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The Great Man Within

A high-performing man’s guide to the essentials:

PURPOSE: Learn how to find your calling and live a life of meaning and fulfillment.
SEX & INTIMACY: Master sex and deepen intimacy
MASCULINITY: Debunk outdated myths and define masculinity on your own terms.
LEADERSHIP: Master the art of leading yourself so you can inspire and impact others.
BOOKS GREAT MEN READ: Get access to must-read books for aspiring Great Men.
WOMEN: Learn inside secrets from inspiring leaders of women’s communities.

It’s been said that the Definition of Hell is:

“At the end of your life, the man you became meets the man you could have become.”

This happens to the men who choose to settle for a life of predictability, comfort and safety…at the expense of living their Purpose.

This podcast is for the man who rejects good because he settles for nothing less than Great.

That man you “could have become” is the Great Man Within you.

Napoleon Hill (Think and Grow Rich) calls this the “other self.”
Stephen Pressfield (War of Art) calls this “the unlived life.”
Wayne Dyer (Wishes Fulfilled) calls this “the invisible self.”

Dominick Quartuccio and Bryan Stacy are your guides to helping you discover and live The Great Man Within You.

Latest Episodes:

3 Principles a Trustworthy Masculine Leader Lives By Jul 31, 2020

Show notes

#151: One of the things men crave at our absolute core:

We want our leadership to be trusted.

There's nothing quite so rewarding as setting a vision and having others enthusiastically follow.

Conversely, there's nothing quite so deflating as having your leadership doubted, resisted, picked apart or ignored altogether.

The best leaders know who they are at their core and lead in alignment with their deepest values.

Knowing your deepest values and turning them into guiding principles is what prevents you from drifting when times get tough (like these last 5 months).

In my new book On Purpose Leadership, I write about the importance of designing your own leadership principles so you can live and lead from purpose.

The 22 men in The Great Man Mastermind share a set of 3 principles that we all live and lead by:

I master the art of leading myself so I can inspire and impact others.
I lean out over my edge, constantly in everything I do.
I create environments where I and those I care about can thrive.

As our relationships, families, businesses and world looks to recover and build a better normal, the world needs more trustworthy masculine leaders now more than ever.

It's time for you to get clear on your leadership principles.

In today's episode, I'll show you how.

-DQ

3 Misconceptions Men Have About Purpose Jul 27, 2020

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#150: Here are three misconceptions men have about Purpose:

Purpose resides in the future.

My present life/work are the enemy/obstacle to purpose.

Purpose only comes via the fulfillment of a massive achievement.

Believing in these fallacies pushes you further away from feeling a sense of purpose.

The simple truth:

Purpose is only lived in the present, not the future.

That truth dispels misconceptions #1 and #3.

Learning how to find and bring Purpose to your present day work and life is where your life shifts from mundane to magnetic.

In today's episode, Bryan and I break down some of the key concepts about living Purpose that I write about in my hot-off-the-presses book: On Purpose Leadership.

If you want to be an exceptional leader of others…

…you yourself need to know how to lead from Purpose.

-DQ

PS – Buy my book On Purpose Leadership, email me the receipt, and I'll send you a host of bonuses (worksheet exercises, guided meditations and other surprises to implement the teachings of the book).

How Obligation Steals More Time Than You Think (DQ Solo) Jul 24, 2020

Show notes

#149:

"What kills us isn't one big thing,

but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down

for fear of disappointing others."

Alain de Botton

Those "thousands of tiny obligations" come in so many forms:

Spending time with a person who energetically drains you
Saying yes to a meeting you didn't want to but its "only 20 minutes"
Taking a call

Most of what we call "obligations" are not obligations at all.

In fact, the textbook definition of an "obligation" is an act or course of action to which a person is morally or legally bound.

Very few things in your life meet that standard.

In fact, most of what you call an obligation is an inability to say no for fear of:

Disappointing others
Dealing with blowback
Losing others' approval

In my new book, On Purpose Leadership, I talk about how the best leaders lead from their Greatest Energy – their unique source of power, inspiration and life force.

When you're leading from obligation…you're cut off from your Greatest Energy. Therefore, you can never lead from Purpose.

In today's episode, I share a recent story of how I said yes to a 30 minute meeting – out of obligation – that ended up stealing two hours of my time…

…and how you can prevent the same from happening to you.

-DQ

PS – Buy my new book On Purpose Leadership, email me the receipt, and I'll send you a host of bonuses (worksheet exercises, guided meditations and other surprises to implement the teachings of the book).

How to Create Magnetism in Romantic Relationships feat. Scott Berry Jul 20, 2020

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#148:

"Intimacy requires closeness. Desire requires distance."

Esther Perel calls this the central paradox of love.

How can you be both close (requisite of intimacy) and distant (requisite of desire) at the same time…

…especially over the course of a long-term relationship?

The good news is, you don't have to choose just intimacy or just desire, you can have both.

But that won't happen by accident, you have to work at it.

Today, our guest Scott Berry teaches how you can cultivate a loving and passionate relationship for the long haul.

Who is Scott Berry

Scott is a life coach and relationship counselor, primarily focusing on heterosexual couples
He teaches how to create freedom inside of relationships and using an understanding of the masculine feminine energies to create polarity and magnetism in your relationship dynamic
He's the creator of the Self Actualized Marriage, which is a 3 day relationship retreat
He runs the Mastery and Fulfillment Podcast And he's also a connoisseur of fine exotic teas

In this Episode

How you can have both intimacy and desire in your long term relationships
What "polarity" means and why it's essential to keep the desire burning
Why "my partner is my best friend" is often the silent assassin in the bedroom
The #1 – by far – complaint that Scott's female clients have about their men
Why men lead in work, but abdicate leadership in their relationships
How your woman can be the breadwinner and you can still lead the relationship
How male-dominated businesses push women into masculine roles…that can often carry into the bedroom (unwittingly)
One actionable step and book recommendation

Resources

Scott's Website: alchemicempowerment.com Scott's Couples Program: The Self Actualized Marriage Scott's Podcast: Mastery and Fulfillment Podcast

John Wineland Podcast Interview: The Art of Masculine Leadership

Scott's Book Recommendations

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel The All or Nothing Marriage by Eli Finkel

-DQ

Simplify Your Life - The Disciplined Pursuit of Less Jul 17, 2020

Show notes

#147:

"If you don't prioritize your life, someone else will."

– Greg McKeown, Essentialism

Why is it so hard to simplify your life?

Why do you hate the feeling of overwhelm…yet keep saying yes to more responsibility?

Why does it take so much discipline to do less?

The big cosmic joke is that most of society has bought into a belief that "doing more" will:

Lead to fulfillment
Quiet your inner critic
Give you a sense of purpose

The irony is, the more you encumber yourself with "doing more" responsibilities and obligations, the further you get from all of these things.

It was when I committed to the disciplined pursuit of doing less (a term coined by Greg McKeown in his book Essentialism) that I found myself on the fast track to fulfillment, purpose and a kinder inner critic.

In today's episode, I break down some of the key distinctions of a "nonessentialist" vs "essentialist" as described in Greg McKeown's book.

For example:

Nonessentialist

Essentialist

Thinks

"It's all important"

"Only a few things really matter."

Does

Says "yes" without really thinking

Says "no" to everything except the essential

Gets

Feels overwhelmed & exhausted

Experiences joy in the journey

If you want to simplify your life, this is your episode.

-DQ

My new book is officially available for pre-order: On Purpose Leadership

Essentialism by Greg McKeown

A Beginner's Guide to Masculine and Feminine Energies feat. Keisha Delva Jul 13, 2020

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#146: Here are a few signs you're too masculine:

You accomplish very much and feel joy very little
You give a lot but have trouble receiving
You deify logic and vilify emotion
You worship data and scoff at intuition
You have plenty of sex but very little intimacy
You live from the head while disconnected from your heart

It's actually confronting to realize how easily those examples flowed from me, because all of them are realities of my not too distant past.

I know what it's like to goal set, goal crush and paradoxically feel a chronic state of discontent, fatigue and absence of aliveness in my life.

It was only when I started to delve into the spiritual understandings of the masculine and feminine energies did my world start to become more enjoyable, colorful and vibrant.

Masculine and feminine energies exist on a spectrum, and no matter how you identify, we all have the ability to access and experience the range of these energies…

…if we allow them.

If you desire to experience more joy, intimacy, passion, creativity and love in your life, it's important to understand how to cultivate more feminine energy in your life.

If you desire to be a better leader in the workplace, at home and in the bedroom…believe me, it will behoove you to master your understanding of the masculine and feminine energies.

So today we are having a beginner's guide discussion to understanding the masculine and feminine energies with our special guest, Keisha Delva.

Who is Keisha Delva

Keisha is a Licensed Mental Health therapist and the founder of Keisha Delva Creative
She runs a business helping women entrepreneurs – specifically creatives and healers (coaches, therapists) – build a profitable business that they love
Many of the women who come to her are stuck in one of two extremes
Women who are in the extreme masculine: overworked, overcommitted, overwhelmed and burnt out
Keisha once burned her own self out as a therapist and realized she needed to get her masculine and feminine energies into balance if she was ever going to live a happy healthy and thriving life
The extreme unconscious feminine, characterized by indecisiveness, difficulty following through, paralyzed or sabotaged by emotions
Keisha helps her clients cultivate strength and choice in leveraging the masculine and feminine energies to build and operate successful businesses

In this Episode

An introduction to what the masculine and feminine energies are
Keisha walks us through a set of key characteristics of masculine energy as well as those of feminine energy
Practical applications on how to leverage these energies to show up as a more trustworthy leader in your workplace, and romantic relationships
Reasons why your feminine partner will resist your leadership (and how you can help guide her from resistance to enthusiastic consent)
The #1 source of most (if not all) feminine complaints

-DQ

Connect with Keisha

Keisha's Instagram Account: https://www.instagram.com/keishadelvacreative Keisha Delva's Website: https://keishadelvacreative.com

When You Cant Break Free From Drift (DQ Solo) Jul 10, 2020

Show notes

#145: Here are some telltale signs you're in a prolonged state of drift:

Life feels like Groundhog's Day
Your routines feel drab, dull and dry
Your sex life is becoming predictable
Your work - once inspiring - has not held a spark for you in some time
You've normalized being discontent

Trust me, I've been in all of those places myself, and it can feel like a real challenge to break free from drift when you're that deep.

Don't sweat it: I've got you covered.

Today I'm talking about tried and true ways to break free from drift when you don't think you can.

We'll be diving into:

Shattering your routines
Summoning courage to make big moves
Bringing novelty, unpredictability and spark back into your life

-DQ

The 3 books I reference in this episode:

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

Design Your Future by me

Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans

Discover the Great Man Within You Jul 06, 2020

Show notes

#144: Every man has greatness lying dormant within him.

I'm here to help you wake it up.

Each man lives two lives:

The "Good Enough" Guy: He who shrinks back from his edge in the name of comfort and safety
The Great Man Within: He who plays life at his edge and lives his fullest potential

He who discovers and lives The Great Man Within him, will live a life of purpose and passion.

A life to be inspired by and proud of.

Today, Bryan and I explore 4 powerful masculine archetypes:

King
Warrior
Magician
Lover

These archetypes are essential contributors to discovering and living your Great Man.

The man who knows how and when to tap his King, for example:

Leads businesses to extraordinary results (without sacrificing his family or health)
Creates environments where he and everyone he cares about can thrive
Leaves the world a better place than he found it

The man who knows how to tap his Warrior:

Knows what he stands for and is willing to fight for it
Walks through life always alive, alert and in his power
Has an undying loyalty to something bigger than himself

Join us for one of our manliest conversations yet: Discover the Great Man Within You.

-DQ

RESOURCES

King, Warrior, Magician Lover by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette

Why You Might Feel Lazy & Unmotivated After Success (DQ Solo) Jul 03, 2020

Show notes

#143: What's more annoying…

…than feeling lazy and unmotivated after you've achieved something?

Been there, brother, been there.

In today's episode, I share three of the most common themes I see why men feel lazy and unmotivated after achieving success:

You're Off Purpose: In achieving your success, you've realized that the feeling you were seeking was never to be fulfilled by this pursuit. In other words, you were not aligned with your purpose.

You Overdid It: In pursuit of success, you pushed yourself beyond your capacity, and now your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bodies need a break.

You're Leveling Up: You've fulfilled your purpose in this arena of your life. The drop-off from intensely pursuing your purpose to not knowing the next path can feel steep. David Deida says it beautifully in The Way of the Superior Man:

"A man must be prepared to give 100% to his purpose, fulfill his karma or dissolve it, and then let go of that specific form of living.

He must be capable of not knowing what to do with his life, entering a period of unknowingness and waiting for a vision or a new form of purpose to emerge."

-DQ

PS - Here is the Prolon 5 Day Fast I talk about on the podcast.

How to Shift Unwanted Persistent Behaviors (DQ Solo) Jul 01, 2020

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#142: I'd say eating Frosted Flakes before bed every night was a bad habit.

So was drinking that second 20 oz coffee every day.

As was binging 3+ episodes of Lost on Amazon Prime every night.

No matter your best intentions, you may find yourself battling with persistent unwanted behaviors with respect to:

Food
Alcohol
Television
Caffeine
Porn

Despite your best attempts to over-correct your behaviors – like diets or abstinence periods which may work for a temporary period of time…

…you always seem to revert back to that familiar feeling of powerlessness.

In today's episode, I'll break down the 3 stages I typically go through in order to create long term shifts of my persistent unwanted behaviors:

Compulsive: Being controlled by my behavior
Controlling: Over-correcting my behavior to reestablish a temporary sense of control
Integrating: Forming healthy new behaviors that serve me in the long run

-DQ

PS - And yes, I did get my Frosted Flakes, coffee and Lost situations under control. ;-)

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