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Caller Question: "I am in the process of filing for divorce. I feel it was the right decision, however now that Have been out of the situation that caused a nervous system overload, and as the hurt caused is starting to fade, I am more clearly able to see my role/issues/shortcomings I played a role in in the marriage (critical, expecting him to live up to my husband "manual", layering shame on top of his already existing shame) the list goes on … this is leaving me with conflicting feelings… and it hurts. It isn't fun to see that I guess my question is how do I sort through the feelings of the divorce being what I needed to do and feeling like … I could have done much better at ex//(Not layering on the shame whenever he made a mistake/speaking my truth calmly when triggered )… the feeling is maybe there is more I could have done? I am feeling a responsibility for the situation too where I hadn't really before…. Kind of a messy, unorganized question, but these are my thoughts. Thanks for your time!"
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Caller Question: " In sex addiction, can you and your partner's attachment style be mislabeled? I have several women that I know that think they are "avoidant" because they are rejecting their husband's external validation seeking through sex. Is addiction usually avoidant attachment?"
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Caller Question: "My husband just got back from your Rising Son conference and it's feeling like he's changing and becoming the man I've always known he could become. The problem is now that he's taking his place in our family I am losing my place as the strong steady lead of our family. I honestly don't know where I fit. So my question is 2 fold, 1: As he embraces his masculinity how do I embrace my femininity? I don't even know what that means. 2: Does one weekend of spiritual awakening just erase 11 years of pornography addiction. I terrible that I can't move on like he is."
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
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Caller Question: "What is the best way to handle a relapse, both for the person struggling with addiction and for their partner? What is the best way to move forward?"
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
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Guest Ashlynn joins Brannon for a unique episode focused on recovery from different types of pain, Betrayal and Divorce.
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what's possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way. Join her on her new podcast HERE Follow her on social media at HERE Mentor with her at HERE My guest today is Kristin Hodson, she is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. Founder & CEO of The Healing Group. She has a unique ability to break down the topics of sexuality into easily digestible pieces empowering people to further develop their sexual identity. Online courses a https://www.kristinbhodson.com Follow her on social media: HERE Kristin talked about the 6 principles of sexual health SEXUAL HEALTH CONSENT NON EXPLOITATION HONESTY MUTUAL PLEASURE FREE FROM STI & PREGNANCY SHARED VALUES
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what's possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
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Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what's possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.Jessica Miller is an LCSW who has worked with children and families who have experienced trauma. she works to help people heal from significant emotional, physical or sexual abuse using various trauma modalities along with attachment theory. Jessica hosts the podcast Thoughts on Thoughts with two fellow therapists, KJ Reid and Taylor Thomas. KJ a licensed therapist and for most of her career she worked in residential treatment with at risk teens. She is now a stay at home mom and have a private practice where she mainly works with adult women who are working to heal trauma and insecure attachment styles. She started the podcast Thoughts on Thoughts with Jessica and Taylor in 2018 to help people have more access to the things we talk about in therapy that we feel should be common knowledge so that people can work on having healthier relationships. After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest! Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Caller: Hi! Betrayed partner here (porn addiction). I'm a new listener & I just listened to E58-is it ok to be attracted to more than 1 person. I have to say that coming from the betrayed partner's perspective, what was said & talking about the "3 second rule" is terrifying! For a lot of us, our partners could only have sex with us BECAUSE they had an image of someone else in their mind OR it was someone that he saw that made him want to have sex with his partner ONLY because she's the only physical option at the time &\or didn't have the opportunity to go masturbate at the time. So after seeing an attractive woman, even if it's hours later, we're wondering if it's REALLY me he wants to be with or is he just fantasizing about her. & if we don't have sex, we're thinking it's because, after seeing her, he just isn't aroused with "settling" for me! It's a huge double edged sword for some of us. How in the world are we supposed to get past that?
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on SpotifyCome join us at one of our Retreats! https://risingsonconference.com
Trusting ourselves is a challenge as it denotes that we know who we are inside despite expectations around us. Yoga Therapist and betrayal trauma body expert, Sariah Bastian joins Coby to discuss the importance of trusting ourselves and how to do it.
Sariah Bastian can be reached HERE
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Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
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