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#360 Stepparent Fantasies, Daddy/Bratty Girl Dynamics, and Age Play - with Heather Shannon Dec 19, 2023

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What are “kink roles”? What is age play? Why are some people into age play and what do they get out of it? What if someone wants to bring age play into the bedroom? Where do they start and how can they talk to their partners about it?

About our guest: Heather Shannon is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist who helps queer, kinky and/or non-monogamous people explore who they are as sexual beings and how they want to show up in their relationships. In private practice since 2011, she’s helped thousands of clients experience more freedom and authenticity in their sex lives than ever before.

Heather has her Master’s in Counseling from Loyola University Chicago, is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and has a Certificate in Sexual Health from the University of Michigan. Additionally, she is trained as an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, Shambhala Meditation Guide, and Integrative Health Coach. Drawing upon her holistic training, she tailors her work to each client and offers an intersectional approach factoring in their unique background and life experiences.

Heather serves as a Sex and Relationship “Pro” for the Peanut, a social media app that serves over 2.5M women. Each month, she answers user questions on everything from threesomes to low libidos. Heather has been featured in publications such as Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health and Self Magazine as well as on podcasts like The Horny Housewife, Curious Girl Diaries and The Multi-Orgasmic Millionaire. She lives in St. Petersburg, FL. To learn more visit heathershannon.co

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#359 Is Porn (or Sex) Addiction Real? - with Gigi Engle Dec 12, 2023

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What are the pros and cons of watching porn? How can porn enhance someone's (sex) life, and how is it harmful? Is porn or sex addiction real? How might someone know they have an issue with viewing porn? What if I feel like porn is affecting my sexual and personal life and I want to work on it? Also, does the type of porn I watch matter? And if I once had an issue with porn does this mean I can never watch it again? The brilliant Gigi Engle answers all this and more.

About our guest: Gigi Engle, ACS, COSRTreg., GSRD-accred., is a London-based, certified sex and relationships psychotherapist, sex educator and author of All The F*cking MIstakes. Her work regularly appears in many publications including Cosmo, Glamour, Men's Health, and Refinery29. In 2019, she was named Journalist of The Year at The Sexual Freedom Awards and in 2023, she was nominated for the XBIZ Sexpert of the Year award.

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#358 Why You Should F*** First (and other sex tips) - with Dan Savage Dec 05, 2023

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We are on a roll for all-time fangirl moments! In this episode we interview podcast icon Dan Savage of the Savage LoveCast! We learn all about the changes in the field of human sexuality Dan has witnessed as a sex columnist since the 90’s (and podcaster since 2006), as well as his thoughts on the ever-shifting language around sex, gender and orientation. We also explore various terms in his latest book Savage Love From A to Z including DTMFA, Fuck First, GGG, Monogamish, secret perving, and why Dan's top sex and relationship advice is to ask your partner “What are you into?”.

About our guest: Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, a podcaster, an author, and has appeared on numerous television shows.

“Savage Love,” Dan’s sex-advice column, first appeared in The Stranger, Seattle’s alternative weekly, in 1991. The column is now syndicated worldwide. Dan has published seven books.

In 2006, Dan launched the Savage Lovecast, a weekly, call-in, sex advice podcast. It has 300,000 unique monthly downloads and 100,000 paying subscribers for premium “Magnum” content. It ranks consistently in the top ten Sexuality podcasts on Apple Podcasts.

He created and curates the HUMP! Film Festival, a sex-positive showcase of short films, now in its 18th year. HUMP! has become a national phenomenon selling tens of thousands of tickets, screening in over 50 cities across the United States and Canada and streaming worldwide.

In 2010 Dan and his husband Terry Miller founded the It Gets Better Project. The IGBP has gathered tens of thousands of videos from people all over the world offering hope to LGBT kids. The book—It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living—was a New York Times best seller. In 2012 the It Gets Better Project was awarded an Emmy.

Dan’s graphic, pragmatic, and humorous advice has changed the cultural conversation about sex, monogamy, gay rights, religiosity, and politics. To learn more go to savage.love

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Bonus Episode: Come Have Witchy Orgasms With Us! Dec 01, 2023

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This episode was recorded during Shameless Sex Podcast's first women's retreat in Costa Rica. We talk all about how to extend orgasms, anal sex safety, witchy "orgasms", and finding sexy like-minded community - all via questions and comments from actual retreat participants.

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#357 DTF, Dirty Talk, and Is Anal a Big Ask? - with Double Teamed Podcast Nov 28, 2023

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In this episode four badass women come together from Double Teamed and Shameless Sex podcasts to talk all things casual sex, anal sex, DTF, secondary erogenous zones, dirty talk, non-monogamy, kink, cheating and affairs, cone dicks, spitting during sex, and beyond. Get ready to laugh and learn while getting Double Teamed by Shameless Sex.

About our guests: Double Teamed Podcast is on a mission to bring awareness to non-monogamy, kink, and sexuality and help make these taboo subjects more understood and accepted by our younger generations. Cami & Niki love to get honest and vulnerable with their listeners, discussing their experiences in open relationships, dating, Dominance & submission, and sex parties. Find them anywhere you listen to podcasts and across your favorite social media platforms. To learn more visit doubleteamedpodcast.com

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#356 Sex Toys with the Queen - with Dr. Carol Queen Nov 21, 2023

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Another major fan girl moment for Shameless Sex! In this episode we interview another one of our idles, Dr. Carol Queen. If you thought April was a sex toy mogul then be prepared to be wowed by the queen of sex toys and sex education. In this episode we discuss the meaning of sex-positivity, the evolution of pleasure products and sex ed, as well as our top recommendations for toys and lube. And the best part? We had the honor of recording this episode in the Antique Vibrator Museum at San Francisco's Good Vibrations!

About our guest: Dr. Carol Queen is a writer and cultural sexologist with a Ph.D. in human sexuality. Queen is active on behalf of progressive sex education and sexual diversity and has been speaking and writing about non-mainstream sexualities, from lesbian to leather, for over 35 years. Queen also works as staff sexologist, company historian, and curator of the Antique Vibrator Museum at Good Vibrations, the women-founded sex toy and bookstore in San Francisco. To learn more click here or visit carolqueen.com

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#355 Sexual Mastery (for Dudes) From an Adult Film Star Turned Coach - with Erik Everhard Nov 14, 2023

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What did working as an adult film star teach Erik Everhard about sexual mastery? Can porn teach someone to become a great lover? Why is the path to mastery is as much strategy as it is skill? What's the ultimate move or skill a man can master in the bedroom? Why is knowing when to pivot so important? And how does getting creative with different archetypes lead to different moods in the bedroom? Repeat guest and sexual master Erik Everhard answers all this and more.

About our guest: Erik Everhard is an author, men’s coach, and former adult film star who specializes in teaching men to recognize and master the primary cues responsible for making 85 percent of women reach the holy grail of sexual interactions: orgasm. His teachings are grounded in practical knowledge, mental tactics, and strategic positions. Holding a master’s-level certification in neuro-linguistic programming and having more than 5000 real-world sexual interactions with women allows him a unique perspective which enables his clients to overcome their limiting beliefs and performance issues, and become masters in the bedroom. To learn more visit everhardacademy.com

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#354 Becoming Multi-Orgasmic (for Penis Owners) - with Destin Gerek Nov 07, 2023

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Can penis owners really have multiple orgasms in one sexual experience? If so, why have so many men never experienced it? What are the pleasure benefits of learning to have multiple orgasms? Are there health benefits as well? How can penis owners learn to have multiple orgasms? Is it hard to do? And where do they start? What if someone starts to practice learning how to have multiple orgasms but isn’t seeing any shifts. And what if my penis owning partner is multi-orgasmic and I (say a pussy owner) am not. Can I learn to have multiple orgasms the same way they can? Repeat guest Destin Gerek answers all this and more.

About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized author, speaker, and coach in masculinity, sexual self-mastery, and personal empowerment. Destin isthefounder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves. He routinely writes and lectures on men’s and women’s sexuality, relationships, porn addiction, premature ejaculation, multiple orgasms for men and women, circumcision, embodied trauma, and more.

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#353 Meet the Trailblazing Pornographer (Formerly Butt Girl) - with Tristan Taormino Oct 31, 2023

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Fan girl moment! In this episode we interview one of our idles, Tristan Taormino. We learn all about her life from her upbringing to what lead her to become a trailblazing feminist pornographer and why she's proudly known as Butt Girl. Tristan also shares advice for folks who want to watch ethical porn, as well as how to navigate shame around being turned on by rough or objectifying imagery or fantasies. Get ready to laugh, learn, and listen to an inspiring life story!

About our guest: Tristan Taormino is a writer, speaker, sex educator, and host of the podcast Sex Out Loud. A former syndicated columnist for The Village Voice, she is the author of numerous books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, Down and Dirty Sex Secrets, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, and her recent memoir A Part of the Heart Can’t Be Eaten. She is the founding editor of the annual Best Lesbian Erotica anthologies, editor of The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play, and the Erotic Edge, and coeditor of The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure. Taormino has won four Lambda Literary Awards and eight Feminist Porn Awards, among other awards. She lives in Los Angeles. To learn more go to tristantaormino.com

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#352 Bisexuality with the Boyslut - with Zachary Zane Oct 24, 2023

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In this playful and deliciously provocative episode brilliant writer, sex expert and activist Zachary Zane joins us to discuss all things bisexuality. We dive into everything from the differences between bisexuality to other orientations to Zachary's own journey in uncovering and embodying his ultimate bi (and often empowered slutty) self.

About our guest: Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto and co-author of Men’s Health: Best. Sex. Ever. He writes “Sexplain It,” the sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health, and “Navigating Non-Monogamy,” the polyamorous relationship column at Cosmopolitan. He is editor-in-chief of the BOYSLUT Zine, which publishes nonfiction erotica from kinksters across the globe. His work has been featured in New York Times, Rolling Stone, Washington Post, Playboy, and more. To learn more go to zacharyzane.com

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