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Dating, Intimacy, and Situationships (storytime!) Oct 21, 2024

Hey well read baddies! This week we're switching it up with an episode swap with our friends over at Behind the Silk Podcast!

We are spilling the hot tea today! In today's episode, we are talking about sexual intimacy, communication, and expectations. More importantly we are talking about situationships. We have on my good friend Shakia Artson who is having her own storytime with a recent situationship that really exposed both partners toxicity and communication breakdowns.

We are answering the questions we all want to know:

Should you have sex on the first date?
What kinds of intimacy are there besides sexual?
How we need to start communicating better with our partners
How to date in the modern age
How to handle situationships
How to date with intention, but without expectations

Episode 38: Self Worth and Toxic Relationships with Shakia

Check Out Shakia Episode Part 2: Controlling Our Emotions

To connect with Shakia Artson:

Kickin It Productions

Play To Win Podcast

Being, A Memoir

@sisterswithstories

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SWR Minisode: Baby, It's Deja Brew with Author Celestine Martin Oct 07, 2024

Hey well read baddies! In this special spooky season episode, we’re joined by author Celestine Martin, the creator of the cozy paranormal romance Deja Brew. Together, we dive into the magical world of BIPOC witches, slow-burn romance, and all the witchy vibes perfect for fall. Celestine shares her journey as an author, the inspiration behind her Elemental Love series, and how she infuses themes of family, love, and Black joy into her work. Plus, we explore the rise of "witchy" TikTok, the power of vision boards, and the ups and downs of navigating social media as a writer. Whether you're seeking a cozy fall read or looking to get into the spooky spirit, this episode is packed with magic, fun, and inspiration. Don’t forget to subscribe and check out Deja Brew—a perfect addition to your fall TBR!

01:08 Introduction and Shout Out Corner

03:07 Coffee Break

31:51 Get into the Guest

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S5 EP15: Consumption Core with Author Gail Hamilton Azodo Sep 18, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we wrap season 5 with the author of Black Girl IRL, Gail Hamilton Azodo! Gail shares her journey of writing the book and we ask her all of our burning questions. We dive into topics like navigating motherhood, writing with authenticity, and the upcoming Nightbitch movie adaptation. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and follow She Well Read on social media for more updates!

01:48 Introduction and Shout Out Corner

05:25 Coffee Break

31:54 Get into the Chapter

Mentions in episode-

Nightbitch- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=918prRymA-U

Mormon Wives- https://press.hulu.com/shows/the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives/

Child Star Documentary- https://www.forbes.com/sites/maryroeloffs/2024/08/14/child-star-documentary-to-feature-jojo-siwa-drew-barrymore-demi-lovato-what-we-know/

Boy Band Documentary- https://www.netflix.com/title/81476403

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S5 EP 14: Silk Cap Mafia Sep 04, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss the last truth #12 of Black Girl IRL, Your Authentic Self is in a Silk Cap. Our conversation dives into the importance of showing up authentically and being vulnerable, especially as Black women navigating our truths. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and follow She Well Read on social media for more updates!

01:57 Introduction and Shout Out Corner

04:02 Coffee Break

33:34 Get into the Chapter

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S5 EP 13: We Gon Be Alright Aug 28, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #11 of Black Girl IRL, It's Gon Be Alright. We explore the realities of navigating negativity and overcoming obstacles while highlighting the importance of taking time for rest and reflection amidst the hustle and grind culture. We discuss how Black women often carry the weight of expectations, yet still manage to thrive, and emphasize the need for trusting the process and embracing change. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and follow She Well Read on social media for more updates!

02:04 Introduction and Shout Out Corner

09:22 Coffee Break

29:42 Get into the Chapter

Mentions in episode-

Back to School Book Drive- https://bookshop.org/wishlists/591d3e0e0f4e3ae64d36a0064250a96036e4463e

Trump Controversy- https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/trump-draws-fire-remarks-medal-honor-recipients/story?id=112883414

Black Romance Book Festival- https://blackromancebookfest.com/

Books we're reading- https://bookshop.org/lists/read-with-us-d4d66b8e-1462-4dc1-9a07-f836bb14f1b2?

Colleen Hoover Drama- https://www.cnn.com/style/article/colleen-hoover-coloring-book-cancellation-intl-scli/index.html

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Representative Jasmine Crockett Speech- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tis8gzBlT7s

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S5 EP 12: Demure Girl Fall Aug 21, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #10 of Black Girl IRL, Our Relationship with Money is Petty. We dive deep into the often-taboo topic of money, exploring the importance of financial transparency in friendships and the Black community. We share personal stories about navigating freelance life, setting realistic financial goals, and the challenges of sticking to a budget—especially with the holiday season just around the corner. From holiday shopping hacks to honest conversations about debt, this episode is packed with practical tips and relatable moments. Plus, we introduce a new segment on how we're getting back into reading! Tune in for real talk, lots of laughs, and, as always, a bit of fun—very mindful, very demure

01:48 Introduction and Shout Out Corner

06:08 Coffee Break

21:11 Get into the Chapter

Mentions in episode-

Back to School Book Drive- https://bookshop.org/wishlists/591d3e0e0f4e3ae64d36a0064250a96036e4463e

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S5 EP 11: Not One of Your Little Friends Aug 14, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #9 of Black Girl IRL, Maybe Our Parents Need Reparenting and Maybe We Do Too. We share our personal experiences, exploring the complex emotions that come with healing childhood wounds and learning to parent differently. From the power of a scream to the importance of setting boundaries, this conversation is packed with insights that will resonate with anyone on a journey of self-discovery and growth.

We also introduce our exciting new partnership with Pango Books—a platform that makes buying and selling books easier than ever. Plus, we share updates on our book drive for the Jefferson County Youth Detention Center and encourage you to join our community on Bookum. Whether you're here for the laughs, the deep reflections, or the practical tips, this episode offers a little something for everyone. Tune in and take another step towards healing with us!

01:57 Introduction and Shout Out Corner

09:40 Coffee Break

26:09 Get into the Chapter

Mentions in episode-

Back to School Book Drive- https://bookshop.org/wishlists/591d3e0e0f4e3ae64d36a0064250a96036e4463e

https://www.birminghamtimes.com/2024/07/trio-finds-a-brotherhood-through-broken-dreams-clothing-brand/

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S5 EP10: We Spin Too Aug 07, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #8 of Black Girl IRL, Black People Own Pelotons Too, and Other Assumed White Lifestyle Items. We explore the concept of Black people participating in activities and owning items traditionally associated with white culture. Through personal stories and insightful discussions, we highlight the importance of breaking these stereotypes and embracing our multifaceted identities. We also touch on the impact of representation and how it empowers our community to redefine what it means to be Black. Join us for laughs, insights, and empowerment! Don’t forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and join the conversation on Spotify and our Bookum Book Club!

00:00 Introduction and Shout Out Corner

05:42 Coffee Break

26:14 Get into the Chapter

Mentions in episode-

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Samra's biz- https://www.instagram.com/xdressin

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Ballerina Farm- https://www.tiktok.com/@elirallo/video/7396734153452031274?lang=en

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S5 EP9: she well brat Jul 31, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #7 of Black Girl IRL, Social Media (and the Internet) is the real MVP. In this episode, we get personal as we discuss birthday reflections, emotional waves, and the concept of being functionally depressed while navigating through recent events. Our conversation extends to club culture, TikTok trends, and the cyber-bullying debate surrounding a viral video. We dive into current politics and the importance of the upcoming election, emphasizing the significance of social media in shaping public opinion and the need for accurate information. We also explore how social media and the internet can be both incredibly informative and dangerously misleading. We share our thoughts on navigating this double-edged sword and the importance of critical thinking and thorough research. Join us for an engaging and thought-provoking episode filled with humor, honesty, and heartfelt discussions. As always, we want to hear from you, so send us your voice notes and thoughts. Let’s get into it!

00:00 Introduction and Shout Out Corner

02:30 Coffee Break

33:23 Get into the Chapter

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Bookum Book Club- https://app.bookumapp.com/clubs/668ad565858c97a7faafafb1

Culture Cult Travel Show- https://www.instagram.com/culturecultshow/

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S5 EP8: Dust Yourself Off and Try Again Jul 24, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #6 of Black Girl IRL, Therapy is a Journey. Lana and Sam dive deep into the world of therapy, sharing personal experiences, tips, and the journey of finding the right therapist. We chat about why therapy isn't just for tough times, how it's transformed our lives, and debunk some common myths. Plus, we’ve got all the juicy updates: from shout outs and Spotify’s new comments feature to exciting news about our upcoming anniversary party and the latest in our Bookum book club! Join us for laughs, insights, and all the good vibes. Remember to double-check your podcast subscriptions, and don’t forget to send us a voice note – we love hearing from you!

00:00 Welcome to another ep!

01:58 Shout Out Corner

11:26 Coffee Break

36:00 Get into the Chapter!

37:16 The Stigma and Evolution of Therapy

39:05 Personal Therapy Experiences

40:37 Finding the Right Therapist

56:04 Therapy and Medication

01:02:27 Community Insights on Therapy

01:13:07 Concluding Thoughts and Next Episode Preview

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S5 EP 7: What About Your Friends Jul 17, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #5 of Black Girl IRL, Sometimes You'll Lose Your Ride or Die. In this episode, we're diving into the highs and lows of friendship breakups. We've got some exciting news about our online book club community on Bookum, and we're inviting all of you to our season 5 anniversary party at basic. in Birmingham on July 26th. Plus, don't forget about our amazing partners and exclusive discount codes just for you! Grab your favorite drink, hit play, and let's get into it!

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Anniversary Party Invite- https://createcards.io/card/swr-turns-five?lang=en_us

Bookum Book Club- https://app.bookumapp.com/clubs/668ad565858c97a7faafafb1?tab=about

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

01:35 Shoutout Corner

05:41 Coffee Break

19:01 Get into the Chapter

20:18 The Fizzling Out of Friendships

28:14 Stages of Friendship Breakup Grief

29:35 Acceptance and Moving On

37:46 Grieving the Loss of Friendships

38:57 Finding New Friendships

42:00 Wrapping Up and Announcements

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S5 EP 6: Clock It! Jul 10, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #4 of Black Girl IRL, You may be the Side Chick, Rebound, or other Non-Priority Role. In this episode, we spill the tea about being halfway through the book and how time flies when you’re having fun (or maybe just getting too deep into the chapters). But it’s not all fun and games; we get real about relationships and the signs that you might be settling for less than you deserve. We discuss everything from the importance of clear titles in relationships to the red flags of someone being missing in action. And yes, if it looks like a mess and smells like a mess, it’s probably a mess—let’s not ignore those intuition vibes, ladies! Join us for some laughs, some serious talk, and as always, a lot of fun. Were you clocked during this episode? Got any stories to share? Hit us up at shewellread@gmail.com.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

03:11 Shout Out Corner

07:33 Coffee Break

27:00 Get Into the Chapter

30:26 Black Women's Intuition and Psychic Experiences

35:09 Defining Relationships and Setting Boundaries

46:37 The Importance of Clear Communication

01:01:33 Embracing Solitude and Self-Reflection

01:03:53 Conclusion and Next Week's Preview

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S5 EP 5: But Daddy I Love Him! Jul 03, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #3 of Black Girl IRL, (Successful) Dating is Just Simple Math. We get real about our own dating experiences and share some hilarious behind-the-scenes moments. We also take a trip down memory lane with our favorite library memories and introduce the Black Girl IRL Partner Rating System. From evaluating a partner based on appearance, money, goals, and location to sharing laughs about shower cries and the return of Limited Too, we cover it all!

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00:00 Introduction and Host Banter

02:16 Shout Out Corner

04:58 Coffee Break

23:56 Get Into the Chapter

32:09 The Math of Dating

35:26 Loving Yourself First

38:33 Navigating Relationship Challenges

53:12 Trusting Your Intuition

01:13:12 Concluding Thoughts and Next Week's Preview

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S5 EP 4: Summertime Sadness Jun 26, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we discuss truth #2 of Black Girl IRL, Self-Care Isn't Selfish. We're diving deep into the essence of self-care—what it means, why it’s essential, and how to integrate it into our busy lives. From discussing the guilt and challenges of prioritizing self-care to sharing practical tips on sleep quality and alone time, we cover it all. Whether you're struggling with setting boundaries, looking for ways to ask for help, or just need a reminder that self-care isn’t selfish, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in and join the conversation—your self-care journey starts here!

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Behind the Silk- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/behind-the-silk-a-self-care-journey/id1695940812

00:00 Welcome Back to She Well Read!

02:22 Shout Out Corner and Announcements

04:48 Coffee Break

25:29 Behind the Silk Podcast Trailer

26:28 Get into the chapter

25:15 The Importance of Self-Care

34:30 Finding the Perfect Time for Self-Care

38:35 The Healing Power of Art and Music

44:50 Asking for Help and Avoiding Burnout

53:01 Redefining Success and the Importance of Sleep

01:01:49 Unapologetic Self-Care and Setting Boundaries

01:08:06 Closing Thoughts and Listener Engagement

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SWR Minisode: The Gateway Gays with Author Haley Jakobson Jun 24, 2024

Hey well read baddies, welcome to another #Pride365 minisode! Today we are joined by author and writer, Haley Jakobson to discuss her book 'Old Enough,' which follows the journey of a bisexual college sophomore navigating friendships, self-discovery, and trauma. Our discussion covers the importance of fem friendships, representation in media, and the nuances of queer identity. Don't miss this enriching and heartfelt conversation!

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S5 EP 3: The Truth of it All Jun 19, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we are silenced! Lol jk but we tackle truth #1 of Black Girl IRL, Silence is Your Superpower. From dealing with unrealistic expectations to learning the strength in saying 'no,' we dive into the power of silence and how it serves as a superpower. We discuss the importance of recharging, setting boundaries, and the pressures faced by black women in society. We also highlight the power of delegation, self-worth beyond achievements, and the need to break the cycle of overexertion. Tune in to learn how to harness your own superpower of silence and embrace a more balanced life!

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00:00 Welcome Back to She Well Read!

02:45 Pride Month Vibes and Gemini Season

04:29 Shout Out Corner

09:32 Coffee Break

27:46 Get into the Chapter

31:12 Balancing Self-Care and Expectations

31:37 The Burden of Being the Blueprint

32:18 Learning to Delegate and Let Go

32:51 The Exhaustion of Overachievement

33:49 The Importance of Prioritizing Tasks

36:07 Finding Validation and Self-Worth

39:39 The Power of Silence and Recharging

42:21 Managing Expectations and Boundaries

49:14 The Reality of Work and Personal Life

01:00:48 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview

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S5 EP 2: Black Women Are the Blueprint Jun 12, 2024

Hey well read baddies! On today's episode, we're diving into the introduction of of Black Girl IRL. Join us as we discuss the importance of celebrating our everyday, non-glamorous lives as Black women. We also dish on social media authenticity, some juicy celebrity drama, and Lana even shares her experience at the Megan Thee Stallion concert. It's all about real talk, good vibes, and celebrating us being us. So grab your book and let's get into it!

Bella Noches- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkUGFTLj8_U

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:51 Shout Out Corner

01:40 Voice Notes and Social Media

03:22 Megan Thee Stallion Concert Drama

22:58 Getting Into the Book

26:07 The Pressure of Social Media Authenticity

33:15 The Struggle for Authenticity in Black Women's Lives

35:11 Celebrating Everyday Moments

50:40 The Influence of Everyday Black Women

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S5 EP 1: She's Just Like Me For Real Jun 05, 2024

Hey well read baddies!!!! We are thrilled to be back with a new season of the podcast! We're excited to introduce our book for Season 5, 'Black Girl IRL: Life Between the Mess and the Magic,' selected by you all in our book vote. In this episode, we talk about our amazing partners for the season, share personal life updates, and discuss our recent reads. We are so pumped to be back and reading with you all!

00:00 Welcome Back to She Well Read!

01:31 The Shift to Audio-Only

03:22 Season 5 Excitement and New Listeners

04:44 Shout Out Corner

13:30 Coffee Break: Life Updates and Pop Culture

22:04 Favorite Authors and Recent Reads

26:30 Balancing Content Creation and Personal Life

42:42 Upcoming Season and Book Introduction

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SWR Minisode: Send Noods! with Writer and Artist Abbey Crain May 06, 2024

Hey well read baddies, welcome to another minisode! Today we are joined by Abbey Crain, a journalist, author, and artist from Birmingham, Alabama, to discuss a range of topics including IVF, reproductive rights, and Abbey's journey into art. Abbey shares her personal experience with IVF, talks about the impact of recent legal changes in Alabama on reproductive rights, and how these issues have intersected with her life and work. The conversation also touches on Abbey's artistic exploration of the female form through nude portraits, empowering women by reimagining their self-perception through art. Through sharing her story, Abbey hopes to de-stigmatize discussions around reproductive health and encourage others to raise their voices for change.

00:00 Welcome to She Well Red: Introducing Abbey Crain

02:40 Abbey Crain: A Journalist's Journey and Battling Imposter Syndrome

07:04 From Fashion to Frontlines: Abbey's Evolution in Journalism

11:19 The Power of Emotion and the Impact of Journalism

22:03 Exploring IVF, Reproductive Rights, and Personal Stories

25:36 Abbey's IVF Journey Amidst Legal Challenges

30:08 The Emotional Toll of IVF Restrictions

31:35 Navigating the Complexities of IVF and Legal Challenges

33:47 The Impact of Legislation on Personal Lives and Reproductive Rights

38:48 Exploring the Importance of Voting and Political Engagement

45:25 Personal Stories and the Power of Community Action

54:31 Art as a Form of Expression and Healing

01:04:24 Closing Thoughts and Future Hopes

Abbey's site- https://www.abbeycrain.com/

Abbey's substack- https://sendnudes.substack.com/

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SWR Minisode: Get in the Booth! with Author Winnifred Tataw Apr 22, 2024

Hey well read baddies, welcome to another #Black365 minisode! Today we are joined by the multi-talented author and entrepreneur, Winnifred Tataw, for a deep dive into the art of storytelling and the nuances of self-publishing. Winnie, the creative force behind Win's Books LLC, shares her journey from loving art and writing to building a literature media conglomerate. We got a behind-the-scenes look at Winnie's process from writing to publishing, and the challenges and triumphs of making a standalone book evolve into a captivating series. The conversation also covers practical advice for budding authors on marketing, dealing with criticism, and managing a burgeoning small business. Winnie's refreshing perspective shines a light on the dedication behind self-publishing and fostering a community of authors and readers. Don't miss this episode full of insights, laughter, and tips from the pink-glittery world of Winnie.

00:00 Welcome to She Well Read!

01:00 Meet Winnie: Author and Entrepreneur

01:45 The Birth of Win's Books LLC

06:15 The Journey from Solo Author to Publishing Powerhouse

06:43 Navigating the World of Self-Publishing

09:26 Expanding Beyond the Page: The Growth of Win's Books

12:05 From College to Bestselling Author: Winnie's Unexpected Path

16:54 The Creative Process and Future Projects

23:00 Embracing Feedback and the Evolution of Writing

26:06 The Impact of Fan Fiction and Creative Freedom

27:40 Navigating Criticism and Social Media as an Artist

29:12 Choosing Your Battles: The Art of Response

29:37 The Publishing Company's Approach to Criticism

33:12 Marketing Missteps: A Case Study on a Misunderstood Movie

35:27 The Importance of Accurate Marketing in Creative Spaces

44:31 Fantasy Worlds and Future Projects

The book- https://amzn.to/3Qrno9Y

Winnie's site- https://winsbooks.blog/

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SWR Minisode: Words That Bind Us with Author Dhayana Alejandrina Apr 08, 2024

Hey well read baddies, welcome to another #Black365 minisode! Today we sit down with poet, community facilitator, and creative writing mentor Dhayana Alejandrina to discuss her life journey and the power of storytelling. Dhayana shares her experiences of moving from the Dominican Republic to the United States, her passion for uniting people through writing, and the transformative nature of self-expression. She also delves into her inspiration from her parents, the challenge of switching languages, and her process of becoming comfortable with her own voice. The conversation highlights Dhayana's upcoming poetry book, her new role, and her initiative to create communal creative spaces.

00:00 Welcome to She Well Read: Introducing Dhayana Alejandrina

01:07 Dhayana's Journey: From the Dominican Republic to Poet and Mentor

03:15 The Roots of Creativity: Family Influence and Early Writing

04:14 Navigating New Identities: Transitioning to Life in the U.S.

05:33 The Power of Storytelling and Community Building

08:09 Embracing the Digital Age: The Shift in Communication

09:23 Travel and Storytelling: Gaining Perspective Through Cultures

10:17 The Evolution of Writing: From Personal Journals to Public Sharing

22:38 Facing Fears and Finding Community: The Journey to Publishing

27:20 Agridulce: Unveiling the Inspiration Behind the Book

27:36 Unveiling the Inspiration Behind 'Agridulce'

29:56 The Evolution of a Book Title

33:33 The Creative Process and Spiritual Journey

35:02 Embracing Vulnerability and Self-Discovery

37:52 The Role of Creativity in Personal Growth

39:01 New Ventures: Leading at Freak Noir Magazine

39:15 Creating Opportunities for Emerging Writers

42:43 Reflecting on the Oscars and the Importance of Support

45:23 Upcoming Projects and How to Connect

The book- https://amzn.to/3Qrno9Y

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SWR Minisode: New Year, New Me and Season 5 Updates! Mar 25, 2024

Hey well read baddies! Welcome in to all of our new and returning listeners! Disclaimer: we are still working out the kinks of Sam's new mic so please forgive us!! On today's episode, Lana and Sam are catching up with you all on all of the things including... the season 5 book vote! Y'all ready for season 5?! Be sure to cast your vote by Wednesday, April 3rd using the link below.

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SWR Minisode: F the Fairy Tale! with Author Damona Hoffman Mar 11, 2024

Hey well read baddies, welcome to another #Black365 minisode! Today we welcome back beloved guest, Damona Hoffman, to talk about her new book 'F the Fairytale: Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story'. Damona, a seasoned dating and relationship coach based in Los Angeles, opens up about her transition from a dating profile writer to a love expert featured on the Drew Barrymore show and other prominent platforms. The episode takes a deep dive into redefining love beyond societal and media-imposed narratives, the importance of being realistic in dating, and finding joy and magic in relationships. Damona discusses the evolution of dating norms, especially post-pandemic, and how individuals can navigate love and relationships in the digital age. She emphasizes the significance of personal discovery, emotional management, and the potential of each person to create their own love story, encapsulating her experiences and insights from a 20-year career in fostering connections.

00:00 Introduction and Welcoming the Guest

01:00 Revisiting Past Conversations and Updates

01:42 Introducing Damona Hoffman and Her Work

03:16 Discussing Awards and Recognitions

04:14 Breaking Down the Book Title and Its Inspiration

04:31 Understanding the Concept of 'F the Fairytale'

06:59 Exploring Common Dating Myths

09:30 The Importance of Mindset in Dating

10:04 The Role of Choice in Relationships

10:47 Personal Stories and Reflections on Relationships

13:20 The Science Behind Love and Relationships

15:49 The Impact of Social Media and Dating Apps

23:12 The Reality of Long-Term Relationships

36:46 Exploring Non-Monogamy and Relationship Choices

39:07 Exploring Infidelity Statistics

40:26 The Importance of Trust in Relationships

40:55 The Rise of Non-Monogamy

41:51 The Importance of Honesty and Communication

42:09 Understanding the Relationship Escalator

43:49 The Impact of the Pandemic on Relationships

46:44 The Importance of Adaptation in Relationships

47:33 The Reality of Breakups

01:03:59 The Future of Dating and Love

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SWR Minisode: Unveiling the Ghosts of Segregation with Authors Richard Frishman and Brian Foster Feb 19, 2024

Hey well read baddies, welcome to another #Black365 minisode! Today we engage in a deep and enlightening conversation with the creators of the book, 'Ghosts of Segregation: American Racism Hidden in Plain Sight.' The discussion involves photographer Richard 'Rich' Frishman and author Dr. Brian Foster. They discuss the concept of their book touching upon the profound connection between places with racial significance across the United States and the prevalence of racism in today's society. Both guests share their perspectives, their journey with the book, and the need for society to confront and comprehend the distant and recent past to address present racial inequities.

00:39 Introduction and Welcoming Guests

02:24 Introducing the Book: Ghost of Segregation

03:33 Guest Introductions: Rich Frishman and Dr. Brian Foster

06:32 The Journey of Creating the Book

12:57 The Surprising Discoveries During the Journey

16:11 Discussing the Impact of Racism Across the United States

24:59 The Power of Nostalgia and Responsibility

31:44 Exploring Time Travel and Racial History

32:48 Nostalgia and the American Road Trip

33:30 The Dark Side of Americana

35:41 Confronting Ignorance and Racism

40:10 The Struggle for Authentic Representation

52:20 The Role of Art and Literature in Social Change

58:23 Looking Towards the Future

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SWR Minisode: 2023 Wrapped! Dec 18, 2023

Hey well read baddies! On today's minisode, Lana and Samra wrap up 2023 for SWR and give some updates on what's to come for year 5! Y'all ready for the new season?! Be sure to give us your feedback and some book suggestions for season 5 using the survey link below. Happy Holidays baddies!

Link to survey- https://forms.gle/4RkqCJj54H7tTv7W8

The Q&A episode- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/she-well-read/id1506524661?i=1000596437447

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SWR Minisode: Hi Barbie! and Summer Renaissance Nov 20, 2023

Hey well read baddies, welcome to another Minisode Monday! Today we are releasing one of our favorite patreon episodes all about the Barbie movie and our Renaissance concert experience! We wanted to give you all an inside look as to what these exclusive minisodes sound like in hopes that you'll consider joining our patreon! We release new minisodes at the end of every month in addition to monthly Q&A calls with Lana and Samra, discounts on merch (coming soon!!) and more! If you'd like to join, please use the link below. We'd love to have you and be sure to share this episode with a friend!

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