The Ex Boyfriend Recovery Podcast

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**My Ex Boyfriend Won’t Commit To Me** Jun 07, 2017
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One of the most difficult/annoying situations to be in is one where you start seeing some incredible progress with your ex.

You have him responding to your text messages.

He’s the one reaching out via phone calls.

Heck, he even tells you that he still loves you.

However, despite all this amazing progress you can’t seem to get him to take that crucial next step of admitting that the two of you are official again.

In other words, you can’t get him to commit. Part of you probably wonders if he still cares about you if he won’t commit.

Such was the case with Vanessa, a woman who left a voicemail on my SpeakPipe page. It seemed that no matter how hard she tried she just couldn’t get her ex to take that extra step and commit. To make matters worse she is caught between a rock and a hard place as she has taken a job out of the country which could be causing her ex to not want to commit.

So, how can she make him commit to her?

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**How Vanessa Can Make Her Ex Commit To Her**

You’ll notice in the episode I gave Vanessa a very clear and detailed game plan about how she can make her ex commit to her but a lot of the things I recommend to her are universal in the fact that when the time comes you can apply them to your own ex.

I’d like to take a look at those things now,

Getting a man commit to you really revolves around two main factors

Investment

Reassurance In Moderation

Now, investment can come in many shapes or forms but generally when I am talking about investment I am talking about things like,

Emotional Investment

Physical Investment

If you can get your ex investing a lot of time into you the more he is going to want to lock you down.

The other thing that you need to take a look at is the reassurance part.

Sometimes your ex boyfriend will say or do certain things to test the waters to see if you are ok with the idea of getting back into a relationship. It’s important to not forget that while you may be frightened of rejection, he is too!

If you notice him doing or saying things that are indicative of him testing the waters then I’d recommend you to reassure him but don’t get into a habit of doing it. Make sure you do it in moderation.
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Getting Your Ex Back With The Law Of Attraction Jun 02, 2017

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One of the really amazing things about our Private Support Group is the fact that women are always talking about different strategies that I don’t really cover in all that much detail here on Ex Boyfriend Recovery.

Now, one of the most popular strategies on the group right now is “the law of attraction” or “LOA” for short.

I remember the first time that someone ever told me about this I just rolled my eyes and thought,

There is no way that will ever work. That’s stupid….

It’s a sentiment that I am sure a lot of people have when they hear about it for the first time.

Nevertheless, I gave it a try and really tried to open myself up to it and I have to say that it’s pretty incredible what this mindset shift can accomplish.

So, I decided to take things a step further by doing an interview with one of the worlds most popular law of attraction experts, Arielle Ford.

I really wanted to get a sense of how this stuff could apply to getting an ex back since that is what I think most people here are gunning for.

Watch our interview below,

Now, if you are interested in learning more about Arielle and her course I highly recommend you check out her website.

Arielle Ford Website

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Getting Your Ex Back If You Have A Child Together May 24, 2017

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Children are (insert adjective)…

They tend to make relationships more difficult than they should be. As a result, it can lead to some earth shattering breakups.

That is the truth that I think too many of my counterparts are afraid to admit. I mean, I think they are afraid to say,

Having a kid makes getting your ex back SUPER HARD

But it is.

Don’t be fooled into thinking it’s not.

However, just because it is difficult doesn’t mean it’s impossible.

On the contrary, I just got done interviewing an amazing woman who got her ex back who she shares two children with.

One that was born just months before the breakup occurred…

And another one that kept interrupting his mom ( the woman I was interviewing) during our interview.

No seriously… I totally left it in so you guys could see just how difficult she had it.

And despite these difficult circumstances she prevailed by using a new strategy that we have been testing out in our Private Support Group called “The Re-Breakup Text.”

Interested in finding out what it is?

Well, you have to listen!

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**A Therapist Answers Your Breakup Questions** May 04, 2017
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Too often the internet is polluted with bad advice from individuals who have no business giving that advice.

I can’t tell you how often one of my clients comes up to me and tells me,

“I just bought a product from “guru A” and he said to do this and it totally blew up in my face.”

So, I thought it would be really fun to get an actual therapist on the Podcast and have him answer your real life questions about your breakups.

Well, I’d like to introduce you to Matt Marr!

Matt is a really interesting guy because not only is he a therapist but you may have seen him in a few commercials on TV.

In addition to that he also has his very own podcast called “Dear Mattie”

Oh, and I forgot to mention that he is our first ever repeat guest on the podcast.

Now, I can honestly say that I have interviewed a lot of different people from all walks of life but Matt has this certain happiness about him. Every time I talk to him I literally walk away from the conversation feeling great about myself and I have a feeling you are going to pick up on that vibe when you watch our interview together,

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Here’s How Mary Got Her Ex Boyfriend To Unblock Her (And Eventually Come Back) Apr 17, 2017

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I’m sure Mary was shocked when she woke up one day to find her boyfriend had blocked her on Facebook.

Out of the blue with no warning whatsoever…

I mean, who even does that?

One day Mary is walking around thinking everything is fine and the next day she wakes up to find that her boyfriend has disappeared from her on Facebook.

He wanted to breakup and this was his weird way of informing her.

So, Mary did what ever self respecting woman does in that situation, she begged for her ex back.

Unfortunately, he wasn’t having any of it.

So, how the heck did Mary get her ex back?

Well, find out by watching the video below as I interview her,

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She Got Him Back After Contacting HIM First After The No Contact Rule! Mar 02, 2017

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I don’t know why but it seems like so many women out there like to challenge the fact that I recommend that they contact their ex after the no contact rule first.

You’d think I would have asked them to sacrifice their first born with all the crazy looks I get.

Kelly was certainly in that group of people who thought that “A MAN” should always contact first.

Oh, perhaps I should back up a second and explain the fact that Kelly is in the Private Facebook Group so my team and I helped her out a lot with her situation. And for the most part she was excellent at implementing the advice we gave her.

There was just one “itty bitty” bump in the road.

She refused to text her ex first…

Here’s what she had to say about the whole thing,