Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

Caregiver Burnout, Aging Parents & Being Chosen to Break Generational Curses w/ "Ghosts" Star Danielle Pinnock Jul 09, 2026

Actress Danielle Pinnock opens up about caregiver burnout. From learning to schedule rest and say "no," to breaking generational patterns and normalizing therapy and medication, this messy, honest conversation is for anyone who's ever run themselves into the ground taking care of everyone but themselves. 📩 Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com | And share your mess anonymously at SomethingMessy.com. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The 'Love Island" Toxic Loop and America's Rigged Votes: A Love Island USA Recap PLUS Anna Konkle on Estrangement, Beyoncé, and Aging Jul 06, 2026

The Villa is in shambles and Brandon has thoughts. This week, Brandon recap the messiest Love Island USA episode yet — who got dumped, why America's votes don't add up, and whether Sincere is really "changed. Then, PEN15 co-creator and The Sane One author Anna Konkle joins Brandon for a bonus hang that includes a Beyoncé story Brandon probably shouldn't be telling.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Going No-Contact, Emotional Incest & Becoming "The Sane One," w/ Emmy-nom Anna Konkle Jul 02, 2026

Anna Konkle (PEN15, Murderbot) pulls back the curtain on emotional incest — the covert, rarely-discussed wound of becoming your parent's confidant, spouse, and caretaker as a child. the family dynamics most people are too scared to name. Anna and Brandon get into her new book and unpack grief and forgiveness: how Anna cared for the father she'd been estranged from as he was dying, the letter that finally told him the truth, and the moment she told him "you did earth." Plus, they crack it all open with a chaotic '90s game of Homeroom, Study Hall, Detention (TLC's "Waterfalls" will never be the same). Get your copy of The Sane One by Anna Konkle 🏝️ Join us on YouTube for a Love Island Recap LIVE on Thursdays after the show! 📩 Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com | And share your mess anonymously at SomethingMessy.com. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

NeNe Leakes' Return, Oprah on Whitney and We're So Done with KC from Love Island! Plus: Dr. Josh on Penis Filler Jun 30, 2026

Brandon recaps Love Island's most chaotic week, drags KC, weighs in on Oprah and NeNe, and brings back Dr. Joshua Gonzalez for the real tea on penis filler! 🏝️ Join us on YouTube for a Love Island Recap LIVE on Thursdays after the show! 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com. Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Introducing Waking Up With Ryan: PROUD TO BE YOU Jun 29, 2026

This is a very special Pride episode of Waking Up With Ryan, the new podcast from iHeartPodcast’s Outspoken Network, launching July 7th. How you spend the first five minutes of your day determines how the rest of your day will go. Waking Up with Ryan is a daily audio/video podcast featuring short daily “moments of awakening” (10-12 minutes) that interrupt the inertia of fear, ego, and judgment — helping listeners connect with themselves before the noise of the day takes over. These daily episodes blend wisdom, meditation, and practical insight to create a ritual that grounds and inspires. The show is both a daily guide and an ongoing exploration of what it really means to remember who we are. Follow Ryan Weiss: Instagram Special thanks to Emily Kopp for scoring this episode.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"You Can Get Filler Where?!": STIs, PrEP & Queer Sexual Health w/ Dr. Joshua Gonzalez & Devere Rogers Jun 25, 2026

Ever wondered how often you really need an STI test, whether PrEP is just "a gay thing," or what a pelvic floor even is? Brandon's best friend Devere Rogers is back, and they brought in urologist and sexual health expert Dr. Joshua Gonzalez to answer the questions most people are too embarrassed to ask. 🏝️ Join us on YouTube for a Love Island Recap LIVE on Thursdays after the show! 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com. Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Girth Check!": Casa Amor Chaos, Zryce Core, and Threesome Commandments with Justin Sylvester of Yestergays Jun 23, 2026

In this Messy Bonus, Brandon breaks down the Love Island, chaos — Zach & Bryce's now-iconic "girth check," Melanie's "watch them" energy, Trinity's one-liners, and why the show desperately needs a gay. Then Justin Sylvester of The Yestergays pulls up for the extras: a Juneteenth Black sitcom showdown, two messy mails that turn into the commandments for threesomes, a gem about meeting Erika Alexander, and reflections on the father wound we had to "shave off." Grab your kettle chips, get your kitty on the ground, and get into the mess. 🏝️ Join us on YouTube for a Love Island Recap LIVE on Thursdays after the show! 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com. Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Gay Men Are Like Vampires": Second Adolescence, Desirability Abroad and Juneteenth w/ Justin Sylvester Jun 18, 2026

In this Pride Month x Juneteenth crossover of Tell Me Something Messy, Brandon Kyle Goodman sits down with Emmy-nominated TV personality Justin Sylvester of The Yestergays for a conversation that is hilarious, nostalgic, and deeply healing. They unpack the “Fairy Gayfather” effect: the gay mentors who introduce us to queer culture, chosen family, nightlife, language, safety, and self-permission. Brandon and Justin also get into why gossip can feel like protection, how Black sitcoms and movies shaped their imaginations, and still live rent-free in all our identities. Plus: the viral video of a gay teen standing up for himself. And in Messy Mail, they dig into queer second adolescence, PrEP, desire, and what happens when you finally feel wanted after years of feeling unseen. Listen to Yestergays wherever you get your podcasts! 🏝️ Join us on YouTube for a Love Island Recap LIVE on Thursdays after the show! 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com. Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A Pride Weekend Oopsie, Love Island's Next Star, Why Queer Parties Hit Different & Los Angeles' Nithya Raman on the Leak That Changed Everyt Jun 15, 2026

It's giving six hours of sleep, Red Bull, and regret. Brandon is BACK after two Pride weekends in a row, and honey, the stories. Also, Brandon shares their thesis on the difference between gay spaces and queer spaces, and what it feels like to show up fully in your non-binary body when the world wants you in a box. Then it's Love Island time. Then for our bonus, Brandon revisits their chat with LA mayoral candidate Nithya Raman who will be in the runoff election this year so we're sharing her story of the 2022 leaked tapes scandal, and how she clawed back to victory. 🏃🏾 Catch HIGHKEY podcast! 🏝️ Join us on YouTube for a Love Island Recap LIVE on Thursdays after the show! 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com. Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dog Owners Are Narcissists, Bathhouse Confessions & Calling Our Moms—The Messiest Pride Crossover w/ RuPaul's Drag Race Winner Yvie Oddly an Jun 11, 2026

Happy Pride, Messy Mob!! Brandon is joined by Yvie Oddly and Ryan Mitchell for Part 1 of the messiest Messy x HIGHKEY crossover — and the range is truly unserious. We’re talking bathhouse recon, Pride anxiety, jealous bottoms, dog-owner slander, and the complicated grief of loving our mothers from a distance. Plus: a listener asks whether Pride is really for everyone, and the group gets into what it means to find your people when the party, the trauma, and the healing are all happening at once. 🏃🏾 Catch Part 2 on the HIGHKEY podcast! 🏝️ Join us on YouTube for a Love Island Recap LIVE on Thursdays after the show! 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com. Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Pride Hangover with Taylor Tomlinson: Carmela Soprano, Don't Sleep on J. Lo Movies, and Why Winning Still Won't Fix You —Messy Bonus Jun 08, 2026

Brandon recovers from Pride hangover. Plus: a TV recap, why you shouldn't sleep on J. Lo movies, and some good ol' messy mess with Taylor Tomlinson. 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com, and join us on YouTube and Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The 'Toy Story' Hookup, Pick-Me Burnout & Inner Child Healing w/ Taylor Tomlinson Jun 04, 2026

Happy Pride, Messy Mob!! Writer, comedian Taylor Tomlinson came to play! Brandon and "Tay Tay" imagine a hypothetical "queer-platonic" marriage, debate location sharing etiquette, and Taylor shares one of the most surprising turns a hookup has ever taken in Messy's history. Plus: a listener sends a letter about being rejected by their church community after coming out — and how to grieve a community that won't grieve you back. 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com, and join us on YouTube and Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your Bestie's Ex Is NOT The One, Hun—Summer House Reunion, Love Island Begins, Trump's Loser Convention, and Tony Award-winning Sarah Jones Jun 01, 2026

Summer is here, and Brandon is clearing the calendar for reality TV. Starting with this episode, the messy bonuses are going all-in on the shows running our brains into rot all season — Bravo's Summer House reunion, Love Island USA Season 7 with Ariana Madix hosting, and whatever other reality TV chaos the universe coughs up between now and Labor Day. And to close out, bonus footage from our episode with Sarah Jones (Tony-winning artist, host of America, Who Hurt You?) on receiving compliments without flinching, being a recovering perfectionist, and why "messy" is the most healed version of yourself. 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com, and join us on YouTube and Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Cheated on Every Partner—With Their Potential: Love, Rest & Workaholism w/ Tony Award-Winning Sarah Jones May 28, 2026

Sarah Jones came to the couch and left us speechless. The Tony-winning performer gets radically honest about how she's been "cheating" on every partner—not with another person, but with a fantasy version of who they could become. From there, we spiral into the messy truth about workaholism as a post-traumatic inherited response (yes, she connects it all the way back), and why Trisha Hersey's Rest Is Resistance is the book that changed everything. We dig into messy mail from a listener carrying heartbreak they can't shake, and Sarah delivers the kind of advice that will inspire you to write the text you're waiting for him to send, and send it to yourself. Plus: grief doesn't come with a timeline, quitting is a boss move, therapy shouldn't be your whole identity, and a whispered truth like soup for the soul. 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com, and join us on YouTube and Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AI Boyfriends Are Cheating & Spontaneous Sex Is Overrated — Messy Bonus May 25, 2026

Brandon has questions, concerns, and possibly a group chat theory. Drake just gave us what feels like a 43-song therapy session, and Brandon would like to know who’s taking notes, who’s holding space, and whether snacks were provided. Also, if you didn’t vote, this may not be your safe space right now. This Memorial Day Weekend Messy Bonus also features a clip from Brandon’s conversation with Dr. Vanessa Marin on cheating with AI Girlfriends, and a longevity study. Then Brandon makes the case again for scheduling sex — because “spontaneous” is cute until everyone is tired, booked, resentful, and lying. Stay for the Waymo conspiracy theory. Don’t ask questions. Just listen. 📩 Got something messy you want Brandon to weigh in on? Tell us anonymously a SomethingMessy.com, and join us on YouTube and Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

100 Ejaculations, One Grumpy Pussy & the Orgasm Formula Nobody Taught You w/ Dr. Vanessa Marin May 21, 2026

Dr. Vanessa Marin gives us the sex ed class boarding school owed us. Brandon and Dr. Marin, creator of the Sex Talks card game, get into scheduling sex, ejaculation myths, open relationships, the surprising problem with fantasies, perimenopause, why “just relax” is terrible advice, and a longevity study involving ejaculations and a sticker chart. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Friendship Breakups Need Couples Therapy Too — Pam Grier, Cheyenne Bryant & More May 18, 2026

Brandon gets into Pam Grier’s three-day orgasm story and the art of surrendering to pleasure, intimacy, and your own body. Then they turn from sex and pleasure to friendship breakups — when to call it quits with your bestie, what couples therapy can teach us about friendship, and when a therapist starts sounding more like a life coach. Plus, Cheyenne Bryant, emotional red flags, and the messy line between healing, honesty, and knowing when a relationship has run its course.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Patriarchy Is History’s Biggest C*ck Block w/ Liz Plank May 14, 2026

Brandon welcomes author and Boy Problems podcast host Liz Plank into the messy living room for a raw conversation about feminine energy, why patriarchy keeps men from connecting, pretty privilege, performing masculinity vs. actually embodying it, and why every straight man should understand what it feels like to receive. Watch on YouTube!Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kevin Hart’s Netflix Roast, Jamie Foxx & Why Interracial Dating Still Has Us Talking May 11, 2026

Brandon gets into Kevin Hart’s Netflix roast, Jamie Foxx’s appearance, and why people still care so much about interracial couples. Then Curly Velasquez is back with the best outtakes from his episode, including a wild mid-hookup story about a friend, kink talk, Amsterdam confessions, the parakeet claw grip technique, and whispered advice that goes fully off the rails. Watch the full episode with Curly on YouTube! 🔗 somethingmessy.com | Email anonymously: tellmesomethingmessy@gmail.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

God Is Freaky: Bible Stories, Sober Sex & Ancestral Mess w/ Curly Velasquez May 07, 2026

Brandon sits down with Curly Velasquez, co-host of The Super Secret Bestie Club and Vice President of Development at LatiNation Media, for a funny, spiritual, and deeply messy conversation about grief, sober sex, ancestral rituals, chosen family, and the ways our bodies remember what our mouths are still learning how to say. The conversation also gets into the idea that messiness is not new — it is inherited. From vulgar grandmas and Bible stories to queer lineage, family lore, and the people who taught us how to survive with humor, desire, and spirit still intact, Curly and Brandon unpack how the mess can be sacred and hilarious. From altars and grandma stories to intimacy without numbing and the truth that “the only way to get through grief is to grieve,” Curly helps Brandon unpack how messiness can be inheritance, healing, and a practice of staying present.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Megan Thee Stallion, Dr. Cheyenne Bryant & the Vending Machine Hustle May 04, 2026

In this bonus episode of, Brandon reflects on his conversation with best friend Lyo Reneau before diving into Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson breakup discourse and the mental health toll of public scrutiny. Brandon also reacts to Dr. Cheyenne Bryant’s licensing controversy, shares why referrals and trusted support matter, and closes with just a little tax-write-off kiki with Lyo.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Don’t Tell Me You Never Liked Him: Hard Truths, Fear of Closeness & Pulling Up for Your People w/ Lyo Reneau May 01, 2026

Brandon sits down with their day-one Lyo Reneau — a talent and culture strategist, master trainer, and certified room-reader — for a conversation about how to pull up for your people. From nightlife lore to surviving hard truths, they unpack how to build healthy friendship when nobody gave you the blueprint — and how to master the art of showing up anyway. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

REBROADCAST: Relationships Don't Make You Whole w/ Kyle June Williams & nicHi Douglas Apr 23, 2026

Brandon wanted to share this very pertinent episode about chosen family, discovering your queerness and being okay with just yourself. We'll be back with new episodes next week! Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Watch More Movies Apr 20, 2026

That's the message for today. Brandon breaks down their favorite recent watches, and struggles to remember Helena Bonham Carter's name. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

She Oiled My Butt and Wished She Was Half Black Apr 16, 2026

Brandon is back with another solo episode, this time sharing some absolutely wild customer service stories and more Messy Bowl questions. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Speaking Up For Yourself Apr 13, 2026

Brandon has an important message to share, plus more from Nithya Raman. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mom Ideology w/ Nithya Raman Apr 09, 2026

Los Angeles mayoral candidate Nithya Raman joins to share some messy political stories, talk housing and discuss personal growth. Brandon's never steered away from talking politics, so it's about time we have our first politician join the show! Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Being A Parent Apr 06, 2026

Brandon shares their experience (and reasoning) for being childless. Plus, clips of Bernadette and Brandon talking about food and first kisses. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Face Lickers, First Kisses & Learning You’re an Adult w/ Bernadette Beck Apr 02, 2026

Bernadette Beck, host of Celebrity Truth or Dare on YouTube, is surprised to learn just how much she has in common with Brandon. Plus, a (literally) spicy version of Two Truths And A Lie before some hilarious messy moments. Check out Celebrity Truth or Dare with Bernadette Beck: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0dkUt4iK038r1r7rbfUnCQapNqgVyKZy Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: A casual encounter with the... Klan Mar 30, 2026

Brandon shares the full story they teased with Laci Mosley. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Scams, One Night Stands, and White People w/ Laci Mosley Mar 26, 2026

The Scam Goddess Laci Mosley joins us for a brand new game and a very hairy messy story. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: A Playdough Bottom Mar 23, 2026

A messy romance story and and queer-coded characters from Sister Act 2. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Mom Broke My Heart, My Ex Made It Worse, and Sister Act 2 Saved Me Mar 19, 2026

New merch ideas galore, plus Messy Bowl and why Sister Act 2 is the best movie ever made. Get ready! Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: The Oscars? Mar 16, 2026

Brandon predicts the outcomes of The Oscars, plus more content from Foster and Cesar's episode. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The 30s Reckoning: When Who You Were No Longer Fits w/ Foster Wilson and Cesar Cardona Mar 12, 2026

Hosts of the Beauty In The Break podcast, Foster Wilson and Cesar Cardona join Brandon for a list of messy stories you wouldn't believe. Plus, a heart-filled discussion of love, loss and ancestors, of course. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Everywhere Is Queer Mar 09, 2026

Charlie Sprinkman tells us about their amazing app! Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Clarity Is Sexy: First Love Breakups, Family Boundaries & Saying It Plainly w/ Charlie Sprinkman Mar 05, 2026

Charlie Sprinkman, founder of Everywhere Is Queer, joins Brandon in a sex-forward episode to talk about boundaries and honestly. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Attachment Styles Mar 03, 2026

More from the one-and-only Sabrina Zohar! Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Closure Is a Scam: Dating Is Data, Not a Moral Failing w/ Sabrina Zohar Feb 26, 2026

Sabrina Zohar, multi-faceted entrepreneur and dating coach, joins Brandon to share her story of finding love, along with some hard-hitting truths about dating. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: When You Need to Go On a Tangent Feb 23, 2026

Sometimes it can't be helped! Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Navigating the Grief of a Parent, Supporting a Grieving Friend, & What Six Years of Celibacy Taught Me w/ VINCINT Feb 19, 2026

World-renowned musical artist VINCINT is back with even more insight into grief and growth. Plus, they spill some never-before-heard details about Brandon's vacation. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: The Musical Episode Feb 16, 2026

Come sing along! Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to Deal With Jealousy in Open Relationships & Become A Better Partner w/ Scott Evans Feb 12, 2026

Get ready for an unmatched episode when guest Scott Evans joins Brandon for a classic kiki, complete with hilarious messy stories and tons of listener questions. Plus, surprise musical ensembles from both Scott and Brandon. Welcome to church! Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: The Gosh Darn Apps Feb 09, 2026

Solid dating advice from Alexis and Darby that didn't make it into the main episode. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dating After Gender Transition: Finding Love, Friendship, and Self-Worth with Alexis Bevels and Darby Lynn Cartwright Feb 05, 2026

Hosts of the IMHO Podcast, Alexis Bevels and Darby Lynn Cartwright, cut up with Brandon in a hilarious and educational conversation. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Trixie Cut Off A Man's Eyebrow Feb 02, 2026

Beauty school stress officially causes long-term autoimmune dysfunction. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Makeup Counters, Hooking Up in Drag, and TikTok Snake Churches with Trixie Mattel Jan 29, 2026

The one-and-only Trixie Mattel joins the show for an unmatchable kiki that covers every topic from loving yourself to snake churches. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Brandon's Villain Arc Jan 26, 2026

Brandon shares the beginning of their villain arc with guest Atsuko Okatsuka. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Decentering the Male Gaze: How to Be Attractive for Yourself and Unlearn Eurocentric Beauty Standards w/ Atsuko Okatsuka Jan 22, 2026

Comedian and actress Atsuko Okatsuka joins Brandon for a hilarious and heartfelt episode with a wild two-part messy story. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Dating With Intention Jan 19, 2026

Nina Parker expands upon her idea of dating with intention. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What to Do If You’re Ghosted, Calling Out Abuse in a Friend’s Relationship, and Setting Healthy Boundaries w/ Nina Parker Jan 15, 2026

The one and only Nina Parker, Emmy-nominated TV host and fashion designer joins Brandon for some tea before getting into the real heart of the conversation. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Dealing With The Butt & Being Fired Jan 12, 2026

Hosts of the Dads & Daddies podcast share their messy stories (and advice) that didn't make it into the main episode. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to Be a Confident Dominant Partner in the Bedroom, Navigate a Friend’s Addiction, and Support Sobriety w/ Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Jan 08, 2026

Hosts of the Dads & Daddies Podcast, Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow join Brandon for an intimate discussion that gets Brandon hot and bothered, before diving into a Messy Mail covering addiction and more. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Dressing As Cartoon Characters Jan 05, 2026

Who isn't into a little roleplay on Date #4? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Normalizing Intimacy Conversations w/ Jessica Stahl Dec 18, 2025

Cartoonist, creative director and sexual-wellness advocate, Jessica Stahl, joins Brandon with her own important acronym around pleasure communication. Then, she and Brandon dive into boundaries, self-respect and how to learn that you're worth trusting. Plus a second Messy story for the road. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: A Gay Anomaly Dec 15, 2025

Brandon finishes the messy story from last week by explaining the "sex accident." Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Through The Storm w/ Jordan E. Cooper Dec 11, 2025

Jordan E. Cooper, playwright, actor, and director joins Brandon to share his experience with his new play OH HAPPY DAY! which then turns into a deep conversation on finding yourself and your place in the world. While there's no Messy Mail today, Jordan certainly brings some thoughts on some messy opinions. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: This Thanksgiving, I Was The Turkey Dec 08, 2025

Brandon shares a messy story that gives a new meaning to Thanksgiving stuffing. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Journey is The Goal w/ Lío Mehiel Dec 04, 2025

Recently starring in the hit movie, After The Hunt, Lío Mehiel joins Brandon to share their experience in growth and feeling good in their place in the world. Messy Mail leads into a discussion of leaving toxic friendships and Lio helps finally settle the age-old debate: Is a harvest bowl the same as a salad? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Being the Poster Child of HIV Dec 01, 2025

This week's conversation with Hernando Umana was so packed full of goodies, we just had to give you some more. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Thriving with HIV! w/ Hernando Umana Nov 27, 2025

Hernando Umana, actor, entrepreneur, activist and Brandon's close friend, joins the pod to share one of the wildest Messy stories we've ever heard. Plus, some reminiscing and lighthearted fun before diving into the heavy topic of living with HIV. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Give Me A Minute Nov 24, 2025

Long-term relationships of any kind can be tricky, so Franchesca Ramsey shares her experiences in opening communication even when you can't respond right away. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tell Me Something Messy Presents: HIGHKEY! Nov 24, 2025

Heyyy Messy Mob! Check out this trailer for HIGHKEY! ✨ RuPaul’s Drag Race winner Yvie Oddly and culture critic Ryan Mitchell host HIGHKEY! — a boldly queer LGBTQ+ podcast where pop culture, chaos, and surprisingly real conversations collide. It’s like being a fly on the wall for the most unhinged, hilarious, and heartfelt side convo at the party — with past guests like Laverne Cox, Rico Nasty, Bob the Drag Queen, and Lena Waithe, and more queer icons on the way. Welcome to the party — BYOB, pull up a chair, and settle in because this one’s just getting started. Listen and watch full episodes on YouTube @highkeyhere and wherever you get your podcasts. Instagram: @highkeyhere TikTok: @highkeyhereWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You're A Divorcee Who Doesn't Believe In God w/ Franchesca Ramsey Nov 20, 2025

Franchesca Ramsey, actress, writer, comedian, and social justice advocate, joins to show to share her stories of love, loss and recovery. Her messy story is one for the record books, which leads to a fantastic conversation about being open and communicative with lovers, friends and family. And no episode is complete without some hilarious messy mail. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Let Your Uncle Kidnap You Nov 17, 2025

This hilarious conversation with Jay Jurden didn't make it into the main episode, but it sure made its way into our hearts. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Yes Ma'am w/ Jay Jurden Nov 13, 2025

Comedian, writer and actor Jay Jurden joins the show to mesmerize Brandon with their humor and wit as they dive into a discission on being pan, bi or trans in today's society. Plus, Messy Mail that really brings the mess and a game you won't want to miss. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: There's A Line With Family Nov 10, 2025

Brandon shares a story of their first night out on this New York trip, and some bonus clips from their conversation with Durand on male intimacy. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Live in NYC! Join Brandon Kyle Goodman for Messy Q+A and Live Recording with Heaux Church and Ars Nova on Nov 13th. Get tickets at [link] with code MESSY for $15 off.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr Nov 06, 2025

Singer-songwriter Durand Bernarr joins the show to discuss what intimacy means for men, specifically between male friendships. But first, Brandon and Durand dive into some particularly spicy messy mail about sleepovers and dating. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Live in NYC! Join Brandon Kyle Goodman for Messy Q+A and Live Recording with Heaux Church and Ars Nova on Nov 13th. Get tickets at [link] with code MESSY for $15 off.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Reflecting On Breakdowns Nov 03, 2025

Brandon shares a story about a previous connection, and they and Sophia discuss the gift / curse of the times we live in. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your Joy & Your Sacred Rage w/ Sophia Bush Oct 30, 2025

Actor and advocate Sophia Bush brings captivating takes on accepting all facets of your emotions, breaking down gender identity and raising awareness about mental health. Plus, she and Brandon attempt to play a messy game that turns into a discussion on self-reflection. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Work In Progress podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/work-in-progress-with-sophia-bush/id1479711891Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This Is How I Get Free w/ Lena Waithe Oct 23, 2025

World-renowned writer, actor and producer Lena Waithe is back on the show to dive into her place of worship, parenting and allowing oneself to grow. Plus, some moments of wisdom and guidance for meditation. But first — Can Lena name the movie these famous quotes are from? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: Who Puts Your Heart At Ease? Oct 20, 2025

A life-long friendship is hard to find, but so special when you do. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sometimes Love Isn’t Broken, It’s Just Not Enough w/ Devere Rogers Oct 16, 2025

Brandon welcomes comedian, actor and bestie Devere Rogers, who comes in hot with a messy take treading in dangerous territory: Brandy and Monica concert tickets—are we being priced out of nostalgia? The love letter to the R&B queens turns into a discussion about the way legacy, value, and accessibility intersect in pop culture. Then a listener wants to know where the line is drawn between liberation and overindulgence, and another needs advice for complimenting their filthy rich lover. Finally, Devere and Brandon make one last mess with a listener stuck in that unsettled place—a relationship that checks every box but still doesn’t feel right. More about Devere: https://www.instagram.com/itsdevererogers Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY BONUS: This Is What Freedom Looks Like Oct 13, 2025

New York versus LA d*ck.Where do you all stand on the debate? Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Resentment, Environment, and the Blueprint for Great Sex w/ Erica Chidi Oct 09, 2025

Brandon sits down with Erica Chidi, writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica’s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, talking it through is the kink, baby! More about Erica: https://www.ericachidi.com/ Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How Facing Mortality Inspires Better Art w/ Abbi Jacobson Oct 02, 2025

In this delightfully messy episode of Tell Me Something Messy, Brandon and Abbi Jacobson —actor, writer, producer, and co-creator of Broad City and A League of Their Own—(yes, that Abbi) tumble into the Messy Living Room to talk about art, impermanence, and why chasing a single “masterpiece” is overrated. Abbi confesses that not every work has to be your magnum opus, and that there’s health, joy, and a little freedom in making art just for art’s sake. The two also dive into what’s new: Abbi’s latest producing projects and acts of love including Prelude, that last time she partied-partied, and that little mortality thing that keeps creeping up. They discuss how creating without pressure can be a radical act of presence and dive into your Messy Mail. Anonymously submit a messy story or question at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 Trailer Sep 26, 2025

Season Two of Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman is here. Every Tuesday, Brandon invites you into bold, hilarious, and vulnerable conversations that celebrate imperfection and honesty. From Emmy winners to everyday changemakers, guests open up about the messy truths behind identity, relationships, family, career, and self-discovery. With new video episodes and bonus minis every Monday, Season Two promises unfiltered joy, humor, and heart.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 3 Aug 14, 2025

Brandon is joined by Dr. Matthew Brinkley and Dr. Emily Nagoski as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault. Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-to Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 2 Aug 07, 2025

Brandon is joined by Dr. Raquel Martin and Dr. Vanessa Marin as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault. Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-to Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 1 Aug 07, 2025

Brandon shares the story of an event that happened to them last September. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault. Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-to Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Heauxperlatives: A Season Retrospective Jul 17, 2025

Brandon takes a look back at this season's episodes for some top highlights from guests, Messy Mail, and lessons learned. Look out for Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 (with video) coming this fall! Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY MOM BONUS: Friendship w/ Devere Rogers Jul 14, 2025

Brandon is back with more fun and friendship that didn't make it into last week's episode! Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779 Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's About The Tone w/ Patrik-Ian Polk & Devere Rogers Jul 10, 2025

Acclaimed 'Noah's Arc' creator Patrik-Ian Polk and Brandon's bestie join to talk about life-long friendship, legacy and representation. Plus, Brandon and Devere dive into Love Island and The Ultimatum before sharing their friendship origin story. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Silence Shouldn't Be Currency w/ Corey O’Brien Jul 03, 2025

Comedian, LGBTQ+ advocate and social media creator, Corey O’Brien, joins Brandon for some truly messy discussion on everything from sucking d*ck to being called a slur during sex. They dive into Messy Mail about leaving a relationship and trusting your gut, then discuss Corey's upcoming LGBTQ+ comedy tour in Republican states. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779 Corey O’Brien's Red Tour: https://www.coreyobrienonline.com/Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MESSY MOM BONUS: Die With A Smile Jun 30, 2025

Baby, y’all really lit Brandon up about that Grindr profile name and guess what? They’re back with more thoughts. In this first-ever bonus drop, Brandon is giving unsolicited but absolutely correct advice on what your Grindr name should (and should not) be. Spoiler: Die With a Smile ain’t it. But they love you anyway. Let’s get messy.Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To Be A Soft Daddy w/ Nick Kroll & Andrew Rannells Jun 26, 2025

The legendary Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells join Brandon to read some Messy Mail and talk about their new movie "I Don't Understand You." Plus, Brandon's Messy Pick leads them all into a discussion on being a compassionate father. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You Didn’t Get The Sex Talk. Your Kid Still Deserves One w/ Tara Michaela Jun 19, 2025

After a very messy bunch of mail, Brandon finds a question about the sex talk that they can't answer alone. Founder of The Youth Sexpert Program, Tara Michaela, joins Brandon for a full breakdown of the issues in formal sex education, sexual racism and how parents can approach their young people about sex. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"What You Don't See On My OnlyFans" w/ Taylor Stilson Jun 12, 2025

Multi-hyphenate Taylor Stilson worked as a University professor to licensed massage therapist and now has expanded into the world of Adult Content Creation. He and Brandon dive into the demands of the job, the ramifications for Taylor's personal and professional life, and what he's learned — All after a game of This or That. BKG’s essay: Los Angeles: This feels like a reality show, but it’s just reality. https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/los-angeles-this-feels-like-a-reality Educate: https://defendandrecruit.org/Support: Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights https://www.chirla.org/get-involved/donate-support/give-today/California Immigrant Policy Center: https://caimmigrant.org/Southern California Rapid Response Network: Los Angeles: 888-624-4752 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your Healing Is Not Dependent On Their Response w/ Lena Waithe Jun 05, 2025

Famed actor and screenwriter Lena Waithe joins Brandon to talk about a sensitive subject for them both: Being brought up in households that don't support who you are. Lena has some amazing insight into what it means for parents to be curious and in community with their children. And it all stemmed from a game of This or That. Mother Hunger: https://bookshop.org/p/books/mother-hunger-how-adult-daughters-can-understand-and-heal-from-lost-nurturance-protection-and-guidance-kelly-mcdaniel/16265503?ean=9781401960858&next=t Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: https://bookshop.org/p/books/adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents-lib-e-how-to-heal-from-distant-rejecting-or-self-involved-parents-lindsay-c-gibson/16712089?ean=9781626251700&next=t Paris Is Burning: https://www.amazon.com/Paris-Burning-Dorian-Corey/dp/B0B8SXCPCJ?dplnkId=9ecd168f-6a18-498c-964d-b1f3b2ef2aaa&nodl=1 Master of None: Thanksgiving: https://www.netflix.com/title/80049714 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You Can Grieve Correct Decisions Too w/ Dr. Raquel Martin May 29, 2025

Clinical psychologist and Black Mental Health advocate Dr. Raquel Martin is back for a one-on-one conversation with Brandon in a special episode of Ask Messy Mom & Dr. Martin. After a game of Smash or Pass, they dive into listener questions, including topics like judging ones self on sexual prowess or being trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Reconfiguring What Happiness Looks Like w/ Trace Lysette May 22, 2025

Actress and producer, Trace Lysette, joins to play our second-ever game of Real or Faking. Then, she and Brandon dive into having sex outdoors, channeling your sexy avatar, and what it means to redefine how your life plan looks. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are You Being Loved Well? w/ Traci Thomas May 15, 2025

Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do Vers Tops Really Exist?! w/ Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle May 08, 2025

Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Conversations Are Like Baking Bread w/ John-Michael Bond May 01, 2025

Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ask Messy Mom Apr 24, 2025

In our first solo episode, Brandon reads and answers Messy submissions from patrons, including questions about mental health, or a shocking story of a DP with no lube. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm Star Bottom w/ Willam Apr 17, 2025

Actor, podcaster, author & wig-wearing YouTuber, Willam, joins Brandon for a tea-spilling episode before diving deep into self-love and self-image. But first, a mess-filled game of smash or pass and some hilarious stories set the stage. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Leave Feeling Joy w/ Joel Kim Booster Apr 10, 2025

Actor, writer and comedian Joel Kim Booster discusses his triple name and shares a PLETHORA of messy stories. Plus, Brandon and Joel Kim Booster dig into messy mail which leads to discussion on some funny findings on monogamy. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A Little Revenge w/ Clark Moore Apr 03, 2025

Writer, director and actor, Clark Moore, shares a mysterious messy story filled with twists, turns, and a little potential revenge. Then, Clark and Brandon discuss the stigma against sides, living life "out of order" and the idea of queer temporality, all before coming full circle and solving the mystery. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sacred Sex w/ Liz Goldwyn Mar 27, 2025

Filmmaker, author and podcaster Liz Goldwyn dives right into the deep stuff with Brandon as they talk ex's, healing from being hurt, and of course, a healthy dose of revenge. Plus, some of the wildest submissions of Messy Mail yet! Starf*cker Substack: https://starfcker.substack.com/ https://starfcker.substack.com/p/revenge-is-a-dish-best-served-cold Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779 Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bestie Break Ups w/ Liza Treyger Mar 20, 2025

Actress and comedienne Liza Treyger joins Brandon to do a deep dive into Messy Mail focused around getting into trouble and the complicated nature of friendship. Plus, some much-needed Real Housewives talk and a game of F*ck, Marry, Block. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sex Ed w/ Danielle Bezalel Mar 13, 2025

DB, aka Danielle Bezalel, shares her vast knowledge of sex toys and informative stories that nobody ever got in sex education classes in school. Brandon and DB discuss de-stigmatizing kinks and masturbation, plus the very important difference between Plan-B and abortion pills, all with a healthy side of messy stories. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Never Cheat On A Therapist w/ Shahem Mclaurin Mar 06, 2025

Brandon gushes over one of their idols as Therapist and influencer Shahem Mclaurin joins to deep dive into cheating. But first, a game of F*ck, Marry, Block and some messy stories about people who aren't really your "friends." Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Perfectionism and F*ck Buddies w/ Ian Paget Feb 27, 2025

Actor and social media personality, Ian Paget, joins Brandon for a full-on kiki including everything from sex parties to Sex And The City. Ian shares a story of a sexual experience that left him in a vulnerable position, then he and Brandon differentiate between f*ck buddies and hookups. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm Not Afraid Of D*ck w/ Kid Fury Feb 20, 2025

Famed comedian and podcaster, Kid Fury, shares his journey of finding out what pleasure means for him through self sex-ploration. Brandon and Kid play a game of Smash or Pass and read more Messy Mail than ever before. Get ready! Vote for us in the Queerty awards: https://www.queerty.com/queerties/vote/?category_id=2504 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Drain Snakes and Small Chores w/ Alex Hall Feb 13, 2025

Alex Hall, chef, producer, sex ed activist and creator of The Bottom's Digest joins Brandon to share some top secret insights into bottoming. But(t) first, they play a game of Smash or Pass and share some literally Messy stories. https://thebottomsdigest.com/
Sitz Bath: https://www.amazon.com/Electric-Hemorrhoids-Toilet-Foldable-Postpartum/dp/B0CGB29M8S?th=1 lube applicator syringe https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D6LP7WQP?ref=cm_sw_r_cso_cp_apin_dp_ACAQEWJJ80NVA5NQTK7Q&ref_=cm_sw_r_cso_cp_apin_dp_ACAQEWJJ80NVA5NQTK7Q&social_share=cm_sw_r_cso_cp_apin_dp_ACAQEWJJ80NVA5NQTK7Q&starsLeft=1 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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That's How You Get A Squirtcicle w/ ER Fightmaster Feb 06, 2025

Actor, musician and advocate ER Fightmaster shares an absolutely unforgettable Messy Story and some gems during Smash or Pass. Then, Brandon and ER explore what it means to be attracted to energy versus genitals, and non-binary sexuality during Messy Mail. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Really Thought I Had Healed From This w/ Johnny Sibilly Jan 30, 2025

LGBTQIA+ rights advocate, actor and producer Johnny Sibilly shares some deep fantasies during his Messy Story and a game of F*ck, Marry or Block. Plus, Messy Mail highlights the emphasis on growth and communication, which prompts Johnny and Brandon to break down what it means to love yourself. Vote for us in the Queerty Awards! https://www.queerty.com/queerties/vote/?category_id=2504 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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Am I the drama? w/ Griffin Matthews Jan 23, 2025

Close friend, writer and actor Griffin Matthews joins Brandon to share a hilarious and incredibly odd Messy story. A round of F*ck, Marry or Block and then a deeper discussion on what it means to accept who you are makes for a heartwarming episode. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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I Deserve 100% Of The Space I take Up w/ Emily Nagoski Jan 16, 2025

Famed author and sex educator, Emily Nagoski, joins the show to break down some deep messages about love and self acceptance that causes Brandon to say, "I want to live like that on my best day." But don't worry, there are plenty of messy moments shared to fill the conversation with laughter as well! Find Emily on IG @enagoski SUPPORT for those impacted by fires Resources to help those impacted (includes list of places to donate) https://www.lahsa.org/newsArticle/resources-to-support-those-during-the-la-fires The GoFundMe for My Barber & his girlfriend (Joe & Kayla) https://www.gofundme.com/f/throw-some-dough-at-freethrowjoe-kayla Donate to support incarcerated Youth Fighting LA fires https://antirecidivism.org/donate/ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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Everyone Needs a "Jay!" w/ Karamo Brown Jan 09, 2025

Emmy nominated host and Culture Expert on Queer Eye, Karamo shares his experiences with a partner who taught him to caress and love himself, which helped open up his sexual and intimate situations. But not before Brandon and Karamo play Smash Or Pass and read some sticky Messy Mail. Find Karamo @karamo Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779 Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Heauxing Is Data w/ Griff Stark-Ennis Jan 02, 2025

Actor and podcast host, Griff Stark-Ennis, brings an interesting experience on a dating app as his Messy Story for the day. Some underlying toxic masculinity and racism from a potential hookup prompts a deep discussion on what it means to be black and queer. Find Griff on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/griffstarkennis Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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Relationships Don't Make You Whole w/ Kyle June Williams & nicHi Douglas Dec 26, 2024

Brandon surrounds themselves with their chosen fam Kyle June Williams and nicHi Douglas this holiday season in a special Christmas episode filled with laughter and mess. But no holiday is complete without a deep dive into what it means to discover your queerness and being okay with just yourself. Find Kyle June on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/kylejune/ Find nicHi on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/mynameisnichi/ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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The Person Who Looks Free w/ VINCINT Dec 19, 2024

Pop goddess, VINCINT, shares some messy memories with Brandon and dives into some wildly-hilarious Messy Mail. Then, one one submission prompts a deeper conversation, VINCINT opens up with how they learned to love their sexual needs through self reflection. Find VINCINT on IG @vincint Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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Everybody Deserves Sexy Underwear & Self Awareness w/ Blakely Thornton Dec 12, 2024

Blakely Thornton, acclaimed “pop culture anthropologist” and close friend to Brandon joins to tell everyone some real tea on the Messy submissions this week. Then, Brandon and Blakely deep dive into the queer experience, masking and fitting into "diverse" spaces. Allow me to reintroduce myself:
https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/allow-me-to-reintroduce-myself
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Babe, I Don't Have The Energy To F*ck w/ Danielle Schneider Dec 05, 2024

Writer, performer and co-host of the Podcast BITCH SESH, Danielle Schneider, joins Brandon to shed some light on a topic they've been interested in: Having a sex life while raising children. But before they get in too deep, Brandon and Danielle gush about the Real Housewives and rant about bad kissers. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

F*ck Your Potato Salad w/ Devere Rogers Nov 28, 2024

Brandon and bestie Devere Rogers kiki about Thanksgiving with some holiday F*ck, Marry, Block and Messy Mail. Plus, Devere shares one of the most outrageous Messy stories ever before they lean into some heartfelt discussion on found family and moving forward in these trying times. Find Devere on IG at: itsdevererogers Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Find Your Coven Of Doms w/ Zachary Zane Nov 21, 2024

Columnist and sexual-health-advocate Zachary Zane joins Brandon to share some hilarious messy stories that raise a few really interesting questions about sexual freedom. Then, a question from the community sparks a full discussion on sex party etiquette. https://www.zacharyzane.com/articles https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00GRQKOF2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
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Butt Seriously w/ Mitra Jouhari & Dr. Evan Goldstein Nov 14, 2024

Does your butt get bigger from having anal sex? Is cum good for your face? Find out when Brandon plays a game of Real or Faking with their Big Mouth work wife and friend, Mitra Jouhari. Then, as they get into some booty-related Messy Mail, Brandon and Mitra are joined by the one-and-only butt doctor, Dr. Evan Goldstein for a heaux sympheauxsium. Follow Mitra on IG at mitrajouhari Follows Dr. Evan on IG at drevangoldstein Find 'Butt Seriously' at your local bookstore. https://www.amazon.com/Butt-Seriously-Definitive-Pleasure-Everything-ebook/dp/B0CH83HNV8Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ethical Non-Monogamy w/ Matthew Raymond-Goodman Nov 07, 2024

Brandon shares a messy story about their first time having penetrative sex. Then, Brandon's partner, Matthew Raymond-Goodman, joins to play our first game of 'Would You Rather,' including some hilarious moments. And rounding out the conversation, Brandon and Matthew address what's been mentioned in previous episodes: Their non-monogamous marriage. Resources: Ethical Slut: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379 Poly-Secure: https://rep.club/products/polysecure?srsltid=AfmBOoq2ZLmL8C_nOWPB6BSpZd5AphPzEwG3Loksn0raqOFkcnsM99gV Mating In Captivity: https://bookshop.org/p/books/mating-in-captivity-unlocking-erotic-intelligence-esther-perel/7385511 Find Matthew on IG @matthew_raymond18 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm Such A Lover Boy w/ Zach Campbell Oct 31, 2024

In a hilarious and self-explorative episode, Brandon and guest Zach Campbell dive into what it means to find yourself in the queer community. Plus, a game of F*ck, Marry, Block that has Brandon wheezing with laughter. Find Zach Campbell at: https://www.instagram.com/zachcampbell or https://www.youtube.com/@ZachCampbell Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Toes Are Where The Trauma Is w/ Taylor Tomlinson Oct 24, 2024

World-renowned comedienne and salad-date-partner, Taylor Tomlinson joins Brandon for a deep dive into repressed love and sexuality because of organized religion. Hold on, stick with us — It's a touching and hilarious conversation on everything from losing virginity "on the lord's day" and the evolution of toe-sucking, all wrapped around Smash or Pass and some shocking Messy Mail submissions. Find Taylor on Instagram @taylortomlinson Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/
Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I’m A Hemorrhoid Whisperer, Baby! w/ Dr. James Simmons Oct 17, 2024

After receiving a fist-full of recurring medical questions from the c'heauxmunity, Brandon invites Dr. James Simmons, a renowned expert in all things anal health to share some of his wisdom and medical stories in our latest sympheauxsium. Brandon's got a few medical messy stories of their own the share, and they learn a butt-load about hemorrhoids, sex while pregnant and some gaps in the medical community. Find Dr. James on Instagram @drjamesqsimmons https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My Little Secret w/ Katya Zamolodchikova Oct 10, 2024

The one-and-only Katya Zamolodchikova graces the pod with her presense to share a slew of messy stories, mostly involving butt plugs. Plus, Brandon and Katya play Fuck, Marry, Block with household appliances, anal danger and lube. Find Katya @katya_zamo Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/
Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Let Her Be Free w/ Alesha Reneé Oct 03, 2024

Brandon's close friend, Alesha Reneé, joins to share where she is on her Heaux journey, but as they start talking about all of the things that Alesha feels she's missed out on, the conversation takes a deeper turn. But not before a quick game that covers spit-play and hotel sex. Find Alesha Reneé at: https://www.instagram.com/iamalesharenee/
Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/
Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jerkchella! w/ Eric Williams Sep 26, 2024

Brandon is back to help you navigate your interactions with FuckBoy, LLC, and they've invited Eric Williams (That's A Gay Ass Podcast) to talk all things body image. But before they can break down the importance of not yucking someone else's yum, they play a quick game of Smash Or Pass. Article 'Gay Men Have Long Been Obsessed With Their Muscles. Now Everyone Is': https://www.nytimes.com/2024/08/09/t-magazine/gay-men-muscles-body-culture.html
Find Eric Williams at: https://www.instagram.com/ericwillz/
Listen to That's A Gay Ass Podcast at: https://www.instagram.com/gayasspodcast
Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/
Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kissing Titties w/ Shantira Jackson & Dr. Vanessa Marin Sep 19, 2024

It's our first Heaux Sympheauxsium! Brandon has invited two unbelievable guests, Shantira Jackson, comedian and writer, and sex-pert, Dr. Vanessa Marin to deep dive into letting love grow. But, no episode is complete without a lube-breaker that sends Brandon and Shantira down one of the biggest cackling episodes yet. Find Shantira Jackson at https://www.instagram.com/tira_tira_tira
Find Dr. Vanessa Marin at https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander
Buy Dr. Vanessa's book and use promo code MESSY at https://rep.club/products/sex-talks
Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/
Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779 Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I Need Some Potassium In My Life w/ TS Madison Sep 12, 2024

Digging in deep on a sensitive subject, Brandon and special guest TS Madison talk about a recent experience Madison had when re-examining her own sexual and romantic relationships. You can feel the love in this conversation as Brandon and Madison tackle inherited burdens and societal pressures that get in the way of one's happiness. And, once again, Brandon keeps trying to get guests to go on a hike during the lube-breaker game. Find TS Madison at: https://www.instagram.com/tsmadison/
Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/
Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your Besties Aren't Just For Brunch Tables w/ Chelsea Gentry Sep 12, 2024

The first episode of Tell Me Something Messy kicks off with a slurp as Brandon and special guest bestie Chelsea Gentry talk kissing technique, leaning on your c'heauxmunity, and finding the next true step for your heart. Plus, tips for eating ass and fan submitted messy stories. Find Chelsea Gentry at: https://www.chelseagentry.me/ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779 Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome to Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman Sep 05, 2024

Season Two of Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman is here. Every Tuesday, Brandon invites you into bold, hilarious, and vulnerable conversations that celebrate imperfection and honesty. From Emmy winners to everyday change-makers, guests open up about the messy truths behind identity, relationships, family, career, and self-discovery. With new video episodes and bonus minis every Monday, Season Two promises unfiltered joy, humor, and heart. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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