The Dating For Life Podcast

The Closer Jul 21, 2022

In this week’s final episode of Season 5, Tony and Alana recap and discuss where they are in life. Fears and emotions are running high in this season of life for them and they are always ready to share their truth as it relates to growing their family and dealing with life decisions. Thank you so much for sticking with us! Stay tuned for Season 6 on deck. Subscribe for more and follow @_alanahubbard_, @thubb414, and @datingforlifepod on IG. And, don’t forget to leave a review!

On the Mend: Daddy Issues Jul 14, 2022

In this week’s episode, Tony and Alana recap and discuss a touchy topic: their fathers. Leaping off of Season 3, episode 2 where they talked through their daddy issues and the sensitive points that made their relationships tough to deal with at times, Tony and Alana reflect on if and how this has changed and provide ways to interpret their relationships and extend grace. Leaning heavily on the premise of honoring their fathers, both come to a consensus on where things are and their hope for the future. Subscribe for more and follow @_alanahubbard_, @thubb414, and @datingforlifepod on IG. And, don’t forget to leave a review!

Growing Pains Jul 07, 2022

In this week’s episode, Tony and Alana discuss the importance of growing to become the perfect partner for your significant other. They share how they began that journey for and with each other and provide tips on how to create a marriage or relationship that lasts. Subscribe for more and follow @_alanahubbard_, @thubb414, and @datingforlifepod on IG. And don’t forget to leave a review!

The Cost of Happiness Jun 30, 2022

In this week’s episode, Tony and Alana discuss the advantages and drawbacks of their happiness. Joy comes seemingly at a high price these days. They share how they are able to show up for others in a meaningful way in spite of all that is going on in this world and with others. They talk through how they deal with misunderstandings and how they handle relationships in opposing and different seasons. Subscribe for more and follow @_alanahubbard_, @thubb414, and @datingforlifepod on IG. And don’t forget to leave a review!

The AuPair Jun 09, 2022

In this week’s episode Tony and Alana discuss their journey with finding childcare that works for their family. They talk through how they came to the decision to hire an aupair and what that experience was actually like. Subscribe for more and follow @_alanahubbard_, @thubb414, and @datingforlifepod on IG. And don’t forget to leave them a review!

Different Strokes for Different Folks May 26, 2022

In this week’s episode Tony and Alana discuss struggles and successes with owning their confidence. Self-esteem, relationship, and life traumas add up over time. They can either build up or destroy self-esteem. As they work to encourage one another in their weaknesses and build on their strengths, they want encourage their listeners to evaluate how they show up and use their gifts. Subscribe for more and follow @_alanahubbard_, @thubb414, and @datingforlifepod on IG. And don’t forget to leave them a review!

I Resent That... May 19, 2022

This week, Tony and Alana are back with a discussion on resentment within relationships. Whether you deal with it within a friendship or romantic relationship, it's never an easy conversation to have. But...it's best not to let it fester for too long. Alana and Tony share an intimate conversation surrounding resentment and a particular "spirited conversation" they had recently. Tune in to here how they deal with such a tough topic! Subscribe to the podcast if you like what you hear and be sure to check them out @datingforlifepod, @thubb414, and @_alanahubbard_ on IG.

The Silent Struggles of Conceiving May 12, 2022

Tony and Alana share their take on a more uncomfortable topic: infertility. They talk about how their journey to parenthood was not necessarily a straight road and the common misconceptions related to the concept of conception. Subscribe to the podcast if you like what you hear and be sure to check them out @datingforlifepod, @thubb414, and @_alanahubbard_ on IG.

So You Wanna Start a Family…Part 2 Apr 28, 2022

In part 2 of this episode, Tony and Alana elaborate on their parenthood journey thus far and shed light on some of the challenges they face as new parents. They cover everything from their goals to remain intentional to postpartum anxiety and financial planning during this phase. Parenthood certainly is not a walk in the park and they share the not so fun or glamorous side for those who are considering parenthood in the future. Subscribe to the podcast if you like what you hear and be sure to check them out @datingforlifepod, @thubb414, and @_alanahubbard_ on IG.

So You Want to Start a Family... Apr 21, 2022

This week, Tony and Alana dive into a discussion all about the things they considered before starting a family. They share their journey to becoming parents of not one, but nearly two kiddos, and offer advice on what others may want to do when considering having kids. From the planning to actual delivery and beyond, Tony and Alana discuss this hood called parenthood. Don't forget to rate and subscribe if you like what you hear!

Instagram: @datingforlifepod, @_alanahubbard_, @thubb414 for the behind the scenes of the show

The Real is Back & A Special Announcement Apr 14, 2022

WE'RE BACK!! This week, Tony and Alana talk about where they've been and what they've been up to for over a year now. With quite a few different transitions under way they share the good, the bad, the indifferent and also a VERY special announcement! Don't forget to rate and subscribe if you like what you hear!

Episodes About Relationship Management:

Season 1, Episode 7:

https://traffic.libsyn.com/datingforlifepodcast/Ep_7_RR_Planning_Session_mixdown.mp3

Season 4, Episode 10:

https://traffic.libsyn.com/datingforlifepodcast/Ep_10_Invest_in_yourself_mixdown.mp3

It's A Wrap Jul 02, 2020

Tony and Alana wrap up their fourth season of the podcast with a quick synopsis of the episodes and plans for the summer. Uncertainty and unrest has been an underlying theme this season, but they hope this episode will bring you peace of mind, ideas for self care and good shows, and hope for what's to come. Don't forget to rate and subscribe!! Talk to you all in Season 5!

Invest In Yourself Jun 25, 2020

This week, Tony and Alana dive into what it means to invest in yourself when it comes to working towards obtaining new opportunities. With quite a few different endeavors under their belts the couple expand upon what it means to position yourself for success. You'll get tips and their best pointers for getting to your next win. Don't forget to rate and subscribe if you like what you hear!

Our Pet Peeves Jun 18, 2020

This week the couple is back sharing their biggest pet peeves! We've all been quarantined for going on four months and anxiety, restlessness, depression, anger, and all the emotions are running high with all that is going on in the world. Today, Tony and Alana discuss ignorance, fake woke-ness, unsolicited opinions, tardiness, and everything in between!! Don't forget to rate and subscribe!!

What Has Sustained Us Jun 11, 2020

This week Tony and Alana are back with yet another episode highlighting what has sustained them through their four-year marriage. Everything from faith, check-ins, managing expectations, love, and friendship are discussed as they reflect on their time together. The couple offers advice and their hope for others as they navigate relationships. Don't forget to subscribe and rate!!

What's Up? May 28, 2020

This week's episode is essentially a brain dump of all that is going on in the couples' minds. Everything from adulting, current events, saving money, and quarantine life are touched on during this episode as Tony and Alana share their personal state of affairs. Don't forget to like and subscribe!!

Keepin' Up With The Joneses May 21, 2020

This week Tony and Alana discuss the pitfalls of trying to keep up with others during this crazy social media age. With all that is going on around us it is hard not to compare ourselves and our lives to that of others. Together, they share how they stay and focus on their own lane while aspiring for more in a time when we are all inundated with constant updates from those we follow. Don't forget to rate and subscribe!

Black(ish) May 14, 2020

This week the couple return with a hard and sometimes uncomfortable conversation they wish more people were having. It's time to address the elephant in the room and talk about racism and the disproportionate amount of black and brown people being murdered without justice being served.

We Gotta Talk... May 07, 2020

In this week's episode Tony and Alana dive into the importance of healthy communication in regards to all relationships. They provide tips for successful and healthy conversation particularly during a time when good communication and keeping in touch is especially necessary. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review!!

To Whom Much Is Given... Apr 30, 2020

This week the couple discusses the joys and disadvantages of blessings in their lives. Though they know God orders their steps, this journey does not come without stress, anxiety, and frustrations along the way. Don't forget to subscribe and review!!

Removing Distractions Apr 23, 2020

In this episode, Tony and Alana dive into exactly HOW they are surviving in this season. With the onset and spread of COVID-19 here in the US, the couple shares how they find time to focus on what's important, spend time together, and discuss new habits and important tidbits to get through this time.

Life Redefined Apr 16, 2020

In the first episode of Season 4, Tony and Alana are back with a topic they never knew they'd have to talk about. With the onset and spread of COVID-19 here in the US, the couple shares how they are adjusting to life with a stay at home order in Maryland. Work-life balance, familial struggles, keeping up with friends, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle and mentality are all topics of discussion as they learn to navigate through this uncertain time.

10 Things Learned This Decade Dec 31, 2019

In the final episode of Season 3 (and the decade) Tony and Alana share the key things they have learned in the last ten years of their relationship. So much has changed in this time and they want to encourage listeners to take inventory of their own lessons as we enter 2020 looking toward a future filled with joy and prosperity. Happy New Year!

Adulting 101 Dec 19, 2019

Life has its twists and turns, but when it comes to the rollercoaster that is adulting, boy oh boy! It is not easy! In this episode Tony and Alana share how they "adult" and break the topic down into sections that help them show up as their best selves in every category of adulthood.

The Five Love Languages Dec 12, 2019

This week's episode has been a long time coming as Tony and Alana dive into each of the five love language. They explain what they are, how their languages rank in the assessment, and how they integrate their most prominent languages into their marriage. Believe it or not, we can all learn a lot by how our partners and friends receive love!

Take the assessment for yourself here: https://www.5lovelanguages.com

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A Tough Conversation Dec 05, 2019

Well, this week we have a pretty tough conversation on air. We thought it was worth recording so that you guys could see how we not only resolve conflict in our relationship, but actually talk through issues. It's never all peaches and cream and through this, we hope to show you that things can be resolved by attacking the elephant in the room and addressing feelings and thoughts head on. That being said, no animals were harmed during the taping of this episode. Don't forget to leave a review and subscribe!

Lessons We Had To Unlearn Nov 21, 2019

In this week's episode, Tony and Alana unpack the lies they've learned along the way. They present their listeners with counterpoints to these lies and share the core of what they have learned instead. Growing into our best selves is not an easy feat. But it's starts with the truths we choose to absorb from our surroundings.

Mama Drama Nov 14, 2019

This week, Tony and Alana discuss their relationships with their mothers and how those relationships have changed throughout the years. Believe it or not, we take on the traumas of those around us when growing up, and both share stories and moments where their moms fell short in small ways due to their own personal experiences. No relationship is perfect but together Tony and Alana strive to understand, grow, and do better.

Survivor's Remorse | Part 2 Nov 07, 2019

This week, Tony and Alana continue to break down the underlying issues surrounding achieving goals in life. Whether it's feeling isolated, guilty, or just overlooked both share their personal accounts of how making it through certain obstacles has shaped how they relate and interact with others. This is a touchy subject and one they feel many will be able to understand and even identify with.

Survivor's Remorse | Part 1 Oct 31, 2019

This week, Tony and Alana break down the underlying issues surrounding achieving goals in life. Whether it's feeling isolated, guilty, or just overlooked both share their personal accounts of how making it through certain obstacles has shaped how they relate and interact with others. This is a touchy subject and one they feel many will be able to understand and even identify with.

Buying A Home Oct 24, 2019

Adulting is on 1000 as Tony and Alana discuss the process behind purchasing a home in this week's episode. They unpack everything from planning and finances to realtors and closing on their first home and even talk about some personal drawbacks of their process! Don't forget to subscribe and review if you like what you hear!!

Daddy Issues Oct 17, 2019

In today's episode Tony and Alana do a deep dive into their sometimes complex relationships with their fathers. They go through the good, the bad, and the ugly and share how certain situations have been resolved or may be ongoing, but leave you with some coping mechanisms if you or someone you know deals with daddy issues as well. The genuine and authentic conversations continue. Don't forget to rate and subscribe to be notified when a new episode is live!

Where Have You Been? Oct 10, 2019

Welcome back to Season 3 of The Dating for Life Podcast! In today's episode Tony and Alana give you the run down on where they've been, what they've been doing, and the importance of self care when it comes to major transitions in life. The genuine and authentic conversations continue with this deep dive into the Hubbard household. Don't forget to rate and subscribe to be notified when we a new episode is live!

Decisions, Decisions... Jun 27, 2019

To close out the season, Alana and Tony discuss the decisions of modern day life. In this episode they recap season two, all while delving deeper into how the struggle has evolved with the addition on professional growth, finding time for themselves, and dealing with life's less than enjoyable responsibilities. Be sure to rate, subscribe, and provide a review as we prepare for season three. Be your best self.

The Ladies Takeover Jun 20, 2019

This week Alana sat down with a few of her girls for the "Ladies Takeover". In this round table talk the ladies discuss real beauty, intimacy, and the possibility of "having it all". Check out this amazing conversation with four dynamic women speaking openly and authentically about the beauty and challenges of womanhood, motherhood, wifehood, being single, and everything in between. Don't forget to rate, subscribe, review, and follow @datingforlifepod on IG.

What Men Want Jun 13, 2019

What happens when you get a few of Tony's homeboys in one room to discuss what it is like to be a man in this day and age? Click the play button to hear an authentic and insightful conversation about manhood, emotions, social pressures, but most importantly what men want and what they think women might need. Don't forget to rate, subscribe, review, and follow @datingforlifepod on IG.

The First Year(s) Jun 06, 2019

This week, Tony and Alana sit down for a solo episode to discuss their first years of marriage. Career changes to travel to adulting to friendships- they talk about it all. This episode highlights all things marriage, jumping the first year hurdle, surviving the second year thrills, and balancing the third year forecasting. It's been one hell of a ride thus far. So let's talk about it! Don't forget to rate, subscribe, review, and follow @datingforlifepod on IG!

Interracial & Intercultural Dating May 30, 2019

A highly anticipated conversation about the intricacies and delicacies of dating not only interracially, but interculturally. Tony and Alana sit down with Cameron and Patrice to discuss what this looks like for them. They chat about challenges of dating in a world that is evolving, but still has quite a way to go on the racial front. Communication, balance, and child-rearing are all hot topics discussed in this week's episode. Don't forget to rate, subscribe, and follow us on @datingforlifepod on IG.

My Wife & Kids May 23, 2019

All is well when it's just you and your partner. Nothing much more to consider outside just you two. But what happens when you add a couple of kids to the mix? Who makes the sacrifices? How do you keep things spicy? How do you balance it all and have time to date for life? Tony, Alana, and special guests James and Aliyah Taylor discuss it all in this episode! Don't forget to rate and subscribe and follow us on IG: @datingforlifepod

Social Media & Validation May 16, 2019

In today's discussion, Tony and Alana dive into a controversial topic in their household- the balance of the participation in social media with the hope for validation in today's society. Both have unique outlooks on the subject, but somehow come to a consensus after a funny and entertaining debate on air! They also touch on Ayesha Curry's recent thoughts on the subject. Rate and subscribe if you like what you hear! IG: @datingforlifepod

The Engagement Season May 09, 2019

So you've been dating for a while and your partner decides to pop the question! In this episode Tony and Alana discuss their engagement season, things they focused on, how they planned, managed stress, and of course the struggles of this special time. Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe if you find this episode helpful and come check us out over on IG: @datingforlifepod

Money Bags May 02, 2019

Today's episode explores what it means to be an individual or couple working to build generational wealth. Guests Ashlee Matthews and Julius Grayson join us and share their journey toward syncing up their financial goals and striving for financial literacy during their engagement season. We also discuss credit, budgeting, retirement planning, and the differences of opinion that can occur when people come from different backgrounds on their quest to date for life!

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The Dating Game | The Female Edition Apr 25, 2019

Let's discuss what it looks like to date in today's fast-paced, social media age. Did we mention it was from the ladies' perspective? Join us and Jennifer and Kellye Gregg as we discuss the pitfalls of dating these days, along with some crazy gems we drop to help our listeners bridge the gap between casual dating and dating for life. See what we did there? Rate, review, and subscribe if you like what you hear!

Don't forget to follow:@datingforlifepod on IG as well as our guests Jennifer: @jenaphergee/@coach_jmg_ms and Kellye: @kayrenee88

Our website: www.datingforlifepod.com

The Struggle Is Real Apr 18, 2019

Welcome back to a new season of The Dating For Life Podcast! In today's episode we discuss the struggle that is 2019 and bring our listeners up to date on our life. From the baby question to third life crisis to student loan repayment, Tony and Alana bear it all in this episode and get deep with the genuine conversation you know and love.

The Follow Up Jan 24, 2019

Today's episode is comprised of a fun (and funny) recap of the entire season with a special guest. We leave you with our plans and hopes for Season 2 and the future. Don't forget to rate, subscribe, share and follow us on our social media handles: @datingforlifepod, @thubb414, and @legally_lana.

We love you and can't for Season 2 coming in Spring 2019!

Conflict Management Jan 17, 2019

When we hear the word conflict it is often associated with a negative connotation. In this episode Tony and Alana discuss their top 5 tips for dealing with conflict within relationships. These tips are essential to reaching a better level of communication when inevitable conflicts arise. Be sure to rate and subscribe.

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Gender Roles Jan 10, 2019

Gender roles or roles in general tend to dictate how we function in all relationships. In this episode, Tony and Alana discuss gender specific roles and what they look like in their relationship. They cover what being the breadwinner looks like in today's age and how the increase in women as bosses/CEOs has shaped the dating game and mens' perspective on being the provider. Be sure to rate and subscribe if you like what you hear. Follow us on IG: @datingforlifepod, @legally_lana, and @thubb414.

FOMO Jan 03, 2019

Happy New Year! In this episode, Tony and Alana define the fear of missing out, commonly known today as FOMO, as it pertains to the current age of social media, the millennial mindset, and mental health. They give their own accounts of how they deal with it in their relationship and answer an interesting social media related question during the Ask The Hubbards segment of the show. Don't forget to rate and subscribe if you like what you hear!

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Relationship Goals | The Planning Session Dec 20, 2018

This is part two to last week's conversation about goal planning and in it, we delve deeper into what our goal planning sessions look like. We also talk about tools, accountability partners, and career struggles we've overcome by reassessing and going back to the drawing board when necessary. If you like what you hear, subscribe and rate the podcast below. Follow us on IG: @datingforlifepod, @legally_lana, and @thubb414.

Relationship Goals | The Basics Dec 13, 2018

In this episode, we discuss what we've found to become the very foundation of how we set goals both individually and collectively. We share how we manifest our dream life and some actions you can take to do the same! Literally everything is possible. This is just one way we've found works for us. If you enjoyed, please take a moment to rate the podcast below and leave a review you'd like!

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R & R | Relationships & Reciprocation Dec 06, 2018

In this episode, Tony and Alana expand upon the idea of friendships/relationships and emphasize the need for reciprocity within them. They discuss the differences between admiration, envy, and jealousy, what it's like to be the "strong" friend, and tips on how to know when to end a relationship. If you enjoyed, please take a moment to rate the podcast below and leave a review if you'd like!

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Identity Theft | Should I Change for My Partner? Nov 29, 2018

In this episode we cover our unique identities within our marriage and also some pressing topics like friendships with the opposite sex and the controversial body count question. Should you change for your partner? Or does being in a relationship or dating someone special mean your identity as you know it is gone?

Follow us on IG: Alana (@legally_lana), Tony (@thubb414), and the podcast page (@datingforlifepod)

Great Expectations Nov 22, 2018

Join us as we discuss our very different family dynamics and expectations- an interesting yet touchy subject. Both affect how we show up in a relationship and how we show up in the world. Rate and subscribe if you like what you hear! Don't forget to follow @datingforlifepod on Instagram as well as @thubb414 and legally_lana.

The Dating Game | The Male Edition Nov 15, 2018

In this episode we discuss what it looks like to date in today's fast-paced, social media age. Did we mention it was from a guy's perspective? Join us and Cliff Joseph as we discuss the pitfalls of dating these days, along with some crazy gems we drop to help our listeners bridge the gap between casual dating and dating for life. See what we did there? Rate, review, and subscribe if you like what you hear!

Don't forget to follow @datingforlifepod on Instagram as well as Tony (@thubb414) and Alana (@legally_lana).

Should I Stay or Should I Go? Nov 08, 2018

In this episode we discuss a particularly hard time in our relationship that nearly ended things between us. We were so nervous to share this with you all, but we hope our story helps someone out there who is going through something similar with their partner. Rate and subscribe if you like what you hear!

Don't forget to follow @datingforlifepod on Instagram as well as Tony (@thubb414) and Alana (@legally_lana).

You can find some resources about what we discussed here:

Websites:

https://www.meetmindful.com/how-to-regain-a-partners-lost-trust/

https://www.truthaboutdeception.com/cheating-and-infidelity.html

https://www.verywellmind.com/cope-when-spouse-is-unfaithful-2300654

Books:

Not "Just Friends" by Shirley P. Glass, PhD.

https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/not-just-friends/id381603335?mt=11

Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder by Dennis Ortman, PhD

https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/transcending-post-infidelity-stress-disorder/id460819682?mt=11

An Introduction Oct 23, 2018

In this episode, we introduce ourselves and get into what you can expect from the D4L podcast, a podcast all about marriage, relationships, and lifestyle! There is so much more on the way and we can't wait to share.

Be sure to follow us on social media:

D4L Podcast IG: @datingforlifepod

Tony's IG: @thubb414

Alana's IG: @legally_lana

Addy's IG: @iam_ad.d

Hit us up with your relationship/lifestyle questions at datingforlifepod@gmail.com and you might get your question answered during the show!