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S2 EP5 | Creating Unshakeable Friendships | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 30, 2025

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 5 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: Creating Unshakeable Friendships

In this episode, we explore why adult friendships require intention rather than convenience, the science of vulnerability, accountability, and shared values, and provide practical frameworks to deepen or rebuild connections.

Key Takeaways:

Understand why adult friendships require intention rather than convenience.
Discover the science behind vulnerability, accountability, and shared values.
Learn practical frameworks to deepen or rebuild connections.

Practice:

Action Step: Pick one friendship this week and take action to nurture it. Tag us with #LetMeConnect.

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S2 EP4 | The Truth About Adult Friendships | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 30, 2025

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 4 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: The Truth About Adult Friendships – Why They Fade & How to Rebuild

In this episode, we explore why adult friendships fade, the science behind "friendship autopilot" and life transitions, and how to rebuild or release relationships with grace and intention.

Key Takeaways:

Understand why adult friendships fade, even with people you love.
Discover the science behind "friendship autopilot" and how life transitions impact friendships.
Learn how to rebuild or release relationships with grace and intention.

Practice:

Action Step: Pick one friendship this week and say, "Let Them ______. Let Me ______."

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S2 EP3 | Comparison as Your Greatest Teacher | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 30, 2025

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 3 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: Comparison as Your Greatest Teacher – Turning Envy into Fuel

In this episode, we explore why comparison triggers self-doubt and fear of judgment, the neuroscience of envy, and how to reframe comparison as a roadmap for growth using the "Let Them" and "Let Me" techniques.

Key Takeaways:

Understand why comparison triggers self-doubt and fear of judgment.
Discover the neuroscience of envy and how social media rewires your brain.
Learn to reframe comparison as a roadmap for growth using the "Let Them" and "Let Me" techniques.

Practice:

Action Step: Post a “Comparison Confession” story (tag #LetMeLearn) and include one action step it inspired.

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S2 EP2 | Life Isn’t Fair – And That’s Okay | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 30, 2025

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 1 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: Why the Right Decision Feels Wrong

In this episode, we explore why trusting your intuition often feels uncomfortable, the link between people-pleasing and self-betrayal, and how to act on your needs despite others’ disapproval.

Understand why trusting your intuition can feel uncomfortable due to the neuroscience of doubt.
Discover how people-pleasing leads to self-betrayal.
Learn to act on your needs despite others’ disapproval.

Action Step: Identify one decision you’ve delayed due to fear of judgment. This week, say Let Them _______, then Let Me _______.

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

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S2 EP1 | Why the Right Decision Feels Wrong | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 24, 2025

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 1 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: Why the Right Decision Feels Wrong

In this episode, we explore why trusting your intuition often feels uncomfortable, the link between people-pleasing and self-betrayal, and how to act on your needs despite others’ disapproval.

Key Takeaways:

Understand why trusting your intuition can feel uncomfortable due to the neuroscience of doubt.
Discover how people-pleasing leads to self-betrayal.
Learn to act on your needs despite others’ disapproval.

Practice:

Action Step: Identify one decision you’ve delayed due to fear of judgment. This week, say Let Them _______, then Let Me _______.

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S1 EP7 | When Adults Throw Tantrums | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 24, 2025

Welcome to Season 1, Episode 7 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: When Adults Throw Tantrums – How to Stay Calm When Others Lose It

In this episode, we explore why adults have emotional outbursts, the cost of engaging vs. detaching, and practical scripts to de-escalate and redirect conflict.

Key Takeaways:

Understand why adults throw tantrums due to amygdala hijacks and unmet needs.
Learn the cost of engaging in conflicts vs. the benefits of detaching.
Discover practical scripts to de-escalate and redirect conflicts.

Practice:

Action Step: This week, when someone erupts, practice Detach & Redirect. Text us your wins!

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S1 EP6 | Loving Difficult People | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 24, 2025

Welcome to Season 1, Episode 6 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: Loving Difficult People – How to Care Without Losing Yourself

In this episode, we explore the fine line between compassion and self-betrayal, understanding the neuroscience of empathy fatigue and resentment, and providing scripts to enforce boundaries without guilt.

Key Takeaways:

Understand the balance between compassion and maintaining self-respect.
Learn about empathy fatigue and why helping others can feel addictive.
Discover actionable scripts to set boundaries without guilt.

Practice:

Actionable Challenge: Identify one draining person this week and practice: "Let Them ______. Let Me ______."

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S1 EP5 | Let Them Think Bad Thoughts About You | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 24, 2025

Welcome to Season 1, Episode 5 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: Let Them Think Bad Thoughts About You

In this episode, we explore how the fear of judgment sabotages goals and how embracing self-rejection vs. self-acceptance can turn "Let Them think bad thoughts" into personal power.

Key Takeaways:

Understand how fear of judgment can paralyze you.
Discover the neuroscience behind our craving for approval.
Learn to turn judgment into personal power by embracing self-acceptance.

Practice:

Actionable Challenge: Do one thing you’ve avoided due to fear of judgment and tag us with #LetThemJudge.

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S1 EP4 | The Neuroscience of Stress | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 24, 2025

Welcome to Season 1, Episode 4 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: The Neuroscience of Stress – Why You Can’t Think Straight

In this episode, we explore how your brain’s primal stress response conflicts with rational control and how chronic stress traps you in survival mode. Discover how the "Let Them" and "Let Me" techniques can reset your nervous system.

Key Takeaways:

Understand the brain’s primal stress response vs. rational control.
Learn why chronic stress keeps you in survival mode.
Discover how "Let Them" + "Let Me" resets your nervous system.

Practice:

Listener Task: Track 3 daily stressors and apply "Let Them" + "Let Me."

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S1 EP3 | Let Them + Let Me – The Two-Step Power Move | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 24, 2025

Welcome to Season 1, Episode 3 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: Let Them + Let Me – The Two-Step Power Move

In this episode, we explore the concept of detachment vs. agency, the neuroscience of control, and how proactive ownership can turn detachment into empowered action.

Key Takeaways:

Understand why stopping at "Let Them" can lead to isolation.
Discover how amygdala hijacks override rational thinking.
Learn how to turn detachment into empowered action with the "Let Me" framework.

Practice:

Action Step: This week, catch yourself saying "Let Them" and add a "Let Me." Share your story with #LetMeRise.

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

Tune in to The Messy Podcast—navigating the chaos of life, one story at a time.

S1 EP2 | The Let Them Theory – What It Is & Why It Matters | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Mar 24, 2025

Welcome to Season 1, Episode 2 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: The Birth of Let Them – From Prom Chaos to Viral Revolution

In this episode, we explore how micromanaging Oakley’s prom led to a breakthrough, the science of surrender and why releasing control reduces stress, and how a 60-second TikTok ignited a global movement.

Key Takeaways:

Understand how micromanaging Oakley’s prom led to the birth of the "Let Them" theory.
Discover the science of surrender and how releasing control reduces stress.
Learn about the viral impact and global resonance of the "Let Them" movement.

Practice:

Action Step: This week, catch yourself over-controlling one situation and say, "Let Them, then Let Me." Text us your story to share your experience!

Support Us: Visit https://themessypodcast.com to support our mission.

The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast Mar 24, 2025

Welcome to The Messy Podcast! This episode marks the beginning of our journey into The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. Over the next few episodes, we'll explore how this empowering book can help you break free from mental roadblocks and unlock your full potential. The Let Them Theory is more than just a self-help guide—it’s a roadmap to freedom, clarity, and real personal growth. Mel Robbins, renowned for her mindset-shifting techniques, encourages you to stop carrying the weight of other people's expectations and release the self-imposed pressure that holds you back. Instead, she shows you how to trust the process, even when it feels uncertain. Before we dive in, if you're ready to embrace these transformative ideas and take control of your life, grab your copy of The Let Them Theory today: https://amzn.to/3PTCK6h. And for exclusive content, bonus episodes, and more, visit themessypodcast.com. What You Can Expect in This Series: Letting Go of External Expectations: Learn how to stop living for others and start living for yourself. Releasing Self-Imposed Pressure: Break free from the perfectionism that holds you back and start moving forward. Trusting the Process: Discover how to embrace uncertainty and know that your journey is just as important as the destination. Letting Go of Burdens: Find out how carrying others' emotional load prevents you from moving forward in your own life. This is just the start of our deep dive into The Let Them Theory. We’ll guide you step by step through the core concepts of this book, helping you release what’s holding you back and empower you to make real progress in your life and relationships. Start today by grabbing your copy of The Let Them Theory and get ready to transform your mindset: https://amzn.to/3PTCK6h. For more episodes, exclusive content, and to support The Messy Podcast, visit us at themessypodcast.com. Let’s dive in!

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