The Enneagram Journey

E196: The Micah Center: a Eulogy Jan 23, 2026

Join us in escorting The Micah Center on to the next plain.

Suzanne, Joe, and Hunter sit down for one final conversation at The Micah Center, the home of LTM for the past 20 years.

As you'll hear in the intro, this episode is heavy on the "Journey" aspect of the podcast and light on any "enneagram" talk. Suzanne and Joe always are quick to say that the enneagram is just a tool. A GREAT tool, but just one. The Micah Center was so much more than a tool. It became a safe space for thousands of people to go to.

Stay hard Micah Center!

If The Micah Center means something to you, or had an impact on your life, we would love to hear about it. CLICK HERE to leave a voicemail sharing some Micah Center love or memories.

Ready to join the Enneagram AND tour 2026?! The first event is at the end of January, and we're continuing on into the summer.

The Enneagram AND Parenting

The Enneagram AND Spirituality

The Enneagram AND Truama

The Enneagram AND Your Body

The Enneagram AND Stress

Join live or join us virtually online for great teaching with a great group of teachers.

CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE ENNEAGRAM AND TOUR 2026 OR LEARN MORE

The Merton Prayer:

My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going
I do not see the road ahead of me
I cannot know for certain where it will end
Nor do I really know myself
And the fact that I think I am following your will does not mean
That I am actually doing so
But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you
And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire
And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road
Though I may know nothing about it
Therefore will I trust you always though
I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death
I will not fear, for you are ever with me
And you will never leave me to face my perils alone

Today's Intro:

From the original Enneagram Journey Curriculum
"Tha Crossroads" by Bone Thugs-N-Harmony (Ruthless)
(outro) "I wouldn't take nothin' for my journey", Live at Studio C (Gaither Studios)

E195: Larissa Miller (4) and Kim Honeycutt (8) - Compassion, Confrontation, Authenticity Nov 04, 2025

The Enneagram Journey may be recording next at your local Hilton! Maybe not, but this episode was fun to record at Joel's hotel room when LTM travelled to Charlotte, NC for a workshop. Kim Honeycutt (8) and Larissa Miller (4) join the show to talk about their relationship, their journey, justice, and what do you know about polyvagal theory?

You can find out more about what Kim and Larissa are up to at icutalks.org, watershedcharlotte.com and kimhoneycutt.com

PLUG TIME!!!!

The Enneagram AND 2026 Tour is around the corner!

The Enneagram and Parenting in Nashville, TN - The Enneagram and Spirituality in Jackson, MS - The Enneagram and Trauma in Colorado Springs, CO - The Enneagram and Your Body in Minneapolis, MN - The Enneagram and Stress in California.

Join us in person, or join us online virtually!

Get all of the important information and registration at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/enneagramand

Today's Intro:

The Waterboy (1998, Touchstone Pictures)
Bob's Burgers (s15, e1 FOX)
Breaking Bad (s4, e6 AMC)

E194: Jess Everlee (5) - Lucky Lovers of London Oct 08, 2025

Meet author and Enneagram 5, Jess Everlee!

4 books, one for the Head, one for the Heart, and one for the Body, and how about one featuring a couple of Sixes!

Jess shares about figuring out her enneagram number, which ones are the easiest and most difficult for her to write, and about being married to an 8.

"I mistyped my own teen angst as a 4. But, since it was a mistype, it wasn't useful." - JE

All romance lovers need to check out her Lucky Lovers of London series, and you can learn more about Jess at jesseverlee.com

Joey Stabile Schewee - When Working Together Doesn't Work Sep 24, 2025

LTM's very own Joey Stabile Schewee is back on The Journey!

Gather everyone around the water cooler in the office and turn up the volume, because you and your team don't want to miss this episode. Joey, enneagram 8, the best enneagram teacher you'll find for the corporate setting shares with the listeners about her work.

Which number mistypes the most?
Which number is mistyped as the most?
Who has the greatest difficulty managing others?
What do you know about the 4th Step?

Her new book, When Working Together Doesn't Work, comes out in March, but it isn't too early to pre-order. You can pre-order your copy here. It also isn't too late to join us on Saturday, September 27th online or in Dallas to hear Joey teach! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com to learn more and sign up. And visit wesolutions.life to learn more about Joey and her corporate enneagram teaching.

TODAY'S INTRO

Corporate (S1, E3 - Comedy Central)
Office Space (1999, Mike Judge)
Corporate (S2, E4 - Comedy Central)

Dr. Molly (8) - Anxiety, Egregious Self Confidence, Grief and Loss Sep 09, 2025

Dr. Molly sayyyyyyyyys, you're gonna love this podcast!

Welcome Dr. Molly Brinkmann to The Journey! Enneagram 8, married to an enneagram 6 (Ryan), mother, veterinarian, and social media bad ass. We get a good amount of work talk in, co-parenting as an 8 and a 6, the anxiety of not only sixes, but all numbers, and more. Also a special spot appearance from fellow 8, Joey Schewee.

To learn more about Molly, be sure and give her instagram account a follow, @drmollysays and check out The Dr. Molly Says Podcast!

It is time to hear from Enneagram 8 listeners for a new episode of Others On The Journey! Suzanne and Molly talk about what betrayal means to them and to Eights. We would like to hear from our Enneagram 8 listeners on what betrayal means to you, and if you can give some examples. Visit theenneagramjourney.com/contact and leave a voicemail with your response for our next Others On The Journey podcast episode. Heck, this podcast is solitary work that we cannot do alone!

PLUG TIME

When Working Together Doesn't Work with Joey Schewee

Saturday, September 27 / 9:00 am - 4:00 pm

The Micah Center in Dallas or join Online

Join consultant and Enneagram Theorist, Joey Schewee of @enneagramparents, and co-facilitator of The Enneagram For The Modern World Cohort, ahead of the release of her book, When Working Together Doesn't Work: An Enneagram Guide to Productive Relationships with Coworkers, for a day of Enneagram exploration. Joey will guide participants through her impactful take on triads, stances, and the core of her unique body of work: processing centers. Whether you are new to the Enneagram or well-versed in this wisdom, this workshop is thoughtfully designed to give all participants takeaways that are immediately and exponentially applicable.

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER IN PERSON OR ONLINE

Pre-order your copy of When Working Together Doesn't Work here on Amazon

TODAY'S INTRO

Anxiety by Doechii
Mean Girls (Paramount Pictures, 2004)
Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby (Columbia Pictures, 2006)

Austin Channing Brown (9) - Foreboding Joy, Full Of Myself Aug 13, 2025

Welcome to The Journey Austin Channing Brown!

Enneagram 9, Austin Channing shares some of her wisdom and experience in this episode, including what we think is a CRAZY story about her time as an enneagram 9 employed at a church.

Decision Making
Passive Aggressive Anger
Repressed Doing
Foreboding Joy and Artificial Joy (brace yourselves 7s!)
I'm Still Here and Full Of Myself

Full Of Myself is available soon, so preorder today, and be sure to visit austinchanning.com !

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com to see everything that Suzanne, Joe, and LTM are up to.

The LTM Enneagram Cohort Program application deadline is September 1!
Small groups are about to begin, and the next round will start in December 2026
Enneagram and Spirituality in Charlotte in September
A Quiet Space every Thursday at The Micah Center
and so much more!

Today's Intro

Joy by for King + Country
The Office (NBC, s2, e8)
The Office (NBC, s7, e14)

Q&A - July 2025 Jul 08, 2025

Q&A Episode in the house!

We start the show with a question from an Enneagram 7 married to an Enneagram 1 (that combo comes up a lot!).

"Do I have to keep apologizing for the last 20 years every time I mess up?"

Then we get to talk about:

9s with an 8 wing, or are they extroverted, or are they another number?!
Gut Types
How each individual number in each Triad deals with Anger, Fear, or Shame
Essence v Personality
9s and Anger
and more!

Keep the questions coming! You can submit yours at theenneagramjourney.org/contact

PLUG TIME

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com !

Yup, that's the plug. So much upcoming opportunities, from A Quiet Space every Thursday at The Micah Center, to 2025 Enneagram Bootcamp, to IEA Experience 2025, to new books and new small groups. We want you to be a part of it. So, visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com and be a part of a wonderful community!

TODAY'S INTRO

Captain Phillips (2013, Columbia Pictures)
Ron Swanson (Parks and Rec, s3, e9)
Angry Woman (Ashe, 2022)

TEJ Live at 7 & 1 Books with Jen Rogers (8) - Objective Perspective, Dragon Slaying, Escape Plans Jun 20, 2025

Live shows in bookstores...we wish every episode could be recorded this way!

Today's episode is almost like 3 episodes rolled into one. We get to meet Arlene Kasselman (enneagram 7), founder of 7&1 Books. Then we get to hear from Jen Rogers (enneagram 8) and learn from her experiences in life, and then chase all of that with some Q&A with the audience.

Find 7&1 books and learn more about them by visiting sevenandonebooks.com

“If you haven’t done enneagram work, it’s hard to see value in people that see the world different than you do.” - Jen Rogers

PLUG TIME

2025 Enneagram Bootcamp

"What Is Mine To Do?"

August 7-9, 2025 in Dallas or join Online

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2025ebc

IEA Global Conference

IEA Enneagram Experience 2025

July 24-27 in Minneapolis, MN

ieaexperience.com

Spirituality and the Enneagram

ICU Talks in Charlotte, NC

September 5-6, 2025

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/charlotte

Book Release Party for Letting Go, Finding You

The Micah Center in Dallas, TX

August 29, 2025

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/p/bookparty

TODAY's INTRO

40 Year Old Virgin (2005, Universal Pictures)
Black Books (s1, e1: Channel 4)
Pierre Novellie (Chris Ramsey's Stand Up Central)
The Dragon Slayer Archetype (Europos)

Jen Hanson (2) - Boundaries, False Self-esteem, Forgive Yourself May 26, 2025

Let's do some math.

2 + 2 - 7 = a great episode of The Enneagram Journey!

Enneagram 2, Jen Hanson, joins fellow 2, Suzanne Stabile on today's show, but we lost our 7 Joel for this one. Don't like the episode too much, it'll hurt his feelings.

Can you have an enneagram conversation between a couple of Twos without talking about boundaries?
The strengths of being a Two and working with children and youth.
Parenting with the struggles of social media.
Should one of Suzanne's spiritual practices be getting massages regularly?!
aaaaaaaand more

"How would we measure our value in relationships if it didn't involve our responding to every Feeling with Doing?" - SS

You can find out more about Jen and all of the good going on at Northaven by visiting www.northaven.org

PLUG TIME

2025 Enneagram Bootcamp

"What Is Mine To Do?"

August 7-9, 2025 in Dallas or join Online

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2025ebc

The King Speaker Series

Enneagram Stances

June 6-7, 2025 in Fort Smith, Arkansas (Registration closes May 30!)

1pres.org/kingspeaker

IEA Global Conference

IEA Enneagram Experience 2025

July 24-27 in Minneapolis, MN

ieaexperience.com

Spirituality and the Enneagram

ICU Talks in Charlotte, NC

September 5-6, 2025

REGISTRATION WILL BE UP SOON!

THE 2026 LTM COHORT PROGRAM

Apply today! Apply tomorrow! Apply anytime before September! Just don't miss out on the possibility of being a part of an incredible community of people growing and increasing compassion in the world.

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/cohortprogram

So many good resources, tools, and opportunities can be found at:

lifeinthetrinityministry.com

theenneagramjourney.com

suzannestabile.com

TODAY'S INTRO

Between 2 Ferns (2019, Netflix)
Pretty Woman (1990, Touchstone Pictures)
Jimmy Neutron: Boy Genius (2001, Paramount)

Russ Hudson (5) - Holy Ideas, Cultural Parameters, What To Hold On To May 15, 2025

Russ Hudson is back on the show, and is going to blow your mind!

The show starts with a little catching up, so we get to hear about some of Russ' travels, and we look forward to IEA Experience 2025 that features both Russ and Suzanne!

How has the Enneagram, or our understanding of the enneagram, evolved over the years?
Russ shares their 3 rules he and Don had when writing The Wisdom of The Enneagram
We're not just talking about the 3 Centers of Intelligence today, but also the 3 Body Centers
Holy Ideas, enneagram and creativity, and more

"You can't get to the Holy Ideas if you don't get landed in your body and heart."

- RH

To learn more about everything Russ has going on, visit russhudson.com !

PLUG TIME

2025 Enneagram Bootcamp

"What Is Mine To Do?"

August 7-9, 2025 in Dallas or join Online

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2025ebc

The King Speaker Series

Enneagram Stances

June 6-7, 2025 in Fort Smith, Arkansas

1pres.org/kingspeaker

IEA Global Conference

IEA Enneagram Experience 2025

July 24-27 in Minneapolis, MN

ieaexperience.com

THE 2026 LTM COHORT PROGRAM

Apply today! Apply tomorrow! Apply anytime before September! Just don't miss out on the possibility of being a part of an incredible community of people growing and increasing compassion in the world.

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/cohortprogram

So many good resources, tools, and opportunities can be found at:

lifeinthetrinityministry.com

theenneagramjourney.com

suzannestabile.com

TODAY'S INTRO

"Yakko's World" (Animaniacs, ep 2 - Warner Bros.)
Jerry Seinfeld while being interviewed on the red carpet by WUSA 9

Tori Hastings (5) - Vulnerability, 2nd Shift, Engaging May 08, 2025

Meet Tori Hastings, enneagram 5!

As promised, we are definitely not going to talk about golf, and we are going to talk about somatic therapy, what we do when we get home from our day, what Tori's life looked like over the past 30 years in Alabama, and did Suzanne make a revision to the Centers of Intelligence?

"You don't achieve balance by pushing the top (center of intelligence) down. You achieve balance by pulling the bottom up." - SS

"I don't do much of anything in real time..." - TH

PLUG TIME

2025 Enneagram Bootcamp

"What Is Mine To Do?"

August 7-9, 2025 in Dallas or join Online

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2025ebc

The King Speaker Series

Enneagram Stances

June 6-7, 2025 in Fort Smith, Arkansas

1pres.org/kingspeaker

IEA Global Conference

IEA Enneagram Experience 2025

July 24-27 in Minneapolis, MN

ieaexperience.com

THE 2026 LTM COHORT PROGRAM

Apply today! Apply tomorrow! Apply anytime before September! Just don't miss out on the possibility of being a part of an incredible community of people growing and increasing compassion in the world.

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/cohortprogram

So many good resources, tools, and opportunities can be found at:

lifeinthetrinityministry.com

theenneagramjourney.com

suzannestabile.com

TODAY'S INTRO

South Park (Comedy Central: s14, e2)
SNL (NBC: s23, e11)
SNL (NBC: s17, e7)

Katie Whitlock (3) - Deceit, Escaping to the Future, 9fold May 01, 2025

Get your pen and paper ready, because this episode is FULL of incredible enneagram teaching from not one BUT TWO! enneagram teachers (and neither are Joel).

Katie Whitlock (3), yes, the daughter of The Enneagram Journey's own Sara Whitlock (2), joins Suzanne in this episode. Seriously, so much good wisdom in this one

Escaping to the future
What do you do when you're restless?
Balance
Doing Enneagram work, but identifying as the wrong number
Do you respond to strangers online?
Some input from Joey Schewee aka @enneagramparents
and more!

"Functional is not good enough. You should want more than functional." - KW

PLUG TIME

2025 Enneagram Bootcamp

"What Is Mine To Do?"

August 7-9, 2025 in Dallas or join Online

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2025ebc

The King Speaker Series

Enneagram Stances

June 6-7, 2025 in Fort Smith, Arkansas

1pres.org/kingspeaker

IEA Global Conference

IEA Enneagram Experience 2025

July 24-27 in Minneapolis, MN

ieaexperience.com

THE 2026 LTM COHORT PROGRAM

Apply today! Apply tomorrow! Apply anytime before September! Just don't miss out on the possibility of being a part of an incredible community of people growing and increasing compassion in the world.

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/cohortprogram

So many good resources, tools, and opportunities can be found at:

lifeinthetrinityministry.com

theenneagramjourney.com

suzannestabile.com

TODAY'S INTRO

The Departed (2006 Warner Bros.)
Laura Addis on TEJ Podcast
F.R.I.E.N.D.S (NBC, s3 e18)

Darnell (1) & Alex (8) Finale - Cohort, Excess, Indignation Apr 22, 2025

Alex and Darnell are back to share their final thoughts and feelings about their experience in the 2024 Enneagram Cohort with Suzanne!

If this series of conversations with Darnell and Alex has raised your interest in the LTM Cohort program, we hope you will check it out and apply. Applications for the following year's Cohort program are accepted April 1 - September 1. You can get the dates, descriptions, expectations, and application at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/cohortprogram

Other Plugs

2025 Enneagram Bootcamp

"What Is Mine To Do?"

August 7-9, 2025 in Dallas or join Online

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2025ebc

The King Speaker Series

Enneagram Stances

June 6-7, 2025 in Fort Smith, Arkansas

1pres.org/kingspeaker

IEA Global Conference

IEA Enneagram Experience 2025

July 24-27 in Minneapolis, MN

ieaexperience.com

You can find out what the podcast is up to and other offerings from Life in the Trinity Ministry by visiting lifeinthetrinityministry.com.

TODAY'S INTRO

Des Bishop - Mindfulness
F.R.I.E.N.D.S. (NBC, S4 E23)
"Indignant" - The Definition Channel
Darnell Young on TEJ Podcast

Sara Whitlock (2) - Saying No, Feeling v Thinking Feb 17, 2025

You've asked for more Enneagram Twos on the show, and here is a great start! Meet Sara Whitlock. Sara is a nurse practitioner from Ohio. Married to JD, an Enneagram 5, she and one of her daughters were both a part of the 2024 Enneagram Cohort with Suzanne (we'll get to hear from her daughter Katie in an upcoming episode!).

PLUG TIME

Great events coming up:

TheoEd Talks Nashville - February 23 in Nashville at Woolworth Theatre or Online
The Enneagram Journey Live - February 25 in Nashville at Beam Gallery
A Contemplative, Healing, Enneagram - February 28 and March 1 in Nashville at Woodmont Christian Church
Relationships and the Enneagram - March 7-8 in South Carolina at Bethel UMC
2025 IEA Global Conference - July 25-25 in Minneapolis
2025 Enneagram Bootcamp - SAVE THE DATE! August 7-9 in Dallas and Online

Today's Intro

The Breakup (2006, Universal Pictures)
Scrubs (S3, E5)
American Dad (S10, E8)

Laura Murray (4) - Home, Hospitality, Spiritual Practice Jan 21, 2025

Happy 2025 to everyone on their Enneagram Journey! And even to those who haven't started yet. The first episode of the year is fantastic and features pastor, spiritual director, and author Laura Murray, Enneagram 4.

Laura is married to an Enneagram 5
The difference between Home and where you belong
Some surprising Enneagram Wing discussion with Suzanne
Spiritual Practices
Parenting and more

Below you will find the practice of Examen that Laura shared with us. You can also find a link for it in PDF format at theenneagramjourney.com in her episode. You can find out more about Laura and all the great things she is doing at laurabmurray.com.

In the introduction of this episode, you heard a lot of plugs!

TheoEd Nashville - Sunday, February 23 - theoed.com/nashville
A Contemplative, Healing, Enneagram - February 28, March 1 in Nashville - lifeinthetrinityministry.com/nashville
EnneaSummit 2025 featuring Suzanne and the Reverend - February 4-7 Online - CLICK HERE for information and registration
Relationships and the Enneagram - March 7-8, Charleston, South Carolina - lifeinthetrinityministry.com/charleston

Examen: A Spiritual Practice

The spiritual practice of examen is one of invitation. You are opening yourself up to both yourself and God. There is not a grade in examen, nor is there a grade in any other spiritual practice. Various questions can be helpful in the examen practice. Below is one way of practicing examen.

The hopes are awareness and attending
The practice requires permission and welcome

• The practice begins with permission. In examen, you give God permission to show you parts of yourself that are hidden or harder to see. You also welcome and allow parts of yourself to be seen by God and yourself.

• This is done by reflecting on and responding to a series of questions. As you do this awareness of those parts of you starts to emerge.

• Then, you permit God again to attend to what came up. Your work here is to
welcome what you can and allow God to attend to you.

• Repeat daily for 7-10 days, giving yourself time to notice and explore what you see.

Examen Questions:
What do I find myself grateful for today?

What am I grieving today?

Where do I sense God’s nearness to my grief?

Where do I sense God’s distance from my grief?

How has God been generous with me lately?

How is God calling me to be generous today?

Prayer:
After responding to these questions, allow God to attend to you through your
responses and what is coming up in you. Tell God thank you after a few minutes or however long you need.

visit laurabmurray.com to learn more!

TODAY's INTRO

Baby Come Back, Player (RSO, 1977)
John Wick (Summit Entertainment, 2014)
Without Me, Eminem (Shady-Aftermath, 2002)
Home, Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros (Rough Trade, 2010)
The Sandlot (20th Century Fox, 1993)

Jonathan Merritt (3) - Navigating Relationships, My Guncle and Me Nov 01, 2024

Your Enneagram Godmother and an Enneagram Guncle got together for this INCREDIBLE conversation!

If you don't know Jonathan yet, Enneagram 3, this is a wonderful introduction.

"...othering the other that othered them."

It'll make more sense after you hear him talk about it!

Jonathan is a writer on faith and culture, the author of Learning To Speak God From Scratch, Jesus is Better Than You Imagined, My Guncle and Me and a few other great reads. You can find him on Instagram @jonathan_merritt and online at jonathanmerritt.com

PLUG TIME!

OOOOOHHHHHH, don't let this event sell out without you being a part of it:

A Contemplative, Healing, Enneagram with Rev. Joseph and Suzanne Stabile, and Hunter Mobley.

February 28 - March 1, 2025 in Nashville, TN

CLICK HERE FOR TICKETS or visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/nashville

Today's INTRO

The Office (S3, E1)
Modern Family (S4, E21)
The Other Guys (Columbia Pictures 2010)

Br5aking The Cycle Oct 09, 2024

The Enneagram Godmother + The Great Russ Hudson + The Reverend

Where do we sign up?!?!

Today's podcast episode comes from the LTM teaching event in Dallas, Br5aking The Cycle (don't worry, you'll learn why it is spelled that way and what 5a means).

As you'll hear Joel explain, this 2 hour teaching is only the opening for the rest of the next 10 hours, but it is an entire workshop in itself!

There is nobody Suzanne holds in higher regard when it comes to Enneagram Wisdom than Russ Hudson. The real magic that comes out in this weekend's teaching is that Suzanne, Joe, and Russ are each in different Enneagram Triads: Suzanne, Heart - Russ, Head - Reverend, Gut. And the teaching is on Enneagram Triads, managing your dominant center of intelligence, and how we br5ak this darn cycle!

Wanna send Suzanne a message while she is recovering? CLICK HERE

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If you want to continue on this journey of Br5aking The Cycle, you can purchase the entire workshop during the month of October and get it at 40% off!! Be prepared though, because it is 12 hours of challenging teaching for us to try and do, think, feel things differently. Click here for the workshop handout and to get the entire 3 days of teaching for 40% off.

Thank you for listening to the show and for helping to make the world more compassionate! To learn more about Life in the Trinity Ministry visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com.

Today's Intro:

"The Chain" (Fleetwood Mac, Rumors 1977)
"It's Been a While" (Staind, Breaking The Cycle 2001)
"All We Ever Knew" (The Head and The Heart, Signs of Light 2016)

October 2024 Q&A Oct 02, 2024

Its Q&A time on The Enneagram Journey!

Suzanne and Joel sat down to record today's episode at The Micah Center and decided at the last moment to turn on the camera. Having the camera on contributed to the conversation about seeing a therapist and accountability, and the show just takes off from there.

Some of the things you'll here in this episode:

A question about a 7 and 5 relationship
- this leads to some subtype talk
What needs to fall away when you go to therapy?
Enneagram 6s and Trust
- Are 6s the most controlling personality?
A 4 and 5 parenting adult children
A great Chuck Knoblauch joke that Suzanne talked over
aaaaand more!

"Tell me what you want, and I'll tell you whether or not I can give it to you."

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2025 is going to be the year that LTM gets around the country! Several stops already locked in: Arkansas, South Carolina, Tennessee, Minnesota, Texas. And many more that are in the works!

Be sure and subscribe to the LTM newsletter to get the latest updates on these events and everything else podcast related, and LTM related. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com and you'll find the newsletter sign up on any page in the footer.

You've got Enneagram questions? We've got Enneagram responses! This is seriously Suzanne's favorite way to teach, so send your questions in at theenneagramjourney.com/contact

TODAY'S INTRO

Ben Folds, "Annie Waits" (2001, Rockin' The Suburbs)
Pete Holmes (Pete is the WORST Therapist)
Suzanne Stabile in today's show
Step Brothers (2008, Columbia Pictures)

Darnell (1) and Alex (8) - Be Right or In Relationship?, Triggers, Enneagram Cohort Aug 22, 2024

The second half of 2024 is well underway and so is the second half of the 2024 Cohort Program. Welcome back Alex Reegan (enneagram 8) and Darnell Young (enneagram 1)! Our third guest, Matt Lesser (8), couldn't join us for this conversation, but he'll be back at the end of the year for sure! Today's episode is fantastic:

Is "triggered" still a term we should be using? Who decides?
Would you rather be Right or in Relationship?
Armor and Privilege
Tattoo Talk
When are you vulnerable?
Orientation to Time!

We think it would be hard to listen to this episode and not want to apply for the 2025 Cohort Program. So, LTM has extended the application deadline to September 1, 2024. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2025cohort for all of the information, expectations, and applications.

BIG PLUG!!

The Enneagram and Spiritual Practices

September 6-7, Birmingham, AL with Rev. Joseph and Suzanne Stabile

Join the Reverend and The Enneagram Godmother for a weekend diving into our enneagram personalities, specifically Stance Work, and the role it plays in our Spiritual lives and practice.

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/alabama

The Enneagram and Relationships

October 4-5, Charleston, SC, with Suzanne Stabile

Join Suzanne for her final travel teaching of 2024 in beautiful Charleston, South Carolina. We don't know anyone who can combine enneagram wisdom with relationships better than Suzanne. She needs her own weekly radio show to be honest!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/charleston

Today's Intro:

Scrubs (S3, E9)
South Park (S19, E1)
The Enneagram Journey Podcast
Eric Nadel (The Texas Rangers Radio Network)

Micky ScottBey Jones (1) - Accompaniment, Doula, Burnout Jul 16, 2024

Meet The Justice Doula, Micky ScottBey Jones!

Originally mistyped as an 8, which makes a ton of sense, she found her inner critic and her "inner BFF" as an Enneagram 1, and no accompanies others as they birth precious things into the world like love, empathy, self-compassion, liberation, healing and resilience.

You can find out more about Micky at mickyscottbeyjones.com

PLUG TIME

2024 Enneagram Bootcamp

Stress, Loss, & Relationships

August 1-3 in Dallas, TX or join Online

This is LTM's biggest teaching event of the year, and we are thrilled to be back at The Grove Church in Dallas again. There are still some in person tickets available, but if you can't make it to Dallas we hope you will join online. Everyone registered will have access to the replay of the event as well. Join Suzanne and Joe for 3 days of learning, growth, and community!

visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com for all of the important info and to register!

TODAY's INTRO

Michael W. Smith, Place In This World 1991
The Today Show (NBC, 2019)
Parks and Rec (S5. E15)
The Office (S6. E18, The Delivery Part 2)

Luke Norsworthy (7) - How to Love the Life You Already Have Jun 26, 2024

We've officially named Luke the first member of The Enneagram Journey 5 Timer Club! It's a big deal.

Not as big a deal though as his latest book, How To Love The Life You Already Have.

If you're looking for the Richard Rohr books Suzanne suggests to read in order (he has many more great ones!) here they are: Everything Belongs, The Naked Now, Falling Upward, Immortal Diamond.

Luke (Enneagram 7), Suzanne, and Joel got a little distracted by some great conversation, so Suzanne and Luke are going to continue their talk on Instagram Live Wednesday, July 3 at 3:00 pm CST. You can find Suzanne on Instagram @suzannestabile and Luke @lukeanorsworthy

We will try to add the link or the video to theenneagramjourney.com if you cannot join live.

Are you signed up for 2024 Enneagram Bootcamp: Stress, Loss, & Relationships?

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com for all of the important information for the Enneagram event of the year, including pre-conference Yoga workshop with Courtney Perry, aka Yenneagram, and a post-conference workshop for Adoptees and former foster youth with Melissa Corkum.

August 1-4, 2024 in Dallas or Online.

If you miss joining in Dallas, we hope you can join Suzanne and LTM in September in Alabama or October in South Carolina!

Visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com for all of the details, dates, and times!

TODAY's INTRO

Hello (Adele 25)
David Whyte (A lyrical bridge between past, present, and future)
Rolling In The Deep (Adele 21)
5 Timers Club (SNL S47: E13)
Easy On Me (Adele 30)
Mythic Quest (S1: E4)

Tony Jones (8) - The God of Wild Places Jun 12, 2024

Enneagram 8, Tony Jones, steps out of the woods and into The Micah Center to sit down with Suzanne and her husband, Rev. Joseph Stabile, to talk about his latest book, The God of Wild Places.

“One of the things I like about the wilderness is that it is not controllable.

We’ve paved too many wild places.”

If you haven't read The God of Wild Places yet, no worries! Give this episode a listen and it will get you prepped for it.

PLUG TIME!

June 2024 is full of great sales at LTM.

All shirts are only $5
Prayer Beads are in stock
All books are between $5 - $13
New Enneagram Bracelets for $10
Free shipping on all orders over $9 with the code PROUD

And be sure to check out the upcoming teaching events in Charleston, South Carolina, Birmingham, Alabama, and of course Enneagram Bootcamp in August here in Dallas or online! You can find out about all of this and so much more (don't forget to apply for the 2025 LTM Cohort program!!) by visiting lifeinthetrinityministry.com

TODAY'S INTRO

Big Yellow Taxi by Counting Crows
We Are The Millers (2013, Warner Bros.)
Forgetting Sarah Marshall (2008, Universal Pictures)
Will Ferrell as Robert Goulet (SNL, the best of Will Ferrell)
A River Runs Through It (1992, Columbia Pictures)

Chanel Dokun (1) - Binding Wounds, Liturgies, Reclaim the Morning May 23, 2024

"You can’t treat what you haven’t diagnosed and you can’t diagnose what you haven’t assessed." - Chanel Dokun

"You can't fix what you can't name." - Suzanne Stabile

Yeah, the two of them could talk for way longer than an hour! But, for today, let's meet Enneagram One, Chanel Dokun. She is a mother of two, life coach, speaker, and author of Life Starts Now. To find out more about Chanel and what she is doing in the world, visit chaneldokun.com.

SUPER PROMOS today

Alabama, The Enneagram and Spiritual Practices with Suzanne and Rev. Joseph Stabile, September 6-7 CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TICKETS
South Carolina, The Enneagram and Relationships with the Enneagram Godmother, October 4-5 CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TICKETS
Texas and Online, 2024 Enneagram Bootcamp: Stress, Loss, and Relationships with Suzanne Stabile and LTM, August 1-3 CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO AND TICKETS

The 2025 Cohort Program

The deadline to apply is August 20, 2024, so there is time, but don't miss out on this incredible opportunity to dive into solitary work that cannot be done alone in the greatest space with the greatest people.

CLICK HERE to learn more about each cohort: the dates, expectations, and applications.

TODAY's INTRO:

SNL (NBC: May 13, 2017)
30 Rock (NBC: S6, E8)
VEEP (HBO: S7, E1)

Alison McCrary (3) Part Two - Calling and Community May 10, 2024

The highly anticipated second part of our conversation with Alison McCrary (enneagram 3) is here!

The Reverend (Joseph Stabile) takes host duties in today's episode as he and Alison talk about their callings and their journey. Alison started Methodist and now is Catholic. Joe started Catholic and now is Methodist. Wow, the journey they've been on!

Would the Reverend make a good butcher?
Alison and the Black Panthers teaming up?
Could Suzanne and Joe keep up with Alison for a day?

Today's episode is light on enneagram, but so heavy on Journey, and we think that is a great thing, and hope you do too!

Two links from the podcast that we hope you'll check out:

Alison talks about her work with inmates on death row. If you would like to learn more and support that ministry, click here.

And, if you want to learn more about Alison and all she is doing in the world, visit alisonmccrary.com

PLUG TIME!

1. Enneagram Bootcamp is August 1-3, and May is the final month to take advantage of the Early Bird price! If you are wanting to join a community growing around Stress, Loss, and Relationship, this is a weekend for you. CLICK HERE for all of the important information and registration.

2. Now is the time to apply for the 2025 LTM Cohort Program! The deadline for all applications is August 20th, but don't delay and forget. Next year will be the first year LTM hosts 6! Cohorts: Enneagram, Enneagram and Family Systems, De/Reconstruction, Enneagram and Contemplative Spirituality, Leading Change, and Enneagram for the Modern World. Click here or visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2025cohort for all of the important information and applications.

TODAY'S INTRO

At Least It Was Here, The 88
Sister Act 2: Back in the Habit (Touchstone Pictures, 1993)
Hitch (Columbia Pictures, 2005)
Parks and Rec (S6: E10)

Alison McCrary (3) - Big 3 Energy, Spiritual Practices, Queer Eye Apr 16, 2024

"A contemplative practice is any act, habitually entered into with your whole heart, as a way of awakening, deepening, and sustaining a contemplative experience of the inherent holiness of the present moment."

-James Finley

What an honor it is to have Alison McCrary join us on The Enneagram Journey!

Who knows the people you might get to talk to when you're just sitting on the couch watching an episode of Queer Eye?! Alison, an enneagram 3, is a New Orleans based political, cultural, and spiritual warrior. She learned her number when she was in formation to become a Catholic Sister.

Two great things about this episode. First, the Reverend joins the show! Second, we knew there was going to be so much to talk about that this is the first part of a two parter.

To learn more about Alison and the great things she is doing in the world, visit alisonmccrary.com

And for those looking for her Spotify Playlists, you'll find them here

2024 Enneagram Bootcamp - August 1-3 - in Dallas or join Online!

Stress, Loss, and Relationships...am I right?!?! Join LTM and Suzanne as we add some new understanding and tools for these facets of life. The community that grows year over year at Bootcamp is hard to explain, but it is very real and very wonderful, and we want you to be a part of it.

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2024ebc for all of the important information and to get your tickets to join in Dallas or to register to join online if you cannot make it in person.

3 days of solitary work that cannot be done alone!

Today's Intro:

Queer Eye (S8, E5)
Sister Act (Touchstone Pictures, 1992)
Dane Cook (Retaliation)

Matt Lesser (8) - Enneagram Cohort, Assessments, his Dark Night of the Soul Mar 27, 2024

Meet Enneagram Eight, Matt Lesser, the third third of the first third of our series with three members of the 2024 Enneagram Cohort!

The man has done some work, and he shares his journey with us beginning with a life threatening illness when he was 15, depression in his twenties, and his dark night of the soul.

He left the corporate world in 2021 and started his own business, beginning with two books, Unsatisfied: When Less Is More and Unengaged: Building Flourishing Organizations. Learn more about Matt and what he is doing at uniquelynormal.com

PLUG TIME!

Too too too much to plug, so you need to hop over to lifeinthetrinityministry.com and start with the Events Page. 2 upcoming Know Your Number workshops, the deadline for the 2024 Leading Change Cohort, and the Super Early Bird Special for the 2024 Enneagram Cohort, and some great other things and stuff!

Just in case you missed it a few lines earlier, lifeinthetrinityministry.com !

TODAY'S INTRO

F.R.I.E.N.D.S (S8, E2)
Step Brothers (2008 Columbia Pictures)
Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby (2006 Columbia Pictures)

Alex Reegan (8) - Enneagram Cohort, Both/And, Shamanic Spirituality Mar 07, 2024

Welcome to Part 2 of what we envision to be a 9 part series throughout 2024 following 3 members of The LTM Enneagram Cohort features, enneagram 8, Alex Reegan!

Alex Reegan is the author of What Needs To Be Said, as well as an interfaith minister, speaker, and transformative spiritual coach who uses his intuitive wisdom to help guide people towards their own inner knowing. Born into an evangelical Christian family that prevented his true identity as a trans man from emerging, he spent years in depression, anxiety, and addiction trying to break free of the oppressive beliefs that bound him. His journey at last led him to sobriety, shamanism and then seminary, which helped him reclaim his faith and trust in the Divine. Through speaking engagements, workshops, one-on-one and group sessions with clients, Alex is profoundly dedicated to helping others speak their truth, release shame, and find oneness.

SUPER DUPER PLUG TIME!

Registration is now open for the 2024 Enneagram Bootcamp:

The Enneagram: Stress, Loss, and Relationships with LTM and the Enneagram Godmother.

When: Thursday, August 1 - Saturday, August 3

Where: The Grove, Dallas, TX or join online from wherever you are

visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2024ebc for all of the important information and to sign up. And don't forget about the pre-conference Yoga workshop with Yenneagram Master, Courtney Perry!

"A pastor walks out of the church and into the woods, in pursuit of the God he's lost."

Sounds like a great story, right?!

Join LTM and author and theologian Tony Jones on Friday, April 26th at The Micah Center or join online for a live podcast recording as Tony, Joe, and Suzanne discuss his newest book, The God of Wild Places.

As an additional bonus, musician Ronnie Fauss will be sharing the stage as well!

visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wildplaces to sign up!

TODAY'S INTRO:

"Woke Up This Morning" by Alabama 3
Big Mouth (S4, E1: The New Me)
The Break-Up (2006, Universal Pictures)

Darnell Young (1) - Enneagram Cohort, Critic Talk, Context Feb 06, 2024

This is the first episode of an anticipated 10 Episode series over the next year, that we're really excited for! You have most likely heard about the LTM Cohort program on the podcast, and what better way to talk about it then to follow along with 3 Cohort members?

On today's show, meet Enneagram One Darnell Young.

She has always been interested in the behavior of others and the motivation behind people's behavior. In being introduced to the Enneagram, Darnell felt the tool put a name, or number, to how she viewed people. She loves to share information with others to bring them to awareness of themselves and others around them.

In the next couple of episodes listeners will also meet Matt and Alex from the 2024 Enneagram Cohort.

If you're interested in applying for the LTM Cohort program, there is still time to apply for the 2024 Leading Change Cohort, and the dates, expectations, and application for the 2025 program will open up in the Spring!

Want to dip your toes before diving into a Cohort? CLICK HERE to sign up for one of LTM's Enneagram small groups starting in March.

The Enneagram Journey podcast is produced by Life in the Trinity Ministry, a 501c3 non-profit ministry, and your donations help us to keep workshops and resources affordable as well as fund scholarships for the Cohort program, teaching events, and maintenance and upkeep of The Micah Center. You can contribute at lifeinthetrinityministry.com and the enneagram journey.com

TODAY'S INTRO

Jerry Maguire (TriStar Pictures, 1996)
The Princess Bride (20th Century Studios, 1987)
South Park (S4, E8)
You People (Netflix, 2023)

Blessings on your journey!

"The Monday Group" - Small Groups, Spiritual Formation, and Barbie Jan 29, 2024

Meet some of the members of LTM's first online Enneagram Journey Curriculum group!

Suzanne and Joel talk with Chelsea (8), Jennifer (4), Maria (2), Marty (2), Hillary (2), Matt (6), and Ronna (8) in today's episode about how they found each other and what the Journey has been like so far.

Then the conversation evolved into a discussion about where we find our shadow side and false self in enneagram work, the greatness of the Barbie movie, spiral dynamics, and the importance of intergenerational learning.

If you don't have a group yet, find one! Create one! Join one! You've heard it over and over again, one of the mottos of LTM and The Micah Center is, "A place for solitary work that cannot be done alone."

LTM will be starting a few new small groups in 2024, and the information for the 2025 Cohort program will be available soon!

Be sure to visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com to see what is new and upcoming at LTM

TODAY'S INTRO

Barbie (2023)
South Park (S7, E12)
Bar Rescue (2011, Paramount Network)

Josh Graves (3) - The Simple Secret Jan 19, 2024

"Marriage has taught me that two people can experience reality in two very different ways." - Josh Graves

Welcome Josh Graves, preaching and teaching minister at Otter Creek Church in Nashville, TN and author of The Simple Secret: Choosing Love in a Culture of Hostility, and an Enneagram 3.

A little subtype talk, a little family systems talk, relationships (of course), and do you know if you're playing the game?

This is a GOOOOOOD, good book! You can get your copy here on Amazon.

PLUG TIME

Clear your calendar! August 1st through August 3rd, the 2024 Enneagram Bootcamp with Suzanne in Dallas and online. There is no experience that can replace being in Dallas in person for the event, but a second option is joining online if you can't be there in person. Suzanne and LTM are working on the material right now, and as soon as the weekend's teaching is set, we will let you know. For now just go ahead and make those travel plans for Thursday, August 1 through Saturday, August 3rd!

We wouldn’t be able to have bootcamp, workshops, cohorts, etc., without you! LTM is a 501c3 non-profit ministry, and your donations help us to keep workshops and resources affordable as well as fund scholarships for the Cohort program, teaching events, and maintenance and upkeep of The Micah Center. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com to support the podcast and Life in the Trinity Ministry

TODAY'S INTRO

"All You Need is Love", The Beatles (1967)
How I Met Your Mother (S3: E18)
FRIENDS (S5: E14)

Jeff Crosby (9) - Spiritual Practice of Reading, Forgiveness, Language of the Soul Dec 29, 2023

If you're a fan of The Enneagram Journey then there is a good chance you're a fan of books. Today's episode is filled with good book talk because Suzanne's dear friend Jeff Crosby is on the show.

Jeff, Enneagram Nine and author of The Language of The Soul, shares his experience as a 9, what forgiveness means to him, and much more.

Find out more about Jeff at jeffreycrosby.net and click here to get your copy of The Language of The Soul.

The Enneagram Journey podcast is produced by Life in the Trinity Ministry, a 501c(3) non-profit ministry. The podcast, workshops, Cohorts, and other enneagram and spiritual formation resources are made possible with your support and financial contributions. Click here to donate at lifeinthetrinityministry.com or visit theenneagramjourney.com

Thank you for your continued support of the podcast and LTM!

TODAY'S INTRO:

Shadowlands (1993, Richard Attenborough)
We're The Millers (2013, New Line Cinema)
The Office deleted scenes with Michael Scott
Bruce Cockburn, "Orders" live on eTown

December 2023 Q&A Dec 04, 2023

It's been a busy season, but The Enneagram Journey is back with a fantastic episode of Q&A with Suzanne, and a special appearance from Dr. Andy Stoker.

CLICK HERE to ask a question for a future Q&A episode!

"Enneagram 7s Reframe, Enneagram 3s Restructure"
The Seventh Law of Emotional Triangles
What is nikhedonia?

PLUG TIME!

The 4 Mantras and The Holidays is Saturday, December 9th

Show Up
Pay Attention
Tell the Truth
Don't Attach to the Results

Now do all of that and have a fun, bright, and beautiful holiday season! Maybe not so easy? Well this workshop can help!

Register to join online from anywhere in the world. Registration includes access to the Live teaching, the replay if you can't make it on the 9th or need to pop in and out, as well as a free audio download of the workshop.

More information and registration at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/4mantras

Thank you for subscribing and listening to The Enneagram Journey Podcast.

LTM is a 501c3 non-profit ministry, and your donations help us to keep the podcast ad-free, workshops and resources affordable, as well as fund scholarships for the Cohort program, teaching events, and maintenance and upkeep of The Micah Center. Your can donate to support the ministry at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/donate

TODAY'S INTRO:

Step Brothers (2008 Columbia Pictures)
Good Will Hunting (1997 Miramax)
Dr. Andy Stoker (December 2024 Q&A)

Jason Miller (5) - Promiscuous, Non-Anxious, When The World Breaks Oct 24, 2023

You may know that Suzanne was introduced to the world of podcasting through friend of the show, Luke Norsworthy. Now Luke has introduced Suzanne to Jason Miller, Enneagram 5, pastor at South Bend City Church and author of When The World Breaks. We'll get a peek at their relationship and Jason's affection for all Sevens! What is it like to be an enneagram Five and a church planter? Are you a non-anxious individual? And, lets reexamine our feelings about the word promiscuous.

“In our dualistic culture, a neutral stand is not appreciated.” - SS

PLUG TIME

The 4 Mantras with Suzanne Stabile - at The Micah Center and Online

Show Up
Pay Attention
Tell The Truth
Don't Get Attached to the Results

Saturday, December 9th at The Micah Center with an online option for those who can't make it in person. There is no better time to walk through and with these Mantras than leading into Christmas and the New Year. AND, there is no better person to learn them from than Suzanne.

REGISTER HERE

"I was reading Richard Rohr before it was cool." We heard that in this episode and immediately loved the phrase. So, why not put it on a super comfortable, tri-blend tee?! Get yours here before they sell out.

Take the time and visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com for more opportunities!

TODAY'S INTRO

The Office (S7: E15)
It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia (S10: E9)
Promiscuous by Nelly Furtado ft. Timbaland
Joe DeRosa, You Let Me Down, Feb. 2017

Brian Lee (1) - Security Line, Perfect/Correct/Right, Broken to Beloved Oct 04, 2023

Enneagram Ones, have you named your Inner Critic?

In this episode, Brian Lee shares his relationship with his Critic, as well as his journey from Broken to Beloved. Suzanne and Brian talk about Ennneagram One's relationship with Perfection and it what that my mean, and a great discussion about the line that Ones and Sevens share. This episode also includes a special appearance from Enneagram 8, Joey Schewee!

PLUG TIME

The Road Back to You has sold over 1 Million copies! If you or someone you know needs a fresh copy, during the month of October LTM is selling personalized/signed copies of The Road Back to You for $13 (a Stabile lucky number). Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com and let Suzanne know who to sign it for and we'll get it headed your way. Early Christmas present?!

Also, join LTM, Suzanne, and The Enneagram Journey for a celebration and live podcast recording at The Ivey Tavern in Dallas near Love Field airport on Friday, October 20th. The celebration is free to attend, but if you want to lock in a reserved seat, LTM has some available at lifeinthetrinityministry.com. Hope to see you there!

TODAY'S INTRO:

The Critic, FOX 1995
The Wedding Singer, New Line Cinema 1998
One, Sleeping At Last, 2019
Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, Warner Bros. 2004

Mallory Wyckoff (3) - Curiosity, Imaginative Prayer, God Is Sep 19, 2023

Channeling our inner Jeff Foxworthy... If you've ever thought to yourself, "How can I make sure people already know that I know the Enneagram and that I'm not new to it like they are?", you might be an Enneagram 3!

Welcome Mallory Wyckoff to The Enneagram Journey!

Mallory Wyckoff (DMin, MTS) is a writer, speaker, spiritual director, and peacemaker. She also serves as key relationships officer with Search for Common Ground, the world’s largest organization dedicated to peacebuilding. Having completed her dissertation on the impact of sexual trauma on survivors’ theological perception and spiritual formation, Mallory has a DMin in missional and spiritual formation.

Today's episode includes talk about Curiosity, the difference between an Enneagram 1 and 3, Shame, Imaginative Prayer, and discussion about her newest book, God Is.

You can find out more about Mallory at mallorywyckoff.com

TODAY'S PLUG:

The 4 Mantras and The Holidays with Suzanne Stabile

Saturday, December 9th in Dallas and Online

Show Up, Pay Attention, Tell the Truth, Don’t attach to the Results.

How hard can it be? For different Enneagram numbers, some of these can prove to be difficult enough, but then add the pressures of the holiday season?! No worries though, because this year Suzanne Stabile is going to give us some tools to help us adhere to the 4 Mantras, and have a healthier and happier holiday season.

CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION AND TO REGISTER

Thank you for your support of The Enneagram Journey podcast and of Life in the Trinity Ministry! To learn more about LTM, programming, and to donate visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/about

TODAY'S INTRO:

Shame, The Avett Brothers
Laura Addis (E3 on The Enneagram Journey Podcast, June 2022)
Barbie (Warner Bros. 2023)
Ted Lasso (S1, E8)

Change, Change, Change Sep 08, 2023

Very cool episode of The Enneagram Journey podcast today.

In the Spring of 2023 Suzanne and Joe taught a 2 day workshop on Change. Change and Spirituality, Change and the Enneagram, Change and Me, Change and You, CHANGE!

The conversation today between Joe and Suzanne is the second segment of that workshop after the Reverend's opening. You can find that opening teaching here on the LTM website.

The entire workshop will be available beginning September 12th in the LTM store.

PLUG TIME

Suzanne is teaching in Dallas September 23rd, in Houston September 30th, and in Porterville, CA October 13-14. We hope you can make it for one of these events! You can find all of the information and links for registration at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/events

TODAY'S INTRO

Early Mornin' Stoned Pimp, Kid Rock
Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy (2004 DreamWorks Pictures)
Changes, David Bowie
Scrubs (S2.E14)
Changes, 2Pac

August 2023 Q&A Aug 29, 2023

Its your monthly Q&A session with Suzanne!

I'm struggling between knowing if I'm a 1 or a 2
Question from a 6 and 9 in relationship and new to the enneagram
Several questions about Enneagram 4s and relationships
How can a 5 and 9 get stuff done?
A parenting question
AND MORE

"It's never really a matter of the withdrawing stance not knowing what to do. It's a matter of wanting to do what needs to be done."

PLUG TIME

Its a quick plug, but a great one! The Road Back to You has sold over 1 MILLION copies!!! Join LTM and The Enneagram Journey podcast in celebrating on Friday, October 20th at The Ivy Tavern in Dallas. There will be a live recording of the podcast and you'll get to be around the LTM community as well as other enneagram enthusiasts in a really fun cool atmosphere. You can find all of the information as it is made available at lifeinthetrinityministry.com

Congratulations Suzanne!!

TODAY'S INTRO:

Family Guy (S16, E12)
"Just Breathe", Pearl Jam (2009)
The Office (S9, E18)
Just Friends (New Line Cinema, 2005)

Jasmine Miller (6) - Layered Thinking & Doing Things Afraid Aug 18, 2023

Meet Jasmine Miller!

Enneagram 6, mother of two, married to Nat (9), and your new favorite Public Service Announcer. In today's episode, we're going to listen to a little of the show Lost, talk about Fear and Anxiety, journaling, and what it's like to be an enneagram 6 with two little ones around.

PLUG TIME:

Two upcoming events!

Houston, TX - September 30, 2024 join Suzanne at St. Paul's UMC for Relationships and the Enneagram. Click here for more information and registration.
Porterville, Ca - October 13-14 you can dive into The Path Between Us and Relationships and the Enneagram with Suzanne on her birthday! Want to know what present to give her: your attendance! Click here for more information and registration.

Don't wait until it is too late to apply for the 2024 LTM Cohort Program! The final day to apply is September 1, 2023.

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2024cohorts for all of the dates, information and application.

LTM is a place for solitary work that cannot be done alone, and the Cohort program is the perfect example!

TODAY'S INTRO:

Friends (Season 10, Episode 9)
Let's Be Cops (2014, 20th Century Studios)
Wedding Crashers (2005 New Line Cinema)

Back to School with the Enneagram Parents Aug 08, 2023

It is that time!

Joey and Billy Schewee ,aka the Enneagram Parents, join Suzanne and Joel at The Micah Center to talk about this magical time of the year that is: BACK TO SCHOOL TIME!

They're going to share some of their experiences, what they've learned from others on The Journey and help us to better understand our children during this transitional period as well as help us make some better parenting choices. After listening, we're sure you'll want to find them on social media. They're most active on Instagram and Facebook @enneagramparents.

PLUG TIME

2023 Enneagram Bootcamp: Naming and Navigating was so wonderful. You can still register to watch the replay of all 3 days of teaching at lifeinthetrinityministry.com.
Apply today for the 2024 LTM Cohort Program! In 2024 LTM will offer 4 Cohorts: The Enneagram Cohort, The Contemplative Cohort, The Family Systems Cohort, and the Deconstruction/Reconstruction Cohort. Click here to find the dates, descriptions, and expectations as well as the application. LTM is a place for solitary work that cannot be done alone!

Lifeinthetrinityministry.com

TODAY'S INTRO

South Park (Season 24, Episode 1)
Big Daddy (1999, Columbia Pictures)
Billy Madison (1995, Universal Pictures)
"What I Go To School For", Jonas Brothers

June 2023 Q&A Jun 05, 2023

A lot packed into today's episode!

This Q&A conversation was recorded in front of a live audience on The Table. Suzanne answers questions that have been sent in via the voicemail app on theenneagramjourney.com as well as some that were submitted live during the recording.

What is her experience with twins and enneagram numbers?
Comparing a 7 in stress vs. an 8 in low space
Mistyping between a 1 and 4
2s and altruistic giving
aaaaand more!

PLUG TIME!

Kansas City, June 23-24, The Enneagram with Suzanne Stabile.

Find your enneagram number and explore the role it plays in your life and in your relationships.

Tickets are only $30 at Resurrection UMC. Click here for more information and registration.

2023 Enneagram Bootcamp: Naming and Navigating, August 3-5

The flagship event each year for LTM. This 3 day teaching event is for everyone no matter where you are on your Enneagram Journey. Suzanne will be combining Enneagram Triad teaching with Enneagram Stance wisdom to help participants better name and navigate their way in the world. Join us in Dallas for an incredible opportinity of growth and community, but if you cannot be with us in person, join online from where you are in the world!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/23bc

Todays INTRO:

"Nobody Like Me (Think I'll Go Eat Worms)" ABC Kids
The Office - S6: E4
Daily Affirmations with Stuart Smalley, SNL (NBC)

Sandra Van Opstal (8) & Karl Ostroski (1) - Getting Things Done May 17, 2023

A groundbreaking show! TEJ's first 8 and 1 conversation!

You probably know Sandra from the Enneagram Daily Reflections Series, she authored 40 Days on Being an 8. If you don't know her yet, get to meet her and her husband Karl in today's episode.

Don't get distracted by the frog talk in the start of this conversation, it's going somewhere...

The importance of Intentionality
"Let's make it happen."
Justice
Parenting

“I have a motivation of how do I make sure no one can scold me for anything.” - Karl (1)

“Rest feels like a choice to me, and I’ve had to undo that.” - Sandra (8)

PLUG TIME!

Know Your Number with Suzanne in Kansas City at Resurrection UMC this June!

June 23-24 at their Leawood Campus, tickets are only! $30!!! What a great weekend vacation getaway! CLICK HERE for all the information and to get your tickets. Looking forward to seeing you there!

Is it time for you to join an LTM Cohort? While you're discerning, click on the link below for all of the info, dates, expectations, and the application. Don't wait until it is too late to apply for the De/Re-Construction Cohort! The deadline is June 30th!

Apply for the LTM Cohort Program

TODAY's INTRO:

Wedding Crashers (2005 New Line Cinema)
Sandra Van Opstal on TEJ podcast (January 2022)
Brooklyn 99 - S3: E13
The Office - S5: E15

Kendra Adachi (1) - The Lazy Genius May 08, 2023

"How can we 'Lazy Genius' this?"

Find out in this episode of The Enneagram Journey with enneagram 1, Kendra Adachi!

Kendra and Suzanne talk about:

their perspectives as a 1 and a 2 in the world
The Dependent Stance and their relationship with Childhood Wounds
is Joel a man-child? (Spoiler: his is)
Anger, Connection, and Acceptance

After today's show you'll be wanting to visit thelazygeniuscollective.com

And be sure and subscribe to The Lazy Genius podcast!

PLUG TIME!

Enneagram Bootcamp registration is OPEN!!!

August 3-5 in Dallas, TX join Suzanne and LTM as we learn how to best Name and Navigate our experience. This three day weekend is the flagship event for Life in the Trinity Ministry each year where members of the growing LTM and enneagram community, both new and old, come together to grow compassion and understanding.

You can find all of the important information and registration at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/23bc

We're thrilled this year that Courtney Perry (yennneagram.com) will be leading a preconference workshop on Yoga and the Enneagram. Space is limited for the preconference workshop, so don't delay! For all of the teaching of the weekend there is a virtual option if you cannot attend in person in Dallas.

2023 Enneagram Bootcamp - August 3-5, 2023 - Naming and Navigating

TODAY'S INTRO:

"Just Breathe", Pearl Jam
"No. 1", Nelly
Super Troopers, 2001 Fox Searchlight
Family Guy, S5: E7
The Office, S6: E4
The Sopranos, S5: E13

KJ Ramsey (4) - Common Courage Apr 21, 2023

Have you asked yourself recently the question, "Am I currently whole?".

If you have, what then did you do? Suzanne and KJ are going to unpack what courage is, what it isn't, and talk about so much more. If you're new to KJ Ramsey (enneagram 4), you can find out more about her at kjramsey.com where you can also get your copy of The Book of Common Courage. You can also listen to KJ and Suzanne from their first conversation on The Journey back in May of 2022.

PLUG TIME!

TODAY'S INTRO:

Family Guy (Seahorse Seashell Party S10 E2 FOX)
Parks and Recreation (Go Big or Go Home S3 E1 NBC)
Gangster's Paradise (feat. L.V.), Coolio
KJ Ramsey on TEJ Podcast (May 2022)

Melissa Corkum (7) and Lisa Qualls (3) - Reclaim Compassion and Blocked Care Apr 07, 2023

The authors of Reclaim Compassion and hosts of The Adoption Connection podcast, Melissa Corkum (enneagram 7) and Lisa Qualls (enneagram 3) join Suzanne and Joel on The Journey this week!

Parenting is HARD
Working together as a 3 and 7 and how they relate differently to feelings
Blocked Care
What is hand lettering?

You can find out more about Melissa and Lisa at theadoptionconnection.com as well as the great resources they have to offer.

Save the date!

August 3-5, the first Thursday, Friday, and Saturday of August 2023 is the Enneagram Event of the year! Suzanne will be teaching on Enneagram Triads and Enneagram Stances and where they intersect. More details and information will be available soon, but for now, lock it in your calendar. It will be in Dallas, TX with an online option.

While you're waiting for those details, go ahead and click on over to lifeinthetrinityministry.com and apply for the 2024 LTM Cohort Program! Applications for The Enneagram Cohort, The Contemplative Cohort, and The Family Systems Cohort are now being accepted. You can get all of the information, dates, and application at lifeinthetrinityministry.com.

Today's INTRO:

The Office (NBC, Season 3 EP 24)
Compilation from How I Met Your Mother (CBS)
Jamie Ivey on TEJ Podcast (November 2018)
G.I. Joe theme

David Thomas (1) - Raising Emotionally Strong Boys Mar 27, 2023

Who should listen to this episode? EVERYONE.

Enneagram 1, David Thomas, joined Suzanne and Joel at the Micah Center to discuss parenting, especially from the perspective of men and fathers who are raising boys.

Empathy Ninjas
Where do your children experience community that doesn't involve competition?
Fear vs. Anxiety
The gifts already on board each enneagram personality in raising children
more, so much more

David is the director of family counseling at Daystar Counseling ministries.

Learn more and find more resources at daystarcounseling.com and raisingboysandgirls.com

PLUG TIME!

April 1 through August 30, applications are being accepted for the 2024 LTM Cohorts.

The Enneagram Cohort
The Contemplative Cohort
The Family Systems Cohort

You will not find a better space or community to grow in these areas than the LTM Cohort program. Find out more and apply at lifeinthetrinityministry.com

TODAY'S INTRO:

Mike Alexander on The Enneagram Journey podcast (June 2022)
YMCA, Village People
Will Ferrell and Mark Wahlberg, The Other Guys (2010 Columbia Pictures)

Shannan (8) & Cory (6) Martin - Part 2 Feb 21, 2023

The Journey with Shannan and Cory Martin continues today with Part 2 of their conversation with Suzanne and Joel!

Let's get into some Phobic/Counter Phobic Enneagram 6 talk, as well as confront our own biases, lean into mystery, and more.

Odds are you're going to want to check out more about what Shannan and Cory are up to and here are two good places to look:

shannanmartin.com and elkhartcountyjailministry.org

And if you caught it in the intro, find your way to lifeinthetrinityministry.com to see where Suzanne will be teaching next! You'll also find The Table an online subscription with hundreds of hours of content, and more audio workshops then your spiritual life can handle at once!

TODAY'S INTRO:

It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Season 14: Ep 7
Jamie Ivey on TEJ Podcast (November 2018)
New Girl, Season 4: Ep 2

Shannan (8) & Cory (6) Martin - Part 1 Feb 08, 2023

Welcome Shannan and Cory Martin on The Journey!

Shannan, enneagram 8, is an author (Start with Hello, The Ministry of Ordinary Places, and Falling Free) and a cook at a soup kitchen. Cory, enneagram 6, is the Chaplain at The Elkhart County Jail. They have 4 kids and have been married for 22 years.

The conversation was so great that we had to break it into two episodes, so enjoy Part 1 and be sure and come back for the rest of the talk!

PLUG TIME

2 fantastic teaching events coming up:

February 24-25: Change, Change, Change

March 9-11: The Joy & Complexity of Fostering & Adoption

Both weekends will be streamed live and all partcipants will have access to the teaching through the month of June! ADDED BONUS, registration for the Joy & Complexity of Fostering & Adoption includes the teaching from Change, Change, Change.

Get all of the information and important details at lifeinthetrinityministry.com and join us in Dallas or virtually online!

TODAY'S INTRO

The Campaign (2012 Gary Sanchez Productions)
Mike Alexander, Enneagram 6 on The Enneagram Journey (June 2022)
New Girl (Season 2: Ep 16)

January Q&A - The Journey Toward Wholeness Jan 27, 2023

The first podcast of 2023!

We are excited for what the New Year will bring on The Enneagram Journey! New incredible guests are already lined up, and a new schedule of podcasts to release each month has us thrilled. We thought the best way to kick off 2023 would be to wrap up some questions from the 2022 Book and Podcast Tour, The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness.

Thank you everyone who joined Suzanne, other podcast listeners, and LTM last year. Stay tuned for upcoming teaching destinations, and visit the LTM Event Page to see where Suzanne will be next!

PLUG TIME

The Joy & Complexity of Fostering and Adoption

March 9-11 in Dallas, TX or register to attend online

Sparrow House Counseling has teamed with LTM to provide CEUs for this event! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/family to register and for all of the important information!

Today's INTRO

Seinfeld: Season 7, EP 21 "The Wait Out"
Sports Radio 96.7 and 1310 The Ticket: "The Tee Box"
The Enneagram Journey podcast with Teresa and Scott Mcbean
Daniel Tiger, "When You Feel So Mad That You Want To Roar"

December Q&A Dec 15, 2022

Taking a break from Holiday shopping and decorating, and we're back in the mailbag and mailbox for today's episode.

Enneagram 3 questions about feelings (always great!)
Communication in relationships (4 & 8 couple in this instance)
Diving too deep too quickly in relationships

Keep your questions coming! Beginning in 2023 we will have a monthly Q&A episode.

These episodes are so great because you the listener ask such great questions.

theenneagramjourney.com/contact

PLUG TIME!!!

The Joy & Complexity of Fostering & Adoption: Learning to Manage Expectations Through the Lens of the Enneagram

An Enneagram teaching event March 9-11 in Dallas, TX at The Grove or join from anywhere you are online

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/family

TODAY'S INTRO:

It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia (Season 5 EP 5)
Baby Mama (2008 Universal Pictures)
Corporate (Season 1 EP 3)

TEJTW Kansas City! with Ryan (8) and Suzanne (9) Motter Nov 23, 2022

Thank you everyone who has joined us on The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22, both in person at the recordings and from your home, car, work, the gym and on your walks.

Today's episode is the final conversation from the tour, with Ryan and Suzanne Motter in Kansas City, MO. Ryan and Suzanne work together, raise two wonderful girls together, and support each other in the hot seat with the Enneagram Godmother.

2023 will be filled with new episodes and conversations, but it'll be hard to top these live shows!

If you listened all the way through this episode and want to contribut to the next episode of Others On The Journey. Visit theenneagramjourney.com/contact and leave a voicemail with your enneagram number and your relationship with Trust. Reminder that it has to be 90 seconds or less. Can hardly wait to hear and share your responses!

The podcast is produced by Life in the Trinity Ministry. It is made possible with your financial support. You can make donations to support LTM and the podcast at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/about

TODAY'S INTRO:

The Change Up (2011 Relativity Media)
TEJ podcast, OOTJ (9s and Change)
The Kingdom of Heaven (2005 Twentieth Century Fox)
Meet The Parents (2000 Universal Pictures)
Old School (2003 Paramount Pictures)

TEJTW Charlotte! with Melissa Smernoff (9) & Alexis Drye (1) Nov 01, 2022

The podcast hits the road for Charlotte, NC in today's episode, sitting down with homeschooling moms, Melissa (enneagram 9) and Alexiz (enneagram 1).

Like all of the Tour '22 podcasts, this episode is a little longer than our typical shows, but it is packed with great Q&A, enneagram insights from the guests on life as a 1 and 9, wisdom from the Godmother, and a few laughs.

If this episode convinces you to free up your weekend November 11 and 12, then join us in Kansas City, MO for the final stop of The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22! Friday night live podcast recording with Suzanne and Ryan Motter (8&9) and teaching Saturday with Suzanne Stabile.

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22

SAVE THE DATE!!!

March 9-11, 2023 is LTM's Spring Event. This year Suzanne will be speaking and teaching on the Enneagram, Parenting and Foster Care and Adoption. Registration will open up on Black Friday with a sweet sale. Don't miss out!

Thank you for your support of the podcast and of LTM. Keep listening, keeping joining in the community, and keep growing! The podcast and ministry are dependent on your support. You can donate at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/donate

TODAY's INTRO:

Joe List on This Week at the Comedy Cellar
The Whitest Kids You Know - Homeschool
Joey and Billy Schewee on TEJ Podcast EP 85
Jennifer Fulwiler standup

Danielle Shroyer (8) - Anger, Religion & Spirituality, Spiritual Direction Oct 07, 2022

This is one of those conversations that could have lasted easily another 2 hours. Enneagram 8, Danielle Shroyer, visited the Micah Center to join Suzanne on The Journey.

Did you have to Google Lebanese Druze? (Joel did)
Original Blessing (you're going to want your own copy)
Enneagram 8s and Anger
Staying connected to your history and family tree while moving on in a new world
And, you guessed it, so much more!!

PLUG TIME

One final stop on The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22!

November 11-12 : Kansas City, MO

Don't miss out!

ALSO

Trick or Treat, Passion or Virtue?

October 22 : Online and at The Micah Center

If you have wanted more knowledge and direction around the Enneagram Passions and Virtues, then sign up. All registrants will have access to the replay through the end of the year.

More information for both events and registration at

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store

Thank you for your continued support of the podcast and all of the work that LTM does. You can donate to the ministry at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/donate to keep the content coming!

Today's INTRO

Step Brothers (2008, Will Ferrell and John C. Reilly)
Tony Jones (TEJ Podcast, EP 37)
Kate Bush, Running Up That Hill (1985)
The Avengers (2012 Disney)

TEJTW Tour Birmingham! with Erin Moon (3) and Jamie Golden (7) Sep 23, 2022

The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22 continues with Erin Moon (3) and Jamie Golden (7)!

As someone who clearly listens to good podcasts, you probably already know Erin and Jamie from The Bible Binge or The Popcast, but if you don't, you'll get to know a lot about them today.

Can we hack our Repressed Centers?
What do you think the overlap is of ADHD and Enneagram Sevens?
Which numbers catastrophize the most?
Differences between 3s, 7s, and 8s?
Does the OC still hold up?

We're taking all that on and more in this episode.

PLUG TIME

1 stop left on the Tour and we want you to be there with us!

The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness

November 11-12, Kansas City, MO

Sign up today at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22

The Enneagram Journey Podcast is produced by LTM and made possible by you the listener. Thank you for listening and for your financial support as we continue to provide quality enneagram teaching to the world. CLICK HERE to donate today.

Today's Intro:

Ron Swanson on Parks and Rec (Season 5: EP: 18 NBC Universal)
The O.C. theme song (The Noise Complaints)
Favored or Forsaken: The Enneagram (The Bible Binge podcast)
Sarah Bragg (Episode 10 of TEJ Podcast)

Jillana Goble (2) - Foster Care, Adoption, A Love Stretched Life Sep 08, 2022

What?! Back to back episodes with Enneagram 2 guests? That's right!

Jillana Goble joins The Journey in this episode to talk about her experience as an enneagram two parent, foster parent, wife, and her book, A Love Stretched Life. Towards the end of the episode Suzanne and Jillana run through all 9 numbers, briefly discussing hangups they may have and questions to ask themselves as they pursue foster care and adoption.

PLUG TIME!

November 11-12, 2022 you need to be in Kansas City, MO for the final stop of The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22. If you've enjoyed hearing the podcast recordings, imagine what it would be like to be there in person! Then listen to Suzanne teach around her latest book, The Journey Toward Wholeness.

CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP TODAY

The Enneagram Journey podcast is produced by Life in the Trinity Ministry and is made possible with your support. Donate to help LTM continue to seek and sow compassion at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/donate

TODAY'S INTRO:

Problem Child (1990)
Raylynn Carr, Episode 100 of TEJ Podcast
Instant Family (2018)

Holly Oxhandler (2) - Pride, Process, The Soul of The Helper Aug 30, 2022

So as it turns out, we need to have more Enneagram Twos on the podcast! Dr. Holly Oxhandler is the first to help out as she joins Suzanne and Joel at the Micah Center to talk about Enneagram Two life and her book, The Soul of The Helper.

"I think the risk for a lot of Twos is that they can run themselves so ragged that they'll get to the end of their lives and just be like, 'I missed it, because I was focused on everybody else around me.'"

PLUG TIME:

The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness has two stops left: Charlotte, NC and Kansas City, MO. The Enneagram Godmother will be teaching around her work in her latest book, and you can join a live recording of your favorite enneagram podcast, The Enneagram Journey!

Get your tickets at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 today

The Enneagram Journey podcast and the work of LTM is made possible by the support and contributions by you the listeners and the community. Click here to donate, or visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/donate.

Today's intro:

Fake Jason Garrett on Sports Radio 1310 The Ticket
Tori Hope Petersen on TEJ Podcast (May 2021)
Peaky Blinders (Netflix. Season 2, EP 1)

TEJTW Dallas! with Katy Alaniz (4) and Justine Guzman (1) Jul 26, 2022

Today's episode was filmed in LTM's backyard (nearly).

The rain forced us inside at Union Coffee in Dallas for this incredible conversation with Katy Alaniz, enneagram 4, and Justine Guzman, enneagram 1. You'll learn a lot about Katy and Justine in today's episode, and if you want to learn more about Katy visit www.thewakefulstate.com and if you want to learn more about Justine find her on social media @beautifulstackofpancakes.

Impression Management (a new favorite term of Suzanne's)
Enneagram and Therapy
Our relationship with social media
Boundaries, too many....not enough...what's the deal
Do you know what SOGI stands for? What about several other identifiers that are important to the people in our communities, important to us, important to the people we love? Suzanne asks Justine and Katy for some education for all of us who need it.

PLUG TIME

It's pretty simple, if you're on a journey right now and need some wisdome and community around: the enneagram, building a more contemplative spiritual life, and/or diving into your Family System and Family Systems Theory with some assistance from the enneagram, then you want to apply for an LTM Cohort in 2023. For more info and to apply visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2023cohorts

From Intentional To Intuitive is August 4-6. If you are wanting some tools to really bring Enneagram Wisdom into your daily practice in a way that benefits every aspect, relationship, and circumstance in your day to day life, sign up. Show up, ask questions, and meet others either in person in Dallas or the online chat for those joining virtually. Suzanne is going to CRUSH it this weekend.

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/i2i

Todays INTRO:

Russ Hudson at the LTM event, Br5aking The Cycle
This Is Where I Leave You (2014)

July Q&A Jul 15, 2022

We open up the voicemail box and get Suzanne to answer some of the listener's questions in this episode. 7 Questions and all 9 Enneagram numbers get some air time! Fours married to Fives, Sixes married to Eights who both originally thought they were Nines, One's inner critics, and Sevens showing their feelings. Yeah, and there is so much more!

PLUG TIME

Applications and information for the 2023 LTM Cohorts
From Intentional To Intuitive is coming up! Don't miss the Enneagram Event of the year.
Is the Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour coming your way?!

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com for these and more!

Today's Intro:

F.R.I.E.N.D.S.- Season 1: EP 13
TEJ Podcast: Others on The Journey Ones
F.R.I.E.N.D.S.- Season 1: EP 13

TEJTW Portland! with Alex (8) and Michele (5) Choi Jun 28, 2022

Everyone, break out your Feelings Wheel for today's episode!

The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22 made its way to Portland to sit down with Alex (8) and Michele (5) Choi. We're going to find out what it means to be "trust challenged", how we can change the time of disconnect in our relationships, and what keeps each enneagram number from accepting help?

Don't miss your opportunity to join Suzanne and Joel at an upcoming Journey Toward Wholeness event!

Denver, CO - July 15-16

Birmingham, AL - August 19-20

Charlotte, NC - September 9-10

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 for all of the information and times and to register today!

Today's Introduction:

A Christmas Story (1983)
Modern Family (Season 7: EP 8)
Christine Min (The Enneagram Journey Podcast Aug. 2020)

Know Your number Jun 28, 2022

Who are you?! Who are you not?! Who? Who?!

The Enneagram: Know Your Number workshop is where the Journey begins, and NOBODY is better at teaching it than the Enneagram Godmother. Today's podcast is the introduction to her Know Your Number workshop, as well as the teaching on enneagram Eights. This is the podcast that you're going to give to your friends when they say, "Where can I learn about the enneagram? Where should I start?"

If you're beginning your Journey, or you're wanting to brush up on the finer points of the Enneagram, we hope you'll join us at The Table, LTM's online subscription service jam packed with knowledge and wisdom. For this season, we are going through Suzanne's Know Your Number videos, and guests who have been through this part of the Journey are sitting down to talk about it and Suzanne's teaching.

You can use the promo code WHOAMI to try it out for free! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/thetable and see what there is to offer. Full workshops, great interviews and conversations, monthly discounts and promotions, this Summer Series, and so much more.

Over 200 hours of content available, and more added weekly!

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/thetable and use the code WHOAMI to check it out for free!

If you're wanting to hear the rest of this workshop, you can find it at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store

TEJTW Richmond! with Scott (5) and Teresa Mcbean (6) Jun 16, 2022

We're in the tree, no? In the nest?!

Yeah we are! Mother/son duo from the Northstar Community in Richmond, VA, Scott (5) and Teresa (6) McBean join the show in today's episode to talk about their enneagram one spouses, working together, how Northstar came through the last 2 and half years, and some great Q&A with the live audience at Coco + Hazel.

The similarities and differences between 2s and 6s
Being a parent and being in ministry
Fear for the Collective
Boundaries for the Dependent Stance
Dynamite Q&A

PLUG TIME!

The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour marches on with 2 new stops open for registration!

Charlotte, NC - Sept. 9-10

San Francisco, CA - Oct. 7-8

And there are still spots available for Denver, CO - July 15-16

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com to sign up today!

Today's Introduction:

Old School (2003 film with Will Ferrell)
Waiting (2005 film with Ryan Reynolds)
TEJ Podcast Parenting Discussion Panel (March 2019)

Mike Alexander (6) - Vulnerability, Psychological Safety, Hidden Hazards Jun 03, 2022

Meet Enneagram 6, Mike Alexander!

His accomplishments and accolades are looooong, and you can read about them at lionstrategy.group, but for the purpose of this podcast, you just need to know that the man is the real thing, and has been doing his work. Lindsay points out in the show how great it is to hear an enneagram 6 talk with so many years of enneagram experience in hand.

Let's talk psychological safety
the enneagram and being a police officer
Leadership Styles
Vulnerability

"My description of a police officer is: we are normal people, in abnormal circumstances, behaving abnormally, and that becomes normal."

- Mike Alexander

PLUG TIME!

From Intentional To Intuitive

August 4-6 in Dallas, TX or sign up and join virtually from anywhere in the world.

Suzanne is going to be teaching how the 3 Centers of Intelligence and Shame, Fear, and Anger work together (or don't!). How we can show up more in healthy space, and maybe even spend some more time in the high side of our Security number.

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com or suzannestabile.com for more information and to register!

Today's Introduction

Opening Scene of Law & Order
From Brooklyn 99, Season 5: EP 17
Lindsay O'Connor on TEJ Podcast, Dec. 2021

TEJTW Austin! with Leigh Jackson (9) and Elizabeth Chapin (4) May 20, 2022

The LTM bus rolls into Austin, TX for the second stop of The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22!

Maybe we'll call this episode an Enneagram podcast collab with The Enneagram Journey and Austin Enneagram, oh yeah, that is the podcast that Leigh and Elizabeth host!

This is a loaded episode:

"the hedgehog story"
What have they learned hosting Austin Enneagram?
Are sexual subtypes the most intense?
Differences between 4 and 7
Stance Work
aaaaaaaand more

You can find listen to Austin Enneagram wherever you get your podcasts as well as at austinenneagram.com

The Tour continues! And with tacos!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22

Dallas, TX - June 3-4

Friday night with Katy Alaniz (4) and Justine Guzman (1)

Denver, CO - July 15-16

Friday night with Nadia Bolz-Weber (8)

Get more information and your tickets today at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 !

Today's Introduction:

Sesame Street with Seth Rogan (2011)
Give Peace a Chance, The Very Best of John Lennon
Marlena Graves, The Enneagram Journey (March 2021)

KJ Ramsey (4) - Ritual, Chronic Pain, This Too Shall Last May 10, 2022

Oooooh, you're going to hear in Suzanne's voice how excited she gets in today's episode because of the greatness of the guest, Enneagram 4, KJ Ramsey. KJ is a trauma-informed licensed porfessional counselor and author whose work offers space to see every part of our souls and stories as sacred. They'll talk some in this episode about one of her books, This Too Shall Last, and she has a new book coming out soon: The Lord Is My Courage. Find out more about KJ at kjramsey.com

TODAY'S PLUG!

Dallas and Denver, The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness is coming to you! What are people saying about the book and podcast tour so far?

"This weekend wasn't what I was expecting, and it was exactly what I needed."

Join Suzanne as she teaches along side her newest book, The Journey Toward Wholeness, and learn from and with her and her guests on The Enneagram Journey podcast as the show is recorded live.

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 for information and tickets for the stops in June in Dallas and July in Denver. See you there!

We hope you listen to the information about From Intentional To Intuitive, Suzanne's biggest event of the year in August at FUMC Dallas or join online. Visit suzannestabile.com or lifeinthetrinityministry.com for more information and registration. This is the event that your Journey has been leading you to.

Today's Introduction:

"Dinner Party", The Office Season 4: Episode 13
From The Enneagram Journey with guest Meredith McDaniel, February 2020
Pain from the anime and manga series, Naruto

April Q&A with Suzanne Apr 22, 2022

Suzanne's favorite way to teach returns on this episode of The Enneagram Journey! We remove a few more messages from the inbox as Suzanne talks about:

Some differences between
- EIGHTS and TWOS
- Vulnerability and Betrayal
- Anxiety and Fear
Addressing some difficult family circumstances
Special contribution from a guest in the Micah Center!

PLUG for the Enneagram Event of the Year!!

From Intentional To Intuitive with Suzanne Stabile, August 4-6 in Dallas, TX or join Online!

suzannestabile.com/event/i2i

Finding balance between our Enneagram Number, Stress Number and Security Number.
Learning to acknowledge and develop healthy responses to Shame, Fear, and Anger.
- These challenges are going to be different for each Triad and for each individual Number
Where Shame, Fear, and Anger show up in our attempt to live by the 4 Mantras:
1. Show Up
2. Pay Attention
3. Tell The Truth
4. Don't Attach to the Results

Early Bird price ends June 1.

TODAY'S INTRO

Stan Marsh being vulnerable on South Park (season 9, episode 5)
Braden and Andrew Bowles on The Enneagram Journey (September 2020)
Trailer for Failure To Launch (Paramount 2006)

TEJTW Houston! with Aaron Edwards (4) and Kelly Hall (4) Mar 14, 2022

The podcast's first stop on The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour finds us in Tomball, TX at The Renewal Center with friends of LTM, Aaron Edwards and Kelly Hall.

Both Enneagram Fours, Aaron and Kelly are the directors of the Renewal Center and they share in this episode how they make that work, why their ministry benefits from being led by two 4s, and a lot more!

You can find out more about The Renewal Center and RE:Bar at therenewalcenter.org

PLUG TIME!

Big events in Dallas and beyond!

Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne, Joe, and Brian D. McLaren is March 31-April 2 in Dallas or online

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego

The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness podcast and teaching tour continues! Austin is coming up, Richmond is on deck, and Portland is in the hole!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22

Today's Intro:

1. Parks and Recreation, Season 5: Episode 4

2. Emily P. Freeman on The Enneagram Journey Podcast, May 16, 2019

3. This Is Where I Leave You, 2014 Comedy/Drama

Shauna Niequist (7) - Extroverted, Journaling, Bucket Lists Mar 01, 2022

Shauna Niequist joins the show! You enneagram fans may remember her from an early episode of The Road Back to You podcast, yup, that is a deep cut.

Enneagram 7, and the author of, "I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet", (what a great title) joins Suzanne to talk about being married to a 4, her new book, journaling and so much more.

PLUG TIME

Where Will We Go From Here with Rev. Joseph Stabile, Brian D. McLaren, and the Enneagram Godmother is March 31 - April 2. Join online or in person in Dallas!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego

The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness tour continues! Upcoming stops include Houston, Austin, Denver, Portland, and Dallas!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22

Today's Intro:

1. Sean Connery in Finding Forrester (2000)

2. Ed Helms and Jason Segal in Jeff Who Lives at Home (2011)

3. Jamie Grace on TEJ Podcast, June 2020

Tara Beth Leach - 40 Days on Being a 6 Feb 14, 2022

Suzanne says that enneagram sixes are the people that hold our communities together, so it seems fitting that 40 Days on Being a 6 author Tara Beth Leach will put a nice bow on our Daily Reflections Series!

Tara Beth Leach is a pastor, preacher of the Word, and a writer. She speaks widely at conferences, retreats, and universities across America on Women in Ministry, Church Leadership, and the call to be a Radiant Witness. She is a pastor at Christ Church of Oak Brook in the western suburbs of Chicago. She previously served as senior pastor of First Church of the Nazarene of Pasadena (“PazNaz”) in Southern California. She is a graduate of Olivet Nazarene University and Northern Theological Seminary. She is the author of Emboldened, Radiant Church, and Forty Days on Being a Six. She has two beautiful and rambunctious sons, and has been married to the love of her life, Jeff, since 2006.

PLUG TIME!

Where Will We Go From Here? with Suzanne, Rev. Joseph Stabile, and Brian D. McLaren is coming up March 31 - April 2. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego for information and registration!
The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness is coming to the Houston, TX area on March 5th! Sign up today at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22

Today's Intro:

1. "So Many Questions" by Side A

2. Will Ferrell as George W. Bush from Full Frontal on TBS, May 2017

3. Jamie Ivey on The Enneagram Journey podcast, Nov. 2018

Sandra Maria Van Opstal - 40 Days on Being an 8 Jan 27, 2022

The series of Enneagram Daily Reflections authors continues today with Enneagram 8, Sandra Maria Van Opstal!

"Fósforito! The explosion happened so quickly there was no stopping it. My mother called me 'tiny match' when she would see this fire exploding from me." This is how Latina pastor, activist, and worship leader, Sandra Maria Van Opstal, describes her experience as an Eight. There came a point in her life when she saw how her fiery explosions were undermining her leadership. A wise spiritual director helped her discover how the Enneagram could reveal more about both her gifts and her weaknesses. Sandra offers insight from her ethnic journey alongside Enneagram wisdom.

You can get your copy of 40 Days On Being an 8 at ivpress.com, Amazon.com, or lifeinthetrinityministry.com!

PLUUUUG:

March 31-April 2, Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne Stabile, Rev. Joseph Stabile, and Brian D. McLaren! Join in Dallas or online from anywhere in the world! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego for more information and registration.

Today's Intro:

1. From Frozen (2013)

2. Christine Min from The Enneagram Journey (August 2020)

3. Rogue from X-Men The Last Stand (2006)

Danielle Coke (7) - Setting The Table, What Is Mine To Do, Thinking Process Dec 28, 2021

Oh Happy Dani, aka Danielle Coke, joins the show today!

Earlier in the year we asked you the listeners to tell us some guests you wanted to hear from, and Dani's name came up over and over, and we can see why. Dani, an enneagram 7, shares about how what started as a hobby blossomed into a journey of using art and words to make complex social justice-related issues more digestible and easy to understand for people around the world.

Find her online at ohhappydani.com and on instagram @ohhappydani

PLUG TIME!

Get your LTM New Year's Raffle tickets before the drawing on January 2nd! Win a $100 gift card, books, prayer beads, a private Zoom call with the Enneagram Godmother, and more!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/raffle

AND! Don't forget to get your tickets for Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne, Joe, and Brian D. McLaren while the early bird price is still available! Join in Dallas in person, or online from home anywhere in the world March 31 - April 2.

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego

Today's Introduction:

Scene from Bob's Burgers, Season 3: episode 21 "Boyz 4 Now"
Patrice Gopo on The Enneagram Journey podcast October 9th, 2020

Answering Your Enneagram Questions with Suzanne Dec 20, 2021

Suzanne's favorite way to teach! Questions and responses today with the Godmother of the Enneagram. Today's show includes a call to the Reverend to help an aggressive couple who is dealing with leaving their church community, a heavy dose of relationship talk, and how many attempts does it take an enneagram six to leave a message?

The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour!

Richmond, Birmingham, and Houston are filling up quickly and Austin and Portland will be opening up soon! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 today to lock your seat up and join Suzanne in growing understanding and compassion.

Today's Introduction

Emily P. Freeman from the May 16, 2019 episode of The Enneagram Journey podcast
Dinner Scene from Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby (2006)

Thank you for your support of LTM, Suzanne and Joe, and The Enneagram Journey podcast!

The Enneagram Holiday Journey Dec 10, 2021

What a special episode!!

In today's show you'll get to hear from some of Suzanne's grandkids, some of her children, some of their spouses, from Carolyn K. Teel, and it can't be a family episode without the Reverend!

Joel took a couple of microphones to the Stabile Family Thanksgiving, and collected some audio. We hope you'll enjoy some of their memories and conversation around the holidays, and then hear from Joe and Suzanne as they discuss what the holidays have meant for them, and how they've evolved over the years.

Then! Listen to some of Suzanne's teaching from Holidays and the Enneagram. This recording was taken in December 2019 at the Micah Center and you can find the entire recording on the LTM website.

And if you're checking the show notes for where to sign up to join Suzanne for The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness teaching and podcast tour you are looking for this link!:

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22

Have a wonderful holiday season, and we hope to see you on the road and have the opportunity to continue the Journey with you in 2022!

Lindsay O’Connor (6) - Phobic? Counter phobic?, Making Connections, Being Heard Dec 01, 2021

LTM's own Lindsay O'Connor joins the show!

Lindsay is an enneagram six, married to a nine, in seminary, parenting 2 beautiful girls, and self proclaimed "wannabe contemplative."

Lindsay and Suzanne talk about the role books have played in her life, the similarities and differences between the two of them in the dependent stance, and more!

You can find Lindsay on Instagram @lindsayloconnor and catch her at The Micah Center and upcoming LTM events!

PLUG TIME!

Where Will We Go From Here featuring the Reverend, Suzanne, and the incredible Brian McLaren! March 31 - April 2 in Dallas, TX or join online from anywhere in the world. For more information visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego

And, be sure to check out the upcoming book and podcast tour! The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness is coming your direction and we hope you'll join us one weekend!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22

Today's Introduction:

1. A clip on meerkats from Nat Geo Wild, March 4, 2013

2. "What do trees have to talk about" from The Lord of The Rings: Two Towers

3. Enneagram 6, Heather Mustain speaking on The Enneagram Journey podcast, 3-6-9 Panel, May 12, 2020

Juanita Rasmus - 40 Days on Being a 1 Nov 17, 2021

The Enneagram Daily Reflections series marches on today with enneagram 1, Juanita Rasmus!

The show starts today with Juanita getting us all grounded before jumping into some good enneagram teaching and background on wings and stress and security. Then let's hear about how ones take care of themselves, and how we can better take care of them (tip 1: don't touch their food).

You can find out more about Juanita by visiting juanitarasmus.com and you can find your copy of 40 Days on Being a 1 at Amazon.com, ivpress.com or LifeInTheTrinityMinistry.com!

PLUG!

The holidays are just around the corner and there is no better tool than Holidays and the Enneagram with Suzanne. Over two hours of teaching to help you better take care of yourself and love those around you that you're spending the holidays with.

Click here to download today!

Today's Introduction:

1. Suzanne talking with Heather Mustain about her relationship with husband and enneagram 1 Chad Mustain. Taken from the introduction in episode 94 of The EnneagramJourney.

2. Joey Tribbiani from the show F.R.I.E.N.D.S. talking about food

3. An excerpt from Others On The Journey, released on August 13, 2020 on The Enneagram Journey Podcast.

Your Enneagram Stances Questions Nov 04, 2021

Suzanne traveled to Tennessee in September 2021 for an incredible Enneagram Stances workshop. The questions asked were fantastic, but we didn't have enough time to answer them all, so Joel tucked the cards away in the ol' backpack and broke them out for today's episode of TEJ podcast!

Resentment and the dependent stance. What about the other 2 stances?
Orientation to time
Fives and feeling
How to help the doing repressed....do?
Parenting a 1
and more

Plug time!

The Journey Toward Wholeness is released and available! Get your copy today, and please take the time to review it on Amazon and Goodreads. You can find it anywhere you get your books, and of course at lifeinthetrinityministry.com

Teaching Tour!

Suzanne is hitting 10 cities across the country for The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness book and podcast tour. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 for information and registration. The first 3 cities registration is up already: Richmond, VA, Birmingham, AL, and Houston, TX. See you on the road for the journey!

Today's introduction:

Suzanne talking on stances from episode 50 of The Enneagram Journey podcast
Clip from "Zoolander" the hilarious (according to Joel) 2001 movie with Ben Stiller and Jon Voight
Ann Willet (4) from episode 60 of The Enneagram Journey podcast

Curt Thompson (4) - Shame, Desire, Confessional Communities Oct 28, 2021

There may not be a workshop or podcast that exists where Suzanne doesn't bring up The Soul of Shame. So it is long overdue that the author, Curt Thompson, enneagram four, joins the show!

With a considerable dose of warmth (and surprising measure of humor), Curt weaves together an understanding of interpersonal neurobiology (IPNB) and a Christian view of what it means to be human — to educate and encourage others as they seek to fulfill their intrinsic desire to feel known, valued and connected. He understands that deep, authentic relationships are essential to experiencing a healthier, more purposeful life — but the only way to realize this is to begin telling our stories more truly.

After listening to today's episode, be sure and go find your copy of his newest book, The Soul of Desire!

Book and Podcast Tour 2022!

Join the Enneagram Godmother on the road next year for The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness tour. Friday night community and live podcast recording followed by Suzanne teaching on Saturday. Be sure and visit Lifeinthetrinityministry.com for information and to buy your tickets beginning November 2nd.

Today's show introduction:

Kelly Harp from Episode 96 of the podcast (December 2020)
Peter Griffin on Family Guy, episode "Hot Pocket Dial"
Noelle Otts from Episode 76 of the podcast (February 2020)

Philip (7) and Jaimie (3) Bowen - Anxiety, Marriage, Music, Feelings Oct 14, 2021

Meet Philip and Jaimie Bowen!

Philip, enneagram 7, is a musician, and Jaimie, enneagram 3 is currently a stay at home mom with their three kiddos: Cora, Stella, and Henry.

They share how they began their enneagram journey and ways that the tool has helped them along the way in their marriage and in their work.

We hope you enjoy the podcast, and go find Philip and his music online and on social media @philipbowenmusic. The song excerpt from today's episode comes from Happy With Myself which releases on October 15th.

Today's introduction:

Courtney Perry, Enneagram 7, from TEJ podcast episode April 18th, 2021
Laura Addis, Enneagram 3, from TEJ podcast episode 84: 3-6-9 Panel Live! from May 18th, 2020
Parks and Recreation, Season 7, Episode 9 (there are people who believe the character Andy Dwyer to be an enneagram 7 or embody a lot of characteristics of sevens)

The Journey Toward Wholeness!! Available Nov. 2nd!

Get your copy wherever you buy your books, and then please leave a review and rating for Suzanne's newest book on Amazon.

If you're in Dallas on Nov. 2nd, come and celebrate the release of the book! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com and RSVP and we will see you there!

Q&A with The Enneagram Journey in Singapore Sep 30, 2021

A special Q&A with a group of individuals who over the past 12 months have been working through LTM's Enneagram Journey Curriculum for small groups! How can 7s get things done and not get lost in activities? What is innocence? What is it to 8s? How can 5s better connect with people? What is the relationship to anxiety on that 6-9 line? And so much more!

If this episode inspires you to start your own Enneagram Journey Curriculum group, hop on over to lifeinthetrinityministry.com/curriculum where you can find the facilitator and participant guides (both physical copies or digital if you live outside the US), and the link to the 12 teaching videos with the enneagram godmother.

Anthony Williams (4) - Moves to 2, Reality Shows, Parts of a Whole Sep 24, 2021

Meet the man of Wheel of Fortune fame, Enneagram 4, Anthony Williams!

Anthony shares some of his experience being a single, black, man from Tyler, TX, as well as how he discovered his is an enneagram 4. What is it like to have relationships with other 4s? He shares his experience with grief and the recent loss of his grandparents, aaaaand so much more.

What did you think about the new intro?! The clips are from previous episodes of The Enneagram Journey podcast with guests who share the same number (4 in today's), and a pop culture clip with relevance to the episode (Meredith Grey and you'll hear why in the intro).

THE ENNEAGRAM AND RELATIONSHIPS WORKSHOP!

Little Rock, Arkansas - November 12 &13

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/littlerock

ALL THINGS ENNEAGRAM VIRTUAL EVENT

Online around the world - October 23

ivpress.com/allthingsenneagram

Morgan Harper Nichols - 40 Days on Being a 5 Sep 15, 2021

Morgan Harper Nichols is back on The Journey with Suzanne!

The author of 40 Days On Being a 5 shares some of her experiences writing the book, what she wishes she could have had more space for, what she is curious about, and so much more. If you aren't following her beautiful work on Instagram, you may be the only one! And you can see more about her at morganharpernichols.com

PLUG!

All Things Enneagram

October 23rd, a virtual enneagram event! Join Intervarsity Press, LTM, Joe and Suzanne and the authors of the Enneagram Daily Reflections series for a day filled with teaching. ivpress.com/allthingsenneagram

Enneagram and Relationships

November 12-13 in Little Rock, Arkansas. A two day workshop with the Enneagram Godmother you won't want to miss! lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/littlerock

Q&R with Suzanne Aug 27, 2021

Suzanne sits down to answer some of your questions in today's episode! The enneagram Godmother and Joel talk about productive doing and what that looks like for not just enneagram ones, but issues we're all dealing with. Trying to decide if you're a 9 or a 1? This episode will help! Can Fives be emotional? Yup. And is the enneagram manipulative?!

SAVE THESE DATES!

Saturday, OCTOBER 23rd

All Things Enneagram: A virtual event for your enneagram journey

Join Suzanne and the 9 authors of the Enneagram Daily Reflections series from Intervarsity Press for this all day event online diving deeper into the different ways enneagram wisdom plays a role in our lives. More information and registration at ivpress.com/allthingsenneagram

Saturday, SEPTEMBER 11th

A FREE! Enneagram Know Your Number event with Suzanne in Dallas, TX. Grab your friends and family who you've wanted to introduce the enneagram to and head over to FUMC Dallas for the best introduction to the enneagram workshop available. More information and registration at firstchurchdallas.org/events

Tony Jones (8) and Courtney Perry (7) - Pastoring, Family, Relationships Jul 29, 2021

This episode has been a long time comin'!

Tony Jones, enneagram 8, joined Suzanne on TEJ a couple of years ago (seems like a lifetime) and Courtney, enneagram 7, was on the show earlier this year. Now we get to have them BOTH TOGETHER IN PERSON at the Micah Center to sit down with Suzanne and Joel.

Life In The Trinity Ministry Cohort Program

Be sure and take the time to check out the LTM Cohort Program! LTM is accepting applications right now for both the Enneagram Cohort and the Contemplative Cohort for 2022. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2022cohorts for more information, important dates, and the applications

Thank you for your continued support of the podcast, Suzanne and Joe, and LTM! We hope you enjoy today's episode!

Whitney Russell Stabile - Relationships with our body and food Jul 20, 2021

Join Suzanne and Joel in welcoming back Whitney Russell Stabile to the podcast! Suzanne's daughter in law, Joel's wife, is an enneagram 1 with a lot of letters after her name. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor and Certified Eating Disorder Specialist-Supervisor. Whitney earned her Bachelors in Psychology from Austin College in Sherman, Texas and her Masters in Counseling Psychology from the University of North Texas. She began her counseling career at the Dallas County Juvenile Detention Center working at a rehabilitative residential treatment center with struggling teens.

Today Whitney and Suzanne talk about a lot, but primarily our relationships with our body and with food.

You can find Whitney on Instagram @whitneylpc and online at bravehavencounseling.com

We hope you enjoy the podcast, and if you do, be sure and rate it 5 stars and leave a review!

PLUUUUUUG!

Breaking The Cycle a 3 day teaching event with The Enneagram Godmother, Rev. Joseph Stabile, and Russ Hudson! Join in Dallas August 5-7 or online. For more information and registration visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/btc

Christine Yi Suh - 40 Days On Being a 4 Jul 06, 2021

The Enneagram Daily Reflections Series continues!

Meet enneagram 4 Christine Yi Suh, then grab your copy of 40 Days on Being a 4 !

"Fours tend to abandon environments that bring shame or rejection." - Christine
What is the difference between self awareness and self indulgence? What does it mean to you?
Differences and similarities between 4s and 7s

PLUG!

Live teaching events are back! Texas, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, and Arkansas are up! Be sure and visit LifeInTheTrinityMinistry.com/events for dates, information and registration.

Brian McLaren - Faith After Doubt Jun 15, 2021

Brian McLaren, Enneagram 4, is back on the show today with Suzanne talking about his newest book, Faith After Doubt!

"Using his own story and the stories of a diverse group of struggling believers, Brian D. McLaren, a former pastor, proposes a model of faith development in which questions and doubt are not the enemy of faith, but rather a portal to a more mature and fruitful kind of faith."

PLUG TIME!

We are less than 2 months away from Breaking The Cycle, an enneagram event with Suzanne, Russ Hudson, and Rev. Joseph Stabile! Join them in Dallas or online from anywhere in the world!

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/btc

Abigail Eernisse - Enneagram 1 - Human Trafficking and Adoption May 26, 2021

Meet Abigail Eernisse!

Abigail, an enneagram 1, was introduced to the enneagram at a prayer meeting, which is pretty darn cool. She grew up between East Africa and the Chicago area, and joins Suzanne to share some of her story and her journey.

Suzanne and Abigail set the table for a future conversation going deeper into her work around anti-racism and anti-trafficking, and Abigail shared some resources for us to prepare for it!

Leaving the Life: Embracing Freedom from Exploitation by Becca C. Johnson Ph.D. and Jessa Dillow Crisp

Fallen by Annie Lobert

Living Inside The Rainbow by Brook Parker Bello

Very Young Girls (Amazon Prime)

The White Umbrella: Walking with Survivors of Trafficking by Mary Frances Bowley

AND!

Be sure to visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com to sign up for Breaking The Cycle, an enneagram event August 5-7 in Dallas and online with Rev. Joseph Stabile, Suzanne Stabile, and Russ Hudson!!

Early bird registration ends June 15th, so don't miss out!

Others On The Journey - ”I used to think... Now I think...” - Enneagram Curriculum May 14, 2021

A new episode of Others on The Journey!

LTM has had the opportunity over the past year to facilitate Enneagram Journey Curriculum groups online via Zoom, and our most recent group, led by Joel, just finished the twelfth and final week.

One of the exercises of the final session is each group member writes on a card, "I used to think..... now I think....." and shares with the group what they wrote.

Today's episode is what the group shared!

If you are looking to start a Curriculum group, Enneagram Journey Curriculum guides are on sale in May and June! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/curriculum for more information, samples of the guide and the videos, and use the promo code PHOENIX for 25% off of Suzanne's Enneagram Journey curriculum guides.

Tori Hope Petersen - Enneagram 2 - Foster Care and Adoption May 07, 2021

If you have listened to Suzanne talk...probably ever, you know she is a huge advocate for adoption and foster care.

Her guest today, fellow enneagram 2, Tori Hope Petersen, tells her story and shares how we can all get involved and become a part of this community. Stay tuned to the second half of the podcast when they run through the 9 enneagram numbers and discuss something each one should be aware of as they consider adoption or becoming a foster parent.

If after listening you want to learn more, you can find Tori on Instagram @torihopepetersen and be sure and check out bringbeloved.org

AND!

Be sure to check out The Table, Life in the Trinity Ministry's online subscription service featuring enneagram teaching, videos and resources around spirituality and spiritual practices, and so much more, including an upcoming 2 night online event exclusively streamed at The Table.

Lifeinthetrinityministry.com/thetable

Intro to Grieving and the Enneagram - Suzanne Stabile May 04, 2021

You might remember from 2019, episode 62 of The Enneagram Journey, Intro to Spiritual Practices and the Enneagram. That episode is the most downloaded of all the podcast, so LTM decided to use the same format again, this time sharing Suzanne's introduction to Grieving and the Enneagram from her workshop early in 2021.

“Suppressed grief often turns into depression, anxiety, or addiction.” - Miriam Greenspan

You can find the rest of the teaching at lifeinthetrinityministry.com and suzannestabile.com

Courtney Perry - Enneagram 7 - Yenneagram Apr 28, 2021

The Enneagram Journey is back!

In our first episode back after a short break to work on a few other projects, and our first episode of "season 2" we open by reliving the ice storm that hit Texas earlier in the year, hear from the shows new official Spiritual Correspondent the Reverend, and learn all about the Yenneagram.

Enneagram 7, Courtney Perry, joins Suzanne and Joel on today's show to dive into some SOLID enneagram talk, including:

The best and worst part of being a 7 in your 40s
What low 7 looks like and what 7 going to low 1 looks like
What is a spiritual practice, and why Yoga can be
Did you know you can't be bad at yoga?
Click here for pictures mentioned after Hurricane Ike

"For many years I mistook my anxiety for excitement." - CP

A lot of plugs in today's introduction, but here are links and codes you want!

The Table - LTM's new member service

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/thetable

TEJ Podcast Live with Courtney Perry and Tony Jones on May 6th followed by Yoga session, meditation, and community

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/tejliveyen

use promo code CNASH for $20 off registration

Grieving and the Enneagram mp3

lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/grievingmp3

use promo code TEJGRIEVE for 20% off through May

And be sure to follow Courtney and the Yenneagram on Instagram @yenneagram and visit Yenneagram.com !

Episode 100 - Matt (6) and RayLynn Carr (2) Mar 19, 2021

Meet Matt and RayLynn!

They come out of the chute with some vulnerability and truths about parenting and it just doesn't stop. A blended family, a foreign adoption, a widower, phenomenal people, parents, and the Enneagram Godmother.

Orientation to time
Relationships the present moment
2 different kinds of 2s
Dependent Stance talk
Parenting in a blended family

Such great content!

Speaking of great content, there are so many great things happening at LTM! Upcoming online workshops include Prayer and the Enneagram and Fruits of the Spirit, new sets of prayer beads, the Lent video series with Joe and Suzanne, Contemplative Cohort and Enneagram Cohort applications, and more!

Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com to join in and continue your spiritual journey!

Gideon Tsang - 40 Days on Being a 7 Mar 09, 2021

That's right! Back to back episodes with authors from the Enneagram Daily Reflections series!

Enneagram 7, Gideon Tsang joins Suzanne and Joel on the Journey to share a little of his experience and his story as a seven. What does depression really look like in a 7? He'll share some of his history in Austin, TX by way of Canada, and did you know he is codependent?

We hope you enjoy the conversation and then take the opportunity to get a copy of his book 40 Days on Being an Enneagram 7 at ivpress.com, Amazon.com or lifeinthetrinityministry.com

Prayer and the Enneagram

with Rev. Joseph and Suzanne Stabile

An online workshop on March 26-27. Join Live and then really get to note taking while enjoying the replay afterwards.

You can find more information and registration here, and sign up by March 15th to take advantage of the early bird discount!

Marlena Graves - 40 Days on Being a 9 Mar 02, 2021

Another incredible human being joins us on the podcast to talk about their ninth of The Enneagram Daily Reflection series of books by InterVarsity Press!

Enneagram 9 Marlena Graves takes a break from her busy schedule as a teacher, writer, mother of 3, wife, and citizen of the world to talk about her thoughts on:

Orientation to Time
Her relationship with her Enneagram Five husband
Having an 8 wing
Protecting her energy
Life in the Gut/Anger/Justice Triad

You'll LOVE this episode! And after you fall in love with Marlena, you can find her book 40 Days on Being a 9 at ivpress.com , on Amazon, and at Lifeinthetrinityministry.com

PLUG TIME!

Prayer and the Enneagram

Rev. Joseph and Suzanne Stabile

March 26-27 Online!

Sign up here and join in!

Episode 99 - Nadia Bolz-Weber (Enneagram 8) Feb 16, 2021

Nadia Bolz-Weber is back on the show!

This episode was actually recorded in the summer of 2020, however we couldn't track down the file. FOUND IT! And it is packed. Suzanne and Nadia talk about Grace and Compassion, her latest book Shameless and her podcast The Confessional, and more.

Hopefully you see that little E out by the side of the show. If you are uncomfortable with a few "explicit" words, please skip this episode, and come back for the next.

You can find more about Nadia, her podcast and all that she is doing, including her online publication, The Corners at nadiabolzweber.com

You can also find more info and registration for online teaching event with Suzanne, Grieving and the Enneagram, on Feb. 26-27 2021 at lifeinthetrinityministry.com

Aaaaand LTM hopes you can join Rev. Joe and Suzanne for their video series on Lent! That can also be found on the LTM website.

If you have questions about the podcast, Suzanne and her work, or Life In The Trinity Ministry, leave them here!

Episode 98 - By The Numbers, An art Series with Michelle B Noah (7) Jan 20, 2021

While Suzanne puts the finishing touches on her next gem of an Enneagram book, Joel took The Enneagram Journey on the road and met up with Enneagram 7, Michelle B. Noah, to get a guided tour of her enneagram art series, By The Numbers.

Michelle walks Joel through all 30 paintings (9 core numbers, 18 wings, and 3 triads), giving her thoughts, interpretations, and inspirations for how she painted each one.

It is a BEAUTIFUL series of art that you can find currently at The Eisemann Center in Richardson, TX and at michellebnoah.com

You can find pictures of Michelle and the art at theenneagramjourney.org to view as well as you listen to today's show.

Episode 97 - Q&A with Suzanne and Joel Jan 15, 2021

In this podcast episode, Suzanne tackles 3 questions about relationships:

Dating from an 8
Marriage from a 7
Life after Divorce from a 1

"Each heart must make its own choice. Each choice has its own experience. Each experience has its own purpose. And, AFTER that comes the new lens."

We hope you enjoy the show!

GRIEVING AND THE ENNEAGRAM

an online teaching event with Suzanne Stabile

February 26-27th 2021

www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com/grieving

Sean Palmer - 40 Days on Being a 3 Dec 29, 2020

The Enneagram Daily Reflections series continues!

Sean Palmer joins Suzanne and Joel on the podcast to talk about his new book, 40 Days on Being a 3. This conversation was recorded at The Micah Center in front of a small audience during the LTM All Day event and is packed full of great conversation, knowledge, and wisdom.

“For a three, there’s no such thing as self promotion. That's just called sharing.”

“After lots of enneagram work, reality hit me. I rarely shared how I was feeling, because I didn’t really care how other people were feeling.”

Join Suzanne for Grieving and the Enneagram an online teaching event February 26th and 27th! You can find information and registration at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/grieving

Episode 96 - Kelly Harp (Enneagram 4) Dec 09, 2020

Kelly Harp joins Suzanne and Joel in this really cool episode of TEJ Podcast! Today's show was recorded Live outside of Fabled Bookshop and Cafe in Waco, TX, so you'll be able to hear the cars, the train, and the city in the background while they talk about enneagram 4s, the gifts they have to offer us, how the Heart Triad uses emojis, why Suzanne is limited in her social media access, and more! (More includes wrapping up with questions from the audience at the end!)

You can find more about Kelly and Clint and their work at harpdesignco.com and Kelly is a great follow on Instagram @kellygharp

If you are going through Waco, or you're local, you MUST check out the Fabled Bookshop and Cafe! Kimberly, Ann, and their crew are incredible hosts, the coffee is delicious, and the book store wonderful. You can also visit them online at fabledbookshop.com

Big thanks to Craig Nash for helping put this show together! Check out the Texas Hunger Initiative and show your support if you get the opportunity

Holidays and the Enneagram with Suzanne is available! You can get your mp3 at SuzanneStabile.com or LifeintheTrinityMinistry.com today, and be sure to give it a listen or two (or 5!) before you and the family get together again. You won't regret it!

Thank you so much for joining us on The Journey, and for your support of LTM, Suzanne, and the podcast!

Others on the Journey - Enneagram 9s Dec 02, 2020

Putting together this podcast, I must have heard 100 times in my head Ross (Friends reference here!) say to Rachel, "Nobody like change!" Season 3, Episode 16 if you're looking for something great to watch. - Joel here.

Well today we get to hear from Enneagram NINEs, and see if they agree, disagree, and why or why not. From career changes to getting a new cell phone, you share with the other listeners your thoughts and feelings in this episode of Others on the Journey.

You'll hear in the introduction that you can use the code GODMOTHERFREE at keystonesteelco.com for a free enneagram number ornament with any purchase!

After hearing 9s talk, if you want to hear Suzanne's teaching about enneagram 9s from her Know Your Number workshop visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store use the code CHANGE for a free download of her Know Your Number: Enneagram 9s mp3 (to be clear, not the Know Your Number mp3) between now and Christmas Day. You'll also find her latest recording of Relationships and the Enneagram when you're there!

Several Enneagram 9 listeners also wrote in about change, and you'll find that on the podcast page at theenneagramjourney.org if you want to learn more.

Thank you for listening and for your support of the podcast!

Episode 95 - Q&A with Suzanne and Joel Nov 18, 2020

Some people say that the best part of LTM workshops or Suzanne's Enneagram events is the Q&A time, and that is hard to argue with!

Thank you all for submitting your questions, and keep 'em coming.

Today Suzanne and Joel talk about parenting a 7 child as a 1 parent, negotiating conflict in all relationships and specifically a 7 and 8, anxiety disorders and 6s, 1s and anger and resentment, and more!

Some of that "more" is talking about 9s and change. We want to hear from you NINES! Visit theenneagramjourney.org/interact and leave a voicemail about your thoughts and feelings on change. Some healthy and less healthy ways that you address it, and we will put them together for our next episode of Others On The Journey!

PLUG TIME

Advent is just around the corner. If you don't know what that means, then you'll want to check out the new 4 week video series with Joe and Suzanne! What is Advent? Why do we celebrate it? How can we celebrate it? This series is put together for individuals to go through alone, or in small groups. Be sure and visit LifeInTheTrinityMinistry.com beginning November 25th for more information and access!

Episode 94 - Chad Mustain (Enneagram 1) Oct 26, 2020

Correction! The Reverend Doctor Chad Mustain!

Enneagram 1, Chad Mustain, joins Suzanne on the show today. And if you would like a really cool listening experience, listen to today's show, then go back and give Episode 21 a listen when Chad's wife Heather (6) was on the show!

Chad shares what his inner critic is like to him, the greatness of "Vacation Chad", and the importance of intentionality.

Very cool backstory: Chad initially was not about the enneagram, but he came around. It is great to hear how his Journey began, and what it looks like today both professionally and personally.

PLUGOLA

LTM ALL DAY!

A fundraiser at The Micah Center and streamed Live on Facebook. Join Suzanne and Life in the Trinity Ministry for 12 hours of community, teaching, music, interviews, enneagram talk, and fun!

When: Saturday, November 7th from 10A - 10P (CST)

For more information visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/allday

and follow LTM on Facebook @LifeInTheTrinity

We hope you can join us November 7th and that you enjoy today's show!

Hunter Mobley - 40 Days On Being a 2 Oct 12, 2020

When this episode opens, you hear Hunter and Suzanne talking about how beautiful this book is. Let's be clear. This is a BEAUTIFUL looking book, and what is on the inside is BEAUTIFUL, and it is written by a BEAUTIFUL human being.

Hunter Mobley joins Suzanne to talk about his book, 40 Days on Being a 2, the first of 9 books released in a series by Intervarsity Press, Enneagram Daily Reflections.

Hunter shares how he came to be involved in the project, his process in writing the book (spoiler alert!! TWOS talking about journaling!!), and he and Suzanne discuss a few of the days prompts, as well as Hunter's favorite.

Over the next year, Suzanne the series editor, will have each of the author's on the show to discuss!

PLUG TIME!

October 16-17

Enneagram Stances online with Suzanne Stabile

Register, join us for Enneagram After Dark each night, and rewatch the teaching through the month of October!

www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com/stances

Episode 93 - Patrice Gopo (enneagram 7) Oct 05, 2020

Another lover of stories on The Enneagram Journey!

Let's talk today about the importance of bringing up and finding balance in Thinking, Feeling, and Doing. Let's talk about enneagram 7s and grief. Lets talk about gratitude journals and who doesn't need them! Let's discuss the enneagram, race, culture and context. And, lets all go get a copy of All The Colors We Will See and talk about it some more.

When we're done talking about these things, how about we get together and talk Enneagram Stances on October 16-17 online during Suzanne's and Life in the Trinity Ministry's virtual workshop: Enneagram Stances! Visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com/stances ?!

Episode 92 - Andrew (9) and Braden (6) Bowles Sep 23, 2020

The year is 2020.

Quarantine.

Dispute at the house with your partner. Where do you go and what do you do?!

Lets talk about how Andrew and Braden Bowles deal with it! And while we're at it, lets talk about enneagram 9s and 6s in relationships, sharing a line on the 'gram, and the importance of our mental health and what tools are out there to help.

Episode 91 - Christine Min (Enneagram 8) Aug 27, 2020

There isn't enough time in a podcast or space here to adequately say how much we love Christine Min!

Christine was born in Los Angeles and is a life-long Angeleno except for three years spent in Washington D.C., where she attended Georgetown Law and met her husband, Michael.
Christine is an attorney and most recently worked as the in-house counsel for a venture-backed sustainable beverage company. She currently provides legal counsel for corporate clients, and also works with mission-driven executives to help grow and develop their teams and businesses. Christine also serves on the board for the Disability Rights Legal Center.
Her husband Michael (also an Enneagram 8) works in finance. They live in West LA and are currently sheltering at home with their two young children, who are 9 and 7 years old, and with Dustin, their 4-year old rescue dog from Korea.
Christine is Korean-American -- her parents immigrated from Korea over 50 years ago.

“People who are thinking dominant, are lazy thinkers.

And people who are feeling dominant are lazy around emotions.”

-Suzanne

Others on The Journey - Enneagram 1s Aug 13, 2020

Do you have an enneagram one in your life that you want to understand better? Are you figuring out your enneagram number and still unsure if you're a One or not? Do you love listening to 20 minutes of good people sharing parts of their Enneagram Journey?

Then this episode is for you!

Others on The Journey part 2 is hearing from Enneagram Ones and what their Inner Critic is to them. It is definitely not a universal experience as you'll hear! If you want to read more submissions that were written in, check out www.theenneagramjourney.org/podcast/2020/ootj2

While you're there, be sure and click on the link for your new Enneagram Face Mask!

Thank you for listening, for your engagement and enthusiasm, and for your continued support of Life in the Trinity Ministry and The Enneagram Journey podcast!

Episode 90 - Q&A with Suzanne Jul 29, 2020

Let's check the voicemail and answer some questions!

Everyone says this about their podcast or show, but it is for sure true in our case, what makes The Enneagram Journey podcast so wonderful is you the listener. Such great questions, keep 'em coming!

Today's topics include:

Numbers that share a line on the enneagram
Veterans, Trauma, and the relationships with our stress and security numbers
Enneagram and Parenting
ONEs and their voices, prayer and prayer beads
Are you triggered by other's who are your stress number?
And more!

Be sure and join Suzanne, Dr. Barbara Rila, and Rev. Dr. Andy Stoker for 2020 Enneagram Bootcamp!

www.lifeinthetrinitymi nistry.com/2020ebc

Thank you for listening and making LTM a part of your Journey! Keep doing the work!

Episode 89 - The 9 Virtues with Russ Hudson Jul 08, 2020

What is above "bonus content"?

That is what this is! Enneagram master Russ Hudson walks listeners through the 9 numbers and their Virtues and Passions.

"If you've really found your core Passion, you'll be with it for the rest of your life." - Russ

And, Ennegram 7s, Joel did you a solid and asked Russ to start with your number! Be sure to stick around though for the other 8, because it is all GOLD.

PLUG! Be sure and sign up for the 2020 Enneagram Bootcamp online! Visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com/ltm-events/2020bc1

The Enneagram, Family Systems, Trauma and Grief with Suzanne Stabile, Dr. Barbara Rila, and Dr. Andy Stoker

As always, thank you for listening, for leaving a review and rating and visit the podcast online at www.theenneagramjourney.org !

Episode 88 - Russ Hudson (Enneagram 5) Jul 08, 2020

Well, if you wanted a WEALTH of enneagram knowledge and wisdom, just put Suzanne Stabile and Russ Hudson together!

Enneagram 5, author of The Wisdom of the Enneagram, incredible teacher, and incredible human, Russ Hudson joins Suzanne to share what he has learned teaching different cultures around the world about the enneagram, what enneagram wisdom offers us during these times of social distancing and quarantine, and what he wants people to know about Fives.

If listening to this episode leaves you wanting more, then check out episode 89! Russ walks us through the 9 Passions and Virtues.

If listening to both leaves you STILL WANTING MORE! Then sign up for the 2020 Enneagram Bootcamp online!

Visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com/ltm-events/2020bc1

The Enneagram, Family Systems, Trauma and Grief with Suzanne Stabile, Dr. Barbara Rila, and Dr. Andy Stoker.

As always, thank you for listening, for leaving a review and rating and visit the podcast online at www.theenneagramjourney.org !

Episode 87 - Jamie Grace (Enneagram 7) Jun 22, 2020

This episode is fantastic.

That is the preview.

Meet Jamie Grace, Enneagram 7, singer, song writer, artist, mother, daughter, sister, wife, and all the things!

Jamie and Suzanne talk about life as an enneagram 7, as a young black woman, what it was like being diagnosed with Tourette's, OCD, anxiety and ADHD at a young age.

Be sure and stick around until the end of the episode to hear a clip from Show Love, a song from Jamie's and Morgan's new EP, Songs For Our Children. You can find it on iTunes and in Apple Music! And find out more about Jamie and where she is going to be touring at www.jamiegrace.com

Episode 86 - Livestream Part 2 Jun 09, 2020

On May 7, Joey (8) and Billy Schewee (9) joined Suzanne, and then later Joe, to talk about parenting, relationships, the enneagram, struggling, and being vulnerable during the pandemic.

Their conversation was so great, we decided to flip it for the TEJ Podcast!

Episode 86 is the second part of their conversation, and it includes:

6s and Authority
9s and Orientation to Time
Relationships when you share a line
Forgiveness
Could you be a 7 or an 8?
3s, expectations, and goals
2-8 Mother-Daughter Relationships

We hope you enjoy this episode, and join Suzanne for upcoming conversations with Nadia Bolz-Weber, Jamie Grace, and Russ Hudson!

Episode 85 - Parenting Livestream with Joey and Billy (part 1 of 2) May 27, 2020

If you are in any sort of relationship with an enneagram 8 or 9, you want to hear this podcast episode!

On May 7, Joey (8) and Billy Schewee (9) joined Suzanne, and then later Joe, to talk about parenting, relationships, the enneagram, struggling, and being vulnerable during the pandemic.

Their conversation was so great, we decided to flip it for the TEJ Podcast!

In episode 85, the first of two episodes, we learn about:

Enneagram 8s and 9s and co-parenting. It's not always so easy!
"Scene Control" for 8s
Vulnerability vs. Transparency
9s, parenting, and energy
Advice for relationships between 2 mothers and their 8 daughters.

"I have the highest expectations of you without wanting to be close to you. And that's where the problem comes." - Joey (8)

And a very cool and special ending to today's episode from our friends Andy Gullahorn and Jill Phillips!

Episode 84 - 3,6,9 Panel Live! Part 2 May 18, 2020

Welcome back to The Enneagram Journey Live!

Join Suzanne, Jon Singletary (3), Laura Addis (3), Heather Mustain (6), Craig Nash (6), Jill Herrington (9), and Brett Gibson (9) during this 2 part series as they discuss life on the central triangle of the enneagram. Or the "3-6-9 train" as Father Rohr calls it!

Episode 84 is part 2 of this panel discussion, so if you missed the first half, be sure and go back and listen to Episode 83.

How are you in a group?
If you could choose to go be with your enneagram triad or enneagram stance, which would you choose?
Let's hear about "inner committees", how important efficiency is for some, and making school lunches!

"It's easy for me to just go through life, just doing things, and not being known in what I'm doing." - Jill, enneagram 9

Others on The Journey - Enneagram 4s May 12, 2020

We are excited to offer a new series of episodes starring you the listeners!

Others on The Journey will feature a question presented to Suzanne during a traditional Q&A podcast episode, her response to the question, and then responses from listeners who are on their own Enneagram Journeys.

Suzanne often says, she knows the enneagram really well (yup!), but nobody can talk about an enneagram number as well as that number can. And, a main goal and mission of Life in the Trinity Ministry is to grow community. We are excited that Others on The Journey will be an example of both!

We start this series hearing from Enneagram Fours, how they feel and what they think about conflict.

Be sure to tune in to upcoming Q&A episodes with Suzanne and share your thoughts for upcoming OOTJ episodes at www.theenneagramjourney.org/interact !

Episode 83 - 3,6,9 Panel Live! Part 1 May 12, 2020

What does it mean to have the same dominant and repressed center of intelligence? Let's find out!

Join Suzanne, Jon Singletary (3), Laura Addis (3), Heather Mustain (6), Craig Nash (6), Jill Herrington (9), and Brett Gibson (9) during this 2 part series as they discuss life on the central triangle of the enneagram. Or the "3-6-9 train" as Father Rohr calls it!

What does "later" mean to each number?
Why is it so hard to determine if your enneagram number is a 9 or 1?
How important is Google to 6s? How much do you use it?

Be sure to come back for Part 2 on Episode 84!

Episode 82 - Q&A with Suzanne Apr 27, 2020

You have questions, and Suzanne is going to answer them!

Suzanne and Joel discuss what 5s look like when they move to their stress and security numbers. Do enneagram Fours like conflict? What is Essence? Aaaaaaand more.

"I think a healthy 5 who can appropriately choose and use the high side of 7 and the high side of 8, is kind of a home for everybody."

If you are an enneagram Four and would like to share your thoughts on conflict and today's talk, please visit www.theenneagramjourney.org/interact and leave a voicemail! We will compile the responses and share them, because as Suzanne says, nobody can better describe an enneagram number than that number.

And if you aren't walking through The Enneagram Journey Curriculum with friends, family, neighbors, strangers...anyone really, why not?!

www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/vimeo

Episode 81 - Morgan Harper Nichols (Enneagram 5) Apr 17, 2020

The INCREDIBLY talented, Morgan Harper Nichols joins Suzanne on The Enneagram Journey today!

Morgan Harper Nichols is an artist whose work is inspired by real conversations. Morgan spent the first couple of years of her professional life as a college admission counselor, and then, as a full-time touring singer-songwriter and musician. It was on the road that she cultivated her curiosity and passion for writing, art, and design and slowly began to share her work online.

She and Suzanne discuss how they as an enneagram 5 and 2 can learn from each other, the different ways they connect to people, the value of stories, and more.

"I think the way we challenge our personalities is affected by whether or not we're an introvert or an extrovert."
"I think there is something powerful and beautiful about thinking mindfully about others. We don't always have to say anything."
"I cut people off from pursuing me by pursuing them first."

You can find out more about Morgan at www.morganharpernichols.com

You can find out more about Suzanne and what she and LTM are up to at www.suzannestabile.com and www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com

As always, please share your feedback about the podcast and questions you have at www.theenneagramjourney.org/interact

Episode 80 - Q&A with Suzanne Mar 09, 2020

In today's episode, Suzanne sits down with Joel to answer some of the questions listeners have sent in.

Why is it significant when an enneagram 3 has a 4 wing?
What numbers are good in relationship together?
How can 9s and 1s deal with their anger?
What does being "other referenced" mean, and what numbers are?
AND MORE

Morning Pages
Prayer Beads
Church antagonists
Totems
Stay at home parents

Thank you all for listening and for your feedback! Keep the questions coming in at www.theenneagramjourney.org/interact

And visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com today to sign up for an upcoming event with Suzanne!

Episode 79 - Education and the Enneagram Part 2 Feb 27, 2020

Part 2 of 2

Billy is back for more!

Suzanne and Billy are diving into Repressed Centers of Intelligence today, as well as, how can each enneagram number best communicate with their kid’s teachers?

The Process vs. Progress
Responding vs. Reacting

“Doing the next right thing is sometimes followed by the word, ‘now’.”

“The delivery of the message is equally as important as the content of the message.”

Billy in some form or fashion has been studying the enneagram under Suzanne since he was 19! Now 40, married to Joey Schewee (enneagram 8), raising 2 boys and working on his doctorate at UTD, Billy shares how he utilizes what he has learned as a parent, an educator, and an administrator.

We hope you enjoy today’s podcast, and be sure to go back and listen to Part 1 (Episode 78) if you missed it!

Episode 78 - Education and the Enneagram Part 1 Feb 21, 2020

Part 1 of 2

Billy Schewee, enneagram 9, joins Suzanne on the podcast to talk about his pursuit of bringing enneagram knowledge and work into the education world.

Billy in some form or fashion has been studying the enneagram under Suzanne since he was 19! Now 40, married to Joey Schewee (enneagram 8), raising 2 boys and working on his doctorate at UTD, Billy shares how he utilizes what he has learned as a parent, an educator, and an administrator.

We hope you enjoy Part 1 and be sure to download Part 2 when it becomes available!

Episode 77 - Meredith McDaniel (Enneagram 4) Feb 17, 2020

Welcome Meredith McDaniel to The Enneagram Journey!

Meredith is a wife, mom, author, and therapist from North Carolina.

She and Suzanne talk about her new book, In Want and Plenty, which was released in January 2020, and what her life and relationships are like from the lens of an enneagram 4.

They talk about so much including:

Does God give us more than we can handle?
Life as a 4 married to an enneagram 7.
Disappointment
Discernment
Spontaneity vs. Surprise
And more of course!

You can find out more about Meredith and her practice at www.milkandhoneycounseling.com

"I really used to believe that in order for other people to want to have anything to do with God, that I had to pretend like I had it all together. Im from the South, and we do that really well."

- Meredith McDaniel

Episode 76 - Brad (7) and Noelle (4) Otts Feb 03, 2020

Our good friends Brad and Noelle join Suzanne on The Journey today to talk about their relationship, their family, and how they have navigated life over the past 15 years as an Enneagram 7 and 4.

The first half includes a lot of good enneagram stance talk and great discussion on the Head and the Heart and that disconnect in their relationship.

"We realized that we don't know how to argue. He is very good at arguing, and I'm very good at retreating." - Noelle

The second half of the show the Otts share their joys and struggles in building a family. The discussion includes discernment, they're experiences with therapy, and tools and advise for other parents going through tough seasons.

“...learning how to have the freedom within messy trauma to re-write the script of how things are supposed to look.”

2020 ENNEAGRAM BOOTCAMP IS OPEN!

Visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com for dates, information, and registration for the 2020 Enneagram Boot Camp with Suzanne Stabile. The event sold out quickly last year, so don't wait too long to register!

The Enneagram, Trauma, and Adoption Part 3 Jan 21, 2020

This is the final installment of our three part conversation on the Enneagram, Trauma, and Adoption.

If you are new to The Enneagram Journey Podcast, we recommend listening to the first two parts of this conversation in episodes 73 and 74.

Dr. Rila (enneagram 7) and Suzanne (enneagram 2) open this episode answering a few more questions from the audience who was at The Micah Center for this recording. Then they run through each enneagram number and the struggles they may have with adoption as both a child and adopting parent.

Thank you for joining us on this Journey!

Please keep sending your questions, comments, and feedback to theenneagramjourney.org/interact

The Enneagram, Trauma, and Adoption Part 2 Jan 10, 2020

Part 2 of 3 on Trauma and Adoption.

How should we address change in other's behavior?
What is episodic meaning?
Birthdays, Adoption Days, and Memory Candles
Q&A from the audience
and more!

"...the wounds are so great that the family pulls into a cocoon for retreat and not for growth." - Dr. Barbara Rila

"The enneagram gives us a structure in which to be mindful."

The Enneagram, Trauma, and Adoption Jan 03, 2020

Special Episode!

Dr. Barbara Rila joined Suzanne at the Micah Center in front of a small audience to talk about Trauma, Adoption, and the Enneagram, so we went ahead and recorded it to share. This is Part 1 of either 2 or 3 where Suzanne and Barbara introduce themselves and why they're having the discussion and then tackle the topic of Trauma.

"Every enneagram number finds a victim spot in the low side of their stress number." - Suzanne

This episode includes:

Definition of Trauma
Genetic predisposition vs. Environment
Movement in the Enneagram during trauma
Parenting Styles and Trauma
Pro Social Behavior
A good chunk of Enneagram 6 talk

Enjoy the episode and please share it with anyone you think may need or want to hear it!

Episode 72 - Stephanie Hewitt (Enneagram 5) Dec 19, 2019

Meet vocational coach, founder of The Reset Consortium, and enneagram 5, Stephanie Hewitt!

Stephanie joins Suzanne and Joel on The Enneagram Journey to talk about life growing up as a 5 and daughter of a Marine who had to move a lot. She sheds some light on having a 4 wing, how she discovered her number, and what it has been like learning and growing with her stress and security numbers.

Suzanne and Stephanie also talk some about Enneagram Subtypes. If you're interested in learning more about subtypes, visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com and use the promo code "72" at checkout to get the Enneagram Subtypes mp3 for $20. (code is good through the end of the year).

And, to learn more about Stephanie and The Reset Consortium visit www.resetconsortium.com !

Enjoy today's conversation, and we hope to see you at an upcoming event!

Episode 71 - Q and A with Suzanne Dec 09, 2019

After a small break we are back!

Feedback has been that you love the episodes that feature Suzanne answering your questions, so that is what we are going to start "season 3"? with!

Can we discover our children's orientation to time and what can we do with that? Is my husband a 5 or an 8? And lets discuss being a stay at home mom who is a 3 and wondering about her movements in stress and security. Also, enneagram 6, Lindsay O'connor joins the Journey to talk about anxiety and Suzanne breaks down what all enneagram personalities get anxious about.

2020 is just around the corner and that means a whole new season of live workshops and events. Suzanne, Joe, and LTM hope to see you at an upcoming event in Virginia, Tennessee, Colorado, Georgia, or their home of Texas!

We are lighting a candle for you and your Journey here at the Micah Center!

Episode 70 - Leslie Bley (Enneagram 6) Oct 28, 2019

Leslie Bley, enneagram 6, is on The Journey with Suzanne in today's episode!

“It is a particular gift of yours regardless of what is happening in the room, to lead people back to the middle.” Suzanne to Leslie

"One of the reasons its so important to me that people learn the enneagram, because you get to CHOOSE a reaction. And when you don’t know the enneagram, it so often chooses you."

“For 6s, there’s something scary about hope, and there’s something scary about change.” Leslie

“Duty is why I’m brave.” Leslie

Married to Kevin who is an enneagram 9, and mother to twin boys, Leslie is a therapist who lives in Austin, TX. This episode discusses so many topics including the enneagram in therapy, duty vs. desire, and lots of good discussion and distinctions within the Dependent Stance.

Hope you can join Suzanne live in Dallas or online on November 22 for Holidays and the Enneagram! Visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com for more information and registration.

Episode 69 - Sean Palmer (Enneagram 3) Oct 11, 2019

Enneagram 3, husband, and father of two beautiful girls, Sean Palmer is on today's episode of The Enneagram Journey! (He is also a pastor, speaker, writer)

This episode is full of so many great sound bites:

"3s don't cut corners. We find efficiencies."

"Why is the investment in who we are and what we believe so low?"

"How many people I have talked to who are married to 1s, and how deeply they love them, but don't understand the 1s feelings about themselves."

This episode also holds some great content about enneagram stances, orientation to time, and how we all deal with failure.

Good luck on Your Journey!

Episode 68 - Craig Nash (Enneagram 6) Sep 26, 2019

Have you taken a test to find out your enneagram number? Did it turn out to be incorrect? Craig Nash is one of MANY people who has had this experience and he shares it on today's episode of The Enneagram Journey!

Suzanne and Craig discuss the counter-phobic/phobic continuum, relationships between Sixes and Twos, Sixes and Fear, chaining, and on and on. Be sure to listen for the Jason Isbell lyrics that Craig claims is the Enneagram Six Anthem!

If you have questions for Craig, or want to hear more from him, he will be back in Dallas on October 18th as part of a panel for a Live Enneagram Journey Podcast with Suzanne! visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com for more details and for tickets.

Thank you for listening, for your support of the podcast, LTM, and for Joe and Suzanne's work! We hope you enjoy today's show, and to see you at an upcoming event!

Episode 67 - Brian McLaren (4) Part 2 Sep 06, 2019

This episode is a little bit Enneagram and a whole lot of Journey! Suzanne and Brian continue their conversation that was recorded at Lemuria Bookstore in Jackson, Mississippi.

Episode 66 - Brian McLaren (4) Part 1 Aug 29, 2019

Coming to you from Lemuria Bookstore in Jackson, Mississippi! It's The Enneagram Journey with Suzanne Stabile and special guest and friend, Brian McLaren!!

Brian and Suzanne have taught together in the past, and their warmth for one another is evident in the podcasts. If you want to know more about Brian though, here is a lot of great biographical information pulled from brianmclaren.net:

Brian D. McLaren is an author, speaker, activist, and public theologian. A former college English teacher and pastor, he is a passionate advocate for “a new kind of Christianity” – just, generous, and working with people of all faiths for the common good. He is a faculty member of The Living School, which is part of the Center for Action and Contemplation, and he co-leads the Common Good Messaging Team, which is part of Vote Common Good. He is also an Auburn Senior Fellow and a leader in the Convergence Network, through which he has developed an innovative training/mentoring program for pastors, church planters, and lay leaders called Convergence Leadership Project. He works closely with the Wild Goose Festival, the Fair Food Program‘s Faith Working Group, and Progressive Christianity. His most recent joint project is an illustrated children’s book (for all ages) called Cory and the Seventh Story and his upcoming writing projects include The Galapagos Islands: A Spiritual Journey (Fall 2019) Faith After Doubt (Spring 2021), and Do I Stay Christian? (Spring 2022).

Episode 65 - Carolyn Teel (Enneagram 5) Aug 22, 2019

You have probably heard more about Carolyn Teel from Suzanne over the years than will be in this podcast episode, but it is long overdue that you hear from Carolyn herself!

Carolyn is an Enneagram 5 and Suzanne's oldest friend. You get to hear how they have made their relationship work as an extrovert 2 and an introvert 5 over the past 50 plus years.

Their conversation goes back to when they had to use a microphone pointed at a record player for the drill team to perform to! Also, we hope you enjoy an intro from Joey Schewee as she talks about the gifts and love that Carolyn has shown her over the years.

Episode 64 - Enneagram Ones: Casey Bonano and Whitney Stabile Aug 07, 2019

This is an episode for everyone! Not just enneagram 1s, or 2s, or 7s, or people interested in learning about diet culture, or people who want to hear about SNAP, or people who want to learn about Belief Systems, or people struggling with shame, or people dealing with their body image....you see where we are going with this.

Get to know Enneagram Ones, Casey Bonano RD, LD, CEDRD, and Whitney Stabile MS, LPC-S, CEDS and hear about their Enneagram Journeys.

If you want to reach out to Whitney you can find her at www.bravehavencounseling.com and you can reach out to Casey at www.dallasnutritionalcounseling.com

Good luck on your Journey!!

Episode 63 - Susan Robb (Enneagram 9) Jul 25, 2019

Meet Enneagram 9, Susan Robb!

A former Kilgore Rangerette and Baylor Bear, mother of 2, and wife of Ike Robb (enneagram 1), Susan was called to seminary when her kids were in elementary school. Susan and Suzanne discuss Calling and what that can cost, but also what it's worth. She has been on staff at Highland Park United Methodist Church now for 18 years.

They discuss her book, Called: Hearing and Responding to God's Voice, the gifts that Enneagram Nines have to offer the rest of us, shame and guilt, and of course much more.

Episode 62 - Intro to Spiritual Practices and the Enneagram Jul 09, 2019

This is a very special episode! Unlike previous podcasts, today's episode is the introduction (first hour) of Suzanne and Joe's workshop, Spiritual Practices and the Enneagram. As it was being edited, it was incredible how many of your questions get answered in the first hour. It was too great not to share!

The hour includes some enneagram introductory information, enneagram history, some next step wisdom. Suzanne addresses trauma, Joe reaches out to Spiritual Directors and Clergy. What is Essence, and why should we do soul work or participate in Spiritual Practices? The 3 Centers of Intelligence, Enneagram Triads, Enneagram Stances, and, and, and!

We hope you grow from this podcast, and if you are interested in hearing the rest of the workshop, it will be available at lifeinthetrinityministry.com and suzannestabile.com beginning July 15th!

Welcome to The Journey! Let's grow deeper together!

Episode 61 - Melissa Radke (Enneagram 7) Jun 27, 2019

If you haven't met Melissa Radke yet, then you are in for a real treat! Author, star of the new USA reality show The Radkes, wife and mother of 2, and enneagram 7, Melissa joins Suzanne on the show today.

One of the best parts of the conversation is hearing about when and how Melissa decided she was "worth the work". Like Melissa, have you ever been told you're "just too much"? They also discuss dealing with grief, they talk about faith, and about growing older.

Enjoy the podcast and after listening be sure to visit melissaradke.com to learn more about Melissa, her family, the show, and her books!

Episode 60 - Caroline (4) and Ann (8) Willet Jun 17, 2019

Ann and Caroline have been on a Journey that has included the Enneagram for 7 years now after they attended Suzanne's workshops back in 2012. A lot of people think that 4s and 8s have much in common, and many believe that they are soooooo different. This podcast addresses both sides and talks about how their relationship has evolved as they've grown. What are the differences in parenting young children and adult children? And though he didn't know it, Loren, Ann's husband and Caroline's father, an enneagram 9, gets caught in the conversation's cross hairs as well!

There is so much gold from both the parent and daughter angle, about both the aggressive and withdrawing stance, someone who deals so much with shame and someone who deals often with anger. I hope you, and your family and friends can glean as much from it as I did!

E59 - The Enneagram and Repressed Centers Jun 05, 2019

What is your Repressed Center? Thinking? Feeling? Doing?

Suzanne explains how 1s, 2s, and 6s are Thinking Repressed. How 4s, 5s, and 9s are Doing Repressed. And, how 3s, 7s, and 8s are Feeling Repressed. Remember, "Repressed" can mean many different things for each number in each Stance! People often push back on this topic, but today's episode will help to clear things up, and give us all some tools moving forward.

If you want MORE TOOLS! visit www.LifeInTheTrinityMinistry.com

and use the promo code PODCAST at checkout to get Suzanne's mp3 teachings on How To Develop Your Repressed Center (3 hours of content for each stance) for 50% off during the month of June.

Want to see her teach in person on Enneagram Stance Work? Come see her in Los Angeles in October for a 2 day workshop on Enneagram Stances! You can find information and registration for that as well on the LTM website.

Good luck on The Journey!

E58 - Rachel Cruze (Enneagram 3) May 30, 2019

How many fights do you have with people in your life about money and finances? How much internal conflict do you have over it?!

We hope that today's podcast will help! Enneagram 3, Rachel Cruze joins Suzanne on The Journey to talk about life as a 3, contentment, money, jealousy and envy, and shame.

Rachel helps people learn the proper ways to handle money and stay out of debt. She’s authored three best-selling books, including Love Your Life, Not Theirs and Smart Money Smart Kids. As the daughter of Dave Ramsey, Rachel uses the knowledge and experiences from growing up in the Ramsey household to educate others.

E57 - Emily P. Freeman (Enneagram 4) May 16, 2019

It's low hanging fruit, but it is fair to say that you have done The Next Right Thing by listening to this episode! Enneagram 4, Emily Freeman, joins Suzanne to talk about discernment and the process of doing The Next Right Thing, which is the title of her newest book and her incredibly wonderful podcast.

Suzanne and Emily walk through the book discussing the chapters and the significance and overlap of enneagram work and discernment. What role does your enneagram number play when making big, tough, or every day decisions?

Giving readers practical, soul-filled steps to discern their next move in love, The Next Right Thing: A Simple, Soulful Practice for Making Life Decisions (Baker Books, April 2, 2019) delivers accessible encouragement and reflections to ease readers’ minds as they tackle any decision they face.

ALSO!! For the rest of the month of May, visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com and purchase a copy of The Path Between Us: An Enneagram Journey to Healthy Relationships for only $15 AND it will come with a free copy of The Path Between Us Study Guide!

E56 - Answering Your Enneagram Questions May 07, 2019

Another episode where Suzanne sets out to answer some of your Enneagram Questions!

Today's questions were submitted through theenneagramjourney.org and on Instagram @suzannestabile. Thank you to everyone who submits questions, this is Suzanne's absolute favorite way to teach!

E55 - Jeremy (9) and Audrey (8) Roloff Apr 29, 2019

You probably know Jeremy and Audrey from the hit T.V. show Little People Big World, but as we discuss in this conversation, that isn't what defines them. You may also have read their new book, A Love Letter Life, but that doesn't define their future either! Jeremy, an Enneagram 9, past oriented and an immovable object, and Audrey, Enneagram 8, future oriented and an unstoppable force talk about their relationship, what they are doing to grow a healthy loving life together, and how they're encouraging others to do the same.

E54 - Annie F. Downs (Enneagram 7) Apr 16, 2019

This is a good one!

Annie F. Downs joins Suzanne in this episode to talk about life as a traveling, writing, public speaking, enneagram 7. They talk about faith, expectations, boundaries, and more.

Annie F. Downs is a bestselling author, nationally known speaker, and podcast host based in Nashville, Tennessee. Flawed but funny, she uses her words to highlight the everyday goodness of a real and present God. An author of multiple bestselling books- including Remember God, 100 Days to Brave, and Looking For Lovely, Annie loves traveling around the country speaking at conferences, churches, and events. She also hosts the popular That Sounds Fun Podcast. Annie is a huge fan of bands with banjos, confetti, her community of friends, boiled peanuts, and soccer. Read more at anniefdowns.com and follow her @anniefdowns.

E53 - Answering Your Enneagram Questions Mar 28, 2019

We are trying to clean out the questions inbox!

In this Episode, Suzanne answers:

How do I figure out my number?
What is your stance on tests?
What would you say to people who say that the enneagram is evil?
Talk about wings. Are they important?
What does pathology mean in the enneagram?
What is the order of enneagram work?
How long can you live in your stress or security number?
What are good Lent practices for each enneagram number?

We hope you enjoy the show, and keep the questions coming!

Also, be sure to visit LifeintheTrinityMinistry.com beginning April 1 for information, dates, and the the application for the 2020 Enneagram and Contemplative Practices Cohorts.

Episode 52 - Parenting Discussion Panel, Part 2 Mar 15, 2019

Welcome back everyone for Part 2 of the Parenting and the Enneagram Discussion! If you missed the first half, you will find it in Episode 51.

On February 28th, Suzanne and 8 friends gathered together to discuss Parenting and the role enneagram work has played in their lives. It. Was. Incredible. Lindsay Norsworthy (1), Suzanne Stabile (2), Aaron Ivey (3), Elizabeth Chapin (4), Nathaniel Chapin (5), Jamie Ivey (6), Luke Norsworthy (7), Todd Dugas (8), and Joe Stabile (9) make up the panel and represent all 9 enneagram numbers.

With 14 children between them and years of experience, what they shared is so beneficial for everyone!

Episode 51 - Parenting Discussion Panel, Part 1 Mar 12, 2019

On February 28th, Suzanne and 8 friends gathered together to discuss Parenting and the role enneagram work has played in their lives. It. Was. Incredible. Lindsay Norsworthy (1), Suzanne Stabile (2), Aaron Ivey (3), Elizabeth Chapin (4), Nathaniel Chapin (5), Jamie Ivey (6), Luke Norsworthy (7), Todd Dugas (8), and Joe Stabile (9) make up the panel and represent all 9 enneagram numbers.

With 14 children between them and years of experience, what they shared is so beneficial for everyone!

*During the first 5:40 of the recording, there was a technical difficulty with the recording equipment, but after that it is corrected!

We hope you enjoy this episode and the second half of it in episode 52 of TEJ! Please leave a review and share with your friends and family!

Episode 50 - Orientation to Time Mar 08, 2019

Thank you all for continuing to ask such great questions!

We sat down to look at the questions you have turned in through social media, the 3 websites, email, and at live events, and one topic continued to pop out over and over.

Will you please talk more and explain more about the Enneagram and Orientation to Time?

YES! This episode begins with an introduction on the 3 Enneagram Stances and walks through how our orientation to time can affect our parenting, marriage, and even work life!

We hope you enjoy it, and keep the questions coming! (there are two more Q&A episodes to be released in the coming weeks).

AND! Visit LifeInTheTrinityMinistry.com for info about, and to sign up for, the 2019 Enneagram Bootcamp!! This year's title is: Stress, Security, and The Speed of Life. Register by Easter and save $100!

Episode 49 - Jenny Mcnulty (Enneagram 9) Feb 21, 2019

People have been asking for an episode with Suzanne and an Enneagram 9 who has an 8 wing, and this is that episode!

Jenny Mcnulty, Suzanne's other daughter, joins the podcast!

Topics include: Is there such thing as an extroverted 9? Relationships (always!). What having an 8 wing looks like, what work that causes for Jenny, and also how she benefits from it. AND MORE!

Episode 48 - Knox McCoy (Enneagram 5) Feb 04, 2019

The last 2 episodes included guests that were an enneagram 4 and 9, and this episode is going to wrap up the Withdrawing Stance with enneagram 5, Knox McCoy!

Author of The Wondering Years, co-host of The Popcast with Knox and Jamie, husband and father of 3, Knox joins Suzanne to discuss life as a 5 including: social media (a common theme as of late), of course pop culture, social situations, and a subject a lot of people are curious about, Subtypes.

You can find Knox in Birmingham, AL, you can find The Wondering Years on Amazon, and you can find Suzanne in Long Beach, CA (Feb. 22-23), Austin, TX (Feb. 28 - Mar. 2), and Portland, OR (March 15-17).

AND, please rate and leave a review of the podcast!

Episode 47 - Audrey Assad (Enneagram 9) Jan 25, 2019

Enneagram 9, Audrey Assad joins Suzanne on this episode of The Enneagram Journey!

This conversation stands alone in it’s uniqueness. Not only because of Audrey’s beautiful music that opens and closes the show, but because of the depth of their talk on how OCD, yoga, the enneagram, acupuncture, and music play a role in Audrey’s life. Suzanne and Audrey talk mental health, and be sure to listen when Suzanne talks about Enneagram Triads and the importance of finding balance in emotional, mental, and physical health.

There is so much more to Audrey and her Journey than we could fit in this paragraph or two, so please visit audreassad.com to learn more about Audrey and her Journey, and definitely check out her latest album Evergreen!

Episode 46 - Marty Dalton (enneagram 4) Jan 16, 2019

The first episode of 2019 is here, and it is a wonderful episode to start the year with!

Get to better know Marty Dalton:

Marty is a poet and novelist from Chicago, IL. His spoken word has been featured nationally on NPR and Moody Radio. He’s the author of three books, most recently The Brightest: a novella, a love story about love stories.

Episode 45 - Luke Norsworthy Part 2 Dec 07, 2018

I love Luke Norsworthy, but to say this is an Enneagram 7 Episode would be such an injustice.

In this episode we talk about mystery and faith, spiritual practices and enneagram stances, repressed centers, how Threes Sixes and Nines can be repressed and dominant in the same center, parenting, and answering other questions from the audience. And all of this with the joy and flare of 2 Sevens and a super extroverted Two!

Go grab your copy of God Over Good, come see me at an upcoming conference or event, and leave your comments and a review on iTunes!

Thank you Luke, and everyone who joined us. Definitely an episode that you will want to listen to more than once!

Episode 44 - Luke Norsworthy (Enneagram 7) Part 1 Dec 03, 2018

This is what you get when you have a great interview, with an enneagram 7, and a live audience!

Enjoy Part 1 of Suzanne's conversation with Enneagram 7, Luke Norsworthy. You may know Luke from his podcast, Newsworthy With Norsworthy, and you will definitely want to go out and buy or check out his new book, God Over Good.

Luke's wife Lindsey is an Enneagram 1, and they live in Austin with their 3 beautiful daughters.

This podcast was recorded at The Micah Center in Dallas in front of a small audience on October 18th.

Enjoy!

Episode 43 - Jamie Ivey (Enneagram 6) Part II Nov 16, 2018

Today's podcast is Part 2 of the conversation with Enneagram 6, Jamie Ivey. Suzanne, Jamie, and Joel dive into a few of the themes of Jamie's book, If You Only Knew.

Be sure to check out Jamie's podcast, The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey also!

Jamie Ivey is passionate about following wherever Jesus takes her, loving her husband, and trying to be the best mom she can be to the four cutest kids in the world. She loves reading great books, vacationing at the beach, speaking to women, date nights, and could easily eat TexMex three times a day. She lives in Austin Texas with her husband Aaron (worship pastor at The Austin Stone) and their crazy kids. You can find her blogging about parenting, marriage, adoption & faith at her website JamieIvey.com. Jamie also hosts a weekly podcast, The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey, where she chats with a new guest each week about the big things in life, the small things in life, and everything in between. You can find that show at JamieIvey.com/iTunes. Her book, If You Only Knew, released in January of 2018.

If you are interested in the upcoming Enneagram: Stress and Security workshop, please visit www.lifeinthetrinityministry.com for more information!

Episode 42 - Jamie Ivey (Enneagram 6) Nov 08, 2018

This episode was so great we had to break it into 2!

Meet Jamie Ivey!

Jamie is a podcaster, writer, and speaker from Austin, Texas. She is the proud mama of four kids and the wife of Aaron, worship pastor of The Austin Stone Community Church. Jamie loves to encourage women to passionately follow Jesus through whatever stage of life. She does this through writing and her weekly podcast, The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey. Her book, If You Only Knew released in January of 2018.

Jamie and Suzanne talk about shame and the church, Sixes and fear, and how Sevens and Sixes process their fears differently.

Parenting, relationships with fans and followers, and her book If You Only Knew are some of the topics discussed over the next two episodes!

Episode 41 - LeeAnn Robelia (Enneagram 7) Oct 17, 2018

So great to have LeaAnn on the podcast!

LeeAnn has been in the Enneagram Apprentice program with Suzanne for the past 3 years and has done a lot of work! It is so great to hear someone from the feeling repressed stance talk about their need to bring up feelings.

Suzanne and LeeAnn dive into orientation to time and what the downside of being oriented to the future is, and what it may mean to be able to have some balance in that area. What are some of the things that she has missed out on because of her "7ness"? And, what advice would she give to someone in relationship with a 7?

All of that is discussed and so much more!

We hope you enjoy their conversation, and if you think the podcast deserves a 5 star rating, then leave one and a review wouldn't hurt either!

Episode 40 - Rev. Joseph Stabile (9) and Hunter Mobley (2) Oct 01, 2018

Very cool episode this week!

This week we get to hear a lot of great information on the differences between 2s and 9s. Also, about two different dynamics: the working relationship between Joe and Hunter, and more on the relationship between Joe and Suzanne.

If you are going into ministry, you'll want to stick around until the end when Joe and Hunter share some advice of what they've learned about themselves and what they wish they knew when they first entered ministry.

EXCITING NEWS!

Suzanne will be teaching The Enneagram: Movement to Stress and Security in Dallas on November 19th and 20th, and it will be streamed live online, so you can join in from all around the world for only $30!

VISIT LIFEINTHETRINITYMINISTRY.COM FOR MORE INFO AND TO REGISTER

E39 - Christopher and Amanda Phillips (Enneagram 1s) Sep 21, 2018

Meet Enneagram 1s Christopher and Amanda Phillips!

They have been learning and working with their enneagram numbers for over 3 years now, and the changes and transformation in their lives is so evident. They live in Nashville, TN with their 2 incredible children, Jack and Francine. Can you imagine the expectations that Ones must have when they take their kids for their first day of school?!

E38 - Tony Jones Part II Sep 13, 2018

Part 2 of Suzanne's conversation with the very future oriented, Enneagram 8, Tony Jones!

Topics this episode include: parenting, vocation, social media today, and as always with Suzanne, RELATIONSHIPS!

Leave a review, and leave a voicemail for the show at theenneagramjourney.org/interact

E37 - Tony Jones, Part I Sep 07, 2018

This is part one of two of Suzanne's conversation with Enneagram 8, Tony Jones. Tony jokingly second guesses his enneagram number in the beginning of today's show, but as each minute passes, you'll be able to laugh harder at the idea of him not being an 8!

People sometimes have a difficult time hearing the truth from 8s, but Tony does a great job of laying it all out there in this episode on behalf of his fellow 8s.

Tony Jones is the author of Did God Kill Jesus? Searching for Love in History’s Most Famous Execution, theologian, and speaker. He is a leading figure in the emerging church movement and in postmodern Christianity.

E36 - Ben and Becky Hensley (Enneagram 8 and 3) Aug 23, 2018

Such an intriguing conversation this week! Ben and Becky are two Aggressive Stance numbers happily married. There are often a lot of questions about the differences between 3s and 8s, and this episode addresses many! They are both such passionate people, but what I love the most about them is there passion for justice and all the good that they put in the world as a couple.

I loved talking with them and hope you enjoy it too!

E35 - David Gaffney (Enneagram 4) Aug 16, 2018

Suzanne's guest this week is Enneagram 4, David Gaffney! If you think that a Texas high school football coach couldn't excel as a 4 with more 4s on his staff, then you're wrong! The kids at John Paul II High School are really blessed to have him there.

A real theme in this week's conversation is the enneagram and orientation to time, and David does a great job of speaking to the strengths and struggles of his number.

Thank you for listening and sending in your questions, and please leave a review to let us know what you think about the show!

E34 - Brian Irwin (Enneagram 3) Aug 09, 2018

In today's episode Brian Irwin, a 3 on the Enneagram, joins Suzanne. What is courageous for a 3? What does a Contemplative Practice look like for a 3? Brian also shares what life is like being in a relationship with a fellow aggressive number.

E33 - Q&A with TPBU Study Guide Group Jul 24, 2018

Today's podcast was recorded on July 17, 2018 when Suzanne joined The Path Between Us Study Guide group for their final session at The Micah Center in Dallas, TX. We hope you enjoy listening in!

E32 - The Enneagram, Relationships, and Parenting Part II Jul 12, 2018

This episode is the second part (of 2) of Suzanne's conversation with Joey and Billy Schewee (enneagram 8 and 9) talking about the enneagram and relationships and parenting. Joey and Billy both teach the enneagram across the United States and will be joining Suzanne in Dallas in August to teach brand new material on the Enneagram and Parenting.

E31 - The Enneagram, Relationships and Parenting Jul 05, 2018

On this episode, Suzanne speaks with Joey and Billy Schewee, (an 8 and a 9) on the first of a 2 part series talking about the Enneagram, Relationships and Parenting. Joey and Billy both teach Enneagram workshops across the country under Life in the Trinity Ministries.

E30 - Question and Answers Jun 26, 2018

On this week's episode, Suzanne answers listener questions from the voicemail.

E29 - Nadia Bolz-Weber (Enneagram 8) Jun 19, 2018

This week, Suzanne speaks with long time friend Nadia Bolz-Weber who is a 8 on the Enneagram. Nadia Bolz Weber is the founding pastor of House for All Sinners and Saints in Denver, Colorado. She is the author of the New York Times bestseller Accidental Saints: Finding God in All the Wrong People.

E28 - Abbey Moore (Enneagram 1) Jun 14, 2018

This week on The Enneagram Journey, Suzanne Stabile speaks with

Abbey Moore who is a 1 on the Enneagram. Abbey is a professional photographer from Grand Rapids, MI and is married to Jake who is a phobic 6.

E27 - Phil Dieke (Enneagram 9) Jun 06, 2018

This week's episode is with Phil Dieke who is a 9 on the Enneagram.

Phil is the Associate Minister at Highland Park United Methodist Church and the father of 2 with another on the way in July.

E26 - Differentiating Between Numbers May 23, 2018

On this episode, Suzanne talks about how to differentiate between some numbers. For example: how 9's and 1's sometimes struggle to identify, and 3's and 4's etc.

We will pick back up with guests next time!

E25 - Enneagram and Trauma May 16, 2018

On this week's episode, Suzanne answers a question from a voicemail that was left and another question related to the Enneagram and trauma.

E24 - Question and Answer May 01, 2018

On this episode of The Enneagram Journey, Suzanne is answering your questions!

E23 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 2 Apr 10, 2018

This is the final installment of The Path Between Us series covering the 2's on the Enneagram with none other than Enneagram Master Suzanne Stabile, who is an Enneagram 2! (She is the guest on this one)

E22 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 1 Apr 03, 2018

Continuing the Path Between Us series, Suzanne speaks with Stephanie Burk who is a 1 on the Enneagram. She is married to her husband John, who is a 5 on the Enneagram.

E21 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 6 Mar 27, 2018

Continuing The Path Between Us series, Suzanne talks with Heather Mustain who is a 6 on the Enneagram. She is a pastor in Dallas, mother and wife to Chad Mustain (Enneagram 1).

E20 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 8 Mar 23, 2018

Continuing the series for The Path Between Us, Suzanne talks with Joe Owen. He is an 8 on the Enneagram.

He is a lawyer, married to his wife Lori who is a 1, father of 3 boys.

E19 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 9 Mar 13, 2018

On this episode, we continue with The Path Between Us series talking to Jill Herrington who is an Enneagram 9.

She completed the Apprentice Program, has worked in healthcare for the past 15 years, and now has started her own business.

E18 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 4 Mar 06, 2018

On this episode, Suzanne continues with The Path Between Us series talking to Rose Estes, who is an Enneagram 4.

She is a former social worker, now stay at home mom. Her husband Webb is a 6 on the Enneagram and they have 2 daughters. We hope you enjoy their conversation!

E17 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 3 Feb 27, 2018

On this episode of the Enneagram Journey, Suzanne talks with Drew Moser. Drew is a 3 on the Enneagram. He’s married to Bekah, a 1 on the Enneagram, and together they raise 5 children.

Drew is a Dean and Professor at Taylor University in Indiana. He’s also a writer, speaker, and consultant on twentysomethings and vocation. His book, Ready or Not: Leaning in Life in Our Twenties, releases in April of this year.

E16 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 7 Feb 20, 2018

Continuing the series for Suzanne's new book The Path Between Us, she is talking with Dave Barnes who is a 7 on the Enneagram.

Dave is a musician and comedian who lives in Nashville with his wife, Annie, (who is an 8 on the Enneagram) and their 3 kids.

His new album Who Knew It Would Be So Hard To Be Myself just released.

E15 - The Path Between Us: Enneagram 5 Feb 13, 2018

This is the first of a 9 part series around the new book The Path Between Us.

Today we are talking with Casey McCollum, a 5 on the Enneagram.
Casey is married with 2 kids living in Denton, TX. He is a former Pastor of 15 years who now utilizes his experience and the Enneagram as a consultant for individuals, churches, and nonprofits.

E14: Stress and Security 2, 8, and 9 Jan 23, 2018

On this episode, Suzanne speaks with her husband Rev. Joe Stabile (Enneagram 9) and daughter Joey Schewee (Enneagram 8) to discuss Stress and Security for 2's, 8's, and 9's.

E13: Todd Dugas (Enneagram 8) Jan 16, 2018

On this episode, Suzanne speaks with Todd Dugas who is an 8 on The Enneagram.

Although currently working as a Clinical Director, Todd has progressively advanced administratively and clinically in addictive disorders and mental health agencies in the public systems, criminal justice systems and private sectors.

E12: The Enneagram, Therapy and Eating Disorders pt. 2 Jan 09, 2018

On this episode, We are continuing the conversations started last week where Suzanne is speaking with a group of women about the Enneagram, therapy and eating disorders.

This episode's guests include:

Eden Hyder, LPC, PCCA. Program Director at the Center for Discovery Outpatient Program in Dallas. (Enneagram 2)
Candace David, LPC, LCDC. Lead Therapist at Changes Outpatient of Frisco (Enneagram 8)
Whitney Russell Stabile, MS, LPC-S, CEDS. Program Director at the Center for Discovery Residential Program of Dallas (Enneagram 1)

E11: The Enneagram, Therapy and Eating Disorders Jan 02, 2018

On this episode, Suzanne is speaking with a group of women about the Enneagram, therapy and eating disorders.

This episode's guests include:

Eden Hyder (Enneagram 2)
Candace David (Enneagram 8)
Whitney Russell Stabile (Enneagram 1)

The 3 used to work together using the Enneagram as a tool in therapy.

E10: Sarah Bragg (Enneagram 3) Dec 19, 2017

On this episode of The Enneagram Journey, Suzanne speaks with Sarah Bragg, host of the podcast Surviving Sarah and author of the book Body. Beauty. Boys. The Truth About Girls and How We See Ourselves.

Sarah is a 3 on the Enneagram. She's married to her husband, who is a 5 on the Enneagram, and together they have two girls.

We hope you enjoy this episode of the Enneagram Journey.

E9: Pt. 2 of Q&A with Rev. Joe Stabile (Enneagram 9) and Joey Schewee (Enneagram 8) Dec 12, 2017

On this episode, this is a completion of the question and answer segment from Episode 7 with Rev. Joe Stabile and Joey Schewee.

We hope you enjoy it! Please join us on http://www.theenneagramjourney.com

E8: Dana Effler (Enneagram 6) Dec 05, 2017

On this episode of The Enneagram Journey, Suzanne speaks with Dana Effler who is a 6 on the Enneagram.

Dana is the Director of Music and Arts at FUMC Dallas. She has earned her bachelor's degree in music education from Furman University and a master's degree in choral conducting and in vocal performance from Southern Methodist University.

We hope you enjoy this episode!

E7: Rev. Joe Stabile (Enneagram 9) and Joey Schewee (Enneagram 8) Nov 28, 2017

On this week's episode, Suzanne speaks with her husband Joe Stabile who is a 9 on the enneagram and Joey Schewee who is an 8 on the Enneagram.

Joe is head of Congregational Care at Highland Park UMC in Dallas and Joey is the Director of Admissions and Financial Aid at John Paul II High School in Plano, TX.

We hope you enjoy this episode.

E6: The Enneagram and Recovery Nov 21, 2017

On this episode, Suzanne speaks with Nathaniel and Elizabeth who you might have heard on Episode 4 and her son Joel about how the Enneagram has impacted their road to recovery.

Nathaniel is a 5 on the Enneagram and Elizabeth is a 4. Joel is a 7.

This episode specifically addresses co-dependency, alcoholism, living with an addict, etc.

We hope that you enjoy this episode of The Enneagram Journey.

E5: Jean (Enneagram 2) and Carrie (Enneagram 3) Nov 14, 2017

On this episode of The Enneagram Journey, Suzanne speaks with Jean Estes (Enneagram 2) and Carrie Estes Johnstone (Ennneagram 3).

Jean is Carrie's mother and they live in the Richmond, Virginia area.

E4: Nathaniel (5) and Elizabeth (4) Chapin Nov 07, 2017

On this episode of The Enneagram Journey, Suzanne speaks with Nathaniel and Elizabeth Chapin. They live in Austin, Texas with their 2 children, Alabel and Henry.

Nathaniel is an attorney and a 5 on the Enneagram and Elizabeth is an artist, and a 4 on the Enneagram.

We hope you enjoy this episode!

E3 - Hunter Mobley Oct 31, 2017

On this episode, Suzanne speaks with Hunter Mobley who is a 2 on the Enneagram.

Hunter Mobley was introduced to the ancient spiritual wisdom tool, the Enneagram, several years ago when he met master Enneagram teacher, Suzanne Stabile. Hunter is completing an old-fashioned apprenticeship with Suzanne as he prepares to continue teaching the Enneagram and Christian spirituality at conferences, retreats, corporate events, and churches.

Hunter is currently Executive Pastor at Christ Church Nashville, home of the Grammy-nominated Christ Church Choir. He also teaches as an adjunct professor at Belmont University College of Law.

E2 - Teresa and Peter Oct 24, 2017

On this episode, Suzanne speaks with Peter (Enneagram 1) and Teresa (Enneagram 6) McBean, married 39 years with 3 children and 2 more added via marriage and one grandson.

They are a team in everything from grandparenting to ministry. Pete is an IT consultant and Teresa is the executive director of The National Association for Christian Recovery and pastor of Northstar Community.

E1: Luke Norsworthy Oct 17, 2017

On this week's episode of The Enneagram Journey, Suzanne speaks to Luke Norsworthy.

Luke and his wife Lindsay along with their three daughters live in Austin, TX where Luke is the senior minister of the Westover Hills Church. Luke also hosts the Newsworthy with Norsworthy Podcast, a weekly podcast discussing Spirituality, Christianity, and anything else that seems news worthy.

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