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Judge Anthony Bompiani Talks About The Ideals Of Family Court, Criminal Court And Informative Instagram Videos Sep 15, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes Judge Anthony Bompiani to the show. Anthony Bompiani, Esq. graduated from Saint Vincent College in Latrobe, Pennsylvania, earning a Bachelor of Science Degree in the field of Psychology. He earned his Juris Doctorate from the Thomas R. Kline School of Law of Duquesne University, and is licensed to practice law in the state of Pennsylvania.
Mr. Bompiani was elected Magisterial District Judge in January 2016 to January 2021 in Westmoreland County, district 10-2-01 and began his term in January 2016 that would last five years.
He has previously been named to the National Trial Lawyers Top 100 Criminal Trial Attorneys and the National Trial Lawyers Top 40 Under 40 three years in a row. Also he was recently featured in Forbes magazine and Mensjournal.
Great conversation regarding family court and criminal court as well as coercive control and Parental Alienation. We talked about his very insightful, helpful and informative Instagram videos. Great guest, Judge Anthony Bompiani!
To reach Judge Anthony Bompiani; anthony@judgeanthony.com
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Former Attorney Talks About Courts Forgetting That The Parent Is Advocating For Their Child And The Taxpayer's Expense Sep 15, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes a former attorney who was actually a family law attorney from 1999-2003, when she left practice to be a full-time homemaker and mother of two.
Her experience as a litigant from 2017 to present in Georgia has given her a first hand experience from the other side of the "perfect storm" of family court corruption and all the players in government and the legal profession supporting it.
Questioning the bias of some judges who may possibly dislike Family Law Litigants while getting angry at the litigant seeking relief was only one of the topics of discussion. Family Court is supposed to be there to protect families, not destroy the family relationships/bond. However it appears that Family Court is there to defame the to use Guardian Ad Litems at their discretion, only speaking to a child for one hour yet the parent is billed thousands.
Families are destroyed every day through the courts due to the false allegations coming from Personality Disorders that completely run the show.
She discussed that the GAL need to take their job seriously and judges do not take harsh actions on people for lying in Family Court, as the Guardian Ad Litem helps to drag the case out. The judges nor GAL are not held accountable in the best interest of the child.
Target parents are losing their children because the GAL reports are not done correctly and submitted six months late. The problem is that everyone has a right to be heard but there is much to be said about the behaviors in the three-ring family court circus and the taxpayer needs to be aware of where their monies are going. Please sign petition in the podcast notes.
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Marineka Bowman And Her Family Speak Out On Her DFS Complaints/Evidence That Is Ignored By Family Court And The Disaster Of Co-Parenting Sep 13, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes new guest, Marineka Bowman and her family members to the podcast. She is a wonderful Mother of a five year old daughter. Mother explained that her ex-husband left the house when their daughter was only two months old. However she did not go to the courts looking for child support as she tried to work it out with him. There was barely a response.
Now, when her daughter was a happy three year old, the father came back into their lives and went before the courts saying that he wanted to only see his daughter two hours a week. Judge Natalie Haskins made a comment that, 'it would make it harder for you in the future to get full custody if you do this.' But there really was no problem in obtaining custody.
At present time, the Father has complete custody and when Marineka does see her daughter on a scheduled basis, her child's head is shaved as we'll as an eyebrow. There are alleged reports on child sexual abuse that have gone unnoticed from DFS (CPS). The school system is doing nothing to help her, even though they are mandated reporters.
Now father would like Marineka to visit with their daughter at a visitation center, costing $60.00 a visit and eventually would like to see mother completely erased out of their lives and even calls his child by a different name.
What Marineka has learned is that the opposing counsel has a hand in this abuse of her daughter as Judge Haskins addresses Attorney Laura Brooks as "Laura," while in the courtroom. Very unprofessional. From there they were ordered co-parent counseling which proved disastrous. The counselor yelled and used expletives and didn't care.
Marineka is being watched very closely as she explains in this podcast. Being a Targeted parent and being penalized for protecting her daughter has gone to the extreme so much so that they now are blaming Marineka for the abuse.
Please tune in to a future podcast with Marineka and her family for updates.
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Laurie Smith LMSW, Speaks Out On Getting Clear About The Chaos In The Family Courts, Problems And Solutions Sep 12, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes Laurie Smith, LMSW back on the show. Laurie Smith has been practicing social work for 18 years and is well versed in multiple modalities, theories and evidence-based practices. Her work has continuously involved working with marginalized populations. Her passion is working with Trauma Survivors (individuals, providers and systems ), through offering self-guided, self-paced journeys that point towards Harnessing the Power of Our Own Internal GPS, Wielding Our Survival Skills and Building Armor Strategically to improve Quality of Life, Effectiveness and Sustainability for all and dig into our Birthright to Our Power and Joy.
What has impacted her work the most is her own Trauma Transformations and Utilization of Universal Laws in everyday life.
We discussed how the family court system impacts parents and how children are treated as property; how this evolved into the system developed in the Colonial Era. This adversarial system is set up to ruin families and it is a system of "pay to play."
It is time to be vocal about how many people this is affecting. It is people that are trying to survive every day or have been diagnosed with mental illness that is now being used against them in the courts. The world will say whatever about us but we always have a choice and we get to decide how we will relate what is happening to us. This pathological system, it is chaos and the most effective way through it is to go inside and gain your own resources in terms of a support system and empowerment.
Live a life that means something to you. Moving forward we are not under such naive illusions that life is fair, it is not. Don't put your faith in what is happening in the outside world and people are not alone. Laurie encourages to enjoy every day, do a gratitude practice, no matter what is happening around you. Focus on positive things, because they can't take that away from you.
To reach Laurie: https://linktr.ee/cloudedcompass?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=091d2af8-748e-4677-b464-5cad5d280515
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Antonella Giovanna Speaks Out About The Corruption Not Only In Her Appellate Case, But What's Really Going On In Rockland, NY Sep 08, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes Antonella Giovanna to the podcast. She is a mother and dental hygienist and suddenly called Mentally Ill by an extremely corrupt family court. Judge Sherri Eisenpress doesn't have very good press herself. There was an article written on July 6th, 2016, by Lee Higgins and Jonathan Bandler in The Journal News, "Rockland Judge Tied To FBI Sting." Apparently in this article, "an FBI informant at the center of a political corruption probe that brought down the former state Senate majority leader says he helped elect Rockland Family Court Judge Sherri Eisenpress by using her money to bankroll an illegal campaign finance scheme and by bribing a public official, an investigation by The Journal News found." However, this judge still is on the bench abusing families and their children. This judge is also active in the Supreme Court.
Now Antonella has been assigned a "gatekeeper." and has to go through that individual to file motion. She can't file a motion without the judge's permission.There is a lot of control in this courtroom. After a court hearing was over, the judge said in a loud voice to the ex, "I give you permission to tell the kids their Mother doesn't want to see them." When Antonella asked several people around her they acted like they didn't want to get involved.
Another incident was when her 13 year-old was in the courtroom and asked the judge if she could see her mother, the judge stated to her, "you are starting to sound like your Mother."
Antonella does not need supervised visits. She has been through eight different supervisors and all their reports are good on Mother, however the ex is trying to find one bad thing they are saying about her. The children do not want supervisors.
This is the state of disrepair in this courtroom. Children are being psychologically abused by this judge and attorneys. Antonella states she will not give up as her case is now at the Appellate level.
To reach Antonella: On Facebook Antonella Giovanna
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George Roche Discusses The Major Roles That Shame, Abandonment And Emotions Play In The Self-Esteem Of Children Sep 07, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes George Roche to the show. He was last on the show Season 3, Episode 68, 76. George Roche has a Masters in Clinical Psychology with a focus on Family Systems, Child Development and the various forms of abuse related to Parental Alienation.
He also brings a BA in Business Administration to the Presidency and CEO of America and Canadian Rights Watch, a human rights defense organizations that provide various logistics consultations, legal referrals and mental health services to citizens.
George Roche discussed that we are experiencing Parental Alienation on a grand level. The Master Emotion of SHAME, George explained that toxic shame as well, parenting rules are abusive in shaming and work to destroy the self esteem of a child who becomes more compliant, than asking questions which results in shame. Kids are allowed to know what's going on but can't confront it and the parent must step in and defend and protect the budding self-esteem of our children. Shame is a psychic numbing. A child experiencing depression, self-doubt, splitting of the self, perfectionism etc. all result from shame.
Internalized shame is characterized by a psychic numbing, a person no longer feels what they feel because they are so ashamed to feel anything, they are shamed bound. Anger and sadness are buried alive, and it's coming back and children being treated like this will have it all paid back to society down the road.
Parental Alienation doesn't start in adulthood, it starts in "family" it conditions every other subsequent relationship and continues to destroy self esteem throughout the person's life, because they keep recycling the same scenarios relationally. Parental Alienation is a severe form of ABANDONMENT, where the parents impart in their children a role in the conflict that should be isolated and kept between the parents. The most dangerous place for a child is the un-lived lives of their parents in that environment because the parents will set the children up to be carriers of a disease that they have unknowingly internalized from their families, they continue parent themselves with these dysfunctional roles that also continue to destroy the self esteem of their children as their self esteem was destroyed. The consequences are more than devastating.
Beyond excellent podcast about the damage of the self-esteem via Parental Alienation.
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Lorraine Nilon, Author, Discusses Her Book, "Breaking Free," And The Abuse Of The Soul Regarding Child Abuse Sep 06, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes Lorraine Nilon, book author of "Breaking Free From the Chains of Silence," A Respectful Exploration into the Ramifications of Abuse Hidden Behind Closed Doors.
Lorraine is a spiritual tour guide/life coach, with over20 years experience researching and navigating what impedes our soul maturity and emotional growth. Teaching others about the importance of being self-reflective and to value their uniqueness, Lorraine is an advocate for feet-on-the-ground spirituality, meaning absolutely no by-passing a client's emotional baggage. Lorraine has a realistic and engaging way of explaining how to explore life and develop healthy self-awareness.
In her book Lorraine explains childhood trauma in adults, now so prevalent, it has become a silent epidemic and the lasting scars are more than difficult to heal. "Breaking Free," is such an important book that contains valuable insights into the thought processes and emotional impact that the abused deal with on a daily basis for the rest of their lives.
"Abuse is never contained to a present moment, it lingers across a person's lifetime and has pervasive long-term ramifications," Lorraine states. There are long term effects such as confusion, shame and people pleasing which is a constant emotional battle.
We discussed how silencing the victim is the pedophile's manipulation tool and how Soul Abuse destroys the victim's awareness of the strength of their own soul and causes the victim to be aware of.
To Reach Lorraine: https://lorrainenilon.com.au/
To find Lorraine’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Lorraine-Nilon/e/B077HTQPRY/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk
Online course 7 Essential Key for Honest Self-Reflection

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Darlene Orvieto Discusses The Victim To Hero Interview With A Judicial Child Abuser And National President Of The AFCC Sep 04, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes back Darlene Orvieto, Advocate of Massachusetts Corruption Exposed on Facebook. Darlene was last on the show Season 2, Episode 74, 129 and Season 3, Episode 82. There was much discussion on how Judge Fidnick, National President of the AFCC, caused Darlene Orvieto's situation.
The Judge removed the children away from a loving, fit parent, violating her rights and has allowed the abuse to continue. Also, she showed bias and had no idea of what ADA rights are. Darlene has filed grievances with no response.
In the interview the Judge is quoted stating, "this is a 60 billion a year business, Family Law Attorneys are doing well..." Fidnick also stated that the Family Resolution program, would not be held against parents who were substance abusers, yet removed the children from Darlene with not even so much as a traffic ticket. Also referring parents to reach out to CPS for help.
We also discussed The Family Wizard program and found that it was a Platinum Sponsor to the AFCC.
Darlene Orvieto has a 175 page GAL report that stated Darlene should have full custody, but still was treated like a criminal.
Apparently there are 20 million alienated children in the USA and judges think they can tell a parent who is in charge of Moral Development. Darlene discussed what her kids have gone through and now the fourth false accusation of sexual abuse through coaching of one of the children. If a Child comes out with a coached accusation such as this, it is generally coming from the opposition.
What has to be taken into consideration is that some parents are not alienating, but protecting their children and it gets twisted around in the courtroom. This happens quite often. Great discussion with a wealth of information on this podcast. PLEASE CHECK OUT DARLENE'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL IN THE PODCAST NOTES.
To Reach Darlene Orvieto: MACorruptionExposed@protonmail.com
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Kenneth Gottfried, Author Discusses His Website And How The FBI Responded To His Pleas For Help Sep 03, 2022

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Slam the Gavel welcomes back author Kenneth Gottfried (Season 2, Episode108, 122 and 148). He discussed his book, VICTIM How the American Psychological Association Kills Parents, Abuses Children & Grows Their Base and his website childabusivejudges.com.
When a child/teen is kept from the other parent, they end up hating half of themselves with a shared persecutory delusion, Depression and Anxiety. This issue at hand is that psychologists are not reporting child psychological abuse V995.51 in the DSM nor V61.20 Parent-Child Relational Problem, 309.4 Mixed Disturbance Of Emotions And Conduct to the proper authorities, which makes these psychologists a big part of the problem.
Ken spoke about the recorded phone conversation with the FBI and when discussing Child Psychological Abuse and reporting perpetrators—these issues that are so greatly affecting the psychological health of our youth today that will haunt them for the rest of their lives, they HUNG UP ON HIM..
A child should just be living the best time of their lives of being a child or teen, not placed under the pressure of being lied to about the Target parent by a vengeful parent/grandparents.
Ken talks about discussing all of this with the FBI with no response.
Excellent informative podcast not to be missed when it comes to standing up for your children and the psychological abuse they are enduring at the hands of their abuser, judges and attorneys. More to come.....
How to reach Kenneth Gottfried:
https://www.childabusivejudges.com/

https://www.childabuserswearblackrobes.com/

https://www.amazon.com/Kenneth-Gottfried/e/B088P6462L/ref=dp_byline_cont_pop_ebooks_1

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