Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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How To Try New Things In Bed Oct 09, 2025

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In this encore episode from our archives, we share a classic Pleasure Mechanics framework that makes it easier to try new things in bed, lowering the stakes and clearing the way to learn new skills, get to know your own desires and develop erotic communication with your partner. Join us as an All Access Member to […]

How To Initiate More Intimacy Sep 25, 2025

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Here’s how to initiate more intimacy, affection and erotic connection. Initiating can be vulnerable, scary and intimidating – but it doesn’t have to be. The more you practice, the easier it gets and you can create a culture in your relationship where you can fearlessly initiate, respond authentically and together create more of the kinds […]

Erotic Attitudes Inventory Sep 12, 2025

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What Erotic Attitudes do you yearn for? All too often, we focus on acts rather than the attitudes we bring to these acts – and this can leave us deeply unsatisfied or even frustrated. By zooming in on the energies and attitudes that you want to embody and experience, you will be on your way […]

Creating Arcs of Arousal Aug 29, 2025

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Tune in and discover a game-changing framework that updates outdated, inaccurate and limiting models of arousal. Creating Arcs of Arousal invites you to allow an open-ended, expansive experience of rolling hills of arousal – rather than pursue one peak with an inevitable let-down as suggested by Masters and Johnson’s classic one-peak model of the Sexual […]

Getting Started with Sensation Play Aug 14, 2025

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Sensation Play opens up a vast world of pleasure, if we dare to explore what our sensory bodies are truly capable of. Here’s how to get started with Sensation Play, starting with the every day sensations and sensory experiences of your life! What sensory experiences bring you comfort? What do you deeply enjoy? From this […]

Fingerbang F Yeah Aug 04, 2025

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Hands are the most underrated pleasure tool, and this episode is an irreverent ode to the fine art of Fingerbanging. We share why this is one of personal favorite erotic acts and invite you to explore the wide range of fingerbanging pleasures, from serene meditations to intense full body poundings! Ready To Explore More Pleasure? […]

Integrating Toys Into Partnered Play Jul 19, 2025

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What pleasure and intimacy could you unlock if you integrated more toys into your partnered play? Many of us have surefire pleasure tools that we use solo and yet don’t bring into the bedroom with our lovers, leaving big parts of our erotic potential behind. In this episode, we invite you to begin integrating toys […]

The Myths and Magic of Masturbation Jul 04, 2025

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Join us for a rousing and stimulating conversation about the magic and myths of masturbation! For this episode we are in conversation with psychologist and professor Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons and Danielle Bezalel, host of the podcast SexEdWithDb to talk about The Magic Wand Study. This study confirms what many of us know deep in […]

Your Sexy Staycation Jun 20, 2025

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Many people report having the best sexual experiences while on vacation – but you don’t have to wait for an expensive vacation to enjoy all the benefits of Vacation Sex! In this episode, we unpack the essential elements of VacationSex and propose a plan to bring the pleasures home by planning more sexy staycations! From […]

Primal Play Jun 06, 2025

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Primal play is a realm many of us crave, but rarely talk about. What does it mean to “go primal” or “become primal” or “play primal” like so many of us say we want? What do we really crave when we talk about primal play? In this episode, we dive into the wild realm of […]