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Ep. 65: Raising Engaged, Happy Kids with Mary Hofstedt Nov 30, 2018

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Kids need time in adolescence to answer the questions: Who am I? Where do I belong? Am I normal? They need reflective spaces, quiet time, time for daydreaming, time to listen to music on the couch, not having anywhere to be. We need to protect this time for our kids. Mary Hofstedt, Challenge Success …

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Ep. 64: Home for the Holidays: Preparing for Your College Kid to Come Home Nov 16, 2018

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I think when you're talking about your kids coming home for a longer period of time, whether it is for Christmas or summer, setting that expectation up is really important because otherwise, you get frustrated with them on the couch and we don't always use our best parenting skills when we are frustrated. Maria Horner…

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Ep. 62: Creating Change Around the World Through the Power of Camp with Phil Lilienthal Nov 09, 2018

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When the (campers) get home, parents and teachers, without knowing who's been to camp, can always tell. Their whole attitude changes. They have more confidence. Phil Lilienthal In Episode 62, I'm chatting with Phil Lilienthal of Global Camps Africa. We talk about his early Peace Corps experience in Ethiopia, forming Camp Langano, spending the next…

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Ep. 60: The Importance of Outdoor, Child-Directed Free Play with Andy Pritikin Oct 26, 2018

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Creativity is not (just) writing songs or painting a picture. It is figuring out what to do when you have a situation, which is not learned in structured play where adults tell kids what to do. They need informal, intentional free play. Andy Pritikin In Episode 60, I'm chatting with Andy Pritikin, camp owner-operator…

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Ep. 59: 5 Ways to Help Kids Thrive During Their School Years and Beyond with Pam Roy Oct 19, 2018

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"We need to prepare our kids for a future world that is changing. The economy is changing so fast and the corporate ladder is dissolving. We need to get out of our kids' way and allow them to try new things, figure out what they like and don't like. Let them fail and learn in…

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Ep. 58: Authentic Teaching with Jackie Beyer Oct 12, 2018

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At Authentic Teacher we are dedicated to helping students learn using culturally relevant lessons, best teaching practices and state of the art technology to help parents and teachers provide the best education possible in the 21st century! Jackie Beyer Episode 58 features Authentic Teacher website and podcast founder Jackie Marie Beyer. Jackie is an experienced educator…

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Ep. 57: The Importance of Adult Friendships with Sara Kuljis Oct 05, 2018

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"The strong bond of friendship is not always a balanced equation; friendship is not always about giving and taking in equal shares. Instead, friendship is grounded in a feeling that you know exactly who will be there for you when you need something, no matter what or when." Simon Sinek Our adult friendships are really…

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Ep. 55: Raising Kids who Love to Read with Anne Driscoll Sep 21, 2018

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In Episode 55, I'm chatting with Anne Driscoll, owner of Branches Books & Gifts in Oakhurst, California.

We talk all things books, including:

Reading Levels

Getting the parent and the child on the same when choosing books.

Getting the right books in the hands of each child.

The pros and cons of the reading level system.

Asking for teacher input when choosing a book.

"Let the child read what they want to read" - Anne Driscoll

Why some children at high levels are embarrassed.

AR (Accelerated Reader)

Choosing a book

"I gently try to encourage them to let the child read what they want to read." Anne Driscoll

Why audio books can be great when a child is struggling with content

Audio Books: https://libro.fm/branchesbooks

Knowing your child and what books are appropriate

Graphic novels for reluctant readers

Encouraging reluctant readers to choose books with a TV show or movie that might be familiar

"Sometimes parents want to shield their kids from sad stories or tragic endings, but those are the ones that really stick with you." Audrey Monke

Fostering a love of reading

"One of my favorite things as a parent was when my kids got to an age where I could read my favorite book to them aloud." Audrey Monke

The importance of reading aloud

Listening or reading a book before your child to be aware of inappropriate content

Why getting into a "don't read that" mentality isn't good

Independent bookstores

Helping children and parents find books that foster a love of reading

Taking the time to get to know the child and their interests and then finding a book

Informing parents about unexpected content that may be in a book a child is requesting

Raising a Reader

Books We Talked About

The Read Aloud Handbook, Jim Trelease

Guys Read - short stories (horror, sci fi, sports)

Five Nights at Freddy's

Dog Man

To All the Boy I've Loved Before

The Book Thief

Wonder

Ramona (Beverly Cleary)

ESIO TROT, Roald Dahl

Charlotte's Web, EB White

The One and Only Ivan, Catherine Applegate

Little House on the Prairie

Chronicles of Narnia

Hunger Games

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo

Sharp Objects, Dark Places

Milk & Honey, The Sun and Her Flowers

Fun Reading Related Websites

IndieBooks - Find your local independent book seller

What Should I Read Next?

goodreads

Branches Books & Gifts

Ep. 51: Raising Kids' Self-Esteem with Dr. Jim Sears Aug 24, 2018

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"Chores give children a sense of purpose and accomplishment." -Dr. Jim Sears

In Episode 51, I'm chatting with my long-time friend and camp colleague, Dr. Jim Sears. I've known him as Camp Doctor "Bones" for the past 14 years, but he is better known by his patients at his family's pediatric practice as "Dr. Jim."

Dr. Jim spent several years as a co-host on the Dr. Phil hit spin-off series called, The Doctors, a nationally syndicated hour-long daily talk show that is informative and entertaining!

Dr. Jim earned his medical degree at St. Louis University School of Medicine in 1996 and completed his pediatric residency at Northeastern Ohio University College of Medicine, Tod Children's Hospital in Youngstown, Ohio in 1999. During his residency, he received the honor of "Emergency Medicine Resident of the Year."

Dr. Jim has been featured on Parenting.com's "Ask the Experts," and has written for "Parenting" and "BabyTalk" magazine. Dr Sears' medical advice has been featured on "Dr. Phil" and the PBS parenting series, "Help Me Grow." He is an active contributor to the content of AskDrSears.com, and is a co-author of The Healthiest Kid in the Neighborhood (Little, Brown 2006), Father's First Steps – Twenty-Five Things Every New Father Should Know, (Harvard Common Press 2006). The Premature Baby Book (Little, Brown 2004), The Baby Sleep Book (Little, Brown 2006) and the best selling The Baby Book – Updated and Revised Edition (Little, Brown 2013).

Dr. Jim's personal passions include endurance cycling, triathlons, sailboat racing and musical theater with his daughter, Lea. His favorite role has been Harold Hill in "The Music Man." Other recent favorite productions include "Joseph and the Technicolor Dream Coat" (French brother), "The Wizard of Oz" (Cowardly Lion), "Annie" (Rooster), "Fiddler on the Roof" (Lazar Wolf) "Oliver! (Mr. Bumble) and Big River (King). In his free time, Dr. Jim enjoys snow skiing, hiking, and mountain biking (especially during a beautiful sunrise!).

Topics we Discuss

How to Help Kids Develop Their Self Esteem

Importance of Keeping Your Emotions in Check

You, Me & the Issue: Address the issue/behavior, not the child's character

Fostering Independence

Resources/Related

Ask Dr. Sears

Give Children Freedom to Explore (episode from The Doctors)

Benefits of Nature

Ep. 50: How to be a Happier Parent with K.J. Dell'Antonia Aug 17, 2018

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In Episode 50, I chat with K.J. Dell'Antonia, author of How to be a Happier Parent: Raising a Family, Having a Life, and Loving (Almost) Every Minute.

From KJ's website:

I believe each of us is responsible for our own happiness. I believe happier parents are better parents and better people. I believe family should be a source of joy and refuge, not another stressor in a busy life. I believe we can be happy even when things aren't great. We can raise our families, live our lives, and love (almost) every minute of it — if we let go of the idea of parenting as a direct route to a destination: success, and decide to meander along our own merry way.

This former New York Times reporter is taking on the rug rat race — join me! I wrote and edited the Motherlode blog for the Times from 2011 until 2016 and was a contributing editor to the Well Family section from 2016-2017. Ten minutes in my kitchen would convince you that, while some parts of my family life are enviably together (the Rice Krispie treats on the counter, the meal in the slow cooker) others are works in progress (the child on the floor, wailing that the homework is "too hard"). "How to Be a Happier Parent" is not a memoir (far from it!). Instead, my research, interviews, and reporting are geared towards helping all of us figure out "how it's done" in the bits of family life we find most challenging.

I was fortunate to meet KJ at the Mom 2.0 Conference, read an advanced copy of her book, and interview her for the podcast!

To determine what her chapters would be about, K.J. asked parents, "What sucks most?" about parenting. Chores and discipline rose to the top of the list, and those are two of the many topics we discuss in this episode.

Order How to be a Happier Parent: Raising a Family, Having a Life, and Loving (Almost) Every Minute!

How to be a Happier Parent description

An encouraging guide to helping parents find more happiness in their day-to-day family life, from the former lead editor of the New York Times Motherlode blog.

In all the writing and reporting KJ Dell'Antonia has done on families over the years, one topic keeps coming up again and again: parents crave a greater sense of happiness in their daily lives. In this optimistic, solution-packed book, KJ asks: How can we change our family life so that it is full of the joy we'd always hoped for? Drawing from the latest research and interviews with families, KJ discovers that it's possible to do more by doing less and make our family life a refuge and pleasure, rather than another stress point on a hectic day. She focuses on nine common problem spots that cause parents the most grief, explores why they are hard, and offers small, doable, sometimes surprising steps you can take to make them better. Whether it's getting everyone out the door on time in the morning or making sure chores and homework get done without another battle, How to Be a Happier Parent shows that having a family isn't just about raising great kids and churning them out at destination: success. It's about experiencing joy--real joy, the kind you look back on, look forward to and live for--along the way.

Resources/Related

K.J.'s Website

Follow K.J.

Ignore It by Catherine Pearlman (mentioned in this episode)

Raising Happiness with Christine Carter

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