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Am I The Asshole? I’m a Pillow Princess Sep 29, 2023

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We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation. Is there any way to meet in the middle? A self-professed "pillow princess" writes in, is she the asshole for wanting to receive pleasure – but not give it? Finally, they’re in a dead bedroom of 10 years. “She’s repulsed by my touch” he writes, but is he really asserting himself to make healthy changes? You decide.

Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.

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Show Notes:

How to Master Lotus Position
How To Meditate, Masturbate, Manifest Like a Pro
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Gummies Sample)
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Uplevel Your Orgasm w/ Susan Bratton Sep 26, 2023

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Orgasms are learned skills. So says bestselling author and sex expert Susan Bratton, who teaches couples and individuals to have more collaborative, orgasmic intercourse. Today, Susan and I answer your questions about being a better lover, erasing sexual shame, and, of course… having tons of orgasms. First: how do you help a partner who never orgasms during sex? Susan and I have ideas. Next, how do you train your G-spot for internal orgasms? We give you specific techniques to train your vaginal canal, and help make the area more engorged and responsive. How about Doggy Style – can the receiving partner orgasm more easily in this position? Susan talks through the Glissando Technique to help you out. We also talk through female ejaculatory pleasure and squirting, delayed ejaculation and much (much!) more.

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Show Notes:

The Best Sex Toys According To Your Zodiac Sign
Low-Lift Pleasure Hacks: 5 Everyday Items That Elevate Your Sex
Enigma Wave from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
BetterLover.com
More Susan Bratton: Instagram | Website
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: Orgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required) Sep 22, 2023

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So many of us follow a sex script that’s been handed to us. But is that script actually serving you? In this popular Best Of episode, I give you permission to let your favorite sexual behaviors lead the way, with tons of spicy ideas to play with. Sex isn’t just about P-in-V (penis in vagina) penetration. Yet, that’s what we often mean by “having sex.” Listen – penetration is great! But I have ideas for mutual masturbation, sensual massage, hand play, elevated oral and so much more. Play this episode, make a list of your favorites, then tailor your next sex session around your authentic desires.

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Show Notes:

The Best Sex Toys According To Your Zodiac Sign
Low-Lift Pleasure Hacks: 5 Everyday Items That Elevate Your Sex
Enigma Wave from LELO (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
4 Ways to Close the Orgasm Gap
First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How Often Should You Have Sex? & Other News Sep 19, 2023

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Ever wondered how often happy couples have sex? Or the little-known key to sexual satisfaction? In today’s Sex In The News episode, I reveal new research that answers both of these questions and a surprising new finding on who says “I love you” first. First, my Producer, Erica, and I look at a study on sexual frequency and the number of times per month couples have sex. Is it this often for you? Next, we dig into research on men saying “I love you” -- do you agree with our takeaway? We then get into amazing new research on mutual masturbation and give you easy ways to try it. Finally, we explore a study on sleep health and sex. Turns out, an orgasm might be more effective than sleeping pills.

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Show Notes:

The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette
5 Ways To Do It Doggy Style
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Mutual Masturbation & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Cuckolding & Kinky Sex Sep 15, 2023

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What are your sexual fantasies? No matter how unique (or not) your fantasies are, they teach us something about our needs. On today’s Hotline Calls show, we’re exploring fantasies and partner dynamics so we can get our needs met shame-free. First, cuckolding: when a partner, typically male, asks their partner, typically female, to have sex with another man. What if your partner wants it… but you’re not so sure? Next, living with your ex -- if you’re still not over them, how do you successfully connect with others? Later, when you’ve got a unique kink or fetish, how do you talk about it with your partner, especially if they’re freaked out? Is there any way to get that need met? Finally, when a partner says they’re not sexually attracted anymore, how do you call it quits and find the sex you deserve?

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette
5 Ways To Do It Doggy Style
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Am I The Asshole? I Wanted More Sex, So I Ended It Sep 12, 2023

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Welcome to "Am I The Asshole?" for sex and relationships! New to Sex With Emily, we weigh in on your AITA questions. First up: their marriage is on the rocks, but he wants a threesome. Is she the asshole for shutting it down? Next, his partner says she’s in pain during sex. Is he the asshole for not believing her? After that, she’s not into anal…but her partner really wants it. Is she the asshole for refusing? Next: mom just revealed she’s in a 24-hour BDSM relationship with dad. Is their daughter the asshole for freaking out?

I answer these questions and more today with my producer, Erica. Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

5 Hot, Consensual Ways to Practice Voyeurism
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Gummies Sample)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Are We Sexually Compatible? Sep 08, 2023

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Are you and your partner sexually compatible? That’s the theme of today’s Hotline Calls show, as my Producer and I break down these couples' sex and relationship issues. First, when your partner isn’t pleasuring you as much as you’d like, does that mean they aren’t attracted? Or just nervous? Next, do you squirt during sex? It’s a goal for many, but what if it’s happening more than you’d like? How about sex drive discrepancy? When you’ve had more chemistry with past partners – and more sex – is your current partner not a fit? Or do you need to find a middle ground? Finally, what happens when your partner’s got a kink that weirds you out? We don’t yuck anyone’s yum here, but one caller needs advice on navigating brother-sister role play.

Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.

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Show Notes:

Oral Herpes? How to Keep Living Your Best Sex Life
5 Hot, Consensual Ways to Practice Voyeurism
Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel Sep 05, 2023

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Esther Perel is one of the most fascinating contemporary thinkers on sex and relationships. A psychotherapist and two-time bestselling author, she’s the host of the “Where Should We Begin?” podcast, which takes you inside the therapist’s office and lets you listen in on her sessions with clients. Esther is noticing some important changes in sex and relationships. Non-monogamy is becoming more common as a relationship model: why? And is it right for everyone? How about ”family-alization” – when couples start looking at each other like siblings or roommates, how do you bring the sexual spark back? Especially if you’ve never had it in the first place? Finally, how do we revive our sensual selves when we’re immersed in technology? Can we use it to turn each other on instead of numbing ourselves?

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

7 Signs of Sexual Compatibility
Oral Herpes? How to Keep Living Your Best Sex Life
Where Should We Begin? Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify
Where Should We Begin? Card Game
Mating in Captivity: Bookshop
The State of Affairs: Bookshop
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Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How to Use Toys During Sex Sep 01, 2023

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Sex toys have exploded in popularity in the past few years, but there’s one situation where they still tend to be forgotten: sex itself. Using a toy with a partner can feel intimidating. That’s why I’m devoting this episode to beginner-friendly toy play, with ideas for oral sex, intercourse, and even anal play. Listen, you don’t need all the bells and whistles to get a lot out of sex toys! So I kick things off with two essential toys and all the versatile ways you can use them: bullet vibrators and penis rings. Next, I talk you through three sex positions and how to use a toy in each one: missionary, spooning, and cowgirl/cowboy. Finally, I answer all your sex toy questions, including when it’s harder to climax after giving birth -- which toy and techniques can bring your O back?

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Stop Having Sex In the F*cking Dark w/ Tara Schuster Aug 29, 2023

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“Low self-worth makes authentic sex impossible.” So says bestselling author Tara Schuster, who broke out with her runaway bestseller Buy Yourself The F*cking Lilies and released the life-affirming page-turner Glow In The F*cking Dark this year. On this episode, Tara opens up about hating her body, having sex exclusively in the dark, and how she rewired her brain to love herself (and her body). Tara and I also take your listener questions, where we discuss dating burnout, sexual triggers, and solo sex as self-care. When you’ve just gotten out of a toxic relationship, how can you feel more confident when you go out in public? When dating is one long string of disappointments, what gives? And finally, how do you have exploratory sex when you don’t have a partner?

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever
5 Steps to Your Happiest, Healthiest Vagina
Glow In the F*cking Dark, Tara Schuster: Bookshop | Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Glow Getters Journal Club
More Tara Schuster: Instagram | Twitter | Website
EMDRIA
Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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