Stay ConnectedTraditional marriage counseling and marriage coaching will tell you to work on communication. A pastor might tell you to sacrifice more and forget about yourself.
But, what actually works when it comes to creating a strong, passionate marriage? One that’s full of love, connection and intimacy?
Find out with us on our podcast, Strong Men Strong Marriages.
Hosted by psychiatrist and marriage coach Mike Frazier, MD
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Have you ever asked your wife… “What do you do for me?”
So have I. And so have most of my clients.
How did it go for you?
Did your wife become more loving and connected?
Or angry, hurt or guilty?
Learn why this question is terrible…
And what to do instead to have your wife start doing more for you…
In today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Interested in joining The Strong Man System but want to chat first to see if it’s a fit? Schedule a 20 minute Marriage Assessment here. We’ll talk about where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and if we’re a fit to work together. Whether we work together after or not, I want this to be the best 20 minutes you’ve spent on your marriage. CLICK HERE to schedule your Marriage Assessment.
P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/savemymarriage
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My wife and I were both born and raised members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
A few years back, my wife started to have some questions about the Church.
This was VERY hard on me… to the point that I thought if she wasn’t going to be a member of the Church, it would be better if we got divorced.
Fast forward to now, we have both evolved in our faith and belief in God…
And have a STRONGER marriage because of our “faith crisis.”
This is more of a personal episode, sharing what helped us get through it and build MORE intimacy because of our LDS faith crisis.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Interested in joining The Strong Man System but want to chat first to see if it’s a fit? Schedule a 20 minute Marriage Assessment here. We’ll talk about where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and if we’re a fit to work together. Whether we work together after or not, I want this to be the best 20 minutes you’ve spent on your marriage. CLICK HERE to schedule your Marriage Assessment.
P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
When you lift weights, you create small tears in your muscles.
If you keep lifting weights without resting, these tears just get bigger, making you WEAKER over time.
That’s why it’s IMPERATIVE that you REST and eat well if you’re trying to build muscle.
The muscle REGROWS bigger and stronger while you REST.
The same is true of building spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength…
And the interpersonal skills of trust, communication, and intimacy.
You need to work to build the strengths and skills.
But you ALSO need to let yourself REST and RECOVER for optimal results.
Learn some of my favorite tools to rest and recover in today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
Men WAIT to apologize to their wife.
They FEAR that bringing up all their flaws will make things WORSE.
Or, they’re too PRIDEFUL to see their mistakes (or how bad the mistakes are).
Both of these responses REPEL your wife instead of attracting her.
Instead:
This is the pattern to becoming the STRONG and ATTRACTIVE man that becomes BEST FRIENDS and INTIMATE LOVERS with his wife.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
When your dog is hungry, do you…
A. Tell your dog it’s not time to eat yet and why he shouldn’t be hungry
B. Tell your dog you’re hungry too and he should be more considerate
C. Tell your dog that you have needs too and he shouldn’t be so selfish
D. Try to talk your dog out of wanting food
E. Get the dog some food
Unfortunately, we often use A-D when our wife needs something from us.
When your wife is upset with you, what she is HUNGRY for is UNDERSTANDING.
Learn HOW to RECOGNIZE that need and GIVE that understanding in today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
When it comes to ATTRACTING your wife to you, it’s more about who you ARE than what you DO.
That’s why I could give you all the “right lines” to say, but it would still “not work” to win your wife back.
She would (correctly) say: Don’t tell me. SHOW ME!
There are 5 MAIN TRAITS that are ATTRACTIVE to your wife…
And that make you feel AMAZING as a man.
And, they’re based on the Biblical traits that God embodies in Exodus 34:6-7.
Whether you’re a Christian or not, these are traits that build STRONG men…
And the traits that all GREAT women are looking for in a man.
Learn what they are… and how to develop them… in today’s episode.
Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.
You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program.
I look forward to speaking with you!
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
What does it take to make a marriage work?
Really just 3 things.
Trust. Communication. And Intimacy.
You need to diagnose which of these is broken…
And then figure out how to repair it.
You’ll learn tips to repair broken trust, poor communication and low intimacy in today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you want to learn EXACTLY how to rebuild trust (even after infidelity), have expert communication, and passionate intimacy in YOUR marriage, and you're a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man…
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.
You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program.
I look forward to speaking with you!
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
Your wife is telling you she doesn’t love you anymore.
What does that mean?
She doesn’t want to share a life with you.
She’s not sexually attracted to you.
She doesn’t feel safe with you.
In response, you’re trying to prove to her that she SHOULD love you…
Which ALWAYS backfires.
Learn how to start to REGAIN that love in today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.
You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program.
I look forward to speaking with you!
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
These days it’s popular to say “I’m working on myself.”
Your wife might even be saying “You need to work on yourself.”
But what does that even mean?
To me, it’s about building up your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.
It’s also about building up your communication skills so you know how to get to win-win with your wife (and others).
And, with your wife, learning how to create fun, flirting and passion.
But what’s the fastest way to do that?
Learn how to accelerate your progress and results in this episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training.
P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man who is looking to save his marriage, join us in The Strong Man System. You’ll learn EXACTLY how to become the strongest and most attractive version of yourself, which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back. CLICK HERE to join now. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
“Don’t tell me, SHOW me!”
This is what your wife says when you tell her that you are going to change.
Most men go about this the wrong way.
They try to show their wife they are changing by doing more dishes, buying more gifts, or sending lots of text messages saying they’re sorry.
NONE OF THESE WORK.
Because they’re not addressing the CORE issues that drove your wife away.
Learn what those core issues are…
How to change them…
And how to SHOW your wife those changes…
In today’s episode.
Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re ready to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back… join us in The Strong Man System. It will be the best $2500 you’ve ever invested.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
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