The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie

GLD 497 - A Second Chance To Make A Worse Impression Feb 18, 2025

Think you want another shot with your ex? "The Cinnamon Effect" host Kimberly Hand stops by to open up our "Second Chance" mailbag, as we take on secret crushes, dietary disagreements, long-distance breakdowns, maternal misunderstandings, and much much more!

GLD 496 - This Is How Your Relationship Ends Feb 11, 2025

Is it the little things that are fatal to a partnership? Matthew Fray, viral blogging sensation and author of "This Is How Your Marriage Ends," stops by to talk about causing pain in a partnership, taking responsibility for behavior, breaking potentially harmful patterns, what men need to do better, why women need to communicate clearer, bouncing back from misery, how to stop causing conflict, why it takes a while to mature, and much, much more! Plus, why monsters tend to hide under the bed!

GLD 495 - Narcissists, Players, and a Barrel Of Crazies Feb 04, 2025

What is the real reason things didn't work out? Brian dives into the heart of the madness, and breaks down two of the most common obstacles to dating success. Why you are going after the wrong things, what actually caused your relationship's demise, where to find better possibilities, how to improve your odds, why you need to stop looking backwards, and much, much more!

GLD 494 - Your Own Worst Enemy Jan 28, 2025

Do we get in our own way when it comes to relationship happiness? Brian breaks down self-sabotage - why it happens, where it starts, how to recognize it, ways to prevent it, and much, much more! Plus...the GLD is giving away a free podcast to one talented listener!

GLD 493 - To Stay Or Not To Stay Jan 21, 2025

How do you empower yourself to become a better dater...and get yourself into the best relationship? "Your Mental Highness" host Dr. Janne Lomasky stops by to talk about discovering your best self, knowing when time is up, wearing your dating crown, the power of hypnosis, finding your life's purpose, overcoming heartbreak, seeking truth in your journey, and much, much more!

GLD 492 - Bouncing Back From A Broken Heart Jan 14, 2025

Is it easy to find - and trust - love again after divorce? "The Back 9" host Dennis Williams stops by to talk about being single again in your 40s, overcoming heartbreak, taking time to find yourself, trying to mask pain, regaining confidence, and much much more!

GLD 491 - You Really Need Better Dates Jan 07, 2025

You get the dates...so why do you keep screwing them up? "Homanity" co-hosts Brad Kimmelman and Bree McCabe drop by to take on our listener's bad ideas, strategic screw-ups, second thoughts, fresh starts, false personas, too much too soon, too little too late, and a whole lot more! Plus, has Forensic Files ruined Friday night?

GLD 490 - The Pussification Of The American Man Dec 31, 2024

Is there something seriously lacking from so many current guys when it comes to dating? Brian breaks down where it all went wrong, why the women have the dominant hand, why the blame falls on the boys, where to regain your mojo, the three things every man needs to do, and much, much more!

GLD 489 - Love At Its Very Best Dec 24, 2024

Are you being the best partner you can be? Brian takes a look at what it means to be better when it comes to dating and relationships - learning from the past, owning up to your mistakes, expanding beyond empathy, asking the right questions, and much, much more.

GLD 488 - Are You Really Still Doing That? Dec 17, 2024

What behaviors need to stop immediately? Brian revisits a round of "Please Stop Doing That" - too much caring about celebrity breakups, overly conjoined couples, what's getting in the way of your dating happiness, how people have lost their minds, and the easiest way to stop tripping over your own bad habits!

GLD 487 - The Search For Love Begins Anew Dec 10, 2024

What's it like to re-enter the dating pool after years - even decades - away? "Dateless in Delray" host Susan Shoer drops by to reveal the secrets to getting back out there, what makes a relationship finally end, how dating has changed over the years, the biggest fear to overcome, the first steps to take, and much, much more!

GLD 486 - When The Gamble Doesn't Pay Off Dec 03, 2024

What happenes when the only thing wrong is...the outcome? Brian breaks down what it means to "bet on the wrong horse", the repercussions of going all in and coming up empty, why timing ultimately matters, how to get out before it's too late, why 30s are a particularly treacherous time for women, and how to shorten your odds for success!

GLD 485 - The Season Of Love Is Upon Us Nov 26, 2024

Our favorite annual tradition returns! The Debate Team gathers to raise some cheer and crack open our year-end Holiday Mailbag. Nervous new daters, awkward gift-givers, grumpy grinches, mistletoe madness, new hope for the New Year, and much much more. Plus, why this is the worst time of year to get engaged!

GLD 484 - A Whole Lotta Sex Talk Nov 19, 2024

Do love and relationships come down to...basic human nature? Love Scientist Dawn Maslar-Biggie drops by to break down the biology that binds us, what men really need, why women react differently, how the body prepares for love, the physiology behind the psychology, why the third year of a relationship is crucial, the way control your inner animal, and how to keep love lasting beyond the lust!

GLD 483 - If The High Was Worth The Pain Nov 12, 2024

Is there still more good than bad when it comes to the search for love? "Pillow Talk Unplugged" host Bridgetta stops by to talk dating in Hollywood, life as the "Extenze Girl", how we bring past trauma to new relationships, why the pool has thinned out, the pros and cons of being an attractive woman, what to look for on the apps, and much, much more!

GLD 482 - It Really Should Have Worked Out Nov 05, 2024

How many relationships end that really shouldn't? Brian takes a deep dive on the importance of staying together - finding relationships without regret, overcoming obstacles, discovering what matters, the definition of a successful partnership, taking ownership of an outcome, why we give up too soon, and how to recognize what you have while you have it!

GLD 481 - The 2024 Dating Sh*t Show Oct 29, 2024

Is it possible that the dating landscape has gotten even rockier? The very popular "Farm Babe" Michelle Miller returns to open up the mailbag to answer listener questions and break down all that is going wrong! We've got freak flags flying, men getting lazy, women getting demanding, people actinve sketchy, the lost meaning of a night out, and much much more!

GLD 480 - Things Are Not Always What They Appear Oct 22, 2024

Has there been a seismic shift in our dating lives, and our daily reality? Brian breaks down the effect of AI on our relationship realities - the plusses and possibilities, the dangers and downside, what we seek from our partners, what we need for fulfillment, why pets can deceive us, the benefits of taking a break, what it means to find fantasies, and much much more!

GLD 479 - The Family Matters Oct 15, 2024

Do broken family relationships impact romantic ones? Brian talks about his new podcast "Dead To Me", which deals with estrangement...and how parental dysfunction can cause problems in dating. What to reveal, how much to share, overcoming shame, repairing the damage, owning your vulnerability and much, much more! Plus...is autumn the most underrated season?

GLD 478 - So. Much. Cheating. Oct 08, 2024

Is there a recent rise in infidelity? "First Comes Us" author and therapist Anita Chlipala drops by to talk about what's leading to all the cheating, why it's become more common from women, why it's more painful that divorce, moving past the PTSD, how to recover from the breach of trust, and much much more!

GLD 477 - Taking A Leap Of Faith Oct 01, 2024

You take a leap of faith, go for it, throw caution to the wind...and now what? Reality TV veteran (and professional wingwoman!) Erin Davis returns to talk about manifesting new possibilities, arriving at the right age to know yourself, breaking down artificial boundaries, the keys to finding compatibility, what matters in a new relationship, and the importance of really great muscles!

GLD 476 - Too Many Divorces...Or Not Enough? Sep 24, 2024

Are the wrong couples getting divorced? Can the end of a relationship be the beginning of a better part of life? "Your Amazing Divorce" host Doreen Yaffa drops by to answer all the tough divorce questions - how to know when it's over, what to do when it is, the most common causes, the simplest solutions, and everything else you need to know when you know it's not going to last. Plus...who really needs a prenup, and why!

GLD 475 - What He Really Needs From You Sep 17, 2024

Do women fail to understand men's primary Love Language? Brian breaks down what everyone is getting wrong, what men really need, why that matters most, why communication is crucial, and how every man can be happy!

GLD 474 - Misjudging A Book By Its Cover Sep 10, 2024

Does a cute name make someone more attractive? What about a cool job? "The Farm Babe" Michelle Miller returns to talk about what jobs make a man appealing, the work charactestics that cross over, where to find the best opportunities, ignoring false positives, and much, much more!

GLD 473 - Deep Diving The Dating Amendments Sep 03, 2024

Are you ready to revisit your Bill of Dating Rights? The much-discussed addendum to the GLD's groundbreaking Dating Commandments, the ten changes that will let you find what you want, when you want it, in the way you have always deserved it. Plus - the best way to make the best use of these very strange societal times!

GLD 472 - Navigating the Ex Factor Aug 27, 2024

Is it healthy to have regular contact with your ex? Brian breaks down the pros and cons, where to draw the line, the rights in a new relationship, the puzzle of pet names, bringing forth the positivity, how to handle the discussion, and much,much more. Plus, Brian previews his brand new estrangement podcast "Dead To Me"!

GLD 471 - So You Wanna Be A Reality Dating Star? Aug 20, 2024

Think you have what it takes to be the next Bachelor or Bachelorette? Legenday reality tv casting director (and longtime GLD producer!) the "Two-Time Emmy Award Winning Keiko" returns to talk about what helps you get noticed by a network, why Dancing with the Stars is a surprising incubator for romance, what not to do if you want to get on television, which dating shows were doomed from the start, the key question that needs to be answered, why Brian was perfect to host the Great Love Debate, and much, much more! Plus, is there an upside to being Catfished?!

GLD 470 - Time To Talk About The End Game Aug 13, 2024

Do all good things must come to an end? Brian breaks down what we've learned so far, a big announcement for the GLD, the importance of being curious, the pride that can be found in time of pain, and much, much more!

GLD 469 - Fighting Through The Fear Aug 06, 2024

What are we all afraid of when it comes to our relationships? "Bravo Unscripted" host Suzette Bravo stops by to break down the barriers to lasting love, why we have trouble being authentic, what holds us back from getting too close, the importance of self-love, the value of vulnerability, how the healing can begin, and much much more!

GLD 468 - Finding Happily Ever After Jul 30, 2024

Looking for a better way to make your biggest day the best day? Host of "The Wedding Buzz" Sydney Whidden stops by to dish about how not to get overwhelmed, how to fully involve the groom, the keys to working within a budget, how to avoid wedding day disasters, why you shouldn't overthink it, and the surest way to insure a happily ever after! Plus...is Bass Pro Shops really an underrated wedding venue?

GLD 467 - When Confidence And Communication Collide Jul 23, 2024

Is clear (and timely) communication the key to everything? What happens when you combine that with confidence? Brian breaks down why we need to speak up, how body language can let you down, learning how to read a room, why silence isn't always golden, and much, much more!

GLD 466 - Getting High Off The Love Drug Jul 16, 2024

Are we all just chasing a chemical high? Does love really affect our physiology? "Sugar Crush" author Dr. Rick Jacoby stops by to talk about how to increase attraction, the science behind desire, how men and women react differently, why what we eat can alter emotions, what puts the sweet in sweetheart, the curious case of the American state of the date, and much, much more!

GLD 465 - And She Finds Herself In Her Forties... Jul 09, 2024

Do women really get better with age? "Spoiled Milk" host Brooke Rash pops in to reveal her midlife survival guide, how to navigate the forks in the road, tricks to age beautifully, finding your confidence, tuning out the naysayers, becoming an influencer, and much, much more! Plus, is there a hidden message in Leo DiCaprio's dating methods?

GLD 464 - Back To Being Boys And Girls Jul 02, 2024

Did we find the answers at a young age and just not heed them? Brian invites some special guests to The Debate Team to get to the root of the disconnect, what men and women need to do better, why it's so scary to ask someone on a date, how Taylor Swift taps into the love dynamic, and much, much more!

GLD 463 - Still No Closer To Closure Jun 25, 2024

Are you sure you want to have just one more word with your ex? Be careful what you wish for! Comedian Jill Kimmel returns as we fire up a fresh batch of "Exes & Uh-oh's" - letters from our listeners directed at the one that got away. Boyfriends who saw the light too late, girlfriends who repeated mistakes, lovers looking for one last shot, hidden secrets, pet passion, astrological discrimination, family affairs, and much, much more!

GLD 462 - Why Funny Comes First Jun 18, 2024

Is everyone taking love - and life - way too seriously? Brian breaks down what we need to focus on, what to look for in a city, how to get the girl if you aren't naturally funny, why rom-coms tend to resonate, the gateway to vulnerability, and much much more!

GLD 461 - The Marriage Trap Jun 11, 2024

Is there a reason that some reject the idea of marriage altogether? Brian breaks down the many "excuses" used to avoid matrimony, how to identify red flags, why people wed for the wrong reasons, the celebrities who stayed single, why the passion means more paperwork, and much, much more!

GLD 460 - You Aren't Ready For The Summer Jun 04, 2024

What relationship challenges lie ahead when it comes to the summer? "Manthropology" host Kelli Brink drops by to crack open our annual Summer Lovin' Mailbag! Battles over temperature, too many trips, old flames, long-distance relationships, the right amount of misbevior, and much, much more!

GLD 459 - There's Magic In Maybe May 28, 2024

Do we have to be perfectly aligned with our partners? Brian breaks down the problem with politics in dating, how we can open our minds, the ways to widen our pool, what's changed the most in the last decade, where you should be seeking opportunities, and much, much more! Plus, should Republicans and Democrats cross the aisle to find love?

GLD 458 - Better The Second Time Around May 21, 2024

Is it possible to get a second chance at love? Rekindled lovebirds Caroln & Dean drop by to reveal their winding tale towards romantic reconciliation, what we can learn from being alone, why age brings wisdom and clarity, what we really need from a partner, how to give a relationship your best chance of succeeding, and much, much more!

GLD 457 - The Best Episode Ever May 14, 2024

Now that we have your attention, what is the best episode of the GLD in the 10 years of this show? We're glad you asked! Think you don't have a sure-fire path to find love? Now you do! The Debate Team lays out the 23 Questions That Matter - everything you need to ask, learn, and share to find the spark, click, chemistry, and connection you are looking for. Whether it's your first date or your longtime partner, you will learn, laugh, and love!

GLD 456 - The Slippery Slope Of Self-Sabotage May 07, 2024

Are we our own worst-enemies? Marketing maven (and self-defense specialist!) Kelly Reeves joins The Debate Team to talk about how to protect without shutting out, being vigilant in advance, not letting the past affect the present, putting forward your best self, and much, much more. Plus, can a non-negotiable actually be...negotiable?

GLD 455 - Dawn Of The Dead-Eyed Daters Apr 30, 2024

Why have our dates turned so deadly boring? Brian breaks down our inability to connect, why restaurants sound differently, the worst questions to ask, the best way to react, how society needs to change, and why Applebee's may have all the answers!

GLD 454 - Real Love vs Reality Love Apr 23, 2024

Are things on TV not always what they appear? "Charisma Quotient" host (and GLD Lead Love Guru!) Kimmy Seltzer returns to break down why The Bachelor doesn't work, why the love landscape has changed, breaking down barriers, the differences in dating as we age, what's next on the relationship horizon, and much, much more!

GLD 453 - The Decision Of A Lifetime Apr 16, 2024

Are you more in control of your dating fate than you believe? "Monarch For Love" host Michelle Hays stops by to reveal how to recognize love, ways to be strong in your choices, learning to love yourself, the path to releasing the past, why the third time can be the charm, the key to communication, and much, much more!

GLD 452 - Should We Just Get Back Together? Apr 09, 2024

Is there value in reconsidering your ex? Brian breaks down the Boomerang Effect, why sometimes situations change, how growth is possible, why red flags might be false flags, how long is too long, the barriers to re-entry, and when to just say no!

GLD 451 - The Greatest Romantic Comedies Apr 02, 2024

Why do we like our love mixed with laughs? "Film Fury" host Alan Zeitlin drops by to talk about what makes a leading man, the ladies who made us laugh, the films we remember forever, the lines we quote, the ingredients we need, and the best of the best when it comes to romantic comedies!

GLD 450 - Your Diagnosis From The Love Doc Mar 26, 2024

Want to know what's really going on with you...and everyone you date? MTV's renowned "Love Doc" Dr. Gilda Carle stops by to talk about how to strategize your best relationships, what's changed over the last 3 decades of dating, her suprising source of romantic inspriation, what men and women need to do better, and much, much more!

GLD 449 - The Short End Of The Stick Mar 19, 2024

How much does height matter in 2024? Brian breaks down what's missing from the conversation, the true statistics, why playing the odds matters, being truthful about your reality, where to find real confidence, and much, much more!

GLD 448 - Premature Jocularity Mar 12, 2024

Can jumping the gun shoot down a possible romance? The Debate Team cracks open a fresh batch of Listener Letters, and takes on relationships that went too fast too soon! First date overkill, dog park disasters, vengeful friends, loose lips sinking ships, abnormal name games, and much, much more!

GLD 447 - Finding Your Smile Again Mar 05, 2024

Are certain decades of dating more challenging than others? "50s AF" host Nicole Chaness stops by to talk about the unique challenges of finding love in later years, where to discover the best opportunities, how to get out of your way, re-entering the dating pool after divorce, the best way to start the search for self-love, and much much more!

GLD 446 - Where Have All The Brave Men Gone? Feb 27, 2024

Is there something lacking from so many current guys when it comes to dating? Brian breaks down where it all went wrong, why the women have the dominant hand, why the blame falls on the boys, where to regain your mojo, the three things every man needs to do, and much, much more!

GLD 445 - America Needs An Attitude Adjustment Feb 20, 2024

Is everyone taking love - and life - way too seriously? Brian revisits what we all need to focus on, what to look for in a city, how to get the girl if you aren't naturally funny, why rom-coms tend to resonate, the gateway to vulnerability, and much much more!

GLD 444 - Opposites Distract Feb 13, 2024

Do we overreact to what we left behind? Brian breaks down why the next one isn't already the right one, what we can learn from our breakups, what we really need out of a future partner, why to be cautious with a comfort level, how the new can quickly grow old, and much, much more. Plus...what lies ahead for Taylor Swift, and why college reunions are really overrated!

GLD 443 - A Match Made In Purgatory Feb 06, 2024

Is there a stalemate in the current state of the date? Legendary matchmaker and "Cupid's Coach" host Julie Ferman returns to break down how the dating industry has changed, why we tend to be our own worst enemies, the challenges of fixing up the broken, how people's wants don't align with their needs, and much much more!

GLD 442 - Restoring Relationship Sanity Jan 30, 2024

Is your relationship irrevocably broken? "Slightly Sane" co-hosts Dr. Laura and Dr. Kristie drop by to share how you can tell if it's too late, the danger of resentment, ways to communicate your questions, the benefits of counseling, how to own your mistakes, the opposite of love, and much, much more!

GLD 441 - The Answer You've Been Waiting For Jan 23, 2024

Why is everyone still single? Brian FINALLY reveals the answer, and looks back on a decade of the GLD - what's changed, what are the five seismic societal shifts, what no longer matters, what matters more than ever, and much much more!

GLD 440 - You Need To Get Divorced Jan 16, 2024

Has your relationship reached its expiration date? Brian breaks down why we stay together when we probably shouldn't, how to draw a line in the sand, what opportunities can't be wasted, how to find your exit strategy, and much much more!

GLD 439 - The Look Of Love Jan 09, 2024

Isn't it time to discover your best and most confident self? "Slimming Surgeon" host Dr. Kandace Kichler drops by to talk about the latest techniques, how she practices what she preaches, the fastest way to get lasting results, how a makeover impacts the way the world perceives you, what men need to do better, and much, much more. Plus...a few more cities make our America's Worst list!

GLD 438 - 2024 America's Worst Cities To Find Love Jan 02, 2024

It's that time again...our annual unveiling of America's Worst Cities To Find Love! Brian breaks down our listeners' submissions of the places where dating leaves a lot be desired - some repeat offenders, a bunch of brand new bad locations, the ones that are going the wrong way, a few that might be salvaged, and much, much more!

GLD 437 - Knowing What You Don't Know Dec 26, 2023

Is there a difference between knowing something is right and believing something is right? Brian breaks down the power of recognition, owning your limitations, being open to perspectives, understanding your realties, making difficult changes, and much, much more. Plus, isn't it time everyone just...moved?

GLD 436 - Working For The Love Dec 19, 2023

Is it time to go back to work...to find romance? We dive back into workplace love with "Worked Up" host and business strategist Jaclyn Beck, and give the lay of the land when it comes to what's ok, what's frowned upon, how to communicate, creating a professional environment, understanding the rules, presenting your best self, recognizing a hierarchy, what to do when it doesn't work out, and much, much more. Plus, are compliments completely dead?

GLD 435 - Til Death Do Us Part. Probably. Dec 12, 2023

What is the true meaning of commitment? Brian breaks down the purpose of our vows, how to navigate partnership challenges, what happily ever after means, getting through sickness and health, and much, much more!

GLD 434 - Picking Up The Pieces Dec 05, 2023

Is it "third time's the charm" or "three strikes and you're out"? Piece of Work author Danielle Tantone stops by to talk about the meaning of a memoir, learning from failed marriages, dating after cancer, marrying a virgin, being a survivor, finding hope approaching fifty, and much, much more!

GLD 433 - Fighting The Fear Factor Nov 28, 2023

What are we all afraid of when it comes to our relationships? "Bravo Unscripted" host Suzette Bravo stops by to break down the barriers to lasting love, why we have trouble being authentic, what holds us back from getting close, the importance of self-love, the value of vulnerability, how the healing can begin, and much much more!

GLD 432 - Saying What Needs To Be Said Nov 21, 2023

Is clear (and timely) communication the key to everything? Brian breaks down why we need to speak up, how body language can let you down, learning how to read a room, why silence isn't always golden, and much, much more!

GLD 431 - Lead Us Into Temptation Nov 14, 2023

Are seemingly happy couples off-limits for dating possibilities? "Temptation Island" cast member Marjorie Guaracho stops by to reveal the truth about being a temptress, what love is like on reality tv, the dangers of a toxic relationship, discovering what matters as a woman, how to get noticed by the right people, and much, much more. Plus, how to create real influence as an influencer!

GLD 430 - She Needs To Be Heard Nov 07, 2023

How important is it to simply listen? Brian revisits why hearing her out is so important, the real reason it matters, how to handle difficult conversations, the meaning of words, and what she really wants from him!

GLD 429 - The Space Between Us Oct 31, 2023

Can a long distance relationship last? Brian breaks down what makes it work, how to bridge the gap, the best ways to communicate, what matters during time together, the challenges of celebrity, and much, much more. Plus - will Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce last?

GLD 428 - Turned On By The Things They Do Oct 24, 2023

Does somebody's occupation make them more attractive? "The Farm Babe" Michelle Miller returns to talk about what jobs make a man appealing, the work charactestics that cross over, where to find the best opportunities, ignoring false positives, and much, much more! Plus, can a certain name make them seem hotter?

GLD 427 - The Grass Is Never Greener Oct 17, 2023

Ever look at a couple and think, "I want what they have!"? Think again! Brian breaks down why we get fooled by famous relationships, the truth about your neighbors, why your friends won't share their reality, what to look for in your search, why "Sex and the City" will burst your bubble, and much, much more!

GLD 426 - Getting What You Deserve Oct 10, 2023

What, if anything, are we entitled to from our partner? "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" co-hosts Marcus and Lily stop by to help us answer our listeners' demands for getting what they deserve! How to communicate your strengths, why recognition matters, the value of appreciation, how to determine need versus merit, the fundamental right to be heard, and much, much more. You deserve this episode, Great Love Listeners!

GLD 425 - The New Dating Storm Arrives Oct 03, 2023

Has there been a seismic shift in our dating lives? Brian breaks down the effect of AI on our relationship realities - the plusses and possibilities, the dangers and downside, what we seek from our partners, what we need for fulfillment, why pets can deceive us, the benefits of taking a break, what it means to find fantasies, and much much more!

GLD 424 - Why Are You Still Doing That? Sep 26, 2023

Have you learned nothing from the GLD? Brian revisits the things you should definitely NOT be doing! Why they make no sense, what's getting in the way of your dating happiness, how people have lost their minds, and the easiest way to stop tripping over your own bad habits!

GLD 423 - Does Dating Improve With Age? Sep 19, 2023

Does the love landscape get smoother after 50? "The Geezer Proofer" Nancy Shenker drops by to talk about the unique challenges of dating later in life, why men need to step up, what women need to understand, why sex gets better, why dinners get worse, the benefits of Botox, the downside of Viagra, and much, much more!

GLD 422 - Second Look At First Impressions Sep 12, 2023

What have we gotten wrong during the past 10 seasons of the Great Love Debate? Our listeners share their thoughts on where we need to give a second look, opinions that differ, philosophies that evolved, and new perspectives which have emerged since this all began! Plus...is New York City really so bad for dating?

GLD 421 - The Joy Of Being Wrong Sep 05, 2023

Can being wrong sometimes feel so right? Brian breaks down the benefit of rethinking a position - what it does for the spirit, how it improves the relationship, how to recognize flawed logic, how to own your mistakes, why being wrong is different from being sorry, and much, much more! Plus...do you still need to get your head out of your apps?

GLD 420 - What Does Love Look Like? Aug 29, 2023

Would you recognize love if you found it? "Switching Teams" host Sarah Held returns to answer a hot batch of listener letters where they reveal what love looks like to them. Happily ever afters, fleeting moments, magical connections, missed opportunities, learned lessons, and much, much more!

GLD 419 - Your Best Day Ever Aug 22, 2023

Looking for a better way to make your biggest day the best day? Host of "The Wedding Buzz" Sydney Whidden stops by to dish about how not to get overwhelmed, how to fully involve the groom, the keys to working within a budget, how to avoid wedding day disasters, why you shouldn't overthink it, and the surest way to insure a happily ever after! Plus...is Bass Pro Shops an underrated wedding venue?

GLD 418 - Love, London Style Aug 15, 2023

What's the love lowdown on the other side of the pond? Brian heads to London to get a glimpse at British dating and social habits. What we can learn from the UK, why certain bars sound different, the importance of conversation, what it means to be available, and how much of a single signal do we need to sent out? Plus...is London currently the world's greatest city?

GLD 417 - Taylor, Barbie, and A New Dating Dawn Aug 08, 2023

Did special forces come together to put dating back on its proper axis? Brian breaks down this Summer of Love - why it happened, what we can learn from Barbie, why Taylor Swift matters, the importance of balance, what men need to accept, what women can say louder, and much, much more!

GLD 416 - Bitten By The Love Bug Aug 01, 2023

Does love really affect our physiology? "Sugar Crush" author Dr. Rick Jacoby stops by to talk about how to increase attraction, the science behind desire, how men and women react differently, why what we eat can alter emotions, what puts the sweet in sweetheart, the curious case of the American state of the date, and much, much more!

GLD 415 - Having Them At Hello Jul 25, 2023

How much does how you meet really matter? Brian breaks down the concept of a cute meet, why we need a narrative, the keys to a great beginning, looking beyond the moment, finding a story that resonates, and much, much more. Plus, what can we learn about love from Jerry McGuire!

GLD 414 - What Do We Want, Why Do We Want It Jul 17, 2023

What are we really seeking from our relationships? "Miss Understood" host and "Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew" alum Rachel Uchitel drops by to talk about our need for validation, the challenges of dating in the spotlight, setting reasonable expectations, balancing confidence with vulnerability, the allure of famous men, and much, much more. Plus, why we shouldn't let a Google search define a potential relationship interest!

GLD 413 - Is Dating The Ultimate Sport? Jul 11, 2023

Is all fair in love, war, and summertime dating? "Sports Will Save Us All" host Sasha Graham drops by to help us with our annual Summer Loving mailbag, devoted to the games, activities, and sports that are unique to the season! We've got annoying hobbies, strange sensations, peculiar competitions, aversions to water, attractions to the wiild, and much, much more!

GLD 412 - Stop Chasing Those Ghosts Jul 04, 2023

Are you a little too hung up on what went wrong, and where they went? Brian revisits the significance of ghosting - why it's an obsession, what it really means, the reason people need answers, the quest for closure, and much much more!

GLD 411 - So Now What Do We Do? Jun 27, 2023

You take a leap of faith, go for it, throw caution to the wind...and then what? Reality TV veteran (and professional wingwoman!) Erin Davis returns to talk about manifesting new possibilities, arriving at the right age to know yourself, breaking down artificial boundaries, the keys to finding compatibility, what matters in a new relationship, and the importance of really great muscles!

GLD 410 - The Poison Drips Through Jun 20, 2023

Are you letting your own issues take your present and past relationships into a dark place? Brian breaks down taking control of your emotions, the value of hugging the cactus, coming to terms with ending and loss, carving out a positive path, understanding why the past affects the present, and much, much more!

GLD 409 - The Art of Managing Expectations Jun 13, 2023

Did things not go exactly as planned? "Can't Shovel Hurricanes" host Ronen Fishman and "Hashtag No Filter" host Julie Lauren drop by to talk about how to handle disappointment, trying to get what you want, maximizing a moment, learning to read a room, and much, much more!

GLD 408 - Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties Gone Wild Jun 06, 2023

Can that last wild night get a bit too wild? "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" co-hosts Marcus & Amy stop by to unpack our listeners' most memorable bachelor and bachelorette party debacles! From promiscuous brides to devious groomsmen, from secret sex lives to hidden agendas, we break down all the boozy big nights that come before the happily after.

GLD 407 - She Finds Herself In Her Forties May 30, 2023

Do women get better with age? "Spoiled Milk" host Brooke Rash pops in to reveal her midlife survival guide, how to navigate the forks in the road, tricks to age beautifully, finding your confidence, tuning out the naysayers, becoming an influencer, and much, much more! Plus, is there a hidden message in Leo DiCaprio's dating methods?

GLD 406 - Heart Is Where The Home Is May 23, 2023

Are you two going to move in together? Buy a house? South Florida Real Estate experts, and hosts of "The Sunny Side" Podcast, Scott Gerow and Rachelle Beresh drop in to break down how to face big decisions on a budget, how to assess the dating potential of a city, living together out of need vs out of want, dividing financial responsibility, handling a breakup when you share property, and much, much more!

GLD 405 - Words To Not Live By May 16, 2023

When it comes to dating, are there three words that you should never say again? Brian breaks down breaking free from your comfort zone, the benefit of new adventures, why history tends to repeat itself, why love needs to go beyond skin deep, the magic to be found in saying maybe, and much, much more! Plus...is a reunion with Patti Stanger in the cards?

GLD 404 - The Badass Woman Always Wins May 09, 2023

Is there a better way to listen to - or tune out - your biological clock? "Badass Fertility" host Kathryn Bregman drops by to talk about the realities of reproduction, why mindset matters most, how to tune out the naysayers and the noise, the questions that need to be asked, how to be a loving partner, the keys to balancing hope with science, the steps you can take to increase your odds, and much much more!
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GLD 403 - American Men Have Lost Their Balls May 02, 2023

Is there something lacking from the guys' approach to dating? Brian breaks down where it all went wrong, why the women have the dominant hand, why the blame falls on the boys, where to regain your mojo, the three things every man needs to do, and much, much more!

Ep. 402 - Written In The Stars Apr 25, 2023

Is your dating path predetermined by fate? "Stars About Stars" host Iryna Kutsenko joins The Debate Team to break down why birth dates matter, how to find astrological compatibility, the meaning of your sign, the effect of the moon, Mercury in Retrograde, the history of the horoscope, and much, much more!

GLD 401 - Practice Makes Perfect Apr 18, 2023

What is the key to becoming a really good dater? Brian breaks down the path to proficiency - why repetions matter, how routine can shape a relationship, why your past can positively impact your future, the power of persistence, where to discover opportunties, and much, much more!

GLD 400 - Your Dirty Thirties Apr 11, 2023

Our 400th episode! The lovely and lively ladies from the "30 And..." podcast drop by to take on that most challenging of decades - what women need to know, what the men can do better, how to navigate growing old while staying young, balancing fantasy with reality, fending off societal pressures, discovering your best self, finding true confidence, and much much more!

GLD 399 - Breaking Up Is Hard To Do Apr 04, 2023

Is there a better way to go about breaking up? "Path to Passion" host Yael Lanciano returns to The Debate Team to break down a disheartening batch of listener breakup stories - the ones with no guts, the ones who wouldn't take no, the ones who came out of left field, the ones who handled it the best, and much, much more!

GLD 398 - Clearing The Cache Mar 28, 2023

Does the straightest path to love involve getting rid of a problematic past? Brian breaks down what it means to clear your cache - how to come to grips with your exes, why to stop chasing closure, how to find relationship clarity, being an emotional minimalist, the value of being grateful, and much, much more!

GLD 397 - Surrender To The Silly Mar 21, 2023

Is everyone taking love - and life - way too seriously? Brian breaks down what we need to focus on, what to look for in a city, how to get the girl if you aren't naturally funny, why rom-coms tend to resonate, the gateway to vulnerability, and much much more!

GLD 396 - 2023 State of the Date Mar 14, 2023

What the heck is going on out there? "Hashtag No Filter" host Julie Lauren and "The Sebas Perspective" host Sebastian Penaranda join The Debate Team to break down what's missing from modern dating, the importance of optimism, first date behaviors, what's changed in the last few years, how to get out of your comfort zone, the best way to end a night out, and much, much more!

GLD 395 - The Straw That Stirs The Drink Mar 07, 2023

Is there one ingredient to love that matters more than all the others? Brian breaks it all down - figuring out what you want, how to read the other person, the importance of consistency, asking the right questions, recognizing your relationship reality, and discovering the single thing that makes a relationship last!

GLD 394 - The Grass Can Get Greener Feb 28, 2023

Is there any reward without a bit of risk? "Switching Teams" host Sarah Held returns to discuss what it means to take a chance, exploring the unfamiliar, letting go of the past, learning from the present, and much, much more!

GLD 393 - Forgetting The Familiar Feb 21, 2023

Should there be a separation of church and...love? Brian breaks down why faith-based dating is a recipe for disappointment, why we overrate certain comforts, the path to acceptance, finding your own spirituality, breaking from family bonds, and why religion has little relevance when it comes to romance.

GLD 392 - 2023 Worst Cities In America To Find Love (Listeners List!) Feb 14, 2023

The GLD listeners strike back with their list of the worst cities in America to find love for 2023! Some repeat offenders, shocking submissions, overrated social scenes, places to run from, hidden horror spots, dead-end disasters, and much, much more!

GLD 391 - The Path To Your Best Relationship Feb 07, 2023

Is there a better approach to love and life? "Fit Mom Living" host Shannon Jay Dougherty stops by to deliver the goods on discovering your best self, changes you can make right now, healthy habits that lead to happiness, how to have everything (and not just in moderation!), the way to learn from your past, and much, much more! We feel better already!

GLD 390 - The Money Matters Jan 31, 2023

How big a part do finances play in your dates - and relationships? Personal Finance Coach and "Where's My Money" host Jason Rash stops by to break down how to have awkward conversations, the mistakes people make with their money, how to balance the responsibility, navigating being poor in the dating world, avoiding landmines if you're rich, increasing the scope of your dreams, and much, much more!

GLD 389 - The New Rules For Love In The Workplace Jan 24, 2023

Is it once again safe to pursue romance at the office? "Worked Up" host and business strategist Jaclyn Beck stops by to give the lay of the land when it comes to what's ok, what's frowned upon, how to communicate, creating a professional environment, understanding the rules, presenting your best self, recognizing a hierarchy, what to do when it doesn't work out, and much, much more. Plus, are compliments completely dead?

GLD 388 - A Royal Pain In The Ass Jan 17, 2023

Did Prince Harry and Megan Markle make a royal mistake? Mia and Tiffany from "Crazy, Rich Neighbors" drop by to take a deep dive into what went wrong, what the future holds, how a relationship can fall off track, the importance of family, the price of fame, and much, much more. Plus, predictions, advice, and inside scoop!

GLD 387 - What You Know And When You Know It Jan 10, 2023

What is important about simply...knowing? Brian breaks down why it matters, how you know what you know, the information you need to be chasing, how to turn on the lightbulbs, and much, much more. Plus, why Valentine's Day is less significant this year!

GLD 386 - The Excitement Never Ends Jan 03, 2023

Is this the year everything comes together? Brian breaks down the importance of normalcy, overcoming roadblocks, how to find excitement, where things have broken down, and why less is sometimes more! Plus, the GLD kicks off the 10th season of its world tour!

GLD 385 - The Return Of The Alpha Men Dec 27, 2022

Are masculine men making a comeback? "Skulls & Stillettos" host Janine Stella stops by to break down the need for ballsiness, where society has gotten it wrong, why Alpha men have a bigger advantage than ever, the meaning of dominance, what women need to do differently, what it means to feel safe, and much, much more!

GLD 384 - The 5 Things We Need To Hear Dec 20, 2022

Do certain comments mean...just a little bit more? Brian breaks down the 5 Things We Need To Hear, why they matter, what they symbolize, the importance of therapy, how to communicate better, the value of receiving gratitude, the significance of love, and much, much more!

GLD 383 - When You Come To The Fork In The Road Dec 13, 2022

Are there moments - and challenges - that bring a partnership together...or pull it apart? "To Be Continued" host Romy Wightman joins The Debate Team to reveal how to handle a relationship crisis, what you really need from a spouse, finding love in survival mode, why high pressure systems create clarity, how to handle bad news, the best way to communicate, and much, much more!

GLD 382 - And To All A Good Night Dec 06, 2022

Our annual tradition returns! The Debate Team gathers to raise some cheer and crack open our year-end Holiday Mailbag. Nervous new daters, awkward gift-givers, grumpy grinches, mistletoe madness, new hope for the New Year, and much much more. Plus, why this is the worst time of year to get engaged!

GLD 381 - All A Girl Wants Nov 29, 2022

Is there one thing men can do to change everything about how she feels...and feels about him? Brian breaks down the most important thing he's learned, why it matters, how to handle difficult conversations, the meaning of words, the value of listening, and what she really wants from him!

GLD 380 - Going Out And Getting After It Nov 22, 2022

Have men lost their mojo when it comes to going after what they want? Brian brings in the boys to talk about bouncing back from a breakup, making the first move, the art of approaching a woman, what to say and when to say it, great opening lines, getting comfortable in a new relationship, the keys to improving your profile, how to make a relationship last, and much, much more!

GLD 379 - Generation Lost Nov 15, 2022

Are the young daters of America wandering aimlessly through the dating wilderness? Brian is joined by 3 members of Generation Z to talk about their unique relationship challenges, lessons they learned from their parents, the lack of urgency in commitment, why they are hesitant to engage, and what we all need to do better!

GLD 378 - How To Get Lucky Nov 08, 2022

Do you want to control your dating fate? Brian breaks down how luck plays into it, what it really means, how to change it, where to discover it, what it adds up to, why the desired outcome is always within reach, and how to hit the relationship jackpot!

GLD 377 - The Art of Overthinking Nov 01, 2022

Do we overthink, underthink, or think just the right amount? "Food For Thought" host Ashley Gersh drops by to talk about how to prepare for a date, why our brains don't always give correct clues, how to interpret mixed signals, what makes a relationship serious, the importance of anxiety, and much, much more! Plus, should you really trust your gut?

GLD 376 - Amending The Past Oct 25, 2022

Have things really changed so significantly over the last two years? Brian takes a look back at his groundbreaking "Dating Amendments", and reflects on what is different, what is the true path to happiness, how you can make your own opportunities, and why belief in yourself is always the key to confidence!

GLD 375 - Just When You Thought It Was Safe To Go Back In The Dating Pool Oct 17, 2022

Has dating in 2022 gone completely off the rails? "Charisma Quotient" host Kimmy Seltzer returns to talk about the storm clouds forming, why men and women have moved apart, what led to the loss of hope, why lazy dating is dominating, why fear is overwhelming, and much, much more! Plus...how much alpha is too much alpha?
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GLD 374 - Or Maybe We All Just Suck Oct 11, 2022

Are we sometimes our own worst enemies? "The Connector" Arielle Leavitt stops by to talk about getting in our own way, overthinking our options, missing out on magic, habits we need to rethink, and why everyone has issues to deal with!

GLD 373 - Better The Second Time Around Oct 04, 2022

Do our early dating failures benefit us down the road? "Mom Esteem" host Jamie Levine stops by to talk about her dating evolution, shares her theories on our romantic disconnect, breaks down the logic behind sexting, and argues for friendship as a quality consolation prize! Plus, are all of us really just...tired?

GLD 372 - Can You Care Too Much? Sep 27, 2022

Should we care more about...caring? Brian breaks down his quest for answers, the root of all questions, why being passionate matters, how to harness your emotion, and why single people are sometimes the most hopeful!

GLD 371 - Dating In Your Current State Sep 20, 2022

Does anyone really know what's going on out there? "Millionaire Matchmaker" star Marisa Saks returns to break down the current state of the date, why so many are so lost, changes in the relationship space, how dating apps need to change, what we all need to do better, why we need to date in the workplace, and much, much more!

GLD 370 - Being Your Best Self Sep 13, 2022

What changes can change everything for your love life? Andrea Barkley from "The Andrea Barkley Show" stops by to give plenty of motivation, steps we can all take, things to add to our diet, the importance of changing your scenery, discovering what works for you, and much, much more. Plus...is there a correlation between attractiveness and tardiness?

GLD 369 - The Return of The Sex Fairy Sep 06, 2022

Have we collectively lost our what when it comes to sexual confidence? "Dr. Sex Fairy" host Dr. Kanwal Bawa returns to take on all your bedroom challenges - how to regain your mojo, why men and women of all ages have challenges, the effect of drugs on performance, when is the best time (and way) to communicate, how to get the best from your partner, overcoming physical and emotional barriers, and much, much more!

GLD 368 - The One That Got Away Aug 30, 2022

Do you still think about that special someone who you're no longer with? The gang from "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" stop by to help unpack a fresh batch of Listener Letters dealing with the ones that got away! Mistakes that were made, second chances that are sought, regrets that linger, timing that never worked, and habits that should have changed...everyone wants a do-over!

GLD 367 - The Single Most Important Thing Aug 23, 2022

Is the simplest gesture often the most meaningful? Brian breaks down the reaction you need to look for, why laughter only goes so far, the importance of a moment, how you can tell how they feel, the best way to heighten your happy, and why you have had the answer your entire life!

GLD 366 - A Matter Of Trust Aug 16, 2022

Can a great relationship be formed from differing perspectives, opinions, and life experiences? "Ask The Rabbi" host Rabbi Leonid Feldman stops by to talk about love, life, faith, overcoming obstacles, breaking down differences, the importance of sex, regaining trust, and what we can learn about love from the Old Testament. Plus, a look back at dating in the Soviet Union!

GLD 365 - Your Ex Was Not A Narcissist Aug 08, 2022

What is the real reason things didn't work out? Brian dives into the heart of the madness, and breaks down two of the most common obstacles to dating success. Why you are going after the wrong things, what actually caused your relationship's demise, where to find better possibilities, how to improve your odds, why you need to stop looking backwards, and much, much more!

GLD 364 - The Dating Drought Aug 01, 2022

How long is too long to go without a date? "Single Mom Success" host Becky Skeba-Mancini drops by to talk about her unique dating history, how things change after 40, the specific challenges of 2022, finding your window of opportunity, what it means to have a type, and much, much more. Plus...Brian shares the very best way to get a guy to make his move!

GLD 363 - The Very Best Question Jul 25, 2022

Can a great question lead to an answer that means...everything? Brian breaks down the best question ever - why it matters, what it means, the importance of a memory, understanding a moment, unexpected magic, the value of recognition, and much, much more. Plus - more members of the GLD300 club!

GLD 362 - The Fixer Uppers Jul 18, 2022

Do other people really know what's best for your love life? Brian breaks down the societal ritual of finding people a mate - why it rarely works, how you should respond, where to make your own match, and why grandma doesn't always know best. Plus, the importance of understanding your partner - and how the slightest change can change everything!

GLD 361 - Summer Sucks Jul 11, 2022

Does warm weather bring in a new slew of hot dating problems? We open up our annual "Summer Lovin'" mailbag...with a twist! "Path to Passion" host Yael Lanciano returns to help tackle a tricky batch of season-specific issues - bad boating habits, skimpy bikinis, ever-present exes, never-ending games, overly attractive friends, and much, much more. Plus...is it time for Autumn to have its day in the sun?

GLD 360 - The 45 Year Old Virgin Jul 04, 2022

Is there more than one path to personal fulfillment? Author and mindfulness advocate Barbara Heller stops by to talk about her unorthodox search for love, why it matters to find your truth, why she is willing to wait for marriage, how religion and spirituality can open one's heart, what it means to be intimate, the keys to healing trauma, and much, much more. Plus...celebrity impressions!

GLD 359 - Please, Don't Do That! Jun 27, 2022

What are the things you need to stop doing...immediately? Brian runs down a list of what you should never do, why they make no sense, what's getting in the way of your dating happiness, how people have lost their minds, and the easiest way to stop tripping over your own bad habits!

GLD 358 - Love Where You Least Expect It Jun 20, 2022

Do you still need to get your head out of your apps? Brian is joined by "Housewives of Golf" co-host Sarah Held to discover what's really going on there, why change is a good thing, how murky and deep is the current pool of men, and why a woman's life really gets going at 40. Plus...a real love connection that will totally blow your mind!

GLD 357 - America's Best Cities To Find Love 2022 Jun 13, 2022

Our annual list is out! Brian counts down our 2022 Top 10 Best Cities in America for LOVE! New surprises, a few holdovers, geographic tendencies, places to move to, what areas have gotten hotter, the dynamic destinations, general trends and demographics, why happiness matters most, and much, much more! Plus...what we can all learn from Jagged Little Pill!

GLD 356 - The Hopeful Romantics Jun 06, 2022

Does the road to a relationship begin with an attitude adjustment? "You're Such A Catch" host Erin Ramsey stops by to talk about reclaiming your dating mojo, recognizing your weaknesses, bouncing back from heartbreak, putting yourself first, finding love after divorce, recalibrating your destiny, and much, much more!

GLD 355 - A Dozen Dumb Reasons Not To Date May 30, 2022

What are the worst reasons people give not to date someone? Brian unveils his list of the Dumb Dozen - the excuses that prevent positive relationships from happening! What issues are imaginary, which are overrated, why you get overly avoidant, the choices you misunderstand, why you dont really have a "type," and much, much more.

GLD 354 - Betting On The Wrong Horse May 23, 2022

Sometimes, is the only thing wrong...the outcome? Brian breaks down what it means to go all in and come up empty, why timing ultimately matters, how to get out before it's too late, why 30s are a particularly treacherous time for women, and how to make your gamble pay off!

GLD 353 - When Divorce Is The Answer May 16, 2022

Can the end of a relationship be the beginning of a better part of life? "Your Amazing Divorce" host Doreen Yaffa drops by to answer all the tough divorce questions - how to know when it's over, what to do when it is, the most common causes, the simplest solutions, and everything else you need to know when you know it's not going to last. Plus...who really needs a prenup, and why!

GLD 352 - The Compliment Quandary May 09, 2022

Why are we in such a predicament when it comes to compliments? The Debate Team takes on what to say, when to say it, how to say it, and why it still matters! We bring it to you hot on the art of saying "you're hot!" Plus, what is the best compliment a guy can give...and a woman can get?

GLD 351 - Hooked On A Feeling May 02, 2022

Being a hopeless romantic..is it hopeless, or romantic? "Monarch for Love" host Michelle Hays stops by to talk about the importance of fairy tales, how to bounce back from a broken marriage, what we learn as we get older, why we need to define love, how to turn your next relationship into the right one, and much more!

GLD 350 - Better Dates Ahead Apr 25, 2022

What are the best things to do on a date to give you the best chance of finding a spark? "Real Housewives of Golf" co-hosts Tori Totlis and Sarah Held stop by to run through the top first date ideas, the keys to making a connection, how to relax when you're nervous, building up banter, why golf is a better love game than tennis, and much, much more. Plus, is ending up on Kiss Cam a dating dream or a nightmare?

GLD 349 - Brian Buys A Ring Apr 18, 2022

What's the best way to buy the best jewelry for that special person? Brian takes a trip to Anna Zuckerman Luxury Jewelry in Boca Raton to learn how to recognize the best rocks, what makes a necklace special, how to get the most for your money, what she really cares about, the most popular items to shop for, the secrets behind the sparkle, how to pick out the right ring, and the best way to propose!

GLD 348 - One Big Mistake Apr 11, 2022

How do we define our partner's - or a stranger's - imperfections? Brian takes a deep dive on the meaning of a mistake, which things matter, what should be overlooked, which can be overcome, how to answer the unanswerable, and why we shouldn't be too quick to judge. Plus...what went wrong for Will Smith!

GLD 347 - The End of the Beginning Apr 04, 2022

Can your relationship be saved before it's too late? Matthew Fray returns to talk about his new book "This Is How Your Marriage Ends", and reveals the mistakes that most men make, the percentage of people who shouldn't stay together, what women can do better, why good people can be bad at relationships, how to prevent conflict, why he has a hopeful approach to saving relationships, and much much more!

GLD 346 - The Positivity of Power Mar 28, 2022

Do you already have everything you need to get what you want? Brian breaks down the power of power - what it means, how to harness it, keeping it charged, making it work for you, owning your influence, and finding the electricity to make relationship magic!

GLD 345 - The Future of Love Mar 21, 2022

Where is the next generation of daters - and dating - headed? Author, researcher, and professor Dr. Aditi Paul drops by to talk about college dating trends, the science behind hookup culture, hangups with hanging out, how social media has impacted dating, what the future of relationships looks like, and much, much more. Plus, the GLD is suddenly very popular in...Ukraine?!

GLD 344 - One Thing Better Mar 14, 2022

Is your partner one step away from being...amazing? "Path to Passion" host Yael Lanciano stops by to help answer a fresh batch of Listener Letters coming from couples who are thisclose to getting it right! Guys trips, annoying friends, chronic indecisiveness, strange body parts, too many exes, too much fitness, and much, much more! Plus, does everyone have an alter ego?

GLD 343 - America's Worst Cities To Find Love 2022 Mar 07, 2022

What are America's Worst Cities to find love for 2022? Our annual tradition is back! Surprise additions, who has gotten better, where to move away from, why certain cities are going in the wrong direction, a brand new Number 1, and much, much more! Plus, can jealousy actually be a positive in your life?

GLD 342 - The Four Most Important Words Feb 28, 2022

When is the right time to say what you've waited too long to say? Brian breaks down when relationships really need to end, what can be done to get them back on track, why opportunities are wasted, how happiness can be salvaged, and how to get out when it's time to get out!

GLD 341 - Getting Real About RomComs Feb 21, 2022

Can the heart of the matter be found in the heart of a romantic comedy? “The One with All The 90s” host Katie Gross returns to talk about what makes a memorable line, how to say the right thing, the all-time best leading men, the women who made us be better guys, and why the fellas all want to be Adam Sandler. We complete you!

GLD 340 - A Boatload of Possibilities Feb 14, 2022

Is what you need to find romance and a relationship...a really big boat? Shelby Frenette - the world's leading travel expert for singles - returns to The Debate Team to reveal why now is the best time to take a cruise, the joys of sex on the high seas, the best ports to find fellow singles, why a captive audience can capture your attention, and much much more. Your heart will go on!

GLD 339 - You Aren't Supposed To Be Single Feb 07, 2022

Thinking maybe it's better off to be alone? Think again! Brian breaks down why possibilities are possible, how to fight off dating fatigue, why we are wired to be together, where to find the ultimate payoff, and how to tune out all the naysayers! Plus, owning our words, saying what we mean, and why the honesty of real conversation always matters.

GLD 338 - Is It Time To Play Hardball? Jan 31, 2022

When is the right time to get what you want? Our longtime lead love expert Kimmie Seltzer returns to talk about how to express what you desire, why flirting matters more than ever, how to clean the rust off your dating slump, the best way to shake up your style, why the next few months can determine your relationship future, and much, much more!
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GLD 337 - How It Really Begins Jan 24, 2022

Where does the journey to a healthy, happy relationship really begin? Lisa Moler, host of "Just Go F Yourself", stops by to explain the power of self-forgiveness, what triggers our traumas, how to acknowledge the need for change, why our childhood memories impact our dating patterns, and how we can take total control of our love lives!

GLD 336 - The Words That Mean The Most Jan 17, 2022

Why do feelings need to be expressed every day? Brian breaks down the importance of saying what you mean, why Valentine's Day might not matter, the worst times to propose, the purpose of penmanship, the value of sharing, and much, much more! Plus...what is the greatest relationship book of them all?

GLD 335 - The Chlorine in the Dating Pool Jan 10, 2022

Are the waters in the 2022 dating pool too shallow, too deep, or just right? "Parenting Unfiltered" host Jenny Sosa stops by to help answer a fresh batch of Listener Letters, and we are taking on over-particular women, men who still live at home, indecisive and distracted daters, how many marriages is too many marriages, and much, much more! Plus, has the GLD gotten too...hopeful?

GLD 334 - The Dating Essentials Jan 03, 2022

What are the fundamental lessons to lean on so you can move forward in your love life? Brian takes a look back at a dozen shows that made a lasting difference - how to shake up your dating strategy, the way out of a bad relationship, what everyone can do better, how to make your dates more meaningful, the best way to bounce back from divorce, ways to improve your sex life, and much, much more! All the greatest hits in one neat podcast!

GLD 333 - Book By Its Cover Dec 27, 2021

Can you size somebody up in a moment in a way that's meaningful? Comedienne Mariza Brussolo stops by to talk about the upside of a spicy Latina, mistakes men make in approaching, thinking outside of the box, rattling people's comfort zones, judging people by their appearance, defining who you are, trying too hard to be funny, blowing people's minds, and much, much more!

GLD 332 - Too Much and Never Enough Dec 20, 2021

Do we ever get exactly what we need in the way we need it? Brian takes a deep dive on relationship balance - why it matters, how to know if it has a chance, what to appreciate about your partner, when to speak up, putting limits on compromising, and why you might be happier liking somebody a little less!

GLD 331 - Fixing The Fellas Dec 13, 2021

Are men thisclose to figuring it all out? "The ManFixer" Heather Leigh stops by to make her case to save the males, how to find the beauty in conversation, the key to finding confidence, how to get what you want from him, a purpose of positive re-enforcement, moving beyond money, why right and wrong doesn't matter, and much, much more!

GLD 330 - The Lessons We Have Learned Dec 06, 2021

What lessons have we learned from these strange two years? Brian breaks down the hidden benefits, what deserves our appreciation, the things we missed most, the hidden cost of the quiet, what downtime did to dating, and why we are more likely to find love than ever!

GLD 329 - Becoming Ex-Rated Nov 29, 2021

GLD favorite (and WeDeepen founder) Christina Weber returns to talk about being part of a televised social experiment, confronting one's past, accepting a partner's flaws, owning your outcome, re-defining love, meeting expectations, what's ahead on the love landscape, and much, much more! Plus, what's it like to get surprised by Andy Cohen?

GLD 328 - The Death of a Relationship Nov 22, 2021

Is it the little things that are fatal to a partnership? Matthew Fray, viral blogging sensation and author of "This Is How Your Marriage Ends," stops by to talk about causing pain in a partnership, taking responsibility for behavior, breaking potentially harmful patterns, what men need to do better, why women need to communicate clearer, bouncing back from misery, how to stop causing conflict, why it takes a while to mature, and much, much more! Plus, why monsters tend to hide under the bed!

GLD 327 - A Visit From The Sex Fairy Nov 15, 2021

Is your sexual health and wellness the key to relationship happiness? Dr. Kanwal Bawa - aka "Dr. Sex Fairy" - stops by to talk about all the stuff we rarely talk about! From penis enlargement to vaginal rejuvenation, from better communication to increased stimulation, from emergency room embarrassments to groundbreaking treatments, from G-Spots to O-Shots - we've got everything you need to live and love longer, harder, and better!

GLD 326 - Fa-La-La-La-Love Nov 08, 2021

Are the holidays a challenge for a whole lotta reasons? We open up our annual Mistletoe Mailbag to find out! "Crazy Rich Neighbors" co-hosts Mia & Tiffany are back to answer a snowy batch of listener letters, breaking down cooking concerns, overgifting, parental pressures, office party pitfalls, decorating disasters, and much, much more!

GLD 325 - Marriage, Magic, and Mystery Nov 01, 2021

What makes some couples last...for a really long time? "Elevate Love" host Arielle Leavitt stops by to explore what she's learned about happy, positive and loving relationships! How good couples grow stronger, what they have in common, the things that pull us apart, how to get through hard times, and the key to growing older - together. Plus, why you should never mix red and white wine!

GLD 324 - The Loveliest Virtue Oct 25, 2021

How do you feel about...how you feel about them? Brian breaks down the importance of pride - why you should have it, what it means, how it benefits a relationship, what it signals to others, and much, much more! Plus, would you like to be the subject of a hit song?

GLD 323 - Unbalanced Affection Oct 18, 2021

Are Love Languages just a bit...overrated? Brian breaks down what really matters in terms of what we need, when we need it, how to express it, learning to understand it, reading your partner, balancing your needs, going all-in on emotion, making private things public, creating positive patterns, and a better way to say "I Love You!"

GLD 322 - Home Is Where The Heart Isn't Oct 11, 2021

"Love, exciting and new...come aboard!" Is it time to get out of your house, your city, and even your country to find what you are looking for? "The Solo Travel Expert" Shelby Frenette drops by to talk about her experiences as a cruise director, misconceptions about "singles" travel, the best places to go to meet someone, how to connect when traveling alone, and why a sense of adventure is the key to romance!

GLD 321 - Have Them At Hello Oct 04, 2021

Is your first impression always your best impression? Frank Favaro, host of "The People Business" podcast, stops by to talk about making the most of an encounter, the value of positive energy, what you can learn from strangers, the importance of body language, how to overcome introversion, and what we have learned most about ourselves over the last year!

GLD 320 - The Definitive Guide To Ghosting Sep 27, 2021

Is there a better way to say goodbye? Brian takes a look at the complex matter of ghosting - what it means, what it doesn't, why you should (and should not) care, how things changed, why it's become a sensitive topic, and when it's absolutely appropriate. Plus, he shares the perfect exit strategy!

GLD 319 - Are You Searching For A Sugar Daddy? Sep 20, 2021

Is there a different path to getting what you want out of a relationship? "Secrets of a Sugar Daddy" co-hosts Marcus & Amy stop by to explore the reasons behind an alternative lifestyle, the upside of successful men, how to keep emotions in check, getting needs met, setting boundaries, having honest expectations, creating an arrangement you desire, and much, much more!

GLD 318 - Romantic Comedies Rule Sep 13, 2021

Are romantic comedies a good guide to love? "The One With All The 90s" host Katie Gross drops by to break down some of the best romantic comedies, why guys enjoy them too, the lessons they teach us, the ones to avoid, the rules to follow, and much, much more! Plus, Brian explains the theory of The Blue Lobster!

GLD 317 - Always Be A Master Dater Sep 06, 2021

You get the dates...so why do you keep screwing them up? "Homanity" co-hosts Brad Kimmelman and Bree McCabe drop by to take on our listener's bad ideas, strategic screw-ups, second thoughts, fresh starts, false personas, too much too soon, too little too late, and a whole lot more! Plus, has Forensic Files ruined Friday night?

GLD 316 - The Winning Routine Aug 30, 2021

Is the key to a positive relationship experience...repetition? Brian takes a dive into partnership patterns, why habit-forming is crucial, the importance of rituals, how to find your traditions, the memories that linger, and why Sunday brunch is the most important meal of the week!

GLD 315 - Marriage...Year One Aug 23, 2021

Wondering if the honeymoon is the end of the honeymoon? Bridesmaid For Hire founder (and GLD fave) Jen Glantz is back to share what the first year of marriage is really like, things you need to know about your spouse, how weddings have changed over the past year, the best way to have your best day, and the benefit of seeing a divorce lawyer before the wedding ceremony!

GLD 314 - Getting The Milk For Free Aug 16, 2021

Do our listeners have a few things to say about a few things we've said? You bet! The "Farm Babe" Michelle Miller and Boca Raton Bon Vivant Julissa Caballero pop by to take on a feisty batch of Listener Letters! A better way to apologize, how to boost up short men, why married guys have dating potential, when does a relationship really end, and what women can all do better! Plus...is Farmer's Only a good place to pick your crops?

GLD 313 - Let The Healing Begin Aug 09, 2021

Looking to take that first step towards being happy, healthy, and in love? "The Focus Within" creator Angela Marie joins Brian in-studio to break down the best ways to build up your confidence, how to start healing from trauma, the keys to detoxing from your past, making changes to build hope for the future, and breaking the bad habits that are holding you back! Plus, the worst way to spend a Friday night!

GLD 312 - Mutually Beneficial Aug 02, 2021

Do the best relationships come from a common ground of understanding? Brian takes a look at unusual partnerships with greater possibilities - why they form, what each partner seeks, how to communicate your needs, the importance of give and take, and the ways to balance short-term satisfaction with long-term goals. Plus...what is really going on with Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez?

GLD 311 - The Apology Tour Jul 26, 2021

Why does sorry seem to be the hardest word? Brian dives into the art of apologizing - why it matters, when it's appropriate, who deserves it, what it might lead to, how to make amends, and why taking ownership of a past can lead to a better future!

GLD 310 - The Juice Is Worth The Squeeze Jul 19, 2021

Don't you wanna just...go for it? "The Dating Concierge" host Andy Rudnick drops by to dish about male hesitancy, taking risks, making the right move, the value of the Hall Pass, understanding what she wants, deciding what you need, dating with purpose, forgetting about mistakes, and much, much more!

GLD 309 - Nice Guys Never Finish Jul 12, 2021

Are too many guys taking the wrong path to finding love? Brian breaks down why nice guys get nowhere, the dangers of the friend zone, the pop culture proof, how to tap into your alpha, the key to new confidence, understanding what she really wants, and much, much more!

GLD 308 - 2021 State of the Date Jul 05, 2021

Are we all ready for...everything? The Debate Team takes on the current love landscape, and examines the dating app reset, the places to find love, the best opening line, the mistakes we've learned from, the benefits of the last year, the reasons to be excited, and why this year is filled with unprecedented possibilities!

GLD 307 - You Could Do Worse Jun 28, 2021

If you really want to find love, do you need to just...lower your game? Brian reveals his Lesson of Less - why it makes you better, how you can balance your priorities, the importance of bandwidth, the benefit of a break, paying attention to what matters, and why a little bad can lead to a lotta good! Plus, what's ahead in 2021 for the GLD tour!

GLD 306 - The Science of Sex Jun 21, 2021

Do love and relationships come down to...basic human nature? Love Scientist Dawn Maslar-Biggie drops by to break down the biology that binds us, what men really need, why women react differently, how the body prepares for love, the physiology behind the psychology, why the third year of a relationship is crucial, the way control your inner animal, and how to keep love lasting beyond the lust!

GLD 305 - The Relationship Referendums Jun 14, 2021

Maybe those happy, loving relationships aren't always what they seem? "Crazy, Rich Neighbors" co-hosts Mia Ferosh and Tiffany McDonnell stop by to spill the tea on a fresh batch of Listener Letters - all from couples! Who should break up, which ones have a chance to survive, those who never should have gotten together in the first place, two in need of a time out, and much, much more. Plus, did Brian really ghost a GLD fan?

GLD 304 - The Practice Swings Jun 07, 2021

Are all of our dating pasts...just an elaborate warm up routine? Brian breaks down his theory of Practice Swings - why they matter, how they can alter your outlook, syncing up your brain and your body, controlling the outcome, the benefit of mulligan marriages, and how close you can get to relationship perfection!

GLD 303 - Owning Who You Are May 31, 2021

Can young adults develop habits, practices, and a mindset to carry into their dating lives? Positive Presence Global founder Michelle Marie King joins The Debate Team to talk about troubles among teens, increasing communication skills, avoiding bad habits, the importance of strong role models, the pitfalls of peer pressure, overcoming body issues, creating new confidence, and much, much more. A must-listen for all ages!

GLD 302 - The Darker Side of Dating May 24, 2021

Ever been in a relationship that was...something else altogether? "The One That Got Away" author Brigitte Knowles joins Brian to reveal what all women should know about love and money, why the two are a dangerous mix, the concept of Romeo Crime, how to avoid a financial predator, recognizing too much, too soon, and getting past hardship and heartbreak to find hope again!

GLD 301 - Why Did You Do It May 17, 2021

Did you pull the trigger on a relationship or marriage that you knew was doomed? Brian takes a look at the consequences of bad commitments - why stay in them, how to avoid falling into the trap, the warning signs, red flags, and false hopes, the power of the word no, and why sometimes you just have to put yourself first!

GLD 300 - Celebrating The Love May 10, 2021

The Debate Team celebrates the 300th(!) episode of the podcast by taking a look back at the most memorable personalities, the most popular episodes, interesting trends along the way, the best shows, the worst guests, and what's ahead for the GLD!

GLD 299 - How Do You Know? May 03, 2021

What's the difference between dating another one and discovering THE one? Brian breaks down how to recognize the right relationship, the criteria that really matters, simplifying your strategy, clarifying your certainty, and starting the journey to happily ever after!

GLD 298 - Happily Never After Apr 26, 2021

Are things rarely what they seem? Brian heads to the bar with "Three Questions, Three Drinks" host Chris Mikolay and "Blonde and Ordained" host Diane Demuynck to open a crazy batch of Listener Letters! Wedding party drama, post-party depression, social media hypocrisy, profile exaggerations, promiscuous pasts, and much, much more!

GLD 297 - What Could Have Been Apr 19, 2021

How many relationships end that really shouldn't? Brian takes a deep dive on the importance of staying together - finding relationships without regret, overcoming obstacles, discovering what matters, the definition of a successful partnership, why we give up too soon, and how to recognize what you have while you have it!

GLD 296 - Eye Of The Beholder Apr 12, 2021

Want to know how to get it right, guys? Brian heads to the best place to get answers - the beauty salon! The keys to a lasting relationship, the problem with modern dating, what has been going on in the last year, why being single is a challenge, why getting divorced is an even bigger challenge, and why making a little change can change everything!

GLD 295 - Why The Why Apr 05, 2021

Do our partners do things we just can't stand? Can those things be changed? Behavior Specialist Brittany LaCava joins The Debate Team to reveal the patterns to watch out for, how to communicate what you really want, the best way to analyze your relationship, the key to navigating a fork in the road, and the one question that can give you all the answers!

GLD 294 - The Great Dating Reset Mar 29, 2021

Is the dating world about to get shifted onto a wonderful new axis? "Charisma Quotient" host Kimmy Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to break down why 2021 is a turning point, how to get ready for the explosion of opportunities, the best way to prep for this summer, lessons learned from the last 12 months, and why the pool of possibilities is deeper than ever!

GLD 293 - So, What Do You Do? Mar 22, 2021

How much does your career impact your dating potential? Can a job truly impact databiity, availability, and compatibility? Brian takes a look at Work/Love balance, exploring how an occupation, a location, and even a promotion can impact your relationship prospects!

GLD 292 - No Closer To Closure Mar 15, 2021

Still want to have just one more word with your ex? Be careful what you wish for! Comedian Jill Kimmel returns as we fire up a fresh batch of "Exes & Uh-oh's" - letters from our listeners directed at the one that got away. Boyfriends who saw the light too late, girlfriends who repeated mistakes, lovers looking for one last shot, hidden secrets, pet passion, astrological discrimination, family affairs, and much, much more!

GLD 291 - Brande Roderick Bounces Back Mar 08, 2021

Actress & model Brande Roderick drops by to dish about handling Hollywood, overcoming divorce, dealing with Donald Trump, finding strength, gaining confidence, life in the Playboy universe, the superpower of motherhood, and why we can still be boys and girls!

GLD 290 - Making It Big, And Making It Work Mar 01, 2021

TV hosts Josh & Maria Cribbs join Brian to talk life in - and after - the NFL, sharing the spotlight, building a partnership, supporting your spouse, dealing with celebrity, lifting each other up, the keys to working together, making a mark in a community, raising a family, and how opposite personalities can really click!

GLD 289 - Who Knows Better Than Me? Feb 22, 2021

Who should you be listening to when it comes to your love life? Brian breaks down how to find the answers you need, identifying who you should trust, where we tend to get it wrong, handling forks in the road, facing the honest truth, and taking control of your own dating fate!

GLD 288 - Happily, Ever And After Feb 15, 2021

Comedian Jill Kimmel drops by to dish on dating after divorce, growing up in a funny family, acceptable vices, finding love in the desert, the upside of younger men, the joys of the ridiculous, introducing old nicknames, dealing with strangers, social media stalking, the importance of ride-or-die friends, and much, much more. Plus, Brian lays out the GLDs upcoming tour schedule!

GLD 287 - Win Some, Lose Some Feb 08, 2021

What's your definition of dating success? "The Bachelor" winner Jen Schefft Waterman and "Who Does She Think She Is" host Stephanie Llewellyn return to The Debate Team to take on a fresh batch of listener letters, and assess who is making all the right moves! From bad personal habits to weird wedding wishes; from meeting men in the bars to dating men behind bars, we've got you covered!

GLD 286 - It's Time To Make Your Move Feb 01, 2021

Are we ready to flip the script on the dating landscape? Best-selling author Jon Birger drops by to talk about his new book "Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are In Charge", and to break down what's new in dating, where the possibilities exist right now, why women have to rethink their approach, what men need to learn about love, the things we've always done wrong, the importance of learning from mistakes, and much, much more!

GLD 285 - You Had Me At Last Call Jan 25, 2021

Are certain workplaces more conducive to romance and connection? Restaurant industry veterans Nicole Alverson and Emily Dunlap join The Debate Team to break down why waitstaffs get more action, the key to making your move, the power players in a nightlife environment, how to make a great first impression, creating a lasting locationship, and why the bartender rules the roost!

GLD 284 - The Jealousy Paradox Jan 18, 2021

Are jealousy issues the root of your relationship breakdowns? Brian takes aim at the "Green-Eyed Monster", and explores its primary causes, the kind that can strengthen, the type to run from, the issues worth discussing, and the love worth saving!

GLD 283 - Turning The Laughs Into Love Jan 11, 2021

Is laughter the key to relationship happiness? Brian invites the kids over for a playdate, and breaks down the joys of joking, what grownups get wrong, why boys are silly, why girls are picky, and how to put a smile back on everyone's face!

GLD 282 - The Best Of The Worst Jan 04, 2021

Our listeners respond to our list of America's Worst Cities To Find Love! A few we left off, some strong contenders for the new year, and a couple that are just plain wrong! Plus, is it easier to date in a small town than a large city?

GLD 281 - America's Worst Cities To Find Love 2020 Dec 27, 2020

A GLD tradition unlike any other! Brian is joined by "The Bachelor" winner Jen Schefft Waterman to release our annual list of the worst places for finding love during the past year! The 10 cities to avoid, the ones headed the wrong way, the markets to move from, and a brand new worst of the worst to close out a very challenging year!

GLD 280 - The Dating Resolutions Dec 21, 2020

Ready to wipe the slate clean and do better in the New Year? The Great Love Listeners send in their wishes, hopes, changes, and promises for moving forward in 2021. The Social Vine founder Stephanie Llewellyn returns to The Debate Team to break it all down and help us ring in the new YOU!

GLD 279 - The Truth About Long-Distance Relationships Dec 14, 2020

How do you stay together when you are far apart? Brian breaks down the unique challenges of long-distance relationships - the three key types, the importance of planning, keeping that click, setting strong goals, establishing an endgame, and why it can be an opportunity to grow closer!

GLD 278 - Can You Change Your Love Life In One Week? Dec 07, 2020

Are you ready for a radical approach to dating? Author Greg Kelly drops by to talk about "The 1 Week Relationship" - why it can work, how it changes our thinking, getting past divorce, taking a second look at romance, minimizing heartbreak, and charting a new path to love!

GLD 277 - It All Comes Down To This Nov 30, 2020

Are you overlooking the two most important ingredients for better relationships? Brian breaks down what you need to focus on, the elements that matter, what everyone is capable of, and the secret formula for dating success in the new year!

GLD 276 - The Past Tense Nov 23, 2020

Is your partner's relationship with their ex a bit too close for comfort? Brian explores how much is too much, what's appropriate and what's a problem, the importance of conversation, keeping social media to a minimum, and why focusing on the present gives hope to a future!

GLD 275 - Writing Your Best Chapter Nov 16, 2020

Are you not where you thought you would be in life...and in love? Brian is joined by "Smoke, Drink, F*#k" author Christine Dodd to talk about dating after your 30s, changing a mindset, taking big risks, letting it all go, and why the key to finding happiness can be found in a most unusual location!

GLD 274 - Crazy Shade Of Winter Nov 09, 2020

The Debate Team opens up a fresh batch of Listener Letters from the ladies! Second-thought breakups, frightening relatives, lustful best friends, silent partnerships, sports-averse crushes, and much, much more. Everything you need to get ready for a harsh holiday season!

GLD 273 - On To The Next One Nov 02, 2020

Are there better days ahead? Is this actually the best time to find The One? Brian breaks down the state of dating nation - where we are going, what matters most, the noise to ignore, who to target, and the right way to make the right moves, right now. Plus, a whole batch of fun facts!

GLD 272 - Going The Extra Mile Oct 26, 2020

How far would you go to find the right one? Brian lays out a path to set and achieve your goals for love and life - how to get started, what we are missing, the steps we are overlooking; then brings in a long-time listener who has taken a big leap of faith and a most unusual route to find what he has always wanted!

GLD 271 - Get It Together, Guys Oct 19, 2020

Don't you think the boys could use a bit of improvement? Filmmaker and Scream Queen Sadie Katz pops in for a rollicking round of Listener Letters - focusing on some fellas who really need to do a bit better! We take on over-complainers, silent stalkers, unsupportive boyfriends, awkward encounters, and much, much more. Plus, Sadie reveals the worst guy...ever?

GLD 270 - The Shallow End Of The Dating Pool Oct 12, 2020

Been a while since you waded into the murky waters of online dating? Brian heads to Dallas and dives into a lively round of Tinder Roulette with dating app aficionado Megan David. What to look out for, dead giveaways, red flags, hopeful prospects, strange profiles, sweet possibilities, and everything you need to know to avoid the arrogant Appholes!

GLD 269 - The Patience Paradox Oct 05, 2020

Do the best things come to those who wait? Brian breaks down the paradox of patience - why it's so difficult, what it really means, how to harness it, the possibilities it leads to, and the magic formula to finding the right moment to realize exactly what you need!

GLD 268 - The 11 Exes You Date Along The Way Sep 28, 2020

Do some exes matter more than the rest? Brian breaks down the 11 significant exes that make up a dating history - the good ones, the problem ones, the transformative ones, and the ones that got away! Plus, why are we still so obsessed with Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston?

GLD 267 - Everyone Is Full Of It Sep 21, 2020

Is the one ingredient you really need something you already have? Brian breaks down the thing that's stopping us, why it matters, where to find it, how to recognize it, and the way it can change everything right now! Plus, do we overlook the red flags in Andy Dufresne?

GLD 266 - Careful What You Wish For Sep 14, 2020

Still seeking satisfaction from your ex? Think again! The Debate Team unveils a fresh batch of "Exes & Uh-Oh's!" full of listener regrets, vengeful emotions, strange strategies, needless grudges, and possible second chances! Plus...have we learned anything from the lockdown?

GLD 265 - Why, And Everything Ever Sep 07, 2020

Is the most important question the one that never gets asked? The Debate Team takes a look at the root of all relationships, and revisits a classic GLD episode to helps you reboot your love mojo, re-imagine your relationship future, and reinvigorate your dating road ahead!

GLD 264 - Handling The Highs Aug 31, 2020

Brian sits down with influencer and founder of The Social Vine, Stephanie Llewellyn, to dig into why we self-sabotage, what we need from our friends, being our own worst enemies, living with choices, overcoming tough odds, the upside of normalcy, maintaining emotional balance, and how we can just do better!

GLD 263 - Beyond The Bachelor Aug 24, 2020

"The Bachelor" winner and "The Bachelorette" star Jen Schefft Waterman joins Brian in her Ohio hometown to relive reality star memories, being thrust into the spotlight, the magic of Chicago, how TV has evolved, finding new beginnings, dealing with kids' questions, life in suburbia, getting recognized unexpectedly, and what might happen at a Bachelor reunion!

GLD 262 - Grounds For Dismissal...Part 2! Aug 17, 2020

It's the ladies' turn to face the music! Brian reveals the 10 traits that will have him pointing her towards the relationship off-ramp. All the red flags, non-starters, warning signs, and horrible habits that signal "see ya later!"

GLD 261 - America's Best Cities To Find Love Aug 10, 2020

A tradition unlike any other! Brian reveals and runs down the GLD's Top 10 Places To Find Love For 2020 - all of America's best cities to recharge, start again, make new connections, give a second look, find your mojo, and discover the dating pool of your dreams!

GLD 260 - The Parent Trap Aug 03, 2020

Having trouble navigating the single parent landscape? "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to dish on mama drama, daddy issues, cranky kids, difficult daughters, horndog sons, troubled tweens, and a whole lot more. Everything you need to know to navigate the deep end of the dating pool!

GLD 259 - Grounds For Dismissal Jul 27, 2020

Are there things that immediately tell you he's got to go? Brian reveals the 10 traits that are total no-go's - the really bad habits, the really wrong moves, the really poor choices, and the really strange decisions. Plus, why you need to take a break from your Donald Trump obsession!

GLD 258 - The Bad Situations Jul 20, 2020

The Debate Team heads to Las Vegas and rewards you with a jackpot of Listener Letters! Angry roommates, overeating partners, unattractive antibodies, unhealthy hoarders, delicate balances, and much, much more. Plus, we take on the most outrageous relationship problem ever, and...will the sin ever come back to Sin City?

GLD 257 - All The Good Gossip Jul 13, 2020

Have we all become...gossip columnists? Gossip great Ben Widdicombe stops by to talk about his brand new best-seller "Gatecrasher: How I Helped The Rich Become Famous And Ruin The World" and dish about Paris, Lindsay, Britney, KimK, Trump, Weinstein, Epstein, and many, many more. Plus, how reality tv has changed behavior, the secret social media effect on society, and the best way to get a juicy piece of information!

GLD 256 - The Memorable Ones Jul 06, 2020

After 6 seasons, do the fundamental tenets of the GLD still hold up?
The Debate Team does a self-assessment on its most popular messages, core beliefs, controversial theories, original philosophies, and groundbreaking ideas to see which ones still ring true, which have evolved to a new phase, and which may no longer matter!

GLD 255 - The Opposite Question Jun 29, 2020

Do opposites really attract? Should they? Can they? Brian takes a deep dive on the science of sameness, how to bridge differences, the qualities that matter, what needs to be in alignment, and how far apart we really are. Plus, The Debate Team reflects on its own record on diversity, and what needs to be done better!

GLD 254 - Spouse Hunting Jun 22, 2020

Are you a relationship buyer...or seller? "Spouse Hunting" author Brian Belefant joins The Debate Team to talk about the similarities between great real estate and winning partnerships, how to spot an under-appreciate asset, which foundations are secretly shaky, how to make the most of your search, and the most important rules to follow as you look for love!

GLD 253 - The State Of The Date Jun 15, 2020

Is there any part of the current dating landscape that is actually...hopeful?
Brian gives his annual State of The Date address, and breaks down current events, romance and race, political phonies, dishonest agendas, the loss of nuance, finding importance, missing connections, regaining balance, and the two things everyone needs to do moving forward!
Plus, can the answer be found in...nachos?

GLD 252 - The Ex Smiles Jun 08, 2020

Isn't it time we all got along? The Debate Team breaks down a big batch of listener submissions on the one thing they miss most about their ex. All the positive traits, thoughts, quirks, moments, and memories that will make you think, hey, they really weren't so bad after all! Plus, Brian sorta...sings?

GLD 251 - The Breakup Show Jun 01, 2020

Have you ever been in a really great relationship that suddenly just...ends? Brian takes you into the world of breakups - the real source of heartbreak, how to process the pain, the questions you need to ask, what you're missing the most, and the ultimate answer that moves you forward in life and love!

GLD 250 - Winning The Blame Game May 25, 2020

Have you ever wanted to blame anyone and anything for...everything? Brian dishes out a healthy dose of how to blame! What went wrong, why it's their fault, excuses to lash out, reasons upon reflection, turning your bad into the greater good, and everything else you need to take back and take over the ultimate outcome!

GLD 249 - Our Dog Eat Dog Dating World May 18, 2020

Does dating bring out the animal in you? The Debate Team is joined by life coach, author, and renowned dog advocate Betsy Rosenfeld Vargas to shed light on the value of self-criticism, the importance of unconditional love, the proper place for pets in a relationship, making changes that matter, battling loneliness, sharing your bed, and why all things come back to Bravo TV!

GLD 248 - The Things That Will Get You Laid May 11, 2020

Guys, she might like you, but does she like you in THAT way? Brian sheds some light on the 10 things that will have her seeing you in a new light - everything you need to learn, say, think, feel, and master so you can have the confidence and skills to get to that place you know you really want to go. The episode that will help you make the magic happen!

GLD 247 - What You Really, Really Want May 04, 2020

Not quite sure what you even want out of a relationship? Brian has the answer, and he is sharing it on this special episode - what makes a relationship work, the things couples forget, what needs improving, the secret to happiness, what you both deserve, the elements to build upon, and what is truly important in the love of a lifetime!

GLD 246 - Jillian Barberie Bounces Back Apr 27, 2020

Our favorite FOX personality Jillian Barberie makes her triumphant return to the GLD pod to talk beating cancer, keeping confident, the importance of priorities, dating celebrities, Hollywood hypocrisy, pressing pause, dealing with exes, Donald Trump, Howard Stern, bad outcomes, great experiences, and much, much more!

GLD 245 - What Are You Doing?! Apr 20, 2020

Brian takes on the most important question of them all, and takes down all the barriers to answering it. Everything you need to ask to make a change, find your happy, become better, and to realize all the wrong - so you can finally make things right!

GLD 244 - The Quarantine Questions Apr 13, 2020

Are you having a hard time with the current challenges? The Debate Team takes on a fresh batch of Listener Letters, dealing with all things related to quarantine life and love! From new revelations to hidden agendas, from too much sharing to not enough caring; everything you need to make it through to these difficult days - and nights!

GLD 243 - Now Is Not The Time Apr 06, 2020

When does timing matter most? Right now! "You're Not Getting Any Younger" host Jen Glantz joins Brian to break down getting through tough times, enforcing boundaries, discovering what you need, when it's time to take a timeout, the best way to communicate, and how sharing a stressful situation can make or break a relationship!

GLD 242 - The Dating Amendments Mar 30, 2020

Don't you think it's about time for something that's hopeful...and helpful? The Debate Team unveils The Dating Amendments, the long-awaited and much anticipated addendum to the GLD's groundbreaking Dating Commandments. This is your Bill of Dating Rights - which will let you find what you want, when you want it, in the way you have always deserved it. Plus - the best way to make the best use of these very strange times!

GLD 241 - Capturing The Crazy Mar 23, 2020

Are you ready to take on - and embrace - the crazy? Brian takes love off lockdown, and runs through 6 years of GLD wackiness - the most memorable moments, crazy characters, nutty cities, insane incidents, and a whole bunch of not-so-normal audience encounters. Plus...what we can all learn from Dolly Parton!

GLD 240 - The Truth And Nothing But The Truth Mar 16, 2020

The GLD's favorite feature is back! Radio personality Emily Makinzie returns for a rollicking round of "Exes & Uh-oh's", where listeners get a cold splash of common sense when it comes to closure. We've got fake rings, Armenian grandmothers, role-playing roommates, Superghosting, rear-view regrets, rehabbed narcissists, and much, much more. Everything you always wanted to know but never wanted to hear!

GLD 239 - 13 Reasons Why You're A Lazy Dater Mar 09, 2020

Has modern dating become too convenient? Are Postmates and Netflix part of the problem? The Debate Team dishes out a baker's dozen reasons why you're not making the most of your opportunities, preventing possibilities, stuck in your surroundings; and why it's time to get up, get out, get moving, get noticed...and get dating the way you are capable!

GLD 238 - When Fantasy Faces Reality Mar 02, 2020

Have you ever had a moment where it's time to confront your dreams? Brian breaks down the truth about crushes, what's real about reality romance, the strange balance between hopeful and helpless, what makes us act irrationally, why circumstance can shape outcome, and much, much more!

GLD 237 - The Ones With All The Answers Feb 23, 2020

Brian heads to Cleveland and discovers a very special group of people who have quickly realized the keys to life, staying focused on what really matters, understanding what needs to happen, avoiding the wrong things (and people!), and the best mindset when it comes to what's important in the lifelong quest for love and happiness!

GLD 236 - 10 Things To Make Him Go Hmmm... Feb 17, 2020

Listen up, ladies! Have you ever wanted to be more dateable, approachable, or even noticeable? The Debate Team brings you 10 things you need to do to stand out, change your energy, shift your focus, better your possibilities, and become everything you need to be - to get everything you've always deserved. Plus, the most interesting couple complaint of all time!

GLD 235 - 100 Days To Fall In Love Feb 10, 2020

Ever you ever wondered when is the best time to find love? Brian has the answer - and charts your course to find love by Memorial Day. Everything you need to know, do, think, and feel to make the most of the most fertile time of the year to find what you're looking for!

GLD 234 - Tackling The Tough Part Feb 03, 2020

What's the best way to get over early relationship hurdles? "Don't Eat The Scraps" author Jules Price joins The Debate Team to take on some tough truths about what comes out of the male mouth! Why he says it, when he means it, when he doesn't, how not to get sucked in, the tricks for smooth sailing, and the forces you need to fight to make it all work out!

GLD 233 - What The Heck Is He Thinking? Jan 27, 2020

Ever wonder what's going on in his silly big head? "A Guy Thing Podcast" host Joe Mignone sits down with Brian to explore the muddled male mind - why it takes so long to grow up, the tough lessons learned, the best way to date, the wrong way to live, and the keys to becoming what she wants you to be!

GLD 232 - Break Your Boring Jan 20, 2020

What is the current value of communication? Have you become the Mayor of Dullsville? Video Master Rick Gmitro joins The Debate Team to help step up your game, design moments that matter, make points with a purpose, put meaning in your message, and better read your reactions. Plus, the secret late night activity that just might lead to magic!

GLD 231 - Come On Get Happy Jan 13, 2020

What did Meghan and Harry miss most? Brian delivers his unique take on the importance of happiness, why it's overlooked, the process of discovery, the places to find it, the ways to reveal it, the language behind it, and the real reason it matters!

GLD 230 - The Current Complaints Jan 06, 2020

The Debate Team takes a close-up look at listeners' concerns, complaints, and questions about the GLD! What needs improving, the changes ahead, mistakes made, behind the scenes, second thoughts, and everything you need to know about what, where, why, and how we do it!

GLD 229 - Perfect 2020 Vision Dec 30, 2019

Ready to make this your best year ever? "Flirt Academy" host Kim Seltzer joins The Debate Team to map out the 12 things you need to do get out of your comfort zone, remove your boundaries, make new connections, rewire your thinking, shake up your habits, expand your possibilities...and kick-start your love life!

GLD 228 - Respecting Perspective Dec 23, 2019

Think it's our differences that are keeping us apart? Think again! Brian explains the importance of expanding your viewpoint, learning to listen, altering perceptions, embracing differences, and why politics and religion don't have to divide us. Plus, the three things you need to do in the new decade - and why it's great to be a snowflake!

GLD 227 - A Dicey Decade Of Dating Dec 16, 2019

The Debate Team counts down the Top 10 dating developments of the past decade! What we got right, what needs improving, the disasters, the differences, the surprises, and all the consequences and challenges moving forward. Everything you need to know to launch love in the 2020s!

GLD 226 - The Commitment Quandary Dec 09, 2019

Is commitment always a good thing? Dr. Deena returns to The Debate Team to talk breaking habits, changing unhealthy routines, recognizing core issues, holding on to what matters, eliminating self-harm, and embracing your healthy habits. Plus, how to recognize your love root!

GLD 225 - Inside Temptation Island Dec 02, 2019

"Temptation Island" host Mark L. Walberg drops by to break down the behind-the-scenes of the hit reality show, the keys to a great social experiment, finding couples at a crossroads, becoming a relationship realist, maintaining a marriage, and what it takes to be a top TV host. Plus, one of the greatest first date stories of all-time!

GLD 224 - Seeking Southern Charm Nov 25, 2019

The Debate Team heads to Nashville to seek the truth about Southern Gentlemen, the downside of chivalry, why women are wily, southern style, the mystery of military men, magic after midnight, first impressions at last call, and much, much more!

GLD 223 - Misery Loves Company Nov 18, 2019

Hurt a little, share a little, learn a lot! "Mama Said" Podcast co-host Jenna Parris joins The Debate Team to dish on what dating and parenting have in common, keeping a relationship hot, making fast moves, finding your balance, hitting the right notes, maintaining your identity, and why it's all worth doing! Plus, the greatest marriage proposal...ever?

GLD 222 - America's Worst Cities To Find Love 2019 Nov 11, 2019

Which cities are going the wrong way, have lost their way, and can't get out of their own way when it comes to love and relationships? The Debate Team lays out the 10 dating duds for 2019 - everything you need to know about every place you don't want to live! Plus, is there such a thing as dating out of your league?

GLD 221 - Listener Letters Strike Back! Nov 04, 2019

The Geek Goddess - and GLD fave - actress and TV host Alison Haislip returns to The Debate Team to take on a fresh and feisty batch of Listener Letters! Dating your friends' exes, the appeal of older guys, falling for your fans, rekindling romance, overlooking shady behavior, and much, much more! Plus, making it in Hollywood, the art of the cheese pull, showcase showdowns, and...do we still love Star Wars?

GLD 220 - Strangers, Friends, Lives, & Lovers Oct 28, 2019

Is the company you keep the key to your love life? The Debate Team is joined by "Love By Design" founder Traci Porterfield and past life regression therapist Mira Kelley to dissect sister circles, raising your game, building trust, breaking down walls, living honestly, identifying truths, revealing weakness, and much, much more!

GLD 219 - The Hiding Of The Hurt Oct 21, 2019

Brian heads to Florida, where he discloses some painful distant (and recent) memories; and explores compartmentalizing pain, holding onto the hurt, letting in the love, finding truth in a terrible moment, and the healing power of simply being heard.

GLD 218 - The 23 Questions That Matter Oct 14, 2019

Don't you wish you had a sure-fire path to find love? Now you do! The Debate Team lays out the 23 Questions That Matter - everything you need to ask, learn, and share to find the spark, click, chemistry, and connection you are looking for. Whether it's your first date or your longtime partner, you will learn, laugh, and love!

GLD 217 - Check Out Of Heartbreak Hotel Oct 07, 2019

In this special solo episode, Brian takes on the trickiest of topics - heartbreak. A unique and game-changing look at what it is, why we feel it, how to get through it, processing the pain, bouncing back from a split, and everything else you need to move on and triumph through the tears!

GLD 216 - Bring It Up...Or Bury It? Sep 30, 2019

When is the right time to ask - or share - all the who/what/where/why you want to know? The Debate Team is joined by "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer in Venice Beach, CA to find the answers to all the tough questions that can make, break, sidetrack, or jumpstart a loving and lasting relationship!

GLD 215 - Playing Out The Whole Hand Sep 23, 2019

Too many Late Bloomers? Peter Pans? Stunted Adolescents? Or does patience make perfect? Dr. Sharon Cohen joins The Debate Team to talk emotional availability, mid-life maturity, dating with intention, owning your status, living without regret, sending strong signals, the purpose of judgment, and why there's no better time than the right time!

GLD 214 - It Can Happen To You Sep 16, 2019

Think finding love is something that only happens to someone else? Think again! "You're Not Getting Any Younger" host - and GLD fave - Jen Glantz returns to share what a good relationship means, the shock of engagement, the nerves of wedding planning, flourishing feelings, getting what you want, putting up with your partner, and being the best bride-to-be you can be!

GLD 213 - Getting Candid with Candace Bushnell Sep 09, 2019

The always-entertaining Candace Bushnell goes one-on-one with Brian to talk sex, New York City, Sex And The City, alpha guys, dating over 50, chasing cubs, dating famous, the secrets of Studio 54, and her new book "Is There Still Sex In The City?"

GLD 212 - All For One...Or One For All Sep 02, 2019

Can one person satisfy one person? Does your definition of love differ? "The Manwhore Podcast" host Billy Procida battles The Debate Team on the meaning of monogamy, sexual stereotypes, alternative paths to satisfaction, modern misconceptions, finding your own happy, and the proper place for PC culture. A very funny and very feisty look at love, sex, behavior, and communication!

GLD 211 - What It All Memes Aug 26, 2019

"Kinda Dating" podcast host Natasha Chandel joins The Debate Team for an honest and hilarious round of "Meme or No Meme," where we discuss, dissect, and debunk the hard truth about some popular myths and mantras. Social media spin, inaccurate Instagram, misplaced messages, Facebook fibs, viral violations, and much, much more!

GLD 210 - Tawdry Campfire Tales Aug 19, 2019

Ever wonder where, when, and how things went wrong - or even why they didn't? "Campfire Shtshow" hosts Beau Hufford and Meryl Klemow join The Debate Team in San Diego to talk relationship landmines, co-host chemistry, traveling together, the art of sharing, postponed proposals, dark conversation corners, dating in the public eye, getting your message across, and much, much more!

GLD 209 - The Spark Starters Aug 12, 2019

Think you've already tried everything to improve your love life? Think again! The Debate Team reveals 10 things you can do - right now - to jump start your heart, shake up your routine, increase your possibilities, and realize the outcome you've always desired. Plus, the one place you need to visit tomorrow to come alive again!

GLD 208 - The Exes Strike Back Aug 05, 2019

Our favorite fan feature "Exes & Uh-oh's" is back! The Debate Team lets loose on getting your freak on, family dysfunction, petty jealousy, moving on gracefully, irreconcilable differences, and why you need to get the moves like Jagger!

GLD 207 - The Dog Days Of Dating Jul 29, 2019

Does your pet passion affect your dating decisions? The Pooch Cupid, Dogipack founder Megan O'Brien, and comedian Ryan Patrick join The Debate Team to dissect why dogs matter, the surprise upside of cat-lovin' men, proper pet etiquette, why animals rule the roost, ridiculous pet peeves, and the best way to win the heart of a dogparent!

GLD 206 - If They Only Had A Brain Jul 22, 2019

Does being intelligent truly matter when it comes to love and relationships? The Debate Team heads to Tel Aviv to break down the importance of brain power, what it really means, how to improve your dating IQ, the best way to increase intelligence, expanding your intellectual horizons, and what jobs make better lovers. Plus, a look at the unique vibe, culture, and singles community in Israel!

GLD 205 - Get Off The Height Thing Jul 15, 2019

The Debate Team heads to Bangkok for a little spicy Pod Thai, and takes on our unhealthy height obsession, why it's misguided, what we need to do better, where it stems from, how to redirect it, and why the barrier needs breaking. Plus, a little peek into Asian dating culture, and cuisine!

GLD 204 - Doin' It Down Under Jul 08, 2019

The Debate Team heads to Australia for a special episode from Melbourne! We take a deep dive into hot accents, rugged men, dating differences, being present, finding a new wavelength, rethinking attraction, and how you can make it work anywhere in the world - even on the other side!

GLD 203 - A Tale Of Twelve Cities Jul 01, 2019

Brian reviews and dissects the first half of 2019 and reveals the places you need to go, the life changes you need to make, how to decide your future, the cities with no hope, the communities on the rise, the worst place in America to live, and why it really is hot in Cleveland!

GLD 202 - Single Parent, Summer Lovin' Jun 24, 2019

Divorced, and ready to dive into the deep end of the summer dating pool? “First World Mom Problems” host Rhonica Petty joins The Debate Team to tackle a sizzling hot batch of Listener Letters from single moms and dads! We answer all your questions - how much is too much, the best way to battle bratty kids, the science of strutting your stuff, the right time to shoot your shot, and everything else you need to kick off your summer of love! Plus, The Greatest Worst Date Story Of All Time!

GLD 201 - Stopping The Cheating Jun 16, 2019

Can't everyone just stop screwing around? "First Comes Us" author Anita Chlipala joins Brian in Chicago to break down why people stray, how to prevent infidelity, the keys to bouncing back, the signs to look for, how to save a broken relationship, and much, much more! Plus, Brian shares the greatest story of all time - and why the Windy City is a great city for love!

GLD 200 - Seeking Arrangements Jun 10, 2019

Maybe we're doing nothing wrong, we're just doing everything...backwards? The Debate Team ponders the order of things, and explores arranged marriages, the foundation for success, the right recipe for lasting love, cultural differences, familial meddling, recognizing the right moments, and much, much more!

GLD 199 - The Art Of The Dinner Date Jun 03, 2019

If you're gonna do it, do it right! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer joins Brian and the two of them take on and break down everything you need to know to make sure your dinner leads to breakfast. Where to go, when to plan, what to say, how to order, creating chemistry, and all the tasty tricks and tips you need to create magic over a meal!

GLD 198 - A Man And A Therapist May 27, 2019

NY Times Best-Selling Author of "Maybe You Should To Talk To Someone" Lori Gottlieb joins Brian in-studio to dissect the benefits of therapy, professional chemistry, breaking down, opening up, discovering your identity, sharing your secrets, moving on from your past, and the mirror that matters the most. Plus, Brian reveals the GLD tour plans ahead!

GLD 197 - The Ties That Bind May 20, 2019

What makes a perfect partnership? Eliza Orlins from "Amazing Race" and Erin Davis from "Bubbies Know Best" join The Debate Team to dive into what makes a relationship click, how to take it to the next level, the things that matter, the stuff to leave behind, dealing with dealbreakers, communicating with clarity, evolving with purpose, the difference between hopes and goals, and much, much more!

GLD 196 - Giving It All Up May 13, 2019

Does absence make the heart grow...stronger? Author Kacie Main joins Brian in Washington DC to dish on going without, growing within, tuning out the noise, finding your inner purpose, discovering what matters, and why doing the wrong thing is sometimes the best thing. Plus - why we named the Nation's Capital "America's Best City To Find Love" for 2019!

GLD 195 - Just Do Better May 06, 2019

Is he not the man you want him to be? Are you not the man you think you can be? Spencer Burnett returns to The Debate Team to talk about his new book, making guys better, inspiring change, triggering outcomes, reading a room, winning the game, and raising the bar on what it means to be a cool guy!

GLD 194 - Now Or Never Apr 29, 2019

Are you letting your dating life pass you by? TV Personality Julie Alexandria and Love By Design founder Traci Porterfield return to The Debate Team to talk ticking clocks, decisions that matter, the right time for the right moves, shaking up your rut, the keys to standing out, the most important years, and what we can learn about love from Tony Robbins!

GLD 193 - The Cautionary Tales Apr 22, 2019

Are you looking for red flags at the expense of green lights? The Debate Team heads to Las Vegas and opens up a fresh batch of Listener Letters! Action Junkeez host Jon Orlando and Fitness Queen Vanessa Serros join in to take on Bachelor Party behavior, Ex preferences, dating famous, cool guy competition, fashion faux pas, and much, more!

GLD 192 - Ten For The Trash Apr 15, 2019

Think you know what matters in the matters of the heart? Think again! The Debate Team breaks down, debunks, and deals the hard truth on what's important, what to look for, where to find it, and what to throw away and never think about again in your search for lasting love!

GLD 191 - Planet Of The Apps Apr 08, 2019

Is there no turning back - and have we turned the corner - when it comes to online dating? "Mom vs. Matchmaker" star Carmelia Ray and digital dating innovator Cyr Mongo drop by to dish on how we got here, what the future is, what's new, what's next, and what's now when it comes to dating apps and developments - and how you can find success!

GLD 190 - The Beginning Of The Beginning Apr 01, 2019

Do you really wanna…get started? The Debate Team gives you everything you need to start down the road to love! How to begin, the questions to raise, the answers to seek, the curiosity to want, the relationships to renew, the happiness to find, the partners to keep, and so much more!

GLD 189 - Flirt Academy Mar 25, 2019

Want to ignite the spark? Not sure how to fan the flame? Brian and GLD lead love guru Kim Seltzer launch "Flirt Academy" - everything you need to know to get noticed, make connections, increase opportunities, pump up your possibilities, and kickstart your charisma!

GLD 188 - The Reality Of It All Mar 17, 2019

Brian heads to New Orleans to rendezvous with reality tv legend Trishelle Cannatella, and they explore kissing for public consumption, overcoming bad behavior, maturing men, wild women, being judged, promiscuous pasts, discovering your identity...and why dating in The Big Easy isn't so easy!

GLD 187 - Survive & Advance Mar 11, 2019

Everything you need to know to not get voted off the relationship island! The Debate Team is joined by CBS' "Survivor" contestant Max Dawson to crack open a fresh batch of Listener Letters and tackle everything from doggie dealbreakers to wedding wishes to perplexing personalities to fun with pheromones!

GLD 186 - Going Gaga Mar 04, 2019

Brian heads to Florida and digs into the truth about Bradley Cooper & Lady Gaga, fantasy versus reality, chasing ghosts, facing truths, breaking down myths, owning your fate, dealing with disappointment, the importance of elasticity, and the keys to continuing commitment!

GLD 185 - State Of Confusion Feb 25, 2019

Brian heads to New York City where he is joined by comedian Jason Salmon and "Millionaire Matchmaker" co-host Marisa Saks to dish on keeping it real, flying coach, interesting accents, facial hair preferences, receiving compliments, southern charm, being genuine, taking things too far, and making the most of any opportunity!

GLD 184 - Making Mister Right Feb 18, 2019

Three wise men, one special podcast! "The Angry Therapist" John Kim and top guys' guru Spencer Burnett join Brian in the studio to break down modern men - what it means to be masculine, the value of vulnerability, creating breakthroughs, being better, taking risks, making a change, discovering desire, and getting the girl! Plus - are really great nachos the best recipe for really great love?

GLD 183 - Two Worlds Colliding Feb 11, 2019

Brian heads to Hong Kong, where he discovers - and reveals - the keys to merging lives, blending in, standing out, coming together, recognizing what's important, changing on the fly, and learning to grow in tandem!

GLD 182 - Technically Dating Feb 04, 2019

Trying to engineer a new relationship? Are millennials overthinking things? Brainy blondes Sally Cotching and Sierra Sterling join The Debate Team to reveal the real problem with apps, the key to online dating success, triggering the next level, the trouble with tech guys, establishing nerd cred, the underrated upside of American men…and much, much more! Plus - is an interesting accent the single biggest dating advantage?

GLD 181 - Spicy Pod Thai Jan 28, 2019

The Debate Team heads to Bangkok! We dish and discover the lay of the love land in Thailand, and sit down with locals and visitors to talk Asian dating, long-distance love, meddling families, fun first dates, taking chances, crossing boundaries, expanding borders, and much, much more!

GLD 180 - A Study In Contradictions Jan 20, 2019

Does your partner say one thing and do another? Think one thing and want another? Do one thing and not another? "Millionaire Matchmaker" co-host Marisa Saks joins Brian to answer your Listener Letters and dish the dirt on communication breakdowns, unresolved differences, definitive deal-breakers, and heightened hypocrisy!

GLD 179 - The Path Of The Perfect Partner Jan 14, 2019

Want to get better at compromising, navigating, communicating, and negotiating with your partner? "When You Least Expect It" author Jen Glantz returns to The Debate Team to share all her tricks and techniques, and talks about her unique social experiment that just might be the perfect way to learn, live, and love!

GLD 178 - Et Tu, Julia Roberts? Jan 07, 2019

The Debate Team is joined by _Love Lies_ host Michele Russo to challenge conventional wisdom on what makes a relationship last, how to navigate choppy waters, the best kind of partner for you, the importance of absorbing (and combining) baggage, and why there's no such thing as a "complete" person!

GLD 177 - LIVE at the Hollywood Improv w/ Johnny Bananas, Rachel McCord, Andrea Lowell & more! Dec 31, 2018

The GLD tour heads home to Los Angeles for another hilarious sold-out show at the world-famous Hollywood Improv! Listen in for all the laughs, lunacy, and love from our live audience in LaLa Land!

GLD 176 - The Dawn Of A New Dating Day Dec 24, 2018

We wrap up, review, and recalibrate a crazy year in love! Our lead love guru Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to dish on why things are (finally!) looking up as we launch a new year filled with new possibilities, new hope, and a fresh dating horizon. Plus, Brian gives a sneak peek at that's ahead for him - professionally and personally - in 2019!

GLD 175 - The Return Of Exes & Uh-oh's! Dec 17, 2018

Our fan's favorite feature is back, as we tackle a fresh batch of revenge for those listeners who wanted one final word with their ex! As always, be careful what you wish for…we've got relocation regret, tempting siblings, baby misery, counseling closure, porn propriety, and much, much more! Plus, did craft beer kill dating?

GLD 174 - Surviving The Holidays Dec 10, 2018

CBS "Survivor" fave Corinne Kaplan joins Brian to unwrap our annual Mistletoe Mailbag, and take on Santa fetishes, party impropriety, overindulging, undergifting, flying solo, competing to win, and much, much, more! Everything you need to deck the halls and fa-la-la-la-LOVE!

GLD 173 - Andrea Lowell Comes On Strong Dec 03, 2018

The luminous Andrea Lowell drops by to share her journey to enlightenment, making a relationship rock, changing your course, finding your purpose, owning your worst, and being your best! Plus - partying, Playboy, threesomes, drinking, drugs, fame, money, sex, celebrities…and why Asian men are the best!

GLD 172 - The End Of Excuses Nov 26, 2018

Excuses, excuses, excuses…enough! Brian lays out the case for the elimination of lame excuses, ridiculous reasons, and imaginary obstacles that stand between you and the relationship you want! A passionate and necessary pep-talk to push ahead.

GLD 171 - Love In The Time Of Trump Nov 19, 2018

Does political discord damage dating? Is a voting record reflective of relationship red flags? Are today's turbulent times too much to overcome? Can two dislikes make a love? Relationship guru Julie Ferman returns to The Debate Team to dish on all this and much, much more!

GLD 170 - Love, American Style Nov 12, 2018

In this very special episode, we take the podcast to the people! Brian heads to the heartland and hits the legendary Mall of America to discover what people want, the best place to find it, where things go wrong...and why all of life's answers can be found at the food court!

GLD 169 - The Best & Worst Cities To Find Love 2018 Nov 05, 2018

Our annual rundown of the best and worst cities in America to find love! We count down and rank the enthusiasm, the opportunities, the obstacles, the men, the women, and the places that turn dates into relationships. Everything you need to discover where to go...or when to leave!

GLD 168 - Fear & Loving Oct 29, 2018

Brian heads to Dallas to explore the relationship between fear, pain, redemption, and love. An honest and personal look into taking chances, overcoming obstacles, rewiring your reality, breaking through barriers, and letting in the light!

GLD 167 - Basket Of Bad Decisions Oct 22, 2018

Just in time for the holidays, our listeners sent us a big basket of their bad decisions! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to unpack a treasure trove of poor judgment, questionable choices, illicit affairs, drunken behavior, transitional romances, wrong turns, terrible timing, and so much more!

GLD 166 - Things That Make Her Go Hmmm... Oct 15, 2018

Guys, are you worried that you're not funny enough? Cool enough? Tall enough? Rich enough? Then this one is for you! Brian reveals his ten things guaranteed to increase your appeal, make her notice, and get you a second look. Everything that every guy can do, every single day, that will make her go "hmmm!"

GLD 165 - Time To Get It Together Oct 08, 2018

The very fun hosts of the #Adulting Podcast - recovering influencer Nikki Sharp and self-improvement addict Zack Peter - join The Debate Team to talk getting your sh*t together, the balance between a youthful spirit and a mature mindset, the true meaning of influence, chasing credibility, finding passion, making a connection, owning your truth, being your best, and much, much more!

GLD 164 - Why Mood Matters, w/ Dr. Larry Senn Oct 01, 2018

Best-selling author and Corporate Culture pioneer Dr. Larry Senn sits down with Brian to discuss his groundbreaking philosophy "The Mood Elevator," and reveals the power of curiosity, how to change a culture, using your feelings as a guide, setting goals at any age, recognizing epiphanies, and training for triathlons at the age of 80!

GLD 163 - The Pursuit Of Happiness Sep 24, 2018

Author and Psychologist Dr. Jenny Taitz joins The Debate Team to talk about the importance of happiness, what prevents us from finding it, how to define it, the science behind it, breaking down the barriers, what truly matters, and the key to making it last!

GLD 162 - Exes & Uh-Ohs: The Revenge Sep 17, 2018

Our fans' favorite feature is back! Have one more question you need to ask your lost love? Really dying to get the last word in? Just need to say what you didn't get to say? Still hoping for one more chance? Radio personality Emily Makinzie joins Brian in Denver to do the deed and remind you - be careful what you wish for!

GLD 161 - Stop Settling For Single Sep 10, 2018

You aren't single because you refuse to settle, you are single because you have chosen to settle! Brian breaks it all down and lays out the definitive path to your maximum happiness - changing your mindset, recognizing your reality, understanding your opportunities, forgetting about closure, finding the right road, and kickstarting your confidence to get into the relationship you definitely want and deserve. Plus, an original take on an old issue - the dinner check!

GLD 160 - Katy Perry Knows All Sep 03, 2018

Are California Girls truly something to sing about? Is a Southern Gentleman really what you want? The Debate Team returns to Charlotte to take on all your regional biases and perceived preferences, and breaks down the truth about brainy Ivy Leaguers, farmer's daughters, southern girls, midwestern guys, rugged cowboys, nice Jewish girls, and all your other dream guys and fantasy gals! Plus - a sneak peak at what's ahead for the GLD!

GLD 159 - Laying Down The Law Aug 27, 2018

Brian unveils and breaks down his revolutionary "Law of 20%" to get you out of the relationship you don't want and into the one that you do! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns as The Debate Team reveals a foolproof formula to determine when it's time to get out, why you need to draw a line in the sand, where is the point of no return, how to weigh pros and cons, and why your happiness needs to happen now!

GLD 158 - The Tournament Of Terrible Choices, Part 2 Aug 20, 2018

Think you went out with the worst woman ever? Think again! Good Eats & Meets founder Richard Gruica joins The Debate Team to judge the female side of our Tournament of Terrible Choices! Revenge fantasies, strange demands, secret identities, horrifying habits, split personalities, closet criminals - we gathered the worst of the worst from our first 325 live shows nationwide. We reveal our winner - and if you dated anybody other than her, you can say you could have done worse! Plus, is Croatia the hidden dating hotspot?

GLD 157 - Make Men Sexy Again Aug 13, 2018

What really makes a man appealing? Can any man become sexy? The Debate Team heads to Seattle to find out if funny really matters, how he can kickstart his charisma overnight, the secret to getting her attention, the things that will really trigger her desire, the style behind the sexy, the power of a proper haircut, and much, much more! Plus, Brian reveals the surprising sexiest male character and most romantic movie ever!

GLD 156 - The Questions That Matter Aug 06, 2018

The Debate Team heads to Charlotte to take on the most serious subjects - how to get on The Bachelor, whether your guy needs to get an iPhone, the keys to courting a preacher's daughter, the secret to a good ultimatum, how to regain her interest in you, and much more! Also, when it comes to dating, how much Trump is too much Trump?!

GLD 155 - Peter Pan Strikes Out Jul 31, 2018

Do we all just need...to grow up? "The Blonde Leading The Blonde" hosts Jessica Manske and Cody Von join The Debate Team to explore the delicate balance between acting your age, feeling your age, and dating your age! What will work, what won't work, making tough decisions, expanding your pool, finding better options, picking your spots, figuring out what really matters, and when it's time to just head home!

GLD 154 - Leading With Your Worst Jul 26, 2018

When do you divulge your dirty little secret? When You Least Expect It author Jen Glantz returns to The Debate Team to talk truth bombs, dealing with your darkness, navigating neuroses, putting on a happy face, and using imperfection to your advantage! Plus, Brian and Jen reveal their shared - and bizarre - hidden habit!

GLD 153 - The Tournament Of Terrible Choices Jul 16, 2018

Think you went out with the worst guy ever? Think again! Branding guru Megan O'Brien and legendary socialite Nikki Haskell join The Debate Team to judge our Tournament of Terrible Choices! Weird quirks, strange fetishes, creepy cars, horrifying habits, hygiene deficiencies, closet kleptomania - we gathered the worst of the worst from around the country. We reveal our winner - and if you dated anybody other than him, you can say you could have done worse!

GLD 152 - Saving Spontaneity Jul 09, 2018

Wonder why a moment was missed? Want him to make a move? Can't read her reactions? Confidence Guru Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to talk mixed messages, uncrossing signals, the importance of communication, and why it's harder than ever to maximize an opportunity. Plus, Brian reveals the one single gesture that will turn every spark into a flame!

GLD 151 - More Exes & Uh-Oh's! Jul 02, 2018

Our listeners' favorite feature is back for an encore! Ever wanted to have one last conversation with that long lost love? Be careful what you wish for, as radio personality Emily Makinzie joins Brian to do the honors from Denver - taking on recycled engagement rings, unrequited threesomes, revenge porn, Mommy issues, second chances, and more!

GLD 150 - Commitment Issues Jun 25, 2018

You're ready to fall in love, but are you ready to…commit? Best-selling author and "Committed" podcast host Jo Piazza returns to The Debate Team to delve into what we are really looking for, the true meaning of partnership, what gets in the way, expanding comfort zones, the reality of post-nuptial depression, communicating goals, fighting through the muck, and making a relationship work - and last!

GLD 149 - Summer Lovin' Jun 19, 2018

The Debate Team unveils "America's Best City For Summer Love" for 2018, and opens up a sizzling round of listener letters! We take on all your pertinent summer problems when it comes to hot friends, concert quandaries, long-distance love, baring it all, mixing meals, seasonal sex, and much, much more! Plus, we take a deep dive into Grease - did Danny really deserve to score Sandy?

GLD 148 - Bringing Back The Broken Men Jun 11, 2018

Can we create more healthy men (and relationships) through a foundation of healing? Cove founder Charles Messow and Intimacy Specialist Valerie Baber join Brian to lay out a path to bring light to the darkness, incentivize engagement, build trust, rationalize rejection, break down barriers, communicate with confidence, overcome fear, eliminate anger, and heal the dating disconnect. Plus - a sneak preview at a new app that might just change everything!

GLD 147 - Addicted To Love Jun 04, 2018

You know you're gonna have to face it…you're in need of this podcast. Dr. Deena joins The Debate Team to talk about chasing the love high, the desire for dating drama, breaking bad patterns, the root of wrong relationships, reprogramming your picker, and how to make healthy changes to avoid heartbreak! Plus, Brian explains his theory on how _Sex And The City_ caused a decade of dating damage!

GLD 146 - Animal Magnetism May 28, 2018

Is dealing with dogs a dating deal-breaker? Confidence guru and dog whisperer Kim Seltzer joins The Debate Team to talk about why pets matter, how a pooch can play Cupid, picking up on signals, blending pet families, overcoming fears, and sending out signals that only a loved one can hear!

GLD 145 - Brandi Glanville, Ben Higgins & more LIVE at Hollywood Improv! May 22, 2018

Brandi Glanville from "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills", "The Bachelor" Ben Higgins, "Amazing Race" winner Cody Nickson, TV journalist Lauren Sivan, NFL Cheerleader Michele Russo, and a couple hundred of Los Angeles' most fun and feisty guys and gals got together for a hilarious show at the World-Famous Hollywood Improv!

GLD 144 - Words To Love By May 14, 2018

Can one conversation change everything? The Debate Team takes on relationship forks in the road, saying the right things, the benefit of silence, dealing with impatience, getting a do-over, the importance of punctuation, diffusing your differences, and the surprising words that make all the difference!

GLD 143 - Great Love Letters May 08, 2018

The Debate Team opens up the mailbag to tackle a fresh round of Listener Letters! All the answers on dealing with problem punctuality, their need to know, the meaning of family, unrequited love, the why behind wanderlust, perfect imperfection, the difference between single and singled out, and much, much more!

GLD 142 - Jillian Michaels May 01, 2018

World’s leading health and fitness expert Jillian Michaels gets The Debate Team in shape as she reveals the secrets to finding balance, gaining confidence, creating chemistry, indulging in moderation, the myth of aging, eating on the run, why sleep matters, dealing with fame, and much, much, more! Everything you need to kick ass in life...and love!

GLD 141 - Exes & Uh-Oh's Apr 23, 2018

The Debate Team makes it right by taking on everything that went wrong! Are you dying to ask just one more question after it all ended? Do you really want that answer you think you deserve? Looking for the closure that might help you move on? Just want to have the last word? Do you really just need to know...why? We raise your questions, and give the surprising and hilarious answers so that you can get on to the next!

GLD 140 - Sara Gore, Confidence, & The Carlyle Apr 16, 2018

Brian is joined by NBC's Sara Gore at the legendary Bemelmans Bar at The Carlyle Hotel in NYC, where they share the right way to impress a woman, the keys to unlocking confidence, how to mature as a man, and the secret to making the pieces come together. Plus, Brian offers Prince Harry and Meghan Markle a creative plan to insure their fairy tale marriage lasts!

GLD 139 - You Are Who You Aren't Apr 09, 2018

You want to know who they are, but do you really know who you are? Brian heads to Seattle and takes a deep dive into self-discovery with dating gurus Marina Lavochin and Rachel Paz. Wake up calls, surprising developments, forks in the road, living without regret, changing your course, mileposts that matter, trying new paths, and how to find the life you love - and the love of your life - starting now!

GLD 138 - Making Longer Love Apr 02, 2018

You're dating someone...now what? The Debate Team is joined by Dr. Beverly Palmer, author of _Love Demystified: Strategies for a Successful Love Life,_ to reveal how to grow your new relationship into something lasting, the keys to turning your current partner into the partner of a lifetime, the necessary steps to repair broken communication in couples, the easiest personality types to love, and more!

GLD 137 - Spring Awakening Mar 26, 2018

Everything is in bloom again, as The Debate Team heads to Charlotte and wakes the mailbag out of hibernation to answer Listener Letters on our Dating Commandments, the best candidates for love, mixing up your moods, overestimating your appeal, the surest way to get another date, and more!

GLD 136 - Landing On Planet Single Mar 19, 2018

Suddenly thrown back into the deep end of the dating pool? The Debate Team lays out everything you need to deal with your divorce, bounce back from your breakup, learn the new landscape, discover your best you, regain hope in others, explore fresh possibilities, and get your love mojo back on track. Plus - Brian explains why 50 truly is the new 20!

GLD 135 - The Players And The Games Mar 12, 2018

Brian and Your Love Accomplice host Christina Weber come together for a special "Menage a Pod" episode to talk players and their games! All the scoop on alpha guys, beta boys, secret signs, sweet spots, breath kisses, hidden agendas, the importance of 100 hours, breaking patterns, and how much is enough. Plus, Brian opens up on his player past, and Christina explains the Legend of The Dragon Penis Tattoo!

GLD 134 - The Dating Commandments (Part 2) Mar 05, 2018

Brian releases Part 2 of his groundbreaking **Dating Commandments** - listen, save, ingest, practice, memorize, share...and watch your love life change forever!

GLD 133 - The Dating Commandments (Part 1) Feb 27, 2018

You asked, we listened! Brian releases part one of his definitive list of **Dating Commandments** - the 10 things you MUST do to change your life, date better, increase your appeal, grow a relationship, and find lasting love!

GLD 132 - Wants & Needs Feb 19, 2018

The Debate Team takes on all your hopes, dreams, hangups, desires, and, a long list of wants and needs! What it means to be a complete person, what a great partner can really do, how to decide what really fulfills, the role of sex in a relationship, and what is the healthiest recipe for growing love!

GLD 131 - The Narcissist Reality Feb 12, 2018

Are you dating a narcissist? Brian is joined by "Prison Letters' host Dr. Mark Goulston and leading confidence specialist Kim Seltzer to debate the answer. The warning signs, the false alarms, the keys to avoidance, the misinformation, the points of origin, the hidden triggers, the polar opposite, and how to take control of any situation!

GLD 130 - How Much, How Soon Feb 05, 2018

“The Margarita Confessionals” hosts Lauren Levine and Ali Washburn join Brian to debate the importance of information, how to do your homework, the best way to screen potential dates, what characteristics are crucial, the ways we overthink things, why ignorance can be bliss, and how much their past should influence your future!

GLD 129 - #MeToo Mailbag Jan 29, 2018

The Debate Team heads to Charlotte, NC and opens up a special #MeToo Mailbag filled with a passionate selection of Listener Letters - the perils of flattery, the truth about mansplaining, balancing your present with her past, the new rules for workplace behavior, the hidden price of happiness, and much, much more!

GLD 128 - Save The Males Jan 22, 2018

Where do we go from here? A most important episode - "Your Love Accomplice" Christina Weber joins Brian and The Debate Team to unravel the dangerous dating disconnect, where it stems from, the repercussions of a reaction, working through the pain, learning from each other, the right to be heard, the need to listen, and how to bridge the divide. A refreshing burst of healing and hope to collectively move forward!

GLD 127 - So You Wanna Get Married Jan 15, 2018

Professional Bridesmaid Jen Glantz joins The Debate Team to talk about her latest book, the state of modern marriage, bad bride behavior, what can go wrong on a wedding day, and why things may not always be as they seem. Plus, Brian explains why the question "Why are you still single?" is the greatest compliment of all!

GLD 126 - Making Your Move Jan 08, 2018

Is it time to make the move of a lifetime? Brian & The Debate Team are joined by America's Leading Confidence Expert Kim Seltzer to lay out the ultimate decision designed to shake things up, make real change, and find new love! Stop thinking a few spin classes or half-hearted resolutions are going to make a difference, now is the time for a smart - and real - breakthrough!

GLD 125 - Train Your Men Dec 25, 2017

Brian unveils his groundbreaking and controversial "Require & Reward" method for getting what you want from your guy and from your relationship; and is joined by "America's Wingwoman" Erin Davis to discuss setting the course, raising the bar, and reaping the benefits of lasting love! Plus, The Debate Team decides who would be more difficult to date - Siri or Alexa?

GLD 124 - Mistletoe Mailbag Dec 18, 2017

The Debate Team unwraps a feisty and festive batch of Listener Letters just in time for the holidays! What gifts really mean, how to handle family, which invitations mean trouble, why office party fun can lead to long-term problems - and much, much more!

GLD 123 - America's Best & Worst For 2017 Dec 11, 2017

It's time to hand out the awards for the Year in LOVE! Brian & The Debate Team unveil the best cities, worst cities, most dateable women, least dateable men, most improved, kinkiest, top trends, best dating site, and much, much more as we look back on a crazy year in dating!

GLD 122 - Clarity, Hope, & The Right To Be Loved Dec 04, 2017

"Safe To Love Again" author Dr. Gary Salyer & love guru Peggy Bennett join Brian & The Debate Team in Seattle to talk releasing past pain, discovering the path to be cherished, healing one's inner child, why joy matters, and unlocking the keys to your heart - and someone else's!

GLD 121 - Dating Depression Nov 26, 2017

"Prison Letters" host Dr. Mark joins The Debate Team to tackle holiday funks, love lethargy, dating PTSD, emotional pendulums, escaping the darkness, and finding the relationship light!

GLD 120 - Los Angeles Live Audience Show! Nov 20, 2017

The Great Love Debate tour returns to the world-famous Hollywood Improv where Brian is joined by some of LA's most dynamic & hilarious personalities - and a couple hundred of its finest and feistiest guys & gals for another wild live audience show!

GLD 119 - Love & Laughter Nov 13, 2017

"Figuring It Out" hosts Candi Clare and Steve Lipman join Brian in New York City to answer Listener Letters on laughter and love! What's too much, too weird, too soon, and too challenging when it comes to balancing the fun and the funny!

GLD 118 - Naming Names with AJ Benza Nov 06, 2017

Legendary gossip columnist, best-selling author, and host of E!’s “Mysteries and Scandals” A. J. Benza sits down with Brian to share stories, compare notes, drop names, and dish the dirt on Hollywood’s biggest stars - Donald Trump, Madonna, Kim Kardashian, Harvey Weinstein, Paris Hilton, Jeremy Piven, Mickey Rourke, David Blaine, Chris Noth, Brett Ratner, Camille Grammer, John Gotti, and many more! Our most revealing episode ever.

GLD 117 - "Criminal Minds" Star Kirsten Vangsness Oct 30, 2017

"Criminal Minds" star Kirsten Vangsness joins The Debate Team to talk about exploring sexuality, expressing affection, what love looks like, finding one's identity, the real difference between dating a man and dating a woman, and the benefits of being a big-time TV star!

GLD 116 - The Whole Truth Oct 23, 2017

Academy Award Winner Tatum O’Neal joins Brian for a heart-to-heart on sexual harassment, Hollywood hypocrisy, the danger of #MeToo, personal experiences, where America went wrong, how we can heal, and a path to build hope for the future.

GLD 115 - Remasculating America Oct 16, 2017

Brian heads to Denver to explore why so many American men have lost their "testicular fortitude" when it comes to dating. How the guys got off track, what's holding them back, why it's time to step it up, what they can do to get their manly mojo back, and what's really hiding behind all those beards and flannel!

GLD 114 - Sex, Lies, & Family Members Oct 09, 2017

Brian and “Your Love Accomplice” host Christina Weber hook up at the Hollywood Improv to take on a fresh batch of Listener Letters! Interesting takes on lusting after in-laws, male pregnancy scares, absolving guilt, the price of forgiveness, setting boundaries, how much is too much, and a whole bunch more!

GLD 113 - Changing Your Mind Oct 02, 2017

Is it possible to hack your brain to find love? The Debate Team shows you that it's possible! How to jump-start your thinking, the best ways to rewire your emotions, the keys to shifting your mindset, and the thought process that will make your love come to life!

GLD 112 - Get Exactly What You Want Sep 25, 2017

The Debate Team heads to Seattle to reveal how to get the answers you seek, what questions really matter, how to jump-start your love mojo, when guys finally grow up, what women need to do better, and the one decision everyone needs to make right now!

GLD 111 - Love, Loss, & Las Vegas Sep 18, 2017

The Debate Team hits Sin City for a special show from the Las Vegas Strip! Brian is joined by Vegas Insider & Relationship Realist Zoey D'Arienzo to shed light on living with regret, letting things go, starting over again, bad vacation behavior, the best way to say goodbye, and how to discover what it means to really be real.

GLD 110 - Debunking Dating Myths Sep 12, 2017

Brian & "Your Love Accomplice" host Christina Weber team up to take on - and take down - the dating industry by dispelling and disproving some prevalent myths, mistakes, and misinformation. Plus, The Debate Team kicks off two new ways for listeners to engage with the GLD on a deeper and more intimate level!

GLD 109 - The Simplest Solution Sep 04, 2017

Brian is joined by Style & Confidence Guru Kim Seltzer to talk about the one change everyone should make, what we secretly want from each other, the shortest route to your partner's happiness, communicating concerns confidently, the science of attraction, and what attributes are timeless. Plus, Brian shares how you can create your own podcast!

GLD 108 - Sexy Time With Becca Tobin & Jaclyn Marfuggi Aug 28, 2017

"Glee" star Becca Tobin returns along with comedian Jaclyn Marfuggi to take on sexy Listener Letters! Add more sex to her style, less sex to your salutations, crazy climaxes, how to call her back, the art of getting him to the altar, and more!

GLD 107 - James Altucher Aug 21, 2017

The fascinating James Altucher joins The Debate Team in NYC to talk pushing boundaries, owning your past, reinventing yourself, taking risks, enjoying the ride, the value of failure, the definition of success, and finding hope in the hopeless!

GLD 106 - Dating Addiction Aug 14, 2017

Brian and The Debate Team are joined by "Making Love Great Again" author DeAnna Lorraine and the First Couple of Love Thomas Edwards & Laurie Davis Edwards to dive into digital dating addiction - what causes it, why it's different for men versus women, how to properly and patiently deal with it, and when it can become a real problem. Plus, Brian reveals the hidden cause of the modern dating disconnect!

GLD 105 - "The Bachelor" Nick Viall & More - Live in Hollywood! Aug 06, 2017

“The Bachelor” Nick Viall & Oscar Winner Tatum O’Neal join Brian and an on-stage lineup of GLD faves LIVE in front of a sold-out crowd at the world-famous Hollywood Improv! A special (and wild) show full of surprises, shocks, laughs, and LOVE!

GLD 104 - Damn You, Taylor Swift Jul 31, 2017

The Debate Team hits Seattle for a very special edition of Listener Letters to answer pressing questions on sex with your boss, the importance of intuition, dating gay men, the right time to make the right move, and why Taylor Swift truly matters in matters of love!

GLD 103 - The End Of The Friend Zone Jul 24, 2017

Ultimate Wingman founder Samantha Ross joins The Debate Team to take a deep dive into the The Friend Zone - why it is wider and deeper than ever, how to avoid it, why it is different from women than for men, how to break free of it, how to use it to your advantage, and how we can close it permanently. Plus, Brian defines the perfect friendship/relationship symbiosis!

GLD 102 - Tatum O'Neal Jul 17, 2017

Hollywood icon & Academy Award winner Tatum O'Neal joins The Debate Team to talk celebrity crushes, dating in Hollywood, overcoming obstacles, healing old wounds, learning to embrace intimacy, battling public perception, sloppy kisses, and where she keeps her Oscar!

GLD 101 - The Perfect Profile Jul 10, 2017

Top Confidence Specialist Kim Seltzer & Albert's List founder Albert Qian join The Debate Team to create the perfect dating profile in real time! Learn how a mindset makeover can make all the difference, why perception matters, the best way to sell yourself, and the exact formula to finding love online - and off!

GLD 100 - How To Break Up Jul 03, 2017

Everything you need to know about getting out and moving on! Comedians Allison Goldberg & Jen Jamula and Underground Unattached CEO Christina Weber join The Debate Team to share the benefits of breaking up, the secret upside of ghosting, the challenges of texting, avoiding bad endings, the best ways to transition to the next, and much more! Plus, Brian reveals the perfect solution to get out of any relationship!

GLD 099 - Couples Questions Jun 26, 2017

Brian & The Debate Team answer questions from current couples - and gives you answers to everything you need to fall into a new relationship, stay in a great relationship, and get out of the wrong relationship! Learning to share, the value of counseling, the art of compromise, the challenges of curiosity, ignoring the noise, and much more!

GLD 098 - Krista Allen Jun 19, 2017

Actress Krista Allen joins The Debate Team to dish about dating famous men, finding yourself as a woman, gaining confidence in Hollywood, the differences between performing scripted and unscripted, handling unwanted attention, and the best way to attract a celebrity!

GLD 097 - Alison Haislip Jun 12, 2017

TV personality Alison Haislip ("The Voice", "BattleBots", "American Ninja Warrior") makes an encore visit to talk about the importance of pop culture compatibility, finding a match through music, the importance of compromise, why wine matters, and what it's like to be a "Price is Right" Showcase Showdown Winner!

GLD 096 - Family Matters Jun 05, 2017

"Mom vs Matchmaker" star Carmelia Ray and "Making Love Great Again" author Deanna Lorraine join The Debate Team to discuss the challenges of family in relationships, do parents really know best, bridging the generational disconnect, overcoming meddling moms and dads, the motivations of in-laws, and why Brian isn't dating Charlize Theron!

GLD 095 - The Minds Of Men May 29, 2017

"Talking To Crazy" Author Dr. Mark Goulston joins The Debate Team to take a deep dive into the male mind, why men don't trust, key ways that guys can learn to open up, and how to avoid the intersection of fear and anger. Plus, listen in to a little live therapy on Brian and media personality James Michael Sama!

GLD 094 - "The Bachelorette" Desiree Hartsock & Chris Siegfried May 22, 2017

Happy couple Desiree & Chris from ABC's "The Bachelorette" join The Debate Team in Seattle to share the keys to discovering a connection, compartmentalizing emotion, beating the odds, embracing confidence, learning to love, maximizing opportunities, and winning in the world of reality tv!

GLD 093 - Listener Letters May 15, 2017

The Debate Team dives into the mailbag with the help of top relationship blogger James Michael Sama and media personality Lauren Leonelli to reveal the absolute best first date idea, which movies accurately showcase the reality of love, the one thing a woman should never worry about, why the friend zone is a dead zone, and more! Plus, Brian details the best way to get the GLD tour to come to your city!

GLD 092 - The Best Men Ever May 08, 2017

Brian reveals his controversial new theory on the dating disconnect, and The Debate Team is joined by personal growth guru Traci Porterfield to dig into the state of the modern man, the rise of the independent woman, the first steps to love, the barriers to romance, the importance of owning your energy, and how everyone can transform their dating destiny!

GLD 091 - How To Be Loved May 01, 2017

The Debate Team wraps up its three-part “How To Be…” series by revealing How To Be Loved! Why we all deserve love, how to get ready to receive it, cultural obstacles to obtaining it, changes to make to attract it, the unique challenges of introverts, the fears of men, the wishes of women, and the one single word that is the key to everything!

GLD 090 - How To Be Married Apr 24, 2017

Best-selling author Jo Piazza joins The Debate Team to talk about her new book “How To Be Married” and reveals what she learned from real women on five continents about making love last, the changes she had to make to find happiness, and the biggest differences between dating someone and being married to them. Plus, Jo’s husband Nick Aster shares how to calm rocky relationship waters, their wildest wedded adventure, and why you can find love where you least expect it!

GLD 089 - How To Be Happy Apr 17, 2017

Legendary love guru Julie Ferman joins The Debate Team to explore the pursuit of happiness, the business of love, why the best catches are in their 40s, the most significant dates, and how one smile can change everything.

GLD 088 - Women's Writes Apr 10, 2017

The Debate Team is joined by TV personality Julie Alexandria and matchmaker Erin Davis to take on Listener Letters from the ladies! Find out all the answers on the dangers of settling, the reality of manifesting, the importance of chemistry, and why the dream might not match the reality!

GLD 087 - Real Naked Love Apr 03, 2017

We strip it all down as VH1’s “Dating Naked” host Amy Paffrath, Fox Sports’ Julie Alexandria, and matchmaker Erin Davis join The Debate Team to talk first date deal-breakers, the best part of getting naked, the lost art of phone calls, how to make a long-distance relationship last, the challenges of pursuing a performer, and more!

GLD 086 - The Greatest Love Of All Mar 27, 2017

What does Self-Love really mean? Christina Weber from Underground Unattached joins Brian and The Debate Team to take on the trickiest of topics - why it's important, where to start, how to find it, the keys to creating it, the best way to define it, and why the journey is as important as the discovery!

GLD 085 - Pat O'Brien Mar 20, 2017

Legendary TV host Pat O’Brien joins The Debate Team to talk about life in the spotlight, how to get up from a fall, the art of being confident, the road from addiction to sobriety, and how to become the ultimate insider!

GLD 084 - Great Love Coaching Mar 16, 2017

You asked for it, you got it! Brian & celebrity dating coach Laurel House debut an exciting and innovative new series of products designed to kickstart your heart, jump start your love life, increase your confidence, and get you back in the game!

GLD 083 - The State Of The Online Date Mar 12, 2017

The Debate Team tackles the current online dating landscape with help from Laurel House (E!’s “Famously Single) and Lauren Leonelli (AfterBuzzTV’s “Its Complicated). Find out how to get the most from your online dating experience – all the biggest and best sites and apps, which ones to completely avoid, obstacles to finding success, how to jump in as a first-time user, and much more!

GLD 082- The Male Room Mar 06, 2017

In an all-male episode of the GLD Mailbag, Men's Dating Gurus Deanna Lorraine & David Wygant join The Debate Team to give answers on how to get out of the friend zone, the best way to kiss a woman, how to approach serious relationship issues, pursuing a co-worker, the best ways to create a memorable date, and more!

GLD 081- Leading Social Strategist David Wygant Feb 27, 2017

Top social strategist David Wygant and media personality Jenifer Golden join The Debate Team to break down the roadblocks to a real relationship, how to flirt as a man, the changes women need to make in their mindset, and the best ways to discover a meaningful connection. Plus, Brian gives the definitive take on Warren Beatty and the Academy Awards, and shares what it's really like to attend the Oscars!

GLD 080 - Thirtysomething Love Feb 21, 2017

Dating gurus Erin Davis and Rachel Russo join Brian in NYC to dish on why dating is different in your thirties, the benefits of being a late bloomer, how soon to have serious talks, and the best time to have the best sex!

GLD 079 - Sex And New York City Feb 12, 2017

Best-selling authors Melanie Notkin and Jon Birger join Brian in his hometown of New York City to dish about love in the Big Apple, the challenges of dating over 30, where to find the good men, the price women pay for independence, the benefits of a issuing an ultimatum, and the three words nobody wants to hear on a date!

GLD 078 - Listener Letters Feb 07, 2017

Comedian Andrea Carlisle joins The Debate Team to answer Listener Letters! We take on how soon to reveal personal issues, how much communication is too much, the art of online correspondence, why game-playing is dead, and more! PLUS, another GLD couple gets engaged!

GLD 077 - Live Hollywood Show! Feb 04, 2017

Brian and a sold-out crowd at the world-famous Hollywood Improv are joined by some of LA's most dynamic personalities to take on love, sex, dating, relationships, and a whole lot more at this hilarious and feisty live audience show!

GLD 076 - Kaitlyn Bristowe from "The Bachelor" Jan 30, 2017

TV's favorite Bachelorette Kaitlyn Bristowe surprises The Debate Team with some shocking show revelations, smart advice on being authentic, the differences between dating in your 20s versus in your 30s, how to be real on reality TV, and what's ahead in love and life for her and Shawn!

GLD 075 - eHarmony CEO Grant Langston Jan 22, 2017

eHarmony CEO Grant Langston joins The Debate Team to discuss the current state of online dating, the most important ingredients for discovering your soulmate, what really factors into a successful connection, how to get the most out of your experience, the biggest changes when it comes to communication, and what's ahead in the search for love. Plus, Grant shares one of the greatest (and strangest) first date stories ever!

GLD 074 - Valentine's Mailbag Jan 17, 2017

The Debate Team answers listener questions and explains why Valentine's Day is less significant this year, why Facebook is a dating site, the importance of intuition, making a mistake with movie date, and how all guys can compete with The Bachelor!

Best of GLD: Ross Mathews Jan 09, 2017

Everyone's BFF the always fun and hilarious Ross Mathews joins The Debate Team to share gossip from the Tonight Show, his hopes for a Fat Bachelor, favorite childhood crushes - and Ross plays Celebrity Matchmaker for Brian!

GLD 073 - Celebrity Matchmaker Alessandra Conti Jan 03, 2017

Celebrity Matchmaker Alessandra Conti joins The Debate Team to talk about resolutions, rebounds, making changes that matter, finding success in the New Year, how to date like you're on "The Bachelor", and the best place to find new love! Plus - Brian shares a personal peek into Debbie Reynolds' love life and heartbreak.

Best of GLD: Stassi Schroeder From "Vanderpump Rules" Dec 23, 2016

Voted one of the year's favorite episodes! The fabulous Stassi Schroeder from Bravo's "Vanderpump Rules" joins The Debate Team to reveal what it's like to date on a reality show, whether men are truly trainable, and the best time to get married. PLUS, our friend Dr. Karin calls in to talk about her new book...and why single is the new black!

GLD 072 - One Night In Bangkok Dec 18, 2016

The GLD’s Far East swing hits Thailand with a special show from the iconic Mandarin Oriental in Bangkok! The Debate Team explores the symmetry between spirituality and sexuality, the importance of life/work balance, the difference between needed and needy, the darkest side of loneliness and rejection, and why the dynamic between men and women can define a culture.

GLD 071 - The Great Love Debate Goes to China! Dec 16, 2016

The Great Love Debate World Tour kicks off its swing through Asia with a special show from Shanghai! The Debate Team weighs in on what we can learn from Chinese men and women, some big advantages they have when it comes to dating, ways to get turned on in a porn-free world, why culture can lead to connection - and one very big Shanghai Surprise!

GLD 070 - The Year In Love Dec 05, 2016

The Debate Team is joined by some very special guests to wrap up The Year In Love! We name The Most Improved Dating City, the trouble with 2016, what's ahead for relationships, some surprises for 2017, how to perfect a proposal, the hottest trends in sex, and the one thing everyone can do to guarantee that love is their future!

Best of GLD: Dating Sober Nov 29, 2016

In this classic episode from 2015, Comedian Greg Fitzimmons, Jennifer Gimenez from "Celebrity Rehab" & "RHOBH, and Top Motivational Coach James Swanwick join The Debate Team to share the joys of sober sex, the dangers of drunken dating, and why "rock-bottom" might involve a whole lot of pancakes.

GLD 069 - Healing Heartbreak Nov 22, 2016

America's Leading Confidence Specialist Kim Seltzer joins The Debate Team to talk about bouncing back from breakups, handling the heartbreak, regaining your mojo, assessing the damage, and how to go from hurting to healing!

Best of GLD: How To Man Up Nov 15, 2016

In this classic show which Medium named one of the "Top 10 Podcast Episodes of 2016", Brian & celebrity dating coach Laurel House reveal the all secrets to being a better dater! Your compete guide to taking a chance, throwing out the rules, improving your odds, the best pickup lines - and how to master the art of the compliment.

GLD 068 - Great Love Mailbag Nov 06, 2016

The Debate Team takes on the tough relationship questions by answering listener emails! How to move from first date to exclusively dating, the best question to ask to determine your status, overcoming male insecurity, why there's no such thing as a "dating expert," and the truth about ultimatums!

GLD 067 - Trishelle Cannatella Oct 30, 2016

MTV "Real World" star Trishelle Cannatella joins The Debate Team to talk about finding real love, getting hit on by celebrities, why being a good poker player helps with dating, and the repercussions of sex on reality TV. Plus, Brian and Trishelle reminisce about how they first met, and share their classic Ashton Kutcher stories!

Best of GLD: Brandi Glanville Oct 23, 2016

In this classic GLD episode, "Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills" Star Brandi Glanville stops by to compare notes on dating in LA, body insecurities, what's not sexy for a guy to do, and reveal some of her dating disasters; plus best-selling author Dr. Mark Goulston joins in to teach The Debate Team "how to talk to crazy"!

GLD 066 - Republicans, Democrats, & Dealing With Differences Oct 17, 2016

Author & Comedian Sunda Croonquist joins The Debate Team to discuss making a relationship last, what differences are dealbreakers, the definition of addiction, the realities of religion, and the key to compromise. Plus, Brian reveals the truth about Election Season sex and Republican/Democrat love!

GLD 065 - Los Angeles Live Audience Show Oct 12, 2016

Brian hosts a wild live audience show at the World-Famous Hollywood Improv where nothing was off limits! Questions, answers, challenges, solutions, quirks, preferences, problems, pressures, privileges, PLUS the fastest way to a man's heart, and the foolproof way to get any woman's attention!

GLD 064 - Dr. John Gray Talks Mars & Venus Today Oct 07, 2016

The legendary Dr. John Gray joins The Debate Team to discuss the impact of his book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus," the blurring of gender roles, the shifting dating landscape, the physiological effects of modern technology, how to be in a healthy relationship, and why being good at ping-pong can unlock the secrets of love! Plus, renowned relationship guru Peggy Wolman joins in to debate the challenges of dating after 50...and where the answers can be found.

GLD 063 - Get Your Head Out Of Your Apps! Sep 30, 2016

“Two Drunk Girls” star Jenifer Golden joins Brian and The Debate Team to take on listener questions and reveal what makes an expert dater, when to avoid online dating, the importance of being a truly nice guy, when a girl needs her wallet, and how to keep him interested beyond sex!

GLD 062 - Real Love & Reality Lies Sep 28, 2016

“Reality Life” host & pop culture guru Kate Casey joins The Debate Team to break down the breakup of Brangelina, tell some tough truths about TV love, and dish the dating dirt on your favorite reality contestants, couples, and shows!

GLD 061 - Where All The Good Men Are Sep 18, 2016

Brian and The Debate Team take a deep dive into dating demographics to reveal why there are more good men than at any time in history, the truth about statistics, where to go to find your mate, the best way to meet your best match, the real reason women have trouble identifying quality men, the difference between a good guy and a nice guy, and the one easy (and necessary) change to solve your dating dilemmas. Plus, we examine Jon Birger's terrific book "Date-Onomics: How Dating Became A Lopsided Numbers Game"!

GLD 060 - Jealousy, Judgment, & Envy Sep 11, 2016

Americas #1 Dating Makeover Expert Kim Seltzer joins The Debate Team to talk about the danger of comparing yourself to others, judging a book by its cover, owning your greatest weakness, overcoming insecurity, discovering your true strengths, and the fastest ways to change you dating fortunes!

GLD 059 - LIVE Audience Show From the Hollywood Improv! Sep 03, 2016

Five of the biggest names in dating & entertainment joined Brian on-stage for a wild Hollywood night where nothing was held back! A sold-out Los Angeles crowd got their crack to dish on all things love, sex, and showbiz - including the most unique pick-up line ever attempted!

GLD 058 - Summer Love Mailbag Aug 26, 2016

Christina Weber from Underground Unattached joins The Debate Team to empty the summer mailbag of listener questions - how to cure the problem of persistent pickiness, how (and when) to first say "I love you," the best way to find your self-esteem, what you can do to stand out in a crowd, when it's okay to date an ex, how to guarantee a second date, and much, much more!

GLD 057 - Make Love To Yourself Aug 24, 2016

Fitness Guru Rebecca Louise joins the Debate Team to discuss how to remake yourself in 10 minutes, overcoming body issues, the strongest step towards making a change, the importance of lifestyle compatibility, the sexiness of certain cars, creating positive habits, finding an accountability partner, quickie workouts you can do it bed, the best way to kick-start confidence, the hotness of modern mannequins, hopes for a British fitness renaissance, and why you should never step on a scale!

GLD 056 - Bouncing Back & Being A BFF Aug 23, 2016

Actress and best-selling author Cerina Vincent joins The Debate Team to discuss waking up with purpose, bouncing back from heartbreak, dealing with divorce, the source of female dating neuroses, the secret benefit of beauty pageants, making meaningful connections, being a great girlfriend (and a great girl friend!), hitting the snooze button on the biological clock, battling body image, and redefining what it means to be "a hot chick."

Best of GLD: Jillian Barberie Aug 21, 2016

Outrageous TV Personality Jillian Barberie joins The Debate Team to talk about owning your independence, taking risks, finding love, discovering your identity, using your sexuality, and the genius of Howard Stern. Plus, our Lead Love Expert Dr. Karin calls in to discuss the differences, challenges, and benefits of dating in your 40s!

GLD 055 - Cheaters & Liars & Bastards & Bitches Aug 17, 2016

America's Leading Relationship Therapist Anita Chlipala and Radio Personality Cara Carriveau join The Debate Team to tackle the tough topics - how to prevent cheating, how to address it, how to move forward, and how to heal from it; the benefits of therapy, the right questions to ask, the wrong reactions and responses, the keys to healthy communication, and the most important ingredient to find and maintain a relationship filled with trust, honesty, and love!

GLD 054 - Sex, Love, & Social Media Aug 15, 2016

Emmy Award-winning TV host Zuri Hall from E! news joins The Debate Team to discuss dating in the public eye, controlling your personal image, being an Alpha Babe, sharing your secrets on social media, the truth about celebrity couples, the relationship realities of Jennifer Aniston and George Clooney, the 5 most important ingredients for love, the meaning of "crossing the border," and why you should never touch a black woman's head! Plus, Brian and Laurel share some embarrassing sexual history!

LOVE BITES - Ep. 1 Aug 10, 2016

5 of our favorite famous friends - Artem Chigvintsev from "Dancing With the Stars", Becca Tobin from "Glee", Neal Fraser from "Top Chef Masters", "Significant Mother" star Krista Allen, and MADTv's Jill-Michele Melean - joined The Debate Team at the fabulous Redbird restaurant in Downtown Los Angeles to kick off our "Love Bites' series, where we dine and drink and dish about dating!

GLD 053 - #DateMe Creator Robyn Lynne Norris Aug 07, 2016

#DateMe creator and star Robyn Lynne Norris joins Brian to compare notes on creating a hit show, conducting a great social experiment, the keys to a winning online profile, what men are really looking for in a woman, how to increasing your dating confidence, the importance of discovering yourself, and the surprising things people can’t live without!

GLD 052 - Dating Douchebags Aug 03, 2016

Personal Branding Expert Jessica Zweig and Radio Personality Cara Carriveau join Brian for a special show from Chicago to dish about dating the wrong guys, recognizing the right ones, taking ownership of your relationship fate, discovering yourself, the key to a winning relationship, what it means to be a babe, and why every guy is truly trainable!

GLD 051 - Comedian & TV Host Kate Quigley Jul 27, 2016

The hilarious and beautiful Kate Quigley joins The Debate Team to reveal the reality of Facebook friendships, the challenges of dating a porn star, the insanity of auditioning for The Bachelor, getting revenge on an ex, the art of shocking the public, how to discover your true identity, and the best way to rock a bikini!

GLD 050 - Sex, Crushes, & Fan Questions! Jul 25, 2016

The Debate Team pays tribute to the legendary "Loveline" and answers listener emails! We reveal the best questions to ask on Tinder, our celebrity crushes, the differences between dating in Europe versus America, what to wear to attract a mate, how to defend against self-sabotage, our thoughts on morning sex, which city has the coolest women, and who is the most well-endowed man in Hollywood!

Best of GLD: E! "Hashtaggers" Stars Jul 25, 2016

E! "Hashtaggers" stars Kim Crossman & Peet Guercio stop by to talk about honing your "personal brand" in the search for love, kissing co-stars, lonely Saturday nights, and how improv skills can improve your dating!

GLD 049 - Celebrity Dating Jul 22, 2016

Brian & Laurel go behind the scenes of celebrity dating - being exposed in the public eye, the relationship realities of Taylor Swift, dealing with industry insecurity, the danger of going too public too soon, the truth about fairy tales, finding love under the Hollywood glare, taking the walk of shame, the greatest birthday gift ever, and what it means to be “Famously Single"!

GLD 042 - DWTS Pros Artem & Emma Jul 22, 2016

Dancing with the Stars pros Artem Chingvintsev and Emma Slater stop by to share secrets from the show, how celebrity hookups happen, the similarities between dating and dancing, how to find inner confidence, what to look for in a partner on and off the dance floor, and the best ways to use your body to get what you want!

Best of GLD: Becca Tobin from "Glee" Jul 21, 2016

Becca Tobin from FOX's "Glee" and Maria Thayer from TruTV's "Those Who Can't" join The Debate Team to discuss how much of dating is "performance," going out with homeless men, which signs are best at sex, why dating actors is a bad idea, the importance of therapy, how to get kicked out of school, and share the two greatest first/worst date stories of all time!

Best of GLD: Ali Fedotowsky Jul 20, 2016

Bachelorette Ali Fedotowsky joins The Debate Team to spill the secrets of “The Bachelor”, what really goes on in the Fantasy Suite, how to get cast on the show, and why love sometimes works on its own timetable. Plus, Brian reveals the missing ingredient that The Bachelor needs, and Celebrity Dating Coach Laurel House explains the importance of chivalry - and why dating a wealthy man isn’t what it’s cracked up to be!

Best of GLD: First Dates w/ Laurel House Jul 20, 2016

Brian is joined by Laurel House from E!s "Famously Single" to get feisty about First Dates as they debate recognizing opportunities, exploring possibilities, setting expectations, meeting goals, eliminating games, breaking rules, finding the spark, the best and worst ways to end an evening, and how to get from first date to Happy Anniversary!

Best of GLD: Dr. Drew Jul 20, 2016

Legendary Loveline host & TV icon Dr Drew Pinsky joins The Debate Team at Adam Carolla Studios in Los Angeles to talk about love, hope, addiction, and how a little crazy can be a good thing!

GLD 048 - Recording Artist Jana Anderson Jul 20, 2016

Recording artist Jana Anderson joins Brian Howie for a unique one-on-one from Hideaway Studios in Minneapolis to share her experiences with Prince, Don Henley, and Fleetwood Mac, the meaning of unconditional love, the magic of duets, the wrong way to give a hug, romances on the road, and why we need to love each other the way we love our dogs!

GLD 047 - Lori Gottlieb Jul 19, 2016

Controversial Best-Selling Author Lori Gottlieb joins The Debate Team to talk about the meaning of settling, the dangers of marrying too young, the key decisions to make on your dating path, being single in your 40s, the truth about egg-freezing, and what really matters for finding a real connection and lasting love!

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