t met the right guy,” you REALLY ought to listen to this. My advice will likely surprise you.

Why Married Men Are a Hell No! Apr 19, 2024

I know it should seem obvious but the fact that I recorded a podcast about it means that plenty of women still find married men alluring. In this episode, we’ll talk about why married men are often more romantic than single men AND 4 reasons why it absolutely doesn’t matter and you should run far, far away from any married guy who shows interest in you.

How to Balance an Anxious/Avoidant Attachment Style Apr 12, 2024

If you didn’t have a healthy nuclear family with loving married parents, its likely that you formed an attachment style that is either anxious or avoidant. But what happens when your anxiety turns into avoidance, and your avoidance turns into anxiety? This is something I see with women in Love U and a phenomenon that I felt was worth airing in today’s episode. Your past doesn’t have to predict your future; it just takes strength to make different choices with men.

Why Dating Is Different As You Get Older Apr 05, 2024

My readers often ask me to create specific programs for them. “Why can’t you create something for women in their 60’s who are facing a smaller dating pool with men who are retired, widowed, unhealthy and dealing with erectile dysfunction?” The answer is that despite the unique challenges facing women of different ages, 95% of dating and relationship advice is universal. It’s about confidence, communication, boundaries, beliefs, and the skill of learning to be more effective in dating. But, as a man of the people, I’ve listened to you and put together this podcast highlighting the unique challenges of dating in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s. l hope this means I don’t have to create an entirely new program.

Are You Trying to Change Him? Mar 29, 2024

You know the narrative. Men suck. There are no good ones left. They’re all narcissists or losers or emotionally unavailable. The cute ones don’t want to settle down. The ones who want to settle down aren’t attractive. When you finally find one you like, the compromises are too great. I’m not here to argue with you. What I will say, as a happily married dating coach, is that you have two choices: accept him as he is or dump him. What you can’t do is stay in a relationship with a man who you’re constantly criticizing and wanting to change. My take: if you can find one man on Earth you can fully accept, you’ll both be happy for the rest of your life.

Should You Be Happy Alone? Mar 22, 2024

My smart, successful clients have all loved and lost. Yet they recovered to rebuild their lives and fill it with meaningful work, travel, hobbies and friendship. Today’s question is whether this is enough. Is being happy alone a condition for finding love or is a trap that allows you to stay alone indefinitely? What’s the benefit of lasting love when being single is better than being in a bad relationship? In this Love U Podcast, I do my best to explain.

Men Are About Feelings Mar 15, 2024

While it’s easy to get mad at guys who overvalue youth and beauty, the truth is that you need more than looks to be with a quality man. In fact, quality men are all about how you make them FEEL. If your default behavior in relationships is to feel anxious and critical of your partner, it’s time to choose better men and make a big shift in how you show up. It’s a challenging concept but one that is very much worth your while. Plus, I tear up when I read a Valentine’s Day card from my wife, so that’s always fun.

3 Steps to Determine If He Gets a Second Date Mar 08, 2024

When you’ve had bad luck with men, it’s easy to question your judgment. How important is chemistry? When can you tell if there’s compatibiity? How much time should you invest to discover if there’s enough of both? Most women waste years on the wrong men – and have no idea what to do differently. Today, I’m going to give you a three step process to determine if a man deserves another date, and why it’s essential to cut him off quickly if he doesn’t.

Everyone is Someone’s Second Choice Mar 01, 2024

Don Miguel Ruiz wrote The Four Agreements. One of them is “Don’t Take Anything Personally.” Nowhere is that more relevant than in the world of dating. Texting, hooking up, ghosting, breadcrumbing, endless amounts of rejection. And yet none of it is personal. No one is out to get you. You’re just collateral damage in someone else’s journey. To succeed in dating, you need a strong ego – and you also have to know when to put it aside. If you’ve ever been offended that a guy you barely dated returns after a layoff, it’s time to let that shit go and get happy.

A Thought Experiment To Help You Persevere In Dating Feb 23, 2024

No one wants to become a dating expert. No one wants to go on 300 dates. No one wants to renew their Match membership. Yet, in order to find someone special, there is nothing more valuable than the power of perseverence. If you are one of the many people who have been dating online, on and off, for many years, I’m going to make a case for why you should never be off. You may be missing out on your soulmate.

I Was Wrong Feb 16, 2024

After 20 years of coaching, 1000 blog posts, 300 podcasts, I was bound to make some mistakes. We’re all human. We all have biases. We all have blind spots. On this episode, I’m going to share a few ways in which I’ve evolved over time and make a case for how it’s important to know the rules before you make exceptions to the rules.

How You Can Be Your Most Authentic in Dating Feb 09, 2024

Dating brings up all your insecurities. Am I attractive enough? Young enough? Smart enough? Am I worthy? When those thoughts are running through your head, it’s hard to be the best version of you. What IS the best version of you? Well, after listening to Selena Gomez on Smartless talk about her mental health issues that stem from being in the public eye, the only word that came to mind was AUTHENTIC. So today, we’re going to talk about why you must stop caring about what men think and start focusing on what YOU think.

There Is No Going Back Feb 02, 2024

If you’ve ever tried to rekindle a relationship with your ex, you’re aware of how powerful the allure can be. There’s a deep love, a deep understanding, a deep friendship that you don’t want to let go of. It seems much more comforting to go back to someone you love than to try your hand at meeting strangers online. Yet there’s a reason there’s a book called “It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken.” It’s because you and your ex are incompatible. That’s why you broke up in the first place and why you’re probably going to break up again. In this Love U Podcast, I share the story of a client who can’t seem to kick her habit of returning to her exes. I hope you can learn from her experiences.

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Avoid the Overcorrection Jan 26, 2024

If you were in a relationship without passion, you’ll look for passion your next partner. If you were with a financially unstable man, it makes sense to seek a man who is much wealthier. But sometimes, when you’re trying to correct a problem, you end up OVERCORRECTING. And when you swing too far in the other direction in reaction to your last relationship, you just end up making a different set of mistakes. Listen closely to avoid overcorrecting in the future.

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Do You Act on Red Flags – Or Ignore Them? Jan 19, 2024

You may go months or years without a strong connection with a guy. When you find it, you want to preserve it at all costs. But what if you discover, sometime in the first month of dating, that there are major obstacles to a long-term relationship? Do you act on them? Or do you sweep them under the rug because it feels so good to be with him. If you’re like most of my listeners, you sweep them under the rug. If you’re like my clients, you know better and get rid of any man who is incapable of being your future husband. You won’t want to miss this one.

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Are You Following Your Core Values in Dating? Jan 12, 2024

Dating can throw you off your axis. Whether you’re getting rejected by strangers online or being treated poorly by someone who claims to care about you, it’s easy to become anxious, confused, or angry. What I’m advocating for in today’s Love U Podcast is anchoring yourself in your own core values.

Inspired by the book Master of Change by Brad Stulberg, this episode will remind you of who you are, what’s important, and why you should never veer from it – no matter who you’re dating.

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Is it a Problem or the Fear of a Problem? Jan 05, 2024

When you’ve been burned by men, it’s easy to see danger lurking around every corner. He’s friends with his ex? Probably a cheater. He’s unhappy at his job? Clinically depressed. He texts multiple times a day? Either needy or a lovebomber. In this Love U Podcast, we zoom out to ask an important question: is this a real problem or are you just afraid that it WILL be a problem? You may be surprised to learn that you’re worried about things that will never actually happen.

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Reframing Your Frustrations With Men Dec 29, 2023

It’s been said that happiness is the gap between our expectations and reality. In reality, no man is going to do exactly what you want, when you want it. This doesn’t mean that no man can ever love you; only that you need to close the gap between who you want him to be and who he is. Once you discard the men who are incapable of making you happy, how can you learn to understand and appreciate the good men who really are doing their best?

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What To Do When You Don’t Have the Same Sex Drive Dec 22, 2023

Sex is important in a marriage, especially since you’re only going to be having sex with one person for the rest of your life. What happens when your libidos change over time and you’re not on the same page any longer? How do you handle the gap between your sex drive and his sex drive. My wife and I are lucky to have grown together on this issue but that doesn’t mean we agree each week. On this episode, I’ll share a personal story of how my wife and got through an argument about this common problem – one which is hard to talk about openly.

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Are You Complaining Too Much? Dec 15, 2023

You’re not alone if you feel like the world’s on fire. But the type of complaining I’m talking about is the day to day stuff – the normal indignities of 21st century living. If you’re a smart, successful woman, you may have just about everything going for you but still stay in a negative space over half the time. That’s what we’re covering in this week’s Love U Podcast. Because negativity, while often justified, is rarely an effective strategy for solving problems or connecting with people – two very important things if you’re looking for a lasting, romantic relationship.

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The Value of Conflict Dec 08, 2023

I often mention that good relationships should be easy. It’s true. But that doesn’t mean there should never be conflict. Conflict is normal between two free-thinking adults; the key to your relationship is how you resolve that conflict. In this Love U Podcast, I share a small story from my marriage that is indicative of how two people who are deeply in love can still talk past each other, even after 15 years together. I hope you see yourself in the story and can use it to bring healthier conflict resolution to your relationships.

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Men Are in the Moment Dec 01, 2023

Ever gone out with a guy who said he was attracted to you, was starting to fall for you, and wanted to get married someday – but later dumped you? Why would a man say such things if he didn’t mean them? The answer is trickier than you might think. See, he DID mean them – he just meant them in the moment. Check out this Love U Podcast to understand why guys say things you would never say.

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Is There Male Privilege In Dating? Nov 24, 2023

Men and women have different advantages in dating. Women have the power to no to male advances. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Women can usually expect a man to pick up the check and set the next date. So why is it that men are called “privileged” for taking advantage of the fact that we have a different biological clock? Beats the hell out of me. But something I heard on a podcast rubbed me the wrong way, and I had to talk about it.

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What Tradeoffs Are You Willing to Make for Love? Nov 17, 2023

You’re willing to make tradeoffs at work. You’re willing to make tradeoffs with your home. You’re willing to make tradeoffs with friends and family. But you do not want to give up anything when it comes to choosing a spouse. And when you do, you usually compromise on the wrong things. So many things can derail a relationship that you need to know what qualities make someone a good partner. This is the $64,000 question for all women who succeed in Love U. I hope it helps you make better choices with men.

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Is Your Life Getting in the Way of Love? Nov 10, 2023

You’re busy. You’ve got work. You’ve got friends. You’ve got family. You’ve got travel and hobbies and anxiety and health issues. So many things are out of our control – and those things can slowly erode a solid relationship. In this Love U Podcast, I share a few stories about couples – including my wife and I – who managed to pull together when life was pulling us in apart. Life isn’t always set up for love. That’s why you have to prioritize it.

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Run Toward Intimacy, Not Away From It! Nov 03, 2023

When you’ve been hurt before, the obvious move is to avoid getting hurt again. Guy slept with you and never called? Stop dating. Guy didn’t want to be your boyfriend after two months? Stop dating. Guy didn’t want to marry you after two years? Stop dating. Because intimacy has always led to heartbreak, your choices in men actually become WORSE. Suddenly, you’re in a friends with benefits situation. Suddenly, you’re seeing someone long-distance. Suddenly, you’re exclusive with a man who doesn’t want to get married. Why? Because somehow it feels safer to be in a dead-end situation than to be with someone where things could get real – and you could get hurt. It’s time to break that pattern and start moving towards the men who really want to commit – not away from them.

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It’s Not Only Men Who Are Emotionally Unavailable Oct 27, 2023

It’s unfortunately commonplace for women to fall in love with men, who, due a confluence of events, are not emotionally available for the relationship that she wants. Sometimes, he’s separated. Sometimes, he’s divorce. Sometimes, he doesn’t know what he’s looking for. Sometimes, he slammed with the normal trials of middle-aged men: loss of work, sickness, dying parents, depressed kids. Doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy. Might mean he’s a bad guy to date right now. And, if that’s the case, doesn’t it stand to reason that a few good women might also be emotionally unavailable? Why yes. Yes, it does.

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Are Your Needs Not Being Met By Your Man? Oct 20, 2023

After 15 years with my wife, I realize I’ve lost touch with a common emotion: being in a dissatisfying relationship but not having the courage to leave. The gap between the confidence my clients display at work and the insecurity they display in relationships is astonishing. This all just goes to show that we’re emotional people, often raised with poor role models, who don’t believe we deserve more from love than what we’re getting now. Here’s the good news: at any point in time, you can make a different choice. You can raise your standards. You can say no. You can find someone who loves you unconditionally and wants to take care of you. But it doesn’t start with him changing his behavior because you love him; it starts with you setting a boundary and dumping any man whose behavior makes you feel consistently anxious.

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Do Men Have Feelings, Too? Oct 13, 2023

I know men are supposed to be heartless and soulless. Sex machines who only text. Losers with no moral compass. Opponents on the battlefield of love. Surely, some of them are. But more of them, you may be surprised to remember, are actual human beings. Like you, they’re attracted to what they’re attracted to. Like you, they’ve made questionable choices in the past. Like you, they don’t know what combination of chemistry and compatiblity makes for a great partner. Like you, they’re muddling through, doing their best, and realizing that something isn’t working. As Mansplainer-in-Chief, I’m not justifying any male misbehavior. I am saying that the more you can connect with him emotionally on a date, the more likely you’ll see a better side of him.

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Your Inner Voice Is Lying To You Oct 06, 2023

We all have a voice in our head. Michael Singer wrote about it in The Untethered Soul. Echkhart Tolle wrote about it in The Power of Now. And recently, I heard Lori Gottlieb, author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, talk about it in a podcast. The problem with the voice in your head is that she’s relentlessly negative and critical, and if you allow her to dictate how you live your life, you’ll never be the best version of yourself. Love U is about helping you overcome your limiting beliefs and get the love you deserve. This is where it all starts.

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Are You Unintentionally Pushing Him Away? Sep 29, 2023

Love is scary, especially if you’ve been burned by men repeatedly. Women who are repeatedly burned by men often got a broken template in childhood about what healthy masculine love looks and feels like. Abusive, critical, selfish, unavailable fathers set the tone for the kind of men women choose in the future, to the point where every man feels equally unsafe. In Love U, we break down these patterns and rewire women to value men who are consistent and kind. But what happens when a guy is being good to you and you discover you’re pulling away and keeping your distance? That’s the topic of this Love U Podcast. Stick around.

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The Value of Being Nice Sep 22, 2023

Nice is one of those words that everyone says they value. But when it comes to attraction, more people – men and women – gravitate towards confident, funny and rich over “nice”. It’s a shame because there aren’t too many traits more important to a relationship than nice. Nice may mean selfless, nice may mean thoughtful, nice may mean “willing to compromise”, nice may mean “resolving conflict easily,” nice may mean being sensitive to your emotional needs, but without it, your relationship is sunk. I’m not the nicest guy in the world, but recently, I got a few lessons in the value of being nice. I hope it inspires you to go the extra mile to be nice to strangers and loved ones alike.

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Does He Have to Be Interesting for You to Be Interested? Sep 15, 2023

I’ll admit: I’m a bit of an intellectual snob. Okay, maybe a lot. Listen, I don’t have many hobbies, so I read a lot and nothing turns me on more than great conversation and sparkling wit. I spent a decade trying to find an Ivy League grad who also had a gift for banter – only to discover that few people possess those respective skill sets. The few that did…usually dumped me. It got me to think: maybe my obsession with finding the smartest, most interesting woman in the world was getting in the way of my long-term happiness. The evolution of my thinking on this topic changed my life. Maybe it’ll change yours as well.

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Have Boys Become More Like Girls? Sep 08, 2023

Second wave feminism was great for women in the United States. Today, more women graduate college than ever before and more women are financially independent than ever before. The result of this is that because women don’t “need” men to provide for them, far more women are choosing not to get married and to exit bad marriages. On top of that, the qualities it takes to succeed in the workplace: tenacity, competitiveness, strong opinions, leadership – have been prototypically coded as masculine. It would not be too much of a stretch to say that as women have become more masculine, men have become more feminine – less likely to be ambitious, less likely to call and plan and pay, less likely to drive dating and relationships forward. What does this mean for smart, successful women who are looking to date their equals? Stick around and I’ll do my best to explain.

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My Thoughts on Barbie Sep 01, 2023

The Barbie movie is now a billion dollar phenomenon – with good reason. It’s a movie told from a woman’s point of view that is unabashedly feminist but fairminded in how it treats its other protagonist, Ken. While it’s visually stunning and the soundtrack is fun, there’s a deeper message about gender roles, expectations, society and romantic relationships. This is my hot take – nearly a month after most of the other hot takes came out.

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Are You Afraid to Share Your Truth With Him? Aug 25, 2023

Have you ever been in a relationship where you are afraid of speaking your mind? Where every disagreement produces high anxiety because if you speak up, it could cause a fight, he could lash out, or he might even break up with you? It may be common but it sure isn’t healthy. Good relationships are strong enough to handle respectful disagreement because no disagreement should be big enough to rupture your partnership. If working things out quickly and calmly sounds like a foreign concept to you, stick around for this latest Love U Podcast.

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You’re Probably Passing Up Your Soulmate Aug 18, 2023

After many years on Earth, it’s common to feel like you know what you like and what kind of partner would work for you. The problem is that the more we get ground in to looking for our “type” (which is usually the opposite sex version of you), the fewer people qualify and you end up alone.

In Love U, we flip that script and learn to date on the margins – opening up to people who are slightly outside our parameters – a few inches shorter, a few years older, potentially different education, income, politics and religion – and voila! My wife and I would have passed each other up online; let’s make sure you don’t make such a colossal mistake yourself.

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10 Ways Your Anxiety Drives Him Away Aug 11, 2023

It’s normal to feel anxious about dating. Too many men are selfish, emotionally unavailable, and incapable of making you feel secure. But when you find a secure man who treats you well, your anxiety can be a real detriment. When you treat a nice, consistent guy as if he’s a constant threat to hurt you or abandon you, most of those nice guys will eventually find it tiring. In this Love U Podcast, we explore the many ways in which anxiety surfaces in a relationship so you can finally forge a bond with a man that is meant to last.

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https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2023/02/attachment-theory-misconceptions-relationship-spectrum/673025/

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Why High-Achieving Women Struggle With Feminine Energy Guys Aug 04, 2023

Masculinity is suddenly a hot topic in America. Is masculinity – aggression, decisiveness, ego – inherently toxic? Would men be better off acting more like women? If so, what does that mean for women who remain attracted to stereotypically masculine men? This is a common theme of my coaching in Love U and in this podcast, I wanted to share some of the insights and inherent contradictions in being a Type A woman who wants a man who is more “man” than she is, but bristles at the idea of being with a more passive, easygoing guy. This is a good one. Stick around.

RESOURCES: https://mariyaspasova.com/femininity-blog/feminine-men/

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Do Women Lie More Than Men? Jul 28, 2023

Yes, it’s a provocative title. But there’s some science underlying it. Because women are more sensitive to each others’ needs and emotional cues, they’re often more likely to withhold the truth.

Think of all the times you didn’t speak your mind to your boyfriends (or tell your girlfriends what they really needed to hear). And because you don’t always speak your truth – out of politeness or fear – you may have a hard time believing it when he says something like “I’m not looking for anything serious right now” or “I don’t ever want to get married again.”

In the second half of the podcast, we talk about basic conversational differences between men and women, as outlined by feminist author, Deborah Tannen. It’s a challenging, interesting, and important conversation.

RESOURCES: https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/opinions/1990/06/24/sex-lies-and-conversation/01cb17ba-1af7-4bf4-8a02-3d1b6c11648f/

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How Avoidant Attachment Is Killing Your Love Life Jul 21, 2023

He’s fun. He’s sexy. He’s successful. And he’s into you. But there’s one catch: he’s emotionally unavailable. Despite being a great catch, he might not be the best long-term partner due to his avoidant attachment style. Tune in to this Love U podcast episode to explore how avoidant attachment could be impacting your love life and gain valuable insights to navigate relationships better.

https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/uncategorized/are-you-secure-anxious-avoidant-attachment-theory-explains-it-all

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How Often Should You Hear from Your Guy Jul 14, 2023

One of the biggest complaints I get about men is about their inconsistency – both when dating and in relationships. So what’s a reasonable amount of contact to expect from guys? Well, it all depends on how long you’ve been seeing each other.

That’s why, in this Love U Podcast, I’ve broken dating into three phases: the first couple of weeks, when you’ve been dating 3-5 weeks, and when you’re officially boyfriend/girlfriend. Once you know how a good boyfriend acts, you’ll have no tolerance for accepting less from men.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/letting-go/boyfriend-only-contacts-me-every-couple-of-days-am-i-overreacting

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How You Can Make Men Slow Down Physically Jul 07, 2023

When it comes to sex, men usually seek speed and women prioritize comfort. If men push too hard early on, women will often shut down. Similarly, if a woman slows down so much that he feels unattractive, it’s bound to backfire as well.

That’s why, in this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline specifically how women can slow down men to the point that you feel comfortable, but keep things moving fast enough that he feels connected to you and excited to spend more time with you.

Since so many burgeoning relationships break up in the first month around sex, it really helps if you know how to pace yourself so that his attraction can turn into a commitment.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/a-good-man-is-hard-to-find-only-35-of-men-are-emotionally-intelligent

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4 Tips to Create Intimacy With Your Man Jun 30, 2023

Ever notice that there are some good guys out there who seem incapably of true intimacy? You’re not alone.

In this Love U podcast, I outline three main reasons that so many men seem emotionally stunted and 4 essential tips for creating intimacy with your man.

After that, we talk about emotional intelligence – what it means and how it’s an essential component of successful relationships. As always, the goal is to raise your standards on what to expect from men.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/a-good-man-is-hard-to-find-only-35-of-men-are-emotionally-intelligent and www.evanmarckatz.com/livestream

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5 Ways Your Negativity Shines Through on Dates Jun 23, 2023

It’s easy to become negative after years of disappointing relationships and awful spells of intense online dating. So it’s not that you’re “wrong” for feeling your feelings; it’s that it’s ineffective in helping you connect with men and get lasting love.

In this Love U Podcast, we explore the five ways your negativity shines through on first dates, as well as five ways that women might feel more negative about dating than men. It would sound like it’s a negative podcast, but, really, it’s a call to optimism, ending in a beautiful love story that can one day be yours. Stick around.

https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/letting-go/why-are-women-more-negative-about-dating-than-men

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Do You Make Too Big a Deal About Small Differences? Jun 16, 2023

Sure, you want to find someone compatible. But does compatibility mean that you’re going to be just like your partner in every way? That you’re going to agree on everything? That he’s not going to have any qualities you don’t like? And if you do have some – uh – quirks, would you want him focusing on them in an attempt to find someone flawless. Join me on this interesting episode where we do a deep dive on the narcissism of small differences, and explore what, if anything, should send you running in the opposite direction.

https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/when-do-you-tell-someone-that-youre-different

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What To Do If You’re in Your Masculine Energy Jun 09, 2023

Women need masculine energy to thrive in the workplace and set healthy boundaries with men. Men need feminine energy to be empathetic partners. But what happens when women are too in their “masculine” and men are too in their “feminine?” Turns out, most people don’t like that dynamic. And yet it’s all too common when career women are forced to put on different hats depending upon whether they’re at work or at home. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore masculine and feminine energy – what’s most effective in dating and how it impacts your choice of a compatible partner, and maybe, just maybe, explain a few of the mysteries of why smart, successful women struggle in love.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/can-stay-man-im-masculine

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Are You Afraid of Getting Married? Jun 02, 2023

Over half of divorced women say they don’t want to get remarried – a fact that isn’t at all surprising, considering their previous experience with marriage. But after listening to women tell me about their dreams and desires for 20 years, I want to challenge the notion that women don’t want to get remarried. They do. They’re just afraid of doing so. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to dig into statistics about marriage, divorce, and remarriage and maybe, just maybe, dispel the notion that you’ll be happy for the rest of your life with just a boyfriend, rather than a ring on your finger.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/married-people-happier-singles

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How Do You Know If He’s Right For You? May 26, 2023

Perhaps the biggest question I get – apart from “where are all the quality guys?” is “how do you know if he’s right for you?” It’s a vital question because nothing is more important than who you choose to marry, and you’ve probably made some questionable decisions with your partners in the past. In this episode, I share three stories of couples of varying compatibility and share the unifying glue that makes long-term relationships work: connection. In addition, you’ll discover that all this stuff about slowing down when you date isn’t just something I say for kicks; it’s backed by social science. Finally, if you’re ready to stop wasting time on the wrong men, go to www.evanmarckatz.com/livestream and if you’re serious about finding the right one, go to www.evanmarckatz.com/bootcamp. I can’t wait to see you there.

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/08/in-relationships-be-deliberate/378713/

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Do You Have Trouble Trusting Men? May 19, 2023

Are you used to dating guys who lie, cheat and gaslight you? Do you have a hard time trusting men because of these experiences? Have you ever wondered how anyone can find a trustworthy man and relax within a relationship? On this Love U Podcast, I share two GREAT stories for you from my own life AND offer the facts about the frequency of infidelity, the effects caused by a lack of trust, and how you can weed out most cheaters before you ever fall for them.

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https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/cheating/why-women-cheat-on-their-husbands

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What to Do If You Hate Online Dating May 12, 2023

Most people hate online dating. It’s easy to see why. People are flaky. They’re rude. They lie about their photos. They’re inconsistent communicators. They don’t know what they’re looking for. They’re either too passive or too aggressive. And yet… 40% of all couples are meeting online and, for many people, online dating is the only way to create a love life from scratch. So how do you make the most of a medium that is so frustrating. Listen to the whole podcast and I’ll tell you. Oh, and if you’re tired of spinning your wheels and wasting your time on the wrong men, go to www.evanmarckatz.com/livestream to learn how to meet the right guy, and check out my brand new Love U Bootcamp at www.evanmarckatz.com/love-u-bootcamp.

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https://www.datingnews.com/industry-trends/online-dating-statistics-what-they-mean-for-future/

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How to Be an Amazing First Date May 05, 2023

It’s really easy to focus on how terrible men are at dating. You’re not wrong! But it’s much more powerful to consider how you show up to men on first dates. In this Love U Podcast, I’m exploring two important concepts: how to break your pattern of going out with your “type” – especially when your type isn’t a good fit for you, and how to be the kind of first date that every man falls for and wants to see again.

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https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/what-gives-a-first-online-date-every-chance-of-turning-into-a-second-20161116-gsqg12.html

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The BEST Type of Man to Date Is… Apr 28, 2023

Yes, there really is a best type of man to date. It’s not the demanding and selfish narcissists. It’s not the passive, boring, unattractive men either. So who does that leave? Your future husband, that’s who! In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to share a story about the perils of alpha males as well as some fascinating social science that tells you what kind of man is attractive AND has the potential to be an amazing partner.

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https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_myth_of_the_alpha_male

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12 Questions for All Long-Term Couples Apr 21, 2023

Do you consistently discover that you want different things than your partner? You’re looking for marriage; he just wants a girlfriend. You want to spend quality time; he just wants to see you on weekends? If that’s the case, I’ve got the Love U Podcast for you. We begin with two cautionary tales of Love U clients who ignored red flags and ended up in dead-end relationships. Then we go through 12 not-so-telling questions that long-term couples should answer. Finally, we end on a beautiful Love U love story which reminds you why you keep pursuing love, no matter how challenging it is.

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https://www.theplaceretreats.com/blog/the-marriage-audit-12-questions-every-long-term-couple-should-ask/

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The End of Gender Roles? Apr 14, 2023

Why are gay couples happier than straight couples? Why do men and women resent roles they’ve chosen in their relationships? Why do Evan and his wife have the same exact issues as everybody else in the world? On this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore gender roles within committed relationships and learn how to make smart compromises that lead to greater happiness.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/13/opinion/sunday/marriage-housework-gender-happiness.html

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Does He REALLY Make You Happy? Apr 07, 2023

All too often, you find yourself seeing a guy who is amazing on paper, but you’re not happy in the relationship. The longer you stay with him, the worse it gets, the more you want him to change, and the harder it is to break away. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to ask you to consider how many years you ignored your feelings in relationships. And in the second half of the episode, we’re going to explore what it feels like to be with a man where you feel like part of a team, instead of two individuals who happen to be married.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/09/opinion/relationship-identity-mindset-marriage.html

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Is He Toxic? Mar 31, 2023

What is toxic? Is it lovebombing? Ghosting? Gaslighting? Narcissistic Personality Disorder? Or is it a guy who can’t resolve conflict? Who can’t hold down a job? Who won’t remain faithful? Who is highly negative and critical? It may be all of these, but one thing’s for sure: we’re gonna dive deep in this Love U Podcast. Soon, you’ll discover that it doesn’t matter what the label, all that matters is how you FEEL in the relationship.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/11/style/therapy-speak-dating.html

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Why We All Need Connection Mar 24, 2023

Independence is a good thing. You need to be independent from your parents to become a high-functioning adult. You need to have an education and career that supports you on your own. You should have friends and interests of your own choosing. But what happens when all that independence leaves you alone? No one taking care of you. No one sharing the burdens of life. No one to build a future. No day-to-day loving connection from a partner devoted to your happiness. That’s the topic of today’s Love U Podcast.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/03/09/opinion/art-of-dependence.html

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The Secrets of Male Desire Mar 17, 2023

Are men really more sexually aggressive than women? Why do women want to be desired? How do we square women’s need to be wanted in a post #MeToo world? All of this juicy stuff comes from a thought-provoking article by Richard Reeves, author of Of Boys and Men. Also, tips to avoid getting stuck in a dead-end situationship.

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How to Get Great Dates on Dating Apps Mar 10, 2023

In a brand new Love U Podcast format – which allows for longer stories and more vivid gesticulation – I cover two super important concepts: 1. The value of screening men on dating apps and exactly how to do it. 2. The problem with assortative mating – dating people who are just like you. And since I went on 300 online dates before getting married to a partner who is not like me, I think you ought to listen closely.

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How to Deal With a Man With an Anxious Attachment Style Mar 03, 2023

An anxious attachment style is marked by behavior that is perceived as needy, clingy, nervous and sometimes, histrionic. The more afraid you are that your partner will leave you, the more you act out to ensure it doesn’t happen. Many of my Love U clients are anxious. But what happens when the man you’re dating is the anxious one? Will you soothe his insecurities or abandon him like everyone else? Stick around to learn what to do when he’s afraid.

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7 Powerful Tips for the Early Stage of Dating Feb 24, 2023

SO MANY things can go wrong in the early stage of dating. That’s why – in Love U – I have an entire month of content based on the time between when you meet a guy until the time he becomes your boyfriend. This is where most people screw up. This is where most people need help. This is why I have a job. Behold, 7 tips, directly from Love U, on how to navigate that precious time before he’s your boyfriend.

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10 Steps for Talking About Politics When Dating Feb 17, 2023

Trigger warning. No, I don’t do trigger warnings. But today, I’m going to be talking about something controversial – something that’s been tearing up the United States slowly for 30 years. Political tribalism. It’s been a huge negative force in America. Politics has essentially turned into a religion, where otherwise normal people turn into the Hatfields and McCoys. So when is political tribalism a dealbreaker and when it can be dealt with? Let’s just say I have thoughts.

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4 Simple Tips to Stop Obsessing Over Your Crush Feb 10, 2023

This is the first guy you’ve liked in a long time. It’s exciting to have a crush, but you realize that you’re probably a little too obsessed with someone you barely know. While you’re still going to stalk him on social media and check your phone incessantly to see when he texts you again, you also need to do something healthy so this obsession doesn’t take over your life. In this short podcast, I’m going to give you a framework to relax, keep your perspective and stop obsessing about the new guy.

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5 Questions to Ask When He’s Friends With His Ex Feb 03, 2023

You discovered your boyfriend still talks to his ex. Maybe it was a social media post, maybe it was a text, or maybe he’s meeting her for dinner. The question is whether this is a big deal – and if it is – what should you do about it? My answer will surprise you – and likely piss you off. Enjoy the Love U Podcast.

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9 Reasons Why Guys Don’t Commit Jan 27, 2023

You’ve fallen in love with seemingly great guys who did all the right things, let you fall in love with them, and then, for some reason, wouldn’t step up to the plate to commit. Are these men all players, toxic narcissists, and monsters? Of course not. There are good reasons that guys don’t commit. Well, maybe not good reasons, but they’re real and I’d rather tell you the truth about them than to leave you in the dark.

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5 Signs He Just Wants Sex Jan 20, 2023

He’s hot. He’s into you. He sleeps with you. He ghosts. It’s an age-old tale – we know how it ends – and yet, this scenario plays out, over and over, every day, across the world. And it made me think: what if there were an easy way to explain to women in a few minutes why this happens and how to avoid it? Well, now there is. This is the Love U Podcast. Stick around.

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Why Women in their 40’s, 50’s and 60’s Should Be Optimistic About Love Jan 13, 2023

I know. It’s rough out there. You go online, and it’s a horror show. The older you get, the less attractive the men are. The older you get, the more damaged the men are. The older you get, the fewer ugly, damaged men even bother to show interest in you. Because of this, you may be tempted to give up – to conclude that dating is hopeless after a certain age. In this Love U podcast, I want to restore your sense of hope and show you why there are plenty of quality guys in the marketplace, no matter what your age.

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What My Wife Doesn’t Like About Me Jan 06, 2023

Fact: I’m a happily married dating coach. Fact: My wife accepts me as I am and loves me unconditionally. Fact: I have a ton of personality flaws that drive her out of her mind. Today I’m going to discuss those flaws and maybe shed light on how two reasonable people can work around irreconcilable differences.

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What Do You Do With a Guy Who Won’t Stop Texting? Dec 30, 2022

There’s this cute guy you met online. You’ve been texting for a week now. And you’re about ready to cut him off entirely. It’s like this guy has no life outside of texting you. 50 times a day, your phone pings. Good morning. Good night. Random photos. Sincere compliments about how much he likes you and how he can’t stop thinking about you. Yes, he’s a supertexter. So why does he do this and what do you do with him? I’ll explain it all in this Love U Podcast.

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Should I Text Him to Confirm a Date? Should I Thank Him Afterwards? Dec 23, 2022

Dating apps can be confounding. He matches with you but doesn’t email you. He texts you but doesn’t ask you out. He makes a date but doesn’t confirm. He takes you out but doesn’t follow up. In this episode, I’m going to explain exactly why this takes place and what you should do about it. Stick around.

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What To Do After You Sleep With Him On the First Date Dec 16, 2022

It happens more than you’d like to admit. The chemistry is there. You have a powerful connection. You have a couple extra drinks. You go back to his place to make out and the next thing you know, you’ve had sex. Which may have been a great experience but where does that leave you now? Is he going to text tomorrow? Does he want to see you again? Is he looking for anything serious? Those are important questions, and on this Love U Podcast, I’ve got your answers.

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How Can I Tell If He’s the One? Dec 09, 2022

He’s a good guy. He treats you well. But a few months into it, you’re having misgivings. Shouldn’t there be more passion? Shouldn’t you “just know”? It’s pretty anxiety producing to be in a solid relationship and focus only on what he’s lacking. In this Love U Podcast, I’ll explain what you should feel at different stages of the relationship, and how you can tell if he’s the one.

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Are You TOO Happy Being Single? Dec 02, 2022

Are you happy being single? Good. As a dating and relationship coach, it is much easier to help a woman who is happy than to help a woman who is unhappy. At the same time, if you’re so happy being single, it’s entirely possible you’ll never have an incredible relationship. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to show you how being happily single can be its own trap – and how you can get out of that trap just by sticking around until the end of this episode.

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Should I Reach Out First on a Dating App? Nov 25, 2022

You know when you match on a dating app and you’re waiting for him to text…and he doesn’t? You wonder what he’s thinking. You take it personally. You tell yourself that if he REALLY liked you, he’d have made the first move. Not true! In this Love U Podcast, I explain why a guy might be attracted to you and still not initiate contact – and why that’s not such a bad thing.

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How Soon Should You Act on Red Flags? Nov 18, 2022

When a guy is cute and you’re tired of dating and longing for connection, it’s easy to fall into a relationship. But if you keep telling yourself that you “attract the wrong guys,” pay close attention. Because the truth is that you don’t attract the wrong men, you overlook their red flags at the beginning only to have a hard time breaking up down the road when these issues rear their ugly head. Starting today, you won’t make that mistake anymore. Stick around.

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How Important Are Common Interests, Anyway? Nov 11, 2022

Check out an online dating profile. You’ll see lists of hobbies and interests, suggesting that if you have these things in common, you’ll be a good match. But is that the case? If he has passions that you don’t share, should you not even bother to write to him? In today’s Love U Podcast, I answer a reader question with a straightforward response that will forever make you reconsider the place of common interests.

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5 Reasons You May Be Afraid of Commitment Nov 04, 2022

Women who apply to Love U do so because they’ve hit bottom. You’re tired of getting ghosted, you’re tired of dating apps, you’re tired of wasting time on emotionally unavailable men, and you’d really like to find your person. In other words, no one comes here to be a dating expert. Everyone wants a successful long-term relationship. So now, when you’re finally faced with a man who may be boyfriend material, you freeze. Come to think of it, you say you want commitment, but maybe you’re not ready for commitment. That’s what today’s Love U podcast is about. Stick around.

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Is He Cheating or Not Cheating? Oct 28, 2022

Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you stop interacting with the opposite sex. And when you do, there’s always the possibility that someone could be unfaithful and the possibility that someone can be unreasonably insecure and jealous. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline exactly what constitutes cheating and what doesn’t. I’m positive that no one will disagree and this will be the last word on it. Stick around.

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How Men And Women Pursue Sex Differently Oct 21, 2022

Ever notice that men are willing to sleep with you even if they have no desire to commit? You’re not alone. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to deconstruct how men and women pursue sex differently and why it’s important to understand these differences. After all, you can’t change men, but you can change who you sleep with and when. Stick around.

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Should I Give a Chance to an Older Guy Who Has Never Been Married? Oct 14, 2022

Should you consider dating an older guy who has never been married? While red flags abound, there’s a good reason to consider a lifelong bachelor who wants to settle down: the fact that there are plenty of never-married women in their 50’s who ALSO want to get married. Stick around if you want to learn how judge people as individuals rather than categories.

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Are You Choosing Your Man? Or Are You Being Chosen? Oct 07, 2022

You wouldn’t take any food that someone forced onto your plate. You wouldn’t take any job that was offered to you out of college. You wouldn’t live in any home that was temporarily vacant. Then why is it that so many women tell me that their entire love lives have been based on whatever man showed strong interest at the time? The answer, of course, is scarcity. If you think you’re never going to eat again, you’ll take whatever food is offered. If you think you have no employment options, you grab anything that pays the bills. If you’re going to be homeless, you take a room wherever it’s available. Here’s what’s different about love: you don’t NEED to take whatever’s available. You can say no. You can be single. You can raise your standards until they’re met. So if your pattern is falling into a relationship with whoever tries the hardest when you’re lonely, listen to this Love U Podcast. You’ll never be the same.

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How Do I Get Him to Plan a Date? Sep 30, 2022

Gender roles have changed in the last 40 years. Women are now equal in workplace and have taken on a more masculine, proactive role in their lives. In turn, many men have become more passive when it comes to dating – and women are not really enjoying this shift. So what can you do when you like a guy who just won’t take the lead? Stick around and I’ll break it down for you.

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Why It’s Hard For Successful Women To Date Successful Men Sep 23, 2022

You’re the smart, successful woman who has everything but her man. You have a job you love. You’ve got your own home. You are well read, well traveled, and have been on the planet long enough to know what you like and what you don’t. And what you like – somewhat predictably – are men who are more impressive than you. Taller, smarter, richer, funnier, more charismatic, more driven. A man you can look up to. No one is blaming you for this attraction. But what have you noticed in your attempts to single-mindedly pursue such men? 95% of men aren’t qualified. Of the remaining 5%, half of them don’t want to date a woman as strong as you. As for the other half, they’re attracted to you but, for some reason, the relationship never works. But does that stop you from going for these Type A impressive guys? Of course not! You keep dating more men who are just like you, thinking that eventually you’re going to find one that fits. What you don’t realize is that dating men who is the problem. Because they are just like you. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain how your best bet to have a happy relationship is to change your choice of partner, rather than trying to change your personality.

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How Can I Attract A Quality Man If I’m Over 50? Sep 16, 2022

It’s not just in your head. The older you get, the harder dating gets. A lot of secure men are already taken. A lot of anxious and avoidant men litter the dating pool. A lot of divorced men are in no rush to get married again. And age discrimination is a real thing. Given that situation, what’s a woman over 50 to do? Stick around and I’ll explain.

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8 Reasons You Stay With the Wrong Man Too Long Sep 09, 2022

Have you ever dated a great guy but had NO idea where your relationship was going? I mean, you have fun together, but, for the life of you, you can’t tell whether the relationship is escalating from “guy I’m seeing” to “boyfriend” or from “boyfriend” to “husband.” The longer you spend with him, the more you like him. The more you like him, the more you invest in him. The more you invest in him, the harder it is to think of breaking things off. Next thing you know, you’ve sunk three years into a relationship with a man who was NEVER going to be your husband. All because you didn’t pay attention to the signs. That all changes after today’s Love U Podcast.

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Can I Date if I’m Overweight? Sep 02, 2022

If you aren’t happy with your weight, you’re not alone. But just because you could lose a few pounds doesn’t mean you shouldn’t date. Nor does it mean that it’s hopeless. In this Love U Podcast, I explore that while dating is more challenging if you’re heavy, the biggest limitation to your success is whether you believe it’s possible.

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5 Things To Do When You’re OVER Dating Aug 26, 2022

You ever want to give up on dating, relationships, and men forever? I get it. There’s only so many times you can get ghosted, used, insulted, embarrassed, and heartbroken before you start to think that you’d be better off alone. If you’re frustrated and confused as to why it’s so hard to find a quality man and you want to find the strength to keep on going, you definitely want to listen to this Love U Podcast, where I’m going to tell you exactly what to do when you’re at your lowest.

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When Can We Talk About Serious Things on Dates? Aug 19, 2022

If you’ve ever struggled with trying to get to know a guy and keeping things light on a first date – and wondered when you can start having meaningful conversations, look no further. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you how to be a great first date conversationalist so that every guy wants to see you again.

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10 Life-Changing Relationship Tips for Women Aug 12, 2022

For most people, relationships are hard. Finding someone who meets your mental, physical and emotional needs is hard, and maintaining that connection is even harder. But recently I discovered that most of my clients have a huge blind spot: they have amazing relationship skills that they use in the workplace; they just don’t use them in romantic relationships. In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I’m going to share some great business advice that doubles as great dating advice.

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I’m Not Attracted to Anyone. What Should I Do? Aug 05, 2022

Have you ever noticed how hard it is to find an attractive guy on a dating app? Have you ever noticed that the most attractive guys are the least likely to follow through once you match? Have you ever considered there might be a more effective way to date? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to answer a common reader question, share some eye-opening statistics about attraction and give you some practical advice that will help you meet more attractive guys than ever before.

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You May Be Passing Up Your Soulmate Online Jul 29, 2022

You may not want to hear this but you may be passing up your soulmate online. In Love U, we assume that 90% of men are not your future husband, but that leaves 10% of men to choose from. And if you’re online right now and you’re only open to 1% of men, you are most likely sabotaging your own chances of happiness. In this Love U Podcast, I tell you a real story of some mega smart, mega hot, mega-wealthy women who’ve struggled to find quality men – and how one of them finally listened to me and got an amazing guy out of the process.

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How Do You Stay in Love and Keep a Relationship Fresh? Jul 22, 2022

Once you’re past the honeymoon period of a relationship – usually, 18-36 months – you enter the attachment phase of love. That’s when love becomes a choice, rather than a feeling. So if you’re going to choose to love someone, how can you ensure that your relationship doesn’t fall into a rut like so many others? 14 years into my marriage, I feel like I’ve got a few ideas and in this Love U Podcast, I really open up about the kind of practices and beliefs you can use to invigorate your relationship.

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How Do I Break Up With Him? Jul 15, 2022

How do I break up with him? As a dating coach, I get this question frequently, and every time, I find myself a little bit surprised. Evidently, what seems obvious to me is extremely challenging and emotionally fraught to others. In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I’m going to make sense of why I get this question, and, in turn, how you can use what you learn in this episode to let go of your man and find one who is a better fit for your life.

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You’re Dating Completely Wrong (According to Science) Jul 08, 2022

Race/ethnicity, religious affiliation, height, occupation, physical attractiveness, previous marital status, sexual tastes, similarity to oneself. These are the things you find attractive. And yet these are qualities that have been proven to have ZERO effect on your chances for romantic happiness. This disconnect between what’s attractive and important is at the heart of what I teach in Love U, and I’m delighted to share these two studies that back up this claim. You’re dating wrong and until you figure out how to date right, you’re doomed to repeat the same mistakes you’ve made for your entire life.

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Why Do Men Act So Horribly on Dating Apps? Jul 01, 2022

You use dating apps and you hate them. Guys who match with you are icky. Guys who text you are either too passive or too aggressive. Guys who seem interested disappear. Guys who seem normal send dick pix. What the f@#$? I might not be able to change what men do on Tinder or Bumble but I can explain why dating apps will always produce behavior like this, and how you can do better.

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How Do I Know If I Can Do Better Than My Boyfriend? Jun 24, 2022

Are you in a relationship with a man where you’re always wondering if you can do better? In this Love U Podcast, I answer questions from two listeners who feel uneasy with their boyfriends and wonder whether it’s normal. Yes, it’s normal to have second thoughts about boyfriends, and no, you shouldn’t stay if the negative outweighs the positive.

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8 Reasons Men Are Terrible At Dating Jun 17, 2022

You’ve gone out with enough guys to realize that, well, most of them are just AWFUL at dating. Canceling at the last minute. Staring at their phones. Not picking up the check. Leaving early. Trying to get laid. Talking trash about their exes. It’s not a pretty scene. But if we can assume that men are legitimately doing their best to make a good first impression, then how can they be SO FAR OFF? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain to you why most guys are horrible at the act of dating – and what you should do about it.

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Why You’re Attracted to the Wrong Guys and What To Do About It Jun 10, 2022

It’s normal to be attracted to guys who aren’t good for you. It’s normal to date such men in hopes that they’ll change, that they’ll grow, that things will get better, that the power of your chemistry and love will make it work. It never does. Attraction is what gets you INTO a relationship. Compatibility is what keeps you there. And if you keep finding yourself in relationships with attractive incompatible guys, you need to do something different to get you a different result. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to show you how.

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You’re Lying If You Say You Want To Be Alone Jun 04, 2022

Every week, I talk with women who apply for dating coaching and insist that they’re happy being alone. But are they, really? In this ranting Love U Podcast, I challenge this big lie that women tell themselves to justify staying out of the dating game. The truth is that you’d rather be single than in a bad relationship, but you’d rather be in a happy relationship than be single.

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Why Doesn’t He Listen To Me? May 27, 2022

You love your boyfriend and he loves you. But you find yourself increasingly frustrated with him because he’s not acting the way you want him to. He makes you happy in so many ways, so why can’t he just do the few things you’re asking him to do? If he really loved you, wouldn’t he want to? The answer – in a word – is no. And in this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain to you why the secret of relationships is not in getting your boyfriend to change, but in finding a boyfriend you can fully accept. Stick around.

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How Do You Navigate Sex When You’re Dating May 20, 2022

Your first three dates were amazing. Now, it’s Date 4, he’s back at your place, and he’s reaching for your belt buckle. You’re turned on, but you don’t think this is a great idea, but you don’t want to stop him and make a great date turn awkward. What can you to set a healthy boundary and still let him know you’re interested? Sex is one of my favorite topics and I’m going to go off on it in just a minute.

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No Chemistry? Here’s What to Do. May 13, 2022

Chemistry. It’s the greatest drug in the world. When you’re feeling it, you’re on top of the world. When you’re not feeling it, you feel depressed and trapped. So what do you do if your chemistry isn’t off the charts? Is there any chance that you can have a relationship with someone who doesn’t curl your toes? I’ve got your answers in just a second

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Why You Should Stop Recycling Men May 06, 2022

Did your ex text you a happy birthday? Did that guy you hooked up with reach out during the pandemic? Did your high school boyfriend write to you on Facebook? Yep. This is what guys do. They don’t know if they want to sleep with you, keep in touch with you, date you, or marry you, so they send all sorts of mixed messages. They’re like sharks, swimming in the water, waiting for some chum. Sorry to say: you’re the chum.

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10 Painful Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore Apr 29, 2022

We’ve all been there. Everything was going great – until it wasn’t. It’s not like you did anything different, but suddenly, there was a shift in your relationship and now you feel off-balance. You’ve been around long enough to know that something is wrong, but you’re looking for validation that it’s not just you. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share the telltale signs your guy has started to lose interest in you, so you won’t have to wonder you’re going crazy. You’re not. He’s pulling away. Here’s exactly how you can tell.

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Love Bombing, Future Faking, Zombieing and Ghosting, Oh My! Apr 22, 2022

With the advent of dating apps that sit on your phone and give you access to thousands of singles in your area, there has never been an easier time to meet people than today. Then why does it all feel so bad? The answer is that all good qualities come with bad qualities. And if 21st century dating is marked by easy access, the downside is that we’ve had to come up with a new vocabulary to describe what can go wrong. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to share some modern dating vocabulary to help you make sense of the ever-expanding number of ways that men can disappoint you.

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What To Do When He’s Not Ready For A Relationship Apr 15, 2022

You’ve seen it before. Girl likes boy. Boy likes girl. Boy starts acting like a boyfriend. Girl falls deeper for boy. Boy doesn’t realize his deep-seated issues, insecurities and fear of commitment will ultimately end up breaking girl’s heart. Girl’s heart gets broken. It’s a sad, if common, scene, which begs the following question: what should you to if you suspect your guy is not emotionally available for a future?

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Do You Really Want Him? (Or Do You Just THINK You Do?) Apr 08, 2022

Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy where something didn’t feel right? Maybe it was a lack of chemistry. Maybe it was a lack of trust. Maybe it was a lack of comfort. Maybe you couldn’t put your finger on it. And yet even though you felt, deep inside, that something was off, you ignored that feeling and stayed. Months, even years of wasted time, all because you were afraid to trust your gut pull the plug, and start all over. Today, I’m going to share with you a few examples of how good women fight for relationships they don’t really want, and remind you of the importance of listening to your feelings.

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How To Get Over Cheating And Betrayal Apr 01, 2022

Have you had a boyfriend who cheated on you? Have you been devastated by the betrayal? The lying? The deceiving? The double life? The illusion that your relationship was strong? The second-guessing your own judgment? You’re not alone. Millions of women have suffered from unfaithful men. Some manage to repair their relationships. Some continue to suffer with a cheating partner and a lack of trust. Others break up but can’t help but choose other guys who lie. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to walk you through and tell you when you should stay, when you should go, and what you can do to break your patterns.

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Why Older Men Are Better Than Younger Men Mar 25, 2022

You go online and note the men who are swiping on you. One guy is shirtless. One guy has a colored mohawk. One guy has a tattoo on his neck. One guy has a handlebar mustache. One guy looks like he was born in the 2000’s. Then you read their profiles – all about being chill and hooking up and playing video games and the magic of chemistry. And you think: these are all children. You don’t need a boy. You need a man. One who is ready to settle down, build a life and be your equal and more. If you’re tired of immature fuck-boys who are in no way ready to become anyone’s husband, this podcast is for you.

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Why Younger Men Are Better Than Older Men Mar 18, 2022

You go online and note the men who are swiping on you. Far too many look like a less attractive version of your dad. Old. Heavy. Grey. Bald. Wrinkled. White bearded. Unappealing. You look in the mirror and see a sexy, vibrant woman – one often mistaken for 5 to 10 years younger. And you ask yourself: why would I go out with an older guy when I can get a younger guy? If you’ve ever cringed at the boomers begging you to give them a chance, this podcast is for you.

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Do You Worry What Others Think About Your Guy? Mar 11, 2022

If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman, you’re familiar with this dilemma. You’re in the 95th percentile of all women in terms of your credentials. And because of that, you believe you can only date the 5% of men who are “above” you. You know intellectually that men don’t date this way: there are few men who insist on dating women taller AND smarter AND richer AND more educated AND funnier. And yet, you persist. Finally, when you meet a guy who is amazing but doesn’t fit in the dream of what you thought you deserved, you struggle. Are you settling? What will your friends think? What will your parents think? In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore what matters most in a relationship and why caring about what others think as an adult is even worse than caring about what others think when you’re in high school. By now, you should know better.

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He Doesn’t Need a Girlfriend. He Needs a Mommy. Mar 04, 2022

You ever date a guy who was just so cute, so funny, so charming, and so… immature. It’s not that he’s a bad guy, per se. It’s that he’s never quite grown up. While you have a blast while you’re out, when it comes to building a life, it feels like you have to do all the heavy lifting. So what do you do when you’re with a fun guy who requires so much effort?

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How To Get Him To Commit (4 Proven Ways That Work) Feb 25, 2022

It’s pretty much THE question, isn’t it? You’ve done your time on dating apps. You’ve had enough meaningless sex to satisfy your curiosity. You’ve found guys with potential who couldn’t live up to their promise. And now you want to know the ultimate: how can you get a guy to want to be with you forever? In the next few minutes, I’m going to share a few powerful tips with you, and one earth-shaking idea that will forever change the way you look at commitment.

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Can You Really Have An Equal Relationship? Feb 18, 2022

You’ve been in relationships where you gave and didn’t receive anything in return. You’ve been in relationships with men who were domineering and didn’t listen to you. You’ve been in relationships with men who were passive and weak. Which leads to the obvious question: can you really have a 50/50 relationship? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share a very personal example about how the answer is both yes…and no.

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How To Find A Quality Guy Online (That Other Women Miss) Feb 11, 2022

You go online. You set your search criteria. No more than 5 years older. Six feet tall. College degree. Six figure income. Same religion and politics. Handsome face, good body. You discover there aren’t that many men who meet all those criteria so you swipe left on 95% of men and are frustrated that 5% who qualify seem to be players with a lot of options. You try different apps and sites. You take breaks. But every time, you come back and search the same way with the same dissatisfying results. Today, I’m going to teach you how to double your dating pool and meet better men, all without ever feeling like you’re “settling.”

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What Men Want In A Relationship But Don’t Ask For Feb 04, 2022

You want to understand men? Great. I’m a man who has been explaining what we think to women for nearly 20 years. And while I don’t expect you to love everything I’m going to say, what you can count on is that I’m telling you the truth – even when it makes guys look bad. With that, here are 8 things men want you to know but will rarely say out loud.

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The Real Reason To Not Have Sex With Men Too Early Jan 28, 2022

You were seeing a guy. And by seeing a guy, I mean sleeping with a guy. Things were really great for those first five dates. Until they weren’t. Suddenly, he did the slow fade, texting less frequently, not reaching out for platonic plans, not driving the relationship forward. If you heard from him at all, it was a random text to say hi, or a plea for you to come to his house. Sooner or later, it all fell apart. And from that experience, you learned…nothing. Yes, you’ve repeated that pattern again and again and again. Meet a cute, charming guy, sleep with him before you know him well, and wonder why you keep getting hurt. Today, I’m going to suggest one minor change to the order of things. Don’t sleep with a guy until he’s your boyfriend. Not because I say so. But because your way of doing things hasn’t exactly been making you happy.

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How To Tell Him You Miss Him Without Sounding Needy Jan 21, 2022

It’s really common for men to think women are needy. Because of this perception, it’s really common for women to think they’re needy. Today, I’m here to tell you that you’re not needy. There’s a great quote that says “You’re only as needy as your unmet needs.” So if you’re not seeing him enough for your satisfaction, I encourage you to express yourself without the fear of looking needy. But, as you know, it’s not what you say; it’s how you say it. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline how you can express yourself without fear and get your guy to want to make a greater effort for you.

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How You Can Make Time for Love No Matter How Busy You Are Jan 14, 2022

Are you a busy woman? Do you have a meaningful, demanding and lucrative career? Have you poured more time and energy into your job than your love life because your work life is simply working better? If so, you’re not alone. Most of the women who enroll in Love U will spend 50 hours a week working and wonder why it’s so hard to meet a quality man. Today, I’m going to explain exactly what you need to do in order to meet and ultimately marry one special man. But, be forewarned, you’re going to have to do something different to get a different result.

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6 Undeniable Signs He’s Your Soulmate Jan 07, 2022

You’re dating a guy. You’re falling in love. But you don’t trust your judgment because every other time you’ve been in love, you ignored some serious red flags. How can you make sure that this time turns out different? Well, instead of focusing on what’s wrong with men, as we so often do, today’s Love U Podcast is going to focus on what’s right about them. Without further ado, here are six ways you can tell that your man is a keeper.

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The 3 Main Fears That Stop You From Finding Love Dec 31, 2021

If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who has everything but a man, you may not identify as a fearful person. But as a dating coach who has been helping women like you for 17 years, I can tell you definitively that fear plays a major factor in how you approach dating. Fear of being alone for the rest of your life. Fear of dating and rejection. Fear of getting stuck in a bad relationship. Whether you’re afraid of one of those things or all of those things, its going to have a serious impact on your love life. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore those fears and show you how to conquer them.

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What to Do When He Doesn’t Call You Back Dec 18, 2021

We’ve all been there. You have a great date. You have a great connection. You have great chemistry. You have great sex. And then, for some unknown reason, the guy doesn’t call you back. The questions abound. What happened? What did you do wrong? What should you do now to get him to take action? Take a deep breath. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you exactly how to handle things the next time a guy disappears on you.

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Why You Should Break Up with The Nice Guy You Don’t Want to Marry Dec 10, 2021

You’ve dated enough selfish toxic guys to appreciate when you’ve found a good one. He’s cute. He’s sweet. He’s sensitive. He’s honest. He’ll do anything for you.
But, no matter what he does, you’re just not feeling it. And it kills you. You know you deserve a nice guy but you also know this isn’t the one. What do you do? How long do you give it? What do you say? On this Love U Podcast, you’re going to learn the art of breaking up.

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5 Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy You’re Interested in Dec 03, 2021

You consider yourself smart. Friendly. A good conversationalist. Interested in many subjects. So why would any guy not want to take you on another date? Well, because you dates don’t always feel like dates. Sometimes, you’re his therapist. Sometimes, you talk about business. Sometimes, you barely talk at all. If you find you have trouble connecting with him on a sexual level, these flirty questions should get things going.

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The 3 Main Things Blocking You From Love Right Now Nov 26, 2021

If you’re single and looking for love, you’re probably stuck in a pattern. Maybe it’s conscious. Maybe it’s not. But if your goal is to have a fun, passionate, safe, unconditionally loving relationship and you do not have one while you’re watching this, there’s something you can do different to get a different result. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to reveal the most common patterns that prevent amazing women like you from getting the love you deserve. Good news: whichever one you fall into, I can help you get out of it.

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How to Recover Emotionally After a Breakup Nov 19, 2021

Breaking up is always difficult. Whether it was an intense one-month fling where you fell deeply in love only to get ghosted or the demise of a marriage where you slowly grew apart, there’s nothing easy about moving on. That’s why there are dating coaches – to help you make sense of what happened to your relationship, what you’re feeling now, and what you need to do next. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to give you 5 pearls of wisdom from the first month Love U, which helps you get over the last guy, restore your confidence, and move forward.

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How to Use Dating Apps Better Nov 12, 2021

So you’re using a dating app. Tinder. Bumble. Hinge. CoffeeMeetsBagel. You have hundreds of men at your fingertips and you’re getting lots of matches. The problem is that it’s overwhelming. Guys will match and not take action. Guys will text you through the app and not take action. Guys will ask for your phone number and not take action. Guys will start texting you and not take action. Guys will ask you out and then not take action. Everyone just seems so busy, so flaky, so insincere that it feels like too much work – only to meet some lame guys. What’s a girl to do?

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7 Tips to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work Nov 05, 2021

Long distance relationships are challenging for two primary reasons: Your relationship isn’t “real” until you’re in the same city full-time. You’re not in the same city until someone is willing to move. This is why I don’t recommend them to my Love U clients. But if you’re gonna do an LDR – like so many women do – here’s the best way to ensure you’re making all the right decisions.

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7 Texts That Turn Off Men Oct 29, 2021

Have you ever noticed how terrible guys are at texting? I have. It’s like they can only be bothered to write the shortest, lamest thing because anything else would be too taxing for their little brains. You’re trying to get to know a guy and all he can do is send you emojis and pictures of his lunch. It’s maddening, I think we can agree. Then why do you write texts that sound JUST LIKE the guys who drive you nuts? In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore the art of texting and explain how you can do better than the very men you complain about.

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6 Virtual Date Ideas That Aren’t Boring Oct 22, 2021

Bad news: you may have heard that there’s a pandemic that passes along a coronavirus even if you don’t have symptoms. Good news: because of the circumstances, people have had to get really creative with how they date. As a result, there are more FaceTime, GoogleMeet and Zoom dates than ever before. Today, The Love U Podcast is going to kill the coffee date and outline 6 virtual date ideas that both of you will love. Stick around.

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The 3 Ways You HAVE to Connect With Men on a Date Oct 15, 2021

If you’ve ever gone out with a guy where you thought you had a great time but you didn’t hear from him again, listen up. Dating is a skill. The way to master the skill is to practice. The way to practice is to understand who you’re practicing on. And, as your dating coach and translator for all things male, I want to explain today the three ways men connect on first dates. If the guys you like most aren’t calling you back, this one’s for you.

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6 Nonsexual Types of Physical Touch That Men Love Oct 08, 2021

There are a million places to get sex advice. YouTubers will give you tips on oral. Cosmo will teach you some crazy move that requires props. Your friends may share their own secrets. But what’s something you never hear that will pay off even more? How real men like to be touched when you’re not in the bedroom. Don’t get me wrong, if you’re a master with his clothes off, it’s a tremendous asset. But what I’m about to share with you is what takes you from booty call to blushing bride.

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7 Reasons Men on Dating Apps Don’t Turn Into Dates Oct 01, 2021

You’re a quality woman with high standards. You swipe right on only 5% of men. You have hundreds more swipe on you. Now you’re texting a bunch of guys and you’re perpetually shocked at how low-quality these conversations are, and how few of them lead to actual dates. Why does this happen? What can you do about it? What are you missing here? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to answer those questions and more.

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7 Proven Ways to Overcome Dating Anxiety Sep 28, 2021

Anxiety is human. Anxiety takes place when you’re doing something new, when you’re doing something you feel is risky, when the results are uncertain, and where there’s a chance you may get hurt. For many people, that describes dating, but it doesn’t have to. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline how you can get past your anxiety about dating and not only manage to enjoy the process, but to master it.

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You Can’t Do the Wrong Thing With the Right Guy Sep 24, 2021

So much dating advice is about strategy. If he texts me, how long should I wait to text him back? Should I say “I love you” first? Can I ask him if he’s looking for a commitment? As a dating coach for women, I’ll be the first to admit, dating is a skill and there are some ways of conducting yourself that are more effective than others. At the same time, it’s important to know that dating’s not a chess match, most men aren’t playing games, and that when you’re with the right guy, you literally can’t make a mistake.

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5 Feminine Traits That Men Find Totally Irresistible Sep 21, 2021

One of my most popular videos starts with this counterintuitive premise: Men are about feelings, not about looks. What that means is that men may be drawn in by how you look, but what keeps a man in your life is how he feels when he’s around you. In today’s podcast, we’re going to quickly explore 5 ways you can make a guy feel great, so when you finally meet a good one, he’ll want to devote his entire life to making you happy.

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Do You Choose Men Based on What Was Wrong With Your Ex? Sep 17, 2021

You were in a relationship with a man who had no money. You break up. What do you look for? Money. You were in a relationship that had no passion. You break up. What do you look for? Passion. I call this the Overcorrection. When you’ve been deprived of something for too long, it’s normal to crave it. The problem is when we go too far in the other direction. Today, I’m going to explain more about overcorrecting and how to calibrate your next dating choice so you can get it just right.

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How To Get Over A Crush (Even When It Seems Impossible) Sep 14, 2021

You’ve been crushing on this guy for a long time. It feels great – to see him, to talk to him, to think about what it would like to be with him. That feeling is electric and it’s carried you…all the way to this podcast. Because despite all the time, energy, and daydreaming you’ve invested in this man, he is not interested in you. Maybe he doesn’t know you exist. Maybe he sees you as just a friend. Maybe he’s got a serious girlfriend. Whatever the situation, you have to get past this guy, right now, so you can move on with your life.

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Why Masculinity Causes Problems in Relationships Sep 10, 2021

If you’re like most women I coach, you like masculine men. I do, too. They’re smart. Confident. Bold. Decisive. Big personalities. The willingness to take a stand and lead. But what’s the downside of choosing such men? They’re often narcissists. Tactless. Players. Too busy. Commitmentphobes. Liars. Controlling. Verbally abusive. Alpha men see themselves as the sun and you are a mere planet revolving around him. Yet, compared to boring nice guys, you still prefer masculine men. So, like we do on all our Love U Podcasts, let’s look at masculinity in a precise and nuanced way so you can better understand what kind of man will be a good long-term fit for you.

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When You Should Know He’s “The One” Sep 07, 2021

You know the feeling. It’s magical. It happens only a few times in your entire life. That moment when you’re dating someone and you know, deep in your heart, that he’s your soulmate and that you two are going to be together forever.Think about every time you’ve felt that feeling of meeting “the one.” Can you picture the man? Can you conjure that feeling? Now, ask yourself: what happened to these relationships? Did ANY of the men who you thought were the one love you unconditionally, take care of you emotionally, and prove to be compatible partners? No.They did not. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to talk about the concept of finding the one and how you can make better choices the next time you meet an amazing man.

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Are Men Actually Intimidated By You? Sep 03, 2021

You’re a beautiful woman and you’ve achieved a lot professionally.

You have an education. You have a nice home. You have sophisticated tastes.
You know what you’re worth and you’re not going to settle.

As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, this is something we can completely agree upon.
But there are two problems being in the 95th percentile of all women.

You believe you have to date men who are also in the 95th percentile.
You believe that everyone who is less successful than you is intimidated by you.

As a result, it seems like there are no men out there for you.

In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to challenge both of those beliefs and show you how you are actively getting in your own way in your search for lasting love. Stick around.

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How to Handle Trust Issues in Relationships Aug 31, 2021

You’ve had relationships where you couldn’t trust the guy. Maybe you caught him in a series of lies. Maybe he had a history as a player. Maybe you have a history of being cheated on.Whatever it is, trust issues can completely sink your relationship. After listening to this Love U Podcast, you will never again stay with a man you can’t trust.

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Does Your Boyfriend Have to Be Growth-Oriented, Too? Aug 27, 2021

You ever date a guy who was just set in his ways? You ever wish you could change a man and help him do the work to reach his potential? Go to therapy. Take a self-help class. Write in a journal. Meditate. Join you on your spiritual journey so you can do it together. But if you’re still single, I would like to gently point out that perhaps finding another growth-oriented man isn’t as important as you think it is. In fact, your adherence to dating a man who lives life much like you may be the biggest obstacle you have to finding lasting love.

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What He’s Thinking Before He Dumps You Aug 20, 2021

There are few worse feelings than getting dumped. You trusted. You made yourself vulnerable. You gave your time, your energy, your body, your soul to this man. You bent over backwards to compromise, to listen, to communicate, to continue work on your relationship and still, he saw fit to end it. All people are different and all relationships have their unique downfalls but in this Love U Podcast, I want to explain to you, in general, what men are thinking before they break up with you. A not-so-surprising note to regular listeners: it’s not that different than what you think before you break up with him.

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What To Do When He Doesn’t Appreciate You Aug 13, 2021

You’ve been in a relationship before with a man you genuinely loved. He said you were the one. He said he couldn’t live without you. He said he’d do whatever it took to make you happy. Except you’re not happy. Not even close. You’re exhausted. You’re sick of feeling misunderstood. You don’t want to have the same conversations over and over again, only to end up in the same place – ostensibly you’re in love, but in reality, your partner is draining you more than he’s filling you up. You may think that this is just how relationships go. It’s not. This how YOUR relationships have gone because of the men you’ve chosen and the behavior you’ve chosen to accept. In today’s Love U podcast, I’m going to tell you what to do so you’ll never have to feel this way again.

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The Best (and Easiest) Text You Can Send To Make Him Like You Aug 06, 2021

You’ve seen other dating coaches’ videos. Here are the FIVE SEXY TEXT MESSAGES THAT WILL MAKE HIM CRAVE YOU. Here are the SEVEN THINGS YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW THAT WILL BREAK DOWN HIS WILL AND MAKE HIM PROPOSE TO YOU WITHIN MINUTES. It’s clickbait and you click it and that’s why there are lesser dating coaches with bigger followings and that’s another story for another day. The fact is, there is one simple thing you can do right now that men love. Stick around and I’ll tell you what it is.

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Why Doesn’t He Ask Me Questions? Jul 30, 2021

You’re dating a guy and things are going great. He’s bright, confident, comfortable in his own skin, and overall, he’s pretty good company.

Then, why do you feel so drained at the end of every date? Maybe it’s because he hasn’t expressed one bit of curiosity about your life. So, while you’re getting to know him, he’s not getting to know you. What’s that about? What can you do about it? Stick around and I’ll explain.

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How to Talk to Him About Your Darkest Secrets (Without Scaring Him Away) Jul 23, 2021

Everybody’s got baggage. You’ve been divorced twice.You have herpes. You’re a former alcoholic. You take anti-depressants. You can’t have biological children. Whatever it is, you’re not alone. But that doesn’t make it any easier in a world where first impressions are everything and men are impossibly picky. So, how can you reveal your deepest, darkest secrets to the guy you’re dating without scaring him away? Stick around and I’ll explain.

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Who Pays for the First Date? Jul 16, 2021

The check comes. It sits on the table. You wait for him to reach for it. You think he’s waiting for you to reach for it. You continue your strained end of meal conversation, wondering who is going to reach for it first. Who picks up the check is an emotionally fraught first date ritual that leaves a lot of people highly disappointed. Today, I’m going to explain to you what men should do and what women should do so that this never has to get weird for you again.

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If He Doesn’t Put In The Effort, Do This! Jul 09, 2021

It feels the worst when it starts out strong. That first month, he was so into you. Texting dozens of times a day. Planning the next date while you’re still on a date. Telling you effusively how beautiful you are, how much he likes you and how excited he is. Talking about a future. And then something happens. You don’t know what it is but everything feels different. Suddenly, his constant efforts start to wane and you’re left feeling off-balance. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you EXACTLY what to do when that happens again.

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Why Men Never Get Things Right When It Comes to Sex Jul 02, 2021

There are many ways it’s more challenging to be a woman in today’s world. There is latent misogyny. There are double standards for strong women as compared to strong men. And it’s an understatement to say that most men haven’t had to grapple with what it’s like to be objectified and feel threatened by members of the opposite sex. There are a couple of ways, however, that it’s super tricky to be a man. One of them is the fact that men are expected to make the first move. I’m not saying it’s good or bad or that it should be any different. But as long as that’s the dynamic, it’s important for you, as a woman, to understand why it’s almost impossible for a guy to act in the exact way sexually that you want him to. Stick around for a really interesting Evan Marc Katz’s Love U Podcast that is sure to push your buttons and make you think a little deeper about why sex seems so complicated. It’s because it is.

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How To Deal With One Word Replies While Texting Jun 25, 2021

I know something you absolutely hate. You’ve got a cute guy you’re texting. You’re kind of excited about him and hoping to make a connection. Yet it’s almost impossible to get anything out of him. You ask him a question and he answers but doesn’t give anything back in return. One-word or one-sentence replies only. What do you do with these guys? When should you cut them loose? Is there anything in your control to elevate the conversation into something more fun? I’ve got all your answers. Stick around.

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Do You Love Being Single More Than You Want to Be Married? Jun 18, 2021

You’re single and fabulous. You’ve got a career you enjoy, friends you love, and passions you pursue. You’re extremely busy doing things that bring you pleasure: travel, yoga, reading, personal development. You don’t need a man. You want a man. The question is whether this man wants to fit into your life exactly as it is right now or whether you need to make accommodations for another person. Stick around and I’ll show you the blind spot that’s preventing you from finding a man you respect who also wants to be with you.

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Why Men Don’t Court Women Anymore Jun 11, 2021

Dating apps are everywhere. Texting is ubiquitous. Hookup culture is rampant. If courtship isn’t dead, it’s surely on a respirator. And while I did a Love U Podcast episode called Why Men Should Court Women (which women loved), there is a dark truth about men don’t court women anymore that most guys won’t tell you. I’ll tell you.

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3 Limiting Beliefs That Stop You From Finding The Right Man Jun 04, 2021

You know the power of belief. Maybe you believe in God. Maybe you believe in your own inherent goodness. Maybe you believe that each day is a gift that should be lived to the fullest. To some degree, we ARE our beliefs. Unfortunately, that includes the negative beliefs you have around love. These are called limiting beliefs. We all have them and they are often the primary reason you struggle to find a compatible partner. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to tackle a few common limiting beliefs and help you find the right man. Stick around.

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Texting First After a Date May 28, 2021

You had a good date. You’re open to seeing him again. He said at the end of the date he’d talk to you soon. And now you don’t know what to do. Once upon a time, it was a given that a man would pick up the phone and call you to ask you out on a second date. But now, with texting, social media, and the blending of gender roles, it’s become a lot more confusing as to who is supposed to do what and when. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain how to handle texting after a first date.

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When You Want to Know “What Are We?” May 21, 2021

Imagine going out with a man for three months. He texts you nearly every day. He sees you nearly every weekend. He’s really sweet. He compliments you often. The sex is great. There’s only one problem: you have no idea if you’re a couple. And while you want to say something, you’re afraid that saying something might mean the end of your relationship. So you say nothing and keep sleeping with a man who acts kind of like a boyfriend but is most certainly not your boyfriend. This isn’t the relationship you imagined. On this Love U Podcast, you’ll learn whether to keep him around or cut him loose.

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Is He Shy or Is He Not Interested? May 14, 2021

You ever start dating a guy who was just a little…passive? He texts you but he doesn’t say that much. He stays in touch but he doesn’t ask you out. He takes you out on a nice date but he doesn’t make a first move. Is he just not that into you? Is he a beta male? Is he gay? What the hell?! In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain how to tell if a man is shy or just not interested. Stick around.

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5 Things Men Need In A Relationship In Order To Commit To You May 07, 2021

You’re struggling with your love life. You can find a guy who’s attractive. You can find a guy who treats you well. You can find a guy who wants to commit to you. You just can’t find them all in one package. But have you ever considered why? After all, there are over 50 million married men in America alone; evidently, someone wants to commit. So how can you be the woman that YOUR guy wants to marry? Stick around to learn what emotions drive men towards some women and not others.

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5 Things Not To Do On A First Date (Especially If You Are A Professional Woman) Apr 30, 2021

As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I hear a lot of frustration from my Love U clients about the state of dating. Dating apps suck. Your area sucks. Men’s emails and texts suck. Guys are terrible dates – they don’t ask any questions, they don’t pick up the check, they’re only trying to get laid. Got it. We can all agree that most men need a dating coach, too. The real question is this: When you finally meet a guy you like, what do YOU do wrong on a first date? That’s what you can control. That’s what I’m going to help you with in this Love U Podcast.

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How to Know If Your Relationship Will Work Out Apr 16, 2021

Have you ever put your heart and soul into something? Have you ever had big dreams about what your life could look like? Have you ever placed your trust in others with no guarantee that things would work out? Chances are, the answer is yes. Chances are, you’re thinking of a relationship with a man where you devoted all your energy trying to make things work, only to realize it was not meant to be. In today’s Love U Podcast I’m going to tell you two stories: One is about my marriage. One is about my new website, which is dropping on Tuesday, April 20th. Both have happy endings. Your story can, too. Stick around.

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How Long Should You Wait Until He Commits? Apr 09, 2021

You’ve been seeing a guy for three months. You like him a lot. He seems to like you just as much. The chemistry is great. The sex is stupendous. When he takes you out on dates, you have an amazing time – easy conversation, lots of laughter. Yet, despite all this, he’s not your boyfriend. What’s worse is that the longer you go, the more anxious you feel because you desperately want him to be. How slow is too slow in a relationship? Stick around and I’ll explain.

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Are You Afraid of Rejection? Apr 02, 2021

Rejection is no fun for anybody. It triggers feelings of anxiety, low self-esteem, deep questioning. Maybe there’s something wrong with me. Maybe I’m not good enough. Maybe this is never going to happen. It’s normal to have these fleeting thoughts after things don’t go right in love. The problem is when you start to internalize these thoughts. Suddenly, it’s not just a bad day or a bad break, it’s an existential crisis that causes you to believe that lasting love is impossible. It’s not. You just have to get better with rejection. Stick around and I’ll show you how.

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Are You Staying With Him For Too Long? Mar 26, 2021

Admit it: You’ve spent years suffering through relationships with the wrong men. You were afraid of breaking up. You were afraid of being alone. You were afraid you couldn’t do better. You were afraid of having to date again. Those fears are real and valid and I’m not going to deny you those feelings. What I will point out on today’s Love U Podcast is that there’s a big difference between wasting time and investing time in a man. Once costs you years of your life. The other gets you married. Stick around and I’ll explain.

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Is Marriage Worth It? Why or Why Not? Mar 19, 2021

If your parents were divorced…If they stayed together for fifty years while fighting miserably…If you were divorced after a long marriage…You’re bound to have negative associations with marriage. For you, marriage means pain, angst, misunderstandings, silent treatments, and the endless drudgery of compromise and housework. I hear you. But if that’s all that marriage was, there wouldn’t be 100 million married people in America. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain why marriage – a good marriage – is worth it.

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Dating Advice For Women: The #1 Question All My Clients Ask Mar 12, 2021

As a dating and relationship coach since 2003, I’ve fielded thousands of questions. And, not surprisingly, many of those questions are the same question asked differently. Women routinely ask me if they’re too picky – if they should settle on a lack of chemistry. The answer, of course, is no. Women routinely ask me why men would have sex if they’re not interested in commitment. The answer, of course, is that it’s fun. Women routinely ask me if there are any quality men in their area because they’re positive there are not. The answer, of course, is that there are. Which leads me to today’s dating advice for women – the #1 question all my clients ask. WHERE CAN I FIND A CUTE, SMART, SUCCESSFUL, COMMITMENT-ORIENTED MAN? On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to answer that question, once and for all. Stick around.

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Online Dating Tips: We’re Exclusive But His Dating Profile Is Still Active Mar 05, 2021

You ever start dating a guy and things are going great? He’s calling regularly, you’re having sex, and at some point, you ask him, in a bout of insecurity… Um, what are we? Are we a couple? Boyfriend-girlfriend? And he says: Well, I’m not sleeping with anybody else. So I guess you can say we’re exclusive. And, not wanting to pressure him for more, you accept his answer – and continue sleeping with a guy who is not your boyfriend. And then one night, you look at your phone out of an insatiable curiosity to see if he’s still active online. Sure enough, he is. On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you how to make sure this NEVER happens again.

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How to Date a Guy During Social Distancing Feb 26, 2021

A pandemic is not an ideal time for dating, I think we can all agree. But as we approach the one year mark of our national semi lockdown, how do you date a guy during social distancing? How can you build trust? How can you stay safe? How can you hook up? How can you see more than one person at the same time? I’ll explain on this Love U Podcast.

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Should You Try a Long-Distance Relationship? Feb 19, 2021

You’ve been dating online. It’s frustrating. Dispiriting. Hopeless. All the guys you like aren’t making an effort. All the guys who make an effort, you don’t like. Let’s face it: the men in your town SUCK. So you open up your search criteria and broaden your search radius from 25 miles to 100 miles. No, let’s make it 500 miles. Actually, there’s no limit as to how far you’ll go for love. You are now searching the globe for your soulmate. That may feel good right now but be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. Stick around and I’ll explain why a long-distance relationship is the LAST thing you want to do.

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Why Get Married When Most Marriages End In Divorce? Feb 12, 2021

It’s a reasonable question. Why get married when most marriages end in divorce? And if you came to this video believing that this was true, you’re in the right place. In the next few minutes, I’m going to drop some knowledge and show you that a) Most marriages don’t end in divorce and b) You actually DO want to get married even if you don’t think you do. Seriously. Stick around if you’d like to be loved for the rest of your life.

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Is Dating an Older Man a Bad Idea? Feb 05, 2021

Most women I work with do NOT like older men. Older men aren’t attractive. Older men look like Grandpa or Dad. Older men can’t keep up with you. Older men have no energy. Older men have erectile dysfunction. Older men are on their last legs and are looking for a nurse with a purse. I hear you. The problem is that these are stereotypes and stereotypes are only partially true. On this Love U Podcast, I’m doing to explain what it looks like to date an older man and why the rewards are often worth it. Stick around.

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Women Over 40: How to Attract the Right Men and Avoid the Wrong Ones Jan 29, 2021

In your experience, dating in your 40’s is trickier than dating in your 20’s or 30’s. But does it have to be? Men are men. Women are women. So what’s so different about dating after you turn the big 4-0? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share with you why it is, indeed, harder to find a good middle-aged man, and what you should consider if you’re facing your biological clock.

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Dating Men With Kids: Good Or Bad Idea? Jan 22, 2021

So, you’re thinking of dating a single Dad. Maybe you’re a woman with her own children who is worried about integrating families. Maybe you’re a woman who wants her own children and didn’t envision helping to raise someone else’s children. Maybe you’re a woman who didn’t want children at all and you met a single father that you can see a future with. There’s a lot to unpack here, so stick around as I explain to you the good and bad of dating a single dad.

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The One Feeling You CAN Trust When Choosing a Good Man Jan 15, 2021

You’ve opened your heart and had it broken. You’ve poured yourself into relationships that started off promising…but ended in sorrow. You’ve tried dating different types of guys but the only thing they seem to have in common is that they all disappoint you in the end. You don’t trust your own judgment and you’re afraid you’ll never figure this out. In the next few minutes, I’m going to explain to you how you can learn to trust yourself and make better choices with men in the future. Stick around.

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What is the Best Dating Site or Best Dating App? Dec 18, 2020

The most popular question I get is “what’s the best dating site or app?” Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Match, OkCupid. Where should I go to find quality men? I’m going to answer that in a moment, but first I’m going to explain that which site you’re on doesn’t matter nearly as much as what you do when you get there.

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Why You Should Never Be Exclusive With a Guy Dec 14, 2020

Have you ever slept with a guy who wasn’t your boyfriend? Have you ever felt that it was safe because you were exclusive? Have you ever noticed that most of the guys you were exclusive with never became boyfriends? You’ve been falling into the same trap, over and over, and had no idea how it kept happening to you. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to help you stop falling for men who are not worthy of being your boyfriend.

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The #1 Thing You Can Do in Dating That Men Will Love Dec 11, 2020

You turn to me to know the secrets of the male mind. You listen for aha moments about how men think. You watch to understand what makes commitment-minded guys choose to commit to some women and not others. Stick around to hear the single most important piece of advice one Love U grad got from her coaching experience and how EASY it is to make a guy want to stay.

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How Not to Be Jealous of His Ex-Wife Dec 07, 2020

You’ve been with men who are liars. You’ve been with men who are cheaters. You’ve been with men who had eyes for other women. You’ve been with men who are close with their exes. And it. Drives. You. Crazy! The question is whether your jealousy stems from a real threat or whether your jealousy is merely a fear of repeating old mistakes. Stick around and I’ll help you discover the answer.

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Are You Dating A Man Going Through A Divorce? Dec 04, 2020

You can’t help who you fall in love with. This is true – but that doesn’t mean it’s the full story. When you fall in love with a man going through a divorce, you’re taking a huge risk, no matter how cute, kind, and emotionally available he seems to be. Stick around to learn how attraction may not be a choice, but deciding which men you invest your time in IS.

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Are You Afraid of Getting Hurt in a Relationship? Listen To This. Nov 30, 2020

You’ve had moments where you wanted to give up on love. We all have.You sink your time, energy, and emotion into a guy, only to determine, after a long, tortuous process, that he is not the man you hoped he’d be and not the man you need him to be. You look inside at what you did wrong and come to the conclusion that there’s something wrong with men, something wrong with you, something wrong with your judgment, or something wrong with love itself and that the best thing to do is just stop. Focus on career. Focus on your health. Focus on your home. Focus on travel. Anything to avoid getting hurt like this again. Sound familiar? Stick around to learn why your fear of getting hurt is actually the biggest problem you’re facing.

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5 Clichés of Love That Are Hurting You in Dating Nov 27, 2020

Cliches are cliches for a reason. Often, they have a solid basis in truth. But what happens when you believe in a cliche so deeply that it actually sabotages your desire to have a successful long-term relationship? Do you even know some of the deep-seated beliefs you hold that are preventing you from achieving your wildest dreams? If not, stick around and I’m going to explain how these 5 cliches are killing your love life.

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Too Busy To Date? What To Do If You Want To Find Love Nov 23, 2020

Your job is demanding. You are a single mom with lots of responsibilities. You feel like dating is one huge time suck. As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women who have everything but the guy, I am quite familiar with women who are too busy to date. And while I’m in no position to tell you that you’re NOT busy, I AM here to tell you that there is a simple way to ensure you can have an active love life, even if you work 50hrs/week and feel that it’s impossible. Nothing is impossible.

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How to Find a Guy on Online Dating Sites Nov 20, 2020

You go online and browse through men. You know what you’re attracted to: six feet tall, Master’s degree, six-figure income, same religion, and political beliefs, fit, handsome. You set your search criteria to get all these traits and come to the conclusion that dating sites suck and there are virtually no men out there on a conventional dating site. You then conclude that the better path is to go on Tinder, Hinge, or Bumble because at least there are cute guys on there. And there are, but the experience invariably sucks. What’s a girl to do? Stick around and I’ll explain to you how your way of searching is killing your chances of meeting Mr. Right.

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Are You Trying Too Hard to Find Love? Nov 16, 2020

Let’s face it: It’s lonely out there. And if you’ve been alone for a while and you have a vision of what you want your life to look like, I can appreciate if finding love is your top priority. It’s mine, too and I only work with women who are deadly serious about it. But if you’re so serious about meeting Mr. Right that you’re unintentionally sabotaging your efforts, then you should probably listen to this podcast. In it, I’m going to tell you a story of one of my favorite Love U clients who so deeply want to get married and start a family that she can’t help but to get in her own way. Stick around and I’ll show you how to act with intention, not with desperation.

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6 Hot Tips for Dating Over 50 Nov 13, 2020

Age is just a number. If you’re 60, I assume you feel 50. If you’re 50, I assume you feel 40, and so on. But when it comes to dating – specifically online dating – age isn’t just a number. It’s a real thing that you have to contend with, an obstacle that needs to be overcome. So what do you do when the dating pool gets smaller and, arguably, worse on the far side of 50? Stick around and I’ll tell you exactly what to do.

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Why You Keep Ending Up in Bad Relationships Nov 09, 2020

Yet again, you find yourself in a dead-end relationship. You suffered silently. You hoped he would change. You haven’t been happy for a while but you didn’t do anything about it.
How did you get here? And what can you do in the future to ensure this never happens again? In this short Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you the #1 Mistake You’re Making With Men so you can stop making it and finally start getting happy.

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Why It’s So Hard to Meet the Right Guy Nov 06, 2020

As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I understand how hard it is for you. You go online and you swipe through thousands of guys. The guys you’re not attracted to pursue you hard. The guys you like the most are wildly inconsistent and don’t follow through. You have moments of despair, wondering what’s wrong with you, why is this so difficult, and whether you’re ever going to meet a guy to get you off this dating treadmill. Today, I’m going to teach you how to persevere when the going gets tough and how to guarantee you’ll meet your Mr. Right.

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What Does It Mean When He Says I Love You? Nov 02, 2020

Hearing the words “I love you” from a boyfriend feels like the most important thing in the world and we imbue it with great meaning. It means he’s invested in you. It means he’s thinking of a future. It means he wants to be with you forever. At least that’s what you think at the time. But if you look back on every man who’s ever said I love you, I have to ask you: how much does it ACTUALLY mean?

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Why Finding a Good Man Is Hard Oct 30, 2020

It’s a jungle out there. There are guys who love bomb you, then pull away. There are guys who are needy, clingy, and controlling. There are guys who say they want to find love and once they get it, do everything they can to sabotage things. And the problem is that these guys don’t come with warning labels. You have to figure it out yourself. On today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to give you an inside look at my Love U course and explain how to evaluate whether you and your guy are compatible before you waste any more time on the wrong guy.

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How Can I Be a Better Girlfriend? Oct 26, 2020

Congratulations! You’re in a small percentage of women who have taken the time to wonder how you could do things better. Virtually no men have asked this question which is why I’m answering it for you today. Stick around to learn the most powerful thing you can do to make him want to commit forever.

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Why You’ve Never Been Closer to Lasting Love. (Really!) Oct 23, 2020

Every relationship you’ve ever had ultimately disappeared or disappointed. But what if I told you that you’ve been preparing your whole life for this moment? What if I told you that you were THIS close to a relationship breakthrough? Stick around to discover why you’ve never been closer to lasting love than you are today.

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Is He Interested Or Just Being Nice? (7 Obvious Signs) Oct 19, 2020

You’ve just started seeing a guy and you’re a little nervous. He seems interested but you know, full well, that guys often show interest at the beginning and then do the slow fade, breadcrumb, random text thing. Next thing you know, you feel like you’re being strung along and as long as you hear from him occasionally, you can’t break free. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share with you 7 obvious signs, that yes, he’s into you, and yes, you can relax now.

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Dating for Marriage: Are Your Standards Unrealistic? Oct 16, 2020

Nobody likes the word picky. Picky suggests that there’s something wrong with you, that if you didn’t have such high standards, you’d already be married by now. Picky sounds like your fault. So let’s get away from the word picky.

Today’s Love U Podcast is not going to tell you whether you’re too picky; it will instead let you know whether your choices are effectively helping you get the relationship you desire or, instead, are keeping you away from it.

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The One Feeling You CAN Trust When It Comes to Choosing a Good Man Oct 12, 2020

When you’ve been burned by love, over and over, it’s hard to trust your judgment. If you’ve never had a lasting relationship with a man where you could relax, let down your guard, and know he would accept you, in full, for the rest of your life, why would you think that it would happen the next time or the time after that? This fear is paralyzing and keeps women like you from dating and from dating with joy and confidence. That’s why I’m excited about today’s podcast in which I’m going to share with you how you can trust your feelings when it comes to dating, once and for all.

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How You Can Double The Number of Quality Men Right Now Oct 10, 2020

You go to a dating site. You set your age criteria: 5 years older. 5 years younger. Done. You wonder why the younger men don’t seem to respond as much. You wonder why men who are FAR older than you keep responding. It’s all very frustrating and sometimes emotional. What you didn’t know was that I, Evan Marc Katz, am an omniscient, omnipotent being and will send you your husband via Federal Express in the next six months – but only if you do this one thing I ask you to at the end of the video. Stick around.

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The Biggest Lie You’ve Ever Been Told About Relationships Oct 06, 2020

Relationships take work. You heard this from your parents, your friends, couples counselors, and dating gurus. You believed that it was true because, for you, indeed relationships have taken a lot of work. But what if this isn’t true? What if “relationships take work” is the biggest lie you’ve ever been told? What if – and hear me out – the complete opposite is true – and good relationships are EASY? Join me on this life-changing, myth-busting Love U Podcast to learn the truth about a happy marriage.

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How to Fight With Your Partner Oct 03, 2020

70% of arguments with your partner are the same argument. If that’s the case, you need a different way of approaching things to get a different result. Your relationship doesn’t need to be a constant source of tension but it will be unless you learn a new way of approaching relationship discord. Stick around to learn what one of the most famous couples’ counselors in the world tells you to do when you’re fighting with your man.

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Is He Committed to You? If Not, This is Why. Sep 29, 2020

He’s seeing you regularly. You’re sleeping with him. He’s acting almost like a boyfriend but he’s not your boyfriend. Welcome to one of the world’s most common dating dilemmas. Join me on this Love U Podcast to discover how to avoid this trap in the future and ensure that any man you’re sleeping with is your boyfriend FIRST.

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What 2 Romantic Comedies Can Teach You About Love Sep 26, 2020

So, back in the day, they used to make romantic comedies. They made us laugh, they made us cry, they made us watch them again and again. But occasionally, one of these movies had a valuable lesson to teach. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to talk about two romcoms and how a few scenes from them can help you find your husband. Literally.

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If You Believe This, Your Relationship is Doomed. Sep 22, 2020

If you’re single, all of your romantic relationships ended. That devastating truth may cause you to mistrust your own judgment and assume all your future relationships are doomed to fail as well. But are they? In this Love U Podcast, I share the story of a Love U graduate who realized she was NOT doomed to repeat her tortured history and broke free of her past. You’re gonna want to share this one with a friend.

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Why Do Men Ghost You (And What to Do About It) Sep 19, 2020

You ever have a really strong connection with a guy? The attraction is incredible. He’s really into you. You can’t stop thinking about him. He quickly becomes your boyfriend. You haven’t been this excited in a long time. You start to think about a future. Next thing you know, he suddenly stops contacting you. You’ve been ghosted. What did you do wrong? What do you do now? What do you do next? Listen to this important Love U Podcast to discover a new way to look at ghosting.

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Do You Act Like You’re Fine Being Alone? Sep 15, 2020

Do you spend more time working than anything? Do you have close friendships but no successful romantic relationship? Do you take long breaks from dating and tell the world you’d rather be alone? At the end of this Love U Podcast, I’m going to ask an important question to help you get the romantic future you deeply desire.

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The Most Empowering Dating Advice For Women Ever! Sep 12, 2020

You ever feel that you, as a woman, are the gatekeeper to sex? And that, after you have sex, men become the gatekeepers to long-term commitment? If so, you’re not alone. But today I’m going to share with you a powerful paradigm shift that will remind you that you ACTUALLY have tons of power when it comes to both sex AND commitment.

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What it Feels Like to Be in a Healthy Relationship Sep 08, 2020

Butterflies. Excitement. Chemistry. Obsession. These are the words we associate with being in love. But if you ask anyone in a happy long-term relationship, that’s not what it actually feels like. In this quick Love U Podcast, I’m going to share what it ACTUALLY feels like to have a healthy marriage. The answer may surprise you.

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How to Turn Your Dating Failure into The Ultimate Success Sep 05, 2020

You feel like a failure when it comes to dating. Years spent on the wrong men. Years avoiding intimate relationships. Dread when it comes to meeting new guys and potentially getting hurt once again. You’re not alone. Listen to this Love U Podcast to learn how you can learn from your past and become a success in love.

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4 Signs You’re Wasting Your Time On The Wrong Man Sep 01, 2020

You’ve been in a relationship where you felt off-balance before. Your feelings for him were strong but the longer your relationship went, the more anxious you felt. Chances are, you fell into one of these 4 traps. Check out this Love U Podcast to learn what NOT to do the next time you fall for a new guy.

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Are Your Trust Issues Hurting Your Relationships? Aug 29, 2020

If you’ve ever been in love with a liar, been cheated on by a boyfriend, or don’t feel you can trust any man until he earns it, you have a lot of hard-won scars. The problem is that honest men need to be trusted. Listen to this intimate Love U Podcast to hear two stories of two private clients of mine who have boyfriends and almost blew it with them because of their lack of trust. Don’t let this be you.

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These Six Thoughts Are Killing Your Chances of Finding Love Aug 25, 2020

A limiting belief is one that is partially true but not totally true. When you’ve struggled with dating for years, it’s easy to lapse into such false beliefs that hold you back from finding love. Listen to this quick breakdown of why flipping your negative script is the only way to attract the right man.

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Do You Stay Single Even When You Want to Find Love? Aug 21, 2020

There’s a part of you deep inside that you try not to look at. It’s the part of you that longs to be in a relationship. It’s the part of you that knows life is better when it’s shared. It’s the part of you that wants someone to love her unconditionally. It’s a part that you willfully ignore because it’s too painful to face. Well, in today’s Love U Podcast, we’re gonna face it – and get you on track to get what you ACTUALLY want.

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The 10% Rule Aug 18, 2020

Does it seem like there are no good men out there? Does it feel impossible to find a guy you’re attracted to online? Have no fear. Follow the 10% rule and you can keep your high standards on your way to love.

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How To Get The BEST Guys Online To Go Out With You Aug 15, 2020

Sick of swiping right and texting? Want to meet quality men who are invested in you instead of putting up with flakes? Listen to this Love U Podcast to learn what you can do to ensure that the relationship-oriented guys take you on proper dates, just the way you like it.

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What You Should Do When You’re Confused About A Guy Aug 11, 2020

Have you ever dated a guy who would be great – if he changed just a few things about himself? Listen to this Love U Podcast to discover how to determine whether you should stay or go from a relationship. One thing is for sure: if you’re waiting for him to become someone else, you’re gonna be waiting for a LONG time…

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How Vulnerability Makes Men Fall In Love With You Aug 08, 2020

As a smart, strong, successful woman, you have a full single life, filled with work, friends, family, and hobbies. Yet this isn’t your primary strength when it comes to dating. If you don’t let men it’s hard for them to make an emotional connection. Listen to this deep Love U Podcast to learn how to stop your insecurities from running the show and how it takes a lot of confidence to be vulnerable.

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The ONLY Kind Of Man You Should Marry Aug 04, 2020

Were you ever in a draining relationship in which you felt that you gave too much? Have you considered that you should probably give less to your partner in the future? It’s a painful problem, but giving less isn’t the solution. Choosing a better partner is.

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Do You Give The Wrong Guys A Chance? Aug 01, 2020

If you’ve ever vacillated between being “too picky” and spending time with men you don’t like, check out this Love U Podcast. In it, I tell the story of two clients who are learning to trust their judgment and cut off men quickly, and finish by telling you how I decided my wife was “the one.” You don’t want to miss this.

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The 3 Ways Your Relationship Can Go (Only One is Worth Your Time) Jul 28, 2020

Evan Marc Katz’s Love U is a six-month curriculum that teaches you how to understand men and find love. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to teach you one simple idea about 3 ways your relationship can go.

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What Does Your Dream Relationship Look And Feel Like? Jul 25, 2020

When I interview women like you who apply to Love U, I invite you to consider what your life will look like when you found the relationship you’ve always dreamed about. Sure enough, some women struggle with this exercise because they can’t even imagine what it feels like to be loved unconditionally. If that’s you, tune in to this special Love U Podcast.

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Five Questions To Consider When Dating A New Guy Jul 21, 2020

Have you ever been afraid that the next guy is going to turn out just like the last guy? If so, I’m going to give you a five-step process to evaluate if he’s worth your time BEFORE you get in too deep. You’re gonna want a pen for this one.

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Do You Treat Hot Guys Different Than Regular Guys? Jul 18, 2020

When you meet a guy you’re intensely attracted to, your common sense and boundaries go out the window. You’re not alone. Listen to this Love U Podcast to hear my own tale of verbal abuse and learn one simple trick to breaking the spell of the hot guy.

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Do You Want Your Coupled Life To Look Like Your Single Life? Jul 14, 2020

Are you an independent woman with a rich, full single life? Are you generally busy with your work, family, friends, hobbies and travel? Does your vision of couplehood look a lot like your life now – just with a man dropped in it? If that’s the case, we’ve gotta talk. If you’re going to partner with a man who is your equal, you’ve gotta make space for him – just like you want him to do for you.

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8 Red Flags That Should Send You Running From A Man Jul 11, 2020

Are you tired of wasting your time on the wrong men? Listen to the story of two of my Love U clients – one too passive, one too picky – to discover the 8 things men say that should be instant dealbreakers. Want to save YEARS of your life? Listen to this Love U Podcast.

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Why You’re A Dating Hypocrite Jul 07, 2020

Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy who suddenly pulled back or ghosted? Of course, you have. Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy and realize he’s not the man for you? Of course, you have. Check out this Love U Podcast to understand why this is the very nature of dating – and how not to take it personally.

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How You Can Get Closer To Your Boyfriend After A Fight Jul 04, 2020

All relationships have conflict. The difference between a great relationship and a horrible one is how you manage that conflict. Listen to this very personal Love U Podcast where I share the one thing my wife and I always fight about – and how we’re using this as an opportunity to get even stronger.

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How You Can Stop Beating Yourself Up About Your Ex Jun 30, 2020

After a breakup, it’s normal to ruminate on what went wrong. But from what I see from my Love U clients, you’re probably focused on what YOU did rather than what HE did. In this Love U Podcast, let’s reframe your breakup and get really clear on why your relationship ended – he wasn’t a very good boyfriend at all.

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How to Have a GREAT First Date Jun 27, 2020

Are you sick of going on dating apps, swiping right, texting a million guys, and having horrible coffee dates? If so, you have the power to have a completely different dating experience and go on great first dates. In this Love U Podcast, you will learn to do the opposite of whatever you’re doing now and ensure that your first dates involve dinner, drinks and romance.

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Are You Jealous? Jun 23, 2020

Have you been cheated on? Have you had men leave you for other women? Have you experienced a lack of trust? It’s not easy to come back from that, but it’s imperative for the health of your future relationship to choose a trustworthy man and kick jealousy to the curb. Check out this Love U Podcast which begins with a dream that my wife had about my best friend.

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The 5 Qualities He MUST Have To Be A Great Partner Jun 20, 2020

Welcome to the 100th episode, in which I barely celebrate a milestone achievement, reintroduce myself and the Love U Podcast, and let you know the secret behind all successful marriages – the 5 qualities a man must have to be a great partner. I’m really excited to communicate with you more directly on a regular basis and to give you some powerful, actionable advice that you can immediately use to stop wasting your time on the wrong men.

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The 2 Things You Must Stop Doing To Meet Your Soulmate This Year Jun 16, 2020

Have you ever felt that dating is a big, ol’ waste of time? After years on and off dating sites, swiping through thousands of men, and the endless revolving door of losers, players, and flakes, you conclude that being single is much easier. So you remain single. Indefinitely. Listen to this Love U Podcast to learn how to take control of your love life instead of doing the same thing, over and over, expecting different results.

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Is He Serious About Dating You During Coronavirus? Jun 12, 2020

It’s a pretty weird time to be dating. Even so, Love U members are meeting wonderful, highly motivated men, even during this pandemic. So how can you tell if a guy is keeping busy or stringing you along until he finds someone he likes better? Check out this Love U Podcast to get clear on whether your quarantine crush has long-term potential.

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The #1 Thing You SHOULD Pay Attention to After Your First Date Jun 09, 2020

You ever go out on an incredible date? The connection was real, the chemistry is intense, and you feel like you just met someone with real long-term potential? Of course, you have. But what usually happens afterward? Look at your history and you’ll see: there’s virtually no correlation between an amazing first date and a successful long-term-relationship. Check out this new Love U Podcast video to see what you SHOULD pay attention to after your next great first date.

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Marry Him – an Interview With Lori Gottlieb Feb 21, 2018

Longtime readers know about my friendship with Lori Gottlieb. Lori dated my roommate, got me my book agent, and we even wrote a sitcom script together before I coached her through writing “Marry Him: the Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough” back in 2010. Eight years since the book’s release, it holds up as a cautionary tale for women in their 30’s who want to have their own biological kids. In today’s Love U Podcast, I catch up with the author who is a single mom, therapist, and one hell of a writer.

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The All-Or-Nothing-Marriage – an interview with Eli Finkel Feb 07, 2018

Eli Finkel wrote perhaps my favorite relationship book of 2017, The All Or Nothing Marriage, which talks about how the best marriages have gotten stronger while the rest of marriages have gotten weaker. Not only is it a really powerful and instructive book for single women looking for the ultimate relationship in the 21st century, but this is definitely one of my favorite Love U Podcasts ever. Enjoy.

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The Tao of Dating – an Interview With Dr. Ali Binazir Jan 31, 2018

I’m not the only guy who gives dating advice to smart, strong, successful women. In fact, my good friend, Dr. Ali Binazir, is the author of an incredible book called The Tao of Dating. And when I say “incredible,” I mean, I kind of wish I wrote it. Anyway, join me for today’s Love U Podcast with Ali, who is one helluva smart and interesting interview.

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No More Mr. Nice Guy – an Interview With Dr. Robert Glover Jan 24, 2018

Have you ever felt powerless in a relationship? Have you kept your mouth shut to avoid conflict? Have you let men walk all over you? Have you been a giver in a relationship that felt imbalanced? Then you must tune in to today’s Love U Podcast with Dr. Robert Glover, author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy” – a book written for men that applies to lots of “nice” women as well.

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Three Day Rule – An Interview With Talia Goldstein, CEO Jan 17, 2018

When you think of matchmaking, you probably think of Patti Stanger, but I don’t. Matchmaking is part art, part science, and part alchemy. That’s why I’m honored to interview the CEO of matchmaking service, Three Day Rule, about her business. Talia is a smart, successful, happily married mother who lives her mission to spread love every single day.

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5 Ways You Can Overcome Rejection and Find Love Jan 03, 2018

We’ve all been there. You fall in love. It’s the best feeling in the world. But then, for some reason – timing, money, addiction, infidelity, children, communication, emotional availability – you grow apart and can’t be fixed. What do you do then? Join me on this Love U Podcast where I explore my own heartbreak and teach you 5 ways to bounce back and find love.

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Why Do Men Not Want to Understand Women? Dec 20, 2017

There’s an entire self-help world built on women looking in the mirror, taking responsibility and earnestly trying to understand what men are thinking. Men, on the other hand, remain somewhere between clueless and indifferent. Why? And what do we do in a world where only half the population wants to understand the other half?

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A Book About Love – an Interview With Jonah Lehrer Dec 13, 2017

Want to understand how to choose a long-term partner that’s meant to last? Join me on this special Love U podcast with Jonah Lehrer about “A Book About Love.” Lehrer has written a seminal book for any woman who wants to know what really matters in relationships.

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What Makes a Good First Date? Dec 06, 2017

If you’re sick of endless texts from flaky guys… If you’re tired of paying for your own frappucino… If you suspect that dating might be more fun if guys “got it”… Join me for today’s Love U Podcast on what makes a man a good first date.

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Should Your Partner Also be Your Best Friend? Nov 29, 2017

Marriages struggle and collapse all the time because, in many cases, the spouses are lovers and business partners, but not best friends. So, why don’t more women marry men who are their best friends? That’s what we’re talking about on today’s Love U Podcast.

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Forgiveness – An Interview with Marcy Neumann Nov 15, 2017

Marcy Neumann is special. Ever since we met this summer, we’ve had a strong connection, although, on the surface, we couldn’t be more different. She’s all energy, reiki, and spirituality. I’m, well, me. But one place we feel strongly is about the power of forgiveness as a means to heal all relationship wounds. Join me for this wonderful conversation with this wonderful woman.

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Why Good Men Were Shocked by the #MeToo Movement Nov 08, 2017

Harvey Weinstein was the tip of the iceberg. After millions of women shared their #MeToo stories of sexual harassment and assault, the world could no longer ignore this pervasive problem. Today, I’m continuing this conversation to ensure that you know that you’re believed, while, at the same time, explaining how good men completely missed the boat on this one.

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Understanding the Male Dating Timetable Nov 01, 2017

There’s how fast you want to go, how fast he wants to go, and what works best for healthy couples. Those timetables rarely align. In this thought-provoking Love U Podcast, learn how the pace of your relationship may actually determine the success of your relationship.

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The Art of Charm – an interview with A.J. Harbinger Oct 25, 2017

The Art of Charm podcast is a BIG deal. Which is why I’m proud to interview co-founder A.J. Harbinger here on the Love U Podcast. A.J. shares universal tips for both women and men about how to create connection, be a good conversationalist, overcome social anxiety and develop confidence. You don’t want to miss this.

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How to Deal With Your Ex Oct 18, 2017

You may still love and miss your ex, but that doesn’t mean he should be a part of your life. That’s the message of this Love U Podcast, in which I give you six ways to make a clean break from your former boyfriend. One thing’s for sure: I DEFINITELY don’t tell you how to get him back.

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Are Gender Stereotypes True? Oct 11, 2017

Aggression. Rape. Murder. Dominance. With which gender do you associate those words? One more question: does that make you sexist? I don’t think so. Tune into this week’s Love U Podcast to hear why men and women are different and how stereotypes don’t apply to everyone.

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Swearing, Unicorns, and Boundaries – an interview with Kira Sabin Oct 04, 2017

Do you want to have fun? Do you want to laugh? Do you want someone to send you on a scavenger hunt to meet new guys? Then you’ll definitely want to listen to my interview with Kira Sabin, who developed the League of Adventurous Singles to help women regain their confidence and playfulness on the way to love. She’s a hoot and I agree with pretty much everything she says.

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How to Apologize (and mean it)! Sep 27, 2017

I have a big mouth and have never had an opinion I haven’t voiced. Nonetheless, I am happily married. How is that possible? Well, for one, I have a cool, patient, thick-skinned wife. But the other reason is that I know how to apologize – both frequently and effectively. Apologizing is a vital skill set for anyone who wants to be married. Join me on today’s Love U Podcast to learn how.

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Why Women Who Hate Men and Men Who Hate Women are Exactly the Same Sep 20, 2017

Feminists who hate men and MRA/MGOTWs who hate women are two peas in a very angry pod. They both have valid points, but refuse to acknowledge the validity of the other side. Join me on this Love U Podcast, where I try to stake out a middle ground in the war between the sexes. After all, it’s pretty hard to find love if you don’t like the gender you’re trying to love.

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The Breakup Doctor – an interview with Kevin Kurgansky Aug 23, 2017

Sensitive, smart, and spiritual are the first three words I’d used to describe Kevin Kurgansky. While he’s a young guy, he is an explorer who has channeled his wisdom into a best-selling breakup program. If you’re struggling to get over a guy, you don’t want to miss this.

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The 8 Agreements About Sex Aug 16, 2017

You want to know what guys think about sex? Just ask. Tune in to hear my 8 agreements about sex and you will be a LOT less frustrated with men.

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5 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love with You Aug 09, 2017

Let’s start here: if you have a selfish, abusive, lying, slacker boyfriend, dump him now. But if you have a good – albeit imperfect – man, here are 5 ways to bring out the best in him – and get the love you deserve.

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How to Be a Magical Man Magnet – an interview with Lauren Frances Aug 02, 2017

Lauren Frances has a thing. Charisma. Sex appeal. Fierce intelligence. Whatever it is, you’re going to want to get a glimpse of it. Lauren understands men and knows how to build attraction, both online and off. In this Love U Podcast, you’ll discover how to be a sexy siren that men can’t resist. I’m telling you: Lauren’s magical.

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What Are Your Limiting Beliefs About Love? Jul 26, 2017

A limiting belief is one that is partially true, but not always true. If you believe “there are no good men” because you’ve been hurt, you may have a point, but you’re cutting off the possibility that good men exist who can love you. That is not only false but paralyzing. If you think the worst about dating, relationships, and men, tune into this Love U Podcast and learn how to get out of your own way.

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Do You Want Him to Lie to You? Jul 19, 2017

You may say you want 100% honesty from your partner, but what happens when you get it? Feelings are hurt. Egos are bruised. Fights ensue. Today’s episode was inspired by a specific incident at work when I hurt someone’s feelings but had no idea how to avoid it. You want to understand why your boyfriend is so frustrating? Listen to this podcast; it will definitely challenge you.

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Soulmate Passion – an interview with Arielle Ford Jul 12, 2017

Arielle Ford may just well be The Fairy Godmother of Love. Not only is she the happily married author of the bestseller, The Soulmate Secret, but she is probably the single most connected person in the dating/relationship/spiritual world. When she’s not doing the Love U Podcast with me, she’s hanging with Deepak on his private plane to Bali. Join me to listen to this warm, soulful, fascinating interview.

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Do You Take Responsibility for Your Love Life? Jul 05, 2017

It’s quite easy to identify when someone else is a victim whose unrelenting negativity is an energy drain to all around them. It’s much harder to identify when you’re that person. Tune into this important Love U Podcast and learn how to take responsibility for what you can control and let go of the rest.

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Can You Change Your Man? Jun 28, 2017

People can change, but they only change when they want to change, not because you want them to change. So, why would a man want to change? Because the value of making you happy is more important than the value of him digging in his heels. On this Love U Podcast, discover the four essential questions to when you want to change your man.

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Have the Relationship You Want – an interview with Rori Raye Jun 07, 2017

Rori Raye is a wildly popular relationship coach for women who has impacted hundreds of thousands of lives over her storied career. She is the living embodiment of patience, intuition and feminine energy and I’m excited to share her teachings with you on this special Love U Podcast interview.

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Are You Compromising or Are You Settling? May 31, 2017

“Settling” is a bad word. I didn’t settle. I would never ask you to settle. In this week’s podcast, however, I’d like to help you redefine settling. Soon, you’ll be able to distinguish “settling” from the smart compromises that every happily married woman makes in order to build a life with someone.

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What Is So Confusing About Men? May 24, 2017

If you ask women, the answer is “everything.” If you ask men, the answer is “nothing.” Join me on this Love U Podcast where I explore whether there’s any truth in gender stereotypes and wash away any confusion you might have about the male gender.

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For Her Pleasure – an Interview with Sexologist Patti Britton May 17, 2017

A well-respected world leader in sexology, Dr. Patti Britton is an academic, author, popular speaker, trainer and workshop leader. She is also the co-founder of SexCoachU, the world’s premier credentialing and training organization for sex coaching. Tune into this week’s Love U Podcast and let’s sex things up!

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Highly Sensitive People Who Get Hurt Easily May 10, 2017

I don’t entirely understand highly sensitive people. In fact, I find it hard to offer constructive advice that doesn’t involve them changing into less sensitive people. That’s why I’m offering this Love U Podcast, as a resource to HSPs who struggle with relationships and want to know how they can better survive the tumultuous world of dating.

Click here for more on how to navigate the challenges of either being highly sensitive or being in a relationship with someone who is highly sensitive. And visit Dr. Elaine Aron’s website to gain insight into her research on this inherited trait.

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How to Date When You Want to Have Biological Children May 03, 2017

I’m not one of those guys who thinks that you should go to college to look for your husband. However, if you want to have your own biological children, you are better off taking your love life seriously in your early thirties, instead of putting off dating until your late 30’s. This week’s Love U Podcast is vital information for any woman who wants to bear her own children.

Why Women Who Want to Have Kids Should Date in their Early 30s

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What Image Are You Projecting? – an Interview with Kimberly Seltzer Apr 26, 2017

Kimberly Seltzer of Elite Image Makeovers is a friend who provides a valuable service: she knows how to make you look good to the opposite sex. Kim has been helping women dress for success and find love for a long time, and today, I’m going to have her share some of her common sense wisdom. Since I never tell women how to dress, today’s podcast should be an extra special treat.

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Are Men and Women the Same? Apr 19, 2017

Sure, men and women are equal, but are we the SAME? A Slate article that suggests we are the same leaves out some important information. Join me on this Love U Podcast to learn how women – because of their lack of testosterone – are not only different than men, but perhaps even better than men when it comes to relationships.

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How Do You Know When It’s Time to Leave Him? Apr 12, 2017

On this week’s Love U Podcast, I offer my strong (and somewhat unique) take: if your relationship is a source of negativity, it’s not serving its purpose. Join me to learn why if you have to ask if you should leave, you probably have your answer already.

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Breaking the Six Deadly Dating Patterns – an interview with Dr. Diana Kirschner Apr 05, 2017

Dr. Diana Kirschner is a psychologist, author and relationship expert whose book Love in 90 Days is one of my favorites. On today’s Love U Podcast, I ask her how you can overcome shyness and enhance confidence without years of therapy. I hold Dr. Diana in the highest esteem, so you do not want to miss this interview!

For more Dr. Diana Kirschner, visit her website. As bestselling love expert, Dr. Diana has handpicked and trained a team of awesome Love Mentor coaches – and you can talk with one of them for 40 minutes by phone or Skype for free! If you have any pressing dating or love questions, sign up for your free session now and you will be talking to a wise helpful Love Mentor very soon! Just say Evan sent me for VIP treatment!

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What To Do When You Don’t Trust Men Mar 29, 2017

You may think a little mistrust is healthy. It’s not. It’s toxic. Join me on this Love U Podcast to see how your lack of trust doesn’t protect you from bad men, but rather protects you from true love, which involves letting down your guard, being vulnerable and trusting.

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Are You a Great Girlfriend? Are You Sure? Mar 22, 2017

Being a great girlfriend isn’t about who you are, it’s about how you make him FEEL when he’s with you.

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Pregnantish with Andrea Syrtash Mar 15, 2017

Relationship expert Andrea Syrtash’s new venture, pregnantish, helps people navigate the personal and practical parts of fertility treatments and infertility. Her goal is to help the millions of singles, couples, and LGBT feel less isolated and more supported as they build their families. Andrea is a long-time friend and you will be moved and inspired by her story on the Love U Podcast.

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Are You The Difficult One In Your Relationship? Mar 08, 2017

Type A. Opinionated. Passionate. Informed. That’s the positive spin. The flip side is Difficult. Stubborn. Argumentative. If you’re difficult, I ain’t judging you, but I am telling you that you’d BETTER find an easygoing partner. Tune in to this week’s Love U Podcast to learn how if a pain in the ass like me can find love, you can, too.

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Should You Move in With Him Before Marriage? Mar 01, 2017

Living together doesn’t guarantee a great marriage, but it is a smart precursor for people to figure out if they can live together in peace. If you’ve been burned by living with a man, tune into this Love U Podcast, where I will give you a half-dozen facts about cohabitation that may just change your mind forever.

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How Your Bedroom’s Decor May Be Secretly Sabotaging Your Love Life – An Interview with Bumi Lauren Kristen Feb 22, 2017

Does your bedroom impact the way men see you? Does your decor affect the way you feel at home. Bumi Lauren Kristen is a licensed architect, interior designer, and pioneer in design psychology who helps women rekindle the romance at home. Definitely take a listen to this special Love U Podcast interview and see if your decor needs a makeover.

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How to Date as a Single Mom Feb 15, 2017

Dating as a single parent is like regular dating, with one massive complication that creates a bunch of minor complications. In this case, the complexities of an amicable vs. bitter divorce, a peaceful vs. contentious child custody battle, and the financial well-being of both you and the divorced dad you’re dating. Tune in to the Love U Podcast to learn five rules for single parent dating and hear me help two women get clarity on how to date as single parents.

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What Should You Expect on Valentine’s Day? Feb 08, 2017

How do you handle this Hallmark holiday? With equanimity and understanding. A man can be a great guy and be weak on Valentine’s gifts, and a guy can be a great holiday performer and inconsiderate on a day to day basis. In this Love U Podcast, I explain how you can tell the difference.

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Date Like a Grownup – an Interview with Bobbi Palmer Feb 01, 2017

I’m a pretty opinionated guy, which is why I’m surprised to share with you a dating coach who is in perfect sync with my message. Single until 47, Bobbi Palmer looked in the mirror, adjusted her attitude and has been happily married for nearly a decade. Now, at Date Like a Grownup, she shares the same straight-talking practical advice as I do, which is why I’m so excited to have her on the Love U Podcast. Pay attention. This woman knows what she’s doing.

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What Behavior Is Unacceptable in a Relationship? Jan 25, 2017

Sure, cheating, lying and abuse are no-nos. But what about porn? Flirting? Drinking? Smoking? Drugs? Video games? Working late? Traveling? Time with friends? Family? Hobbies? In this week’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to help you figure out what is acceptable and unacceptable, once and for all.

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Should You Date Against Your “Type”? Jan 18, 2017

My thesis — as well as most relationship experts’ thesis — is that what you’re most attracted to isn’t necessarily good for you, nor compatible in the long run. The answer to your compatibility woes is usually much more nuanced. Thus, you’re not giving up on your type; you’re trading off on certain qualities in order to find a better long-term fit for your life.

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Creating Love on Purpose – an Interview with Orna Walters Jan 11, 2017

Orna Walters is one half of a dynamic couple that helps women like you identify and remove your blocks to love. At Creating Love on Purpose, Orna has transformed many lives using the same tools she overcame as the child of abuse and learned to love herself. In short, we come from different places, but agree on pretty much all the important stuff. You don’t want to miss this Love U Podcast.

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What Does It Mean to Be Cool? Jan 04, 2017

The definition of being cool changes as you get older, but it ultimately arrives at one point: being cool is the dynamic between caring and not caring. Cool people don’t care what others think, but they do care about relationships and the world around them. Join me to explore this interesting idea on this week’s Love U Podcast.

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Do You Feel Like You’re Not Good Enough? Dec 21, 2016

You’re not alone. Even though I claim to have enough confidence to transfer to millions of women around the world, I, too have been plagued by anxiety, depression and self-doubt. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share how you can take a lifetime of negativity and turn it around in 7 steps, so you can attract the man you deserve.

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When Does Chatting Become Cheating – an interview with Dr. Sheri Meyers Dec 14, 2016

Friendships are great. Emotional affairs are trouble. If you’re sensing that something is “off” in your relationship because your partner is distant, secretive, critical, suddenly busy, working later hours, texting and Facebooking constantly, your suspicions may be justified. Join me on this week’s Love U Podcast where Dr. Sheri Meyers will share how to distinguish your fears from reality and begin the healing process.

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Sexclusivity: Why Women Should Make Men Wait for Sex Dec 07, 2016

Holding out for sex is not about holding out until marriage, tricking him into a relationship or trying to keep him around. On the contrary, it’s about taking enough time to assess whether your guy is truly boyfriend-worthy rather than sex-worthy. Tune in to this important Love U Podcast to ensure you never get “used” by a man for sex ever again.

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Why a Good Marriage Is the Ultimate in Freedom Nov 30, 2016

In a good marriage, you have the freedom to be the best version of yourself. It’s a foundation upon which you can build the rest of your life. This may seem hard to believe, but it’s not the institution of marriage that’s the problem; it’s been a combination of you and your choice of partner. Listen to this Love U Podcast to confirm that, in fact, a good marriage is the most joyous, liberating, strengthening, and freeing opportunity on Earth.

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Dating the Divorced Guy – an interview with Jonathon Aslay Nov 16, 2016

There aren’t many men who do what I do, but Jonathon Aslay is one of them. He’s a good friend who helps middle-aged divorced women through the dating process. Although, he is one of the sweetest guys in the world, we tussle in the middle of this podcast about what kind of questions you should ask on the first date. It’s juicy stuff and useful to see things from both sides. Lemme know what you think.

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How to Make the Texting Guy WANT to Call You. Nov 09, 2016

I know. You think I’m crazy. Old school. Too far out of the dating world. But I’m telling you, texting – our most popular form of communication – is also the WORST form of communication. Tune in to hear why texting is killing your intimacy and how to show a man how you’d like him to communicate with you. If he likes you, he’ll get the hint.

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Lust – Why Men Are Attracted to Some Women and Not Others Nov 02, 2016

Lust is not a choice; it’s an intense, animalistic, primal feeling. But why do men lust for certain women? Why do you lust for certain men? Join me on this Love U Podcast for an exploration of why lust is a great feeling – that says nothing about your romantic future whatsoever.

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Dating with Dignity – an interview with Marni Battista Oct 26, 2016

You’re not just looking for a man; you’re looking for a QUALITY man. But you don’t know where to find him. All the good ones are taken. The rest of ’em are just losers and players and flakes. At least that’s the way it seems. Enter Marni Battista, owner of DatingWithDignity.com, who joins me for this Love U to drop a truth bomb on you: there are plenty of quality men out there. You just have to know where to look…

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Follow Your Heart, Use Your Head: How to Know if Your Relationship is Worth Preserving Oct 19, 2016

If lasting love has eluded you and every Mr. Right turned out wrong, you need to listen to this. Yes, it’s a story about how I chose my wife, but it might as well be about your future. Furthermore, it’s the most revealing I’ve ever been and I think it will shed great light on how to make better relationship choices using both your head AND your heart.

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13 Questions To Ask Before You Get Married Oct 12, 2016

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve talked to divorced women who told me that everything was great with her ex…until she got married. Turns out that it wasn’t “marriage” that was the problem; it was that she didn’t really get to discover whether she was compatible with her husband until AFTER they tied the knot. Join me for this New York Times-inspired Love U Podcast on what you MUST figure out about your boyfriend before he becomes your husband.

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Bringing Sexy Back – an Interview with Allana Pratt Oct 05, 2016

Allana Pratt has a “thing.” I’ve yet to meet another woman who carries herself with effortless sex appeal that Allana does. She uses her gift to help women step out of their masculinity when they’re in relationships, as well as helping men get their confidence back, post-divorce. Tune in to the Love U Podcast to learn why men respond so strongly to women like Allana.

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Ghosting: Why Men Disappear Sep 28, 2016

The definition of ghosting: I would rather avoid an uncomfortable exchange with you than to be courteous. Listen to this Love U Podcast to learn why you should never leave a man hanging, and the most common reasons men disappear from your life.

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When Your Family Doesn’t Approve of Your Partner Sep 21, 2016

If you come from a close ethnic or religious family, you’re well aware of the pressures to marry one of your own. But as wonderful as it is to share a culture, most minorities end up restricting their dating pool to less than 5% of the population. So what happens when you fall in love outside your group? Should your family have a say? Listen to today’s Love U Podcast and I’ll tell you the only way to handle such a situation.

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Love Is in the Stars – an interview with Carol Allen Sep 14, 2016

You know that I’m about as non-spiritual as you get. Data. Evidence. Science. Those are my religions. And yet, my best friend and most trusted colleague in the entire dating/relationship universe is Carol Allen, vedic astrologer. She combines my deep hunger for helping people and reading incessantly with an ancient Indian tradition that lends surprising insight into your relationships Don’t believe me? Take a listen.

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Hook-Up Culture: What Every Woman Needs to Know If You’re Going to Sleep Around Sep 07, 2016

Sleep with whomever you want! Seriously. As a former slut-turned-happily-married man, I hold no judgment towards women who choose to exercise their liberty to seek pleasure at every turn. The only issue I have as a dating coach is that sometimes (often), you end up getting attached and heartbroken. So let’s dive into hookup culture and talk about what choices are going to make you happy.

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Why You Should Never Judge a Book By Its Cover Aug 31, 2016

We all do it. You see a stranger. He looks a certain way. You tell yourself a story about who he must be. The gorgeous guy. The poorly dressed guy. The short guy. The separated guy. The guy who didn’t go to college. The problem with these stories is not that they’re always false, but, rather, that they’re often not true. By choosing to judge a book by its cover, you could very well pass up the love of your life. Join me on this podcast for a great story where I judge someone on her looks, and quickly caught myself in the act.

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Calling in the One – an interview with Katherine Woodward Thomas Aug 24, 2016

Katherine Woodward Thomas is New York Times bestselling author of Calling in “The One” and Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After. (Yes, Gwyneth Paltrow got the phrase from her!) On this episode of the Love U Podcast, Katherine will teach you how to heal your past and create a bright new romantic future.

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Understanding Chemistry: How Much Is Enough? Aug 17, 2016

Chemistry may be the most intoxicating feeling in the world, but if I’ve learned anything in my 13 years of dating coaching, it’s that chemistry is not the best predictor of whether a relationship will last. Join me in this special Love U Podcast on one of my favorite subjects, where I’ll teach you how to compromise (not settle!) your way into lasting love.

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Peter Pan Syndrome – What You Can Do With a Guy Who Won’t Grow Up Aug 10, 2016

Peter Pans are men who don’t want to grow up. They’re fun, spontaneous, playful, creative, and interesting. You love them. Until it’s time to get serious. Then, you realize you’ve got a clueless boyfriend whose life revolves around his selfish whims and needs. What do you do when you are in love with a man who can’t plan 24 hours ahead? Join me on the Love U Podcast to find out.

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Dating and Relationships Without Fear – an Interview with Rhonda Britten Aug 03, 2016

Rhonda Britten is an Emmy award-winner, author and life coach who specializes in helping you identify, overcome, and face your fears in order to lead a fuller, happier life. I’m also proud to call her my close friend. This is my first Love U Podcast interview, and it certainly won’t be the last. Enjoy listening to Rhonda and I talk about how fear is currently suffocating your romantic dreams.

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Beyonce, Lemonade, Cheating and Infidelity Jul 27, 2016

Beyonce’s latest album was a confession that she was a powerful woman staying in a relationship with a cheating man. So why do men cheat? Why do women stay with them? How rampant is cheating in marriage, anyway? Tune in to the Love Podcast and I’ll break it all down for you.

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A Few Tricks to Help You Bring out the Best in Your Man Jul 20, 2016

For nearly a decade, I’ve tried to reverse engineer what my wife does that makes her such a spectacular partner. Today, I give away the secret sauce that makes me the happiest man I know and will make your future husband more devoted to you than you ever could have imagined.

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Why You Should Wait at Least Two Years Before Getting Married Jul 13, 2016

Love at first sight. Married in a year. Together forever. Sounds great, doesn’t it? Well, does until you realize that the couples who tie the knot quickly are the most likely to get divorced. Tune in to listen to the sobering statistics and learn what pace is the most effective to get not only a proposal but a happy marriage as well.

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Why Men Really Do Like The Cool Girl Jul 06, 2016

It’s been said that she’s a myth — an impossible image that no woman can actually live up to — and that women should stop worrying about being “cool.” I disagree. Men — the men you want — LOVE cool girls. In this podcast, we’re going to redefine cool and show you that in a committed relationship, both partners should be cool.

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Why It’s Hard to Be a Modern Man Jun 29, 2016

Believe me: I’m not shedding any tears for straight, white men like me. But I think it’s important to point out that straight, white men suffer too. Whether it’s trying to act more sensitive, more masculine, or feel more connected, guys constantly feel they’re falling short — and they have virtually no one to talk to about it.

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How to Be a Great Partner and Create Unconditional Love Jun 22, 2016

Let’s face it: most relationships fail before they hit the altar. That’s okay. Dating requires a lot of trial and error. But what happens when you find someone special? How should you treat him? How should he treat you? What can you do to ensure the long-term success of your relationship? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you how to embody the habits of the happiest marriages.

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10 Reasons You Don’t Believe in Online Dating (and 10 Reasons You’re Wrong) Jun 15, 2016

Liars. Players. Flakes. Losers. Scammers. Freaks. Morons. That’s a short list of the complaints I hear about online dating. And yet online dating remains the single best way to create a love life from scratch. Tune in as I address all of your objections to online dating and show you a more positive and effective path to making it work for you.

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10 Reasons You Don’t Believe in Love (and 10 Reasons You’re Wrong) Jun 08, 2016

It’s hard out there. I get it. After years of dating and relationship failures, it’s easy to go on permanent “guyatus,” and throw in the towel on men. Don’t. In this special podcast, I’m going to reframe 10 limiting beliefs you have about love and show you how to turn your glass half-empty into a glass half-full.

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How Fast Should Men Go Sexually? Jun 01, 2016

Men look for sex and find love. If we can agree on that, why is it so surprising to some women when men try to kiss (and more) on the first date? In this episode, I’m going to give you the lowdown on what men are really thinking and the definitive sexual pace you should move at if you want to keep your spark and get a boyfriend.

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Why Men Should Court Women Again May 25, 2016

Chivalry is not dead, but in some circles, it is on life support. While women lament the lack of effort men make in dating, most men are either clueless about chivalry or fighting against it. On this episode, I’m going to give you a compelling argument as to why courtship is good for men and what women can do to encourage better male behavior.

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4 Ways to Make Your Own Luck in Love May 17, 2016

You may feel like a victim of love. Bad guys. Bad timing. Bad choices. Fair enough. But even if it’s all true, you can’t let the past dictate your future. If you want to find lasting love, you have to do something different. Here are 4 ways you can start today.

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Men and Money May 11, 2016

Money is a dilemma faced by smart, successful women in the dating world. Do you need a man to earn more than you? Will he feel insecure and emasculated around you? What’s the best way to handle money as a couple? Evan’s got all your answers on the next Love U Podcast.

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How to Stop Men From Walking All Over You May 04, 2016

It’s the curse of the nice girl. You fall in love. He seems great. Slowly, but surely, his mask slips and you see his true colors: he’s selfish, stubborn, temperamental, critical and mean. You still love him, you remember him at his best, but you have no idea how you fell so far in this relationship. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to help you enforce healthy boundaries from the very beginning so that you’re nobody’s doormat ever again.

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How to Avoid a Bad Relationship Before It Happens Apr 27, 2016

It’s pretty much THE question, isn’t it? Instead of wasting months and years on men who treat you poorly, how can you avoid the unhappy ending BEFOREHAND? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to teach you how to use pattern recognition, experience and your gut to make better relationship choices in the future.

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Bad Relationship Advice That People Think Is Good Apr 20, 2016

There’s only one metric to determine whether advice is good: does it work or not? Believe it or not, there are dozens of respected experts whose opinion will steer you in the complete opposite direction of your actual goals. On this week’s Love U Podcast, I will debunk these false ideas and light your path to making confident relationship choices.

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Bad Dating Advice That People Think Is Good Apr 13, 2016

Let’s face it: anyone can become a dating coach. All you need is an opinion and a website. The problem is that, when you’re relying on “experts,” it’s hard to distinguish good advice from the bad advice. If you can’t even trust your own judgment, how do you know what to believe? I’m excited to dive into this Love U Podcast where you’ll learn to see right through the bullshit, clichés, and wishful thinking that are so prevalent online.

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The Difference Between Having Needs and Being Needy Apr 06, 2016

“You’re only as needy as your unmet needs” is a really affirming quote, because it implies that if you feel needy, your partner has been neglecting your needs. The problem is that this is not always the case. Insecure people with anxious attachment styles often think that every disagreement is potential cause for a break-up. It’s not. If you have a good man who loves you, you can breathe easy and be vulnerable and trusting, without fear of him leaving. But, as you’ll hear in this podcast, it’s all up to you.

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How to Date with Confidence When You’re Not Really Feeling It Mar 30, 2016

After a lifetime of disappointing men, questionable choices and broken hearts, it’s tempting to want to give up on love forever. In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I’m going to tell you an inspirational story of why it’s important to persevere and how quickly your romantic fortunes can turn around.

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Can Introverts and Extroverts Work as a Couple? Mar 25, 2016

Introverts are imaginative, thoughtful, and sensitive. But in a world where you have only a a few hours make a first impression, taking time to warm up to strangers is a distinct challenge. So how should introverts date? Should they pair with extroverts or stick with other introverts who recharge by being alone? Tune in to find out.

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4 Reasons That You Hate Mar 23, 2016

It’s normal to hate the guy who cheated on you. But how about the guy who slept with you but didn’t want to commit? Or the woman who married your beloved ex-boyfriend? Or the person who always posts those happy family photos on Facebook? In this episode, we’ll explore the sources of hate, and I’ll let you know who I found myself hating, quite irrationally.

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How You (and Your Boyfriend) Can Feel More Secure In Your Relationship Mar 21, 2016

Hate to say it, but there are some people on the planet who can’t make ANYBODY happy. In this episode, you will not only learn why you choose bad men, but also learn how to bring the best out of the good ones. Listen and I will tell you how to turn a insecure guy into a confident guy.

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Is Dating a Skill? Mar 16, 2016

“Just be yourself” is the most common dating advice in the world. It’s also the worst. Men who send dick pics are being themselves. Verbally abusive men are being themselves. Ultimately, dating success isn’t about pretending to be someone you’re not, but rather, about being the most confident, generous, self-aware person you can be.

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Are You Overestimating Yourself? Mar 11, 2016

No one wants to think so, but most of us do. Think of the guy who thinks he’s a catch because he went to a good college, the smart guy who has no social skills, or the rich guy who is selfish and negative. In this episode, you’ll learn that what makes you impressive doesn’t always make you a good partner, and what makes a good partner is something most of us overlook.

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You Can’t Do The Wrong Thing With The Right Guy. Mar 09, 2016

“Should I call him? Text him? Ignore him?” “Why is he pulling away?” “How can I get him back? STOP. When you’re in a healthy relationship, you won’t have to ask any of these questions. And if you find yourself asking these questions, your relationship is really not that healthy.

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Does Your Boyfriend Have to Think You’re the Most Beautiful Woman He’s Ever Seen? Mar 04, 2016

Sure, you want to feel desired, wanted, and safe. But is it reasonable to expect that your boyfriend finds you more attractive than every other woman on Earth? Find out why it’s not a sign of relationship weakness if your man thinks other women are hot; it can actually be a sign of relationship strength.

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