The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

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SC 199 - They Went To 5 Different Therapists, Hired Divorce Lawyers And Somehow Stayed Together! - Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt Jun 07, 2018

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Couples therapy legends Harville Hendrix & Helen Hunt were told by THEIR therapist that they were the couple from hell. Since then, not only have they mended, they've gone on to write multiple best-selling books that have revolutionized the therapy field. SHOWNOTES:

Understanding "Connection" [8:00]
What Does 'Imago' Mean, According To The Word's Inventors [15:00]
Harville & Helen's Response To Imago Therapy Criticism [20:00]
How Harville & Helen’s Turned Their Relationship Around [30:00]
What is Zero Negativity? [35:00]
Tips For Staying Together In The Face of Separation [40:00]
Thoughts For The Therapy Field From Helen & Harville [49:00]

For the full Smart Couple Podcast webpage for this episode featuring Harville Hendrix & Helen Hunt visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast199

SC 198 - 4 Men Discuss Love & The Path Of Personal Transformation May 30, 2018

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Having awesome friends is great. Having awesome friends that are ALSO on the personal growth path IS BETTER!

Personal growth powerhouses Reuvain Bacal, Will Vanderveer, Keith Kurlander & Jayson Gaddis are longtime friends with a quarter century of coaching & self-improvement experience between them. Listen in on their convo!

SHOWNOTES:

Who Are These Guys? [9:00]
The Value Of Community [13:00]
How These Four Bros Get Through Conflict With Each Other [21:00]
Things The Guys Have Called Each Other On [27:00]
How These Men Are Defining Love Today [37:00]
What Inspires These Friends The Most [51:00]
What Does It Mean to Have a Healthy Mind? [1:09:00]
Parting Words of Wisdom [1:24:00]

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For the full Smart Couple Podcast webpage for this episode featuring Keith Kurlander, Will Vanderveer and Reuvain Bacal visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast198

SC 197 - Warriorship, Anger & Not Running Away From Your Relationship Problems - Mark Groves May 23, 2018

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We all have a tendency to avoid things that are difficult but Human Connection Specialist and dating coach, Mark Groves, knows where there's pain there's gain. Let's take a look at our wounded, angry warrior sides and see what they have to teach us about loving well! SHOWNOTES:

Are You Fixing People to Boost Your Control? [8:00]
Overusing of the "Narcissist" Title [16:00]
The Value of Accessing Your Anger [21:00]
So Your Relationships Are Tough - Stop Running! [28:00]
How to Tap Into Your Inner Warrior [31:00]
Skillful and Attractive Anger [34:00]
Staying in The Hurt [48:00]
Why You Should Be Going to Conferences (Like MOTU) [52:00]
Leaving Friends Behind When You’re Growing [54:00]

P.S. Mark is HOOKING US UP with $200 off tickets to the Masters Of The [U]niverse Summit in Vancouver this July! I'll be presenting along with many other crazy inspiring speakers. Just enter the code "Smart Couple" when you get your tickets. Click here to get started. For the full Smart Couple Podcast webpage for this episode visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast197

SC 196 - Why Feeling Insecure Is A Good Thing May 16, 2018

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Who knew saying the words "I'm insecure" could be so sexy!?! It's time to uncover those insecurities, let go of the entitlement and celebrate where you're really at on your growth path.

SHOWNOTES:

Why Insecurity Gets a Bad Rap [2:00]
Call B.S. on Your Insecure Friends! [5:00]
What Does it Mean to be ”Entitled” [6:00]
Your Action Step - It’ll Make You Look Sexy! [9:00]

For the full Smart Couple Podcast webpage for this episode visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast196

SC 195 - How They Both Got To A Full Yes After 2.5 Years Of Struggle - Neil Sattin & Chloe Urban May 09, 2018

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Coaches Neil Sattin and Chloe Urban are a great example of a couple getting it right in the face of some serious challenges. Listen closely and you can snag some of their most helpful relationship tools!

SHOWNOTES:

Chloe Urban and Neil Sattin’s Love Story [5:00]
Advice for Couples When Step-Kids Are Involved [11:00]
Why We Fail To Stand Up For Who We Are In Partnership [25:00]
Primal Fears [27:00]
How Does “Safety” Play a Role In Neil and Chloe's Relationship [31:00]
Tip to Repair Relationship Disconnection [36:00]
Dr. Pete Levine’s “Vu-ing” Technique for Self-Regulation [41:00]
Chole & Neil’s Spiritual Practice-Relationship Intersection [45:00]
When One Member of a Couple Doesn’t Have a Spiritual Practice [50:00]

For the full Smart Couple Podcast webpage for this episode featuring Neil Sattin and Chloe Urban visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast195

SC 194 - 3 Ways For Couples To Make Tough Decisions Together - Ellyn Bader May 02, 2018

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Jayson met up with renowned couples therapy expert and author, Ellyn Bader, at this year's Interpersonal Neurobiology Conference at UCLA. WOW, was she a treasure trove of insight. Not just theories and concepts, but insight that can be used every day.

SHOWNOTES:

Who is Ellyn Bader? [3:00]
Anxiety vs Growth-Promoting Anxiety in Relationship [7:00]
Three Different Decision-Making Strategies For Couples [16:00]
Ellyn’s Insight for Therapists [21:00]
Why Telling Your Partner What You "Need" Can be Problematic [29:00]
The Confusion Around Differentiation vs Individuation [37:00]
What Ellyn Means When She Asks, "Are You a Lie Invitee?" [47:00]

For the full Smart Couple Podcast webpage for this episode featuring Ellyn Bader visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast194

SC 193 - Reversing Disease & Illness Using Your Mind & Relationships - Dan Siegel Apr 25, 2018

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Right now, researchers and the public are fascinated with brain science and Dr. Dan Siegel is a legend in that department. Jayson and Dr. Siegel dig in deep in this one, discussing autoimmune disease, rewiring the brain, GMO food, struggles in the therapy field and so much more.d and so much more.

SHOWNOTES:

Why It’s Important to Have Healthy Adult Relationships for Good Health [12:00]
Dr. Siegel's Thoughts on Epigenetics [15:00]
The 5 Parts of Making Meaning [24:00]
Emotion & The Importance of Subjective Experience [29:00]
Autoimmune Disorders, Gluten and GMO Foods [41:00]
Adverse Childhood Experiences and Illness [46:00]
Where Are Therapist Falling Short And What Are They Doing Well [1:00:00]
Dr. Siegel's Advice for Young People [1:06:00]

For the full web posting for this Smart Couple Podcast episode visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast193

SC 191 - 3 Things Bessel van der Kolk Did To Help Him Through His Recent Trauma Apr 10, 2018

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A new study shows child abuse should be considered the second largest cause of illness in the U.S.. And yet, our diagnostic system ignores trauma completely. Listen to what trauma expert Bessel van der Kolk has to say about that and get his insight into turning traumatic pain into personal power!

SHOWNOTES:

Bessel Responds to The Allegations Against Him [10:00]
2nd Largest National Health Problem: Child Abuse [17:00]
Avoiding Seeing Trauma Victims as Broken People [20:00]
Why Meds Don't Cure Trauma [28:00]
Explained: Why Child Abuse Can Lead to More Abuse [38:00]
The Harm in Telling a Trauma Story Over and Over

For the full web posting for this Smart Couple Podcast episode visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast191

SC 190 - Transforming Defensive Men Into Inspired Men - Adam Gilad Apr 02, 2018

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Men are getting their world's rocked by the #MeToo movement and the rapid change in gender norms. In this episode, Jayson taps into Adam Gilad's valuable insight on men in the modern world.

SHOWNOTES:

Who is Adam Gilad & What is Going on With Men Right Now [3:00]
Men and the #MeToo Movement [8:00]
Why Does the #MeToo Movement Make Some Men Defensive? [11:00]
Why Male Identity Ultimately Doesn't Mean Shit [14:00]
Mom Issues and Male Rage [18:00]
Thoughts on Male Conditioning [20:00]
How do you Help People who Don't Want to be Helped? [23:00]
What Women Need to Know About men Right now [25:00]

For the full web posting for this Smart Couple Podcast episode visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast190

SC 189 - Top 10 Takeaways From The Interpersonal Neurobiology Conference at UCLA - Jayson & Ellen Mar 29, 2018

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This year's Interpersonal Neurobiology Conference at UCLA was a dream for a relationship research and brain science nerd!

If you geek out on that stuff, you'll love hearing the highlights Jayson and his therapist partner, Ellen Boeder, have in their personal conference notes.

SHOWNOTES:

Antonio Damasio Highlights [5:00]
Dan Siegel Highlights [8:00]
Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt Highlights - Safe Conversation [12:00]
Crazy Listening Statistic [15:00]
Secure Functioning Relationships and Other Stan Tatkin Highlights [18:00]
Insight for Therapists and Couples from Peter Pierson [18:00]
Affairs and Esther Perel Highlights [25:00]
The Shame of Staying With a Partner That Cheats [29:00]
Insight from the Couples Panel [31:00]

For the full web posting for this Smart Couple Podcast episode visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast189

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