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The Feminist Dating Show

How do I find the right relationship when dating apps suck? How can I find better dates? How can I deal with that nagging anxiety that no one is out there for me? How can I navigate dating with more confidence and find that right relationship?

Welcome to The Feminist Dating Show, where we’ll answer ALL of these questions and so much more. Week after week, host, former top matchmaker and dating coach, Lily Womble brings you all the tools, strategies and coaching you need to build a clear path to the best relationship of your life.

After matching hundreds, Lily realized that with training, women can match themselves better than anyone else ever could. Now she helps thousands of women around the world build fulfilling, joyful and successful dating lives on their own terms. She’s here to help you do the same.

If you’re looking for unconventional, feminist leaning dating advice that works, this podcast is for you.

Along with her best kept secrets, Lily will share interviews with experts and live coaching sessions, so you can feel seen, heard and inspired.

Latest Episodes:

125. Dating as a plus-sized woman with Nicci Nunez and Alex Stewart Sep 20, 2022

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We have two bad-ass podcasters and thought-leaders on the show this week. Nicci Nunez and Alex Stewart, hosts of the Swipe Fat podcast, join Lily for a conversation about dating as a plus-sized woman. In this episode, they talk about their recent decision to take a dating app detox, share the story of how they became friends and then podcast hosts, and talk about life as plus-sized women in the dating world.

Hot-takes from this episode:

Thin privilege in dating versus overcompensating in other areas because you are plus-sized
Creating a safe space with other plus-sized women at Swipe Fat events
You can't be right for everybody, all of the time
What self-care looks like in the midst of difficult times
Alex and Nicci's decision to take a dating app detox, why it felt difficult and, yet, important to do

Links and Resources:Swipe Fat Podcast Swipe Fat on Instagram Swipe Fat at TikTok Alex on Instagram Nicci on Instagram Date Brazen on Instagram Date Brazen on TikTok Swipe Fat Podcast Community on Facebook Swipe Fat on Patreon

124. The "Thank You, More, Please!" Challenge! Sep 13, 2022

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This week's episode is all about the "Thank you, more, please!" challenge. This challenge is a powerful tool for those of us who were taught, "What you want, does not exist." Listen in as Lily dares you to look for evidence that what you want DOES exist, in your love life, in your professional life, and beyond. Tune into this short episode to hear how to implement this challenge into your life, today.

Links and resources:

Show notes: https://datebrazen.com/blog/thank-you-more-please

123. Talking Body Image, Diet Culture, and Your Dating Life with Chrissy King Sep 06, 2022

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Chrissy King is on the podcast this week! She is an author and the Creator of The Body Liberation Project. In this episode, we talk all about body image, diet culture, and your dating life. Chrissy has a new book coming out called The Body Liberation Project: How Understanding Racism and Diet Culture Helps Cultivate Joy and Build Collective Freedom, which we discuss too.

Chrissy shares some of the ways she empowers individuals to stop shrinking, start taking up space and use their energy to create their specific magic in the world. This is an amazing conversation and we are thrilled to be able to share it with you today!

Hot-takes from this episode:

Chrissy shares her experience going from yo-yo dieting to re-evaluating her relationship with her body
The work of body liberation is never done, it is a lifelong journey
Shrinking into a space that doesn't feel built for you versus taking up space
There is a real distinction between having body issues versus having a body that causes systemic oppression in the world
Practicing compassion, kindness, and grace in your body
We talk about mindset and dating while being in a bigger body
Decolonizing fitness: What Chrissy would like women of color to know and what she would like white women to know about effective allyship

Links and resources:

How the Hell to Meet Someone In-Person Workshop is THIS Thursday!

Pre-Order Chrissy's Book, The Body Liberation Project HERE for our Main Character Energy Bookclub!

Chrissy's Website

Chrissy's Instagram

The Body is Not An Apology, Sonya Renee Taylor

Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia, Sabrina Strings

About Chrissy:

Chrissy King is a Writer, Speaker, Fitness and Strength Coach, and Creator of The Body Liberation Project. She has a passion for creating a diverse and inclusive wellness industry. She empowers individuals to stop shrinking, start taking up space and use their energy to create their specific magic in the world. Her book, The Body Liberation Project: How Understanding Racism and Diet Culture Helps Cultivate Joy and Build Collective Freedom-- MARCH 14, 2023

Workshop Alert: How the Hell to Meet Someone In-Person! Aug 31, 2022

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In this workshop, I'm going to give you my playbook to ditch the dating app and start meeting awesome people in-person!

The tickets are donation based, and 100% of the proceeds go to local abortion funds in the U.S.

Get your ticket right HERE!

Thursday, Sept 8th, 2022

6pm EST

See you there!

Episode Spotlight: Live Coaching Session: How to find love without a dating app Aug 30, 2022

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Today we are throwing it back to Episode Four of the Date Brazen Podcast. Why? Because it's all about in-person dating. The episode featured a coaching session with Date Brazen client, Amelia, who didn't want to use dating apps anymore. Sound familiar? We thought so and that is why we decided to re-air it! Lily and Amelia talk about how to start dating in person, what that might look and feel like, and also explore what fears come up - yes, all of that juicy stuff. You don't want to miss this one!

Hot takes from this episode:

Why it's okay (and sometimes healthy) to not be on a dating app - these apps can be distracting, discouraging, and depleting
Lily gives Amelia some tools to listen to her intuition, which can be a revolutionary act in a world that tells women how to behave, especially in dating.
Dating confidence is built in person - being brave enough to engage with someone you find attractive and start a conversation is a challenge

Links and resources:

Show notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/episode-four/

122. How to feel your feelings when rejected Aug 23, 2022

Show notes

This week's episode is all about feelings. Lily talks about how you can feel your way through any of your feelings, why it's important to do so, and how it is going to change your life, especially your love life.

This episode is a practical guide for feeling your emotions, even the hard ones. Our hope is that this episode will shift the relationship you have with yourself in a juicy way.

Some hot takes from this episode:

Feelings are a bodily function, feeling them does not mean you'll get stuck in them, feeling them is a means for moving them through your body (7:15)
You are not going to miss out on life when you slow down to practice self-compassion or feel your feelings - you are going to experience a more meaningful depth of life (15:53)
How to actually practice feeling your feelings with emotional safety (25:49)

Links and resources:

Show notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/feel-your-feelings-when-rejected/

121. Dating apps: Ask me anything Aug 16, 2022

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Today we are bringing you a dating app ask me anything episode! Lily is going to share all of her dating app hot-takes with you. This episode was inspired by a survey posted on her Instagram account (@datebrazen). She received over 300 responses with your questions and thoughts about all things dating. We hope you enjoy the episode!

Some of the questions answered include:

"It seems impossible to meet anyone in the wild. Help!"
"How do you get someone to talk to you?!?!"
"What do I do when I am asking qualifying/disqualifying questions and the response I get is simply, 'You're pretty.'" 🤨
"How honest should we be on our profiles? Should we try to be witty or flirty?"
"How do I respond to my family about why I don't use dating apps?"
"Are apps better for queer or straight relationships?"
"Can Tinder be used for finding long-term partners and not hook-ups?"

Links and resources:

Show notes:

https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/dating-apps-ama/

120. Ask me anything: Dating mindset edition! Aug 09, 2022

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Lily is bringing you another AMA (ask me anything) episode this week! The Date Brazen community has grown by thousands over the last month with members joining us from TikTok and Instagram. Lily loves hearing from everyone! She is taking the time to answer more of your questions about mindset work and your dating life.

The intention of Date Brazen is to provide tools for change and encouragement to integrate what feels good for you - in your love life and beyond.

Questions answered in this episode include:

How do you regulate your nervous system when dating?
How long does it take you to start a mindset change once you start working together on the Date Brazen journey?
I am viewing dating apps as the only way to meet people. How do I reframe my mindset?
How do I not let my fear of rejection in dating spill over into rejection in a professional setting?
I am almost 30 and never dated. How do I get started?

Links and resources:

Show notes:https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/ama-dating-mindset-edition

119. A Conversation About Confidence with Queer Confidence Coach Alex Ray Aug 02, 2022

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The Queer Confidence Coach Alex Ray (he/she/they) joins Lily on the podcast this week! We are obsessed with what Alex is putting out into the world and excited to share the conversation. Lily talks to Alex about how LGBTQ+ individuals can create their own universe complete with confidence and freedom; and can step into their next powerful phase of life. Join us for this amazing episode!

Hot-takes from this episode:

Stepping into both your divine masculine and divine feminine energy (2:50)
Unpacking the stories that have shaped our confidence (12:39)
Owning your sexual liberation and agency as a member of the queer community (18:57)
Alex shares some of her favorite clients' breakthroughs about self-permission (27:46)
Confidence means allowing discomfort and having your own back (31:05)

Links and resources:

Show notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/a-conversation-about-confidence-with-alex-ray

118. Ask me anything! Jul 26, 2022

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I'm answering all your questions in this AMA

Questions like:

- Is it intuition or fear?

- Do I DM a guy I met last year??

- How to approach people IRL

- How to create Qualifying and Disqualifying questions.

All will be answered in this episode:)

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