Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

Perfectionism and F*ck Buddies w/ Ian Paget Feb 27, 2025

Actor and social media personality, Ian Paget, joins Brandon for a full-on kiki including everything from sex parties to Sex And The City. Ian shares a story of a sexual experience that left him in a vulnerable position, then he and Brandon differentiate between f*ck buddies and hookups.

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I'm Not Afraid Of D*ck w/ Kid Fury Feb 20, 2025

Famed comedian and podcaster, Kid Fury, shares his journey of finding out what pleasure means for him through self sex-ploration. Brandon and Kid play a game of Smash or Pass and read more Messy Mail than ever before. Get ready!

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Drain Snakes and Small Chores w/ Alex Hall Feb 13, 2025

Alex Hall, chef, producer, sex ed activist and creator of The Bottom's Digest joins Brandon to share some top secret insights into bottoming. But(t) first, they play a game of Smash or Pass and share some literally Messy stories.

https://thebottomsdigest.com/
Sitz Bath: https://www.amazon.com/Electric-Hemorrhoids-Toilet-Foldable-Postpartum/dp/B0CGB29M8S?th=1 lube applicator syringe https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D6LP7WQP?ref=cm_sw_r_cso_cp_apin_dp_ACAQEWJJ80NVA5NQTK7Q&ref_=cm_sw_r_cso_cp_apin_dp_ACAQEWJJ80NVA5NQTK7Q&social_share=cm_sw_r_cso_cp_apin_dp_ACAQEWJJ80NVA5NQTK7Q&starsLeft=1

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That's How You Get A Squirtcicle w/ ER Fightmaster Feb 06, 2025

Actor, musician and advocate ER Fightmaster shares an absolutely unforgettable Messy Story and some gems during Smash or Pass. Then, Brandon and ER explore what it means to be attracted to energy versus genitals, and non-binary sexuality during Messy Mail.

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I Really Thought I Had Healed From This w/ Johnny Sibilly Jan 30, 2025

LGBTQIA+ rights advocate, actor and producer Johnny Sibilly shares some deep fantasies during his Messy Story and a game of F*ck, Marry or Block. Plus, Messy Mail highlights the emphasis on growth and communication, which prompts Johnny and Brandon to break down what it means to love yourself.

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Am I the drama? w/ Griffin Matthews Jan 23, 2025

Close friend, writer and actor Griffin Matthews joins Brandon to share a hilarious and incredibly odd Messy story. A round of F*ck, Marry or Block and then a deeper discussion on what it means to accept who you are makes for a heartwarming episode.

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I Deserve 100% Of The Space I take Up w/ Emily Nagoski Jan 16, 2025

Famed author and sex educator, Emily Nagoski, joins the show to break down some deep messages about love and self acceptance that causes Brandon to say, "I want to live like that on my best day." But don't worry, there are plenty of messy moments shared to fill the conversation with laughter as well!

Find Emily on IG @enagoski

SUPPORT for those impacted by fires

Resources to help those impacted (includes list of places to donate)

https://www.lahsa.org/newsArticle/resources-to-support-those-during-the-la-fires

The GoFundMe for My Barber & his girlfriend (Joe & Kayla)

https://www.gofundme.com/f/throw-some-dough-at-freethrowjoe-kayla

Donate to support incarcerated Youth Fighting LA fires

https://antirecidivism.org/donate/

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Everyone Needs a "Jay!" w/ Karamo Brown Jan 09, 2025

Emmy nominated host and Culture Expert on Queer Eye, Karamo shares his experiences with a partner who taught him to caress and love himself, which helped open up his sexual and intimate situations. But not before Brandon and Karamo play Smash Or Pass and read some sticky Messy Mail.

Find Karamo @karamo

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Heauxing Is Data w/ Griff Stark-Ennis Jan 02, 2025

Actor and podcast host, Griff Stark-Ennis, brings an interesting experience on a dating app as his Messy Story for the day. Some underlying toxic masculinity and racism from a potential hookup prompts a deep discussion on what it means to be black and queer.

Find Griff on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/griffstarkennis

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Relationships Don't Make You Whole w/ Kyle June Williams & nicHi Douglas Dec 26, 2024

Brandon surrounds themselves with their chosen fam Kyle June Williams and nicHi Douglas this holiday season in a special Christmas episode filled with laughter and mess. But no holiday is complete without a deep dive into what it means to discover your queerness and being okay with just yourself.

Find Kyle June on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/kylejune/

Find nicHi on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/mynameisnichi/

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The Person Who Looks Free w/ VINCINT Dec 19, 2024

Pop goddess, VINCINT, shares some messy memories with Brandon and dives into some wildly-hilarious Messy Mail. Then, one one submission prompts a deeper conversation, VINCINT opens up with how they learned to love their sexual needs through self reflection.

Find VINCINT on IG @vincint

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Donate to PanCan at: https://pancan.org/?form=FUNGMWGYGJJ

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Everybody Deserves Sexy Underwear & Self Awareness w/ Blakely Thornton Dec 12, 2024

Blakely Thornton, acclaimed “pop culture anthropologist” and close friend to Brandon joins to tell everyone some real tea on the Messy submissions this week. Then, Brandon and Blakely deep dive into the queer experience, masking and fitting into "diverse" spaces.

Allow me to reintroduce myself:
https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/allow-me-to-reintroduce-myself
https://www.instagram.com/p/DDFcqjny__5/?igsh=NjZiM2M3MzIxNA%3D%3D&img_index=1

You can find Blakely on IG @blakelythornton

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Babe, I Don't Have The Energy To F*ck w/ Danielle Schneider Dec 05, 2024

Writer, performer and co-host of the Podcast BITCH SESH, Danielle Schneider, joins Brandon to shed some light on a topic they've been interested in: Having a sex life while raising children. But before they get in too deep, Brandon and Danielle gush about the Real Housewives and rant about bad kissers.

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F*ck Your Potato Salad w/ Devere Rogers Nov 28, 2024

Brandon and bestie Devere Rogers kiki about Thanksgiving with some holiday F*ck, Marry, Block and Messy Mail. Plus, Devere shares one of the most outrageous Messy stories ever before they lean into some heartfelt discussion on found family and moving forward in these trying times.

Find Devere on IG at: itsdevererogers

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Find Your Coven Of Doms w/ Zachary Zane Nov 21, 2024

Columnist and sexual-health-advocate Zachary Zane joins Brandon to share some hilarious messy stories that raise a few really interesting questions about sexual freedom. Then, a question from the community sparks a full discussion on sex party etiquette.

https://www.zacharyzane.com/articles

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00GRQKOF2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Find Zach on IG @ZacharyZane_

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Butt Seriously w/ Mitra Jouhari & Dr. Evan Goldstein Nov 14, 2024

Does your butt get bigger from having anal sex? Is cum good for your face? Find out when Brandon plays a game of Real or Faking with their Big Mouth work wife and friend, Mitra Jouhari. Then, as they get into some booty-related Messy Mail, Brandon and Mitra are joined by the one-and-only butt doctor, Dr. Evan Goldstein for a heaux sympheauxsium.

Follow Mitra on IG at mitrajouhari

Follows Dr. Evan on IG at drevangoldstein

Find 'Butt Seriously' at your local bookstore. https://www.amazon.com/Butt-Seriously-Definitive-Pleasure-Everything-ebook/dp/B0CH83HNV8

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Ethical Non-Monogamy w/ Matthew Raymond-Goodman Nov 07, 2024

Brandon shares a messy story about their first time having penetrative sex. Then, Brandon's partner, Matthew Raymond-Goodman, joins to play our first game of 'Would You Rather,' including some hilarious moments. And rounding out the conversation, Brandon and Matthew address what's been mentioned in previous episodes: Their non-monogamous marriage. Resources:

Ethical Slut: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379

Poly-Secure: https://rep.club/products/polysecure?srsltid=AfmBOoq2ZLmL8C_nOWPB6BSpZd5AphPzEwG3Loksn0raqOFkcnsM99gV

Mating In Captivity: https://bookshop.org/p/books/mating-in-captivity-unlocking-erotic-intelligence-esther-perel/7385511

Find Matthew on IG @matthew_raymond18

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I'm Such A Lover Boy w/ Zach Campbell Oct 31, 2024

In a hilarious and self-explorative episode, Brandon and guest Zach Campbell dive into what it means to find yourself in the queer community. Plus, a game of F*ck, Marry, Block that has Brandon wheezing with laughter.

Find Zach Campbell at: https://www.instagram.com/zachcampbell or https://www.youtube.com/@ZachCampbell

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Toes Are Where The Trauma Is w/ Taylor Tomlinson Oct 24, 2024

World-renowned comedienne and salad-date-partner, Taylor Tomlinson joins Brandon for a deep dive into repressed love and sexuality because of organized religion. Hold on, stick with us — It's a touching and hilarious conversation on everything from losing virginity "on the lord's day" and the evolution of toe-sucking, all wrapped around Smash or Pass and some shocking Messy Mail submissions.

Find Taylor on Instagram @taylortomlinson

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I’m A Hemorrhoid Whisperer, Baby! w/ Dr. James Simmons Oct 17, 2024

After receiving a fist-full of recurring medical questions from the c'heauxmunity, Brandon invites Dr. James Simmons, a renowned expert in all things anal health to share some of his wisdom and medical stories in our latest sympheauxsium. Brandon's got a few medical messy stories of their own the share, and they learn a butt-load about hemorrhoids, sex while pregnant and some gaps in the medical community.

Find Dr. James on Instagram @drjamesqsimmons

https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman

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My Little Secret w/ Katya Zamolodchikova Oct 10, 2024

The one-and-only Katya Zamolodchikova graces the pod with her presense to share a slew of messy stories, mostly involving butt plugs. Plus, Brandon and Katya play Fuck, Marry, Block with household appliances, anal danger and lube.

Find Katya @katya_zamo Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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Let Her Be Free w/ Alesha Reneé Oct 03, 2024

Brandon's close friend, Alesha Reneé, joins to share where she is on her Heaux journey, but as they start talking about all of the things that Alesha feels she's missed out on, the conversation takes a deeper turn. But not before a quick game that covers spit-play and hotel sex.

Find Alesha Reneé at: https://www.instagram.com/iamalesharenee/
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Jerkchella! w/ Eric Williams Sep 26, 2024

Brandon is back to help you navigate your interactions with FuckBoy, LLC, and they've invited Eric Williams (That's A Gay Ass Podcast) to talk all things body image. But before they can break down the importance of not yucking someone else's yum, they play a quick game of Smash Or Pass.

Article 'Gay Men Have Long Been Obsessed With Their Muscles. Now Everyone Is': https://www.nytimes.com/2024/08/09/t-magazine/gay-men-muscles-body-culture.html
Find Eric Williams at: https://www.instagram.com/ericwillz/
Listen to That's A Gay Ass Podcast at: https://www.instagram.com/gayasspodcast
Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman
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Kissing Titties w/ Shantira Jackson & Dr. Vanessa Marin Sep 19, 2024

It's our first Heaux Sympheauxsium! Brandon has invited two unbelievable guests, Shantira Jackson, comedian and writer, and sex-pert, Dr. Vanessa Marin to deep dive into letting love grow. But, no episode is complete without a lube-breaker that sends Brandon and Shantira down one of the biggest cackling episodes yet.

Find Shantira Jackson at https://www.instagram.com/tira_tira_tira
Find Dr. Vanessa Marin at https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander
Buy Dr. Vanessa's book and use promo code MESSY at https://rep.club/products/sex-talks
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I Need Some Potassium In My Life w/ TS Madison Sep 12, 2024

Digging in deep on a sensitive subject, Brandon and special guest TS Madison talk about a recent experience Madison had when re-examining her own sexual and romantic relationships. You can feel the love in this conversation as Brandon and Madison tackle inherited burdens and societal pressures that get in the way of one's happiness. And, once again, Brandon keeps trying to get guests to go on a hike during the lube-breaker game.

Find TS Madison at: https://www.instagram.com/tsmadison/
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Your Besties Aren't Just For Brunch Tables w/ Chelsea Gentry Sep 12, 2024

The first episode of Tell Me Something Messy kicks off with a slurp as Brandon and special guest bestie Chelsea Gentry talk kissing technique, leaning on your c'heauxmunity, and finding the next true step for your heart. Plus, tips for eating ass and fan submitted messy stories.

Find Chelsea Gentry at: https://www.chelseagentry.me/ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779

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Introducing: Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman Sep 05, 2024

Welcome To The C'Heauxmunity! Tell Me Something Messy launches on September 12th! Come be a part of Brandon Kyle Goodman's messy new podcast that's all about sex and self.

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Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call ‪(669) 696-3779

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