The Business of Pleasure

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25. Ovary It, But Not Over Pleasure May 13, 2025

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Healing, Mapping, & Reclaiming the O! Liberation Coach Aysha Bellamy joins Kash for a powerful, pleasure-packed episode where they get into therapy culture, medical trauma, and that one time the military accidentally took her ovary — yes, for real. From navigating early menopause to mapping a new relationship with sensation and self, this episode is about reclaiming your body, your power, and your pleasure. Oh, and of course… she left with some Bedroom Kandi gifts that’ll help along the way. Plus, Kash walks Coach Bellamy through some of her favorite sensory tools to help her experience more pleasure without direct stimulation on the clitoris for beginners and experts alike, and we break down how solo pleasure can be your ultimate self-care. Don’t miss this powerful conversation about resilience, liberation, and reclaiming joy.

24. Add Some Spice To Your Vanilla - feat. Davida D, Love Jones & Moe May 05, 2025

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It’s the Masturbation May kickoff, and we’re bringing heat! I’m joined by comedian Davida D plus BK stars Love Jones & Moe for a wild ride of laughs, education, and spicy surprises. We kick things off with the BK TikTok Fantasy Draft—building the ultimate pleasure night using both Soft Line and Adult Line faves. Then we dive into all things self-pleasure, stepping outside the vanilla box, feminine hygiene, and top-tier product tips to upgrade your solo (or partnered) play. Davida even gets some personal pleasure coaching—and let’s just say, the convo gets hotter the longer you watch!

23. Organize & Orgasm! feat. Tina House & Toni Drumwright-Antoine Apr 28, 2025

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Welcome back to Business of Pleasure with Your Sexologist Bestie, Kash! This week’s guests are Tina House Latiker and Toni Drumwright-Antoine as we dive into Organize & Orgasm. We talk about how labor organizing intersects with pleasure advocacy, the current challenges impacting intimacy spaces, and what leadership means to them. Tina also shares how she stays grounded navigating advocacy work while Toni talks about the work she does with the homeless! Plus… we have some fun with the BK Boom Boom Sing-Along Game, and spotlights on a few BK favorites including Kandi Kisses, and Toni schools us on lube and demos the Helping Hand male pleasure sleeve! Tune in for pleasure, power, and a little play!

22. Sisters in Sickness - Feat. Brandy DeJesus & Chante Devers Apr 21, 2025

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In this powerful and emotional episode, we’re joined by sisters Brandy DeJesus and Chante Devers for an intimate conversation on sisterhood, strength, and staying connected through sickness and healing. Brandy opens up about her journey battling cancer and how Bedroom Kandi products supported her pleasure and self-care during chemo. Chante shares her experience as Brandy’s rock, best friend, and business partner—proving that sisterhood can be both sanctuary and strategy. We laugh, cry, and celebrate resilience in our BK Bestie Quiz—where each sister answers heartfelt questions about the other. This episode is a joyful rollercoaster you won’t forget, filled with truth, tenderness, and testimony. Tune in, subscribe, and get ready to feel inspired.

21. From Hurting to Hitting the Spot Apr 14, 2025

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In this powerful yet super hilarious episode of The Business of Pleasure, we’re joined by two Bedroom Kandi Consultant Advisory Council trailblazers: Noni (In2MeIC) and LaDonya (Lady D). Together, they open up about their deeply personal journeys of reclaiming pleasure after trauma and the tools that helped them get there. From navigating pain to rediscovering intimacy, this episode is filled with laughter, vulnerability, and real talk. Noni and LaDonya share how Bedroom Kandi products supported their healing, how they’ve used their stories to empower others, and what advice they have for consultants holding space for survivors. Whether you’re on a healing journey or supporting someone who is, this conversation reminds us that pleasure is not a privilege—it’s a right.

20. Pride. Power. And A Lil Neurospice - feat. Waya Kellie Apr 07, 2025

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Representation isn’t a trend. It’s a truth. In this episode, I link up with Waya Kellie aka Waya the Healer—trans male influencer, BDSM dom, spiritual empath, and proudly neurodivergent. From policy to pleasure, Waya shows how autism isn’t a barrier—it’s part of his brilliant blueprint. We unpack how identity, advocacy, and emotional depth collide when you’re navigating the world as both healer and fighter. And of course, we show how Bedroom Kandi continues to pull up and stand strong for the LGBTQ+ community—not just during Pride, but every damn day. Our collection intentionally allows our consumers to wear their pride and focuses on inclusive branding! Take a peek at this mind shifting discussion!

19. S-Liquid Gold - A Tribute To Our Lube Dude Dean Elliot Apr 01, 2025

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In this special memorial episode of The Business of Pleasure, we honor the legendary Dean Elliott — CEO and founder of Sliquid, lovingly known in our Bedroom Kandi community as “The Lube Dude.” Dean wasn’t just the mastermind behind some of our most beloved and best-selling lubricants and bath products — he was the kind of man who entered every room with vibrant energy, a booming laugh, and a heart full of love. From the early days of Sliquid to becoming an irreplaceable part of our BK family, Dean poured passion, purpose, and integrity into every product he touched. In this episode, you’ll hear from Dean himself as we revisit clips of him sharing how he got started in the business, his vision for clean and conscious intimacy products, and his powerful contributions to our Natural Wellness Panel. We also celebrate Dean’s bold, hilarious, and unforgettable spirit — the one who brought the slip, the slide, and the soul to the pleasure industry. Join us as we laugh, reflect, and honor the man whose legacy continues to flow through everything we do. This one’s for you, Dean — you’ll forever be part of our story.

18. I'll Take F.R.I.E.S. With That - feat. Goddess Aya Mar 17, 2025

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In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, we sit down with Goddess Aya—Rope Bunny, Switch, LS Event Curator, and Educator—to dive deep into the world of pleasure exploration, rope bondage, consent, and creating inclusive, body-positive spaces. She breaks down the FRIES model of consent, the traffic light safe word system, and the etiquette of safe play at her events and pleasure liberated retreats. We also explore how rope play fosters intimacy, trust, and artistic expression, with tips for incorporating Bedroom Kandi’s bondage tools for at-home exploration. Plus, Goddess Aya shares how she turned her passion into a business, curating educational LS events and sex-positive retreats designed for safety, freedom, and pleasure. Tune in for an empowering conversation on pleasure, safety, and informed exploration—because when it comes to intimacy, consent is always on the menu!

17. Breaking Free Through Bondage, with Sir Daniel and Slave Sunflower Mar 11, 2025

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In this episode, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash sits down with Sir Daniel & Slave Sunflower to explore the deeper meanings of dominance, submission, and autonomy in the Black kink community. We break down the history of “Master” and “Slave”, how these terms are being reclaimed and redefined, and the role of sensual kink in building trust and connection. Sir Daniel shares his expertise in custom kink furniture, handmade floggers, and glow-in-the-dark wax candles, while we dive into wax play safety, impact play, and how to recognize quality fetish/kink gear. 🔗 Plus, we’re plugging the Northeast Conference of Kink (July 2025)! Hit play to explore the balance of power, trust, and liberation!

16. Melanated, Liberated & Bossed Up Mar 03, 2025

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Join Your Sexologist Bestie Kash, Bedroom Kandi founder Kandi Burruss, and top BKBC consultants as we take the stage at the Melanated Sex Expo in Tucson, Arizona, hosted by Orgasmic Melanin Goddesses. In this live discussion, we dive deep into pleasure, freedom, and success—not just physically and emotionally, but financially too. From breaking taboos to navigating entrepreneurship in the pleasure industry, we share insider tips on building a thriving business and owning your power. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur or just curious about the intersection of pleasure and profit, this episode is packed with game-changing advice for those ready to rise. Tap in, take notes, and step into your power!

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