The Flexible Neurotic

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Midlife's 10 Things! May 16, 2024

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Calling all midlifers! Today I'm reviewing my first year as a half-empty nest mom. Ugh! In this 15 min quickie, I have so many thoughts and questions that I know you're probably having too… So, in the regular Flexible Neurotic style I'm getting honest and vulnerable in this solo mini-sode. With one kid (teen son) in college and the other finishing her junior year of high school, I'm feeling all the feels. This was a "year-of-firsts" (kid in college) in so many ways and next year will be another "year-of-lasts" (last high school prom), ugh again! Teen daughter will be graduating from high school. If you are a midlifer, empty-nester, and/or generally feeling like "WTF?" about midlife, this episode is definitely for you.

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a new solo episode called "Midlife's 10 Things". In this episode I am recapping my ten "take aways" from my first year as a half empty-nester. I'm getting into all the questions I ask myself on a daily basis, including why is my kid not texting me back? And am I over ordering on Amazon as a coping mechanism? Yep, we're getting real today. Get ready for the Midlife 10 Things, you won't want to miss this mini-sode.

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Midlife Body Aches & Frozen Shoulder May 09, 2024

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EP 118: Are you a midlife woman experiencing intense shoulder pain? I was! Does your body just ache? Mine does. Is your doctor suggesting it's just a pickle-ball injury or you just gotta push through the midlife grind? Mine was too! (even though I don't play pickle-ball, lol) Are you knee deep digging through google for answers to why you can't f*kn move your arms? Look no further because today's guest has all the answers you are looking for about Frozen Shoulder, AKA Adhesive Capsulitis, the real medical term. And, the midlife "aches and pains" is called Arthralgia.

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an educational conversation called "Midlife Body Aches & Frozen Shoulder". My repeat guest, Dr. Vonda Wright is a double board-certified orthopedic surgeon, best selling author and sought after speaker, empowering and educating women on longevity and health practices. I got so many messages about Frozen Shoulder that I asked her to come back and do a special episode answering all of your unanswered questions. We get into everything from the causes, treatments and prevention of Frozen Shoulder in midlife. And, we get into the midlife "aches and pains"! You won't want to miss this episode.

Listen to my previous experience and solo episode about Frozen Shoulder here: Snap, Crackle & Pop… Mystery Pains

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to check out my previous episode with Dr. Vonda Wright. Lift Heavy Sh*t In Midlife

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Midlife Hacks & Habits May 02, 2024

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EP 117: Midlife philosophy, marriage, health and action steps. Ready for a little midlife motivation from the midlife health queen herself? My guest tells us what it means to "live life from the inside out", a practice that she embraces for connecting to her inner voice and taking necessary action steps. Looking for a midlife lifestyle reset? Ready to embrace a mindset that promotes ease and intuition? Wanna talk about midlife marriage? Then this episode is definitely for you!

This week we are diving back into The Flexible Neurotic archive to bring you the juicy information that you might have forgotten about from the full length episode. This week is another golden-nugget recap quickie and short minisode on all things midlife health, wellness and relationships. Let's call them hacks. I'm revisiting a conversation that I had with fellow midlife hottie, Abbie Crane. She knows all things physical, mental and nutritional health. She is an integrated health coach, brand marketer, nutrition enthusiast and mother and today she is sharing her midlife mindset, marriage and health tips.

Enjoy this minisode, then dive into the full episode, where we get into so much more detail on Abbie's midlife experience in a two part episode Midlife's 10 Things… Freedom For Reinvention In Self-Awareness, Marriage, Nutrition & Empty Nest.

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Midlife Mojo ASAP! Apr 25, 2024

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EP 116: As a midlife woman, do you want to find a "thing", a passion, something that makes you feel connected to yourself and others? Me too! This mini episode has some serious and practical nuggets for you! Get ready for a step-by-step guide to reclaiming your time and creativity in the second half of our lives. My midlife hottie guest shares all the details of her research on cultivating creativity and framing what she calls our unicorn space, in midlife.

This week we are doing another quick golden nugget mini-sode excerpt from my past conversation with New York Times best-selling author, Eve Rodksy. Today might be the day where you "get unstuck" and find the "thing" or take the first step on the "thing". This is crucial for meaning and joy in midlife. We want time for passions and hobbies and midlife magic but we just don't know where to fuck*n start.

Enjoy this mini-sode, then dive into the full episode, where we get into so much more of Eve's research. Finding Your Midlife Thing. A Step-By-Step Plan and You Don't Have To Do It All To Have It All With Eve Rodsky.

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Big Feelings… Real Tools Apr 18, 2024

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EP 115: Parenting hormonal teens while battling hormones yourself?! Me too! You are not alone there and according to parenting expert Dr. Lisa Damour there are some tools in teaching them to navigate "big feelings", while maintaining you are own sense of equilibrium, as a parent. Honestly, this was an amazing reminder for myself and I know that so many of you parents will be able to relate. Let's face it, on top of working a career or being a "stay at home mom" or quasi or full "empty nester and mid-lifing, it's also our job to set our kids up for emotional success by giving them the tools for self expression and emotional regulation. These are the tools they will carry with them their whole lives and Dr. Lisa is here to break it down for us.

This week we are doing another quick golden nugget mini-sode excerpt from The Flexible Neurotic Archive. This conversation was with Dr. Lisa Damour, a recognized thought leader by the American Psychological Association. She's a best selling author, speaker and host of the podcast, Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting. This conversation is always a good one to come back to on parenting teens and helping them manage their emotions, while we manage our own.

Check out this minisode, then dive into the full episode, where we get into so much more on parenting, the teenage hormonal stew, and building strong connections with your kids. "Midlife Parents Managing The Teenage Buffet Of "Big Feelings"... Real Tools!"

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THE FLEXIBLE NEUROTIC SHOW NOTES: https://www.theflexibleneurotic.com/episodes/115

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Reverse Cellular Aging In A Bottle Apr 11, 2024

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EP 114: One pill to help reverse cellular aging? Duh! Sign me up. Ready to sleep better, feel better, reduce inflammation, have thicker hair and a million other things? I know the obvious answer is yes… but there's more. Are you sick of taking a million supplements in the morning and wondering why we haven't just created one magic supplement with so much that we need? Then this episode is definitely for you! I know you've heard of omega 3, fatty acids and fish oil, but let me introduce to you C15:0 the supplement you never knew you needed. I know what you're thinking… sign me the f**k up. According to Fatty15 and several research studies, this supplement "reverses cellular aging to deliver whole body and mind health. C15:0 is the first essential fatty acid to be discovered since the omegas—over 90 years ago. Fatty15 contains a pure, award-winning, C15:0 powder called FA15™."

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a super important super nerd conversation called Reverse Cellular Aging In A Bottle. My guest, Stephanie Venn-Watson is one of the masterminds behind this magic supplement becoming available to the everyday person. Wait until you hear how her discovery from dolphins is taking human longevity and health by storm. We get into all of it…details, ladies! Long story short, it's a supplement that is taking the health and wellness world by storm… you need to know about it, so tune into the episode and thank me later.

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Fatty15 reverses cellular aging to deliver whole body and mind health
C15:0 is the first essential fatty acid to be discovered since the omegas—over 90 years ago. Fatty15 contains a pure, award-winning, C15:0 powder called FA15™
Studying dolphins leads to a huge breakthroughs for humans
What is C15:0?
Better sleep, less inflammation improved mood, sign me up
Longevity
Exercise benefits you never heard about
How to reduce midlife hair loss
Our cells communicate with each other
Why there is no such thing as "failure"
Life plans are unexpected

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Mixing East & West In Midlife Apr 04, 2024

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EP 113: Plant Medicine, eastern & western approaches to mental health and the power of your intuition… Dr. Ellen Vora discusses the importance of understanding the vast options available to us in midlife for our health and wellness needs. Today we are talking about plant medicine and Dr. Vora's specific and holistic approach to taking care of your mental health in today's developing world of medicine and lifestyle which is not a one size fit's all deal.

This week we are doing another quick golden nugget mini-sode excerpt from my past conversation with board-certified psychiatrist and holistic mental health care specialist, Dr. Ellen Vora. This conversation is such a good reminder about navigating the world of wellness in a time where we are seeing new options pop up everyday. We discuss the differences amongst western and eastern medicine & holistic medicine and how to know which option is the best for YOU. Remember, we are all different and all have different needs, midlife is about understanding your needs and choosing a path that suits you. Trust me, you won't want to miss this episode, thank me later!

Enjoy this minisode, then dive into the full episode, where we get into so much more on different types of plant medicines, midlife health practices and Dr. Vora's personal experiences. Plant Medicines, Sleep & Gut Tools… Finding Your Midlife Flow

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THE FLEXIBLE NEUROTIC SHOW NOTES: https://www.theflexibleneurotic.com/episodes/113

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Lift Heavy Sh**t in Midlife Mar 28, 2024

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Lift "heavy s**t in midlife" is the name of the game! You know I call them the "dumb and necessary weights". We keep hearing we have to lift weight in midlife for our brains, body and health. You want to hear exactly the how, why and what from an orthopedic surgeon and longevity specialist? You want to hear exactly how much weight and how many reps? Duh! Met too. Today's guest says she's heard every excuse in the book and there is nothing that should stop you from getting informed and knowing that you are worth the daily investment in your health. She has all the information you never even knew you needed. If you want to know what the data says about aging and a cheat sheet on what to do, then this episode is for you!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an educational conversation called Lift Heavy S**t in Midlife. My guest, Dr. Vonda Wright, is a double-board certified orthopedic surgeon and an internationally recognized authority on active aging, longevity, mobility and all the things we care about in midlife. She is a sought after speaker and five times bestselling author and her information is so critical for midlife women. Today we are talking about midlife self-agency, maintaining independence as we get older, weights, nutrition and more.

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THE FLEXIBLE NEUROTIC SHOW NOTES: https://www.theflexibleneurotic.com/episodes/112

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Finding Me Again, True Story! Mar 14, 2024

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EP 111: Midlife fantasy or real life? A bad case of the "midlife itchies" at 44 which ended up being a huge turning point for this guest. She was post-divorce, filing for bankruptcy and trying to find her inner fuel and passion again in midlife, despite her father dying, her dog dying, living in a tiny apartment with two teenagers, and having a quick romance that ended up leaving her wanting more. Long story short, she met an astrologist who made her believe in all the midlife woo-woo and started her midlife journey that led her to Paris… which for this guest, at the time was about finding every man in Paris born on November 2, 1968 because he just might be her long lost true love. So, in a true "I am going to save myself" fashion, my guest went off to Paris to look for any guy born on November 2, 1968. This was the date the astrologer gave her. She started this man search on a new instagram account and traveled blindly into the unknown of Paris to "find herself". I mean, wow… true midlife magic.

Might have peaked your interest…

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in an inspiring and heartfelt conversation called Finding Me Again, True Story! My guest Natasha Sizlo is a best selling author, writer, real-estate agent for The Agency (she can be seen on Buying Beverly Hills TV show) and overall master of the midlife remix. She wrote the best selling book All Signs Point To Paris, A Memoir of Love, Loss and Destiny, which is a true story of her search for a second chance at love, and a midlife adventure prompted by an astrology reading. In this episode, we are getting into self-love, self-responsibility, the importance of creating community and the magic that happens along the way.

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THE FLEXIBLE NEUROTIC SHOW NOTES: https://www.theflexibleneurotic.com/episodes/111

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Bobbi Brown's "Everyday Midlife", Your Way! Mar 07, 2024

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EP 110: Make-up artist guru and entrepreneur extraordinaire known for Bobby Brown Cosmetics and Jones Road Beauty, Bobbi Brown, shares her secrets for living your "best everyday midlife".

This week we are doing another quick golden nugget mini-sode excerpt from my past conversation with beauty entrepreneur and fellow midlifer, Bobbi Brown. This conversation is such a good reminder about midlife being "hard and good", choosing your hard and being fearless along the way. Trust me, you won't want to miss this episode, thank me later!

Enjoy this 11 minute minisode, then dive into the full episode, where we get into so much more on health, wellness and parenting. Everyday Midlife - With Bobbi Brown

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