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#351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure - with Keeley Rankin Oct 17, 2023

Show notes

How can mindfulness lead to more pleasure, better orgasms and deeper connection with lovers? Is meditation the same as mindfulness? How do mindfulness and fantasy work together? Can I be present and fantasize at the same time? What are some key tips and tools for mastering mindfulness in the bedroom?

About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. She specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples and has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created a Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com

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#350 Codependency, Sex on the First Date, and Finding "The One" - with The Love Fix Podcast Oct 10, 2023

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What is codependency, where does it come from, and how does it show up in both casual and long term relationships? How can people work on their codependency? What about dating? What are some of the top mistakes people often make when dating while really wanting a relationship? What if I'm casually dating while looking for my longterm partner? Are there top do's and don'ts...like should I not have sex on the first date? And what do I do if I meet someone I want to dive deeper with? How and when should I share this with them, and how can I manage my fear or feelings of rejection?

About our guests: Sherry Gaba, LCSW, is a licensed psychotherapist, life coach, author of Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love. She helps people cope with codependency, love addiction, narcissistic abuse, and mental health issues.

As a leading expert on codependency and toxic relationships, Sherry’s TV appearances include: Vh1’s Celebrity Rehab, CNN, Inside Edition, the Robert Irvine Show and Access Live, E! News, among others. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s World, the LA Times, Thrive Global, the New York Post, Zoosk, Psychology Today, Marriage.com and other leading publications. She has also been a guest on many SiriusXM radio shows.

Sherry is the founder of Wake-Up Recovery for Codependency and Toxic Relationships, an online group coaching program for codependents, love addicts and victims of narcissistic abuse.

Carla Romo is an author of Contagious Love, speaker and a certified life coach specializing in dating and relationships. At age 24, she hit her rock bottom with yet another toxic codependent relationship. But, this time, she got up and learned how to break free from codependency. Inspired by her self-growth journey, she took lemons and made lemonade. Today she helps people build a confident relationship within so they can thrive in all aspects of their life.

Carla leads nationwide workshops and talks to people from varying backgrounds. Her work ranges from small group settings to hundreds of attendees either in person or virtual. She has been featured on or partnered with Simon Business School, Milwaukee Bucks, BRAVO, Bumble, Lifetime, Bustle, The Knot, as well as high rated iTunes Podcasts. Carla attended the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC) becoming a Certified Professional Coach and an Energy Leadership Master Practitioner. To learn more visit https://thelovefix.com

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#349 Fantasies, Batin' and Continuous Datin' (to End Sex Ruts) - with The Horny Housewife Oct 03, 2023

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In the last couple of week's we've talked about sexless relationships and how to keep the fire burning in long-term partnerships, and now we are continuing the conversation with the hilarious and knowledgable Horny Housewife - specifically on "sex ruts". What is a "sex rut", why does it happen, and what can couple's do to get out of it? How can implementing sexual fantasies shift the rut? Why is “dating your spouse” so important? And does batin' aka self-pleasure really help with sex ruts and lead to better sex?

About our guest: Jordyn Hakes is a Washington-based sex and marriage expert, wife, mom, and host of the top-ranking podcast, The Horny Housewife. Through her quick-witted humor and no-nonsense approach to sex and relationships, Jordyn offers listeners an honest and open look into the complexities of sex, marriage, society, and culture. She is passionate about helping others find more pleasure and playfulness in their relationships and sex lives while creating an inviting and supportive environment where individuals can explore their desires without judgment or shame. Listeners can also unlock a new level of foreplay and explore new worlds of intimacy with Jordyn's Patreon, where you can subscribe and listen to erotica read aloud, support the podcast, and discover the written humor and frank advice, Jordyn brings sex talk – from the basics to your wildest fantasies – out of the locker room and into your living room. An influential voice in the community and across social media, her expertise has been featured in Women's Health and Cosmopolitan. To learn more visit thehornyhousewifepodcast.com.

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#348 How to Keep the Flame Blazing in Longterm Relationships - with Dr. Alison Ash Sep 26, 2023

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What are some common obstacles that contribute to couples losing the spark over time? What are some of the ways couples experience pressure around sex, where does it come from, and how can they overcome it? What skill are most important for couples to learn so they can bring sexy back and rekindle the flame, as well as keep that flame burning in the long run? What about sex, longterm relationships and parenting? What are some things that can be helpful for parents to consider? How about when shit hits the fan and the relationship feels like a mess? What can couples do when things go awry?

About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love

Click here to learn more about Dr. Aly's Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game 4 week course for couples, starting October, 2023. Use the discount code LoveShamelessSex for $100 off.

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On-demand workshops

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Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders).

Other links:

Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless

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Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

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#347 Say BYE to Sexless Marriages and Relationships - with Alicia and Erwan Davon Sep 19, 2023

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What does it mean to be in a “sexless" relationship? Why do so many people in long-term relationships, especially marriage, start having less sex? What are some things that a lot of people do in relationships that are not helpful in keeping the fire burning? What are some ways couples can reignite the fire? And what if one partner is unwilling to shift this or says “this is just how I am, I’m just fine the way it is"? What can couples with mismatched desires/libidos do?

About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.

Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. Text 415 308 9580 or go to https://erwandavon.com/consult/ to learn more or book a session.

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Bonus Episode: Shameless Sex with 4 Humans, 1 Mic, and F*ck Yeah Podcast Sep 15, 2023

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This episode features two humans from one of our new favorite podcasts called F*ck Yeah. We shamelessly discuss everything from what we've learned from past relationships, moving on after breakups and divorce (and cheating/affairs), our latest and hottest sexual revelations, non-monogamy, and so much more. Not only is this episode extra special as it was recorded by four badass podcasters poolside while sipping wine in bathing suits, but also because we at Shameless Sex forgot some of our recording equipment, so we all had to share one mic! Enjoy!

About our guests: Sarah Tomchesson and Robin Jennings, co-hosts of the bold, feminist podcast F*ck Yeah, have spent most of their adult lives advocating for sexual liberation through their sex ed work, their art, and how they live their lives. With the help of experts (and all-around interesting people, they are on a mission to disrupt traditional ideas about sexuality, intimate relationships, the patriarchy, parenthood, and femininity. F*ck Yeah tackles topics ranging from sex-positive parenting to leather families with irreverence, nuance, compassion and curiosity. Follow @fuckyeahpod to join the search for radical (self) acceptance as we explore taboos and the beautifully messy parts of this human experience. And be sure to subscribe, follow and listen to F*ck Yeah on your favorite podcast app

#346 Swinging, Gangbangs, and Why the Lifestyle Might Be Your Jam - with The Swing Nation Podcast Sep 12, 2023

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What is “the lifestyle” aka swinging, and how do people get into it? Why do a lot of people enjoy swinging? What makes it so hot and fulfilling? Are key parties a part of it or still a thing? How can newbies dip their toes into the lifestyle in a way that feels really good for everyone? What about jealousy? How can people deal with it when it comes up? Swinging experts Dan and Lacy of the Swing Nation Podcast answer all this and more.

About our guests: Dan and Lacy are Podcasters and Social Media influencers who look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. To learn more go to theswingnation.net

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#345 It's Time to Get to Know Your Prostate - with Forrest Andrews of Aneros Sep 05, 2023

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What is the prostate, where is it located, and what does it do? Why is it important for penis owners to be in touch with their prostates? How does the prostate tie into sexual pleasure? Is it a sensory organ? Can it really lead multiple orgasms? Repeat guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and so much more.

About our guest: Forrest Andrews has been one of our regular guests on Shameless sex and we’re delighted to have him back with us again. For those of you who aren’t familiar with Aneros, they are the originators of handsfree, self-powered, anally driven prostate massagers. This is a product that amplifies the strength of ejaculations and unlocks the door to a different kind of experience… a very powerful whole-body orgasm. Forrest is Aneros’ Director of Product Development and a true expert on all things prostate. To learn more visit aneros.com

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#343 Everything You Want to Know About Pu$$y Pleasing - with Stirling Cooper Aug 22, 2023

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This episode is a collaboration with the amazing Stirling Cooper where he shares his wealth of knowledge about pussy pleasing, while Amy and April share their own understandings as pussy owners. Together they cover many sexy topics including foreplay, hands and finger techniques, oral sex, PIV sex, dirty talk, navigating mismatched libidos, and so much more.

About our guest: Stirling Cooper is an Award Winning Australian Adult Entertainment Actor. Born in rural Western Australia Stirling started off his Adult Entertainment career in 2017 shooting for smaller studios based in Melbourne, Australia. He then moved to the United Kingdom and used his experience and connections to get his foot in the door in the British Adult Entertainment industry, shooting for numerous large studios throughout 2017. His career started to really kick into gear in the beginning of 2018 when he shot his first scene for Brazzers in 2018 and after that was flown out to Budapest, Hungary to shoot for other MindGeek brands like Babes. He stayed in Europe for several months working between Budapest, Hungary and Prague, Czech Republic building a lot of momentum and gaining tremendous experience after being cast by big names like Rocco Siffredi and the FakeHub Network.

Stirling’s life prior to Porn wasn’t exactly innocent either, he spent several years in Australia working as a High-Class Male Companion where he would ‘service’ wealthy business women and fulfill live cuckold fantasies for desiring couples. Prior to that line of work he was also involved in the Swinging scene and the PUA scene.

Stirling now uses his wealth of experience as a professional sex machine to teach men how to improve their own sex lives and through his Youtube channel he also helps enlighten men on the virtues of living an unapologetically masculine life.

“His nominations include 2018 UKAP Awards Best Male Newcoming, 2018 UKAP Awards Best Male Pornstar, 2019 AVN Awards Best Male Newcomer, 2019 AVN Awards Best Foreign Sex Scene, 2019 Urban X Awards Best Male Newcomer, 2021 AVN Awards Best Actor (Featurette), 2021 AVN Awards Best Supporting Actor, 2021 Xbiz Awards Best Sex Scene (Gonzo), 2022 AVN Awards Best Supporting Actor, 2022 AVN Awards Best Foursome/Orgy Sex Scene.”

In 2020 he received the XRCO (X-Rated Film Critics Organization) Best New Male Stud Award and has received numerous award nominations already in his relatively short adult industry career. The next big step in Stirling’s Porn career was to make waves in the USA and he made a big impact the moment he landed in 2019, being picked up by Kink.com as one of their regular male talents and receiving numerous award nominations in his first year in the American porn scene. He has fast become one of the most respected, reliable and sought-after male performers in the industry and his career in the USA continues to flourish. He has since shot for all the big name brands in the Adult Entertainment Industry such as Evil Angel, Naughty America, Brazzers, Babes, Digital Playground, Realty Kings, TeamSkeet, Kink, New Sensations, Wicked, HardX, EroticaX, ScoreGroup, Penthouse, Hustler, PureTaboo, Zero Tolerance, Bellesa, LustCinema, Devils Films, MissaX and PervCity. Be sure to check out his work here:

youtube.com/stirlingcooper

twitter.com/stirlingwisdom

instagram.com/cooperstirling

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